Brayden Tells Kat She Made Him Feel 'Cheap' - Bachelor in Paradise

After Kat Izzo went on a date with Tanner Courtad, Kat told Brayden that she didn't have feelings for him anymore. Brayden told people that he felt like she went from hot to cold in no time, and when Kat hears that Brayden is telling people about that, she confronts him. From 'Bachelor in Paradise' season 9, episode 3, 'Week 3.' Watch 'Bachelor in Paradise' 2023 THURSDAYS 9/8c on ABC. Stream on Hulu.
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[@fatcheese1904]

This girl lacks Empathy big time. She's unable to consider the emotional state of people and only looks out for herself. Remember what she did to Charity on Zach's season? That's the sign of apathetic behavior. I think Brayden dodged a bullet tbh, now it's time for Tanner to deal with her shit.

[@kennethcpz]

She'll do it to someone else lol

[@vsTantastic]

They both deserve to learn from what they both did to Charity.

[@ohhaimichellemusic]

I have a sense that Tanner will see through this. He seems very mature and emotionally stable and it would be a lot of mental and emotional energy to communicate with her when she’s not in a good mood lol. I like Kat I think she’s absolutely beautiful and she’s still learning and growing. Who knows maybe Tanner can be the calm to the storm for her. I definitely feel for Braydon though. Paradise is rough and only the strong will survive this 😅

[@vsTantastic]

Good points. Also True is… only the strong can survive there. Brayden was strong, only in his determination to get to paradise… at Charity’s expense.

[@paintedwolf44]

No what did she do?

[@bryanawilliamson5772]

I’m team Brayden on this one sorry. What kat did wasn’t right at all. If someone did that to me and I actually had feelings for them I would be heartbroken 💔.

[@SecureEmail-ct7tm]

They are all a bunch of immature bullies, why are they not also making it a big deal the way the other contestants have done the exact thing or worse! Kat and Tanner are beautiful together. Forget the haters Kat!

[@sisterkourt9124]

@@SecureEmail-ct7tmI think people are saying that like when Kat said it, she sounded emotionless. while the others who have broken up with someone at least sounded a little emotional. and like the others showed some sense of empathy while she didn’t.

[@judythorpe870]

Brayden and Rachel make a lot better couple than he and Kat did. That pinyata scene was hysterical 😂🤣😂😅🤣😂👍🏼👍🏼❤️❤️

[@jyn88]

Brayden you dodged a bullet! She's not emotionally stable.

[@vsTantastic]

Neither is he. He played Charity to get to ‘paradise’. Now that he’s there… for TV proposes, he decides to change his personality from ‘LOud’ to LOving. But he is still the same LOw Brayden who hurt Charity w/o feelings.

[@highlyfavored2434]

She is John Henrys problem now. He is the type that is attracted to bad girls.

[@katierice2554]

Kat was so dismissive of Brayden’s genuine feelings. Like, if a dude said to her what she said to him, she would be so hurt. Because what she said was hurtful. And she is full of total projection: “I feel like you’re being so confrontational right now” when she’s being confrontational 😅 Like girl, you don’t get to tell someone how to feel, but you COULD have some empathy for how they feel. Sheesh.

[@arleneheaton6828]

Poor brayden. I have never felt so heartbroken for a person on a show before.

[@SecureEmail-ct7tm]

I would have to disagree with you on this one upon closer analysis of others actions there too. But yes she can improve as much as others there can too.

[@alexas.5287]

I get the impression Kat was icing him out to try to cut ties and feel less obligated to engage. She’s really immature if she can’t handle trying to date and then moving on to someone else without acting this black and white. It definitely suggests she was playing him for a rose! He never showed any signs of being too intense, jealous, or possessive, just super-happy to date and get to know her. I’m on Brayden’s side.

[@clarak.mallah4137]

He wasn't to even ask her to share his feelings! She's not a decent person!! You will find your person.

[@hollymcgrath7216]

Amen ! What an empathetic and sweet comment

[@Ang36914]

Wow, she's gaslighting him by telling him his feelings aren't valid and that he's looking at the situation "wrong."

[@christinemiller1967]

Bingo. She’s a narcissist

[@vsTantastic]

Agreed… they both are. It’s just that 1 is very transparent + the other is a very sly bad actor. Either way… they’re the same… they deserve each other.

[@ryanodneal7001]

Wow Kat is self centered more than most on this show

[@bloom4096]

Kat is the worst. Brayden is better off without her.

[@jleano609]

Typical reputation management from a girl who has to control everything. Got to be perceived as the "good girl". If she was still "processing" then STFU and don't tell Brayden anything until she knows for sure. All Brayden did was explained the situation to others based on what she told him. Its BIP, with cameras and mikes everywhere. Does she expect others to be souls of discretion? You want to be perceived as good, then be good. That starts with loyalty. She got a rose from Brayden last night. He's going to have hurt feelings when she runs off with Tanner. He's allowed to express them. This is why, as a guy, you can't show feelings with most girls (even to others) , it's taken as weakness.

[@princesskateerika531]

Karma is waiting Kat...

[@valeriesantos8178]

Yeah, Brayden got his

[@troysmith5749]

"As far as I'm concerned I'm a really great gal, a really great gal, but when the cameras off haha....It's a different story, brother!" - Kat

[@tarbalvis]

Kat is more like a Reptile than a Kitty.

[@claraskywalker5952]

😂 that’s so good!

[@louisloother301]

Kat isn't a good person 💯💯💯

[@cjpip7751]

She just wanted to secure that 1st rose, same with Mercedes she totally took advantage of a vulnerable Will.

[@Jerpavoo]

Look up tactless in the dictionary and see a picture of Kat. But she did what BOP is all about. Use someone to get to the next rose ceremony and keep dumping them until you find a match.

[@sabrinavang8024]

The girls all hating on Kat when Kylie did the same thing and no one said anything to her. They pick favorites and its like high school

[@leebutler1496]

The same but with empathy and concern for his feelings.

[@benmac2112]

Not really.... at least Kylie has the decency to talk to Will before she went out on a date while this one just completely ignored him and did not even acknowledge his praise to her on how she looked beautiful just moments before her date with Tanner. What is baffling is that she thinks she is the victim but clearly she is not. Brayden dodged a bullet on this one.

[@cookiesarelikecream]

Kylee handled it so much better and with empathy

[@littledumpling6454]

This is some serious gaslighting Kats doing.

[@michellearzu]

I don’t like Kat at all

[@jaweel6205]

She’s for the streets

[@kennethcpz]

Have fun being single for the rest of your life

[@AbstractMindsThinkAlike]

Anyone know why she keeps her lips open a lot when not speaking?

[@schmolik1]

Jess's dress is beautiful.

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

she had reservations just that morning ? ask more questions such as what were her reservations?

[@devynaaro]

I've noticed that Brayden is a very caring and emotional guy but I also do feel that he reacts dramatically to things but at the same time its justified. What Kat did was wrong but sometimes I think Brayden needs to not get attached to people easily. At the same time Kat needs to be clearer with her feelings and intentions with people and she shouldn't hurt Brayden...But honestly considering the fact that this is a reality show I think that some people are on the show for popularity and some people are on the show for the right reasons.

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

neither of them decided that they were in a committed and monogamous relationship that's the first point

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

be more direct, such as i think you used me for the rose until the other guy arrived, that i think may be true, so she should have been open and honest about her intentions on the bright side, you know she isn't for you

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

kylie did the same thing to will why isn't that an issue?

[@offthewallbts4697]

Bc they communicated like adults with each other and handled it much more maturely

[@tihigreen]

Brayden you dodged a bullet!

[@Ramiiii123]

I felt so bad for Brayden here bc of the way kat was talking to him. Not acceptable. but then he played Rachel later. I feel like he’s the type to catch feelings really quickly

[@kristinamyrteza4729]

I’m sorry but I’m team Brayden he tried to talk to her and she gaslighted him

[@cathyford6385]

We all know Kat is not a nice person!

[@vsTantastic]

Slimy Kylie is hating bc Kat is the wildcard. It’s ‘paradise’.

[@lantran8967]

Shes trouble.

[@sarahmaclean3354]

#dodgedabullet

[@runrafarunthebestintheworld]

The old Brayden is back. 😅

[@noellarash367]

“Kat” thinks she’s “God’s Gift To Men”… she is on her way to “play”every man that puts foot on that beach!! … “Run Tanner”

[@sim1regina]

Kat is a textbook Gemini 🙄

[@valeriesantos8178]

What goes around, comes around. Destiny was into him. He later told her he couldn’t see a life w/someone in such a short time, but he said he saw a life w/Kat in even a shorter time. His goal was ‘paradise’. Everyone has feelings. Brayden got what was coming to him.

[@CreativeGaze_]

By “Destiny”, do you mean Charity?

[@valeriesantos8178]

Yeah… meant to change that. Thx :)

[@Amor09876]

Agree 100%

[@byankaree91]

You can't help emotions! For some people you might feel a strong spark and connection off the bat and for others you want to know whether you could build up to it! It's just silly to blame someone for not developing feelings towards you as quickly as they had developed for someone else's

[@valeriesantos8178]

I agree w/that statement… even sillier tho, is not seeing that he already knew that he was going on the Bachelorette’s show to marry Charity. He played her from day 1… w/the flamboyantly of an ‘actor’… rewatch. Yes, it was obvious that there was ‘no’ spark from the get-go… his ‘spark’ was to get to paradise.

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

yes feel the way you feel brayden, but i think you're exaggerating when you say cheap wh*****

[@user-nk7id8lz5t]

Kat the runt

[@cherrycozier8867]

Braeydon feeling cheap has nothing to do with Kat. Those are his issues that he trying to project on her. She choose another connection over him and his big ego is bruised.

[@justinsmith4618]

What?

[@tjc1121]

It's the way she went about it.

[@cookiesarelikecream]

I don’t think his ego is bruised he was genuinely hurt and actually liked her. Notice how in their first convo he simply asked to know the reason why she wanted to end things. And he accepted it but Is allowed to feel hurt. Guys are allowed to be emotional ya know

[@hijaovercomer5500]

If he was a woman saying that I’m sure that you wouldn’t say this ! We not to stop the hypocrisy! He is not angry for cat having a different connection , he is hurt because she is not even talking clear with him !

[@lalala1813]

I don’t feel sorry for him given how he played Charity

[@cookiesarelikecream]

Tbh charity never saw him as a serious option. Producers just kept him around for drama