Peter Weber Tells Madison He's Been Intimate with Other Women - The Bachelor

[@karenzhiyi]

Even without the basis of religion, which woman can tolerate a man sleeping with other women six days before engagement? Is the "I love you, Madi" considered sincere? Actions speak louder than words, so don't sleep around if truly love.

[@blkbr7580]

I agree. If you truly do love someone, love them and truly respect and honor them and set aside the intimacy for then. Worth the wait, IMHO. What would Dr. Laura say? PLENTY, I'm sure.

[@rinnahroe9908]

Kar LCE definitely agree

[@glamdoll9082]

So she woke up one day and realized she signed up and joined a show with a bunch of other women? She realizes this now? She doesn't love him and didnt want to go to the fantasy suite.

[@TheOneAndOnlyTribalChief]

@@glamdoll9082 Last time I checked, the show does not mandate the star to sleep with every contestant that they can. Rather, they are give the CHOICE to. Madison has every right to dislike the fact that Peter can't keep it in his pants with other women whilst telling her that he "loves" her.

[@Mark-sy2bx]

If Peter was waiting for his final decision after the fantasy suites then he deserved to be intimate with each woman. But I do think deep down he knew who he wanted and then I'd agree with you.

[@gigib8849]

Peter is just an immature little boy in a candy store. I’m so sick of hearing him say, “I’m in love with three women.” Son, that’s NOT love. You may have affection for them, but that’s not love. Grow up!

[@doodlepops707]

It's called lust!

[@blkbr7580]

@@doodlepops707 Yup, it is/ was lust that got the best of him, in his season and also in Hannah B's season. Karma or something may get him again, as it did last yr.

[@Mark-sy2bx]

You. really can't judge if it is love or not. Love is when one has another's back 100% and sticks with that person through thick and thin. He stuck with Victoria through her drama and accusations against her. He stuck with Madison despite her saying she will probably run away from the relationship despite her demands. Seems like love to me.

[@gamerjamson]

He means what he says about being in love as much as any of the women claim to be, don't hate a player.

[@sucram1015]

It could be an open relationship. You know the people that say the same thing. They love 3 people or more.

[@jelicianorwood24]

Ladies if a man cant control his lust than you shouldnt be with him.

[@gamerjamson]

You say that like no woman has ever invited a man to the fantasy suite for sex. Get off your soap box and get real little girl, it goes both ways.

[@user-dc5kc4gl5p]

Mr. Meerkat who said it doesnt. damn

[@jaysofly8564]

Did you say the same for Hannah? Yall be so sexist fr💀like all you girls were defending hannah saying she can do whatever she wants but now your saying peter is wrong? Which one is it?

[@user-dc5kc4gl5p]

@@jaysofly8564 lmao do you follow our every move? I didnt say nothing

[@jaysofly8564]

@@user-dc5kc4gl5p I see you avoided the question, did you say the same for Hannah! Yes or no🤷🏽‍♂️

[@carolmoctezuma354]

He knew her standers and he didn’t care much for her to follow them.

[@imth3batman]

Carol Moctezuma he has his own standards to follow. If it’s right your standards align and nobody has to give us their standards. Plus, it’s not the Madison Prewett show. It’s The Bachelor and Peter is The Bachelor. He has other relationships, not just her at this point.

[@ktgbw]

And at the same time, he has the reputation of sleeping with another woman before he became The Bachelor. She knew what she signed up for. Why is she bringing it up now?

[@annetnabuyondo7607]

And she knows how this works but she doesn't care to think about him,both need to learn how to find a compromising line,otherwise, it all becomes something else and not love,the moment you realize that no one in this world is perfect, then you understand how to love people with all their flows and imperfections

[@gioscarfo8637]

run2thebeat no but he was obviously extremely into her and if he actually cared about her and was falling in love with her he would be sleeping with other girls

[@pollamber7863]

He has no standards. He’s a POS

[@itsarianaugalde]

Peter’s not looking for a wife. He’s having the time of his life having the ability to kiss different women and be intimate with them. “I can totally see myself with her” like seriously worst season 🙄

[@loveurneighbor4804]

Next to Hanna B's! What happened to self control and self respect. Hope Madison walks away and doesn't look back. She's on another level that Peter doesn't get. But He then again he thought Hanna B had good values. Young people need to read and learn what love is, Corinthians 13.

[@suev797]

Madison- Don’t go on a show all about sex if it goes agsinst your core beliefs.

[@JoinTheProgress]

I'm new to the show, and just figured I'm a WAY out-of-touch middle age guy; he gets to have sex with two willing women, two nights in a row, then gets the virgin prize at the end. It sounds, and IS, disgusting. And I'm no prude.

[@laleluilu]

Sue V this show is not all about sex. You are missing the point

[@nonkolisontobela3688]

But The Bachelor isn’t about sex. At all.

[@samariemartinezserrano7478]

Girl leave him. He obviously doesn’t care about you.

[@cocochannel3694]

True

[@phuongvo3051]

SAMARIE MARTINEZ SERRANO exactly what I thought, she has respect and moral ,he does not deserve her ,he said love her but slept with another woman ,what a scum bag?

[@Mark-sy2bx]

He kept her around despite her ultimatum. That's not caring about her? He could have sent her home if he didn't care.

[@samariemartinezserrano7478]

Mark zxz darling that’s not caring. Caring would have been to ACTUALLY care about her ultimatum. He wants her yeah, but he does not care for her.

[@Mark-sy2bx]

@@samariemartinezserrano7478 Madison doesn't care for him. Both Hannah and Victoria do!

[@MayeshaK]

It’s pretty obvious he had lost interest in her when he found out about her values. She deserves to be with someone who knows it’s only her by this stage.

[@jadejohnson3144]

katinaKANE 100%

[@blkbr7580]

I agree with that. Not sure if he was stringing her along. Respect of other's values, beliefs, etc. is important.

[@aztre]

What were her beliefs and values? I never watched this show

[@MalloryNewcomb]

@@aztre Madi is a devout Christian who wants to save sexual intimacy for marriage. I think she said it would hurt her heart if he had sex with the other women and this is her finding out that he did.

[@cookiesarelikecream]

@@MalloryNewcomb idk why she went on this show then because everyone knows there’s at least 3 fantasy suites and the guys usually have sex with the other women.

[@ADJustinBieberlover7]

You can see her entire world crumble when he says “I have been intimate”

[@Lorncat]

She’s treating it like he cheated on her and not like we are watching the most cracked competition in Uranus

[@Ashbash-kf5xd]

@@Lorncat I’ve never heard such an accurate description 😭😭😭💀💀💀

[@antonialovesyou4462]

You mean you the sinner. #VirginMaryTrump #YeshuaIsLordAndMySon

[@airbender9593]

Who wouldn’t it is about one male and x numbers of females.

[@inlovewithbusted]

Intimate before the show? Or on the show? That makes all the difference.

[@sherryalford3595]

Mattie you should never give up your beliefs, he's not the man for you, he's proved that.

[@salmana1223]

Exactly, she's struggling with her love for God and her beliefs and her love for Peter who put his sexual desires over this incredible woman! His loss and someone's gain..I do believe however in time maybe they can make their way back to each other as she will even forgive him and they can live a good Godly way of life...with God anything is possible!

[@blkbr7580]

I concur. One shouldn't have to give up on one's belief's, standards, and values. Sadly, it isn't a great match. Peter w/ looser standards vs. Madison, on sex, marriage etc.

[@blkbr7580]

@@salmana1223 Anything is possible. It remains to be seen what happens in days ahead. Forgiveness of one another is paramount to move forward. Maybe she's a good match for others, including previous bachelorette contestants with stronger values, etc.

[@blkbr7580]

@@salmana1223 I would also add that it was hard to watch and listen to, albeit I am on her (Maddy's) side presently. Pre-marital intimacy etc. is a loaded issue for sure.

[@rickyd2929]

She should have spoken about it with Peter early on. He was always giving her roses without knowing how she felt. It's difficult for him to know how strict her standards were because she was willing to sign up for a process that comes with a ton intimacy. I'm also a virgin and saving my self for marriage, but I wouldn't have signed up for a process like that in the first place. If I did, I would have been much more clear about things very early, especially if it was a make or break standard of mine for a relationship

[@kearstiann93]

He is such a high school senior just wanting to get down and dirty with every girl on the cheer squad

[@putfaithinjesus]

Thats how we are programmed baby.just like how youre programmed to trade up.

[@peezyjones7669]

Hope he screws everyone of em

[@gamerjamson]

Sounds like you never made squad saltwater taffy.

[@matthewbennett7444]

Crazy K Butler what’s wrong with that? Lucky bastard

[@jaysofly8564]

And what about hannah?

[@k.b.365]

I'm not even religious and even I have the utmost respect she held to what she believes in. Doesn't mean I have to agree or think the way she does, but I respect her so much for this.

[@Patricia-px9pd]

So sad... I seriously cried for her. Very proud she stood her ground and what she values. Madison is such a beautiful person inside and out. Peter made a HUGE mistake sleeping with those other women, wow.

[@addiszewde8858]

He is so sad as if she slept all man kinds. Wow

[@blkbr7580]

I concur, Amen to comments. Peter really blew it, letting physical intimacy take top priority over values, etc. I'm sure Dr. Laura S. would have A LOT to say about such issues.

[@blkbr7580]

I'd add that his lust got the best of him once again. True love of someone means real commitment to one partner/potential future spouse, doing what is necessary to be in a fully committed relationship.

[@jordangibson6352]

this season is the first season i have cried - i was so sad for madi and she deserves so much better than peter.

[@Mark-sy2bx]

If he didn't sleep with the other women then he is allowing another woman to dictate how his relationship with the others is to go? If you've watched other seasons when a woman dictates what choices the bachelor should make he sends the woman home. He should have sent Madison home.

[@LelaFG]

Just because they have Fantasy Suite does not mean the Bachelor or bachelorette have sex with them they could just spend the night. Because at this point they already know. And if there confused then don't sleep with any. Because Madison is right. If he proposed to her at the end and yet slept with another woman 6 days before is disrespectful. This is peter's journey to find love but its also those girls' journey to finding love too.

[@youtubecommenter37]

LelaFG spot on. A lot of people are saying “well, sexual chemistry matters.” Well, if he truly loves someone, the sexual chemistry will happen, whether it’s right away or eventually Having sex with all the women, knowing that only one will walk away with you, is like test driving cars before you buy it. The only problem is that women are not cars and you don’t buy women. Women are living, breathing, feeling beings-and they have every right to make the choice of whether he’s the right one just as he has to make that choice. Peter is stupid. The best way to use those fantasy suites is for the privacy to actually have a long conversation without cameras and microphones.

[@imth3batman]

She wouldn’t know if she wasn’t so reoccupied with it as to ask. Who thinks of their partner’s previous sexual partners when they are proposing. Whether it was 6 days ago or 6 years ago if you are thinking about that and not your own future with them at that point then you were never going to say yes to a proposal anyway, because you’re just not that into them.

[@TARDIB]

@@imth3batman You are freaking remedial.

[@JoinTheProgress]

+run2thebeat MEN DO. Any self-respecting man would be *disgusted* knowing a woman they were interested in was just pummeled by two other men a week ago. *Disgusted* And would run as fast and far away as possible in the other direction.

[@JoinTheProgress]

+David Cosloff But it's not called "The Talking Suite" assuming that's the only kind of "connection" you're mentioning. Altho I'm not a fan of this process at all, I'm assuming they want to know if they're sexually compatible or not. The whole concept is kinda gross.

[@IselaMendozaaa]

The fact that shes getting married in a week to the most amazing guy!! this is what happens when you stick to your morals and Let God guide your life! Her testimony is so beautiful and makes me feel so hopeful

[@KickStaff]

lol she was a phony and she married some billionaire for his money there was nothing guiding her but $$$$ she also dated a rich NBA player from Denver and she knew Peter had selpt with Hannah Brown in a ferris wheel the previous season so she knew what type of guy this was. Madison was the fakest person in reality TV history and thats saying a lot

[@cugglymonster]

MADISON has a podcast now called Staying True and it’s sooo good! Specifically she does an episode about the show and kind of tells all about her experience. It’s really good!

[@Julesjones-n5l]

Amen. God bless you and he loves you.

[@rachell2972]

​@@cugglymonsterin the end she did alot better her husband is a nice guy that shares her religious beliefs and is the son of a billionaire!

[@happyinhi7192]

In the first several seasons of The Bachelor, the fantasy suite was optional, and many bachelors/bachelorettes did not opt for it. Mattie is absolutely right to stand up for her standards and for the integrity of the kind of relationship she is waiting for. Peter just showed her his true colors. He did not have to sleep with the other women, but he chose to.

[@reneeossman1234]

I do think that Colton refused fantasy suites with his other two because he wanted to fight for Cass and his relationship meant enough to go after what he believed was his true love. Why Peter didn't do the same has me thinking that he really wasn't sure who he wanted for the end due to the fact that Madison made it perfectly clear that her morals meant a lot and would probably leave he it he was intimate with the other two. Could luck Peter you dug hole for yourself this time.

[@alos.h256]

The way I see it is that if you have such morals and integrity then why even bother with a show like such? Most of those girls make such fools of themselves fighting for attention ooooh and all that touching on national television? That just doesn't scream morals to me.

[@blkbr7580]

Kudos. Amen to that! It seems to me that the Fantasy Suite should be used only for the top choice, w/ option of opting out of pre-marital "intimacy". Karma may get him.

[@blkbr7580]

@@reneeossman1234 Another great set of observations and comments. Amen w/ kudos to your comments. Peter blew it, carrying the "curse", if you will, from Hannah B.

[@J-B-P]

It’s still optional, they just always use it. I think even if they don’t want to hook up they’d be dumb not to use it because it’s the only true alone time they get the whole season without any cameras or microphones. You can be honest and actually talk without worrying about it being on TV.

[@daughteroftheking3220]

This girl has a total Commitment to her faith and that deserves the real respect!

[@lazarusalexander9911]

Incompatible is all I have to say... Madison is a bright woman who deserves a man with the same morals as her. She’s a class act, unlike some of the other ladies this season.

[@blkbr7580]

Kudos. I have a gut hunch that karma or something happens shortly thereafter; we'll wait and see. Unsure if last minute "issue" or 'news' involved Victoria. We'll see.

[@Mark-sy2bx]

There's nothing immoral with being intimate with another human being.

[@lazarusalexander9911]

Mark zxz did I ever say that? All I said was they’re incompatible

[@user-dc5kc4gl5p]

Mark zxz days before engagement? yes there is

[@lauraann1]

@@Mark-sy2bx it’s not so much to do with morality in this situation, it’s more so about her sticking to her individual core values & beliefs which are authentic and genuine to her true self. In hindsight we know that Maddison wasn’t just all talk but she also walked her walk and stayed true to herself and didn’t put Peter’s own wants, needs, desires and momentarily gratification and pleasure on a pedestal while casting her own true authentic self below Peter. To me, that shows how much she truly loved Peter and wanted their relationship to be a healthy working secure relationship instead of dysfunctional one filled with resentment and unhealthy power dynamics where one person is sole giver while the other partner is the sole taker and everything being constantly about them and their wants and their needs. In the majority of dysfunctional and unbalanced relationships most often it’s the women who are the givers and men who are the takers. Society expects for women to serve others and praises them for unconditional love and availability for tending to others without complaining. The praise that society gives to compliant selfless women who are always at everyone else becking call is the use of language and labels that women get who speak up and demand to put themselves first or to have their husband put their needs first and his own second. When this happens it’s very common for the female to get called “crazy” “dramatic” or that she’s “overreacting” or she’s “on. Her period or is PMSing as if her putting her self ahead of others is somehow a biologic temporary symptom and unusual and therefore something must be wrong with her or different at that time. Maddison didn’t abandon herself, she stayed true to herself and didn’t sacrifice how she felt and what she needed from pilot Pete, she even had enough courage to vocalize her wants and needs and beliefs on national TV, that takes guts honestly. She didn’t try to downplay the natural affect that peter’s choices had on her heart, emotions and personal self concept and how she it conflicted with how she defined and understood who she is as an individual person through values and beliefs. She stayed true to herself, and honestly, it’s so awesome to see women and girls do that it makes me so happy for them because there’s no worse feeling than the feelings that come with knowing you wavered you’re moral values beliefs and etc

[@nonkolisontobela3688]

I think what shocked me the most was the fact that Hanna-Anne and Victoria are literally upset by the fact that Madison has said what she believes in. Why does that upset them? Do they want their husband to have slept with other women day before asking for their hand in marriage? It just baffles me. Is Madison the only sane person on this show?

[@deergreentea2847]

because why did she come on the show then if she knew Pete when to the fantasy suite w Hannah? lol

[@lotuskoi225]

@@deergreentea2847I think Maddie expects Peter to not proceed in sleeping with the other women who will eventually make it to the fantasy suite.

[@emmar.shaffer1674]

Can we just talk about the C L A S S Madi showed?! The way she conducted herself should be studied. Truly remarkable. Look at her now happily married to a guy who actually loves her.

[@celiacperez-rosas9224]

I just watched Maddy's wedding video. Never EVER doubt God's plan for you, Thank you Maddy for being a role model. She never gave up her faith and God rewarded her for that by giving her the man of her DREAMS.

[@chichi_nnaj]

I was rooting for Madi so much but now I really hope she doesn’t win she deserves so much better than this

[@cugglymonster]

MADISON has a podcast now called Staying True and it’s sooo good! Specifically she does an episode about the show and kind of tells all about her experience. It’s really good!

[@protectorofillinois3]

This seems like a mismatch, to be honest. She's not a bad person for wanting someone who is willing to wait and he's not a bad person for wanting to explore chemistry/connections through physical intimacy. They just have some different needs and that's okay! They should have had this conversation early on in the process, she did herself a bit of a disservice by not making that standard known before she really starting falling for him.

[@blkbr7580]

Good observations and comments. The conversation and discussion should have happened earlier on, prior to her going down to Australia, a mistake on both their parts. Perhaps better "pre-screening" and matching up w/ other people is necessary. Seems like a potential better match for similar like-minded guys. Hopefully, she finds a better match with a like-minded man, willing to wait for the right match, etc. to be engaged, etc. I'm sure that Dr. Laura S. would have A LOT to say about such situations.

[@cillaakerstrom4307]

I totally agree

[@jaydeecee1643]

Exactly! She wasnt honest...she just gave an ultimatium! They are not at all compatible!!

[@purplepill2024]

Madison: I'm saving myself for marriage. Peter: I'm gonna try to have my cake and eat it too.

[@gamerjamson]

Correction: Going to.

[@purplepill2024]

@@gamerjamson, learn what informal English is.

[@kialee6620]

She’s so pretty ..

[@emmaferguson2272]

Love that she's sticking up for her standards. She deserves better

[@mzjwelsh2069]

Listen Peter didn’t really care about Madison’s feelings. He knew she was against him being intimate with other women yet he went ahead and slept with them knowing it would hurt her. If she meant so much to him and if he loved and didn’t wanna hurt her feelings or even if he was sure about choosing her at the end then he wouldn’t bother sleeping with the other 2 women. When a man is in love, he zooms in on that one woman and no matter who is in front of him, if it’s not her then he doesn’t see them.

[@CJ-83]

She didnt against him or forbid him, he still can do it, but doesnt mean she should accepting lol

[@chanel8861]

But also if you don’t like dating a guy who kisses other girls... why r u on the show?

[@hannahgrant1452]

I wish she stuck to these beliefs instead of then later on just making things even messier

[@mariloucq3395]

Trueee

[@lindsaysmith1574]

Name me one person who likes dating a guy kissing other girls... it messes with all of them.. not just her

[@varden3270]

@@lindsaysmith1574 That's a part of what they signed up for though. Thinking anything else seems so naive.

[@tayediggss]

Honey go look for someone who adores you and shares your values. Let him pick the girls he has slept with.

[@carolinegallegos_]

Yes Madison's "standards" are perfectly reasonable but she knows which show she signed up for. Why sign up for a show that you know doesn't align with your "standards" unless you're just going on it for fame?

[@rd7726]

Totally agree with those who said he isn't the one for Madi. She is so beautiful and has morals. Totally classy. He wants girls who will sleep with him after barely knowing him. Madi is a catch and can find a good Christian guy who won't tell her he loves 3 different women.

[@madgemackles4337]

Then she probably shouldn’t have been on a show like this. Seems like she’s happier these days though.

[@kaylaguidry4749]

I feel like Maddi should have just straight up told Peter that she was a virgin and wanted to save herself for marriage, then tell him that she wouldn’t be comfortable with him sleeping with the other girls. I love that she is sticking with her morals, but I just feel like the communication could have been a little more clear.

[@blkbr7580]

Yup, I agree with that. Better communication and understanding was needed earlier in the process. She should have held out on going to Australia with him, IMHO.

[@jaydeecee1643]

You're right...she gave him an ultimatium...which isn't right because he had another serious relationship....and she started out saying what she wanted instead of just saying that she was a virgin and wanted to wait. Confused.

[@gamerjamson]

Better yet she shouldn't have gone on the show at all.

[@mocita_]

Agreed!

[@dissertationdevi3933]

You think she still a Virginia after the ball player though.

[@starrynight694]

Peter is so immature, Tyler should’ve been the bachelor. Peter has no clue what he wants in his life

[@LOADING...o.o.o]

Peter: low standard with low morals and value Madison: high mora values with high standard. Lol good luck u guys. I can see your marriage is going to last for like 2 years.

[@AkashicEFT]

She'll find someone great.

[@morgant3163]

you can literally see her heart break :((

[@lalalahihihi]

if you can see a future with all the girls you have left, you’re thinking with something other than your heart!! most people already have their decision mades at this. him and hannah b deserve each other, both wishy washy!!!!

[@blkbr7580]

Great observations. Hannah B. blew it in her season; Peter W. is blowing it in his season presently, IMHO. Strange thing is they may be a belated better match, albeit last year's heartbreak by Hannah B. sealed her fate, IMHO.

[@JennJustLeft]

Madi stick with your standards. Good for you. but also why did she go on the show with the bachelor famous for having a fantasy suite 4 times in a windmill?

[@SarahGrace221]

So happy for her engagement. She deserved so much better than Peter

[@hagiosp]

Madison is AWESOME!!! So cool that she STANDS by her CONVICTIONS!!!

[@ashleyluna4290]

Lol this makes Peter look like a saint after watching how Clayton handled it with Susie 😅😅😬

[@cclairewestt]

She’s so pretty and genuine. SHE DESERVES THE FREAKIN WORLD!

[@BonitaApplebum-br3pw]

Yeah I don’t know what she expected going on a show competing against 20 different woman for one guy

[@quinnysworld1086]

I think she thought based on his declaration to her, he was already decided she was the one which is why she told him not to sleep with anyone else only to realise now, that he wasn't ALL IN yet

[@LaciRae]

yeah. even if he's falling in love with more than one person, DO NOT TELL THEM ALL. *waiting* until he's decided which one he's going to choose before telling ONLY her, would be the intelligent way to go. leading everyone on big time, only to blindside them ALL is extremely inconsiderate. when each one hears that he's falling in love with them, they feel like that means a whole lot more than it actually does. & when the chosen one finds out that he told them all the same thing, she feels like it means a whole lot less.

[@blkbr7580]

@@LaciRae Well put and said, I agree. The "I love you" and related statements need to be deferred until one truly knows that he/she is truly in love with one human. I think Colton handled his season better, even more so now, in hind sight. Peter has blown it as i see it presently. Arie L. mishandled matters a bit on his season too.

[@marthabarnabas2790]

@@LaciRae f

[@bellan7140]

He’s gonna regret this so badly when he grows up and mans up

[@jihansalah3222]

Why do I feel like there are double standards...help me understand why when that dude told Hannah brown he wouldn't like it if she slept with other men was considered offensive but when Madison tells Peter the same,people are hyping her to fight for her beliefs?don't get me wrong I am not taking any sides or passing judgement but I barely watch these shows I just see snippets of it from KZbin with the major headlines and that is why I'm genuinely curious about this

[@PATTY14700]

Different.......It's all about the delivery. Luke was gross all around.

[@maryhiggins9062]

I agree. I do think Luke’s delivery wasn’t as nice as Madison’s but the point still stands. If Hannah is allowed to sleep with whoever then why can’t Peter

[@CJ-83]

Madison you dont have to be sorry to have an expectation in someone you highly gonna get engage with in a week. He got the right to sleep around though he just want the sex (explore the relationship my a*s, he dumped VF after this), but she wanted a possible forever with him, not just in the moment, he should already know whom he will pick. So you go girl!!! But at least both of them being honest and open, each time with madison he had QUALITY convos that he couldnt seem to handle, he likes it easy and light and when girls adoring him.

[@juliannatrure]

I’m rewatching this back thinking to myself, that this is exactly how majority of immature and juvenile little boys acts. They really think we’re going to forgive them all the time for things they do left and right and totally in the moment, but they act so selfishly impulsive and then theyre like, “but i fell in love with you” it doesnt matter. Men need to grow up and have more character.

[@aprilgarrett2596]

I'm happy that she stood her ground on celibacy before marriage. That's a hardddd battle that I lost a looong time ago haha.

[@rhondasantos573]

Mattie, You will find your person. You are a wonderful girl! Hold onto your convictions!

[@blkbr7580]

Kudos. Keep your values and standards, Maddy/Madison. You'll find and get your man, hopefully sharing and respecting your values, standards, etc. Luke P., perhaps?

[@tiffanymorgan6562]

Maddie, your Boaz will come! It just ain't Peter, and that's okay! Do not settle or compromise!

[@frankybbbb]

IF YOU COULD SEE HER AT THE END YOU SHOULD NOT SLEEP WITH OTHER WOWEN 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 PERIOD.

[@naomigarciagomez7890]

My issue is ... Maddie gets so much praise but Luke in Hannah's season gets so much hate for acting and thinking the same way. Hypocrisy.

[@SuperApplepie7]

Right!!

[@courtneyedwards3521]

i think the difference if i’m remembering correctly was Luke was basically slut shaming hannah. i’m forgetting exactly what he said but i think it was more slut shamey whereas madison was trying to set a relationship boundary and tell him how it would make her feel

[@SolangeLOLable]

There's a huge difference. Slut shaming someone. Saying if you sleep with someone that's a sin and I can't be with you... Nah

[@shanelbrittany]

NO ONE FORCED HER TO BE ON THE SHOW!! She knew what she signed up for! Then turns around and says "oh I let a lot of things slide" and "I don't want to feel bad for my standards"....if it bothered you that badly, MAYBE you should've not signed up for a show where 30 women compete for a man's love. All of you in the comments, do you not know how this show works?? Was this your first season watching it??

[@gamerjamson]

Exactly. Nobody in these comments wants to admit that's the way the show works. Buncha idiots.

[@Tanya-qq7ok]

Exactly !!

[@idontcare0953]

I always thought it was so stupid that she got do much hate for this. She's allowed to not want to get engaged to someone who fucked potentially two other girls In the last three days. That's ALLOWED. he can play the game however he wants to, but she is allowed to walk away at any moment. She was not wrong for this. And to those who say "you know what you signed up for," no you don't!!! You don't know until you're in this specific situation how you're gonna feel and react. She probably didn't think she was gonna make it past night one, or if she did she probably thought she'd be going home before hometowns. I hate that argument so much because it literally makes no sense.

[@clairephil2591]

Then she should have gone home right here and now. What irked me about her was how she seemed to make the show about herself. She seemed extremely self-righteous. It’s called the bachelor. It’s Peter’s journey and that’s why barb accosted Madi. Peter has to navigate his feelings for the other 2 women and also had to cradle their feelings. She wasn’t empathetic towards that position he was in. That said I’d hate to be engaged to someone who was screwing other women the week before he proposed to me, which is why I would never sign up for the bachelor because there’s a huge risk of that happening. Her coming back to the rose ceremony and giving him a stank attitude when he asked if she will accept his rose was just beyond annoying to watch. Like, go home Madi. Peter crossed a boundary you had set? Then leave him. It’s as simple as that. I didn’t like how she went on to meet his family and was acting cold. No one forced her to stay, she should have just left in this scene and I would have been on her side.

[@idontcare0953]

@@clairephil2591 mmm girl... Your comment is reeking with judgement. It's okay to set boundaries and have standards for yourself. I hope you truly learn that someday, cause yeah... This ain't it lol.

[@clairephil2591]

@@idontcare0953 mmm girl... maybe if you fully understood my comment you wouldn't write this response. I truly hope your comprehension skills grow someday, cause yeah... this ain't it lol.

[@idontcare0953]

@@clairephil2591 you literally said she should've left rather than continue to make the relationship work. Okay, that's what you would've done, cool, but you're not Madison. And it's not self righteous to have standards lol and the fact that you think that shows that you're too hard on yourself and think that you don't deserve to set standards for yourself. Classic young girl/woman issue. My reading comprehension skills are fineeee honey 💁🏻‍♀️

[@clairephil2591]

@@idontcare0953 I didn't say she was self-righteous to have standards. I have standards, which is exactly why I would never go on this show. And I'm a christian, just like Madi says she is. I was 19 when this aired and I admired everything Madi stood for when this episode ended. But everything she did afterwards was wrong. She didn't need to be cold to him and his family afterwards. By sticking around after the revelation, she technically let her own standards falter, all in the name of 'trying to make it work for love'. It was all BS and after that moment, I knew she was no less disingenuous as the other women there who had ulterior motives. She's gained fame and created a Christian platform now - even though some of the things she does with that platform is questionable, but I digress. Hopefully you get where I'm coming from. Have a nice day.

[@bestdressedlist]

here after watching clayton gaslight susie

[@KFC-rl9wr]

Luke P is the same thing as Maddie. but all the comments here are supportive of maddie, yet on Luke P’s video they say “why is he on this show if he wants to be abstinent” and none of that to Maddie. they also supported Hannah brown for sleeping around saying she can do what she wants to find “sexual compatibility” but then call Peter childish for doing the same thing

[@crystal7893]

Thank you!!!!!! I’ve been saying this since it’s aired!!!!

[@ridwanmartindaniel7004]

Hmm i agree with you too! But maybe Hannah Brown is a woman! And woman has more suitors particularly! Lastly, people usually thought that a man should give way to a woman but not the opposite! So that is why this is the case maybe! But this is just my instinct! As for me, i am not siding on anyone because everyone is the same!

[@Varaidzo1]

Terrible double standards

[@PATTY14700]

What people don't understand, that at this time in the process, he knows who will choose for the ring. He knew it would be Madison,and Madison knew it would be her. Yet, he picked sleeping with both women, instead of wanting a life time of happiness with Madison, and got caught, thinking he could talk his way out of his. She was never the same person again, and she struggled fighting for the love that she still felt, by pushing forward, in spite. After meeting the parents, it was done.

[@Karma-hy6ki]

THIS IS NO DIFFERENT THAN WHEN LUKE P MADE HANNA FEEL BAD FOR SLEEPING WITH OTHER GUYS. KEEP THE SAME ENERGY

[@butterflygirl141]

It’s different in the way they communicated it...

[@youtubecommenter37]

It’s not what Luke P said, it’s HOW he said it. It’s the words he chose. And it’s the tone he decided to take

[@RealTakerslady]

Exactly

[@nabzisi3928]

Yet everyone shamed him for it and are praising her.

[@kristenmcathey]

am i the only one whose confused why she even went on the bachelor. she knew what she was getting herself into and if she had those strong beliefs the chance that the bachelor on the show is going to have or understand those values is so slim. like I feel like she j wanted to start her influencer career and probs formed feelings for peter but like girl why tf would u go on that show to "find love" when everyone knows what happens on fantasy sweet week lol

[@Kay61306]

Nope, what’s wrong with having morals and values... how would you feel if your fiancé slept with other women a couple day before proposing... he had the choice to be intimate on the show..

[@kristenmcathey]

@@Kay61306 I have serious issue witb having morals and being close with God. It’s the fact that she went on bachelor and expected that expectation out of Peter. If you’re on the fucking bachelor you have to know he’s having relationships w other women and getting intimate with them. Especially and fantasy sweet week. It’s a television show, not reality.

[@kristenmcathey]

I HAVE NONISSUE IS WHAT I MEANT

[@Kay61306]

@@kristenmcathey but if he rlly loved her then he wouldn’t have slept with anyone again HIS choice. So that’s why Madison decided to leave since their values/morals did not line up bc it’s her journey to not just peters 😂

[@kristenmcathey]

@@Kay61306 Yes I agree, but also it’s the bachelor, a reality TV show, not real life.

[@amymelton4782]

Why are all of you praising Maddy but absolutely hated Luke for doing the exact same thing to Hannah? Double standards.

[@Maryam-mw1wm]

This guy will never keep it in his pants. Their marriage would last weeks, not even months.

[@horepahm3539]

Lust Peter, Lust. Madison deserve better tbh. Her believes 🥰😇& plus true love mate. True love conquer all.

[@cugglymonster]

MADISON has a podcast now called Staying True and it’s sooo good! Specifically she does an episode about the show and kind of tells all about her experience. It’s really good!

[@bec1289]

i’m so proud of her for keeping to her values and being honest about it. and to see where she is now is so amazing to see that she’s happy and well

[@chrisnoziere2893]

If Luke P was respectful with his words like Madison. Than I would have respect for him.

[@erinbailey7940]

Peter handled this so much better than Colton… his season was a wreck but at least he’s not trying to guilt trip her!!

[@tayloreschberger9328]

this is a great example of “rejection is Gods protection” bc now she’s married with a wonderful Godly man😍

[@JulieMai_]

Poor Mady. Love her even more with her self respect

[@tasneemrahmanahmed6881]

Comparing this to how Clayton handles the scenario… I can’t believe Pete was better than him lol.

[@celebvillage]

Still heartbreaking to watch all over again. Right in the feels

[@Lin_Zhou]

at what point did he realize Kelly was actually the one for him but still went through the motions with HA and MP?

[@PATTY14700]

Lol Yeah, she was never in his thought process. .

[@butterflygirl141]

If they break up he’ll keep trying to go down the list. It’s creepy

[@brookeelisa3003]

Peter: "I can see us at the end" Me: If that was really true, then why hurt her by sleeping with other women....? You wouldn't in normal life...

[@husnaavhora6485]

She always drove me crazy. She is absolutely right to not want him to be with other women - but she came on the show and she stayed sooooo long. She knew what it would entail. She was unrealistic with her expectations of him because hello, it’s Peter.

[@gabbiealbrecht3375]

And she has been so beautifully rewarded with an amazing man of God!

[@emilypage5103]

And now they are having a baby!! 😊😊

[@agnes6969]

I am so proud as a woman learning that Madison is one hell one of a kind... she's the right woman for anyone who fears God and His COMMANDMENTS... women in this generation don't value themselves anymore... they're into sex with different men outside marriage...go girl, don't be influenced by what's in in these generations... you're in the right track...God must be very pleased 😊♥️

[@MalloryNewcomb]

That dramatic music is so good and on point I sometimes forget they don’t have that soft music going during the actual filming

[@titilolaayetigbo8033]

I’m confused. Why were y’all mad at Luke p for not wanting his woman to sleep with other men but okay with Hannah saying the same thing? I’m confused with that

[@carolmaafala3175]

True love waits. Go Maddie!

[@pmbarro]

In the beginning I used to think Peter was a good guy. The dude was literally there to sleep with as many girls as he could. He wanted Madi but still sleep with as many women as possible.

[@leahdean9353]

THIS IS THE BACHELOR!! He didn’t know she felt this way because she was the last fantasy suit and the producers set this up that way to make him look like that.. he didn’t know because she was the last fantasy suite, if he knew that before the other fantasy suites he wouldn’t of slept with anyone else

[@aann7132]

Ladies, don’t ever fight for a man. If he isn’t moving mountains to be with you he isn’t the one you want anyway.

[@reneephillips4221]

You signed up for the show so, you should already know that the bachelor or bachelorette has a possibility to be intimate with other contestants, so if you cant handle that then don’t go on the show, i respect anyone’s values regardless plain and simple

[@patienceowens7896]

I love hearing when young old adults and even much older adults. Way older than Madison say that they are saving themselves for marriage, because you don’t hear that too often these days. Plus, I have always said why wouldn’t anybody want their first time to be with the person they said,”I do” too at the alter.

[@janicewa16]

She cant be mad at him. They are in a show where he is dating other women.

[@صقرالصحراء-ب1ب]

Janice Wassenaar hi💕💕💕💕

[@datadude295]

She must not have known which show she signed up for

[@betharooskie1]

Madi is NO victim here! She knew full well that Peter did not have the same beliefs as her coming onto the show and chose to do so anyway. If anyone thinks she came on this particular season of the bachelor for anything other than a platform, you are sorely mistaken and naïve. Madi chose to be manipulative by acting like some poor, hurt girl who is standing up to a man she “loves” because of her personal beliefs and values. Please. I could see right through this.

[@italiagavidia8569]

Hmm. Sooo I think Madison shouldn’t have given him ultimatum. It wasn’t right for Luke to do it to Hannah. So why is it right for Madison to do it? She put him in a uncomfortable situation. And yup peter fucked up. BUT she was not honest with him! She should’ve told him after the rose ceremony the reason why she was feeling some type of way. She failed to tell him she was saving her self for marriage in my opinion that’s should’ve been on her priority before getting to the last 3 on fantasy suite! Like did she not know that peter and Hannah did on Hannah’s season? Like came on the guy is trying to find his WIFE (I think Kelsey was the best to fit wife material.) She knew what she signed up before starting the show. This is all CRAP. And the bachelor is currently going down hill with happy endings on the show. the last one we had was with BECCA & GARRET. Which make a beautiful couple. But I’m soo annoyed with this season. I’m over it. I hope Peter found his forever love.

[@lailaj3020]

She signed up to be on the Bachelor. She knew that all of this comes with the territory.. if she wanted an abstinent man then she shouldn't have went on the show. I get that she's hurt but why would she have these standards and expectations on the bachelor show out of all places. She was better off not coming on the show.

[@jazmintraina3232]

She left him, and now 2024 she’s happily married and loving life.. And Peter on the other had is not so

[@KJ11999]

Any man that can't control himself does not need to be in an exclusive relationship,especially marriage

[@pmbarro]

This is the moment when she realized she didn't want to be with him.

[@amandalidey329]

She was my fave!! Edit-2yrs later, she still was one of my faves. Lol.

[@lovepower4899]

sex is supposed to be with your spouse , not "other people"

[@whitneyallman8365]

Amen

[@karenhunny8826]

If the plan was to get engaged at the end of this and then married, that means that she’s been saving herself from men her entire life to be with him first and he couldn’t save himself a week to value the potential of her being hurt.

[@Monika-kb4wf]

Sorry to be the one to do this since I dont even watch the show. But didn't that Luke guy also do the same and got soo much hate bout that?

[@blkbr7580]

That's correct. Luke P. got shaded and slammed for his values, standards, etc. with Hannah Brown's season. IMHO, he, Luke P. would be better suited to be with Madison, that is, if they match all-around. Luke P., you may have a potential future gf or partner. Just my best humble opinion.

[@J-B-P]

She made a good point. Knowing that the man who is proposing to you very likely slept with other woman like two days prior, is super uncomfortable. I know it’s the nature of the bachelor but when you’re at the point of agreeing to get married, that’s got to be hard to get over

[@christyhernandez8625]

That says it all. He does not care enough. He wants his cake and eat it to. Run Madison run. He does not.have commitment just for you and what you have to offer..

[@hgn2nn]

did people not telling her the format of the show??!?

[@morenomijangos1]

What I don’t understand , isssss, she says she’s a Christian and has values and what not,,,,,but comes on this show that I believe no Christian should even be watching. With all the lust and intimacy that goes on . It’s just not an environment where any Christian should be volunteering to be placed . It makes me question what kind of “Christianity “ she is speaking of

[@yolandaramirez4649]

Madison is going to make someone very happy one day too bad he couldn't see! It's his loss not hers!

[@andreav3797]

Ummm sorry why’d you come on the show Madi ?? Have you not see the other seasons! She’s sacrificed a lot!!??? Sounds selfish to me … period!

[@karelyruvalcaba235]

Watching this after hearing that she’s engaged :)