Bride Surprises Fiancé Announcing She Wants Two Dresses & He's Paying | Say Yes To The Dress

The bride brings her fiancé to her appointment and surprises him by wanting to shop for not one, but two wedding dresses, and he will be the one to pay the bill!
From season 12 episode 13.
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[@Intothemythicalworld]

A bride should always respect the person paying. If the dream dress is over budget, then you should pay the difference.

[@ellenmason3833]

I did hear her offer to pay for the reception dress, but I doubt he made her follow through. And I think it’s total BS she could pay for it herself, but I would love see the look on her face if he held her to it 😈🤣

[@Intothemythicalworld]

@@ellenmason3833 wouldn’t that have been priceless😂 I was just saying that he was expecting her to respect the budget and only get one dress. Surprising him with that and having him pay for two dresses is kind of rude. Plus it didn’t seem to me like she was genuine in saying she would pay for it. It sounded a lot like she was guilting him into agreeing to two dresses. If someone is paying for the dress either respect the budget or pay the difference. I would never go over budget if my mom paid for the dress. But if the dress was slightly over, I would pay the difference no questions asked.

[@ellenmason3833]

@@Intothemythicalworld 💯

[@allisonjames2923]

Exactly!

[@allisonjames2923]

@@Intothemythicalworld And to the surprise of pretty much no one, she didn’t even wear the 1st dress. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time kzbin.info/www/bejne/i4u9mqiirthmick I personally don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding anyway. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself, or discuss with whoever is paying in advance a budget that will accommodate two dresses so they’re not put on the spot like this poor guy! And if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.

[@vintiago]

This young woman was so disrespectful to her husband to be in assuming she could have anything she wanted at his expense. She blindsided him on the show in front of the world to see which was in my opinion was cruel. He agreed to her demand to save himself really. I think she figured he had a long sports career and money would keep rolling in but that isn’t always the case. She should have paid for the reception dress herself since she said he was paying for the wedding dress in the beginning.

[@a.madden]

certainly wasn't a long sports career, he barely played two seasons according to his Wikipedia and now works as a loan officer: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ricardo_Silva_(American_football)

[@TV-el6uj]

So maybe she did pay for the reception dress. Who cares?

[@maryamalfayed223]

You are absolutely correct on this one! 😡

[@ms.diva2u22]

That's why it's called, Not For Long.

[@kp4911]

@@TV-el6uj Because it's about respect and how we treat people. Waylaying your future partner and manipulating him on a TV show without his knowledge is not a good sign for a successful marriage. I just read in another comment that they are now divorced. It's not surprising when one watches this interaction.

[@Grace-sm9yf]

I understand that a wedding happens once in a lifetime so it has to be perfect and memorable in a good way, but the bride was wrong to make the decision of buying two dresses without telling and agreeing with her fiance. Communication is extremely important in marriage.

[@only1Franque]

The fact that she says that she always gets her way. You can tell she runs the relationship.. Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sammylee5474]

It was giving wayyy too many red flags with her constantly saying "He's my best friend"

[@jscho8674]

Another commenter said they aren't together anymore, per his Instagram. Not surprising!!!

[@L.Spencer]

Looking at the wedding pictures it she's in the same dress to cut the cake, so maybe she didn't get the other dress after all.

[@allisonjames2923]

@@L.Spencer I’m sure she got it but I bet she didn’t wear it! Not flashy enough for her. It seemed to me that she got it just to prove she could because it wasn’t actually flattering in my opinion

[@hoponop]

Very sad to watch. This woman is so disrespectful to her husband-to-be. To so flagrantly disregard his stated budget and to revel in her belief that she "always gets what she wants" is simply awful.

[@kristinschaffer2698]

Gold digger

[@HippyMiMi]

Wonder how long the marriage will last too. He needs a prenup to.

[@caseys6872]

They get divorced and he married someone else. She didn't even wear the 2nd dress at the wedding Reception from the looks of it.

[@HippyMiMi]

@@caseys6872 they are divorced already?

[@caseys6872]

@@HippyMiMi yep. You can search his name on instagram and he's got a different wife and 2 kids now.

[@dakotaromero6319]

His face when she said “get over the fact that I’m wearing 2 different dresses. Dude I would’ve walked out right then and there and called off the wedding

[@emsnewssupkis6453]

They aren't married.🤪

[@AnniCarlsson]

So she not allowed to choose her own clothes and must do as her husband to be allow her to dress? She said I pay fornit myself. She is allowed to have more dresses is she want to without he must approv it

[@elithluxe7568]

@@emsnewssupkis6453 divorced I believe

[@terricunningham6810]

I hear ya

[@joannadechenne6368]

RIGHT?!?

[@theposhmaniac5169]

It's obvious that this is not the way to start off a marriage! She just wants to play dress-up using his wallet. I feel sorry for him.

[@suzannesenser607]

Well said!

[@localoca1313]

They're not even together anymore. Now he is married to a girl named Chelsea Silva (Dunn).

[@macy6012]

@@localoca1313 dang

[@innerlight4601]

She was ready to pay it herself also he didn't seem to mind so why are you all upset ??? 🙄

[@lisahenriquez6143]

Still married and he is a high school math teacher.

[@smritichandra3372]

The way she keeps on saying, "I always get my way with him ." , says a lot about the relationship dynamic they have .

[@alexiagiannopoulos5018]

Yeah. It’s sad. She clearly doesn’t care about her fiancé.

[@rachelmm05]

Yep no marriage can last when it's based off of manipulation and with them for what you can get from them. If he wasn't a NFL player I wonder if she would even be with him🤷‍♀️

[@shonaroan5065]

no clue how people behave like this in public, its totally embarrassing....she put her fiancé in a tough spot and tried to make him feel bad...she was totally crass and she was not even aware of it....

[@heavensqueen7143]

Oh no she was aware of it, she know she can do it because he don't have a backbone to speak up

[@allisonjames2923]

And she had the delusion to use the word classy in reference to herself in the dress lol. Nothing classy about that gold digger at all!

[@allisonjames2923]

@@heavensqueen7143 Yup. He should have just said no. But I get that it’s hard to do when you’re a semi-celeb on a TV show. Pride will make people do silly things. Shame as he seems a hell of a lot nicer than her!

[@allisonjames2923]

And she didn’t even wear the 1st dress in the end. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time kzbin.info/www/bejne/i4u9mqiirthmick No surprise that they’re divorced too. Hope he didn’t lose everything to her!

[@hennarusi9841]

@@allisonjames2923 I've been reading your comments here and I absolutely agree with every one of them.

[@FlashintheBand86]

I love how her friend says he loves the dresses, but he isn't paying for it. If she wants two dresses she should pay for at least one if them. The fiancé was really put on the spot.

[@allisonjames2923]

And she didn’t give a toss what anyone else thought anyway. Barely even gave them a chance to comment from what was shown. Hopefully they just cut all that out 🤷‍♀️

[@honey_lovely777]

In my country we have 2 marriage events. One frome fiance, her family and their friends, and second from groom. So we have 2 wedding dresses, and girls buy dress for her side event by herself. Sorry for my English)

[@karaaliea7577]

She said "I'll pay for it"

[@allisonjames2923]

@@karaaliea7577 She also said he was going to pay for it & just had to put up with that 🤷‍♀️ She also said she’d pay for it once & didn’t push that at all, while she kept telling him repeatedly that he’d pay for it & then bragged about how she knew she’d get what she wanted from him.

[@adoreivette7373]

She offered to pay for it even thoughtshe went by it the wrong way

[@handcraftingwithtraceyann3]

SELFISH! SELFISH! clearly there's no respect or boundaries. The man said 5000, you want reception dress. Girl look, keep the first dress and save that 4600, be financially responsible.

[@TV-el6uj]

It's her wedding day.

[@handcraftingwithtraceyann3]

@@TV-el6uj that was never the contention... Clearly she doesn't respect his budget...and then spend his money without discussing. And the first dress she comes out in is 10k... And in front the whole world what a slap in the face #disrespectful #noexcuse #SELFISH!

[@luckylibra6131]

She doesn't think she has to be financially responsible she is marrying a football player that's why she acts like that

[@luckylibra6131]

@@TV-el6uj why do people keep saying it's her wedding day. It's their wedding day and his opinion matters if not then marry the dress not the man

[@allisonjames2923]

Absolutely agree with you. She didn’t even wear the 1st dress in the end. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time kzbin.info/www/bejne/i4u9mqiirthmick I don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding anyway. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself, or discuss with whoever is paying in advance a budget that will accommodate two dresses so they’re not put on the spot like this poor guy! And if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.

[@cw-s3582]

We start off with Bride talking about what an exemplary young man her fiance is: then totally rolls right over him. Frankly I feel great empathy for this young man. Anyone out there have any updates on this couple? I'm feeling like I already know without a crystal ball. Very sad. Groom seems like a real gentleman.

[@emsnewssupkis6453]

No marriage, no crazy female. He ran.

[@jesseb.semple6018]

@@emsnewssupkis6453 Did he really?

[@terrybear5398]

@@emsnewssupkis6453 I hope so!

[@themishashow8811]

checked her FB, has cute babies now but i didn’t see any pics of the hubby

[@themishashow8811]

went a lil more deep , they’re not together & she doesn’t have her children either

[@MsAngelique]

How to ruin a marriage: Step 1.

[@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja]

Yaps. Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.

[@ruesamz]

I'd reconsider the whole marriage altogether.. you can't just do that. communication is key if you are in a relationship otherwise you're going nowhere!

[@starsgoboom6]

They aren't together anymore

[@amandahilliard6642]

Sorry that's selfish. Weddings are expensive and pushing budgets for vanity is stupid.

[@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja]

True! Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.

[@ladyjustice1474]

@@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja really? Explain that to the countries that force under age little girl's in to marriage against their will.

[@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja]

@@ladyjustice1474 I have volunteered to advocate for the issue in my hometown country for years, actually.

[@allisonjames2923]

@@ladyjustice1474 Like in the US? ”Child marriage is currently legal in 44 states (only Delaware, Minnesota, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, and Rhode Island have set the minimum age at 18 and eliminated all exceptions), and 20 U.S. states do not require any minimum age for marriage, with a parental or judicial waiver. Nearly 300,000 minors, under age 18, were legally married in the U.S. between 2000 and 2018, this study found. A few were as young as 10, though nearly all were age 16 or 17. Most were girls wed to adult men an average of four years older. Child marriage - or marriage before age 18 - is dangerous. Even at age 16 or 17, regardless of spousal age difference, child marriage: 1. Can easily be forced marriage, since minors have limited legal rights with which to escape an unwanted marriage (typically they are not even allowed to file for divorce); 2. Is a human rights abuse that produces devastating, lifelong repercussions for American girls, destroying their health, education, economic opportunities and quality of life; and 3. Undermines statutory r*pe laws, often covering up what would otherwise be considered a s3x crime. Some 60,000 marriages since 2000 occurred at an age or spousal age difference that should have been considered a s3x crime. “ From: US Child Marriage Problem Study Findings Apr 2021

[@allisonjames2923]

@@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja I hope that you’re making progress too. It’s such an horrendous issue that basically legalises pa3dophilia or abuse of children & should never happen in any country.

[@ginalawson5612]

Totally discounting your partner is not the way to be. There’s a difference between spoiled and selfish

[@soso4169]

Run, boy, run! You still have time! The shock all over that poor man's face was hard to watch.

[@sbg22]

And run he did , he isn’t with her anymore

[@Bakergirl86]

YES!!!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jinilinee]

@@sbg22 really!!???

[@leslie-annjones5321]

He was totally shocked when she said she wanted two different dresses, totally blindsided him. She was wrong to put him a that position,I really pray that they work out and she matures

[@almaeclu]

According to other comments, they divorced and the groom is now married to a gal named Chelsea.

[@zaine1384]

@@almaeclu hallelujah

[@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja]

Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.

[@cindy844]

Apparently not!🤣🤣🤣

[@almohvn33]

OMG... did you not hit it on the head!!!!!!!!!!!!! And SEXUALLY!!!! LOL

[@GodsOath_com]

Um, not

[@ladyjustice1474]

Tell that to countries where under age girls are forced into marriage.

[@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja]

@@ladyjustice1474 I have volunteered to advocate that in my hometown country for years, actually.

[@ella7225]

Since she offered to pay for the reception dress, I would let her! Especially since she didn’t tell him!

[@valerieponce3015]

I really feel she just said that to manipulate him into buying it. Possibly embarrass him in front of the other people, “I have the means since you don’t” kind of thing. Really horrible tactic that his future life partner has.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

@@valerieponce3015At least she offered. Most spoiled brats don’t even offer.

[@deciderof8848]

I love this Bride consultant: I can be anywhere price wise too… oh god She made a superb counterattack

[@Quantum36911]

Yes, Christiane is bomb, New York attitude at its finest!

[@katherinehalliwell]

This is just wrong on so many levels. Buying dresses past the fiancés budget is just selfish and mean. Communication is the base of a good and healthy relationship and she ruined that. The way she said she gets what she wants irritated me. She's like a spoiled child.

[@allisonjames2923]

Lol. She IS a spoiled child! She either came from a family that brought her up to be like that or she grew up hating what they were & decided to use men to get what she wants. Really really dislike this kind of person

[@horseman4now]

She's not LIKE a spoiled child; she IS one.

[@fjp9]

1:46 that shouldn’t be a conflict. you should pull $5000 and under. if you pull dresses over a person’s budget then you are just greedy and trying to get a person to spend more. while a good sales person should consider sales, they should also consider their customers budgets and wishes.

[@nidhiraina1109]

Her fiance is in complete shock, if she is not adjusting with her fiance budget n emotions.hw can she adjust wd him whole life.

[@ruesamz]

Exactly

[@drummerlovesbookworm9738]

It won’t last. The whole world can see it. He should rrrrruuuuuuuunnnnn.

[@jessicamarie8299]

@@drummerlovesbookworm9738 It didn’t last they are no longer together

[@lilibetmargaret]

I feel for this young man. He needs a companion who is on his side and encouraging and supportive. He does not need a gold digger. Such a shame.

[@gabsie7224]

When she said "I'll buy it" he should have said "Great!".

[@samarahraffat9922]

Omg, the ceremony gown she chose is drop-dead gorgeous. The other one doesn't compare at all. Why does she even need it? Lol. She should have just worn that gorgeous dress for both ceremonies. In my opinion the money spent on that other dress was a waste, especially since he stated $5000 max IN THE BEGINNING!!!

[@robinkershen1054]

I was thinnking the exact same thing - the show stopper dress (last one) should've been worn from ceremony to reception - it would be a disgrace to take it off for the other gown... She needs to respect her husband and not think she can get everything she wants - be a little more grateful!!

[@allisonjames2923]

Bet she doesn’t even wear the reception dress in the end. Or that she buys another more flashy dress for the reception. And we must have very different taste as I wouldn’t call this dress gorgeous in a million years lol.

[@jh115]

@@allisonjames2923 Exactly my thoughts- she won't want to change but will want to milk it, after all, you only really get to use it for one day :)

[@allisonjames2923]

@@jh115 Yup. Found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time kzbin.info/www/bejne/i4u9mqiirthmick And I’m with you. I don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself! But if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.

[@Quantum36911]

This comment exactly! Why would she want to take off that drop-dead gorgeous dress and put on another one, not quite as perfect, for her reception?? And spend way over budget for it? Makes no sense.

[@iyanubanks100]

Honestly if I was the bride, I would get a 2 in 1 dress. An attached fancy ball gown skirt for the ceremony and on the inside, a refined mermaid bottom for the reception 😵‍💫

[@allisonjames2923]

I bet she didn’t even wear the second dress or that she bought a far more showy 3rd dress she ended up wearing. I suspect she bought the first one just to prove she could! Hopefully I’m wrong. This chick really made me mad with her disgusting attitude.

[@allisonjames2923]

Yup. Just as I predicted - She didn’t even wear the 1st dress. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time kzbin.info/www/bejne/i4u9mqiirthmick At least she didn’t seem to buy a 3rd dress too though 🤷‍♀️

[@iyanubanks100]

@@allisonjames2923 bruh. What a waste of money🤣 (Sorry but I found this funny when I typed this)

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I can get 4 different dresses for a fraction of the cost of one of these overpriced dresses. They are expensive and ugly.

[@nikkijones5648]

MASSIVE RED FLAG when your partner doesn't appreciate your money!!!!!!

[@jenniferbond7073]

Of she appreciates his money all right, spending it. But I get what you are saying.

[@nikkijones5648]

@@jenniferbond7073 well they are divorced now I bet you her behavior was a factor in that

[@gillb9733]

Dude, marry someone who cares about you.

[@dixiechicken2643]

"This is a real big conflict for me, should I stick to the $5,000 or under or should I pull more expensive dresses." She says this immediately after the person who has to pay for it says $5,000 max., no question mark. I'm sorry but I find this disgusting, Too money hungry for me, I'm tired of it.

[@Guernsey576]

Agreed. That would put me off ever visiting the shop.

[@witchdragonfly2586]

" 10 that's not bad right?" 😱 Put a down payment on a car or house instead. I can't stand these brides that bully everyone into going severely over budget.

[@claireconway9959]

she is an entitled!! doesnt deserve that man/ I feel so sorry for him marrying that woman

[@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja]

Yaps. Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.

[@locketpop3851]

They still together and this was in 2014 I don’t know how he puts up with her

[@jessicamarie8299]

@@locketpop3851 They are no longer together he is now married to someone else

[@BlackBellyDanceCandy]

Why would a consultant ask if she should go over, it's disrespectful and I see them do this all the time. I would not marry how inconsiderate and disrespectful she was....

[@AllysonKing]

It’s probably for tv drama but I absolutely agree

[@BlackBellyDanceCandy]

@@AllysonKing They do this all the time, don't ask my budget if you can't commit to it.

[@AllysonKing]

@@BlackBellyDanceCandy I’m agreeing with you lol but I’m saying they might be telling the consultants to do that for tv drama is reality shows aren’t real

[@ladyjustice1474]

The bride's behavior tells me she's out of touch with the Cost Of Living. IF Her Fiance end up with a career ending injury, she's going to "think" budget all right, all the way to the divorce lawyer. Hope the groom had her sign a prenup.

[@kyliepechler]

Spot on.

[@milisarkar9749]

This Bride is Nothing But A Massive Headache 🙄 & her Pushing Behaviour is just Intolerable too ☹

[@allisonjames2923]

Why do so many brides think that the guests at their wedding are desperate to see them half (or more) naked? This isn’t the worst flasher wedding dress I’ve seen by any means, but it’s just a trend I really don’t get. Wouldn’t it be more satisfying to get the gasps from appreciation of a stunning dress that looks amazing on you rather than because you’re flashing your guests?

[@elithluxe7568]

Yeah it’s such an ugly look. Not even sexy anymore but pure trashy. I actually hate these extreme low cut dresses like at least the cut could be a bit higher and not right below the hip where it looks weird

[@crystalheart9]

Seeing her showing through the dress ruined the look of the dress. I though I was the only one who thought it looked awful.

[@xeecstasy3183]

They don’t think they think their guest are desperate to see them half naked. They have the right to wear whatever, and no one has any right to judge anyone based on how they dress. Honestly don’t think it’s really pretty and honestly if you have nothing nice to say don’t say it at all. Too much Negativity is really bad.

[@jessicamarie8299]

@@xeecstasy3183 First of all we can say whatever we want!

[@jessicamarie8299]

@@xeecstasy3183 stay in your lane beach!

[@kyliepechler]

I feel sorry for her husband, but he caved into her demand to buy two dresses too easily. So it will be his fault when she starts over-spending during their marriage, because he has shown her that she can get her way when he is paying, from the very beginning.

[@AmberTris]

Don't feel sorry for him. He knows his limits and they are still married after 8 years.

[@arianam6430]

No. If she overspends in their relationship, it is HER fault. It's his responsibility to speak up if he has a problem with it

[@luckylibra6131]

@@AmberTris and he is not a football player like she hoped and probably miserable because she is obviously materialistic

[@jscho8674]

@@AmberTris Another commenter said they are not together any more, per his Instagram. I didn't look myself so, so who knows.

[@juliannapietraskiewicz9349]

yeah, I just looked at his Instagram and it seems he's married to someone else, with 2 kids.

[@cynthia1015]

If I was her husband-to-be, this would be the moment I said no to the wedding.

[@theprousteffect9717]

This dynamic has been going on for years, so it doesn't seem to be bothering him that much, or he was raised to think it's his "job" as the man.

[@jessicamarie8299]

@@theprousteffect9717 Well I just read they are no longer together he filed for divorce and remarried to a Larina.

[@aec9174]

I felt so sorry for the groom - the poor guy looked like a deer in the headlights when she dropped the news that she was getting TWO dresses, and HE was paying for them!!

[@NighDarke]

He needs to rethink this marriage. She just showed him what she's REALLY about. He needs to believe her. Once they're married it'll only get worse

[@Waffles84]

I would never do my guy like that. Taking advantage of him like that. Just not right. Just because he is an NFL player and has money doesn’t mean you need to spend money 💴 like that.

[@sarahdee374]

ooh, nothing triggers me more than a spoiled, entitled bride who expects someone else to give her what she wants! This man is in for a lot of temper tantrums and manipulation.

[@siadara8874]

Why is he even marrying her? I hope this is heavily scripted

[@YT4Me57]

On August 1, 2013, the Detroit Lions released Silva. He joined Teach for America in 2014. Ricardo and Whytnee married in 2014 and she wore her wedding dress during the reception as well. I'm thinking that the two later had a conversation about that second dress.

[@avafisser3800]

They divorced and he is now married to Chelsea Dunn

[@leilaan9344]

@@avafisser3800 damn lol

[@megc25]

The way she said "I'll pay for it". Such manipulation. She knew he would say he would pay for it.

[@holovoid3306]

Did anybody else just not appreciate the, "Don't cry, you're boy" moment? He was being so sweet! 😩

[@aries8597]

She was just playing with him. They’re besties.

[@shellykevinbaumgartner7612]

I don't understand why a person would want a reception dress as well. You get to wear that perfect wedding dress for one day. Why would you want to change into something else after the ceremony?

[@Jinglesbellez]

I get like a smaller more movable dress but not a SECOND wedding dress. That pet seemed weird.

[@ASMR4calmmoods]

To show off how much money of his she spent? 🫣

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

In the Asian culture, we wear 3-4 different dresses, but they are no where as expensive as this. My former friend spent only $900 on her white wedding dress, $200 for her reception dress, $150 for her Chinese dress and $500 for her Vietnamese dress. She got all of her outfits for a good price and they were all nice. You can get nice dresses for cheap.

[@josephinemiller4780]

They are no longer together. I wonder why 🤔 After his football career he taught geometry at a high school in Washington DC in 2014. He’s now a loan officer with a home mortgage company in the Baltimore, Maryland area (where he’s from) and is married to a girl named Chelsea and has 2 children with her. He and Chelsea were married in 2019. They’ve been together since at least 2015/2016 which is the year their first son was born. Chelsea, he, and his ex fiancé all 3 went to the same college in Hampton, VA.

[@hotrod66ify]

Then he wasn't married to Whitney for very long because they got married in 2014. LOL I guess we all predicted that.

[@ybshadyii4375]

She's too much already - Dude Run - A Football Salary is Not Long Lasting nor is his Body.... 👀😮🤨😖

[@juliam.mallen3181]

He seems so kind and down to earth.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Yes he deserves better.

[@wmijjministryshow2321]

Her fiancé’s face says a lot. 🫣🫣🫣🫣

[@AR-dm7ze]

Both of her dress choices are hideous AND she's delusional and disrespectful. The "reception dress" does not flatter her figure at all and the "wedding dress" is really bad with the very low see through corset.

[@samarahraffat9922]

The reception dress was indeed hideous, with that ugly, abruptly puffy bottom. I loved the wedding dress, though ❤️

[@Ready-ForTheEnd]

I love the reception dress. She does have a lil pooch stomach but that dress was very elegant. I HATE the wedding dress she chose. She should have wore the reception dress for the wedding and the cheap classless dress for the reception if anything.

[@frickmom]

I agree! The wedding dress is butt ugly & the reception dress is not flattering at all. Don't see much of a long marriage in her future!

[@AR-dm7ze]

@@frickmom I was thinking the very same thing. He seemed surprised by her attitude. I hope it woke him up.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I agree that both dresses are so ugly and overpriced. I can get 4-5 dresses for way cheaper and prettier.

[@samanthaparker5914]

If she’s so bothered about gettin an expensive dress, she should pay

[@allisonjames2923]

Especially when she didn’t even wear the first dress! kzbin.info/www/bejne/i4u9mqiirthmick shows she stayed in the glam dress all the way through

[@frasersgirl4383]

“I always get my way.” Good luck married to her.

[@rantingintothevoid]

If the comments below saying that they are now divorced are true , I’m very happy for this poor man. I know it’s hard to judge someone’s character off a clip on a reality show but this is not how to begin a marriage. She feel so entitled… If she wanted two dresses, she should’ve paid for it herself. This is absolutely so pathetic and she should be ashamed of herself.

[@margaretbrown5683]

I laugh at nonsense like this. Thirty one years ago I married a guy who didn’t have a dime to his name. We were both grad students. Thirty one years and 3 kids later, we are still going strong. I give this marriage two years, at most.

[@hotrod66ify]

They lasted a year I believe. He met his now wife a year after he married this one so...

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Or one year.. who can stand her!?

[@whomadethewordword5035]

How disturbing is it to hear a bride say “I always get what I want”. Time to grow up and face reality.

[@timak23LB]

These Pnina dresses are awful, they made her look cheap istead of being sexy as she deserves to be 🤦‍♀️

[@kyliepechler]

Totally agree. Sexy & see-through should be for the wedding night, not the wedding day when you are around your extended family, friends.

[@Herrera_70]

That last dress was so ugly omg 🤦‍♀

[@Ready-ForTheEnd]

@@kyliepechler And the children of friends and family. And possibly coworkers. It's just weird.

[@nriamond8010]

@@kyliepechler Yes! Sadly, see-through dresses or dresses with a VERY deep neckline are so trendy right now that it's difficult to find something else. There are lots of dresses I would not even wear to the beach, let alone in a church.

[@jessicamarie8299]

She’s not sexy tho she looks cheaps.

[@butterbeansc]

I googled Ricardo Silva to see if he was still playing. Unfortunately he had a very short career that ended in 2013. This episode must be old. According to Wikipedia, he’s now a loan officer for a mortgage company. The way she acted, I’m sure that she expected many years of a NFL salary. I hope that she’s matured and not continues to act like a spoiled child. Good news is that they’re still married!

[@nnekaotika5635]

Just saw she's a PhD fellow at University of Maryland as of 2021. She might be teaching there too.

[@aries8597]

Yes, this episode is old 2014. I found their wedding video too. kzbin.info/www/bejne/i4u9mqiirthmick

[@whatevergoesforme5129]

Someone said they are no longer together if you look at the guy's IG.

[@nnekaotika5635]

@@whatevergoesforme5129 I saw that too. The person said he's married to someone else. They had a child together but she still uses his name.

[@tonimcdowell9396]

They are not married anymore.. I just looked up his Instagram and he is married to a lady name Chelsea Silva and they have 2 kids together! So glad to see he is with someone else

[@kellysong2256]

People who say, "I always get what I want" are insufferable 🤮 This bride is obviously one of those awful people who walks all over others' feelings and opinions, because she's such a special little princess. I predict that this groom will come to his senses and divorce this spoiled brat...let's hope so, anyway

[@raenfairy]

What a great start to a marriage 'I have no choice.'

[@throughmyview8411]

Trust and respect are the bases of good marriage. Both these qualities are lacking in this bride.

[@fjp9]

$3400 for a dress or purse is fine if you can afford it. it might be cheap for some people, but it’s definitely not for many people. it sounds like she might be able to afford it on her own, but it also sounds like she spends his money… seems like she has some gold digger vibes but not at the same time. i hope they are actually happy together though.

[@sbg22]

They are no longer together ! I googled it after someone commented .

[@nevadag606]

I hate the consultant “I have a conflict, so I stick to the budget or do I go over?” YOU STICK TO THE BUDGET! Wtf??? If it’s not your money, don’t try to spend it!

[@whatevergoesforme5129]

The consultant was just like that bride.

[@nevadag606]

WHATEVER GOES FOR ME she definitely matched the energy of the bride, but when you hear the man who is paying for the dress look at you and say “5k, no question mark.” You as the consultant, should respect that, while still trying to make the bride happy. Maybeeee pulling a dress that’s 1-2k over MAYBE, not immediately putting the bride in a dress 2x the budget!

[@chinyereukoh9653]

They’re not together anymore. He has remarried and is happily living his best life. I’m not sure where Whytnee is, but I hope she is doing well.

[@caseydominick7806]

Where did you see,and hear that

[@tmoneybaby444]

Is everyone missing the part where she was willing to pay for the reception dress since they didn't talk about it. 🤔

[@alexdamico9258]

Thank you! I’ve been scrolling for like 20min and haven’t seen a single positive comment. Why’s everyone so angry today?!

[@mahimachoudhary1364]

She said she'll pay for the reception dress. So guys, RELAX!!!!

[@rochellemurrell4146]

I mean she said SHE was going to pay for the reception dress and the other dress that he was paying for was under budget🤷🏽‍♀️. Why is everyone’s panties in a bunch? It’s their money and if that’s how they want to spend it that’s on them. They also went to my alma mater so I’m giving them a pass 🙂.

[@sohailape]

i think you need to watch this video again.

[@rochellemurrell4146]

@@sohailape no I don’t think I do. She clearly said at 4:41 “I’ll buy it”. He was confused because he wasn’t aware that she wanted 2 dresses but she said she would pay for the reception dress.

[@whatevergoesforme5129]

I read a comment or two or three that they are no longer together, if you check the guy's IG.

[@JUMBOROBINSON4]

They said he was a free agent. Dude...you're not even married and she's already spending all this money to impress who? The second dress wasn't all that. Looks like the football career didn't work out. Last update I saw said he was working as a loan officer at a mortgage company. Glad he found a new career.

[@Rooted_Locs]

Man, if I was his momma, I’d be sad she’s treating my son like that.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I would be mad and tell him to think it over...

[@gooberbeans7972]

6:01 Bro realizing this is just the beginning😂

[@scooterbaby1]

Dude, RUN

[@kyliepechler]

I hope he has a pre-nup organized, as it is plainly obvious she is going to be irresponsible with money.

[@dahliassalvias7972]

the way she anounced out of nowhere she will be wearing 2 dressed and when he was surprised she got snappy with him. this ain't no way you treat your husband and the person who will be paying

[@sammylee5474]

It doesn't matter that she'd pay for it if he said no, she put him on the spot on national television and expected him to know she wanted to get 2 dresses.

[@madisonvanallen6784]

The poor dude! But his face after she walked back to the dressing room in the reception dress my boy looked like he saw a ghost😂😂

[@nicholelee1920]

This is an older episode..I would live to see where they are today..

[@stephanieyee9784]

Probably divorced.

[@Shmitty_A]

Not together anymore. He’s married to someone else and has 2 kids

[@caseydominick7806]

​@@Shmitty_Athey are still together

[@graceaxisa4213]

Her husband seems so reasonable, mature and respectful. She does not.

[@personalchefservicesofsues4362]

This girl has no idea how much damage her selfishness will cause long-term. Her disrespect for his hard earned money, her immature, "I always get what I want" attitude is alarming. She thinks it's cute. It's not. It's appalling. This guy should grab his wallet and run!!

[@boytvaddict]

A woman generally radiates beauty with kindness and so on. This woman does not.

[@TheMaxymama]

The 2nd dress she chose is hideous.

[@kyliepechler]

Looks cheap and tacky.

[@luvniley4ever]

I love Christiane she's my favorite consultant, "i can be anywhere pricewise too" she's really nice and sweet and great at her job, professional ❤

[@andydufresne5297]

This ep aired in 2014, the same year as Whytnee's marriage. It did not last long. They are divorced. He remarried in 2020. Whytnee did not end up wearing a second dress, BTW, from the pics I saw.

[@Rebekaaah]

I felt bad when he said he didn’t have a choice. Boy you do😔

[@jenniferwatkins2284]

This marriage isn't going to last. She's so disrespectful of him. Yes, he played in the NFL for 3 years. He's a teacher now.

[@figmo397]

I'd have worn the see-through dress at the reception and the opaque satin one for the ceremony, which is supposed to be more conservative.

[@dancingmeerkat2078]

Her very last statement is just so awkward to hear. “I feel like a princess, but a really really good princess who is worth a lot of money”. Having humility and staying humble will take you so much farther in life then feeling the need to display your so-called wealth.

[@marymarth7298]

The fiance looked so worried to the point he was thinking twice about this marriage.

[@jenellepemberton8430]

A wedding is one day save the money for your marriage.

[@user-ly8uj5ti2u]

I think there is trouble coming....her man seems so sweet, she should treat him better

[@pennylehrer1306]

Boy, is he in for a ride! 😊 She looks like Rhianna!!

[@Winner4HIM]

This groom should run! She’s money hungry and already showing no respect for him.

[@deciderof8848]

I feel sorry for the groom, He is a very sexy black boy. I’m sure This marriage does not last more than a few years…

[@whatevergoesforme5129]

You're right.

[@trayciepitcher3098]

He needs to run.She is already showing her true colors,which is clearly about money. Sad how she did him.

[@NghtMonster]

"He keeps trying to make me regular!" Excuse her. She's rude, obnoxious, entitled. It's not even a red flag anymore that's a damn bloody duvet!

[@rowenaramsaran4256]

Hey Ricardo, word of advice, Brother... Run!!!!! This is a preview of what marriage to her is going to be like. This isnt going to end well. LORD save him Please!!!!

[@pollyannaprinciple5860]

If she wants the extra dress, then her family should pay for it. If the fiance wants to put $5000 toward the dress, her family should make up the difference for the second dress. I thought couples were supposed to made decisions together. You don't surprise your fiancé with an added expense. Poor guy.

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

She said she would pay for it. So what is the problem? She noticed his face and said she would pay for it. He could always not pay for the dress.

[@pollyannaprinciple5860]

@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 Troll.

[@frasersgirl4383]

They aren’t still married. His Facebook page shows a different wife and two children. He’s also a successful realtor right now. Just an update.

[@SimplyPanda]

Omg I love how the staffs r always helping them out!

[@Justicia007]

Why is the salon totally disregarding the budget?? The guy clearly said nothing over five and it's a hard line and she comes out in a dress that costs 10.

[@peacefreedom4930]

He’s a sweetheart. I hope this marriage works out for him. She’s doing too much. There’s so many other things to spend money on outside of the dress. Yet she wants 2 dresses. He just wants her to be happy. I didn’t see her consideration of him at all.

[@kp4911]

They are divorced per his Instagram. He also only played two seasons, which makes me wonder if she bolted when the money ran out.

[@dakotaromero6319]

His face when she walked back to the room was funny he was like “what did I just do