Fiancé Calls Wedding Off But Bride Spent $11,000 On Dress! | Say Yes To The Dress

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Jennifer needs help finding a plus-size dress that isn’t too revealing. Meanwhile, Danielle needs advice on what to do with her gown after her fiancé calls the wedding off. #SayYesToTheDress #SayYesToTheDress
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[@leah__gail]

That’s the first time I’ve ever loved a fiancée being there. He’s precious and ADORES her!!! 😭😭😭🥰❤️🥰

[@penguinZ85]

I was going to write the same thing. I love that he cried.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Hopefully, she is good to him too. There is nothing wrong with your man being there.

[@haplessasshole9615]

They both absolutely _glow_ when they speak of each other. They also genuinely seem to like each other, enjoy one another's company, and support each other. If their dynamic throughout life is similar to what we see here in this vid (and I strongly suspect it is), they're going to have a long, happy marriage.

[@dreamsofturtles1828]

I give her credit for being filmed. Shes not the first girl to have this happen & will not be the last. Seeing this will make others feel less alone i think. I hope her life is going great now.

[@jb6712]

Episode is from 2008. She's had a very long time to heal and move on to better things.

[@BasicYTHandle]

@@jb6712 Two surprises for me: (1) I didn't hate the chosen Pnina gown (I normally find them ostentatious, gaudy & ugly) and (2) even in 2024, the chosen style is still current/classic.

[@DT-ml7ob]

😢😢 I went through that. Its an awful experience

[@jkhegarty857]

Hi readers & fans of SYTTD!! Danielle, the bride whose fiancée canceled their wedding, comes back a year or 2 later asking for alterations for the Pnina Tornai gown. Her current boyfriend proposed and they set a wedding date!! TLC videoed her getting out of the limo. She looked beautiful. I'm glad she had a happy ending. 😊 ❤

[@AFAskygoddess]

A year or two? Wow, that was fast.

[@SamanthaWilliams-ph6nb]

Thank you needed this update

[@Chocolateloaf-g5j]

@@AFAskygoddessif he’s the one fr fr then time doesn’t really matter, it’s all about your happiness

[@figmo397]

Thank you for sharing this!

[@beagledog2001]

The first woman: what a sweet fiance!

[@erinmcdanal8674]

The first bride, such a sweet fiancé! How precious!

[@M00Nature]

I am sad for the bride whose wedding was called off but also glad that she didn’t end up married to someone who does not treasure her. Maybe she could sell the dress if she decides not to use it?

[@gloryakiepper7918]

The called off wedding really sad she trusted a jerk. Great if you got married it would be worse. Doesn't this fall under breach of trust

[@alimccreery755]

I tried to do that because I had concerns and he begged me not to leave. I used my mother’s inheritance to pay for the wedding, honeymoon and buy a house and in the end he took me financially as well as abusing me physically. I did what was needed to get out of the marriage after 6 years. He even took my dog saying that we should keep the dogs together. I agreed because I didn’t want to get hit again.

[@jkhegarty857]

Hi Moon and other readers! There is a part 2 to the bride whose groom called off the wedding. The Bridal manager talked her into keeping the gown. A year or 2 later, the bride came back to Klienfelds for alterations because her current boyfriend proposed and they had a wedding date. 🎉 🥳 TLC even televised her, getting out of the limo, etc. So she used the gown and got married to someone who really loves her. ❤

[@gloryakiepper7918]

@@alimccreery755 He should be incarcerated. I believe your concerns were valid. I hope you live your best life from now on.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

It goes both ways so you wonder if it was her who was bad. I wonder why everyone jumps straight to blaming the guy and calling him a jerk? My cousin divorced after less than 2 years of marriage. They had a big wedding and spent over $100,000. Of course, my uncle and aunt blamed the guy. But my cousin was at fault too. She was high maintenance and he did not have much money. Bad combination right there. There are 2 sides to a coin.

[@kathymcfarland5516]

The first bride, Jennifer, chose a perfect dress! She looked FABULOUS! Her fiance' was so sweet! I hope they had a wonderful wedding and are living happily ever after!

[@maryannfelice148]

Jennifer and AJ are a lovely, sweet couple. He's so supportive, wanting to be sure she feels good about herself in whichever gown is chosen. Danielle has my vote for being so courageous. I'm sure when this initially happened, she wasn't that calm (and who could blame her!). Hope by now, some years later, Mr Right has arrived and is committed to making a sweet life together.

[@jkhegarty857]

Hi MaryAnn 👋! Yes, the bridal manager talked her into keeping the gown. A year or 2 later, the bride came back to Kleinfelds asking for alterations because her current boyfriend proposed to her. 🥳 🎉

[@annehersey9895]

The first one, Jennifer is so lucky! Her fiancé was all about her and so supportive! All his kinda negative comments were aimed at the dresses and not how they looked on her. He was excited to see her in every dress! He’s the best partner I’ve seen on this show!

[@Jelena2022]

The girl with the cancelled wedding was featured again on the show. She got married in this dress to her brother's best friend!!!!!! It was a happy story !!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️the dress looked gorgeous on her.

[@sookienata]

what episode is it?

[@MoniqueGamboa-jz6sk]

I think it’s a bit weird that she was engaged, the guy cancelled on her, and then the chick marries her brother’s best friend. Seems a bit Suss and I have a feeling that the husband knew there was something going on and left.

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

I love that first groom. So kind!

[@haplessasshole9615]

I loved his smile when he said people's reactions to her dress would "send her self-esteem through the roof." He sees her unique beauty, both in body and spirit, and genuinely wants her to see it, too. He was as radiant as she was! And Jennifer's mom seems to think the world of him. I admire their attitudes. Like, a lot.

[@maryclaremayo6157]

The first couple were the most normal, lovely human beings. The fiance was great, truly appreciative and enthusiastic, a real loving man. The dress was perfect for her. Congratulations to Jennifer Osorio and AJ Ramos!

[@user-vl8qw8hp1g]

Dropping $11K on a wedding dress? IF I were in her position, I would absolutely take the dress. You might as well. You've already invested the money, so it's your dress, wedding or not.

[@MsJubjubbird]

she's only paid the deposit. But that's still 60%

[@tigerfangirl7818]

A few years after this episode she came back to kleinfeld's to have the dress altered.She ended up wearing her dress when she got married

[@samanthac.349]

This is what my SIL did. Her first fiancé dumped her when her wedding dress was being altered. She kept the dress and promised herself that she’d wear it when she finally met the man who would stay by her side. A couple years later, she wore it to marry my brother. They’ve been through thick and thin, but they have been married more than a decade now.

[@repkap2]

I can’t imagine her NOT using the dress, it’s perfect on her and will be perfect for her future wedding!

[@Redipstick]

$11k for a wedding dress - why?

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Sadly some just want to show off when most people likely don’t even pay attention to what the bride wears. Second, some sadly think the dress is way more important than it should be.

[@shellL1622]

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj and happily some work very hard and can afford to pay for something they really like.

[@nahlabella4857]

He did you a favor, Danielle. The right man will come along.

[@bobbymenon4057]

Million times better to be single than be in an unhappy marriage..girl, you got lucky!!!

[@thepkism]

The man proposes - tricks the woman into thinking she found her man and then the same man calls it off? What an absolute waste of a man

[@stelladowsett7151]

We don’t know that happened. As I said in another comment, with a dress that expensive, maybe the wedding was becoming more important than the marriage.

[@Angela-Ruby]

That’s not a man to start. He was a cowardly boy.

[@leighlofgren]

Jennifer looked gorgeous and her fiancee was fantastic - best couple ever. Felt so badly for Danielle and am sure she'll one day wear that dress and be forever happy ever after.

[@jb6712]

"Gorgeous"?????? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@user-tl4ep9ob6s]

Yes. She looked beautiful. If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything. Her dress was perfect on her and her fiance loved it too. ❤

[@jennifernordhoff6478]

She did wear this dress. Her fiancé was amazing to her. She looked beautiful!!

[@AmberleySolheim]

That’s so sad 😭 I feel so bad for her

[@getawaycarstan_tv]

The first fiancé was the cutest and the most supportive

[@captainrachel]

The money lost on the dress is likely just the start. I imagine they'd also put down deposits for the location, photographer, flowers, etc. Yikes. Poor girl.

[@jb6712]

This episode is from 2008, so....

[@user-vl8qw8hp1g]

Exactly! That's the chance you take when you have your heart set on a big, blow-out wedding.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Why have so much sympathy for her? You truly wonder what happened. It takes 2 to tango.

[@Torifreuds]

I couldn't imagine what she was thinking and what was happening

[@figmo397]

The fiancé in the first couple was perfect. You can tell this couple is going to last. As for the second bride, I'm glad that she got engaged to someone else and was able to use that lovely dress!

[@n.e.fauser7927]

The first bride was A Vision!!! 🥰

[@avengernemesis7990]

The first couple were awesome. The fiance was just such a lovely devoted and supportive husband to be. They will have a great life together. The second girl- i admired her and she's a strong girl and i know she will find the right man in her life. Staff very respectful. Australia ❤ 🇦🇺

[@Rosie017]

In general even having the $$$ I couldn't let myself spend too much on a wedding dress. They're already so expensive I'm sorry to hear her engagement was called off 😢😢

[@calise.]

she was able to wear the dress 😊.. she came back later and got alterations on it for the new fiancée

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I agree and so much money on a one time gown is so wasteful. Your marriage doesn’t rely on it.

[@Dolphin-yp6el]

I was so worried the broken off wedding was the adorable first couple.

[@Ventibreeze123]

That first bride was absolutely stunning 😊

[@irenebaguma-zn8gh]

I love both brides, they seem really nice people and they chose lovely gowns.

[@Gabriellama911]

Is no one going to talk about them saying frustrated like that? 😂

[@mariem3429]

I noticed immediately 🤣 Was going to comment, but instead gave your comment a thumbs up

[@sweetz187]

So sad. I’d be livid

[@jenniferandbama1284]

If memory serves right she does eventually get married in the dress because they show her down in alterations getting the dress altered for her

[@RichardPennetti]

The gowns that the first bride tried on were hideous. Not sure if it was the budget or what.

[@mbyrd6713]

I’m almost at the point where I believe the person who calls off the wedding should have to pay for the damages they cause. I had someone get their dress and had to try and sell it after the wedding was called off. If a person knows that they aren’t ready, it’s not right to let the other person spend money for nothing.

[@RichardPennetti]

The second bride’s gown was beautiful. I know it was a lot of money. But. It was beautiful and you have to admit sometimes you get what you pay for.

[@karatekai6384]

If it didn’t work out well their is a reason, if she was blind sided, my guess another woman, look at it as a blessing ⭐️🙏⭐️ he is not the one for you , so salt over your shoulder, your moving on, to bigger and better things ❤💋❤

[@BasicYTHandle]

*you're moving on to bigger and better things

[@RideoutMr]

Someone better is in the wings....something to look forward to.

[@jb6712]

Yeah, considering the episode is from 2008, it's highly likely she met someone worthwhile, got married, and had children (or not--her call).

[@joywebster2678]

Somone above mentions her wedding 18 months later to new guy, wearing that dress.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@jb6712I bet her ex met someone more worthwhile too.

[@SamanthaWilliams-ph6nb]

Love Aj and Jennifer such a sweet couple. I hope they're doing well now

[@xxxx-qo9dh]

First bride looks amazing in that first dress and I am totally in love with each person in that party ❤ wish everybody the very best in life 🙏🏻

[@janececelia7448]

The first bride doesn't realize she has a lovely figure. The couple are so sweet together. The ex-fiancé should pay for the dress; he pulled out of the wedding not her. I hope she gets her happy ever after.

[@cathietonkin5577]

The first groom is how ALL grooms should be!!!! Show the love, support, kindness before the wedding….. and keep it coming! You both win!!!!

[@jemmaj2919]

The consultant was lovely in this episode, no bitchy attitude

[@hfdodson5942]

Love this supportive fiancée. He's certainly a keeper.

[@IronChefAwesome]

I always feell like the "plus size" brides kinda settle on a dress

[@kellicoffman8440]

They need Jo and Al they don’t let their plus size brides

[@maureentuohy8672]

The first bride is beautiful.

[@briyeatts7422]

Jennifer is so gorgeous, I’m so happy her appointment was overwhelmingly positive!

[@jemmaj2919]

Hope the second bride found the right guy for her, it's sad

[@Anna-fm7hh]

Maybe sad at that moment, but in the bigger picture it's much better than unhappy marriage and ugly divorce.

[@ushere5791]

i just want to hug both of these brides. just hug and love them both.

[@dietotaku]

that's why you don't spend FIVE FIGURES on a dress for ONE DAY. how does she know when the right man comes along that she'll even want to look at that dress again? many brides feel like their first wedding dress is inextricably tied to that first fiance, seeing the dress just brings back memories of him. she could end up planning an entirely different wedding that requires an entirely different look for her dress. she could end up eloping!

[@jessiejoseph1093]

It could have been worse. At least she did not marry the wrong person. A divorce would cost a lot of money, too.

[@peachygal4153]

@@jessiejoseph1093 $11,000 is a lot of money for most people. No one should spend that much. I read of parents in their 50's or 60's spending $50,00o plus on a wedding for their daughter and then having nothing saved for retirement. that does not even make sense. because guess what, if one of them become sill the daughter will have to financially support them. If you don't have it, don't spend it. I also read where one guy called off the wedding because he found out his fiancé spend $10,000 on a dress maxing out her credit card and he saw the future that she would keep them in debt. No, if you don't have the money buy a more modest gown of $2000 or less and only have only close family/friends at a small wedding at home.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly and the dress should not be the most important thing, but your marriage to a good man that you love. The marriage is important not the dress and wedding.

[@donnadrane4977]

The same thing happened to me. I put the dress in the closet and wore it when I met my husband. When my husband proposed I smiled inwardly cause I already had the dress!

[@BasicYTHandle]

I would never consider spending FOUR figures for a dress (plus alterations, veil, shoes, etc.) that I would wear for only a few hours!

[@VivianBlackburn-dk4rw]

On the last bride in this video I can fully understand the pain. I was with someone 2 solid years we got engaged and low and behold I was being played the whole relationship talk about breaking a person it sucked badly yet I thank God!! That it never turned into a rotten marriage to which would of been a disaster by far.

[@ger658]

I wonder if she had her happily ever after eventually ❤

[@DC-MarvelGirl1997]

She did. They revealed it in a later season that she went on to marry her brother's best friend and she still used that Pnina gown and still loved it after all that time. So she got her happy ending.

[@ger658]

@@DC-MarvelGirl1997 Thank you for the update. That's very nice to hear.

[@jb6712]

Episode is from 2008, so most likely--although I find that to be the most ridiculous phrase ever when it comes to marriage..."happily ever after"...pure lying nonsense.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@jb6712No, you can! In order to marry a good person, you need to be a good person too. I have seen happy marriages that lasted a lifetime and beyond.

[@angelaknebel4156]

Oh poor bride!!! I feel so sad for her!! 💜💜💜

[@nancymckinley3068]

Sweet fiancee. So supportive.

[@salkur3654]

She can sue the ex fiancé for half, it would be worth it.

[@cristierothweiler8791]

Or make him pay her back the whole amount.

[@jb6712]

The cost of the suit alone would override the lesser cost of the dress, and why should she sink to a trash level just because a viewer would? She took the high road, and since this episode is from 2008, she may well have worn that dress after all--I certainly would, it being nothing but a bunch of fabric, none of it being actually made of anything of the former fiance's.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Why? She was the one who wanted an expensive dress. Getting an expensive dress is not a requirement. This is one of the many reasons why you should not spend so much on a one day dress.

[@ozlemsuleyman9760]

Legally, she won't win the case.

[@slayermoon666]

I wanna hug her 😢…

[@texascrazydoglady190]

First couple is cute as can be! What a racket it is that they don't give the deposit back. They will just turn around and sell the dress to someone else. Making money on it twice. And all the comments about feeling SO sad for the second bride, how do you know, she isn't just is a nightmare of a person. She could be strung out on drugs, kicks puppies, sleeps around.

[@user-vl8qw8hp1g]

This particular dress was by Pnina Tornay. It's a designer dress, and it was probably custom made specifically for this bride. A dress like that is not the same as restocking a return at Walmart or Target.

[@texascrazydoglady190]

@user-vl8qw8hp1g I understand that. Let's say she decided not to take the dress. What happens to that 11K dress. You think they will just throw it away? No, they will find another bride, that will be happy with a one of a kind. They will get their money

[@BasicYTHandle]

@@texascrazydoglady190 It goes on the sale rack, where it will sell for far less than the original $11,000.

[@BasicYTHandle]

@@user-vl8qw8hp1g ALL dresses at the SYTTD shops are designer gowns that are custom made specifically for each bride.

[@texascrazydoglady190]

@BasicYTHandle I agree. But they will not lose any money, they already have the $6000 non-refundable deposit. I bet the discount on that particular dress will only be 10-15%.

[@zabindhanji]

I was so happy to see how supportive the fiance of the first bride was. He really wanted her to feel beautiful and secure within herself. As for the second bride, that is a very sad story. Spending $11K on a dress and then having the wedding cancelled, that's tough.

[@marybarger7583]

Wow, $11000. I wore my Mom's dress at my first wedding. Paid about $100 on my last wedding dress. I know some of these dresses cost more than that. I'd rather put the money towards a house that you'll enjoy for a long time and not on a dress you'll only wear for several hours. Pnina and Randy dresses are my favorites.

[@BasicYTHandle]

Randy's dresses: mostly yes. Pnina's gowns: ugh! - almost all (this was an exception) are ostentatious, gaudy & ugly.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@BasicYTHandleI agree and Pnina’s are overrated, overpriced and extremely ugly.

[@adiraodeda7962]

I have seen dresses altered and even dyed ( reurposed). Some even donate to people who make buriel garments for women whose babies pass in hospital from early delivery.

[@Eztliz]

Find you a man that looks at you the way the first guy looks at her…

[@user-fn5hx9bs4y]

they never want what they ARE to be seen 😅😂😂

[@dejayne8246]

Wow that first couple!! What a wonderful fiance. I hope it's all still going well for them 💝

[@donnadrane4977]

Danielle, put the gown in storage, and wear it when you find your next fiancé. That’s what I did. The dress did not go down the aisle so it isn’t bad luck.

[@annec6200]

@SayYestothedress, you need a follow-up for the the bride and her cancelled wedding because I believe, correct me if I’m wrong, you have a follow-up for her!!! 💍👰🏻‍♀️

[@janicewebber5584]

If the guy canceled, he ought to pay for the nonrefundable expenses the bride/family incurred.

[@ozlemsuleyman9760]

Legally, he is not obliged to pay. He is also entitled to his ring back. You can research about it.

[@boxesbinslidsllc]

$11,000 on a wedding dress. Never. You can plan a whole wedding for the price of the dress.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

A 10k wedding is difficult to pull off these days. Even a backyard wedding can be more than 10k because of all the stuff you need to buy.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@boxesbinslidsllc Yup and that was a third of my brothers’ weddings. My sister in law’s all rented their dresses and returned them right after the wedding. They all had sons too so no, they were never going to need to save for their daughters since they don’t have one.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@thehungrygoldfish You can if you want to keep it very simple.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Yes, keeping it very simple and limiting guests but if you want more of a traditional wedding with 100 plus guests, you’re looking at a lot more money.

[@trishspence60]

I need a follow up on Daniela!!

[@TG-fq6vy]

The first dress looks stunning on her

[@r.d.durfey5862]

My heart aches for the second bride. My dress was custom made, shoes and vail too. He did it all. Thing is I never even got to see the dress. He bailed on the day we were to leave for our wedding. He canceled everything, never even said goodbye to me. Emailed my son 2 words, I'm sorry......so I know how it feels.

[@D2J8]

It’s unfortunate that Kleinfield’s couldn’t give her some of the deposit back & sell the dress to someone else since it was never even worn.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

That is what they do when the bride decides to not keep the dress. Kleinfelds keeps the dress and tries to sell it to another bride at a deep discount. You have to keep in mind that the deposit can’t be refunded once it goes into production. It just can’t happen.

[@connieramsey6798]

Her fiancé was everything ❤❤❤

[@melissajones1564]

Than keep it for the next wedding to the right man

[@jb6712]

THEN...it isn't an "either/or" (than) situation, it's a timing element..."THEN"...

[@catwoman6559]

Spending 11k on just the dress is absolutely ridiculous.

[@ivonned32]

Hope first bride appreciates her fiance!

[@galacruse2318]

That drop waist Pnina was lovely

[@winterchild5841]

The second bride seems like a normal, kind, down-to-earth woman; I'm sorry for the let down; She is handling it well, and God will provide her a good man to match her qualities.

[@patakel]

The dress was perfect for her. She didn’t buy the dress just for the ex fiancé. She bought the dress because it looked beautiful on her and that’s the one she wanted to get married no matter who she was married. Good choice to keep it.

[@flowerpower3618]

The plus sized woman is gorgeous .

[@YaYaPaBla]

I love Danielle’s dress.

[@WatchingBadTV]

She said fiance not EX fiance. 😭

[@jb6712]

So why the blubbering emoji? This is from 2008, so the "emotion" is highly misplaced.

[@WatchingBadTV]

@@jb6712 I bet you're a ton of fun at parties. People under the age of 40 use emojis liberally to emphasize a point. Hope this helps.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@WatchingBadTVYou can use emojis at any age.

[@WatchingBadTV]

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj yes but people over 40 are the only ones who would call that a "blubbering" emoji and think it literally means I'm crying I would say maybe even over 50.

[@suepall5425]

Glad the guy left when he did. He was not to be trusted.

[@CherylWood-dd7zm]

that fiance is a forest of green flags.

[@obi-wankedogi]

$11,000 for a dress is insane to me.

[@ktwashere5637]

Ive said this before and I will say it again: WEDDING DESIGNERS!!!! SAMPLE SIZES NEED TO FIT PEOPLE THAT AREN'T EMACIATED MODELS.

[@barefootcontessa3112]

I hate the way Kleinfelds treats larger brides.

[@Me-fo1kk]

I'm with Joan. I bet there's a man who has a thing for her and he will step up.

[@alimccreery755]

The called off wedding maybe sad but we have not been given both sides to what really happened. It’s unfortunate that she spent that kind of money, I have been there and married the guy anyway only to be taken financially. Sometimes people have to really watch their backs before moving forward, I’ve already made all my biggest mistakes because of bad choices that I had no insight on due to being overly trusting and not taking the time to really get to know the person. My bad big time 👍👍

[@louiseroderick9910]

Is it just me that is so tired of all these bare necklines? And they must be so uncomfortable to wear because they keep having to be hoicked up.

[@Anonymousperson0904]

Well she gained a beautiful dress and was blessed by not having to marry a sicko.

[@thetowertarot13]

What a jerk he couldn’t cancel the wedding before she bought her dress?! You know he knew for a longtime that he wanted to break up with her. If I was her mother I would be livid with the man boy. I hope she kept the engagement ring 💍 to sell.

[@melissahoney8317]

This is supposed to be about her no not him

[@iceeirony]

I wonder if they would have agreed to give some of the money back with selling the dress. Probably not but I would have asked.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

If you forfeit the dress, Kleinfelds keeps the dress and sells it at a deep discount.

[@sandrataylor827]

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[@therealkittyjewel]

So sad

[@nadiabrstak5646]

"FAB"😊

[@stelladowsett7151]

We don’t know the reason the fiancé cancelled the wedding. Paying that much on a dress, makes you think it was going to be a full on wedding. Maybe the wedding was becoming more important than the marriage and the fiancé felt that. I’m not saying that was the reason, but better to cancel a wedding before than have a divorce after. Having said that, glad she has found someone else and got to wear the dress.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

If that was the case, then they would’ve eloped. He wouldn’t just break up with her just because of the wedding planning lol

[@stelladowsett7151]

@@thehungrygoldfish You kind of missed the point. I meant maybe there was more focus on the wedding (one day) as opposed to the marriage (which one hopes will last a lifetime). Perhaps the groom felt that and couldn’t see them as life partners. Obviously we don’t know why he made the decision that he did, but surely better to separate before the wedding, than get divorced.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

@@stelladowsett7151 I knew what the point was. My point was that if it was truly because of that, then they would’ve called the wedding off and had a smaller wedding. It wasn’t about the wedding. It was about the relationship.

[@stelladowsett7151]

@@thehungrygoldfish That’s exactly what I mean!!! Perhaps he felt she was more interested in having a wedding day, rather than being married. Two totally different things. One’s a big party - and the other maybe not so much. Still it’s all hypothetical, we don’t know. I was just trying to give a different perspective because some comments were negative towards the groom. Perhaps he was gay, perhaps he cheated, perhaps he fell out of love, whatever. Let’s just hope they are both happy. She’s had her wedding and worn her 11k dress and he’s???

[@thehungrygoldfish]

@@stelladowsett7151 No, that’s not what I meant. What I meant was the reason would’ve been related to the relationship, not the wedding. Also, keep in mind that a lot of people have big weddings not because the bride wanted it but because their families wanted it. You’re assuming a lot of things that we just don’t know. I know a lot of people who personally did not want a big wedding but they were forced by their parents.

[@toniconnor6380]

So sad😢

[@cathy7861]

Maybe trie on dresses with straps of some kind or put straps on the dresses she tried. Can give real support or even the illusion of support.

[@BasicYTHandle]

*try on

[@cathy7861]

@@BasicYTHandle Thank you for pointing out my spelling error. I'm usually much more careful.

[@TG-fq6vy]

The third one was just to satiny looking