Breaking the 'Other Woman' Stereotype ft. Zubeidaa

Why does society look down on 'the other woman'? In this week’s episode, we explore this trope, and how the film 'Zubeidaa' made us see it in a new light.
'Recasting' is The Swaddle’s new video series where we look at characters who defy the stereotypes of Indian cinema.
Credits:
Edit and Motion Graphics: Pranav Ratra
Art Director: Neha Shekhawat
Scriptwriter: Adreeta Chakraborty
Voiceover: Anahita Sachdev
Creative Director: Shrishti Malhotra
Executive Producer: Karla Bookman
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[@iseedarksideofeverything5233]

Also we find that movies which shows *men getting involved in a relationship outside his marriage falls under the category of comedy like Biwi No.1* and when it comes to *a married woman getting involved in a relationship after marriage it falls under the category of serious drama like Astitva* ... I think this movie sort of deconstructs this trope as well

[@beingfithumane]

Sanchita... Sirf Ha ya Na. Itne bade comment ki koi jarurat nahi he. 😇☮️🅰️

[@itsoblivion8124]

@@beingfithumane 😊😊🙏🏻🙏

[@nchl5340]

Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna was a sensitive portrayal... but a bit opera like

[@chiranjibdutta2203]

@@proudsinglemom358 that is just sexist.

[@proudsinglemom358]

@@chiranjibdutta2203 "TRUTH" is indeed sexist ... We have advantage when it comes to physical strength ...you have advantage in dating

[@ravenclaw_beater]

I mean that's a completely different story but are we ignoring the fact that in the other woman plot it should be the man to be mostly blames as he cheated on his wife and not the 'other woman' for 'snatching' the husband. He is not a 5 yr old kid whose mind can be changed by a piece of chocolate 🤔🤔🤔🤔 Edit: I think it's high time we need a mainstream movie where both the wife and other woman dump the man, become best friends or atleast be in good terms and not shit movies like Pati Patni or Woh

[@astriabranganca]

Exactly

[@creamyhora4005]

Exactly!

[@proudsinglemom358]

"Both" are to be blamed

[@JohnBrown-wv5lz]

Yes cheating is wrong either its man or women👍

[@oishi5518]

So true..even in real life,many fail to realize that

[@swatisalunkhe6984]

When Kashibai told Bajirao ...parayo se kya shikaayat karna ghav toh apno ke chubte hai...was ultimate line...coz Ur hubby is someone whom u can talk to...for that matter even blame...y torture the women she never had responsibility to protect Ur home

[@yourblackstar19]

These stories though were set in a time very different from ours. Men had multiple wives and they needed them for they survival & security. If we judge them through 21st century lens, it’s incomprehensible to us.

[@tanvi1121]

@@yourblackstar19 yes Fully correct

[@dreamer9375]

I hated that part in Biwi No. 1 when Salman finds out that Karishma is having an affair and flips out. Meanwhile, he had moved out with his girlfriend while staying married to Karishma. Same in Pati Patni and Woh. He finds out that his wife is having an affair and some back to his senses. I find it hypocritical but could there be another reason behind this?

[@harleenbhullar8253]

Patriarchy is the reason.. men feel they can do anything staying loyal or not is up to them but when it comes to THEIR women she is not allowed to do so as in staying loyal is only implemented on her and not him.

[@adflix424]

You are trying to look for meaningful substance in a formula based bollywood movie? 🤣

[@FloralTarotReader]

That's how fragile a man ego is.

[@kanaksharma5472]

Isn't this weird how society pays more attention on the 2 women and their image but no one cares about he fact that the guy is openly cheating on the women?? Same goes for men as well. I think instead of judging those 2 people, we should focus on the main person who's causing all issues.

[@possessedtaco1152]

OMG yes

[@aishwarya_ganapathy]

True

[@therealgrimreaper68]

I don't understand what 'stealing' someone's husband/boyfriend is, are they an object that someone can steal

[@sulaganabiswas]

That's patriarchy condoning the guy. Arre usne kuch nahi kiya, woh chudail usko apni biwi se chura li

[@harleenbhullar8253]

@@sulaganabiswas right!

[@sumanrawat8543]

Bilkul sahi

[@cookie_monster_]

At times, _stealing_ can refer to going after a man/woman who is already married/comitted. Though the blame lies on both the parties if the married person returns the affection. I know this incident in which a woman was consistently pursuing this married man. It was said that she is trying to 'steal' the husband from his wife and a father from his children.

[@kdjoshi726]

@@cookie_monster_ I mean they OP is asking how come the husband/boyfriend are "stealed" ? Are they a 5y.o who can be kidnapped easily by luring them with a candies? The guy's adult they don't have a control on themselves or what? Tho yeah not wanna justify the women chasing the married man either. Must be locked in jail

[@shrishtimalhotra2406]

"But instead of pitting their love for the hero against each other, this story makes us realise how the position of both women is precarious, existing on the periphery of one man’s shifting needs." 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@proudsinglemom358]

It's just a Bollywood movie , don't take it seriously ... There are many Bollywood movies where 3-4 men are chasing 1 women and boot licking her to get her attention ... Such movies should be avoided at all cost

[@creamyhora4005]

True that!

[@JohnBrown-wv5lz]

Sala Bollywood se inspiration lete ho

[@beingfithumane]

What about you?? Shrishti Malhotra. Yes or No. Are you ready to accept me as other man. 😇☮️🅰️

[@beingfithumane]

@@creamyhora4005 , will you make me other man?? Yes or No. 😇☮️🅰️

[@vinnienanda]

I also liked the story of Judaai (Sridevi, Anil Kapoor and Urmila Matondkar) where both women have their own flaws. I also like the fact that Sridevi’s character took accountability for her own actions. though in stories like Biwi no. 1 men never really take accountability for their actions.

[@beingfithumane]

Vinnie Nanda, will you break the "Other Man" Stereotype?? 😇☮️🅰️

[@vinnienanda]

@@beingfithumane indeed. There are way too many

[@beingfithumane]

@@vinnienanda , yes or no. No other reply. 😇☮️🅰️

[@vinnienanda]

@@beingfithumane indeed. I am talking about films like Biwi no 1.

[@beingfithumane]

@@vinnienanda , no film, are you ready in reality. Yes or No😇☮️🅰️

[@subhoshrimukherjee9719]

Hi Swaddle team! In tradition, both men and women are required to wear many traditional wearables and equipments, but since ages, it is only required for girls to wear mark of marriage, it would be great if you make a case study on that.

[@beingfithumane]

Subhoshri Mukharjee, sirf Ha Ya Na. 😇☮️🅰️

[@subhoshrimukherjee9719]

@@cristatus514 If you have the intent , you can cheat with any kind of mark and wearables, be it with sexuality, financially or otherwise, dear 🙂

[@Legend-mf7mj]

@Spell Check Women don't care about marital status of men.

[@ayantikasanyalchatterjee7468]

Well nowadays young married girls don't wear sindoor. None of my sisters wear sindoor.

[@subhoshrimukherjee9719]

@@ayantikasanyalchatterjee7468 Yes, I appreciate the chaging trend of no obligatoriness.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Karisma Kapoor is just the best. She was brilliant in ‘Zubeidaa’.

[@rishabhpant9471]

Watch me batting against pak💪

[@ritz2001998]

True. Found you. I love the film. I love the music.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

@@ritz2001998 Noice.

[@rowoonswife7279]

Make a video on this topic: Men say women should not step out late because there are animals ready to attack. Ok i get it. Men also say this world is full of priyadarshinis. So according to this logic shouldnt they also stay at home to be PROTECTED?

[@proudsinglemom358]

Men have a "CHOICE" to protect themselves , Women "DON'T" .... here is your answer ... We just don't want to hit women that's it

[@creamyhora4005]

@@proudsinglemom358 WHAT??😂😂

[@saltyuser_]

@@proudsinglemom358 please can you clear your opinion?😅

[@proudsinglemom358]

@@creamyhora4005 The poor driver was very generous for not hitting priyadarshini ... because he never wanted to hit a "woman" , it was against his ideologies

[@proudsinglemom358]

@@saltyuser_ Men could hit priyadarshinis ....we just don't want to raise our hand on a woman , that's it

[@qurratulaineproteety4321]

next video on how Bollywood films glorify cheating on spouses

[@ashnaagarwal4825]

Oh yes of course Bollywood has started the trend of cheating in 19th century when Bollywood wasn't there then no partner cheated on their wives everyone was loyal isn't it

[@aditibisht22]

The one who cheats is to be held accountable.

[@rdv.3712]

Absolutely

[@cookie_monster_]

In my opinion, the blame lies on both the parties given that the other person was aware that his/her partner is already in a relationship or marriage.

[@CS-rp5yb]

Both are to be held accountable, as long as he didn't hide his married status.

[@monikakaushal3093]

sometimes they hide the marital relationship in disguise for widowers divorcee or separated. if they have hidden the status then the other parties cannot be blamed entirely. i have worked with NGO's there are some horror stories even we cannot sleep thru

[@cookie_monster_]

@@monikakaushal3093 Oh Lord! Also, are there NGO's giving help to people who had have gone through such deceiving?

[@dr.m6152]

No one is saying the other woman doesn't have a personality. I'm just against portrayal of cheating in general. Don't normalize it

[@wiseversa135]

Remember bajirao mastani.. how everyone thought(the movie showed) that love between bajirao and mastani was pure while kaashi(priyanka) was (shown) kinda evil It failed to show the struggle of kaashi

[@rdv.3712]

Their love wasnt pure at all.what if kaashi had done d Same with bajirao...people wd never let her live.. Such were d times.

[@cookie_monster_]

Exactly. It was shown as if everyone's a villain and Mastani is a pure soul. In true sense the heroine of the film was Kashi Bai.

[@loveshell007]

Kashi was portrayed as evil? I don't think so.

[@cookie_monster_]

@@loveshell007 wasn't talking about Kashi Bai's portrayal. It was a hyperbole. Don't remember much about the movie but as it was shown Kashi Bai mocking her as a 'kept woman', the attack on Mastani by Rao's son and if I'm not wrong Bajirao's mother was also included in it...all this was a little over the top and unhistorical.

[@kamnabasson8139]

Kings never loved there wives and what ever that is potrayed in the movies is more of fantasy and fiction, women were objectified and mistreated in that time ,we all r lucy and shouldn't fall for these false n fictional traps.

[@icecreqlrrt8854]

Zunebida is a cherry picked story where the wife approves of the alliance between her husband and the other women. The wife agrees with polygamy. But Most of the time, they try to convince the husband to leave the other women or divorce the men altogether. And yes, the other women is also human and it’s wrong to demonize them but you can’t root or like that person either. Not bcuz she’s a women but bcuz she’s a person who had a alliance with another married person. These 2 people are untrustworthy.

[@loveshell007]

I have seen the worst portrayal of the other woman in a Marathi serial called Aai Kuthey Kai Karte, which is the same story as Anupama. The other woman who started out as a reasonably likeable character turned increasingly shrill, crazy, disrespectful, and unlikeable as the story progressed while the cheating husband became milder and nicer.

[@Jia20046]

When did anirudh become nicer lol do you even watch the show...

[@tinklebell233]

One very important and evident point that u failed to highlight is that these women no matter the time, movie or era have failed to understand that love is not so temporary that it shifts from one to another so easily. If a person can choose someone else inspite of being married, he is not looking to be loved or love someone. He is looking for spice, passion and lust. Lust is something they(men) are not willing to do any sacrifice for (like leaving their wife ie grahlakshmi or their parents or their social status that cud be disturbed by the other women depending on the era ). So the "other women" should know this and accordingly either move out of the relationship or continue it depending on her needs. For eg in today's times relations wherein "no strings are attached" Exists. So clarity is very important. Since this video is only focussing on the women side, a women shud have full clarity as to why she wants a relationship with a married man and what cud be the consequences of it and what kind man he is that inspite of being married he is looking for romantic relations outside of marriage.

[@rishabhpant9471]

Watch me batting against pak💪

[@diyachakraborty4742]

Lovely video by Swaddle. Really liked the take. I've been enamored with the film since I watched it for the first time as a child. Happy to see it focused upon.

[@sulaganabiswas]

I loved Karisma in fiza and zubeida, particularly zubeida. Agree with your analysis. Also feel how patriarchy destroyed an artiste's life. Karisma was at the peak of her powers when she married and left her profession. Her marriage and comeback film were disasters. I hope she gets a good film. Bcoz although we live in a patriarchal society where a woman's youth matters more than her acting talent, Karisma is a fine artiste.

[@JIYASINGH14]

I think this whole situation that arises here in India is also because in our country divorce is a very very big deal like if you're not happy in your married life you can either sort out the problem or get a divorce it may be heart breaking for the other partner if he or she was fully devoted but instead of playing with their emotion its better like that. but since it's a big deal people don't actually consider it happening and do these things behind their back. And the other partner also doesn't opts for a divorce even after all this because if its a he then maybe for him this might not be a big deal but if it's a she it's huge because if a woman in our country gets the tag of a divorcee her reputation gets really down in the society and in some cases their parents also refuse to accept her and she gets to hear ki "apne Pati ko kabu me rakhna chahiye tha na!!!!" "Aadmi hai aisa to karenge hi to bhaag ke thode hi aate hai" "shaadi me to problems aati rehti hai" blah blah blah But I think its high time now that we make this thing normal as the "youth" and even if we find our parents talking about someone it's time that we speak up and explain this to them politely they might not understand this at first that how's divorce justified and all but we have atleast try. Note:- I SAID THIS FOR ALL THE GENDERS NOT JUST SPECIFICALLY MEN BECAUSE THEIR ARE MANY WOMENS ALSO WHO CHEAT ON THEIR HUSBANDS OR PARTNERS.

[@PrantikaJagannath]

You should have included Padmavat and Bajirao-Mastani in other woman narrative.

[@tanvi1121]

Yes

[@thechuckleshow2470]

They were set in times when marrying many women was legitimate.

[@aartisingh8033]

Didn't understand it. The other woman fought until she get her legitimate right of what...? Is that union between man and other waman was legitimate at first place?

[@rakeshawasthi6337]

More of such videos plz.!!! This format rocks!!!!

[@b_03_rohinibhattacharyya32]

One of my absolute favourite films. Well done!❤

[@kyara1835]

Imagine in Zubeda story, both women dumb the dude and fell in love with each other. That would be funny 😂

[@ashar8100]

I don't understand, so is it permissible to have relation while marriage? Is it not immoral?

[@proudfeminist3889]

No ,it's not .... As long as both the partners are ok , both can have relationships outside marriage ... Not everyone wants to follow your patriarchal marriage relationship

[@JohnBrown-wv5lz]

Bhai feminists ' morals ' ko 5 saal pehle hi bhul gaye the

[@pragyaraj3925]

@@proudfeminist3889 ya...true..but plss...not when one partner is immensely in love....plss....i support ur statement..but not in all cases..... betraying is not okay ..that's wht i wanna say....

[@idkwhatagah7193]

@@pragyaraj3925they mean open marriage

[@idkwhatagah7193]

@@pragyaraj3925 betraying anyone under normal marriage is literally shattering someone's trust

[@monisha4239]

Once again, Great job Swaddle👏👏👏💯

[@SM-dm8oo]

Moral of the video: If you are to be a home wrecker, be a good home wrecker.

[@mayankgoud9503]

bs

[@ittsanaa]

they both are equally responsible for their affair. If the woman knows about the man's marital/relationship status, she should stay away. She might not have any commitments but she does have a moral character.

[@spicybrown75]

Nope more blame is on the married person aka the husband in this case.

[@anjalisartistry870]

Even in k drama.. asian dramas of India and Korea are almost the same... But zubeeida is good....

[@happyblink4615]

Finally someone said it

[@bhumika0890]

Now dont normalize the 2 women men plz don't

[@bhumika0890]

@Spell Check Ui did and u don't like it

[@amitasingh1211]

No one is. zubaida is still a homewrecker and is at fault but this video shows that your thought process changes about someone depending upon who is the one narrating it. It is also to shows how hindi cenima fails to depict the main fault made by the man by cheating in the first place and instead pits women against each other to stir up drama. The female protagonist and the general public always blame the other woman instead of holding BOTH her and the man at fault.

[@ohanaakhter2670]

@@amitasingh1211 that's really true, the other woman is just as guilty as the married man.

[@amitasingh1211]

@@ohanaakhter2670 yeah if she is aware of the fact that he us already committed.

[@Tanya-du2cw]

The best movie in this regard is the other woman.. they just show the wen teaming up and taking revenge in the man. Awesome.

[@Supriya100kar]

This is the only video of swaddle least liked by me. The other woman or a man is just 'other person'.. 🤷‍♀️ When all you need is a man's attention for your survival, you are actually doomed.

[@cookie_monster_]

Agreed.

[@beingsaee]

Wanting to love and be loved shouldn't be considered pathetic. Its human to want those things.

[@solallate1141]

Other woman stereotype blame on Indian TV shows

[@rashmipoddar8568]

You Cannot compare Zubeida to other Other Woman stories. Please do not generalise. Every woman's story is different. Here in Zubeida, the first wife is okay about the polygamous situation and takes the backseat. Please do not preach when you cannot. Peace.

[@jonron3805]

"Zubeidaa" is a true story. So its not really a factious portrayal. Even in Amar Prem they showed the other woman in a decent way. Swaddle needs to do better research to claim that its a new portrayal.

[@Trentz2]

Swaddle research is done by a drunk kid

[@sb723]

I recommend watching kosem sultan... its a turkish drama. there women or say Sulatanas plot against each other to get all the power.. because there's only one king but so many queens. so to protect their sons they play games. there's a constant competition of whose the king's fav.. so this explains constant competition. people blame the women for all the chaos in the kingdom and says if a women runs a kingdom its doomed... but ignore the fact that they are the victims who were forcefully bought there to be king's objects for his entertainment and produce sons. and so the women see him as their only saviour and try there best to keep him happy. one more thing the queens who were besties in real life were shown as rivals who hate each other. This show opened my eyes on how strong and intelligent women are and should be portrait. There's no one right or wrong or moral or immoral. Just people struggling to secure there future.

[@beingfithumane]

Simran Bhardwaj, sirf yes or no. Itna saara likhne ki jarurat kya he??😇☮️🅰️

[@faizaakter1456]

I just started watching magnificent century 2 days ago and now I saw this recommendation

[@beingfithumane]

@@faizaakter1456 , how about you?? I am recommending myself to you. Yes or No.

[@beingfithumane]

@@Nithya_Srivastava , aaisa kutch nahi.. Sirf yes or no puch raha hu. 😇☮️🅰️

[@sb723]

@Ip centuries old hypocrisy 😒👏

[@kamalikatalukdar6070]

I first watched Zubeida on world movies channel . I absolutely loved it . I was shocked to discover it was a flop back in the day . Like wtf 🤡.

[@somalichakraborty484]

Indians love tony caccad. So you can assume Indian taste.

[@avishkajha7g709]

Because this movie was way ahead of time

[@meaculpa5563]

In this movie the second wife knew that man is already married but still choose to marry him. No sympathy to such woman but more than her its the husband to be blamed. Although this film is about the era when bigamy among royals was a normal thing but it's always the cheating partner who should be blamed more rather than his or her companion in cheating.

[@jenab3560]

Whatever... dont pursue married people, men or women.

[@harshithargowda9893]

One of the best videos of swaddle

[@bebaaak]

The title reminded me of Zubeida in Churails

[@supriyasaha8996]

Why women fall for a man who is already married? I don't find it respected. If you love someone who is married, tell him to divorce his wife, then you both can be in relationship. I find this "other women" concept totally disgusting. In other terms it call cheating.

[@Ksykuu375]

I completely agree. You're not only disrespecting YOURSELF by being a sidechick, but also the woman he is married to.

[@durvanaik7012]

You shouldn't love a married person. Periodt

[@ranadilxyz6849]

I wish they would run some old films, missed zubaida, just watched the posters longingly, every time i passed the cinema hall.

[@somalichakraborty484]

Well I really appreciate your critical thinking in this video. Nicely portrayed.

[@rhythmsharma9538]

i agree that in Bollywood movies wife would be begging for man's love in case of an extra marital affair but here its not about other woman or other man, an extra marital affair is extra marital affair! married partner cheating on the spouse as well as another person (man or woman) involved knowing nothing worthwhile can come from such relationship are to be blamed, that is the premise of marriage that you are committed to someone ... but in case of extra marital affairs ironically adults behave in compulsive and immature way

[@Dobbyisfree000]

One of them always leaves or DIES

[@anahita_sachdev]

Brb going to go watch this movie

[@nopenopepoppop]

also 'we are family' amazing movvies

[@sohit7706]

Watch Kiera Knightley Pride & Prejudice... Great movie... It gives other great narrative

[@peppermintdior]

need to watch 'Zubeidaa' now

[@emanansari]

Best Example is Anupma 😆😆😅😅

[@kritikaprasad2410]

being mahaan and being good both are different anupamaa says she is not mahaan but she is!! and also she is dumb. first when i started watching it it was all god but then she started living in the same roof as her ex. i mean why doesnot she have any self respect. 2- this woman despite listeing to all taunts from her ex MIL stays quiet.why

[@Peupeu_]

What did the narrator tried to say? Please someone explain

[@aniketmishra5607]

Zubeidaa is a must watch for everyone

[@ohanaakhter2670]

I just feel bad that men who have mistresses have the most devoted wife.

[@Solararisa]

Fight for love and respect... From a married man? That doesn't make any sense. He explicitly told her he only saw her as an entertainment. She was never going to be loved or respected by him. A man who cheats, will never respect either of the women in his life.

[@reginageorgetownuni]

I loved Rekha's performance in Zubeida. She's a great actress but she outdid herself! And of course Karishma Kapoor was incredible

[@mimis.5139]

Need to watch this movie

[@sasikalasreeram1861]

Please talk about the tamil movie Aval Appidithan [She is like that ]1978 Ita wonderful film .

[@creamyhora4005]

Good job #Swaddle! Keep the good work up 👍🏻👍🏻

[@proudbetamalefeminist4769]

You go girl!

[@jasmineofdecember1324]

Wow!

[@tamilmeninist]

Breaking what Stereotype alone, is proving what is convenient is called gender/feminist politics. 'Break Stereotype in sexual rights & justify Stereotype in sexual crimes'

[@ad8447]

Im a feminist.. But you are right . Feminism these days are leaning towards making women un accountable for anything. Its like everything a woman do is justified. Feminism is about sisterhood. We should not snatch another sister's man. Feminism is not about establishing that women can do anything with no accountability.

[@tamilmeninist]

@@ad8447 //Feminism these days are ...Feminism is not about ...// On Religion, Caste, Race, Culture, ... ideology this is common stand among themselves. A Hindu, Hinduism these days are ...Hinduism is not about ...[Real Hindu is] ... Communist , Communism these days are ...Communism is not about ...[Real Communist is] A good cop, bad cop routine,[Doesn't both be playing, but the department employing the each one as per convenient] is the technique used in these preaching

[@tamilmeninist]

@@ad8447 A good cop, bad cop routine,[Doesn't both be playing, but the department employing the each one as per convenient] is the technique used in these preaching A good cop ideology won't be an issue for bad cop to do his way of policing, A bad cop ideology won't be an issue for good cop to do his way of policing, Though contrary, both will be deployed to server for the department need Let feminist's conclude, What is feminism is & is not among them, Meninism will encounter that consolidated one. before that it's about legal, Hard-coded gender identity in sexual crime law of India & procedure as 'gender prostitution of men for women' Let's make gender/sexual laws into gender neutral & legally book, shame, abuse, castrate, kill women criminals as much as men; Then these lecture/preaching of what is feminism is about & menininsm is about will have real meaning

[@tamilmeninist]

@@ad8447 //But you are right . Feminism these days are "X"// By agree with men, you state that i said something as you stated in "X"? 'what i said' is in my comment, Hope you agree to that, I Neither agree Nor disagree about "X", i take it as your statement.

[@tamilmeninist]

@@ad8447 //Im a feminist..// Your rights to express as a feminist, To me, here, it doesn't matter than what you express. apart from this comment, i encounter [two Europe form of feminism, at the evolution] feminism itself, because i am encountering gynoncetrism itself, where feminism just a today's form of gynoncetric nature. "Feminism a tip of the iceberg called gynoncetrism" (Human Rights)Humanism + feminineX = (Women rights)Feminism (Human Rights)Humanism + masculineY = (Men rights)Meninism What justify to add feminineX with human rights the same itself justify masculineY [Gender theory of relativity]

[@beingfithumane]

Rashmi Zha, no bhai, no bahen. why dating app Or matrimonial sites?? Why not on You Tube?? I want to break the sterotype of Dating App and Matrimonial sites. Rahi baat "Yes" Or "No" ki, future se itna darogi to present me kya khak jiyogi. 😇☮️🅰️

[@jenifamp8652]

Plz make a video on " The Great Indian kitchen".

[@syzygy_of_stars]

Anyone had Chinese Palace Dramas playing inside their mind as the video played?

[@s.vaishnavi9599]

I actually want to watch the complete film but couldn't find it anywhere Can you tell where it might be available?

[@CancerDepartmentFeminismWing]

In Municipality sewage

[@s.vaishnavi9599]

@@CancerDepartmentFeminismWing REALLY OH I THINK YOU ARE MISTAKEN UDDHAR TOH WE FIND SALMAN KHAN'S MOVIES Vahi dekh ke yahaan aaye hoge Right ☺️👍

[@CancerDepartmentFeminismWing]

@@s.vaishnavi9599 No. I found out workers were dumping that movie "OTHER WOMAN" in municipality sewage

[@s.vaishnavi9599]

@@CancerDepartmentFeminismWing why so much hatred against something Like your profile name also is something to laugh at Why 🤣

[@CancerDepartmentFeminismWing]

@@s.vaishnavi9599 If you want to watch that movie, then you can definitely check that out on your nearest sewage areas.

[@nybbg43]

This video made me watch the movie

[@bhumika0890]

Just to see the hero happy no just for his sexual need ak second women's is a second women and other women's are just like a sexual need just that

[@bhumika0890]

@@cristatus514 it's mens need see that gril is wrong but whoes mote wrong the men who cheating his wife his wife as no fault she loves him alot to not leave is she leave she can take his half of money property and all allegations will ruin his husband as a person but she don't want that she wants love

[@showwick6546]

Both the cheating husband and the other woman are equally bad, is it even right to patronize these wrongdoings?

[@snehaghosh4132]

Gonna watch Zubeida now 😍. Thank you Swaddle 💞

[@sulaganabiswas]

It's a good movie...maybe not shyam benegal's finest but definitely good. Had great moments. Edit: Ankur, Mandi and Bhumika are my favourite Benegal movies. Can't imagine Ankur was Shabana's debut. Searing talent. And Mandi in my opinion is Shabana's best performance and Bhumika is Smita's best.

[@snehaghosh4132]

@@sulaganabiswas thank you 😍

[@shipraabrol7059]

Even Arjun had 2 wives , draupadi has 5 husbands ,so it's ok

[@bharatjiodedra4891]

👌

[@anavisa7492]

You guys must also include serials. The 'other women' is always protrayed as a selfish gold digger who has seduced a man to take him away from his family. It always dipicts the womens shaming each other.

[@sarvani11]

Every story is based on some plot inspired from the real life.... This real life is real because some one has lived that life... Now calling it a stereotype is disrespect .... Stories unfold in the backdrop of a social thinking generated over years of experiments and experiences.... They lived it like that.. Now standing in 21 century, where everything is well established, people call those stories stereotypes... Pls try to stand in their shoes... Go to that time zone... Take their experiences... Then decide....

[@parusahu6961]

Kahna kya chahte ho

[@SK28th]

❤

[@virginiaharvey]

Spouse can be couples can be insecure people are.

[@caelusclasses9722]

Very nice you must do more more NEW videos

[@stutichutani7931]

I didn't get the video. Did it glorify extramarital affairs? Also did it completely ignore the fact that adultery is identified as a crime in India?

[@Annsu2017]

Exactly. I was disappointed for the first time by swaddle. That they are glorifying extramarital affair... (And I did not understand the point where the so-called 'other woman' stole the husband. Dude like your husband is not a 2-year old kid who could be manipulated and stolen... He's a grown-ass man..who know what he's doing and willingly cheated on you, accept that fact, and get hell out of that relationship ) 🤷‍♀️

[@beingfithumane]

@@cristatus514 , Joseph Shaine Vs Union of India.

[@pragyaraj3925]

@@cristatus514 ya it's the same way...how sometimes rich people 🤑 marry beautiful gold diggers...ignoring the fact that they are "GOLD DIGGERS"....and just noticing that they are "BEAUTIFUL".....same way dear....☺️

[@Annsu2017]

@@cristatus514 dude.. I think at the end of the day.. When two humans are in any type of relationship like marital, sexual,for children, money,mental or polygamous... One should have complete clarity on what they are expecting from their partner... For ex- as you said if a woman is only with her husband for money, she has no right to expect his loyalty to her. End of story🤷‍♀️

[@pragyaraj3925]

@@cristatus514 a women asked God to turn her irresistible to men...god turned her beautiful 🙏

[@priyadarshni2116]

So I wrote something much before having watched this video. Mera gussa iss "raw writing" m male pe zada phoota, but usko thora-sa society pe bhi daal sakte hn. Par choddo... What is society? Talking about the individuals making that society is more important. Toh meine uss hisaab se express kiye the apne raw emotions... Here we go:

[@priyadarshni2116]

Iss story k through m kuch kehna chahti hun. Shayad ye mera niji gussa hai "against men". Yes, "AGAINST MEN". Mein na pak chuki hun apne life mein "kamzor mard" dekh-dekh ke, kyunki shayad inhi ki kamzori ki wajah se ... par shayad inhein chunte aur badhawa bhi "ham"(foolish ladkiyan) hi deti hn. So like one example is whenever we see an extra-marital affair, ya koi relationship m hone k baad b cheating karra hai... लांछन ekdum se "bahar wali" pe jaata h, that she is बदजलन/home-breaker. Arey toh ladka kaunsa home-saver tha. Aur home-maker(andarwali) bhi bewakoof rahi hogi. Nahi? Firstly, galti dono ladkiyon ki hn. Bahar wali ki galti ye h ki despite knowing he is cheating another girl, by loving or keeping an affair with such a man, you are only encouraging this behaviour... of course, he is not yours either. He will treat you also like an option for someone else. Aur kam-se-kam ek wo "sisterhood" toh nibhao.... with the other girl. Reject that guy, don't surrender to him, no matter how much you are in need of love, or you sense his need of love. That's Me. At least, that's what I would do. Mein "sisterhood" nibhaungi. If I come across such a man, I won't surrender to my feelings... the face of another woman, who is foolish and so-called "love" this guy, will not let me proceed in love or anything with such a man. I will look down upon this guy, @nd will just kick him. I won't steal her bf, no matter my level of attraction. Moreover he won't be a real man. I like real man. So he is not my man. Secondly, coming to the man. Weak toh ye ladka hi hai. Aur aurat agar ye jaante hue bhi chooses to love him, ab kya hi bolun mein... But I toh don't encourage weak men and their weakness. "First become a real man then come to me... kahin ni jaari m." - That should be the right attitude according to me. Now look in what ways he is weak. Wo ladki jo uspe trust karti h, ya usko karne de rhi h engagement with others... for whatever reasons, this man should go and face her ki "bhyi mein nhi hun iss layak", or "just don't invest too much on me emotionally", or "don't give me too much headspace, kyunki mera headspace dusri ladki/lust ne occupy kar rakha hai." I mean, send her away. Keep her away from you. And it takes courage. Because you boy are also dependent on that girl you are in relationship with, which is why you don't leave her. Secondly, the one you are having affair with... it's a two-sided thing, right? Par zamana sawal sirf Miss Benare s par hi uthayega, ki isne chalaya jaadu, isne phansaya jaante hue bhi that he is in a relationship with some else... so now the man must come out in support of that second girl. I know, tum poochoge ki teer ladki pe chalenge, toh isme kya samajhdaari hai ki ladka apna seena taan k khada ho jaaye uspe teer lene k liye? Isme samajhdaari toh pata nhi, par isme.. courage and strength zaroor hai. Kyunki ladke p toh vesse bhi nhi chalenge zamane ke kataksh ke teer. Wo toh "player" h. "Men will be men".... Par ladka aisa nhi karega. Because only a "real man" will do that, and agar wo real man hota, toh pehli baat, uska zameer/uski antaraatma, usse allow na karti to betray the first girl who was mad in love with him. Ditch such weak men. Shayad m bohot unkind hun. Mere liye aasaan h, kyunki m heartless bhi hun, but see my heart thought about the first girl. But for weakness(not exactly man), I don't pardon that. I don't pardon weakness in men. Wrong. I don't pardon weakness. Right. Not needed, but still saying, I am not anti-men. I am pro-strength, pro-love. I am not saying it's 100% right. As I am missing a man's perspective on it. Weak men usually don't give perspectives. (They just say - Ye toh feminist h, and just move on. )

[@coconutdimples6509]

This movie is based on the real life story of zubeidaa begum so this is actually the realistic portrayal of a relationship involving other women. Stop demanding every craft to send social messages and themes that's not how real life is.

[@kdjoshi726]

Ah, yes, the love triangle shit. I hate it.

[@jannatulmahii]

Once a cheater, Always a cheater

[@moonpearl4711]

seriously are you trying to dignify a woman who goes after a man who is in a relationship or married? Surely the man is characterless and should be dumped by the woman, but the woman who tried to seduce him or ask him out is just as morally lacking, characterless and utterly shameless.

[@icecreqlrrt8854]

in the name of feminism There trying to justify the bad choices of person just cuz there a women. Being in a relationship with a married person is shameful. Whether is be for a men or women

[@moonpearl4711]

@@icecreqlrrt8854 exactly , I feel like this is the main reason so many people misunderstand the essence of feminism itself.

[@evelynjohn2175]

They say every women should be treated equally.But then how can they justify the pain and humiliation of one woman (wife) caused by another woman and man , in the name of feminism . Just like patriarchy supports the wife, belitting the other woman , the so called feminist usually supports other woman and disregard the emotional turmoil of wife. A person has to be respected on the basis of his or her actions. When you deliberately pursue a married man , knowing he has a family, is CHEATING.No amount of feminism is going to change that . And if some one dosent like cheaters , why blame them??.

[@Kiiiiiiiie]

Non of you guys even got what this video was about at all, did you?

[@icecreqlrrt8854]

@@Kiiiiiiiie nope, explain? Yeah we shouldn’t demonize the other women but how can they justify her actions either?

[@sutanukaadhya1401]

Na munna na..not bcz she "does not wear uske naam ka sindoor" but bcz the wife is LEGALLY married to the man..you cannot give legitimacy to something which is not legitimate or legal

[@daipavandhar4802]

That was very interesting.

[@chandrakalanilgar5478]

Nice

[@anjalisartistry870]

In American movies like mean girls too , it is the same...

[@aditibisht22]

Dude Aaron didn't cheat on Cady

[@rashmibharti5786]

So, you are encouraging extramarital affair? I doubt you would think about the other woman if it happens to you

[@DesiBTS-Army1999]

This is what we have come to. Teaching eachother to be lowest person, date married men and keep fighting, like a person with no respect, for his attention. Disgraceful. Learn some self respect and stop with the bullshit.

[@manu_the_malayali]

Bajirao Mastani Padmavati

[@Captainiman]

Marriage by far is an extremely overrated patriarchal institution .

[@shamakhan9932]

Are u guys out of ur senses u r really supporting the home wreckers???🙄😑men are disgusting when they cheat but atleast women should support a woman if women cared about the feelings of the wife the wife would be more happy i hv no idea how do such ppl both men and women live without guilt. The other woman herself won’t want the situation she creates tbh but still does it too selfish. The moment u understand he is a married man u should step back the other woman should atleast use some sort of sense that if he can cheat his wife he can cheat the other woman too

[@bhinitrout539]

I don't get it why glorification of a woman who tries to get involved with a married man. A man or woman who tries to get involved with other people, ignoring the commitment of relationship are some shitty ass people.

[@shubhbirla5500]

Monogamy in Hindu marriage act is introduced in 1955 which is legitimised by Bollywood on purpose please do the same blame game which you do in every other video of yours to feel victimized. If you feel offended then you must be offended because every one has bais In topic such as gender which you see it treating your gender as discouraged and less privileged by this I don't discredit male privilege.

[@shamakhan9932]

Plz don’t degrade the feminists who r working on women encouragement in right ways . U r foolishly telling it is ok to fall in love with a married man let’s see if something happens in ur situation will u be like it’s ok even she needs her share of love n bullshit no u wouldn’t do it nonsense

[@CancerDepartmentFeminismWing]

NO MARRIAGE = NO ALIMONY 😘😘😆

[@beingfithumane]

Rahen do. Tum aurato se "Other Man" nahi hoga. 😇☮️🅰️

[@Nisha_Bhatnagar]

If a man wants to marry another woman, he marries for her body.

[@beingfithumane]

@@Nisha_Bhatnagar , sirf yes Or no. Body, money etc. etc. No other discussion. 😇☮️

[@Nisha_Bhatnagar]

@@beingfithumane No

[@beingfithumane]

@@Nisha_Bhatnagar , that's good answer. Only 'No'. 😇☮️🅰️

[@beingfithumane]

@Spell Check , muje sirf yes or no ka answer chahiye. Example gaya bhad me. Haaaaaaaaa ya Naaaaaaaa. 😇☮️🅰️

[@beingfithumane]

Muje married woman ka other husband hona he. 😇☮️🅰️

[@beingfithumane]

Vo bhi Hindu Married Woman ka Other Man. 😇☮️🅰️

[@beingfithumane]

@@Malika_Kaur , equality.

[@beingfithumane]

@@Malika_Kaur , vaise Muslim ya Christian married woman bhi chalegi kyunki unke kisi bhi body part pe kisi bhi religion ka thappa nahi hoga. 😇☮️🅰️

[@JohnBrown-wv5lz]

Now I know why feminism is called cancer

[@beingfithumane]

@@Malika_Kaur , saval mat pucho, tum married ho to tum bhi chalogi. Sirf Ha ya Na kaho. 😇☮️🅰️