Kate Chastain's Advice To Ellie & Bri: "Care Less" | Below Deck Med After Show (S9 E12) Pt 1 | Bravo

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[@mariapizzaa]

Joe is so annoying. He acts like everything he chooses to do is the lady's fault and he can't help himself from being drawn in, but he chooses to follow them just as much as they want him too, but he pretends like he's an innocent puppy in it.

[@kelseywillow8110]

Peter Pan energy

[@sarahbiddulph8245]

and hes gross...

[@michelleadams474]

He's a loser, like go back to living in your car Joe because no one cares.

[@Sparklez90]

I actually can't stand Ellie either they would have been perfect together 😂

[@emmastanton1967]

All his fault, not a nice guy at all

[@Lee.na.23]

Ellie is beyond delusional. Also, Joe is🤢

[@melisamorales361]

100%

[@victorialove3463]

@@Lee.na.23 They both are insane.

[@kelseywillow8110]

Joe keeps stringing people along and then acts like a victim smh

[@WrittenWildlife]

Joe really pushes the loathsome button

[@fuzzykyrra]

Yeah Joe was playing both girls, but Ellie herself said to Bri very early on that she wouldn't fall out with Bri over a guy. Joe didn't make either of the girls behave the way they did towards eachother.

[@victoriarobinson1403]

Agreed that Joe's flirtation wasn't to blame for causing interior drama.

[@terrell6439]

I Agree!!

[@victoriarobinson1403]

Didn't Joe screw up his chances getting laid on this boat?

[@melissag2102]

I don’t get this whole going to worth thing them saying it was Bree and Ellie. It was just Ellie. Bree was just there trying to do her her job and have fun. They’re not best friends. There’s no loyalty to Ellie. I think that argument is ridiculous.

[@123ct123]

Joe thinks he IS something but he is so creepy and gives off such weak energy....🤮

[@downthetube23]

Bri did not deserve the treatment she got on the boat by Ellie but one thing is for certain Bri is NOT a girl’s girl.

[@keikei3301]

Can’t believe Bri would bang Joe right after having a heart to heart w Ellie. That is betrayal, cruel, and gross. It shows you can’t trust Bri. She’s not a good person and has a selfish heart.

[@missscarlet7902]

​@@keikei3301bri said she was interested and ellie said she was gonna go after him anyway. Ellie always caved and was willing to give Joe another chance and then she got pissed over him wanting Carrie. She had no reason to deny what she wanted just to make ellie feel good about herself

[@terrell6439]

​@@keikei3301right!!

[@evakatz6351]

I hated the way Joe purposely washed his two fingers in the sink in front of the camera (making it very obvious what just happened) like he was trying to get kudus. Fool.

[@aurelalee7246]

People are going to hate this, but I`ll say it anyway. Bri was easy and Ellie required work. Joe just wanted to get some because he`s young and just wants to have a scratch of fun...

[@dyunis89]

Uhm... no Bri was aware of the circumstances and situation of being on a boat. She didn't want anything other than having fun but at least wanted Joe to be respectful. Ellie thought she was better than Bri, just like Ayesha said, and couldn't comprehend someone wanting Bri over her. Ellie needs constant validation...which yes requires a shit load of work.

[@losthinkgreen]

Ellie didn’t need work she was easy but yea she was acting like she needed a work lol 😂 Ellie was just jealous Joe didn’t went for her first

[@terrell6439]

​@@dyunis89Bri has Low self Esteem she don't !! Respect herself and her body.she has no dignity.

[@MK-285]

Gael's parents have to b so proud First of all, she hit the genetic lottery, what a drop-dead gorgeous girl. But more importantly, she's such a sweetheart, & a thoughtful, conscientious young lady. Nathan has been a gentleman this season. A pleasure to watch them connect.

[@kelseywillow8110]

Aside from flirting with a guy before breaking up yes

[@JG-sm2uw]

She cheated on her man on camera?

[@NixHamilton-z2v]

She’s a liar and a cheater

[@Snelkrdfswhbdsf]

Shes the worst person ' imagine being her boyfriend 😭😭😭 she's cheating with Nathan

[@MK-285]

Are you people like 12?!? Get over it! She's not married & it sounds like the relationship wasn't the greatest. She found herself catching feelings for someone else & she ended it with her bf. The worst part of cheating is the lying, betrayal & sneaking behind someone's back. When they want their cake & to eat it too. She got caught up in the moment, then ended it with her bf cause that was the right thing to do. A lack of understanding that is just straight-up immaturity as far as I'm concerned. Not saying I condone it, but she *is* human after all. Acting like she murdered someone or had a whole secret life with a second family. Pssshh, she kissed a boy 🙄 Proceed to clutch your pearls, perfect people of the comment section.

[@DepezPoopsie]

Joe your antics are no longer cute. Ugh. Please don’t have him back.

[@emmastanton1967]

Sleazy

[@terrell6439]

I don't !! want him back!! On show Either!!

[@barbarachambers7974]

Ellie and Bri are both annoying.

[@belgiumgirl8970]

Bri’s the worst, she stares at both of them almost as if she was a stalker, and then talks to the chef about all of it!!

[@ottojdt]

Why is it that the women are being pitted against each other, Joe absolutely messed and played with them, douche bag with a lot of swag and charm

[@anniec.]

They are both looking so desperate, and I'm super disappointed that Aesha chose a "side". Bri was no angel and f**king (?) Joe right after having a semi-good talk w/ Ellie was demented IMO.

[@fuzzykyrra]

These girl were relentless eh?! 🤣 It was like watching a thick piece of meat (Joe) being dangled in front of two ravenous lionesses! They were hungry AF!

[@anniec.]

@@fuzzykyrra 😆😆

[@keikei3301]

Bri is a demon for doing that. How are you suppose to have a friendship after what she did, such a betrayal of trust. They’re having a heart to heart and commiserating about Joe who has mistreated them both and is using them both and then, to go and literally bang Joe right after this conversation. That’s insane. Bri is psycho

[@terrell6439]

Right!!

[@terrell6439]

​@fuzzykyrra right !! desperate.

[@dani-ol5xb]

Joe gives me the ick. Just his vibe is gross the cockiness allll the time. Arrogance ain’t cute. Also hate how he treats gayle

[@sallyarmstrong8578]

Joe’s a player.

[@BwInNewJersey]

The entire crew except Aesha, Gael and Nathan can go.

[@Lee.na.23]

Gael can go

[@terrell6439]

I Agree!!

[@victorialove3463]

Joe is Delousnal.

[@terrell6439]

How old is he and Bri and Elle ? He acts inmature

[@racingfox8169]

Anyone feel Ellie is just full of herself?, I’m not sure if she’s conceited or convinced or both, But for Ellie to make dumb comments that men would rather date her…..I think not! Most would do a hit and run, Hate to burst your bubble 😂😂😂

[@DH-zk6hq]

This whole season was disgusting . The fact that Bri spread her legs for that guy after everything! Just pathetic. And that girl in the deck crew who basically cheats on her boyfriend the whole season and plays victin is annoying to watch. Worst cast ever.

[@bronwynloveswords]

Lol dude calm down

[@NixHamilton-z2v]

I agree with you a whole heartedly man, but the whole series just points out how disgusting people truly are and you know I didn’t work on private yachts and I know there’s lots of fun made about cruise ships, but I worked on cruise ships man and let me tell you something The disgusting crap that goes on he’ll never understand and there’s so much cheating it’s like until you get out one of these boats and live on there and work on there. You’ll never understand the pure madness that takes people over and cabin fever is a real thing.

[@terrell6439]

​​@@NixHamilton-z2vwell people that don't follow and obey Jesus that don't Live a Godly Life they would do anything worldly.they are Satan children. Satan don't!; Love his own children he comes to, kill still and destroy .but !! Jesus comes to Give us Life and Life more Abundantly in this world and in Afterlife in Heaven for those who would accept him into their hearts as, their Lord and Savior and obey Jesus .and if they sin repent their sin unto Jesus. And in return Jesus and his Angels will change your Life for the Better. Jesus and his Angels are Real .Jesus Answers my prayers.

[@NixHamilton-z2v]

@@terrell6439 and you are a whack job

[@kaleysorensen]

lol Bri did not campaign against Ellie

[@JRsttl88]

Joe presents himself as if he has no sisters or mother. Wearing it as a symbol of his valour, he treated women like rags to mop up his glistening ego.

[@JRsttl88]

Joe has obviously taken a page out of Sandoval and Jax Taylor's handbook on how to be a failure and a pig.

[@Michael-hq1iq]

what an episode ! it was great that bri and Ellie settled the score ! they were a little past high school girls arguing at their ages ! Joe is a douche , off the boat he wouldn't get a sniff of a babe like Ellie !

[@terrell6439]

I Agree!!

[@AlwaysSearching]

Did Bri lead a campaign against Ellie? 😅

[@emmastanton1967]

Bri is more gorgeous than Ellie

[@Dani-leeMack]

Yes Joe played both girls BUT Joe went after Bri first

[@dillionrose2782]

Team Brie......

[@yvonnemullen754]

Did Ian get sacked, he’s not on any of these interviews

[@jennam6122]

He’s just boring

[@zeroman155]

He's in part 2.

[@terrell6439]

Well at Least he is staying away from the Drama of those young people on this reality show he don't!! Act Like them

[@terrell6439]

​@@jennam6122no he is not boring .he probably wants to say away from them type of people.

[@jennam6122]

@@terrell6439I mean he applied and got into a reality show so idk about that lol

[@JulieCalhoun-p6u]

Bri lose the hair pick tales and front long curls. Please . Not a good look. Your smarter than that

[@kelseywillow8110]

I believe Ellie, she was training her and actually putting time in

[@WandaGravitt]

Better go watch again 😂

[@LXS1303]

Well, Aesha, Ellie may be taller and "slimmer" as you have so cruelly pointed out, but Bri is gorgeous, super pretty... so your comments are stupid. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, 100%. What you think is gorgeous is not what I do or what others necessarily do.

[@kathrynclaxton9186]

I think she was conveying how she preceives Ellie as she sees herself...and she clearly said she is Team Bri. I didn't take it as body shaming either, but I'm just a big kook so what do I know?? 😂

[@monicack523]

I was wondering if anyone will ever notice how Aesha ALWAYS points out women’s bodies. What’s up with that. She is a bit of a narcissist.

[@Chibbykins]

​@@monicack523 people use 'narcissist' way too loosely. How is Aesha narcissistic?

[@Chibbykins]

@@monicack523 Aesha literally says she's Team Bri and agrees Ellie is a villain. So I don't see how she's "quantifying" looks over who she is as a person. Also what lesson? You clearly don't know what a narcissist is

[@flerrrrrrrrrrrp2997]

@@monicack523 no. that is not narcissism. Narcissism is named after the Greek myth of Narcissus, the incredibly beautiful mortal son of gods who was so obsessed with his own looks and his own hunting prowess, he was cruel to others and ends up dying by drowning in a river after staring at his own reflection in the water. But the main thing to remember is that Narcissus was obsessed with himself, not "quantifying others," and narcissism is about having an overly fragile ego and having the tendency to inflate it by putting others down. I don't know where you got this "quantifying someone's physical appearance over qualities as a person" idea because that is not a diagnostic criteria and in order to flatter their own ego anything will do, be it insulting someone's appearance or their personality, social status, mood, job, talents, children, performance, whatever. It's about what's easiest to insult in the immediate instant. Also Aesha, in narrating Ellie's inner monologue that she believes she's "taller, slimmer, blonder..." is not determining THE beauty standard, she's determining ELLIE's antiquated belief that women need to look like Malibu Barbie in order to attract men because men all like the same thing and that thing is skinny white blondes with inflatable t!ts or die trying (as confirmed by Ellie's own talking head). what is very revealing about what you are saying here is that YOU BELIEVE IT TOO, because Aesha never implies for a second that Bri was not beautiful or in any way inferior to Ellie, but you IMMEDIATELY jumped to that conclusion. Which is superficial and definitely uneducated, to use your own words. So i don't know to what Google school of mental medecine you went to, but as far as i'm concerned it's you who has a warped definition of these terms and seem to boost your own ego by putting Aesha down. When you point your finger at someone accusing them of something, there's three fingers pointing right back at you.

[@kwong06]

All these talking heads with Kate makes me want to see what font Kate assigns to Aesha

[@lizdobson9793]

As a Dobson, I'm finding Aesha and Kate's talk triggering! 🤣

[@roblove7030]

Ellie is a legend in her own mind. Hopefully, she can go back to working her Eastern European street corner.

[@bortsampson4160]

Joe, Elle and Bri are all terrible

[@NixHamilton-z2v]

Never watch another season of that. Asha girl is on there.

[@neilgennery2871]

Ohhh shut up kate 😔😔

[@kieronphagoodejesus1014]

NO

[@michelleadams474]

I agree I'm so over her and she's just a mean girl.

[@leeamos9280]

@@michelleadams474No she’s not y’all don’t like her because she don’t take no shit

[@annamariadenner2518]

I feel like this is the worst season of below deck med ever. The only thing I’m looking forward to is the captain’s proposal. It’s too much about the crew and not the customers and the way the crew get along with the customers.

[@anitajames4230]

You know what nobody comes close to kate or Hannah. Aeisha doesn't even feel their shoes. Let's just cancel this franchise

[@flerrrrrrrrrrrp2997]

my dog would be a better stew than Hannah and she's afraid of most humans. At least my dog doesn't make everyone who doesn't suck up to her cry by bullying them and accusing them of being responsible of her own incompetance.

[@meelertac]

Why is duck lips on camera? She has been out of it for years!!!

[@kieronphagoodejesus1014]

None of them have duck lips

[@anitajames4230]

Because this show is boring and their bringing Kate to make the after show watchable

[@David-ut1xj]

Platypus

[@kieronphagoodejesus1014]

@@anitajames4230 they're

[@michelleadams474]

@@anitajames4230 And that's not even doing the trick.

[@562debkat]

Gael just showed what kind of girlfriend she is. Not a good one for sure. Hopefully she feels horrible about how she acted. She tried to portray her boyfriend as being the problem. Reality though is she was the problem and because she got some attention for a guy on the boat and wanted to play around she made it seem like she was being treated wrong by her boyfriend. She sucks!

[@Chibbykins]

Nah, Gael's ex seems like a needy controlling creep. Even Aesha said he would send texts that were nastier than the ones we saw. Doesn't mean it's okay to cheat but I don't think he was an innocent victim

[@flerrrrrrrrrrrp2997]

can you and your misogyny go away and leave Gael and all women alone please thank you

[@vanessarenee1018]

Facts!

[@terrell6439]

​@@ChibbykinsRight!!

[@nd4610]

​@@flerrrrrrrrrrrp2997misogyny??? Gurl get out of here. I'm a woman and I agree with all the above.