16:36 “This world doesn’t know how to interact with introverts without taking offense.” Powerful statement and I definitely agree. Such an authentic and beautiful interview and I believe so many black women will feel seen! 💛✨ Definitely purchasing.
@shalanamorris99045 ай бұрын
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@stefanyb75735 ай бұрын
Girl, my life story!
@jennifern19565 ай бұрын
Yesssss
@pocosperolocos715 ай бұрын
Knowing well that you're an introvert and celebrating it is a major red flag.
@Iamaprilkimiya4 ай бұрын
This by far my favorite interview this year
@Anonymous-nz5kr5 ай бұрын
I Watched this interview once, listened to the audio book, and then watched this interview again. She’s a very thoughtful woman, she talks with grace and is learning to accept who she is. I learned about myself from reading her book.
@drob6915 ай бұрын
I completely agree with how she broke down being an introvert.
@rwilli26rw5 ай бұрын
This is my first exposure to Ms. Golding. What a gem!! 🖤
@stephengiese75495 ай бұрын
This lady has found her calling for sure! She is beautiful inside and out. She is an introvert and so am I. She speaks very well, looks at everyone when she speaks. She speaks about dealing with extroverts at a distance and so do I. Read this book.
@brendamacklin60445 ай бұрын
Great interview.. I was so bless to have both parents in the home growing up and my father was a strong Black man and my mom was a strong, nurturing Black woman!
@TDott-vc7lj5 ай бұрын
Great interview: I purchased 3 copies for 3 very different but very important young Black women in my life. And I’ve sent the link for the book to the people I know with daughters who could gain from these essays.
@ms.win_5 ай бұрын
As an introvert, I truly enjoyed this interview. She is also low key funny 😂😂😂
@moderngentlemen5 ай бұрын
Such a great interview! As a guy and person of color, much of what she said resonated on a deeper level, especially how we are perceived in the public and the importance a father figure. Definitely one of my favorite interviews and I have no doubts that her book will be a runaway success.
@taracoach93515 ай бұрын
Great interview! I love that the fellas shared their experiences while listening as well. Shenequa shows wonderful conversation skills, humor, whit and great vibes. Gotta love an authentic soul when you see one ❤
@gw23155 ай бұрын
Introverts United
@seanfrazier55715 ай бұрын
She mailed that 100%. This world does not know how to interact with introverts without taking offense
@themoviebrotha10335 ай бұрын
She is definitely a beautiful, articulate, and well spoken young lady..great interview.
@Iyana2155 ай бұрын
I am such an introvert and felt the same way, when I would go to the clubs with my friends..
@TerrellJByrd5 ай бұрын
She is as brilliant as she is gorgeous.. looking forward to reading her book.. always welcome a perspective even if it's not my own.. Keep shining Queen🌹🌹👑🌹🌹
@timscott55815 ай бұрын
Yeah, she speaks like an introvert, so Am'I. She seems like a nonconfrontational person. Just a calm, thought tone of conversation. The thing that's concerning is,.. introverts, we tend to isolate ourselves a lot.
@tamarapoindexter94825 ай бұрын
Maaaan this woman just broke down my entire life 😂 .. love it! I will definitely be buying this book
@ApFree-yn6cd5 ай бұрын
I love Shenequa and her interviews. Check out her interview with the cast of When they see Us, phenomenal
@edra1228845 ай бұрын
The HU homie! Congratulations Shenequa on your book!
@tacrewgirl5 ай бұрын
Great interview. Thanks for introducing me to this author.
@melonnieali41135 ай бұрын
I’m an extrovert and I don’t use people 😭. I respect my introverted friends by giving them space and going at their social pace. I also respect my fellow extroverts by exploring new places and experiences and talking about anything and everything lol!
@kimh94205 ай бұрын
Same...I think I'm in the middle but others would just see me an Extrovert.
@jzana0075 ай бұрын
Really good interview…I see myself in her. Jamaican 🇯🇲 in culture, black introvert, etc ❤
@cydgotsomethingtosay5 ай бұрын
Yesss!!! This resonated so much ❤️❤️❤️thank you for having her on
@AtlLateNight5 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed her honesty
@courtneyhogue47845 ай бұрын
Such a good interview. I’m looking forward to reading the book!
@ATBoyd785 ай бұрын
Hey Shanequa , it’s been a long time. Congratulations on your success!
@getoffmygrass48575 ай бұрын
A gorgeous natural sista❤
@kwalker11275 ай бұрын
Great interview we all need this one !’n
@brandongary82345 ай бұрын
The right people in your life can make you happy success and calm
@prettygirllay-dr9iq5 ай бұрын
She is soo stunning like omg!❤
@miamor20015 ай бұрын
Shes absolutely gorgeous
@NasirFerebee5 ай бұрын
Shenequa is phenomenal!!!
@22Tee225 ай бұрын
19:29 MY LIFEEEE 😩 she explained it perfectly
@bobbywilsonfunfaithfamilymusic5 ай бұрын
Shalom, WAKE THAT MIND UP! Thanks for sharing this conversation with Shenequa Golding, her story is dope! She mentioned "men washing the dishes after dinner, taking out the trash etc." It brought memories, from a child, the first thing after eating breakfast/ dinner was to wash the dishes and clean the kitchen. I've been married for 33 years, washing dishes, taking out the trash, cleaning the house, as the man of my house, no problem. Shenequa Golding, thank you, kudos.
@marqcollins17925 ай бұрын
This lady will make this interview go great!!!
@Lord_Tien5 ай бұрын
Powerful interview 💎 💎
@noelwatson22375 ай бұрын
A great watch. Such a gift of a woman. Thank You ❤
@MrRicardowill5 ай бұрын
This again was a great interview by the Breakfast Club. I enjoyed it and I am going to share it on my platform to inform Black girls and introverts who are often misunderstood. Ricardo Authenticity Rating for this podcast 10 out of 10. There is no magic to the rating. I’m just an attentive listener to the podcast and try to share my honest opinion. I call out things that are red flags. I’m not always right, but I’m not always wrong. I approach listening to podcasts as a chess player looking at different angles of understanding. I’m not trying to fail podcasters, but I’m interested in uplifting podcasts. Great job guys.
@ap3stax5 ай бұрын
N.V came thru with an AWESOME in-depth question (finally) 😁
@dianacharlesdouglas88465 ай бұрын
I totally get the introvert good on doing what fun is supposed to be and being used by the extra folks.
@soulconsciousness_tlynn5 ай бұрын
This was a very rich conversation, I will definitely purchase the book. Sometimes having the biological and/or stepfather in the home may create more pain and chaos. I think in many cases it may be a blessing in disguise when an unhealthy parent is not in the home. It is still a void nonetheless but only God knows what may have been avoided with their absence. Another point, My daughter prefers her ‘step’ father, (with no ill will towards her biological father) but he was not around since she was two years old, she has expressed to her dad (we don’t use the term step) that she has not felt a void like some women may feel because her ‘step’ dad occupied and filled that space so well she didn’t feel like there was a void in her life. Her father has never uttered “step” nor his family either and continues to provide for and give her unconditional love as his own biological daughters/her sisters. I guess it really depends on the person’s individual experience. I’ve read a book and listened to a profound Ted talk several years ago on the topic of introverts and their brilliance. However, I really enjoyed the way she shared her perspective on being an introvert it really resonated with me. 💎 I look forward to reading the book. #lifelonglearner. #lovetoread
@graceok85255 ай бұрын
Such a great interview. Definitely going to buy the book ❤
@ennisel5 ай бұрын
18:12 -woaah... #ShenequaGolding is so right!!!
@motif-music5 ай бұрын
Intelligence and beauty radiating from this woman!
@mauryabrown69495 ай бұрын
I love this interview, specially her her ora
@Pruffin3345 ай бұрын
Love this interview
@MWhite-zj5zk5 ай бұрын
she is gorgeous 🥰🥰🥰✨
@venumscripts5 ай бұрын
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS, Go off Queen!
@shailatiara5 ай бұрын
Shout out to Shenequa! We love a black woman who is true to herself. My message to her is: You are powerful and beautiful in your Essence without the revealing clothing and BBL. The God in you can be recognized. Thank you for being a role model for us Black Gworls ❤️
@jerryhartnett46945 ай бұрын
I actually like this interview..this was good
@BerryDivine335 ай бұрын
Getting the book!
@lanysiaharrison24065 ай бұрын
Best episode in awhile.
@Youtubehandler815 ай бұрын
Black Girls are Magical
@ShineAsTheSun-jb5bz5 ай бұрын
How so?
@bellfaith10655 ай бұрын
If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯
@bellfaith10655 ай бұрын
If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯
@bellfaith10655 ай бұрын
If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯
@bellfaith10655 ай бұрын
If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯
@barbarachavis42705 ай бұрын
She looks very good to say she is about to be forty . She looks much younger
@Pou1gie15 ай бұрын
As I get older, I am realizing that much of aging is about genetics and taking care of yourself. Some people just fall a part after their teens and 20s.
@Deonta-dw7ym5 ай бұрын
Don’t agree with some of it but respect it
@tonij65365 ай бұрын
22:58 black girl math in action. Because it's like " I said what i said, and i deemed it serious" 😂 I'll get this book on audio
@billy36035 ай бұрын
This was great. I want to read this book!
@gregoryjefferson63115 ай бұрын
That " TWOooo" came out like a Kevin Hart " Dayum !! " .
@hualum5 ай бұрын
Our community is messed up I’m tired of these conversations where black women and men have unhealed trauma. You can tell dating her would be tiresome. I agree with Envy do what you enjoy to do and focus on the joy. Stop worrying about did that person reciprocate or not. Not everyone is ready for marriage which does take work. If you not ready to put in that work then just enjoy dating or single life.
@inglewoodjet525 ай бұрын
So healing and being in love is not an option? Push the healing already!!!!
@sidneytrowell72595 ай бұрын
Not foundational black American she is Jamaican she said it
@hualum5 ай бұрын
@@inglewoodjet52 not sure what u mean but work out all that trauma from past men or relationships and daddy issues. We have too much of this in our community where black folks aren’t interested in dating each other anymore. The current flex is to date outside our race which is sad
@inglewoodjet525 ай бұрын
@@hualum I agree with the healing but both have to heal....then we can love each other properly. That's what I'm saying. Running to another race without healing is not the solution. I think we agree... lol I'm currently in therapy but I have yet to hear a black man is as well (as far as the streets). I ain't pointing any fingers but...... lol I love my black men but I'm not dating anymore unhealed one's. I am manifesting a husband, some of us want to spend the rest of our life with our best friend/lover. But believe me, I am prepared to be alone and happy.
@UntamedAudio5 ай бұрын
This was a great episode! First time hearing about her. Can Men read and gain from the book as well?
@thekenyangamer1405 ай бұрын
Go Queen ❤
@Bolder_Lebza5 ай бұрын
Great interview 🙂
@rainwash13655 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this
@CountryGospel245 ай бұрын
That's right, thank God for what ami respects beautiful music, enjoy it and God bless you, oh and always, greetings from the United States to the world, good night.
@BigTicket12305 ай бұрын
I love her laugh lol very familiar.
@breezy4rm9134 ай бұрын
I have two chapters left. Great read! 💙
@kerstienpope65395 ай бұрын
Had to run this back!!!!
@juliacox60365 ай бұрын
Just purchased in audible
@SmooveTV7185 ай бұрын
Idk who this woman is but I like her
@mckeewardiv63075 ай бұрын
💚I love this young lady with every fiber of my being 💙 I clicked on this interview because I was like “who is this 28yr old BADDIE” ❤️ then as I’m watching the video I was impressed with her humility wisdom and humor 💜I wish her nothing but the best💚
@Minka_The_Millennial5 ай бұрын
Love her ❤
@mandingogrande92435 ай бұрын
Great interview ❤
@theworldsonheroin5 ай бұрын
Love this woman ❤❤
@qtinmemphis19695 ай бұрын
Then you are told when you have kids...you'll get azz and hips..... 4 kids later I still don't have azz and hips😭😭😭😭
@elishagreen44235 ай бұрын
Yesssss, I know exactly how she feels. I use to get teased for having a flat butt, but now I’m in my fifties it is what it is.
@Deonta-dw7ym5 ай бұрын
I like the interview
@Miamipeppermint5 ай бұрын
Great interview 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@tylerhackner97315 ай бұрын
Love black girls
@cargolee97675 ай бұрын
Beautiful soul 💯
@tristanstraker1835 ай бұрын
Beautiful woman
@TheNYBully5 ай бұрын
She’s beautiful
@2centsfreelancer5 ай бұрын
Great interview 🔥🔥
@rhapsodicchimera38615 ай бұрын
The angry black woman stereotype is so annoying because why am i not allowed to experience emotion as just a human being. And its enforced from family, friends, accquaintances, etc. Its exhausting so now i just say what the hell i want to say. Receive it or not.
@tamarapoindexter94825 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!!
@N.A.I.MALLIN5 ай бұрын
She was feeling dat boi DJ Envy, you’ll ain’t peep the energy
@BackstreetswithCo5 ай бұрын
talk queen !
@p.gizzle905 ай бұрын
I’m an extreme extrovert by nature. [If u believe in astrology I’m a Gemini~that says a lot w/n itself.] However, I’ve been conditioned as a child to be *_introverted~socially selective._* I’m literally the life of any party by myself. I just might not want to be around ppl. I mostly prefer to be home bc I’m conditioned that way. Family functions are the only functions that could get me out the house, but that too is a some time thing for me.
@earthworldserver5 ай бұрын
sweetheart .
@donnettaj.73555 ай бұрын
I feel so seen rn!!❤
@SonofAGunFrom4105 ай бұрын
Im considering buying this for my girl, but i want to say; there are GREAT Step-Fathers out here, i was raised by them.
@JT-ef2qy5 ай бұрын
Don’t buy her that not the stuff I’d want my girl reading
@wills.94225 ай бұрын
@@JT-ef2qyfacts 😂.. gon have his girl break up with him for no reason and wonder why he acting crazy 😂
@JT-ef2qy5 ай бұрын
@@wills.9422 🤣🤣
@GCheff-ym4kh5 ай бұрын
She fine.
@inglewoodjet525 ай бұрын
LMAO.... OK GOD I HEAR YOU!!!! LET ME STOP DRAGGING MY FEET AND FINISH MY BOOK ABOUT GROWING UP CURVY IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY!!!! 😎
@LaKae4445 ай бұрын
13:25 is a real thing!!
@andruspatterson93825 ай бұрын
She’s beautiful 😊
@deljean5 ай бұрын
We have the same hair style lol❤
@benfrazier83855 ай бұрын
I hate that she felt she wasn’t pretty enough because of her butt, I think she is gorgeous and I hope people told her that growing up 💯
@deflockreptilegang1815 ай бұрын
Dj envy just be blurting shit out
@amaaddowdell12025 ай бұрын
Great interview, you can tell DJ Envy doesn’t read shit 😂😂