Brit Reacts to 6 Happily Surprising Things About Living in America

[@janetbean1994]

If Britain had cougars, coyotes, bears, wolves, rattlesnakes, copperheads, water moccasins or alligators, you would probably keep your cats indoors, too.

[@digitaltrekkie]

Feel free to add rabies to that list.

[@bonniegirl5138]

Also keeping your cat inside protects the bird wildlife.

[@CarryTheZero1]

Additionally... keep your cat focused on hunting the things trying to get into your house. If a mouse stumbles into my house, I give him 30-45 mins tops.

[@AnnNunnally]

Bobcats and hawks as well.

[@marilyntaylor9577]

Cars

[@lynrossi8409]

My only advice for those visiting US for the first time: Don't base your expectations on what you see in movies or on TV. Separating fact from fiction, Americans are a very diverse society of people who are generally welcoming and average. We're all just trying to earn a comfortable life while raising our families. Our interests are as varied as our political and religious beliefs. Not all of your experiences here will be impressive. Some will confuse you and others will irritate you. But there is so much to see and do that you will at least be entertained. And you may find that some Americans want to adopt you and show you around a bit. 😂

[@ravenslullabye]

Very well said! I might add, most of us will repeatedly tell you how much we love your accent 🤣

[@3rdjrh]

I’d say don’t generalize Americans, we are not monolithic, guns are legal but not everyone likes them…the northwest isn’t the same as southeast isn’t the same as the mid west…yes we share some values, but we’re way more diverse than you’d expect

[@sakitoby1581]

@@ravenslullabye Yes, we Americans LOVE accents and find them charming. We are not insulting or making fun when we say we like them.

[@ravenslullabye]

@@sakitoby1581 Definitely not making fun. We actually envy your accent 💕😂

[@theminister1154]

Two important notes: 1. If at all possible bring your camping gear and rent a car out West for a month. The national parks aren't even the tip of the spear wildlife wise in America. If you get a Rand McNally road at las and look at the West you will see most everything is brown light green or dark green plus cities military ranges and Indian reservations. Anywhere brown or light green you could just plunk your tent down and start camping. No charge. Only rulers don't camp too close to a stream and move every 2 weeks. *This is going to blow your f$#+%g mind if you are from England.* Why is it going to blow your mind? Because that's like 20 England's worth of free camping. Possibly 30 Englands. A lot of it in some of the nicest damn country you have ever seen. It is actually not possible for a Brit to conceptualize America until he's traveled around it for about a month. The effect is kind of similar to German pows who came here and all quickly realized that they made a huge mistake trying to fight us in world war II. 2. If you have any rural friends in the US, have them take you shooting. Almost everyone in rural America is armed for good reasons. A. you need the gun as a tool on the farm to put down horses shoot coyotes etc. B I've lived 45 from minutes from the sheriff several times. No permits are required you just need some ammo and a good spot where no strays can fly off. Have them teach you the four iron laws of gun safety first and you will have a great time.

[@amberspicks547]

As an American who has become very disenchanted the last several years, I appreciate this video for helping me remember some of what I have to be grateful for. Thanks

[@theminister1154]

A. Vary your media diet. The New York times Washington Post all of mainstream TV and NPR are nearly pure propaganda all the time. Not through direct lies but through massive lies of omission and even worse lies of context. I was quite shocked being an NPR fan once I started fact checking them after having some suspicions post Summer of Love. Suffice it to say NPR is either clown radio or lying to you constantly. Anything identity politics is the worst most toxic stuff. It is literally created to break the country up as a revolutionary tactic. I wish I could even say this was in service of marxists but it's not.... it's in service of an oligarchy with Marxist characteristics. If this sounds weird or conspiratorial to you, well, it is a conspiracy.... it's just a well documented one. Better to know the truth of it early. The nice thing is this will help you appreciate America more once you realize that which has been dividing us is mostly bullshit. Engineered bullshit. B. Do what the Britons should do when they come here: pack up your camping gear, load up your car and head out west. Give yourself at least 4 weeks six is better. Get a Rand McNally road atlas. Anywhere that's brown or light green out west or light green back east you can camp for free. just plunk down your tent and start camping. Buy yourself a 5 gallon Jerry can for showers. Either heat them up in the Sun or boil a couple gallons of water to warm up the can. Don't stay in hotels... maybe every two weeks. Do eat at all the roadside dives that look good on Google maps. Visit Fredericksburg Texas and Arthur Bryant's in Kansas City for barbecue on your way out and back. Trust me once you've really experienced the West you will be so much more copacetic with America.

[@theminister1154]

Two notes, the edit button doesn't work on my tablet: 1. I really can't emphasize the West enough. There's nothing like it in any other country on Earth. No public lands that are so accessible in such magnitude and such splendor at such a low cost with so little competition. You really don't even need to plan unless you absolutely insist on staying in public campgrounds at busy times of year. Yes europe probably has as many nice places... But they are all behind borders and hemmed up with rules and regulations and stuffed full of people. Just stuffed. Stuffed to the point of extreme annoyance. I guess maybe Australia might have similar public lands come to think of it. Everything there except the Australians wants to kill you though. Oh and as for toilets learn the two stump or two ft tall rock trick. Quite comfortable actually though it does require a lot of privacy. 2. If Trump is what is bothering you consider the following: granted he's a real POS, but really consider two things ....one.... as a practical matter how did things run under him? Pretty smoothly actually at a very fundamental level. 2. In the last 50 years which president only ended a war, did not start any new wars? Do you think perhaps this has affected the news coverage of Mr Trump? Think any of those channels have a vested interest in the war machine?

[@emmalee9747]

You still see the good values in the smaller towns and cities.

[@annelieseasuik3089]

Me too.

[@RSOMarsh]

Yeah Im with you on this one. I love my country but Ive been struggling lately with the government overreach. These videos (along with the recent Supreme Court’s decisions) are helping to restore my faith in America.

[@jikook7457]

When I was probably 4 or 5, my mom and I were out walking when I threw down a candy wrapper. My mom made me go back and pick it up. She wasn't mean about it. She just explained about not littering to keep our town nice. I'm 55, and I never littered after that first time. My kids don't either because I told them the story. 😊

[@mrbamfo5000]

Leave everywhere you go a little better than how you found it.

[@jikook7457]

@@mrbamfo5000 🙂

[@Christine__D]

Mean everyone of our Generation learned to to litter from the Indian crying looking over the trash-covered hill lol

[@Mrbfgray]

When I walk (jog or run) thru my hood I pick up any litter I find on my own dead end road bc there is so little it's easy to get it all, just a few pieces max. However I really load up when on foot in adjacent *college hood* where trash is common, drop it off at the next bin on street side I cross, college kids are irresponsible, I was too. At parking lot I'll commonly find a few items and just pick up one or two I nearly step over, not going out of my way, every little bit counts. Trash attracts more trash, it's easier to justify littering in an area already littered. Friend of mine parked in front of Starbucks early one morning, failed to put money in the meter but picked up a pc of trash on his way into store. Returning shortly to his vehicle he found a parking ticket on window, but instead of a fine--"Thanks for keeping our city clean." written on it.

[@jikook7457]

@Mrbfgray thank u for keeping the place clean 🩵 it's important for everyone to do their part, but it's a blessing when folks like u do for the a-holes who can't be bothered. Karma smiled on ur friend that day...instead of hitting below the belt like karma usually does 🙂

[@jeffbartholomew1152]

More people in the US have started having indoor cats only. It really started to be more common in the 90’s. Most people I know don’t let their cats outside for safety reasons.

[@SuperDrLisa]

I've had 17 cats in the last 35 years none were outside cats. I've lived in the city and suburbs it didn't matter, they stay inside.

[@ruthsaunders9507]

They kill the birds and bring in bugs too.

[@Jerseybytes2]

@@SuperDrLisa mine too, for the most part their idea of ruffing it is if the AC doesn't work.

[@Trifler500]

We had indoor cats that we allowed outside when they wanted during the day, until we moved to a suburban area that has coyotes. Our cat got eaten. :( Now we have two indoor-only cats.

[@kenf3539]

We lost a cat to a car when I was in high school. All cats since, have been indoor only.

[@sommerw478]

My husband and I recently traveled to London, we are from Midwest US where smiling and hospitality are very normal, and we had to keep reminding ourselves that we are in a different culture. They aren’t rude it’s just not common there. The service was not attentive, we are not used to that. No one and I mean NO ONE was friendly to a stranger. It was quite an adjustment but we really enjoyed the city.

[@rosenappi6663]

Love living in the South,(Florida), people just automatically hold doors open for each other...followed by saying "Thank you Ma'am/ Sir"

[@ms_scribbles]

America is a really weird dichotomy. You have friendly people, and then you have people who shoot kids dead for knocking on their door.

[@Big_Tex]

I’m old enough to have seen society change its habits about litter. Littering was much more common in the 1970s. But then we had these public service commercials with a crying Indian (who was actually an Italian-American actor lol), and local governments tightened up anti-litter laws. The famous phrase “Don’t mess with Texas” was created for an anti-litter campaign. And people amazingly people quit littering. I’m sure they do somewhere but I never see it.

[@CousinWhatIsIt]

And as always, Oklahoma had to copy what big brother Texas was doing, so we then came up with "Don't Lay That Trash on Oklahoma," and a catchy jingle to boot.

[@margaretbedwell3211]

I think it is much better now than it used to be. But I do see it from time to time. Especially in suburban areas where they seldom have a street sweeper doing the streets. Probably because it is hard to find people who want to work.

[@JJerseyGirl]

"DON'T BE A LITTER BUG"

[@jomac8101]

People leave piles of trash in National Forests. Truly sad.

[@matthewgoetter3127]

Yeah it’s totally solved. No litter anywhere in America. Meanwhile plastic set to outweigh fish in the oceans

[@robertschwartz4810]

As a Boomer, I remember Lady Bird Johnson, our First Lady in the 60s, campaigning for the removal of billboards along the highways, and a stop to littering on the streets. Whenever I see litter I still think of her.

[@Ruthbaby175]

And the flowers! I remember traveling across Texas in 1968. The sides of the road were thick with bluebells from the highway beautification program.

[@JamesFromTexas]

As an American we tend to look after our visitors. We like to help keep you safe and ensure you have a good time. Its kind of a holdover from the frontier times. We had to help each other or we'd die.

[@WyattRyeSway]

I think Chicago, NYC, LA, SF and Portland do not really take care of their visitors. Unless they come up illegally through the southern border.

[@luckerooni1153]

@@WyattRyeSway You just described some of the most gigantic and corrupt metropolis places in America that are like a microscopic dot of coverage just so you could waffle about your obnoxious political opinion in a subtle way when it wasn't asked for. Rather than trying to gaslight people and being a mindslave for politics try to read the room and celebrate the positives of American culture.

[@Sin_Alder]

​@@luckerooni1153 Fun fact: No one asked for your opinion either.

[@CousinWhatIsIt]

I grew up in a Middle-American suburb, and played soccer as a kid. Soccer fields in parks are common, even in bigger cities. It's not an uncommon sport here, especially with younger kids, but it just didn't become popular as a professional sport.

[@mbrant4973]

I have been playing competitive soccer in the Dallas area for over 50 years. Even way back in the day there were plenty of fields. Soccer has finally begun to catch on in a big way and the World Cup coming here along with Messi will only accelerate the growth.

[@theminister1154]

It's a big country. Really really really big. All of Britain fits into Oregon, but we only have 3.5 times their population. That's another sadder story of idiotic immigration policies in Britain, but suffice it to say we have plenty of room for sports fields.

[@monas.6839]

As an American, one of the things I love most about Brits is that your accent is so pleasant to the ear that even if you’re grumpy, I don’t mind. Please, express your anger…it’s sounds lovely. 😊

[@BTinSF]

I once read that the average lifespan of an outdoor cat was 7 years and of an indoor cat it was 17 years. The American Humane Society constantly tells people not to let their cats out and most people in urban areas don't because besides cars and what not, there are predators out there ranging from alligators to the American kitty's worst enemy, the coyote.

[@mrbamfo5000]

It's not the quantity, it's the quality.

[@mrbamfo5000]

Coyotes can't climb or get in small places. And a big Tom against a coyote or two, I just might bet the cat. Coyotes often travel in packs though, but then they have to catch them.

[@BTinSF]

@@mrbamfo5000 Let me know how you feel about that in your 7th or 8th decade. But in any case, I've never let my cats out and it has only made them more enjoyable and affectionate (i.e. less ferile).

[@LJBSullivan]

Or the fact that cats are destroying the native bird population

[@roximama]

@@mrbamfo5000 Yeah well as a human being I'd rather stay home and be bored than be mauled and eaten by a bear. Unless you're a moron you'd realize that even a cat would make the same choice. If you want to humanize animals you should do it with some common sense.

[@catherinelw9365]

I think the friendliness comes from pioneer days. It is less than 150 years since homesteaders and others were migrating west on horseback and wagon, and they depended on the hospitality and kindness of those who they passed on their journey. It was expected to allow people to sleep in your barn, feed them, give them information they needed to continue their trek. It was a hard country to subdue, with many dangers and privations. Europeans have not experienced that in centuries.

[@sakitoby1581]

Very good point.

[@DanielRamirez-iq3wv]

Friendly to whom,is the question. Was it friendly to take land from people that already lived there?

[@sakitoby1581]

@@DanielRamirez-iq3wv I'm sure it wasn't at all considered friendly to the indigenous people previously there. The Romans did same all over Europe. Vandals, Visigoths, Genghis Khan, Alexander. Many others, many regions around the globe. Human history is chock-full of peoples who were supplanted by other invading peoples. This is literally human nature since the beginning of civilization. Obviously it sucks if you're the people being vanquished. But it is the way of human beings. American settlers were no worse and no better than any other. People make more of a fuss about it because it seems worse since it's so recent. But it is what it is. Nations don't give conquered territory back. That's simply not how human nature or human civilization works nor ever can be. One can lament through tragedy of it, but I've always thought it better to move fwd with an approach of trying to improve the here & now, and make quality of life better for peoples where they are NOW. Looking too far back only serves to blind one and limit the future... Anyhow that's my take on it.

[@yana1955]

@@DanielRamirez-iq3wv In history, Native American tribes were constantly seizing land from each other. And it's believed that indigenous people resided in North America before those that crossed the Bering land bridge from Asia migrated to the present United States. Learning objective history is actually quite useful.

[@DanielRamirez-iq3wv]

Blah, blah, blah, blah. I know ALL these facts up and down already. This is how you use intellectualism to explain away the feelings of grief in the body. Taking land from people is always sad.@@yana1955

[@jjbud3124]

As far as being friendly goes, for everyone, including people serving the public, the friendlier you are, the happier you are, the faster your work day goes flying by. So everyone should be should be nice as it makes your day more pleasant and it feels like your day is over almost before it begins.

[@agatehuntress499]

My cats are indoor because there is a highway in my front yard, and a national forest in my backyard, which is home to bears, cougars, eagles, and bobcats. Had a bobcat on my back porch last month; she killed three of my chickens and one of my turkeys. I'm not even letting the cats out into the catio until we reinforce the wire surround to make sure the bobcat can't get in.

[@tippytoe1250]

My aunt visited us for the first time and she was impressed. I live in a suburb 30 mins south of LA. She kept telling me she doesn’t even see a cigarette butt on the ground. She’s from Paris.

[@boofriggityhoo]

When I lived abroad, my friends were very shocked to find out that I had played football (soccer) for six years straight. People don't watch it professionally very much, but it is probably the most popular sport for children growing up.

[@theminister1154]

It's a low injury rate, everyone can play, and you don't need much equipment. Good exercise too. Suburban kids play soccer like Urban kids play basketball. Football too but soccer is probably more popular.

[@WyattRyeSway]

I played it when I was little. I’m in high school now and in Texas, it’s all American football (I don’t play, I do rodeos) and cheering for your team. Football (high school, college and NFL) are huge here.

[@mockfanatik]

In stores, we figured out that if you welcome people and ask if they need help, the instance of shoplifting goes down. At Walmart we called that the 6ft rule. But this is just second nature to us, it’s easy to talk to someone unless you have social anxiety. I love talking to strangers especially if they are from another country. I like learning about cultures. I have friends from so many different countries. I love it and as a chef, it’s appreciated.

[@blueboy4244]

one of my favorite memories was sitting at a bar during the baseball all-star game (my tv was down), and trying to explain to the two brits sitting on the stools next to me how the game worked - that was equal bits frustrating and hilarious

[@xmariner]

Kindess pays eventually

[@CrochetCrochetJoyJoy]

Yes. Saying hello to people lets them know that you know they are there.

[@dragonvliss2426]

I remember visiting the Smithsonian museum one time and meeting a visitor from Uganda. I went with him through the section on the US Southwest and explained a lot of things, since I come from New Mexico. It was fun for both of us, and I learned about his culture also.

[@laurabone3228]

I love Brits. I've visited England a few times for several months. I must have lucked out, as I can't recall meeting many grumpy people. I was told it was an unusual experience that I would meet strangers with whom I would immediately socialize and share activities. Was told most people keep to themselves. I have many wonderful memories of Brits going out of their way to give me a lift from the train station. Share some advice. Include me in their activities, and to chat the night away in the pubs, or while walking the neighborhood. I hope to return.

[@Soccermom1820]

My comments to someone coming to the US for the first time is to consider our size. We are like a bunch of different countries in Europe, different regions of different accents, cultures, food and personalities. I would also suggest to go outside of visiting places like NYC and LA etc because the US is beautiful!!

[@dragonvliss2426]

Come visit New Mexico, where I live. It is unique.

[@718EngrCo]

In the 1970’s we had a big national advertising campaign against littering. The most memorable ones featured a Native American with tears looking at litter on the streets. I think that made all the difference.

[@xoxxobob61]

YES! It was "Keep America Beautiful" campaign & is best known for its "Crying Indian" public service advertisement which was launched on Earth Day in 1971.

[@Ninjanimegamer]

Unfortunately, the actor in that commercial was an Italian dressed as a native. There's controversy around that now as cultural appropriation.

[@kristiswa]

"Iron Eyes Cody" was actually born Espera de Corti - an Italian-American. Many "pretendians" (including Buffy Ste. Marie) are being outed now. Kind of heartbreaking.

[@leahmollytheblindcatnordee3586]

Thank you for the nice words. I lived on a farm in Michigan where we had barn cats and they would always end up missing. There are coyotes and foxes and other hazards out there. We now live in a town and have had a lot of house cats, because I never wanted to lose one again. They all lived until at least 11 yo with one who made it to 25. They were all either from my dads farm or the humane society. We have driven all over the place and camped in parks. Loved the Rockies, Yellowstone and ghost towns in Wyoming. But it is definitely a lot of driving. We once had an Elk walk through the campground on a snowy morning. Beautiful. Saw them from the tent, so they didn't bother anyone. You can easily drive for a long time to get to these places. It takes about 25 hours to get from here to Florida if you drive straight through (at 70-75 mph), depending on whether there is construction on the freeways or not. As for the people here. Most are very nice and friendly. There are places where that isn't so, but I haven't been to them. People do sell produce by the roads on the honor system and people are pretty honest. (I am sure there are exceptions) I don't know if we are friendlier, but have never been out of the country except to Canada which is beautiful.

[@karladoesstuff]

We had pay toilets in the US through the mid-'70s. They were finally deemed...um...inhumane. Also, people often just crawled under, through the bottom gap, defeating the purpose.

[@greenmtngirl4883]

We still have pay toilets at Old Orchard Beach in Maine.

[@Cricket2731]

​@@greenmtngirl4883😮😮😮😮😮

[@kittywiththeblackhat]

Ok you just need enough people to call them hotels and stay in them for that to stop

[@LJBSullivan]

I'm 60 have never seen one, lived in US my entire life.

[@karladoesstuff]

I saw them a lot in my childhood in the '60s. Crawled under the stall door in the Little Rock bus station in 1974, & I know they still existed in the Little Rock airport in 1976. @@LJBSullivan

[@ohmightywez]

In Arizona and California we have coyotes that will eat your cat or small dog. Also we have mountain lions that have come out of the Angeles National Forest due to some of the lack of food or water and roam the streets of our neighborhoods. There are subscription services for neighborhoods, and people will post their Ring or other door and outdoor security cam footage when a mountain lions walking by the front door, drinking out of the backyard pools, etc. so that people can make sure they close up their pet door during the night. And our screens stay on our windows year round, we also have screen doors and screens for our sliding glass doors so that we can open the front and back doors and get wonderful evening breezes and fresh air circulating through the house.

[@yugioht42]

Denver has a lot of soccer fields high in the Rockies. Honestly it’s a training area for a lot of players. They get used to the altitude then come back down and they move and are more efficient on the field as their bodies have learned to use oxygen more effectively.

[@thomasmacdiarmid8251]

It doesn't prepare them for 90+ deg F (32+ C) and 90+% humidity 🥵

[@nancyaylward1176]

We have a lot of soccer fields all over Colorado!

[@oliverc.griffin1304]

The benefit from training at high altitude doesn't last forever.

[@neosunrider]

That's kinda a cool perk :3

[@jessodum3103]

To be fair, I consider Denver (The Mile High City) to be at the foot of the Rockies, not in the Rockies.

[@fridaylong2812]

The bathrooms are not uni-sex, and in my 50+ years of pubic toilet experience (I'm old), I've never had anyone looking through the cracks. The reason the door has a fair amount of clearance, as opposed to the sides, which are lower, is so if someone in a stall has a medical emergency people can get under the door and then unlock it so emergency personnel can get in to take care of that person.

[@urthboundmisfit]

The bathrooms are unisex now. Now they're based on people's feelings and, well, I don't know what a woman feeling is, but apparently anyone can have one. So yeah. That's the reality we live with now. AND they have not updated the stall doors to reflect this change. AND there's nothing we can do about it until enough people become aware and actually care to change the law back.

[@jaytoser5212]

One of Frank Lloyd Wright's first building interior designs had the raised gap at the bottom of the toilet stalls. He designed that, in the Auditorium Building in Chicago, to make mopping / cleaning the floors easier & quicker.

[@lorie76yt]

I was going to comment the same thing - the reason they’re high is to make cleaning easier. It’s just a happy coincidence that it makes an emergency worker’s job easier as well.

[@sakitoby1581]

No but I did once have a toddler who was with his mom next door to me stick his head under the gap to look at me while his mom used the toilet. All I could do was laugh! 😂😂🤣🤣😄😄

[@deniseharris9320]

the emergency response thing is very real. My husband worked for a car dealership and there was a guy that had a medical emergency in one of the stalls. He was able to Jimmy the lock and try to revive him but it was too late.

[@bhalliwell2191]

Just an FYI, the screens in the windows here are removable, but for the most part people leave them in place for the duration of the season/s when they're needed, namely when we'd like to have the windows open but the bugs, bees, stray birds, wasps, mosquitoes, and so on, kept out. We don't open a window and slap a window screen into place. Depending on the type of screen, particularly on houses, there are little "holders" that keep the screen in place, so you can open the window and not have to fiddle about with the screen, all the unpleasant little beasties flying or crawling in while you're doing that.

[@LJBSullivan]

Your screens are removable. I have screens that are not removable. You can unscrew them but unless screen is torn you wouldnt

[@bhalliwell2191]

@@LJBSullivan Perhaps I ought to have specified that by "here" I meant America. On which continent are you? Even if you have to unscrew your screens, they *can* be removed, yes?

[@lynnw7155]

My house has a storm window/screen system, which is a frame outside the normal window. Each glass/screen panel has it's own track and slides up and down. In the winter you slide the 2 glass panels into place. In the summer you slide one panel up and slide the screen down. Window screens are such a simple idea; Walmart (at least in the US) sells a expandable frame with screening for under $10. It fits in any window and lets you open the window without letting bugs in. Why don't Brits use a screen instead of complaining about bugs?

[@LaLaLonna]

Im from Tennessee. My cat is an indoor cat. In my area we have racoons, skunks, possums, snakes, bears, bobcats, and people speeding on the streets near my home. Keeping her indoors also helps my fellow bird friends be ok 😊 i do take her outside in my backyard with me and she has window hammocks so she does get fresh air and the experience. I tried teaching her to walk on a leash but she hates it.

[@blindbookworm8019]

My mom’s cat used to be an indoor cat, but I’m convince (you can’t prove me wrong) gave my elderly dog an eye infection. The cat kept wanting to go out so my mom just had enough. She let her out at night to run amuck and then she comes back inside and sleeps.

[@therealmrbook]

In a lot of areas in the US it is illegal for your cat to run around outside (mainly in the city or large towns). In my town, a cat has to have a collar and tag or it can get picked up by animal control if it's not on your property.

[@m2hmghb]

That is one of my big pet peeves. If you require a dog to be licensed a cat should be as well. Not to mention how prevalent FIV can be.

[@ndetrixhe]

Subscribed today! I’m a Brit, married to an American, and have lived in Texas since 1983. However, have had the luxury of going back to uk once or twice a year. This stopped in 2012 as we adopted our grandson. Unfortunately, his mother was allowed to refuse a passport to said child, so haven’t been back since 2011. Now that I could travel, my husband is now handicapped, so will not leave him. My experiences over many years has been that after spending several weeks in uk, was keen to return to Texas, main reason being that everyday things are much easier here. Missing home so much now.

[@Notsosweetstevia]

Yes. Indoor cats are extremely common here in the US. 😽

[@mbourque]

you can easily make your own window screens. they come in large rolls that you can cut out sections that you measure to fit your window. you then use a staple gun to attach it to the outside of your window sill and use a small strip of wood (1 in x however tall or wide your window is) and attach it to the window sill and trap the edge of the screen between the strip of wood and the window sill, this ensures that bugs can't find gaps between the staples. the screen rolls are found at any hardware store here in the U.S. so someone can send you some.

[@karladoesstuff]

We have plenty of places with litter problems. One thing that helps, stretches of road may be "adopted" in some area by some civic organization, which occasionally sends volunteers out to pick up litter in exchange for a little publicity.

[@m2hmghb]

Most often I see boy and girl scout troops doing it.

[@karladoesstuff]

@@m2hmghb In my area it's more likely to be something like a Rotary Club or a church group.

[@emmef7970]

California has a statewide program offering up to $250 per month to Adopt-A-Highway volunteers, whether it be an individual or group, who pick up litter along state highways, ramps, bike paths, and park & ride facilities. Besides litter removal that help prevent pollutants from entering state waterways through storm water drains, Adopt-a-Highway volunteers also create cleaner and more beautiful roadsides by planting trees and flowers, thinning overgrown vegetation and clearing any graffiti. Anyone, ie: individuals, families, organizations, businesses, churches, etc. are welcome to Adopt-A-Highway. CalTrans (California Department of Transportation) will also install signs with the person(s) or group name on the stretch of highway adopted.

[@danielm5535]

I’ve recently seen Dispensaries sponsoring the cleanups here in Massachusetts and Rhode Island. 😅

[@emmef7970]

@@danielm5535 Well, we all know how much they like weed. I wouldn't be surprised if some here in California aren't doing the same. Ecology and conservation, etc. are important to a diverse group of people.

[@annstewart9327]

I grew in the Chicago area. Growing up, we would get maybe three blizzards per winter. Many days the temperature goes below zero ( zero degrees is quite different from freezing! ). In summer, the weather is normally hot ( 85-90 degrees). So yes, it does get warm in the summer in these cold and snowy states.

[@judithbush939]

It's simply not possible to visit our national parks in a week and really enjoy them. Our country is very large and very diverse. I've been to England found that your villages are remarkable for their use of space. Also, everyone I met was FRIENDLY AND NICE. The friendliness comes from our early history when people were sometimes lived far away from village and people who visited were welcomed for themselves and for new about the country and the world outside of the places where the farms and homes were located. It has just carrie over into the Americans of today.

[@stayker]

I grew up in more rural parts of the Midwest and I can say that in some rural areas soccer fields will be rare, you will find yards that are full of trash, and cats will run loose. However, you will also find very friendly people who are always glad to tell visitors about their small town and its history. The U.S. is such a large and diverse country that you can always find something new to experience.

[@dougbowers4415]

The bathroom gaps aren’t a big deal because no one looks. It’s a huge faux pas to do so. Honestly, it NEVER happens.

[@sequoyasierra5671]

Yosemite, the Grand Canyon, Bryce Canyon, Yellowstone, Glacier National Park, and others so many choices in the West.

[@daveray44]

We have 4 cats, all strictly indoor cats. They live a lot longer, won't get into fights, or get ran over the big things. Plus, they'll have much better health so less need for visits to a vet Plus, they have been fixed so wouldn't be a cause of feral cats and over population

[@jeanninewaken7147]

Add to that list that more than one million birds are killed each year by cats roaming the streets.

[@zarroth]

@@jeanninewaken7147 oh no! nature doing what nature does! Your cat eats meat, if you're not feeding it meat, you're destroying it's health. There are also birds that will attack and eat cats. Cycle of life. I'm not going to keep my cats inside a cage just because they're "safer". Quality of life matters, which means animals need to be roaming out much more so than people do, but so many people don't do that anymore either.

[@sallyjune4109]

Feline leukemia

[@carlablair9898]

When I was growing up we had an indoor/outdoor cat, and he lived for fourteen years. Before he crossed the road, he would stop and look both ways. I don't think he was ever in danger from hawks, because he was a pretty big cat.

[@annbstitched]

In Oregon, there are indoor/outdoor housecats a plenty. But, in Nevada, you had better guard your little pets as they use the outdoor "toilet". My dad has lost several teacup poodles to coyotes and owls. Window screens are meant to always be attached to the outside of the opening portion of the window. I think grumpiness/friendliness is different in every town or city. It is as if each city has a personality of its own. I imagine it is the same in the UK.

[@yugioht42]

New York City ran a few self clean toilet stalls which you had to pay for. It was just a test for about three months. They were put on the streets. The problem was they broke constantly via vandalism or just wearing out. The city actually removed them after about a month. The toilets were never used again and pretty much the stores handle it now or the parks which have clean bathrooms.

[@TheBulletTrain]

Love the video man! And don't worry, here in the US, typically people going into shops feel bad asking for help (I do). I'll always start asking a clerk a question with "Excuse me, sorry to bother you but..." and typically they always respond with a smile and "Not a problem...". I've never been to the UK outside of Heathrow Airport, but noticed in there yeah the shops people were very much quiet and didn't offer help, but when approached they seemed friendly enough :)

[@sherilynkd]

We were in London in 2009 and ate at of course a Pizza Hut. Our waitress was very nice and we tipped. I think the next day we went in again. She sticks her head between us and said”Back for another piece of pizza?”. Personally, I wanted the wonderful side dish of mushrooms. Of course, we tipped. Upon asking for a Coke in Bath the clerk dug into the bottom of the case saying he was trying to find the coolest one for me. As much as I liked my meal at the Princess of Wales the staff along with those at the Horseguards Hotel were not so inviting. For the most part I found the people we came in contact with to be nice. I grew up in Texas which is quite friendly. Upon moving to West Virginia in 1994 I found the people here to be very friendly. If you are friendly most areas of the US are also.

[@WyattRyeSway]

I ride in rodeos and have been to many different states, from Tennessee to Wyoming. In California, the people were not as nice but in Montana, they were great. I think Texas is very very friendly but I’m biased. Colorado was a bit less friendly but I’m not sure that was not just that day and the issues they were having then. I’ve never been to Maine, Vermont, New Hampshire etc because they don’t have rodeos. Most states I have been to, people are respectful, polite, cheerful, friendly and will talk your ear off.

[@commissaryarrick9614]

Growing up in the 80s and 90s, our cats were always outdoor cats. The first cat I got with my wife, it was just the area, we felt better keeping the cat indoors so it wasn’t at risk from wild animals. Since then, we have just kept our cats indoors.

[@Sinvare]

The US has a lot of land so it has space for sport fields of all types and city parks. European countries ate up much of that land due to the population density. My town of 20,000 had ~15ish soccer teams for 2 year groupings of kids up through middle school. Probably half the boys at my high school had played at least a year when young kids, and the girls a wasn't much lower %. Baseball in spring, Soccer in fall.

[@rachellavely4049]

Aw I love that he mentioned Hoosier hospitality. I live in Indy and most folks here are genuinely kind. If you smile at someone, nod your head or a simple ‘hey’ Just walking by, most often you’ll get the same in return.

[@Blondie42]

3:59 As a person who grew up in the mountains of North Central Washington state, I can safe say we have a plethora of soccer fields in the mountains. And in those mountain towns we actually don't really keep the cats in the house. Just let 'em roam, keeps the mouse pop. down. But just like in the city the countryside has it's dangers for those kool kats in the forms of birds of prey and the four legged predators. Such as bigger cats, coyotes, bears . . . the crazy neighbor on their four-wheeler

[@fridaylong2812]

North Central Washington? Anywhere near Concrete WA?

[@Blondie42]

@@fridaylong2812 Concrete is on the eastern side of the Cascades. I was raised in Okanogan, east of the Cascades.

[@kristasmith6358]

I remember in the 60’s or 70’s there was a Keep America Clean commercial that was on tv all the time effected a people who passed that on to kids, grandkids and then social groups cleaning as a public service, and then inmates getting outside work detail. Soccer fields really hit big in the 1990’s. Many families by portable lightweight goals for own children’s playtime. Other than a random toddler, nobody peeks in the cracks of bathroom stalls. Most public bathrooms have a line stalls 10 or stalls. I am 63 years old, our windows have had screens as part of the window….they are on the bottom have of the window year round. YES we have indoor pets! Our current dog was from the animal shelter. We were told she was a mix of Australian shepherd ( weight 35-45 pounds) and unknown daddy. Australian Shepherd’s are frequently stolen, so she was made into an indoor pet. Well daddy was a Catahoula and she is close to 100 pounds - still primarily indoor door pet. She also goes to doggy daycare for social😅and because it wears her out. Our country has 7 national parks and many state and county parks. Most very well maintained and offer camping. Friendliness varies across the states. Southern and lower Midwesterners tend to be very friendly. Rural people wave a passing cares if they know them.

[@lindadeters8685]

I have2 cats. I live in Tucson. If they were outdoor cats, they would become coyote, bobcat, hawk or owl food. All of these wild creatures I see with some frequency. All the lost notices for cats and small dogs are looked at sadly, because you just know… coyote food.

[@AZHITW]

I live in the northwest Phoenix area, and there was an article in our local community paper about a coyote den found in a common area of a housing development and the entrance of the den with littered with seventeen small dog and cat collars. I've also seen coyotes in my yard, they hop over a six-foot block fence like it was nothing. We also have birds of prey and bobcats so no furry cute critters will last very long outside.

[@Marndarrr]

In Texas, in the suburbs anyway, we have soccer fields on every 5th road or so. My old house had a field across the street that was divided into 4 full sized soccer fields and a baseball field; sometimes they would all be in use at once. As kids, my brother and I both played soccer. It’s very popular in schools and after-school programs. It’s also very easy to find community basketball courts (indoor and outside,) tennis courts, and even some disc-golf courses. We have room for lots of parks and recreational areas in decently funded suburb communities.

[@lynnerussell1440]

We in America don't look through the crack in the toilet doors. I don't know why this is such a thing.

[@cherylflam3250]

Agree ! Americans don’t look ! Maybe they have such a fit about it because they would be tempted to look . The British are a bit strange !

[@Sugarshay444]

We have soccer, football and race tracks at our middle schools, highschools and college. We especially love going to our kids Friday night highschools football games. Also indoor games. I loved watching my girls cheer at the games.❤ it's so nostalgic for us Parent's.

[@KakashisOnlyGirl1]

Honestly, in the USA I think the friendliness thing is because we’re indoctrinated to be pleasant, even if it’s faked. That, and guilt. Also, when we find something nice about life or where we live like that ranch person, we just want to share it 😊 I’m in Alaska and you’re both going to find soccer fields on mountainsides, as well as probably the best national park ever. Everyone should see it once!

[@JamesFromTexas]

We have a ton of soccer fields here in Texas too. It's usually the youth on them but basketball and soccer are very popular because of the low starting costs.

[@phyreblade]

I currently have five cats (for reasons ... don't judge!) and none of them would dare set a tiny, furry paw outside the front door of the house. That thing called "outside" is freaky scary! They do watch it through the window screens, sure. But that's about as close as they like it. Outside includes cars that could smoosh them, coyotes that might chomp on them, foxes that might nibble on them, storms that might blow them away, bears that might roar at them (and them chomp on them, too), neighbors that might yell at them and throw things at them and then yell at us, and maybe some other horrible threatening thing we have yet to see or discover just yet. All of the above has happened to us at some point in the past -- yes, even had a bear come in our yard at one point. That incident gave my daughters nightmares. So now the cats stay inside and we're all much happier.

[@MSUSpartansRock]

I've been to most of the biggies: Yellowstone, Yosemite, Grand Canyon, Smoky Mountains, Acadia, Everglades, Redwood/Muir woods, Mammoth Cave, Mount Rushmore and so many national forests from California to Michigan to Florida to Maine. It's a LARGE nation, and I am so glad I've had the opportunity to see what I've been able to see so far. Next up on the ole travel bucket list- the PNW area and the Rockies!

[@spiritualspinster4222]

Keeping your cat indoors is sometimes a necessity in the US if you want them to live over a year. The traffic alone in some places is horrifying for an outdoor cat owner. There are also risks due to wildlife that will attack your cat if it is outside. As a child I lost a pet cat to such wildlife. Please keep your fur babies safe inside folks.

[@Dobviews]

I grew up in the valley between the Cumberland Gap and Great Smoky Mtns. The GSMNP is where I spent most of my childhood playing in the Pigeon River. The views there during fall are exquisite!

[@lmf221]

I have indoor cats now but grew up with outdoor cats. A few reasons why I have changed my opinion as someone who lives right outside of Washington DC -> - I paid a lot for my cats (I have purebred ragdolls who are very snuggly and affectionate) and I love them. I do not want them to get hit by a car and die. - More controlled access to minimize potential parasites and diseases being introduced into my home. - We have a lot more predators, forests and wildlife in America. When I lived in California there were regularly Coyote's that could and would kill pets. Where I live now there is a neighborhood fox who has absolutely gotten into it with my dog in my backyard and he's a huge great pyrenees, there are also hawks, owls and eagles that could absolutely kill kittens or small cats. I do not trust my cats safety with those risks. - Alternatively something I was made aware of recently is that stray/loose domestic cats can be AWFUL for bird populations on the other end of the spectrum so I think it's best to just enjoy their company at home where they are safe and not harmful to the environment.

[@myrabeth77]

All my cats have been allowed outdoors with supervision only. Usually with a leash and harness. One of the places I lived as a kid had a big, un-fenced yard and a lot of traffic passing by. While living there, we adopted two kittens around the same time. One was lazy and loved to watch the world from an upstairs window. One was adventurous and always curious about what was beyond the exterior doors. Guess which one turned out to be completely deaf? Yep, Miss Adventure. Leashed walks around the yard and a screened porch were essential parts of trying to give her a happy life without her disability getting her killed. The "usually" disclaimer about leashed excursions in my initial statement is because of my last cat. She didn't like the harness much, but would sometimes want to explore the grass and shrubs around the patio (first floor apartment). I'd stay out with her, usually within 10 feet, just to keep an eye on her, leaving the door open slightly behind us. The second a distant car door slam or dog bark could be heard, she went running for the door. As soon as her paws were past the threshold, she considered herself "safe." By the time I caught up with her, she would be standing in the doorway, looking out for the scary thing that made the noise from her safe position technically indoors. Some scaredy cats really don't like the great outdoors.

[@R3_dacted0]

I think the level of friendliness will kind of vary as you move around the country. I'd say that generally, the more populated an area is, the less friendly folks are gonna be forthright. Like, if you go to New York City, you can expect most people you run into to either completely ignore you or be a little rude.

[@nyrockchicxx]

When you say "people you run into" that indicates that you know them. Most NY'ers are NOT rude to the people they know, unless there's been a previous beef. However NY'ers are busy people (it's a working city) and may not have time to talk long.

[@anitapeludat256]

I am a warm friendly Midwesterner by nature. However, I love the New York frame of mind. It's a whole different vibe. New Yorkers can be quite direct. I love that. Yes, it might come across as rude or angry . I've never taken that personally. And I don't cower. Walk with strong confidence in New York. Don't ever stop and look like a befuddled tourist. That's stupid and can block a sidewalk for people walking to work or a fast lunch. Don't dangle your bag or camera and make an easy target for a thief. Same as traveling to Europe + the UK. Don't stand about looking like an American on vacation. Plus, tuck your shirt in, don't wear sweats everywhere. A baseball cap shouting y Your favorite team screams American, please rob me! That happened to a friend of mine in Paris. It can happen anywhere. And gents. Where trousers that fit. A large majority of men wear trousers that are made to fit, no saggy asses there! And don't wear sneakers/ tennis shoes everywhere. Step up your game .

[@jannibal9273]

I never experienced an encounter with a rude person while visiting New York city. I loved the place on my two week long visits and everybody I encountered was very friendly and very willing to give us directions, tell us where the best bars and restaurants were in the area if we were walking around looking for a place to eat, etc. I think it's how you approach people that makes the difference between being ignored and getting some good tips from the "natives." New Yorkers were also very willing to take photos of us with our cameras if asked nicely.

[@barbarabonnette2705]

You need to visit the Blue Ridge Mountains or the Great Smoky Mountains in North Carolina…..the most beautiful mountains that I’ve been to in America. There’s just something about them. I’ve been to the Rockies, Adirondacks and the Catskills and they are all beautiful, but I fell in love with the people of NC they treat you kindly. You’ll see.

[@Kwahzutah]

Table Rock is one of the most magnificent things I’ve ever seen with my own eyes. Pretty Place and Raven Cliff Falls are lovely too.

[@cjthompson420]

I love Lawrence’s channel because I learn so much as an American about his life in Chicago. We are a HUGE country so often I as a Texan can’t relate to any of these European stereotypes I hear about us. Except the bathroom doors thing, that is true and none of us know why they do that either 😳

[@euripidean]

Soccer is super popular for kids. It's so common that we have the term "soccer mom."

[@lizetteolsen3218]

Indoor cats live 18-20 years in the States. Outdoor cats live 2-5 years. I believe the reasons the public toilets have that big gap at the bottom is for security needs and for mopping. I think the American friendliness is based on where one is visiting/living. I have lived in rural/suburban areas most of my work life, and there is a more authentic response to new people. When I lived in major cities, holy cow, most of the people thought there was something wrong with me for just saying 'Morning' on my walk to work. Their reactions were physically visceral--and freak out.

[@mauryeetss3561]

Well idk the statistics on it, bt growing up my cats were outdoor cats and often we'd let them out at 8am and wouldn't see them til 10pm at night. Our 3 cats lived to the ages of 12,15 and 16. I think the issue is that owners should know their areas well and know the risks in the surrounding area. I had a friend in the same town with outdoor cats. 3 of them died before turning 3years old and all were hit by cars, since he was in a busier area with busier streets.

[@emmef7970]

@@mauryeetss3561 Same here had cats and dogs throughout my childhood, teens adulthood. Not one of our outdoor cats was ever hit by a car. All lived to ripe old ages. t My son lives a few cities over in a neighborhood that has a freeway with a steep embankment covered in trees leading up to his development. His family has 2 dogs and one inside/outdoor cat. They have lived there for about 15 years. The cat used to roam, come home when she was tired or hungry without any problems until one day she didn't come home. The troops were called out family, neighbors, etc. everyone was looking for her. Flyers went up, nothing. Until about 5 days later when he went into his large backyard and heard a noise. He followed the noise to the other side of his yard and there was his cat on the freeway side of the high cement wall (his fence) sitting there calling for her people. She looked worn out, hungry and exhausted, must have been trying to get back home for days. Thankfully, my son just happened to be in the right place at the right time to get get over the wall and retrieve her. of course the family was overjoyed to have her back. Good news is she doesn't leave the yard after that adventure. Still wants to sit and nap in the sun. Play in the grass with the dogs, etc. But her roaming days have lost their appeal after that adventure.

[@lizetteolsen3218]

@@mauryeetss3561 The stat I was stating was from my vet. Does make sense given more things can happen IRW than in our houses. I also live on a busy road, across from a park and near a golf course. Lost many pets over the years trying to run across to the park and all those enticements. Even had a 4 some with a golf cart run over one of my cats--they thought it was funny. I did not. Poor cat died a difficult death as I was trying to get him to the vet. Some years back, I moved to make all the cats I had be indoor only cats. The 3 I still have are all seniors, now. They just like moving with the sun and the soft blankets, watching the outside activity from the windows.

[@scrosby9186]

My out door cats lived 15 to 19 years. I've rarely had a cat that lived less than 7 or 8 years. We've lived in both rural and suburbs. Lots of wild animals here.

[@mmitchellhouston]

There are MANY soccer fields all over the country. Yes, there are Football fields everywhere, and baseball diamonds as well. But yeah, there are lots of soccer fields. YES, many, many people have indoor-only cats. We used to have an indoor cat, and my neighbor across the street has one. Particularly in the Southern US, you will find people to be very helpful in stores, even the people who don't work there. I often strike up conversations in hardware stores and some random guy will help me sort out the fittings or parts I need (and I've done the same for others, particularly in computer stores). And this is very true in grocery stores and other places, too.

[@desktopkitty]

In college I had a roommate from England and she thought I was cruel for keeping my cats indoor. She would let hers out regularly. I tried to explain to her that it's actually quite dangerous for the cat to be outside, and keeping them inside was not out of cruelty. Well, it wasn't long after that her cat was hit by a car and died. She quickly changed her mind and decided keeping her cats inside wasn't so mean after all. I did have all kinds of places throughout the apartment just for them to climb and explore, look out the window and be above everybody. So they still got to do their usual cat instints type of stuff. Just safely. But if you live out in the country away from traffic, that wouldn't be a problem. In that case I'd let them out to explore.

[@vagabondwastrel2361]

LOL, I would argue that is probably worse in the country for cats. Wolves, bears, snakes, birds of prey, great cats. The amount of dangerous animals in America are a lot higher than people think.. even in America.

[@liviyung]

My family lives in the country and keeps our cats indoors and outdoors. We like to use them as our pest control. They enjoy digging up mice nests around the house. We bring them inside during the night since that's when the coyotes, foxes, etc start coming around. Mine used to be stray cats and their mom taught them when they were younger where the safety boundaries are outside so they never go too far out into the woods. However, we do have a street in front of our house that they liked to cross when they were younger to the neighbor's yard, but we've trained them not to do that and as they've gotten older they've stopped.

[@leahmollytheblindcatnordee3586]

The country is not that safe. Our farm cats would cross the road and get hit. We have coyotes, and foxes that can kill them. Possums and raccoons will fight them for any dry cat food and there are things like heart-worms and such that have to be guarded against. Raccoons and possums will take their food if it is left out.

[@anastasia10017]

why ??? So your cat can be eaten by a bob cat or coyote ? or bitten by a rabid raccoon ? how about being attacked by a raptor ?

[@scarletj8180]

@@anastasia10017 I have lived in American suburbs all my life. I've always had indoor/outdoor cats. They have all lived long healthy lives, dying of old age. My cats love being able to run full speed for long distances outside, climb trees, sunbathe, chase bugs and mice. When rain forces them inside for several days, they are unhappy and anxious for a chance to get outdoors....The quality of their lives seems infinitely better by being outside.

[@geraldclough1099]

People do respond to anti-litter campaigns. In the 1950's, Texas highways were heavily littered. And that's without many fast food places. The state began to promote improving things with what became the Don't Mess With Texas campaign, and it really worked. At the same time, they devoted more resources to cleaning up highways, since litter invited litter. Today, organizations and individuals can adopt a stretch of highway and have themselves displayed on a road sign. Adult and juvenile probationers also frequently are turned out with bags to clean right of ways.

[@lh412]

Yes, my cats are inside cats. However, growing up a lot of people had outdoor cats. Outside cats don’t tend to live long because of wildlife, hawks, owls, coyotes, etc. Then there are the vehicles that hit them. We tend to treat our pets as family and we want to keep them safe.

[@TwoWolves]

Where I live outdoor cats tend not to survive very long between coyotes, bears, fisher cats (a large and vicious relative of weasels), mountain lions, and recently, wolves.

[@jeannemara1600]

Muir woods is a must see and experience! Cathedral-like in its grandeur, its silence, its beauty. Love that part of the states (Northern California.) Northern California is not only beautiful, but has my favorite city and towns. San Francisco, Monterey, Pacific Grove, Carmel. The places to stay, from The Mark on Nob Hill, to quaint Queen Anne and Italianate homes used as bed and breakfasts to Mission Ranch (owned by Clint Eastwood,) right outside of Camel (it isn't really a ranch.) Just fantastic. Also, one of the best restaurants I have ever experienced is Alioto's on Fisherman's Warf in San Francisco. This may sound odd, but we also had the best pizza we have ever had in San Francisco. North Beach Pizza even delivered to our room at The Mark at around midnight. We had just flown in and were starving and the concierge told us to order from them, as room service, at that time of night, might be able to get us something, but not necessarily something that would fill us up. It has been years since we have been able to get out there, but I would go tomorrow if I could. Just remember that earthquakes are common in California.

[@markperkins9437]

Litter - A few years ago I was driving from Leicester to Inverness. I was amazed by the amount of trash along side the road especially as I approached Glasgow. I really always enjoy going to the UK but I just didn't understand what some Brits do with their trash. It is really rather rare to drive down roads here in the USA and see trash that has been casually tossed out the car window.

[@adataylor4956]

Today I found your page and was really loving your commentary! I just want to share 2 things… 1) Americans LOVE foreign accents (especially British). 2) If you ever want to visit a fun park in America, I suggest Shawnee National in Southern Illinois. You can go horseback riding, and fishing but my favorite spot is called Fat Man Squeeze!!!!

[@adeleennis2255]

In some towns, you have to watch out for packs of feral dogs. The feral cats we cared for were decimated by two packs one year. We went from around thirty cats to about 10.

[@Cricket2731]

I used to live out in the country, but my parents were not farmers. Our cats were in-&-out cats. Since it was out in the country, there were loose/feral dogs all over the place. Many of us had a "varmint gun" by the back door. They got used, too!

[@adeleennis2255]

@@Cricket2731 Unfortunately, we live in the town center, so shooting at anything that’s not a person breaking into our house is not an option. We are an SYG state so we are allowed to shoot people who enter illegally into our homes.

[@kathleenmenker3853]

Soccer is pretty big all over the US. My kids played soccer all through elementary school in the seventies. My husband coached our 4 sons and I coached my daughter for the first 5 years. She played 2 years in HS. My oldest and youngest sons played 4 yrs in HS. The other 2 wrestled. We went to the World Cup in Chicago in 1994. 3 of our boys and our nephew commuted to Chicago and joined us in our camper. Most of our grandkids played soccer for several years.

[@steventambon2588]

"I dont see that... i dont go outside" 🤣

[@RogCBrand]

LOL!!!

[@reindeer7752]

I have casement windows that roll out easily with a small lever. They are double pane with blinds in between the glass so they never have to be cleaned and you don't have to pull strings to adjust them. The screens are on the inside of the house and they can easily be removed if necessary to clean the glass windows. Otherwise, they are on all the time as they don't interfere with opening and closing the windows. Not a lot of Americans have this type of window but windows with screens on the outside of the house are everywhere.

[@catherinelw9365]

When I lived in WA state, I saw a news clip about a lady whose little dog was picked up by a bald eagle. A camera crew happened to be nearby on some other news event, and they filmed her, telling how her dog was in the yard, and an eagle swooped down and took it. She was crying, while her husband was walking back and forth in the background, pumping his fist and shouting "YES!!!". It was hilarious, although I feel for her loss.

[@jimclayson]

I live in central Washington. There was a report around a decade ago from one of the locals of a bird (assumed to be either a golden eagle or a hawk) swooping down and grabbing a woman's Shih Tzu, then dropping it from a considerable height. The dog was badly injured, but survived. Most people I know who have small dogs get panicky at the thought of a bird attack, but I've known far more people who've lost dogs to coyotes and cougars than any variety of bird.

[@ellechristie1111]

I live in upstate NY. In my area, we have a very healthy bald eagle population. We have chickens and cats that I am constantly worried about. **I live on a dirt road with a lot of land…no close neighbors so our cats do go outside, but mostly like it inside to make sure their employees (the humans) are doing their job of keeping the food bowl filled.

[@BekEhr]

Sorry to burst anyone’s bubble…America doesn’t technically have pay toilets, but there are many stores that only allow paying customers to use the bathrooms.

[@richardbates6311]

You call them cats. I call them "Eagle Chow". Living in the southwest, you have some massive airborne predators, and I know two people who have watched as their cats/anklebiterdogs were killed/carried-away by large birds. Portions of the western USA have large populations of deadly aerial animals e.g. eagles, hawks, condors, vultures. Most people I know with outside animals include a dog in the mix who acts as protection (for the cats).

[@barbarahansen5353]

Not just airborne predators. Around here (So. Cal.) we have to watch out for coyotes, mountain lions, and occasionally bears. If you leave your dogs or cats out unattended, you may be sentencing them to an unfortunate demise.

[@sallyjune4109]

Even in Houston, we have wolves and cougars. The 4 legged kind.

[@barbarahansen5353]

@@sallyjune4109 😂

[@mbourque]

the toilet gap is because of legal reasons. I remember a news article many years ago that a woman was having a medical episode and nobody could get to her because she was in a toilet stall and the door was locked. this was back when there were no gaps and the door reached the floor. the company where she was at was sued by her and her family who stated that the toilet stall was a bad design because it didn't allow someone to crawl underneath in order to reach her to provide aid. She ended up winning, so now they have to be high enough off the ground so that someone can crawl underneath them to provide help. and the cracks are to let someone see if a person is having a possible medical issue inside of them.

[@GenX1964]

5:50. As an American THANK YOU for bringing this up. The gap is weird and has not always been the case. Here's what chatgpt gave me as an answer why. None of these are acceptable reasons for people watching me take a crap btw. Chatgpt: The presence of small gaps in public bathroom stall doors in America is a design choice that has both historical and practical reasons. Here are a few reasons for these gaps: Ventilation: Gaps allow for better airflow within the stalls, which can help reduce odors and maintain a more pleasant environment. Safety: The gaps can provide some visibility into the stall, which can enhance safety by allowing others to see if someone inside needs assistance or if there is any suspicious activity. Cleaning: Gaps make it easier for cleaning staff to see if a stall is occupied and needs attention, thus helping with maintenance and cleanliness. Cost and Maintenance: Doors without significant gaps would require more complex hinges and hardware, increasing construction and maintenance costs. It's worth noting that the size of these gaps can vary from place to place and may be influenced by local building codes and regulations. Some newer restroom designs aim to minimize these gaps for improved privacy, but the presence of small gaps remains a common feature in many public bathrooms in the United States.

[@TangoTreeWoods]

out here in SoCal we can't let the cats out due to owls & hawks, mostly COYOTES! my cats have a pet door to their "catio" (enclosed) on the back patio. plus most people in housing developments look down on having someone else's cat in their yard doing their 'business'.

[@justflippingwork8049]

Window screens here are mounted, as a general rule, year round. So we don't have to pop them in when we open the windows. we just open the window and walk away. Indoor cats are very common. And every time I have taken in a stray neighborhood cat and they get a chance to live inside, they don't even attempt to go back out

[@jasmineelizabethsanchez9754]

Grew up in Colorado rockys, literally every school i have ever passed in my life, and most parks have at least 2 goals a soccer filed apart. Most also have field goal posts for the "real football," too.

[@scarletj8180]

To folks who fear letting their cats outdoors: I have lived in American suburbs all my life. I've always had indoor/outdoor cats. They have all lived long healthy lives, dying of old age. My cats love being able to run full speed for long distances outside, climb trees, sunbathe, chase bugs and mice. When rain forces them inside for several days, they are unhappy and anxious for a chance to get outdoors....The quality of their lives seems infinitely better by being outside.

[@windmechanic]

There are quite a number of soccer fields in Casper, WY (Rockies) albeit in one general area. If visiting Yellowstone, consider tent camping and spend at least two days. There's MUCH to do! Keep your distance from the "Fluffy Cows" or Bison/Buffalo and don't even consider walking off any of the boardwalks in vicinity of the various geysers.

[@JasonBreitkopf]

In regards to the soccer fields, there is a long history of youth sports in the US, and soccer has been big since the 1990s, in light of the US Men’s Team’s big World Cup foray in 1994 and the rise of the Women’s Team’s first World Cup victory. AYSO - American Youth Soccer Organization runs kids’ leagues all across the country.

[@carlacook5181]

When you visit National Parks, come to Tennessee and check out the Smoky Mountains and stop off in Gatlinburg for a day or two, it is really beautiful in our mountains.

[@oshbaaya]

We have owls ,hawks, coyotes, wild cats, mountain lions, traffic, and all those can kill a cat..so we keep them indoors

[@lauraabrams2918]

Hi! Am from the U.S. Every cat I have had with me has always been an indoor pet. Currently have 3.

[@Isabella66Gracen]

My cat is both indoor/outdoor. But rarely out for more than a half hour at a time, a couple times a day. We live in a quiet cul de sac with large gardens/yards so its a safe environment.

[@retiefgregorovich810]

I've had indoor and outdoor cats. The indoor cats lived long lives, up to 16 years, while the outdoor cats disappeared usually within 3 years. Coyotes got to eat, cars run them over at night, etc.

[@TheRetroMess]

1. There's litter. You just have to look outside the 20 year old neighborhoods and into the more industrial/public-works/municipal/abandoned field, rural, riverside, low income trailer park/apartment areas to see it. Yes, there's a really nice high income neighborhood just up the street from us with freshly paved streets, manicured lawns, quirky homes/McMansions, and intact sidewalks, but look around my neighborhood and you see neglect. It's not just litter too, it's just general infrastructure. Our roads do not last. Our sidewalks fall apart in the first few years of existence. Buildings are up-kept for the first few years, but slowly the "I don't care" approach to up-keep seeps in. 2. Soccer/fútbol is definitely a major thing... amongst primary school aged (heard of "soccer moms"? That's where it comes from) and semi-pros. But I think as long as there are manly men doing the most masculine male things they can around, football (NFL), baseball, basketball, and hockey are the only sports that matter in general. I don't know what adult American soccer players do after college... Sent off to a farm somewhere in northern or eastern Europe? j/k 3. Public toilets/loos. Ya roll the dice, ya takes yer chances. I much prefer my private bathroom than being stuck in a public bathroom. Nasty AF. Anything public will be abused by those raised in a barn and by wolves. 4. Screens. Hmm... I am thankful for them. I still don't open windows often unless absolutely necessary (like airing out a room). Why? Screen gaps and ants. Ants are motherf***ers... Indoor cats: Yes. Mainly for the fact of their own safety. Especially in neighborhoods on streets known for speeders and drivers who actually aim for small animals and yell "10 points, little bastard!". We have idiots and horrible people here. 5. Parks. You want to get away from the idiots or find a secluded spot to die or be killed? National parks! But honestly/seriously, they're an oasis in the middle of the bullshit that goes on here. Or they would be if you're not randomly harassed by Karens or methed-out tweakers. That's... That's a thing now... 6. Yeah. I guess. But I think it's more regional and usually a "because we have to" type of thing. Kinda like the "Sorry" habit in the UK. It's a social tic. But it's a nice one. One negative I've seen lately is a lack of patience. The not letting the other person answer a question by continually talking and asking the same question again and again habit. That grinds my gears. Those are Karen wannabes IMO. But generally people are accommodating. Go the extra mile and be honest and reasonable about things and they'll be nicer. He's right, exceptions proving the rule..Source: Retail work. But retail work has made me jaded.

[@HeatherMcCall-kelly-yv6sb]

In the park across the street, there are 2 basketball courts, a baseball field, a soccer field, a skateboard park, hiking trails, walking trails, a playground, a large pond, and a large area of woods. And there are coyotes, bears, deer, eagle, ravens, large crows, hawks plus copperheads and rattlesnakes. Yes, we do keep our cats indoors.

[@sammurphy4300]

Our cross pond transplant lives in the midwest, The northeast is pretty filthy. I grew up in nyc and the first time I happened across a very clean city block, it took me a minute to realize what was off.

[@LadiesandGentlemenHRH]

I’m in Utah near the Rocky Mountains. Plenty of soccer fields, at least 2-3 parks within walking distance that have multiple. Utah also has 5 National Parks-all worth visiting especially for that gorgeous red rock. (Canyonlands, Arches, Capitol Reef, Zion and Bryce). I always try to smile or say a quick hello to people on walks with my dog but I’ve seen other videos of people criticizing utahn friendliness 😅 oh well.

[@timschrage1694]

Met a few Brits in Florida and Jamaica on vacation. Almost all of them were taken aback about how friendly and outgoing we actually are, and not to mention curious. We had a good laugh about it a couple of times, because they gave the vibe that we were just setting them up to mug them or something. lol In all actuality, most of our individual states are so large that even meeting people from different parts of the country is always of interest, but to "get 'ya Britt" were always excited about it. To try to make you understand this, see my previous comment above, its a rather rare.. Couple that with the fact, that in my case being 55, I grew up on WW2 stories from great uncles, much older cousins and the like about how hospitable the Brits were towards them when stationed there pre-D-Day. All the while admitting how much of a pain in the ass they probably were in general. (Most had just come through the Depression, were not very well to do and suddenly are being clothed, fed and housed for free while being paid rather well all told). Of course they chased the British girls! They loved the accents and from what they said the British girls loved how much fun they liked to have. Good stuff

[@bethstocking9466]

We have lots of soccer fields in the Rockies. Not every place is a mountain here. We have flatlands in between. 🙂 Soccer is very popular with the kids in the Rockies, too.

[@sipessipes9171]

All of our cats are indoor cats. Many of the streets and highways around here are 30 mph up to 55 mph so it's safest to keep them indoors and maybe build a 'Catio' off of a window.

[@conservativecrusader80]

Shout out to Anderson, IN! I live there! Yes soccer is very popular in the states among school age kids. All 3 of my boys have played soccer since they were all 4 years old.