Bring Him In Close (Even If He's Pulled Away, Distant Or "Confused" Right Now) - With Rori Raye!

Learn the secrets to bringing a man closer than ever - even if he's pulled away, acting distant, "confused" about what he wants, or afraid of commitment - in this livestream with Rori Raye and Helena Hart.
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[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Here's where you can learn more about Rori's "Bring Him Close" Private Coaching Program: roriraye.ontraport.com/t?orid=11853&opid=21 Join Rori's Feminine Energy Workshop and get personalized help from her coaches here: roriraye.ontraport.com/t?orid=11853&opid=43 Join Rori's Siren Island Coaching Group here: roriraye.ontraport.com/t?orid=11853&opid=20

[@jazzmanagement]

Would love to join the morning coaching classes

[@Wendy-mh9dx]

❤❤❤❤

[@theservinggirl]

If he’s busy, you get busier 💪🏾

[@dianah.9905]

Yess!!!💯💯💯

[@lucybear5600]

But that sounds like you’re competing with him now. I don’t know if that’s going to be effective drawing him in.🤷🏻‍♀️

[@theservinggirl]

@@lucybear5600 it’s really just practicing taking my energy off of him and putting it back on to me. It’s focusing on me and that’s the best thing you can do in these kinds of situations. 💕

[@animationbox1]

And asking ourselves, why am I attracted to a busy man who has no time for me, what kind of beliefs does it reflect to me from within me.

[@PrincessSharifa434]

Yass!!!

[@MagicalCreature]

Ok, my mind got blown when Rori said: The whole job of a relationship is to trigger each other and help each other evolve into a higher place, a more conscious place. That's the job of relationship.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, I really liked that too! 💞

[@jjc2323]

I love this. It’s true if you think about it

[@delaneymonica6390]

I finally reached a place when he pulls away. I dont freak out . I'm at peace.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Awesome, I'm happy to hear that!

[@Voldemort-kx3sn]

Does he come back after pulling away ?

[@delaneymonica6390]

Not this time. .. but that's okay . I was more attatched to the idea than I was attracted to who he was as a person . It was a soul lesson . Now I'm practicing qauntam dating and I am speaking and seeing a few different guys .. I'm "practicing ". Its helping me feel more confident and realizing I can and deserve better. Sending love. ♡

[@mariafigueiredo5736]

What does he means he cares n wants to be in touch with me

[@margaretmiller4718]

@@mariafigueiredo5736 p

[@Layove803]

So basically be feminine, open loving but firm about what you want. Create distance, If he doesn't fill up your emotional cup. Share time where you can be filled up. Control your emotions get out of your head. Dig into your subconscious.

[@nitahudson5109]

Love this! I want to copy and paste it in my notes.

[@empathicpisces26]

Yep! Currently working on it as we speak! ♥️

[@funnygirlever]

Guys love feminine energy. 😅

[@whitneyangelie3682]

Whoa that’s crazy that she brought up the “moving through a chocolate vat to move slower” exercise. About 2 months ago I was listening to this band I used to love back in the day called Sublime and in this one song he’s singing about a girl he can’t get out of his head, but he can’t really figure out why, and he sings: “Maybe cuz she moves so slow...” and as I was listening to this it hit me. I ALWAYS find people (men and women) more attractive when they (literally) move more slowly in life. They lack that desperate, frenetic energy so many of us have today and seem so much more confidant and still within themselves. So I started trying to just slow down-slow down not just my movements but my breathing, my thinking, and it’s really kinda changed me from the inside out. Whenever I start getting all amped up I’ll just hum to myself: “Maybe cuz she moves so slooooww” lol and it takes me back in that calm place where I want to be.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I love this and completely agree, thanks so much for sharing Whitney! 💖

[@Cancer75]

Whitney Angelie I’m happy to have read this. I’m so OCD, I get on my own nerves. I have to slow down. I’m late for everything every day. I’m going crazy checking the house and vacuum cleaner marks. It’s bad. 😱🤯I act as if someone is going to come over while I’m gone and murder me when I return, if it’s not PERFECT!!

[@whitneyangelie3682]

QueeN B Oh girl I can so relate! I used to be bad in my OCD traits, having to do these little rituals for every damn thing and it was affecting my life in a bad way. I realized that I felt totally out of control in my mind (and in my life) so I was trying to control my surroundings instead (with excessive cleaning and excessive primping/working out). Anyway, I started practicing “mindfulness” and it’s helped me a lot. I learned how important it is to BREATHE, you gotta slow them beats down lol stop making your heart work overtime because it manifests in the brain as anxiety. I’ve learned that’s it’s literally impossible to feel anxious if you just breathe slowly and focus on the present moment ; it slows everything down, your entire nervous system included. It takes some practice to begin with to break old habits but after a while of working at it it will change your life.

[@Cancer75]

Whitney Angelie Aww thanks! I don’t know how to breathe my Apple Watch had to tell me to breathe. It’s getting worse and worse. I don’t think I own one thing that doesn’t have a bleach stain on it. I never sit down and just relax. I’ll find something to clean 😲🙄 I broke both ankles I’m May, June I had my surgery. Days later it was back to me cleaning. I wish it didn’t bother me like it does. Oh and in my car IF, I let you ride. You betta sit ya ass down and don’t touch shit!! 🤣🤣 Play like Elsa, be frozen til we get there!

[@kimgordon3695]

Hahahaha yes. We are centeredness

[@becs0331]

Thanks for this insight! I can testify that a marriage can come back together even after long separations. We have been separated for 5 years and after all this time, AND with VERY difficult circumstances, we are now reconnecting again. Building something new. I was always the dominant one before and that drove him away. With the help of God and learning to let go of the control, I am learning to be warmer and more feminine and letting him lead. It's SO much better. Miracles do happen! Trust God for the impossible!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, Rebecca! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I'm happy to hear that!

[@relayne6609]

Wow there' s a posibbilities to get bacj the exhusband after betraying. Then the most painful part. A girl who used him just to heal everything on his past. (its me) i loved the guy but he cant commit because i have son and he has also 2 kids. But i always questioning myself. Am i unworthy? Whats wrong with me that i only do is to love him more. After 3yrs weve been together he told me last night am a special friend only. And said sorry again. Thats easy to say sorry .after the confusion he brings to me.

[@victoriagates7960]

Praise Jesus!

[@lucyachieng3271]

Amen

[@adesuwaomoruyi2279]

Wow. Exactly what I'm facing right now. I messed up like a year ago and I have been alone. I truly love him that I can't let him off my thought since a year now. I can't wait to have him back because no relationship has worked for me since last year .

[@carieyounginsurance]

I love being a woman - when I was younger this was not the case - and now I realize I have so much power - it amazes me! when you know your power - you can rule your world!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely! I love what you said here, thanks for sharing! 💖

[@leesteal4458]

Teach me. Lol

[@user-ib5pp3zq3l]

I just did this he is not replying so i made clear i give him space and he replied we keep ourselves busy but the connection is there.

[@hope9672]

Omg..the power is in being feminine & the struggle is in being masculine. THIS is SO TRUE. I was chasing because whenever my husband is upset he leaves... but I've found now he tends to stay away longer... and now I'm just realizing I need to stop chasing. There were only a few times where I didn't chase where he came back to me on his own.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Hope! These videos might also be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nH61qpmhp5eBd5Y, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJyzgHywh9GgoK8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/gqKpYYSwlNOHibc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmPVmaaDg7atgbc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5vCdqRqhbhqitE.

[@saradyer9124]

I'm 61 and have fumbled through relationships without much of a clue. I've recently met a wonderful man and this broadcast couldn't have come at a better time. Fantastic advice, inspiration and enthusiasm. Thanks to both of you with much love, Sara. 💗🌹💗

[@justmusic1427]

Congrats! And thank you for sharing 🤗 I'm 58, and enjoying dating more than ever!

[@farhiafarah6954]

Farhiassmily 5 ever age is a number. I have group of my level.simple but From Islam this is the lokedand point.

[@reginal24]

You beat out every other woman when you are authentic with yourself! Amazing! I feel this in my soul. I've never been in competition and won't be.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you, Regina! 💖 Here are the latest two episodes I recorded with Rori if you’d like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6M.

[@reginal24]

Thank you. And yesssss I would love to watch them.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@EveningTV]

Just have to say i married an "easy going construction guy" and he turned out to be a sociopathic nightmare! All so called "chemistry". Wonderful nerdy phd tech husband now who wasn't my type at all! Now he's the sexiest guy on earth.

[@kylacrush6810]

Same!!! My ex was an electrician who would drunkenly rage text 200 messages in the span of a few hours!! My current BF is a brilliant Doctor & we have far more in common. Smart is incredibly sexy!!! It’s far better to be with a romantic than a hopeless romantic because that hopeless part will always be an issue.

[@ad6417]

My ex husband is a bluegrass musician and very rustic. I thought he had traditional values and was a good guy. He has NPD and I had to get a domestic violence protection order. There was physical chemistry and he's very macho. I recently met a a beta male who is very interesting to me. He's kinda scrawny but he's pursuing me slowly and steadily. And he's very respectful to me something my ex wasn't. I realize the danger I felt around him I mistook for attraction.

[@CosmicGlowUP]

This

[@brightpage1020]

Love Rori Raye! She helped me attract my husband like 10 years ago! Thank you, Rori!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, Rori is awesome! 💕

[@LaGataSolar]

You guys have just given me the green light to feel my emotions and become aware of my needs. And that it is OK to want what I want wether that man doesn’t want it. It’s about how I feel. I can’t believe how long I went on without knowing this stuff just floating around in limbo. It’s unreal. Thank you for the work you’re all doing it is so needed in this world

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m so happy to hear that! This livestream I did with Rori might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJSxhoqHh7R3la8

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[@melodietaulman4774]

Technology has changed the dating world. Both parties can hide behind their cell phones and or computers.

[@TheVonnie45]

This has made my.day, i was really about to break down and cried my eyes out last night i woke up to this is just phenomena. Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, Yvonne!

[@Sunny-cj5ic]

This was perfect! I’m 34 and inspired! Thank you ladies!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Dori! 💜

[@lovelee9315]

Honestly.. She brought me back to me. Thank you Helena! I watch you often this was my favorite. So intuitive and insightful Im on a cloud.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, I'm so happy to hear that!

[@sarahpittson]

Love Lee me too!! That’s where I started too♥️

[@americablessgod1273]

He wants to feel: Safe Loved Appreciated Respected Important Hero Admired Turn on (to you)

[@Smokillo]

America Bless God and vice versa

[@sophiedan5329]

Smokillo exactly!

[@esroskesafos3533]

These are normal and i wanna feel like this also :)

[@SamaC713]

Isn’t that true for anyone though?

[@maggymaybootlegger]

Great list!

[@sunshinedayz7032]

Rori is great! I bought her CDs 9 years ago. I learned so much! I am so happy to see her here and to learn that she has a channel on KZbin

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, Rori‘s work was life changing for me! Here’s another livestream we did together that you might enjoy: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJSxhoqHh7R3la8

[@dirtyunicorn8146]

I love what you said about being able to feel the energy even from afar

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely! 💞

[@valfle]

This is a bit long because I needed to write my thoughts down. I am still in the beginning of this video and already realized something about me. I had a very stressful year bc of work, then failed and now I try a second time. I fell in love with my best friend when this period started and at first he was all about me and improving himself/life/job so that I would fit into his life. He wanted to step up. I was powerful in the relationship then because I felt centered and happy with me and my life. Then the struggles at work started, I failed and now 1 1/2 years later the end of the struggle is near. But it completly changed our dynamic and I feel now powerless and dependent on him. He does what he wants and doesnt look too much after me anymore. He still loves me and all but my needs aren't met at all for a long time now. I just realized the reason being 15 min in the video. It is me and my inner struggles with my failure. Thank you for reading ♡

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I'm glad this helped give you some clarity!

[@elizabethdecatur1246]

Rori is one of the most amazing women I’ve ever listened to. She is truly changing so many lives. I am one of them...and it wasn’t until I found her, and read an online book of hers that I felt powerful. Feel so blessed to have such an amazing resource...and so beyond grateful for her work, and what she shares with the world in order to help women rise up! Brings me to tears sometimes! Was so excited to see an interview with her come up on your channel!! Thank you both for helping me to live a better life! ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Elizabeth! Rori’s work changed my life too, it’s an honor to have her on my channel! 💕

[@marytheresa1051]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Mahalo for all you do... this is the best KZbin I've heard ever on this subject

[@rosa629]

Elizabeth DeCatur me too...

[@andreanicolewatson8369]

So much of this I wished I learned growing up

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, this is something we hear ALL the time! ❤️

[@GwenMotoGirl]

Me too!

[@Angela-po7cr]

@@HelenaHartCoaching I feel my desire for this guy is so electricexcitinga reallydecent guy . I hope I get the chance toseeif weclick. I think his attitude is " wait a minute". For some reason

[@sophiedan5329]

Helena Hart YEEEEEESSSSS!!! Lol

[@aprilc1977]

Meeee tooooo!

[@kimgordon3695]

You do You & "you'll draw HIM in (w/ everyone else") lol 💝💝💝

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, love it! 💖

[@dialmstyle]

I’ve watched this many times, such great advice! I just love Rori’s essence: calm, feminine, confident, I hope to get there!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed this, Michelle! I agree, Rori is amazing! 💖

[@dialmstyle]

I have to change my words to say, “I am there, strong, feminine, calm, confident!

[@rosarosafaerie]

with her fem manners, slow and sweet talking and with her well shaped tools, wowww I'm a big big fan of Rori now :)) She is the best I have ever seen as a love coach.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Rori is amazing! I’ll be doing another livestream with her this Thursday at 6:00pm Eastern Time on how to transform anger into love. 💞

[@elishachante6773]

You women are all divine! I love you my sisters & our sacred energy ✨

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes!! Love it, Elisha! ❤️

[@deewils381]

💝💝💝

[@eveallusion]

I didn’t want this to end. She’s amazing!! Wow

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

She certainly is! I’ll definitely bring her back on! 💕

[@frankiefranfraser]

I highly recommend Rori's programmes. Is like magic. Even for me that has been in the darkest of worthless places. I am worthy of love. I will get there. I am now practicing on HIGH VALUE HIGH STANDARDS men 😁😁😁😁😁💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 What I want from a man...I will have and get. Loads of abundance 😁😁😁😍💖💖💖💖💖

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I love what you said here, thanks for sharing! I agree that Rori's programs are amazing, they've been life changing for me as well.

[@frankiefranfraser]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you 😁😍💖💖💖💖💖

[@VanySays]

"expanding and filling up your repertoire... ".... best words i have ever heard

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@megja1812]

Holy this lady is wise and has a unique ability to communicate stuff ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, Rori is amazing! 💖

[@phanda7877]

Enjoyed the insight. Please clear up my confusion: 1. It may takes 2 years for a confused man to come out of the fog 2. Rori waited one year for her man 3. Yet, in the end of this session, the question of how long to wait for him, she stated “zero”. Is this term “wait” to mean continue doing oneself while circular dating, gathering data as the Siren, discarding what doesn’t work, exploring and practicing “warmth and distance” as some sort of “in the meantime” experience? Planning to get back on this journey and am truly excited! Thank you again for bringing this interview with Rori! I learned so much from you both.

[@MissSarahGM]

I also find it confusing.

[@metanoiahealingarts4871]

It’s about the internal energetic state. If you circular date it helps keep your energy off the guy you really like while he works his wounding out. You should not “wait” as in creates a waiting, needy energy .... aka put your life on hold, sit around waiting, or focus the majority of your daily energy trying to “get him to like you.” There are different ways to get to that energetic state and circular dating is not the only way.

[@MissSarahGM]

@@metanoiahealingarts4871 thank you, I was confused because she said it took about a year for her man and later she said to never wait. What is your vision of circular dating? Staying open emotionally to people around you, not only men? It is difficult to shift the waiting and hoping energetically state, how do you do that?

[@metanoiahealingarts4871]

Well.... for me... when I reached a level in self love and awareness keeping my energy focused on myself became much easier. Even when I slip realigning happens fast. The key is healing familial and childhood wounding. Also integrating limiting beliefs. The second key is lots of self care. Movement, nature, nourishing foods, and taking care of my body first and foremost... including my emotional health. Also meditation is a important to learning internal balance and how to dance with energy. A rotation and getting out to date... or just meeting new people is something I constantly do. Flirting, and having fun. Practicing my feminine charms. Hope that makes sense. ☺️

[@MissSarahGM]

@Blanche Blanch I had understood circular dating was even being open to people of all sexes, just exercising our openness and warmth without expectations. Not specifically flirting with many men. I agree with what you say about respecting the decision when they withdraw. After all they are the ones knowing what's good for them, and we also are right to pull back because it doesn't feel good to be ignored. Respecting ourselves and valuing our needs is hard but once we get there, the good relationship can manifests. I have met a new man who seems to know what he wants, a life partner and monogamy, he asks meaningful questions and seems genuinely interested. He shows me respect and care that it almost surprises me and raises my suspicion after I have met so many confuses/players/narcissists online dating. I will stay as much as I can in my feminine energy while also asserting boundaries and my needs. It is important early on they sense we are willing to walk away if they don't treat us well. I see how important it is to teach them how to treat us. I now wonder how to communicate I will be sexual only if we are committed.. if you have any suggestion I will appreciate it.

[@manolyarowe3794]

Circular dating is exhausting for me. The man get so interested and attached, because I am super casual and myself, and really dont care about them, just being open, that they keep wanting attention and robbing my energy 😂 All I want is practice...lol...but it is difficult, because they then want more and I dont want to lead on or play with anybodies emotions. Does that make sence?

[@956judith]

Manolya Rowe yes! Lol

[@Smokillo]

Exactly I thought the same thing haha

[@rositareyes8583]

I am the same way. They want a relationship that I don’t want.

[@kerridevol3018]

I thought same thing

[@siouxsiebleu2688]

This had also been my experience. They want a serious relationship after the first date

[@zubieM]

This woman has lifted me up off the sofa- I love it- thank you so much! I’m going to fill up my cup ;)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Yes, Rori is awesome and gives great advice! Here are a few more videos I’ve recorded with her if you’d like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmPVmaaDg7atgbc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJyzgHywh9GgoK8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJSxhoqHh7R3la8 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5vCdqRqhbhqitE.

[@lauraacheson7281]

She has a lot of wisdom about knowing oneself.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely!

[@Cannonejones]

This is the first time I heard a woman say she believes in telepathy! I have said that I experienced Telepathy with my late husband SOOOO much, because I felt that we were so connected! And tho I’ve spoke of this to my friends I’ve never actually heard this from a professional! She has peaked my interest!❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@danilaroche1156]

Sounds like necromancy. I'd steer clear, sweetheart.

[@semolinasemolina8327]

Omg she's the first ever time I even grasped (almost!) at least had a mirror held up to my behaviour in a constructive way! Tha k you x

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m so happy this was helpful! ❤️

[@meditativehypnosis7614]

Wow! She is a lovely genius... I really feel the warmth and understand so clearly how it’s about what we want rather than just being what we think a man wants. Thank you for having this interview!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Yes, I agree! 💕

[@danitarhea1198]

Relevant material for sure! I've cultivated the practice of visiting my favorite Cheers Bars, Joined my Local Gym and taking walks on the beach in order to create frequency and gain more exposure.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing Danita, these are great!

[@danitarhea1198]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you Helena...I've enjoyed tuning in with you all. :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed this! 💜

[@latinqueen722]

This is so eye opening so much better than forcing things your way

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely! 💞

[@supermanfan1315]

That’s so true. I love my dad with all my heart, he is my world but he would always get mad at me for getting angry. I was never allowed to show anger. I was not taught how to handle my anger, but instead punished for showing it and that makes me sad

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. This video I did with Rori should be really helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJSxhoqHh7R3la8

[@chicagogyrl4846]

I would not wait two years for any man!

[@businesslady7840]

Well , your one of those people that feels entitle. I wouldn't marry someone i have been not been dating for at least three years. I rather wait and not be desperate because the first two years are the honey moon phase.

[@shonaboris6832]

Real love takes time and patience you both need to be ready and commit to each other ❤️

[@chicagogyrl4846]

@@shonaboris6832 If it takes two years for a man to commit to you, this is not “real love”. If a man is crazy in love with you, he will commit, and want you to be his own. He would not want you dating any other men. If he does not commit, then he is waiting for “The One”. If a man does meet “The One” he will marry you, because he does not want you to marry someone else! It does not take a man 2 years to figure out if she is “The One”. A certain “time” is not a prerequisite for “Real Love”! My boyfriend proposed THREE WEEKS after we first met, and 5 months later, we were married! And we have been married for 25 years! It does not take a man 2 years to figure out if you are “The One”. It surely would not take me 2 years to figure out if a man was “The One” or not!

[@chicagogyrl4846]

@@businesslady7840 So, of the first 2 years is the “Honeymoon Phase”, then what do call the first 2 years after you get married? The “Post Honeymoon Phase”??

[@Angela-po7cr]

i feel i get more done when i am not waiting for someone, funny

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Interesting! Thanks for sharing your experience here.

[@ecarolinarojas4414]

Fantastic advice. I made some many mistakes for sure after today I will make a lot adjustments in my behavior. Excellent ladies! Keep that great job. Thank you 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, we’d love to hear how this goes for you! 💗

[@DeliciaTrini]

The best dating coaches! I've been using Rori's and Helena's "connect with your body, womb" for almost a year now, and it brings my energy back to me, and helps me love myself more so that I can make better decisions for myself and my life. Self-love is KEY for a man to truly love you.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you Delicia, I'm so happy to hear that!

[@nola8504]

This is such a safe and comfortable place to be. I learn so much from this. I can never connect with a man on an emotional level, because I never tapped into my own feelings and that circular flow of things. Now that I'm single I'm internalizing and releasing it more and more...starting with a warm smile :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I'm so happy to hear that and would love to hear how all of this goes for you!

[@medishahileyesus453]

First time meeting Rori and loved how she speaks. I am Impressed!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I do, too! Here’s another livestream I did with Rori that you might enjoy: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJSxhoqHh7R3la8

[@bgirl1478]

We'll have to feel good no matter where we are that's a Jem I'll remember. Thanks

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome!

[@danabecker1893]

Yes...yes...yes...he pulls away and I notice he wasn’t taking me out or even taking time for me!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you, Dana! 💜

[@spiritualrebirthsanctuary]

It's my inner self, I am the one afraid of getting close. I am the one that fluctuates.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate. 💜

[@shonaboris6832]

I agree with you communication is the key to a healthy relationship 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, that’s so important! 💞

[@pinkpops8575]

Hi! I really would like to say thank you for this specific moment starting at 49:00 that is one of the most compassionate moment I have ever heard of when it comes to this subject, but also connects us to our better selves. It really spoke to my heart, and caressed my soul... Deeply. I want to say thank you for this. ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, I'm so glad that resonated with you!

[@patriciabrown8660]

Wow!!! This sounds so easy, warmth and distance. But applying this takes some skill.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, it definitely gets easier with practice and becomes like second nature over time.

[@midnightrainbrownlow1553]

How do you deal with falling in love with a guy and don’t know what made you fall in love with them?

[@natalieboult4726]

This video gave me goosebumps! Thank you! I think I heard my feminine self esteem and Awareness go straight up!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Natalie, I’m happy to hear that! 💖

[@patriciabrown8660]

Hello Helena and Rori! Beautifully said regarding learning to dance a new dance. Leaning back, moving forward and not getting too excited. And sludging thru chocolate!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I'm glad this resonated with you, Patricia!

[@noemijoan6119]

Good morning from Germany! This was a wonderful chat! It gave me many insights about what I already feel is right but my mind was afraid of to act out. Many thanks to you two wonderful ladies!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Noemi, I’m so glad this was helpful! 💕

[@dhyanmukta]

If you've ever seen birds before mating they do that exact dancing motion she explains with her hands.

[@ekaterinasaturn6853]

Rori, I see you as a legend! And thank you for Helena!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for watching, Ekaterina Saturn! 💜

[@rosegaldamez1442]

Rori, when you're a nurse at a nursing home it's hard to be slowing down with the chocolate analogy ha ha! But very insightful I totally agree with it. I am living my life and just relaxing to see what happens and I agree, don't wait for anybody, just live your life and things go smoother cause you don't expect anything. I have learned never to wait for anybody. Excellent advice and video ladies: thank you for all of it!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Rose, thanks for sharing your experience here! ❤️

[@rosegaldamez1442]

@@HelenaHartCoaching God bless, I pray to the Archangels the Novena, daily. Archangel Gabriel, I ask him to use us to communicate with one another and help each other in this awful time. It's working!

[@SanctifiedLady]

I can't resist laughing on how the video starts as Rori wasn't ready.... Lol! So cute!

[@MissSarahGM]

That was very a interesting interview. Please have Rori Raye more often! In the end she answers that we should never wait for a man, but in the beginning she explains it might take 2 years to wait for a "confused" wounded man, while circular dating, and she says she waited for a year in her case. So I am the confused one here.

[@MissSarahGM]

@Blanche Blanch I like your comment (and your name!). I feel much better letting them come to me and stop pining after the inconsistent ones.

[@elizabethgirinde8956]

I watched few of your videos over 2 days now and throughout today I realized that I have been receiving calls from friends who wasn't in touch for a while, receiving phone credit from someone whom I don't know 😁, getting to meet some old friends of my dad who just decided to recognize me like I just appeared in front of him and other great things also happened just in this one day and I just feel so good and so I decided to share here....

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing, Elizabeth! A lot of women say that those kinds of things start to happen right away once they start practicing the tools! I'd love to hear how everything continues to go for you.

[@elizabethgirinde8956]

@@HelenaHartCoaching oh yes Helena, I will keep you updated 👍❤

[@nathaliedepondt3497]

I really love this video! I can see where I can improve! Going through a breakup right now, i can understand some mechanism in my behavior! Sometimes it is just hard to change. Like, yes I fell in love with him , showed him and opened to him and became afraid of losing him once he was taking distance in a certain way and being confused. His ex was still on his mind, he was back on dating apps... It felt to me like I was again not good enough so I confronted him and he finally broke up! We were only dating for 6 weeks but it was realy intense, i thought and felt he was my "one". So yes in a certzin way I pushed him away. Thing is I cannot stay on the sideline waiting for him to make up his mind... I do not want to be second choice, I want a man that chooses to be with me! And so as he is becomming confused and acting distant I take this as a rejection! So scared to be used! So scared to just stay at the sideline and remain receiving and feminine for a while to be dumped finally for someone else... I also dont want to lose presious time with a man that is hesitant, while I could find someone that will choose for me! You see what I mean? So I was first chill, then when fell for him scared to lose him (we really have a great match regarding vision in life)and then scared to be a second choice and used. So how can I improve this, cause I realise now that this is becomming a patern. I just want to love and be loved for who I am by a man...

[@raimehoward]

Do you love you for who you are truly?

[@FM-zg5hz]

Any update?

[@gracefroml.a4263]

This helped me see things differently, thank you I feel more calm

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad it helped! 💗

[@meganswinford1687]

“traveling in the world of men” - love this!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I really liked that, too! 💕

[@Alexi-pj4yb]

Helena and Rory, thank you for this amazing video and great info!! You're a powerful duo! And always have the best topics in perfect timing for what I'm living. Hugs from CA and blessings for helping us to be better from inside out. 🧡💜💙

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome Alexa, I’m glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@CG-wr4no]

Amazing. I am just beginning to "s-l-o-w d-o-w-n" I also process rapidly and I love to keep it moving, but that is very masculine and that's when I want to take the lead and go faster than him. I will practice the chocolate vat technique!!I think walking through the ocean or a beautiful pool will be more fitting for me :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I'm glad this was helpful and would love to hear how this goes for you!

[@hjane2309]

I watched this about 3 times today. So much beautiful information and advice from you both. Thank you for sharing 💕💖 I got so much out of this. Xo

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, I'm so happy to hear this was helpful for you!

[@Femininelovevibes]

I needed this right now.. kinda dating a guy .. when I showed him somewhat interest .. he pull back and told me he wants freedom etc... I also told him I wanted the same as I recently just a few months ago got out of a relationship (so did he) yet we are attracted to eachother. But the seeing him and then disconnected days at a time is something I’m just not used to. I may decide not to see him again because I feel I may develop feeling for a man that is all over the place.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I'm glad this came at the right time for you!

[@FM-zg5hz]

Any update?

[@user-wr7dp2bo5y]

I'd really love a video about stepping back vs. withdrawing. It can trigger our wounds when a man pulls back and bring up pain that causes us to pull away ourselves. I know this is harmful and also instinctive.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’ll keep this in mind for future video topics, thanks for the great suggestion! In the meantime, this one might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bKOQoH5rZ56em9U

[@JD-tp6ei]

I want to hear more about the man who is uncomfortable or yeah, even scared of real intimacy. i fear it may be hopeless for those kind of men to ever real go there. It seems no approach works.

[@GwenMotoGirl]

Thank you so much for this. At 22:40... my friend said something about loving everything, meaning loving my mistakes too - not judging my past as good or bad, just love it all. I’ve not considered this before. Hearing Rori talk about this brings fresh understanding of what my friend was saying to me. So many jewels of knowledge in this interview!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you Gwen, I'm glad this gave you a new perspective!

[@mylenmondigo7223]

Wow! I am a fan of Rori Raye 😍💖😘 I'm also her subscriber though I havn't read all her emails.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Rori is amazing! Her work changed my life. 💗

[@heatherhall1727]

So much kind and beautiful and gentle wisdom here!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Heather! ❤️

[@snooty4180]

Love Rori😍...have many of her programs...very helpful with loving yourself and empowering your self esteem!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, I agree! 💖

[@nunnallyai]

Love Rori, I can actually say she makes me want to be a better woman 😀

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, Rori is amazing! 💖

[@nunnallyai]

I even had my guy listening to have the relationship you want book a little in the car! I could see he was tuned in and starting making comments! Engaging ones!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Wow, that’s awesome! 💕

[@radeel1984]

So insightful! I’m married but this was so helpful for me

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this was helpful! I’ll be doing another livestream with Rori this Thursday at 6:00pm Eastern Time on how to transform anger into love. 💞

[@cassielovet.v760]

Yes she’s Awesome I was zoned and tuned in all the way!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I'm glad you enjoyed this, Cassie!

[@telahquemere6100]

"traveling in the world of men" yes!! I love this - global

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I really liked that, too!

[@tinaleeth2707]

I'm only 10 minutes in and I've drawn up 5 people, not who I was aiming at, but ok. Lol. I actually understood this. And just havent used it in a long time, thanks for waking my inner Goddess back up

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Tina! 💕

[@tinaleeth2707]

Lol I am at 26 min now and already said what she just said.. I know these things.. but its like when you take care of everyone.. you forget how to take care of yourself.. I'll still never be a girlie girl but that's ok. I rock the tomboy girl when I'm true to myself

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely!! 💜

[@marlenegabrielacontrerasga5929]

Rori hermosa! everything you said has such wisdom and truly helping with what I am going through, gracias y saludos :)

[@justmusic1427]

Helena: Thank you, so much for this amazing interview with your awesome Goddess mentor, Rori Raye. I learned so much, and plan to keep applying in my love♥️♥️life. - Monica

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Monica! 💗 I just recorded a new podcast episode with Rori, too (I’ve done three with her so far) - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/6G50jrYYOn6Exfub5WIxkk?si=ifFnaHGWTK6U2dD2MimlhQ …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000542394890

[@carissakelly1058]

Woah, amazing 🤩 the actual me too movement is romantic. It’s in the slow down. Thank you both. I can get so fast and up in my head ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I just published a new video with Rori today, here’s the link if you’d like to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJyzgHywh9GgoK8

[@MelissaGarza]

A guy can treat me amazing but if I’m not attracted to him physically it won’t happen. I don’t entertain men I’m not attracted to. I met someone recently I liked but he was not my type and and I don’t want to have to resent him or myself for giving into something like that. I was engage once to someone who treated me great but I was not attracted to him. I was younger and won’t do that again.

[@MarikaTheEmpress]

ME too

[@lydiam9323]

Me three

[@mariamkarouni3980]

I am the same way. Except I tend to specifically prefer men that I have a past super familiar connection to. I'm not great at bonding romantically with guys that I dont previously know from school etc. Its a big challenge for me.

[@MariaElena51185]

Same. There has to be a chemistry there. but I can get to know someone as a friend first and then decide if there is an attraction growing. I;d rather start out at a higher plane...talking and meeting in our minds and hearts.

[@davymoose3815]

So he treats you amazingly but want to have nothing to do with him well don't you have to have a reference point together to make that connection. Isn't that what this lady is talking about. Being caring and loving been having that reciprocated back? Comment 1 year ago huh I hope you finally found somebody?!

[@breanascheckwitz4549]

After watching this for the millionth time, i just signed up for her coaching thing!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that, Breana! I know you’ll love it. 💕

[@amazingyear9042]

Rori has a wonderful vibe!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes she does! 💖

[@bananas9695]

Hey insight is so refreshing and beautiful thank you for sharing. at 28:21 she says she believes in telepathy and reading energy before she said anything I can tell she is a very spiritually aware

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed this! 💞

[@cm9859]

Good advice. Many older men do not want to be in a relationship. Due to past divorce, already raised children.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this was helpful! 💜

[@lisahricko5344]

Rory I was singing Hallelujah when you said that vulnerability authenticity so good

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely!

[@yvonnezsmudio944]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and still things are iffy. One day we are boyfriend and girlfriend then we get closer and then he says we're only friends.. then I back away and give him space.. then when I get used to the idea of being friends he wants a relationship. Then it starts over again... I love him with all my heart and soul. But I just want that true commitment...

[@gratitude5740]

Yvonne Zsmudio, the moment he says he wants just friendship, take sex out of the equation. Friend don’t screw .....

[@cherryboo65b56]

Tell him you’re looking for a true stable relationship. Is that what he wants? Does he show it? If not, move on

[@adj5767]

Women wasting their time...

[@laralyndy6106]

Thank you for this. I sense that this is much deeper than it seems…I want to learn and grow.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ These episodes I recorded with Rori might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jGTHoomarMlma68si=HnHiHQtBsQ3mZoYp, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9Esi=l5Xiv3X6bxx73xYz, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0si=S7Bo12nkqSe-WyQO, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrMsi=yuh3BZmemIqGdQVy, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJyzgHywh9GgoK8si=EpW-0VR_2t5Hk3YT and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6Msi=3SLUhgg5S0xxmD07.

[@marianna322]

I can't get enough of her she's awesome ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Rori is the best! Here’s another livestream I did with her if you want to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJSxhoqHh7R3la8

[@annaynely]

"traveling in the world of men" I love it, yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I liked that, too! :)

[@servelovemeditate4615]

Wow, Helena i Love your Interview-streams. I can Not get enough of them❤️❤️❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you Anada, I'm so glad you've been enjoying them!

[@Xiandoe]

I remembered I ordered her little CDs back in the day.. I was too young to understand what she was talking about though 🤣 🤣 🤣 lol

[@redhead_in_florida]

A non-committal man needs a non-committal woman for the non-relationship to continue. When you stop being emotionally unavailable yourself you’ll easily be turned off by a lukewarm man. And emotionally available feminine women always tend to be more drawn toward a man who is pursuing them. We are naturally melted by a guy’s active investment, not the other way around. That’s the way of nature for millennia so don’t go against it. - Katarina Phang

[@karolina3920]

Very interesting hearing Rori talk

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These episodes I recorded with Rori might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jGTHoomarMlma68si=S7UI5PmouPb_HYjE, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9Esi=7Wg5VDJI149Gnj3f, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0si=CmDF41P4rHknjiqy and kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrMsi=KPjlv5NEqia5Yc7b.

[@margueritehernandez9014]

The GREAT Rori Raye! "traveling in the world of men" - Yay!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I liked that, too!