Bright Light, Bright Light: 'Monogamy isn't normal' 👀

[@stationarywanderer7910]

Oh look, more stereotyping. No, we don't all sleep with our friends. Some of us have appropriate boundaries. and I'm in a 35 year monogamous relationship...demonizing our relationship is absurd.

[@mkoury83]

quite.

[@Clepticomet]

Wheres the part demonizing monogomy? I didnt catch it...

[@stationarywanderer7910]

@@Clepticomet Can you read?

[@MatthewRX]

I’ve never slept with a friend and I beg to differ that monogamy isn’t normal. It may not be right for all couples but it is for others and unfair to make a blanket statement.

[@davidsmarrt4049]

I haven’t slept with any of my friends, wtf is this 😂

[@drewl4043]

I love my boyfriend so much. Think monogamy works.

[@aliross2720]

Humans are pair bonding species. Fatherhood evolved because of monogamy, which was needed for our survival. The fact we feel romantic love and mate-guarding emotions like jealousy at all is not a coincidence..nothing is a coincidence in biology. Monogamy is natural in humans.

[@kanakapono]

New sub. Thanks for this. Bright Light Bright Light! Sounds like he is in a good head space. Chemistry with all three of you comes off naturally and relaxed. More of this please, keep up the good work.

[@RaymondNYC1]

I also mostly listen to porn w. the sound muted. (Though I like it when they're speaking Spanish lol) Monogamy worked for me & my ex-boyfriend. But generally speaking, I don't think there's a "normal." It's simply what feels right for you. I don't get sleeping w. friends - unless you're using the term "friend" to mean "friend with benefits," as opposed to an actual real friend.

[@TwinFalls88]

Saying "momogamy isnt normal" = just as bad & hurtful as saying "gay isnt normal"

[@TwinFalls88]

Thats kinda mean-spirited and sexist to say "monogamy isnt mormal"

[@andrewarredondo8003]

Have more sex. Open your hearts and enjoy yourselves and those around you. Personally, I am speaking from a place that is at least 25 years more experience than the men on this panel. The straights have to deal with the female factor and have a whole other list of issues that get in the way of having more sex and enjoying themselves.

[@stationarywanderer7910]

"Have more sex". Grow up.

[@kmarie7051]

A lot of people don't want a load a meaningless s*x with different people all the time, even many men..In fact males are more biologically wired to invest more into thing they have to work for We see courting behaviour in many different species...S*x can be much more fulfilling with someone you have strong feelings, emotional bond and know exactly what each other like...In my opinion the evidence supports us being a monogamous pair-bonding species. Looking at our species and what they naturally do generally is form relationships.Just because gays aren't attracted to females( which is not conducive for reproduction) they still have the basic biological feelings ands needs that most men and women have. They feel romantic love, they feel jealousy and attachments..they can bond(if they developed the capacity and aren't a pathological narcissist or psychopath).. Their brains just developed in a different direction(or pathway) that resulted in them being same-sex attracted. In-fact gays are more diverse in some ways because their brains are a patchwork of different gendered traits, some male-typical and other female-typical.

[@babyucon]

Yeah that's it! Just continue to be sleazy and sleep with the whole planet.