Where are God's sons?! Flirting as a Believer, Intentional Dating, Romance and Marriage

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How is Christian dating different from how the world does it? How can we date with intentionality and with purpose in this day and age. Let's talk practical tips!
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Name: Oyinade Brandy Shokunbi
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[@favourbamisaye1124]

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[@Oyinbrandy]

Definitely !!!! I’ve got you 🤍

[@shirleyolumuyiwa3819]

Me too!!! The wisdom of God upon you guys is so evident and God is glorified Thank you soo much for putting this out here🙏🏾

[@UzomaIroche]

yayyy i can’t wait to watch this - thank you for having me babe!

[@Oyinbrandy]

You are most definitely welcome 🥰

[@Mo_doyin]

@@Oyinbrandy hello ma’am! Please is it okay if I want a man to lead me spiritually because I’m not very strong spiritually? Am I being unfair? It’s been a couple of years and we still disagree about some spiritual things we should agree about. I’m scared. What do I do? Like Uzomma said, I don’t want to evangelize it n relationship he’s a good guy but that is missing.

[@favourbamisaye1124]

If they can't obey the word of God he or she is not the one for you 👏👏👏📝📝

[@Oyinbrandy]

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[@somebileo]

I heard “how do you flirt in a Christian way” and now I’m sat 🧎🏽‍♀️

[@Oyinbrandy]

😂😂😂 glad you watched it 🤍

[@tolanimary]

Somebi we miss you on yt

[@ChiamakaChinedu]

Brandy, your content keepsss climbing up Mount Everest. This is good and relatable (our generation needs it). I don't follow influencers or content creators as much. BUTTT - i really do not regret following you and subscribing to your channel. OyinBrandy - you were born for such a time as this. This year, the gospel is gonna shine through this channel! Cannot waittttt!!!!

[@Oyinbrandy]

Awww this is so sweet Chiamaka!!! Thank you so so much 💜 I appreciate you 😊

[@victoriaikem]

I really loved this video. The honesty, they presented themselves as an open book and as humans who aren't perfect but are learning through the will of God. I learnt a lot, would love to see you guys together again. Thank you Oyin Brandy.

[@ozynwankwo5666]

I loved this!!!!! So there are people like this in the world 😂I’m encouraged🎉

[@Thrivegrl24]

Daniel is a whole vibe . Great content honest ,open,transparent and relatable.

[@flyman2608]

This is going to be another banger!

[@amakandukwu9418]

Thank you BO, your guests are great

[@LifeWithOdi]

WOW This video was everything! thank you for blessing us with these gems. Can't wait for more videos like this from you 💕

[@arikawesemilore9577]

Wow! This blessed me in no small way. And I really love the bond y'all share😍😍😍

[@lolabolaji_]

I love the content on this page..so real, relevant and informative. Stay blessed !

[@blessingecoma9233]

Just came across this channel for the 1st time and it was wonderful. Sharing your very real experiences, struggles, guided by Godly principles. I laughed, felt humbled and learned so much. God bless you.

[@asangemagida3067]

Thank you guys for having such conversations. Finding fellow God loving children is so nice. I pray that more may find this video.Keep it up, God bless you all. Love from SA🇿🇦

[@essyimoisili]

Children of wisdom!!! Y’all were spitting! Proud of you guys 💗

[@Oyinbrandy]

Thank you my dear 🤍

[@niteebby]

There was nothing hidden and i love that about the 4 of you. This video and the way it is presented is just what people need in the church.

[@lamis5348]

I'm in awe of the wisdom here. Pastor Brandy, I am so proud of you despite not knowing you! Do not let people despise you due to your age as Paul said to Timothy

[@preciouschukwuleta5778]

First time here and my mind is blownn🙌🙌..It's always so refreshing to see young people like me living life God's way..Loved hearing from both groups , I just had to press the share button😊 ✨. Also, Mr Daniel is a reminder that God still has his best sons out here🤗

[@fame-official]

This is marvellous!!👏👏 Very insightful and explicit. Can't wait to see Daniel and Uzoma married❤

[@aderimikelala9730]

This was such a joy to listen to ❤❤❤❤❤

[@shirleyolumuyiwa3819]

I wasn’t happy when I saw that the video had come to an end!!🙈😂😂

[@deborahkrama1149]

I really enjoyed the section 🙏

[@AjadiDolapo]

At first I thought it was going to be the same thing Uzoma posted but I was pushed to click regardless and I’m glad I did I laughed and learnt so much Thanks a lot ladies❤️

[@Oyinbrandy]

You’re very welcome 😊 glad you decided to watch

[@MAGGIE-2]

This video would always be one of the most intentional videos I’ve ever come across. Y’all are truly gifts from God. Thank you for using your platform for the service of God. You may not understand how much of a blessing you are! From the bottom of my heart, God bless you!!🥺❤️

[@ubongumoren7733]

You guys are doing great ministerial work. I have been looking for a someone to talk to about my struggles and I have found a GROUP. Praise be to God. Keep up the good work guys, the Holy Spirit dey with you..... Mafo!

[@thedigitalbabe1]

Thank you so much brandy❤️❤️❤️love love this and I really loved the part where you talked about “Weakness unattended ” Spot on fr!!! Love you.

[@Oyinbrandy]

Love you too ❤️

[@deborahsanni1067]

Really loved the point about love languages evolving and being open to those changes!

[@Oyinbrandy]

Exactly! Love languages are not fixed/set in stone

[@michelleagbim9598]

I love all the lessons shared here. Thank you so much!

[@Oyinbrandy]

You’re welcome Michelle 🤍

[@marie-rienne]

I actually love this video !!

[@anjolaogunmade1849]

I love how you guys were just being completely real and honest and vulnerable about this topic because you don’t see a lot of people that do that. A very big thank you for that! ❤

[@Oyinbrandy]

You’re welcome love 💕 it’s by Gods grace o

[@Toniimi]

Daniel and Pastor Olu are so wiseeeee 🥹

[@DoreenUdeh]

So much wisdom in a short video. I’ve learnt so much! 🙏🏽❤️

[@Oyinbrandy]

I’m glad you loved it 💕

[@sharonadj]

I love the vulnerability in this video so relatable . These are topics we hardly see on the internet and we need more. God bless you, your husband and your friends ❤️

[@Oyinbrandy]

Thank you so much, glad you enjoyed it 🙏🏾

[@naanaafuaacquaah7733]

my first time here and i must say what really spoke to me is the intentional acts done. not going with the flow but proper planning and executing everything. God bless you

[@Oyinbrandy]

Amen!! Thanks love ❤️

[@Anitauba]

I loved this!

[@antonicakiala7373]

omg this video was so needed!!! Thank you

[@Oyinbrandy]

Glad you enjoyed it ❤️

[@bukkytijani4950]

This was amazing. Thank you all for your vulnerability, wisdom and practical advice. God bless you guys real good!!!💗

[@Oyinbrandy]

Amennn! Thank you my love 🤍

[@chubbyprincess3621]

I love this😂... you will really get experience if you are looking for it but why get experience when you can learn from other people's experiences. You can't be playing with your heart like that. Breakfast is real

[@dadamogbo4044]

Thank you so much for this. All I heard continuously is “intentional”. God help us all🤲🏿

[@Oyinbrandy]

amennn

[@amokeakinnadeju2871]

See this Miss Uzoma and Miss Oyin Brady, the holy spirit has been chasing me down with your videos. When she said I am not going to do evangelism dating or be anyone’s pastor😆; I screamed yessssss sister. I surrender, chase me down holy ghost and algorithm with more videos😅😅

[@chinecheta]

I’m taking notesss!!❤️

[@Oyinbrandy]

As you should 😊

[@AugustaMbora-ki3nt]

This has to be the most beautiful thing. Evidently everything godly is beautiful.

[@Oyinbrandy]

Yes, it definitely is 😊😊

[@marie-rienne]

Much needed conversation !

[@tobiitaiwo]

I loved the points you all made. And also the questions Uzoma asked Daniel while they were talking.

[@Oyinbrandy]

Yess - a woman of wisdom 😊

[@odogbilitreasure4828]

We want to see you guys again thank you so much ❤you guys said a lot of important things God bless you 🥹

[@Oyinbrandy]

Amennnn!!! Thank you love 💕

[@9cboomer720]

Thank you god definitely used you. And it has blessed other people I've ministered to around me. solid work😎👌🏾, Yahweh is good🤙🏾

[@Oyinbrandy]

Thank you so so much 🙏🏾🥰

[@adadicheudeh]

Thank you guys so much for sharing you truth this is what I really need in this season of my life

[@Oyinbrandy]

You’re most definitely welcome 🤍

[@NosakhareAkioya]

I really love thisss! y'all should make this a series

[@Oyinbrandy]

Ouuuu, love the idea!

[@britneywilliams7284]

This is soo funny😂😂😂😂loved these points.. thank you for sharing this conversation. So real and definitely practical

[@Oyinbrandy]

You’re welcome love 😂🥰

[@Angella.richards]

22:55 Yess word!! well said

[@niteebby]

I love the vibe you all bring to this video 😂

[@anitaeke5936]

Thank you so much oyin, currently trying to date and it is so helpful and insightful

[@Oyinbrandy]

You’re welcome love 🤍

[@queenkonia]

This video is so insightful So much wisdom in this video👏

[@Oyinbrandy]

Half you enjoyed it, thank you love 🤍

[@jeffreybenson_]

Needed this

[@temiloluwaolatunji6316]

I really learnt a lot 🥰 God bless all of you 😌

[@abisoyeodunaro]

About the dating for experience. I don't think it is wise to to that. However, even when you're dating to marry, it is possible that it won't end in marriage and that's okay too but dating intentionally with marriage in sight is what is best.

[@Oyinbrandy]

Exactly! I was going to add that, it may not work out but marriage must always be in view 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@favourbamisaye1124]

I am tired oooo of hearing have you eat, wyd etc asking deliberate question intentional question and motivating question 😂😂😂 pastor Daniel got it right 😂😂

[@Oyinbrandy]

He did oo, the ladies are tired 😂😂😂😂

[@temitopeayanbajo883]

Definitely sharing this video This video is giving what's it's meant to give Dating purrrrrr 🤭❤️

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Big purrrr💜😂

[@UCHECHI.]

this was too much honestly. I love this video so much we need more parts

[@Oyinbrandy]

Definitely coming !!

[@uchechijessicaagu]

A lot of learning... Love languages are dynamic ❤😊

[@AbisolaAkinbola]

It’s the opening prayer in the beginning for me

[@TheRealHerrr]

I loved every point you guys made!

[@Oyinbrandy]

Thank you love 💕

[@favourbamisaye1124]

This video is very insightful wow, definitely learnt ALOT from you all 👏👏📝📝❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗

[@Oyinbrandy]

Thank you Favour, glad you enjoyed it 🙏🏾

[@Bibzthebarb]

Enjoyed every bit of this it was so insightful and informative ❤️

[@Oyinbrandy]

Thank you darling 🤍

[@DanielObadun]

Can’t wait to receive the wisdom in this video ❤❤

[@Oyinbrandy]

Hope you did ooo

[@feyiikemi]

learned so much from this!!!

[@Oyinbrandy]

Glad you did 🥰

[@edikanakpanekpa]

This is so beautiful.i want to see more of you guys

[@Oyinbrandy]

Definitely, more to come ☺️

[@ByArinola]

P.O seems like he’s shy I love this video and Daniel is funny😂

[@Oyinbrandy]

He is oo, and yes Daniel is funny 😂😂

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I'm so glad I came across your channel...new subbie. You guys are soo cute.

[@Oyinbrandy]

Aww thank you darling 🙏🏾

[@beckyisaac-famwang826]

To answer the question of can you date for the propose of experience as opposed to marriage? Here’s my view it’s important to understand that there will always be a possibility of a relationship ending (dating). So sometimes even with the mind or mentality of dating to marry something unexpected, something unplanned can just happen and that relationship ends. And then you find that from that failed relationships there are some lessons learnt. So I’ll say the answer rather is learning from failed relationships that seemed like there was possibility of marriage.

[@Oyinbrandy]

That’s really good! I may not work out in the end so you can still learn from it 🤍

[@marie-rienne]

Im so blessed by this video

[@awesomesteve9665]

People actually can date for different reasons. Some say let's see where this goes

[@jejemojisola8688]

omg oyin is such an old soul😂 it like i am watching an old woman trapped in a young body😊 I pray God gives you more wisdom😊 love the video🥰

[@Oyinbrandy]

😂😂😂😂😂 d k m

[@Oyinbrandy]

Thank you love, glad you enjoyed it!!

[@tolanimary]

I love how genuine christian contents have been flooding the internet later

[@Oyinbrandy]

It’s so important !!!!

[@olumideolowo9982]

I learnt a lot from this video ❤

[@Oyinbrandy]

Thank you PO 🤍

[@TheKaRenaLee]

I looovveeed this !!!

[@Oyinbrandy]

Glad you did 🤍🤍

[@ikoojoonoja]

I love this …. Building kingdom relationships >>

[@Oyinbrandy]

It’s important 🙏🏾🙏🏾🤍

[@charis6109]

Pastor Brandy! Your practical videos like this get me on standby to soak everything up. For the dating for experience part, I would say that they can gain "experience" (😂) by intentionally building solid friendships, because that's primarily what happens in dating, just without the extra commitment for future (marital) purposes.

[@Oyinbrandy]

That’s right!!! Gain experience from Friendships 😮‍💨🔥

[@Toniimi]

27:38 aged so well @UzomaIroche 😂❤

[@goldie_xx]

I love thisssss😻😻😻

[@Oyinbrandy]

Aww, thanks love 💕

[@NosakhareAkioya]

Uzomah is too cuteee😂

[@Oyinbrandy]

She is 😂😂

[@lamis5348]

I was drawn by the title, I want to know where they are too!!😅

[@oyindamolafalola01]

Thank you so much ma’am 👏🏿for this session Pls can I have a private conversation with you , about something relating to this

[@uchechijessicaagu]

Ah I love you guys oo 😂❤

[@temitopeayanbajo883]

When PO said "we started dating at 16"and I'm like what did I use my 16to do😭

[@Oyinbrandy]

Lmaoooo

[@Viktor_kcee]

Lovely conversation. Please How do you attend to your problems?

[@sophiaokocha7617]

Hi Brandy I discovered your videos recently and I have been enjoying them so much ❤. Recently people say all your relationships mustn’t end in marriage, I get confused because the purpose of dating is to find someone you can connect with and eventually marry. So when they say you shouldn’t date to marry what am I now doing in the relationship. I think people need to understand if you aren’t ready for anything serious better stay single and continue catching your vibes.

[@Oyinbrandy]

Aww thank you for the comment around my videos 💜 exactly! The whole purpose of getting to know someone on that delete level is with the intention to marry. Maybe it may not work out in the end but that has to be the intention 🙏🏾

[@I.am.His.007]

Thank u for this video sisters and brothers. As a youth, I'm just prepping for whenever i am an adult. I see there's no point of dating in highschool. One question i also have, is damn not a curse word? At least in the US it is, idk if in Canada it is?

[@Jessica-qr9pg]

The Holy spirit will teach you all things so I'd say that dating for experience is not advisable. If it doesn't end well, it's leaves you with scars or uncertainties about your next relationship. Even though not all relationships will end in marriage, the purpose of dating should still be for marriage and not just experience.

[@Oyinbrandy]

Yes precisely, this is so good 🙏🏾

[@estherosariemen5284]

Love this so much ❤️♥️

[@Oyinbrandy]

Aww glad you enjoyed it 😘

[@lifeofdidi2415]

PLS APOSTLE EVANGELIST AND HIS GIRLFRIEND SHOULD DEFINATELY COME BACK

[@Oyinbrandy]

Yess o, they’ll be back for sure

[@tamaratarere]

Omo x1000 because facts on facts on facts. Make God help me (us) oo

[@pp_praise_1957]

Question:yes,we’re dating to marry and at the same time getting to know each other,what if I find out we’re not compatible,like there are some things we see along the line that doesn’t align with our respective beliefs and morals so we path ways,does that still count as dating for experience?

[@elsieessuman5400]

I think that’s not dating for experience since you were in it 100% but after a while you realized you’re not compatible it didn’t work out as Daniel stated. With dating for experience that’s the mindset from the beginning for the person though the other might not know.

[@ItunuoluwaLambo]

As a believer, I don’t think we should be dating for ‘experience’. I believe we should have purposeful relationships with the intent of marriage, so as to avoid a lot of unnecessary things. However, you can have certain experiences, good or bad, based on poor choices, stubbornness, lack of discernment, one or both parties unwillingness to learn and grow, wrong timing, choosing to be better for the person you’re dating, etc. Good or bad experiences can be an offshoot of purposeful relationships (because not all purposeful relationships lead to marriage), but it should never be the intent to pursue a relationship as a believer. You need your mind sane and healthy to do all that God will have you do. Don’t seek out baggage intentionally. The time you’ll spend trying to heal can be used for more productive advancements of God’s kingdom.

[@jesuloluwadeborah]

Sinning against God is not the vibe 💯

[@shirleyolumuyiwa3819]

Envangelism dating is a no no 😂😂

[@Chinonyemuoneke]

❤❤

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Brandy❤❤❤❤....O2 lovers say hi

[@Oyinbrandy]

Hiiii🤍

[@favourbamisaye1124]

Hiiiiiii❤️❤️

[@pphineas]

Which kind ye ye experience