Say THIS When A Man Goes Silent, Shuts Down Or Pulls Away + What His Silence Means - With Rori Raye!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You can learn more about Rori's Siren Island Coaching Group here: roriraye.ontraport.com/t?orid=11853&opid=20 Join Rori's Feminine Energy Workshop and get personalized help from her coaches here (you'll get access to the replay and course materials, even if you can't make it live): roriraye.ontraport.com/t?orid=11853&opid=43

[@ursanirak2870]

You dont want a guy who doesnt come looking for you 🙏🏻❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes! I’m glad that resonated with you. 💞

[@luna84_]

Oh man so damn true..i just need to learn to love myself haha..and know my worth or at least feel it 😬

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@luna84_ These videos would be a good place to start: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qn26kJ2crZZ7arc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/rarOhY2CZtSCnZY.

[@Naisy77]

Bc it’s lack of Interest shows his lack of care 💯

[@ursanirak2870]

As Rori says a lot of men are on the autism spectrum. This idea came to me a long time ago but I did not want to accept it. Also I do believe that men are not interested in woman the way we want them to be. They would ask if they were. Or is it not that simple?

[@RoTheCrew]

💔 is all I can type. But I know God will get me through this storm. Sending love and peace to anyone with a broken heart ❤

[@kamori01]

The ones that go silent are just not worth the fight. Honestly, they will only hurt you. Their silence is telling you how they feel about you.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💙

[@LanaiJ-dj3er]

I bought your complete collection in 2018 and I can't rate it highly enough. You have changed me from a bitter independent super insecure manly woman to a genuine down to earth caring and secure Wooman 😂. God is amazing Jesus is the Saviour of my soul but you saved my sanity regarding men. So glad I asked God and He gave me you! My love life is not perfect but I can see everytime where I go wrong and take full responsibility to be in tune with my feelings and express them lovingly. Your coaching is well balanced and truthful and godly. It's gives room for personal growth and collaboration, and no room for.games and manipulation. It's gold!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that, thanks so much for sharing your experience here! 💗 These episodes I recorded with Rori might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0si=xujdtXNsyh_vF2ED, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6Msi=nJ-7AQf6FYRRHP7R, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9Esi=b6vMMdZcBFo2ZYi-, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJyzgHywh9GgoK8si=4m7NORjqikfvQIgX and kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrMsi=geagPfMJh-VaAkXb.

[@Naisy77]

You just have to make yourself a priority if you think a guy is not giving you attention then the best thing to do is to stonewall him it’s not your job to catch him let him catch you your a butterfly ✨ keep flying don’t force it go with your intuition if it says run baby run 🏃🏼‍♀️your divine masculine knows what is best for you ✨

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💞

[@skillsphere9245]

cute litle butterfly but we are eagles, and if a guy goes silent its mostly your fault there is a reason and u have over stepped his boundaries and or disrespected u have lowered your value if it wasnt he wouldnt go silent im a man and we man have reason why we go silent so all yall women talking bout doing your own thing do it but dont expect the man to come back if a man goes silent u have ignored his other warnings and or even blatantly disregarded you dont need to chase but you will respect us because we stop chasing also i dont chase butterflies i replace them plenty of women and we got the time with us u guys dont go ahead its your own russian roullette in dating so keep tha attitude but be prepared to buy lot of catfood also and chase cats and dogs in the park instead of a man coz no man is gonna be saving women going around like this women says im telling this because the delusion is through the roof in the comments yall in yall ego good buy dog and cat and also die alone or be submissive to a man pick or chose or date a ugly bum loser its either or no having your cake and eating it too you either gonna pay somewhere.

[@AndiPandi1979]

I could listen to Rori for-E-ver!! Her voice is so soothing ♥️💋.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, Rori is awesome! Here are a few more episodes we recorded together that should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9E, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6M.

[@LanaiJ-dj3er]

Forgot to say thank you for posting this ladies! Gem advice! Great reminders for me!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! I’m glad you enjoyed it. ❤️

[@dennesaaa]

Wow! I'm 24, will be 25 in a few months & I'm approaching dating & life in general so different! Trying to handle & view things from a more mature perspective! This was so good, thank you! 🙏🏾💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗 I’m happy to hear that. Here are a few more episodes Rori and I recorded together that should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9E, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6M.

[@juliebuluula6149]

@@HelenaHartCoaching b nop869i⁰this year 5r7bmòhbbh7⁶8th July will

[@donnaokrongly]

I have circular dated for years. It's fabulous. It allows me to avoid becoming too attached which saves energy for myself as Helena and Rori said. I recommend it as a form of self care and self discovery.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks so much for sharing your experience here! I’m happy to hear that. 💞

[@donnaokrongly]

I want to add gratitude to both ladies for their time and sharing their expertise. Blessings to all.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! ❤️ These episodes I recorded with Rori might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9Esi=t2jNEaz5DI7irGdP, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0si=J-OiLiHNnauHyLe8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJyzgHywh9GgoK8si=4BLyn5FJjl1DDhwX, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrMsi=_zG5BN6eOQJcH79G and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6Msi=HtQeZVRQHRH0wTKU.

[@HD-mg9ru]

Watching this over and over. Thank you again Helena for sending this to me. The guy did stand me up. I did get a phone call late late Saturday night but no message. We were supposed to go out to dinner yesterday 11/8 and I was just waiting for him to reach out to me because I feel if they're true to their feelings and want to hunt the women he reach out to me. I don't Chase men. I had met this man briefly while I was loading water into my shopping cart in a store he was an employee he followed me out to my car so I really knew nothing about him. For all I know he could have been a serial killer. You never know. I never got a good chance to see who he really looked like in person as he was working I had to leave as I had food in the car. So I said to myself, speak with this man and see where hes coming from and if hes really interested in me. But I found that the conversations were mostly about him. He would even cut me off when I spoke. He spoke about his online dating experiences his grandkids his trucking life where hes at. Never what I'm doing, what do I like, no interest in my life. He just kept on wanting to set a date for a dinner. But I wanted to speak to him more to see if he'll take interest in me. He did ask if I like jacuzzis 🙄👎 So he never showed, he never called, he never set the date which told me hes not a good guy. I haven't dated in years and I wasn't even looking to date. I thought it would be nice, but I'm enjoying my life and if it happens it happens. This was a big disappointment. I'm still open to being in a relationship. This is why I stopped dating. I just don't need this disrespect in my life. By the way I am not reaching out to him and I really don't want to hear his excuse. 😡

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. This video should also be helpful for future reference: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmGwl6pqqcemm9k

[@starcatcher3691]

I wish I was straight forward with my person. It probably would have saved me a lot of time and emotions. I was in pain a long time. I have finely go and am ok now.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! Our last episode on how to stop walking on eggshells should be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9E

[@autumnschneider3715]

In a long distance relationship for the last month. His energy has completely changed towards me, texts and phone calls are getting less frequent. Just told me yesterday he had house guests coming and would have to place host after work. He didn’t even have 5 seconds to text me goodnight. I am feeling very put off by this. He was gung ho about a future with me in the beginning but now he is so different

[@elizabethdiann9744]

I went through the same thing and it ended with the biggest heartbreak. If I were you, I would pull away. It's the beginning of the end. Ldr gets boring quickly for certain people. They hype u up, love-bomb you and suddenly it's all over and you get a text one day "ldr isn't working for me"... Don't even try chasing cuz he will know he has the power in this relationship. Prepare for the worst and don't lose your dignity. Let him go if that's what he wants. Ldr isn't the best option for you anyway so if he ends it, thank God for not wasting more of your time ✨🙌🏻✨

[@autumnschneider3715]

@@elizabethdiann9744 he actually used me for a few free trips to Vegas in the process. I paid for him and his kids to come down and see a Raiders game. He acted like nothing was wrong all weekend. I kept my distance because I had a feeling he would end it after the weekend. I took him to the airport at 3:30 am for his flight Monday morning and at 6:26 when he landed he broke up with me. Said he didn’t like my driving and that the relationship wasn’t moving in a positive direction. Then blocked me on social media and my phone number. While I was anticipating the end, I never thought it would go down like that. He manipulated and used me to the fullest extent. Then proceeded to tell me I was only a weekend fling.

[@elizabethdiann9744]

@@autumnschneider3715 I'm really sorry to hear it. I hope you're doing better right now and that you understood that you lost nothing but a parasite. Instead of paying for his kids you can invest in yourself and find a better match in your city. Don't take this rejection personally. I know he hurt you a lot but he is a loser here. No great man treats a loving woman this way. Belive that better things are coming!

[@ladylibertywdc8324]

@@autumnschneider3715 Good riddance to a rude user of a man.

[@autumnschneider3715]

Harsh for someone to say who knows nothing about the situation or me. Your judgements are better left to your own actions not mine.

[@NeedsYaHUaH]

23:02 - this is exactly the information I’m searching for!!! What to do when already married. Thank you for your insights. It really all falls back on us and our relationship with ourselves.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 🩷 These videos I recorded with Rori might also be helpful: kzbin.infomLVOffEXqjo?si=DSSpwGXyxs1105kr, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJyzgHywh9GgoK8si=NMT0oRnP2Ijkhr5X, kzbin.infosE6Lv9wN0BM?si=BouMvQOtx2w7x7YT and kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0si=LMmzu7_4xyOPox9K.

[@nourishingelements]

So getting that off my chest. I do value all that you teach and it has helped me a great deal in my relationship and I’ve seen it help others that I have shared this information with. So thank you very much I’m very grateful.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! ❤️ I also have several episodes with Rori on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@dianalereve5402]

I 💛 you, girls 😉 meaning Helena and Rori. And I agree, this is what feels right and I've started what you recommend a few months ago intuitively, because I had gotten to a point where I decided: "good things only, good and fitting people only"

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Diana! ❤️ Here are a few more episodes Rori and I recorded together that should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9E, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6M.

[@dianalereve5402]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you Helena 🥰

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@flea7510]

An ex and me were coming back together after 30yrs. It seemed we both were on the same page. Been single for awhile, remembering what we shared and he apologizing for his contribution to our breakup, etc. This started months ago while I was in Georgia. Now I'm back home in California closer to him and he just froze. After 3 times of him pulling away twice in Georgia, once here; red flags started flying, mind you we haven't seen each other yet... His family and me loved each other. My son. It was going to be a great reunion... However, since he deals with PTSD, other health issues, it makes and takes him into depression, drinking, just stuff. I was supporting him, sending all sorts of positive vibes, just being my natural healing self. I didn't hold back from words of encouragement.... He went away for a planned trip, came back contracting covid and something changed in him??? Things got worst. After being back here for a few weeks and the third time him pulling away, I wrote to him, saying I'm giving him space, I have to think about my happiness. If you want this you need to get ready, right now I said you're not, etc, etc. It was my feelings all out there. It was pretty nice and not throwing accusations. It was about me. Writing that lifted so much off my shoulders, I felt liberated from his stuff. He came back at me with giving him a few days. He has so much on his plate, etc, etc... I didn't respond, I needed my space. A few days later, he's like... I don't know if I'm able to be part of a loving couple, married 3xs you know?! I'm feeling gun shy? I took my time responding, and said, I'm not them and if you've chosening to remain in this space that you're choice, we all have choices. Either you're doing the work, or you're stuck. This would only have to grow one day at a time, period. Anyway, to make a long story short, it's about me! He has to grow within himself he's almost 60yrs old, I mean come on. My love for me comes first. And the young man I gave birth to is heading to college, he's my concern not a man who's stuck. I love him, I do, he's special to me because of our history together, but I'm not sticking around for anyone to think I'm their doormat...f**k that? We're stronger than we know. It hurts, but to put out what you'll tolerate is better than suffering in your own head. Clarity, no matter what it is is better than bats in the bell tower... 💕🥰💕

[@starcatcher3691]

Your guy was very honest with you and expressed his insecurities. I'd be gentle with him.

[@flea7510]

@@starcatcher3691 I receive that. ❤️

[@rainbowinthedark453]

Girl you handled that like so perfectly in my opinion. With love but letting him know you have enough self respect to not settle for luke warm relationship. Especially the part about one day at a time, and either doing the work or not. It’s not our job to fix broke men. Men are just as insecure as females if not more. Hopefully he realizes the high value woman he has the opportunity to see where this could go between you two. But I just had to tell you great job with how you handled it. I would keep the friendship but make sure he saw me building and living a beautiful life with or without him.

[@flea7510]

@@rainbowinthedark453 I soooooo appreciate your reply. This is why as women we have to share our thoughts and be as transparent as we can. And no, he hasn't gotten himself together at our age, however, I have to continue to be me. The military trama is deeper than I know. We're still FB friends so I continue to shine, shine, shine. Bless you my Sister and your continued growth.❤️❤️❤️

[@janelle2471]

Love you both, Rori is amazing!❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 🩷 Yes, Rori gives great advice! Here’s a link to the last episode I recorded with her if anyone would like to check it out - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/4Bs7g31EiQddVkxtMF9kir?si=-KIpMVbKQye_sBihvE9vNQ …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000609362477

[@kathysutton2631]

Great video. Great advice. Thks sooo much. More for older single ladies trying to meet nice guys.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! This podcast episode might be helpful - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/1hw4X7UlkPYYrMwrZE5RNi?si=Ypp5ETQgQV6_M9zC3rz-ig …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000571404796

[@reyy4722]

Learning to be emotional smart💡

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing, Reyy! 💞

[@ekaterinasaturn6853]

If Rory was my mentor, it would be a fairytale 💜

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Here are a few more episodes Rori and I recorded together that should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9E, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6M.

[@oia5882]

I love you two!!!💗 My amazing feminine energy mentors🦋💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! ❤️ Here are a few more episodes Rori and I recorded together that should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9E, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6M.

[@sandramorgan6342]

This is a great video. I love how she says we should respond to a man. I really wish that you can do a video on how we should talk to a man. I was told we should respond with “feelings“ , “I feel that “and “I want” a video about this would be helpful.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Sandra! I have several videos on that topic, here’s one of them that I recorded with Rori: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5vCdqRqhbhqitE Rori also did a Masterclass with her husband on how to talk to a man - here’s the link if you’d like to check it out: roriraye.ontraport.com/t?orid=11853&opid=41

[@sandramorgan6342]

Thank you so much. I’ve signed up for the class.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Hope you enjoy it. ❤️

[@Starlight-qr7cq]

Thankyou so much Helena & Rori, this has been very helpful! Your work is healing and changing lives❤. I love watching all your interviews together, I always learn so much from you both. At 23:00, Rori mentions doing the next session about how to implement these tools in a marriage/commitment - Yes Please!!! I have Rori's Complete Collection, currently working through Reconnect. We are only 4.5 years married (together 1.5 yrs prior) with a 5yr old child together, but I have been over giving and over functioning nearly all of that time. I lean back but then become frustrated with what feels like constant "breadcrumbing" that I end up initiating conversation and affection. He is a very masculine man with others so I know he is capable but I feel so down at his lack of interest in me. I am a housewife, which I enjoy, going into the workforce (which I know is recommended to occupy one's masculine energy)at this point would only add more stress to our home, some more tools on how to deal with this in marriage would be so wonderful thankyou!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗 I’ll keep that in mind for future video topics, thanks for the suggestion! In the meantime, these videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9E, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hYrTnJiwfbpqpZo, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmPVmaaDg7atgbc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJyzgHywh9GgoK8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/b3zbgmSQZZySjs0, kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5vCdqRqhbhqitE and kzbin.info/www/bejne/enKohmZ7aLStf80.

[@Starlight-qr7cq]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thankyou so much!! ❤❤❤

[@dantoinettetaylor1663]

@13:53 Omg. My “ex” told me he was on the Asberger’s spectrum. He’s quite social, intelligent and high functioning. He didn’t ask me a lot of questions about me but I was still smitten by him and still continued to see him

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! Here’s a video on what to do if your man has Asperger‘s (or you suspect he does) that should be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kJmkY3SLe5WBmac

[@Karenhenders76]

I'm autistic and it's what I do. I just go by feeling. 🙈 we can sense more due to our lack of communication skills.

[@munecalinda1709]

Amazing advices! Thanks to both of you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ Here are a few more episodes Rori and I recorded together that should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9E, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6M.

[@capipanda9812]

I always wanted to try and see if I can get an exit interview 😂 just for giggles. 😭I wouldn’t ask for one but the thought has crossed my mind.

[@michellewhite5668]

I would definitely love to hear how to navigate this whilst in a long term relationship. Will this be definitely happening?🤞

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for the suggestion, Michelle! 💜 That will most likely be posted on my podcast, as those types of videos typically don’t do well on my KZbin channel unfortunately. You can follow podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214 In the meantime, these videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqUgIqMd8SCb9E, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hYrTnJiwfbpqpZo, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmPVmaaDg7atgbc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJyzgHywh9GgoK8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/b3zbgmSQZZySjs0, kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5vCdqRqhbhqitE and kzbin.info/www/bejne/enKohmZ7aLStf80.

[@maribella2139]

I did and said weird out of my character things while under the influence of alcohol. He ended up seeing a picture of another man I used to date while showing him a picture of us. I'm devastated as I acted extremely immature and he was being such a gentleman. We have a special connection. He is definitely worth trying for. He has 4 days without contacting me. Told me he needed space. How long should I wait to apologize and hopefully fix things while staying in my feminine energy? I blew it, I gave the wrong impression...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This episode might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrM

[@vikik7877]

I was in a 2 yr long distance relationship with a good man. We both loved each other and he facilitated meet ups as often as possible in a year. I reached a point in which i wanted us to move closer to each other, get married etc but he was always hesitant about this. About 2 months ago I asked if we could take space to figure out what we want. He went completely quiet on me. Ive tried reaching out recently, he doesn't reply. It feels bad to let things go like this and I wonder if i was impatient with him. But I think its time for me to let it go as well. Heartbroken 💔

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now! ❤️ While I don’t know all the details of your situation, this episode I recorded with Rori might be helpful if you want to get some clarity or possibly see where things could go: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrMsi=qoxTVXI692VQiR8z

[@hadiitiniguez2393]

I married a woman that went silent on me. She refuse to talk about anything. She liked doing things covertly. It was really bad, especially after investing in the relationship. I fell for that bait and switch.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, sorry to hear you went through that.

[@reginafreitas5990]

Boa tarde irmã,vim pelo canal do Pereira 👋👋👋👋👋💞💞💞💞

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Regina, thanks for watching! 💕

[@Jess-wk5jo]

Helena have question for you . How can be affair without having no no sex? When i ask what type of affair would that be only by texting and meeting up and hugging and kissing and holding hands without having no sex? It an emotional and physical affair without sex i feel it romantic friendship or just friendship how can it be affair or cheating when no no no sex involved how can be it affair? Can you please help me understand it.

[@TephaRhi]

Thank you both 😻

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@ginnyfullen4626]

How can i circular date ? There are no other men I am interested in. Just one ugh

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Is this man you’re interested in showing up and pursuing you consistently? If not, waiting around for him won’t help at all - it will just cause his attraction for you to fade. This video might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXaZfalvrLNjeK8

[@aliarsenal6136]

My ex was very actively texting me before. He then texted me rarely.. Like once or twice a week. So I confronted him and said why he did that. He should say so if he doesnt like me, he said sorry and all that. I think he was pursuing someone who isn’t interested in him so he comes back to me when that woman isn’t interested in him. I hate him. He is just an old player.

[@elizabethdiann9744]

Wow a boyfriend texting once a week? He shouldn't be your boyfriend after 3 days of not giving a sign of being alive. And that's a stretch cuz let's be honest we use phones all the time so even going a day without a one single text is a joke.

[@aliarsenal6136]

@@elizabethdiann9744 Yes. Thats the changes I noticed with him. He started to text me less then he didnt respond, when I confronted him. He said he needed a break from our relationship. Then after a week or two, he comes back again and said he wants me and he feels lonely. I am not sure he purposely did that to hurt me or what. He said he misses hugging and kissing me. He said he wants sex too a few weeks before but I dont want to. It led me to think, would things get better if we had sex? My text to him the other day when I confronted him hard, I said I didnt feel valued and we didnt hangout as much as before. We chatted last Monday, 6 days ago and this time I didnt approach him again. Its not because of my ego, the last time I texted him first and I feel like I am the one doing all the chasing which he then wasted by asking for a breakup. I think the only time he wont hurt me again if he die.

[@elizabethdiann9744]

@@aliarsenal6136 I'm sorry to hear it but I can tell you from experience that it's never the same after the "break" or breakup. Especially that he isn't trying to win you over. Having sex with him would only hurt you more because I'm sure that it wouldn't make him stay. Sometimes you give your whole heart, your body, time and affection and it's not appreciated or wanted. I know how much it hurts to see someone you love losing feelings for you.... Their coldness can kill your soul. You said that he can't hurt you only when he is dead so make him dead to you. Believe me that you'll start being happy once you go no contact with him. It'll rebuild your self-esteem. It hurts less to let them go than to have a daily reminder of how much they don't care about you in the form of them ignoring your messages or replying shortly.

[@aliarsenal6136]

@@elizabethdiann9744 Thank you so much. I wonder why he wanted to keep me around.. if he dislikes me. I told him I dont want to be his friend. Today, we stumbled twice. He said hi to me but I ignore then he said hello, I replied but I didnt see his face. We accidently get eye contact when I was heading out of the toilet. Then, I look the other way. Its just hard for him to ignore me.. I said we should act like we are strangers. Like we never knew each other. He didnt text me today though. I'm going to demand what I deserve if he wants me back.

[@elizabethdiann9744]

@@aliarsenal6136 I think u shouldn't try to contact him. He should come to you... but if you told him to act like you don't know each other, I'm not surprised that he didn't text you. What you want from him seems really confusing

[@spiritualrebirthsanctuary]

Are there options other than Facebook?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

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[@eilensmith2035]

I left a comment but I don't know if u will get it I have heard back from a man I like but he just texted a message and than agan no phone call he left for 3 day without saying anything to me no tex message nothing I really like him in one tex he said I helping my brother and than he said someone died a guy who is not family just someone he was in the army with than he said I be intouch soon so I want to ask him y he whent off the phone call and did not call agan so what and when can say something please help me

[@eilensmith2035]

Help me know when and what to say I just feel aful now something left I don't trust him now I can't help it

[@OK-wb1dy]

Is it ok for a man to ask if the woman is still menstruating during the first video call?

[@niewieder99]

No!! How rude.

[@JodiePatterson-c9o]

Exactly my point. Men want fertile women. My dad confirmed that. Men don’t want a woman after 50. Enjoy life while you’re still wanted. 😊

[@colleenoslund5555]

What if you are married and he stays away...literally stays away. You dont see each other for days.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

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[@ladylibertywdc8324]

Get a P.I.

[@ljroberts3739]

After being separated for 20-yrs, I contacted an old friend at the end of 2019. We had a great deal of fun by text including me sending gifts to his office occasionally. Most recently I commented that his SO was horribly manipulative -- she is. It's horrible! In turn, he blocked me without explanation. I'm devastated; I was a good friend and pen pal 😔🤔😢

[@dianalereve5402]

I don't get it- you commented that WHO was horribly manipulative...?

[@tomcole3149]

@@dianalereve5402 , his significant other (SO). Clearly he wasn’t open to criticism of his person or relationship from this old “friend”

[@ljroberts3739]

As a friend, I couldn't bear to witness the manipulation again and again without comment!

[@starcatcher3691]

@@ljroberts3739 He wasnt ready to hear it.

[@ljroberts3739]

I appreciate objective feedback here. I'm hurting🤕