Do You "Test" The Person You're Dating?

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[@JaeSwift10JamellaSwift]

I don’t think test is the appropriate word, it’s vet. You need to vet people. It’s the same way Envy should’ve vetted Ceasar. You don’t just jump in with people - whether romantic or in business.

[@jamesbriggs6364]

🙄😂🤣👍

[@markville1061]

😂😂😂

[@Erniepotts]

People can change for the worse though.

[@dn30001]

ALL FACTS across the board 😂😂😂😂

[@dn30001]

​@@Erniepotts while that could be true, you are STILL a fool for not vetting.

[@Alr1ghtyThen]

When i sense a woman testing me, I get turned off cuz I see that as her being the kind of person to start problems for no reason. If I'm for you then you'll see that in my consistent actions. I'm personally very open so if you can't see what's in front of your eyes then we won't work out.

[@user-og7lo1qg2q]

I get turned off when guys test women because WHY are you testing anyone for that matter. I agree with Charlemagne when he said you may be testing the man or woman God sent for you and you doing all this testing to just end up single lol smh

[@ALo-yv2pj]

@@user-og7lo1qg2qI’m testing because I got the upper hand and more to lose, my really good salary. It annoys me when someone is vetting me. Go and try that with the broke boys that work at Circle K, much easier than a guy that knows his worth. I do the testing, not the other way around, and if you can’t handle that, there are plenty of low quality men out there for you to play those games on.

[@texrex3]

The nerve to test/trick someone and still be upset when they fail…

[@AverageMOEgym]

Stay away from people who want to be taken care of BUT can’t “afford” to take care of YOU!💯 men and female

[@PlutoForrest]

This segment was gold, I loved it. Cha, Envy and Lauren made it worthwhile but the 1500 cash app story had me cackling.🤣🤣🤣

[@mscstapleton]

On this I agree with CThaGod! I'm not testing anyone!! Life will test us enough! Just pay attention to how these people show up for you in those moments.

[@1Shaq1]

Charlamagne threw that scamming joke in there smooth 🤣

[@user-xq5mb4ly3j]

Lmao I missed that

[@ChrisBrown-zq8ch]

@@user-xq5mb4ly3jit was when he was talking about the city girls album

[@QueentoBeans]

😂😂😂

[@MrYS-eo5zw]

The city girls album is about scamming 😂😂

[@tonypayne7371]

I think testing is for academia. What I think is you should ask BRUTALLY honest questions and OBSERVE their behavior and their lifestyle, etc While moving at YOUR "dating pace"

[@uno1728]

She want to see how he living? 😂 this why these girls get played. People with money usually don’t even look like it and are frugal. Ask them if they know how to invest and develop a portfolio

[@nastystew6942]

Facts

[@1hotshon]

Absolutely not. I'm too busy living to test people. The truth will reveal itself if both are being their authentic self.

[@RicardoOdum]

Yea my ex was a "tester". I peeped game, and just went with it. I get a sense I passed a particular test, it was just on to the next one. Or sometimes, it made her skeptical of me because she would think it was disingenuous, when it wasn't. And she'd not believe and wait for the opportunity to bring the same test back around. She'd get mad at how consistent I was. She'd get mad if I chose to handle a situation/"test" differently. I didn't pass, and obviously it was a problem. And affirmed the low expectation/opinion she seemed to want to have. The testing shit leads to problems regardless of the outcome.

[@uno1728]

That sounds like a headache. Sheesh

[@RicardoOdum]

@@uno1728 Lol it was, but it was valuable AFTER leaving said headache fasho

[@VirgilHawkinsIs]

This reminds me of that one clip I saw online where this girl tried to “test” her mans loyalty. Found out the other girl lied about him cheating because SHE didn’t think the gf deserved him. 😂 Go ahead and trick yourself outta your spot if you want to.

[@Stew-Ped]

Testing someone is foolish. Games are for children. You're not in it 💯 percent if you're trying to testing someone. How do you think your relationships or friendships will end once your new partner find out you tested them? 😅

[@isaiahhouston228]

i think people test all the time they just dont admit or its just small little things to and could lead to it all adding up to this person has anger issues lol

[@durrelllee8608]

I say this often, all these rules go out the window for someone you are genuinely attracted to. All these rules apply to someone you are borderline attracted to, or they don't have a chance anyway. 😂

[@jman1562001]

You don't vet the woman that you are really attracted to tho???? Hooking up is one thing but you do kind have to vet when you in a relationship. Women vet men all the time and even more so guys they realty like.

[@durrelllee8608]

@jman1562001 I find all of this hilarious. I'm 20+yrs married and could care less. I say what I say because I have two grown kids whom I educated on what to look for in a stable partner, and it goes out the window for someone they are attracted to. If we're already attracted to them our "vetting" process is extremely modified. It's not until they get hurt a few times to realize that attraction alone won't sustain a healthy relationship.

[@ShinOwen2]

DJ Envy didn’t ask you if you would take them out. We know YOU wouldn’t. Lauren needs to GO!!

[@phillyphil201]

CTG is so on point, these modern women be trashing these broke dudes they call it preference, until a man has a preference. They women don’t know what they want money doesn’t build relationships but longevity…. These women will be alone and die alone.

[@iamkingnisha]

If I sense that I’m being tested, I will do my best to fail. Relationships are built with time and understanding.

[@isaiahhouston228]

i do that when someone is watching do my work like piss off

[@paulbarrycuda]

Toxicity 👌🏾👌🏾 gotta love it

[@randomnobodyplaythrough7770]

Everybody just wants sex, period.

[@maskedman5657]

Most men should test most of the women they meet by telling them they're broke and taking them out to coffee dates.

[@chi_town83fool]

As a woman I approve this message. Especially dating in 2023. I have a homeboy with money that does this with women. He'll go out with them in his old pickup truck on dates to dinner or something. Then eventually (if they pass) they get picked up in the Mercedes and go to the five star restaurants. Im not mad at it. Some women are too superficial meanwhile they dont have a pot to piss in themselves

[@maskedman5657]

@@chi_town83fool Homeboy is macking

[@amarifromthesouth]

or just taking them out to a coffee date or some inexpensive to see if they are pocket-watching.

[@SubRaider]

If you "test" your significant other….. You need to Grow up already..

[@dn30001]

You dont 'test' who you are dating. You vet them

[@backpackmami]

Thank you Char! Let the sh- be organic and natural AND pay attention. Stop rushin’ sh- and build over time. I think testing is selfish and immature af. Life be life’n enough like you will see me and all of me over time. And if you know from jump it ain’t worth time we ain’t even gotta start nothin’ so it won’t be nothin’ lol

[@midknightforever]

see you cant ask people who been married for some these type of questions. Cause they don't know how it is out here in the 2023 tryin to date and get to know people

[@VirgilHawkinsIs]

This is the same shit ppl have been saying since forever and it’s still a bunch of bullshit. The game ain’t changed….y’all changed how you play it. Now you getting different, arguably worse results and wondering what happened…while also dismissing the ones who are successful. 🤦‍♂️

[@amarifromthesouth]

The only test there should be is a normal conversation. If a person seems easily bored/ignored or is just socially awkward, then the person may not be for you. But, if y'all can have a normal and decent conversation about anything then that person is most likely suitable for ya.

[@marcjacobs8559]

Keep Taylor and Lauren away 😂😂

[@phillyphil201]

Taylor is toxic

[@user-bw3ly1mg6w]

Time tells EVERYTHING. No need for a TEST. Love is love is love. You're going to get hurt in the process. Grow up. Nothing worth having is accomplished easily.

[@udokee7409]

Ctg hate Loren 🤣 BET must be forcing her up there or sumn lmao

[@stephenandrew7314]

Loren you absolutely are toxic!

[@battlerap314]

Very Toxic 😂😂

[@Erniejr1000]

Charla is right. So superficial!

[@user-og7lo1qg2q]

This Generation especially is superficial, you can't except anything less. Tbh if a guy has to test me to get a reaction out of me then I dodged a bullet.

[@laqueensha]

If he’s wearing Rocawear in 2023… Lauren might have a point 😂😂😂

[@Naeem_El]

They still sale that ish lol 😂

[@amarifromthesouth]

A Rocawear shirt probably cost more than most of the Shein/Temu outfits a lot of women wear. Then it’s black-owned. On top, people have no problem still wearing Tommy Hilfiger and that’s way older than Rocawear

[@nastystew6942]

I still wear vintage Rockawear

[@Z4chariah]

Taylor & Lauren are birds . What do you expect really? Lol neither of them attractive to even be talking really. I miss Kevin Samuels bruh lol

[@CrowdFave]

For real, Lauren maybe, but taylor is a 3

[@giffondhall9214]

Fax

[@giffondhall9214]

@@CrowdFave nah she ain't cute

[@CrowdFave]

@giffondhall9214 I'd have to see her standing up. Her face is aight, she isn't my type, but I wouldn't say she wasn't attractive in one way or another. Taylor, though, neverrrrr

[@Playboy61788]

Lauren ready to spend $1500 on a random 304 but doesn't wanna take a man on a date is some backwards ish...

[@YaHsrael]

At this point, it's proven how hard it is to find a None Toxic Female in the work place as a host. A married non Toxic wife from straight marriage would work. Single folks keep folks single.✌🏿✈

[@Priddyboiicrls]

that would be an awful host

[@ashleyonrocks]

i'm not testing anyone, i can sense what i need to know by getting to know you. if a man ever asked me to pay for something then paid me back and told me he was testing me, i would distance myself. I'm not interested in someone who plays games like that

[@roycewynn6769]

“I gotta rewatch the movie, so u want me to go to the projects” 😭😭

[@takeomasaki260]

2:04 that part

[@cushangriffith1151]

Some strippers do really be going to college 😂

[@lastnamefirstname2390]

Charla preaching for once 🤣

[@Trevonk12]

Loren a bird.

[@battlerap314]

Been a bird 😂

[@scroogemcduckrich9705]

😂 Charlamagne said Ceasar and Envy fainted 😂

[@ronettawhite9177]

When i was single I didn't test my husband we just meet and vide out and we been together for 12 years now and still happy ❤

[@battlerap314]

Loren wants all of this out of a man and she probably only brings half of what she wants out of a man to the table she sounds like a stright bird 😂😂😂

[@Nique3sixtyfive]

i stopped dating in 2013 so i cant say much but most guys show u who they are once your around them more i ask small questions that lead up to more spilling out in most situations i almost always see things quickly i go off vibes and energy if i feel uneasy or out of place its over with

[@kadeemtyson]

It’s all about deal breakers. What are you willing to put up with long term. If someone you’re dating does things that bother you. Ask yourself: Can I put up with this and how important is it to me? It’s all about observation ppl 😂, I give women chances, even if they do something early in that irks me, I wait to see if it’s a reoccurring issue.

[@allmine0808]

The wording makes a difference. It sounds like your playing games. If your intent is genuine and your just observing certain red vs. green flags then that’s normal.

[@youtubeintrovert5112]

I’m so glad I’m married….they gave me headache contradicting themselves and tap dancing

[@VeeMarieS]

What’s the point in testing men?? I hate effing games! I want to see that a guy is evenly yoked with me, but that’s why I take my time getting to know someone.

[@Playboy61788]

1st caller is a airhead, now imagine you make him wait until a certain amount of time, he hits, and leaves anyways...versus you letting him hit asap and he leaves. Now you sitting there looking dumb cause you've wasted both y'all time.

[@GrandPrizeFitnesAJAY]

How did Lauren miss the major plot line of Coming to America? Where's Jess At!!

[@allenrobinson8602]

The breakfast club test cesar pina? 👇

[@jbrown7]

The logic we as humans use is embarrassing 🤣🤣🤣 this is so ridiculously stupid

[@typeshitpodcast]

Before you take a girl on a date tell her you want to see her real hair... If she can't show you , no date

[@janedough6410]

Select people with natural hair.

[@typeshitpodcast]

@@janedough6410 u never know... 😯

[@amarifromthesouth]

that's wild b

[@typeshitpodcast]

@@amarifromthesouth is it?

[@amarifromthesouth]

@@typeshitpodcast extremely

[@ogmont]

The test for women is to see how long they can keep you till they find someone they feel is better.

[@TheChillt]

That's why everybody SINGLE!!!!!

[@typeshitpodcast]

All that testing and they still either pick the wrong one or end up alone... 😢 Po babies

[@KLa35]

I wanna see you if you're ambitious and hard working. How you treat people, your family and strangers, how you communicate and how you handle conflict.

[@user-og7lo1qg2q]

That's what school is for, you take test/exams not in the dating world. Sometimes people take testing to far and just end up doing more harm then good.

[@zinziwilliams105]

You would see that while dating.

[@lionelsancha9416]

Its always better to see than hear about how a person is, does etc. You want to find out everything on the first day?sometimes the wait is worth the time

[@KLa35]

No not on the 1st date, over a period of time lol. I don't test people but I know what I'm looking for when I'm dating.

[@KLa35]

You have to vet people or you are wasting both of your time. I wouldn't consider that testing.

[@janedough6410]

RE: Movie. Prince Hakeem didn't test Lisa. She was in a relationship with Mr. SoGlo (Daryll ?) and fell for Hakeem by character. He didn't need to say a series of things, or plot to get her attention/see a reaction. Lisa became disappointed when Hakeem wasn't fully authentic. If it was about $$ she could have married the prince of SoGlo.

[@jessycamar_louis]

Hilarious segment 😂

[@Jacquoribraddock]

12:16 got me good 😂😂😂

[@paceyourself5652]

Yes

[@Mrdealornodeal618]

Lmao😂😂😂😂 Dude snapped about the $100 college stripper.

[@ToDaMaxxx]

Lauren and Taylor....2 birds who chirp loud

[@EyeHeartShantel]

I would have loved to hear Claudia on this one

[@angelahoward724]

Date as many times as you can to see if that person is right for you and if you two are right for each other that is important 💜❤️

[@gabrielmccandless2798]

Lauren was tryna buss the stripper down!! She’s legendary status!!!

[@manymoonsahead]

Here we go again with long winded Loren. Loren & the breakfast club strikes again. Loren you do not speak for all black women and we don't need you as the universal spokesperson.

[@janedough6410]

Lauren: I'm studying to be a doctor. Send me $1500 and I'll wrap myself around a light pole.

[@CamronSmiles125]

I love this girl 🔥🔥🔥

[@blakex2699]

I didn't know you go live on TikTok caught some of this lol

[@chris2tipsy]

It was a test in coming to America ..The sister of Lisa acted the way he was afraid Lisa would act when she realize he had money.. 😅

[@cwilliams7955]

12:41 this one time at band camp….heheheheheh

[@88dusty]

That's the CTG I miss 😂

[@rawman18]

Yea, he on one today!

[@nhayahsgoode]

Charlemagne is attacking Black Women daily.

[@jarronrobinson413]

Char said Lauren transnicca! Lol 🤣

[@jamikaperrin9555]

If I can't travel with you, then we can't be together.

[@HydratedHero]

You can test someone and still get your time wasted. So what are we on?

[@richieporter3798]

Shoutout to my hometown Anniston,al😂😂😂😂

[@janedough6410]

No. Don't test... definitely not consciously or recall. 😆 Because I don't want it done to me. Which I'm sure it has. Two I recall flunking 🤣... and that's prior to dating. It was over something stupid and/or small. #1 - Chivalry. Guy opens car door. I sit in. He expected me to lean across the shift and open the door for him. Never heard of such, so he asked why didn't I do it? I said, " _Oh, I'm sorry. I thought your car was automatic_ . So I unintentionally insulted the mans car. It was a bucket, and I didn't know he'd be locked out. #2 - Misunderstanding. Guy wanted to hang out on the weekend. I said I couldn't, attending to a sick friend. My friend cancelled; had someone else. By Monday, dude asked about the friend and I totally forgot. It appeared as I lied and brushed him off when it wasn't the case. He should have given several dates to determine.🤷‍♀. I probably flunked several tests and didn't know. 🤣

[@thedeeprot]

👌👌👌👌

[@ifyoudontworkyoudonteat7644]

3:20 😂😂😂

[@ericpaynestudio]

City girls music is also about scamming 😂

[@MM-hf6om]

I dont test but i do observe. I will never create the scenario but i do need to see how a person is when they are happy...when they are sad...when they are mad.....when they are stressed . Because that is your flex in a relationship. If you are the first to fall apart when you are stressed i know you will give me no flex if i am messing up. If you dont know these things in your partner you are asking for a problem

[@nhayahsgoode]

Why test people, when you can just have an open conversation. Men need to take their power back? They won't ever get their power back.

[@stephenandrew7314]

Hell yeah you do everyone is so selfish and self absorbed. Society is so screwed you have to test.

[@Peprahism]

Whatever boy Taylor finds. She better marry him. All these requirements and tests, only superman can pass them.

[@JudahTribunal]

Kiss Enough Frogs U Gonna End Up With Warts

[@Matthew7.7]

How is Laura still here? 😂 Yo uncle Char hate her relationship mindset. I agree with them Both. Depending on the situation my everyday life is applying “Coming to America” to dating. Laura look like she smoke blacky milds.

[@Terelon]

Testing people you're dating is insulting, don't test me unless you wanna get blasted

[@robynp8743]

I don’t test well myself, so come as you are, or don’t bother 😅

[@OldSparks]

Asses finna be single and miserable the rest of their lives

[@realtalk675]

Testin everyone

[@CarolinaScorpio]

Women typically and normally do it. Guys be too scared to test women but most don’t care to.

[@Realest1ne]

Interesting that Lauren feels that way. Because when men test women, they usually get called all kinds of immature and toxic 🤔

[@onlyonejabari]

There's NO GRACE when you're transferring utilities n yo exhusbands name, if that's the case. Be RESPONSIBLE fo yo own priorities, especially when they filed bankruptcy. It's obvious they can't afford the extra cost. And let's not forget Destiny said co-parenting is @ peace. So leave it @ PEACE. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@marcusanthony470]

Nobodies lining up to be with Loren she's a 4/10

[@giffondhall9214]

3

[@battlerap314]

Ayooooo😂😂😂😂

[@battlerap314]

​@@giffondhall9214😂😂😂☠️

[@kazmir_]

People doing tests, but don’t even know how to change there own wifi password..

[@devondale8479]

Idk if I missed them talking about it..but the SISTER AND FATHER were in the movie for a reason.

[@ask33]

Sorry some of these women are spoiled by social media

[@ambzthemommy]

I have to agree with charla 😂

[@bosslady5211]

No

[@cycleforwardtime]

All of life is a test. Sometimes when failure means death. Especially with some of the crazy in this world. Yeah you have to test and past several tests. Survival can depend on it sometimes. Yes. It is that serious.

[@MJFlairs]

Cee clearly doesn't understand the difference between a toxic relationship and a healthy long-term relationship, he's literally telling people to just choose anyone. I have solutions to the problems of the callers etc in my book "A Guide to Balance, Fulfillment, and Happiness for Yourself and a Healthy Long-Term Relationship". And ironically enough in the relationship section it has a chapter titled Natural Tests. But in that chapter I discourage orchestrated tests...like "I'm horny too and I'm feeling the person but lemme not give them sex to see how they respond" or "lemme tell her buy the stuff while I park and see if she can afford it" etc. So I do agree with cee in the area of not orchestrating tests. In that chapter I explain what natural tests are. But cee needs to understand its better to be alone than have someone in your life that will damage you and everything you have totally, and it's weirdly immature because he has daughters and says this publicly where they will here it.

[@tg072185]

Gatdammmnnn let ppl TALK!!!