I'm a man with kids in 3 different houses and I can say she's 1000% correct and my kids who are grown now told me even though I took care of them they still didn't have a daddy bond with me because i wasn't there that broke my heart 💔💔
@AshleyLee-sn9if4 ай бұрын
Yeah I remember my dad getting on us about touching the thermostat or leaving on lights, running out to help me and my sister when our neighbors Rottweiler got out the fence, cooking amazing meals that put my moms to shame, waking us up on a Saturday morning to go hiking. Life would’ve been completely different if he wasn’t around
@Akronkangaroo4 ай бұрын
And if you don't believe me make your child choose between spending time or playing a game with friends... yo feelings gone be hurt af😂😂😂😂
@AshleyLee-sn9if4 ай бұрын
@@Akronkangaroo I may have missed a response but I’m currently hanging out with my daughter before work 🩷
@ladyindaroom4 ай бұрын
I explained this to my daughter’s Father and he got offended. Then wonder why his daughter is 19 and a single mother herself. It goes back to my decision to get pregnant by a man I knew who would not really be there. Broken foundations just ain’t cutting it. 💯💯💯💯
@ooakRAREGEM4 ай бұрын
Thank you for being honest
@jones1924 ай бұрын
The man is scared to get married but not scared to create broken homes. Make it make sense for me.
@Aminah66234 ай бұрын
You can’t make it make sense because it doesn’t. Straight foolishness
@listeningviayoutube72294 ай бұрын
SAY that again! Facts...😢
@DeeDindial4 ай бұрын
He’s more concerned about his fears than the fears his decisions are instilling in his children. Not only him, majority of parents men & women are more concerned with themselves than the kids they made. Remember we are putting the next generation out there..we all need to do better.
@jones1924 ай бұрын
@@DeeDindial exactly. The bad thing is some will come to his defense.
@franktruth63224 ай бұрын
Mannnn…. He lead with his wallet. Not his mind and heart. 😵💫😵💫😵💫 clown behavior.
@jraheemjefcoat4294 ай бұрын
When she said that he's looking for his next victim to put in the box, I almost fell out of my chair! Sis is speaking the facts of life!
@meenameena-dd2zy4 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY!!!!
@tomaratorres33544 ай бұрын
Right because as long as they are baby mommas they are at his mercy for whatever he chooses to give them, vs being legally required to provide. That's the epitome of selfish. Look at Brian McKnight. Now that he has a new wife he treats his other kids like trash.
@MichaelMcMillan-i9p4 ай бұрын
@tomaratorres3354 Cam has the MEANS to take care of his children. And he does ALOT to help out kids in the Atlanta, and Charlotte area. So I'm pretty sure he's a great Father. What she's saying applies to Baby Daddys who can't AFFORD their responsibilities. And at her age, she'll probably NEVER have children. (Unless they're Adopted)
@jraheemjefcoat4294 ай бұрын
@@MichaelMcMillan-i9p You can have all the money in the world, but that doesn't mean he can be present to all of his children. MONEY DOESN'T BUY TIME! And to throw dig at this woman because she doesn't have children is low and diabolical.
@jraheemjefcoat4294 ай бұрын
@@MichaelMcMillan-i9p All the money can't buy time with the kids he has. And for you to down talk that psychologist like that is diabolical just because she doesn't have any children, yet.
@denisereese76144 ай бұрын
I agree with her. Someone made a comment that she has never been married nor have children. Exactly, this is why her advice makes it even better. She chose not to do exactly what she is explaining to Cam on his mistakes.❤
@friscofe4 ай бұрын
@denisereese7614 hello 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 EXACTLY
@BLee094 ай бұрын
I hate dismissive people like that.
@lakeyshakeysha4 ай бұрын
They too slow to get that part tho
@Mz.WisdomWise-w9u4 ай бұрын
He just want to have access to those women. No real care honor or respect. Just a hope to lock them to him forever.
@2jcward4 ай бұрын
Exactly. Im mid 30s and childless. People ask all the time, so you not going to have children unless you’re married? That is correct! Yes, divorce can happen but I’m going to intentionally give my children the best start by seeing their dad walk through that door every night like I did. 💕
@lisafoster38684 ай бұрын
She doesn’t need to be married with kids to analyze his selfish ways. The fact that he has 8 kids with 3 baby mamas says it all
@DiViNELOVE7-774 ай бұрын
@@lisafoster3868 And never been married on top of that! Crazy toxicity!🤦🏾♀️
@Blakchipskylark4 ай бұрын
So what’s that say about the women?
@jacbro334 ай бұрын
She need demonstrate something.
@FaithandNova4 ай бұрын
@@Blakchipskylarkthey made poor decisions also. You didn’t need someone to tell you that.
@Blakchipskylark4 ай бұрын
@@FaithandNova then keep it moving then 😂😂😂 why are y’all so focused on what a millionaire does when normal females can’t keep they legs closed and don’t required anything like marriage to smash .. fix yall first.. men will follow after that
@1010drum4 ай бұрын
He really thought that he was being deep. Until the truth was brought to him. Then after she read him his rights? He was HEATED.
@ladjikourouma64754 ай бұрын
Where was he heated at?
@noblezenith654 ай бұрын
She said multiple disrespectful statements that she can't verify. That's not truth. She said he has a hurt ego, low functioning, broken man, broken home, selfish, etc.. She can't prove any of that. What's a fact is she's 41 and alone with no kids and about to go through menopause and will soon be infertile. To me she lost. Cam Won. He has what he wants she doesn't and it's almost too late for her biologically speaking. W Cam.
@kimberlystokes6634 ай бұрын
@@noblezenith65 🤡🤡🤡
@MosaLekhoaba4 ай бұрын
Literally scary. It was his body language, his belittling of her intelligence.. I mean... I can only imagine what happens behind doors
@noblezenith654 ай бұрын
@MosaLekhoaba She was way more insulting than he was. That's probably why she's 41 and single. I can only imagine what she's like behind closed doors.
@raynardchurchwell42854 ай бұрын
I like how she did that respectfully. Perfect way to handle a disagreement.
@PSi-fp8ve4 ай бұрын
She was having thoughts of murder every 30 seconds that's not respectful
@Takashii854 ай бұрын
@@PSi-fp8ve *thoughts of murder" okay, bro.
@PSi-fp8ve4 ай бұрын
@Takashii85 yeah she was having fits of rage which isn't a fruit of the Spirit she was getting mad on the inside which is what counts
@PSi-fp8ve4 ай бұрын
@Takashii85 Jesus says if you think about someone on the inside it's like of you actually did it on lust and anger
@michellelashawn4 ай бұрын
@@PSi-fp8ve …you can read minds
@sbrightpink4 ай бұрын
Cam was defensive and in denial😔
@Itsascorpiothang4 ай бұрын
The whole interview and it was uncomfortable to watch.
@ketwannawalker69674 ай бұрын
@@Itsascorpiothangvery cringey
@teresakale12974 ай бұрын
Cam was in his feelings & refused the message she was conveying.
@chase7154 ай бұрын
Very
@RheemQ4 ай бұрын
Why does any of this matter? You people really talk like this shit is gonna affect you personally or something. Why can't people just watch things for entertainment anymore and stop living vicariously through others?
@BlackPanther-oo4zj4 ай бұрын
She got you Bro. Surprised you posted. Accountability......... Salute!
@WittyOne374 ай бұрын
Man please, it's for clicks and views. No accountability will be taken lol
@0z3114 ай бұрын
@@WittyOne37 not many people would have the heart to post this regardless of money that’s being made
@BLee094 ай бұрын
Lol yea it's content at the end of the day he got a channel to run 😂
@QueenA123454 ай бұрын
Thats a low bar.
@Mz.WisdomWise-w9u4 ай бұрын
Accountable says he wouldn’t do it again. He clearly says he wants “God to bring them to me”. What an idiotic thing to say. People should keep God out of it. He didn’t choose this for you Cam. YOU did. Smh
@patriciawhite97284 ай бұрын
“Creating all these houses that are homeless” that was deep!
@dylinciathigpen67854 ай бұрын
No it wasn't. He's in the 1% bracket so he can afford it. Cam has his kids living with him and he takes care of the mother's. WHY ARE Y'ALL SHAMING A BLACK MAN FOR TAKING CARE OF HIS KIDS AND THEIR MOTHER'S??? NOTHING IS BROKEN HERE. POOKIE BREAKS HOMES BECAUSE HE'S NOT HELPING THE MOTHER IN ANYWAY. THE MOTHER HAS TO TURN MASCULINE AND LEAVE THE CHILD TO WORK AND STRUGGLE. THAT A BROKEN HOME.
@centellvasilopoulos4 ай бұрын
@dylinciathigpen6785 Girl, not you missing the whole damn point of what she said. You're talking about money, and that is a problem. A BIG problem 🤦🏾♀️
@dylinciathigpen67854 ай бұрын
@@centellvasilopoulos how having your 8 kids live with you and you're taking care of the mom's a problem. How many men are taking in 1 child and helping the mother of that 1 child versus Cam a millionaire having 8 kids that LIVE WITH HIM and he takes care of the mom a bad thing???
@ZachLaRay-2G54 ай бұрын
Question how is it a home when it is was never established as a home from the beginning. Having kids doesn’t mean it’s an home. Let’s put words where words belong
@ZachLaRay-2G54 ай бұрын
The white slave owners did it years before we did and is still doing it but not getting criticize from his white peers! Speak on it
@brianl.english30124 ай бұрын
Shout out to all the Black men in here who are actually killing it as husbands and fathers!
@sharonereed814 ай бұрын
Cam sounds so ignorant here and thinks he is so deep and smart. 8 kids by 3 women you were never married to? RIDICULOUS
@noblezenith654 ай бұрын
She said multiple disrespectful statements that she can't verify. That's not truth. She said he has a hurt ego, low functioning, broken man, broken home, selfish, etc.. She can't prove any of that. What's a fact is she's 41 and alone with no kids and about to go through menopause and will soon be infertile. To me she lost. Cam Won. He has what he wants she doesn't and it's almost too late for her biologically speaking. W Cam.
@jeffyeah42564 ай бұрын
@@noblezenith65 won what? there are no trophies? His kids can have all the GUICCCIS in the world but daddy ain't home when Christmas comes knocking...Maybe they get a phone call
@noblezenith654 ай бұрын
@jeffyeah4256 How would you know when he's home and when he's not? Your wrong. The lady in the video lost in life. Menopause on the way.
@Akronkangaroo4 ай бұрын
@jeffyeah4256 yall live in this fantasy world 😂😂😂you either want daddy home all day everyday or bringing in the bacon/paying bills. You can't have both😂😂 while children value their parents that day to day stuff is overrated let the children tell it.
@Lance_p844 ай бұрын
@@sharonereed81 yet women are lining up to have more kids by him 😩
@247Tongan4 ай бұрын
The fact he stopped her to say, let me know when your done means he’s listening to respond rather than listening to understand. You can tell he can’t wait to reply haha it’s burning in him as he’s listening. He can’t take the truth because the truth hurts when you’re living a lie.
@n30_s0ul_924 ай бұрын
i literally just commented this because a lot of people missed this.. 💯
@michiganpyroaddicts44824 ай бұрын
Them dudes with multiple baby mommas know they living a lie they just pretend they whole life, ain’t no real man chasing random women all the time
@libragirl62104 ай бұрын
I came to say this very thing..
@michaelcarroll24844 ай бұрын
As a fellow Therapist...She is spitting Facts! He laid out his truth and she is only reframing his truth as he presents it. That is what therapy is all about.
@arron2lucas4 ай бұрын
Did she properly reframe? How can she possibly comprehend his situation to reframe it?
@raider12974 ай бұрын
''His truth'' lmao. This enabling will only further problems.
@s.u.645Ай бұрын
💯 The only truth I see is, “I’m selfish and I’m immature!” So gross.🤮
@ShanikaClayton-g7d4 ай бұрын
Finally A woman spoken that gets it and can speak on behalf of all of us on this repetitive cycle
@rippyshopgod27364 ай бұрын
The man is the subject here but the women aren’t guilt free … repetitive cycle makes it seem like women screaming they don’t need a man is nonexistent or hopping from man to man to get everything they want doesn’t happen
@melvinvanhelsing31574 ай бұрын
Yall are apart of the cycle 😂😂😂
@femiliablaise85604 ай бұрын
@@ShanikaClayton-g7d despite what she said they are still going to create broken homes in the black community and outside of the community. They have the buck breeding plantation mentality
@Mike_Samps4 ай бұрын
She is 💯 % correct. No rebuttal nor explanation
@PSi-fp8ve4 ай бұрын
You should not lust
@AmbiguousAnthony4 ай бұрын
Respect to Cam for posting this and making it a clip. This interview tops the interview with Shannon and Katt in my opinion. The black community needs this.
@RT-qz5ci4 ай бұрын
Very different interviews and we needed both imo. But this is real talk. Lot of men need to hear this
@avgnfandon24 ай бұрын
That interview with Katt shouldn’t even be compared to this one as it’s not even in the same ballpark
@AmbiguousAnthony4 ай бұрын
@@avgnfandon2 y'all niggas must didn't see where I said "in my opinion"... lol
@AmbiguousAnthony4 ай бұрын
@@avgnfandon2did you read “in my opinion” part?
@nana-pp9kr4 ай бұрын
respect? he just tryna make money. no real accountability at all
@HonestBarnes4 ай бұрын
I agree w her, as a man w 4 children from an ex wife and ex fiance. We as men compartmentalize simply because we believed growing up that “it’s a man world”. As a 32 year old man this attitude bro got is the reason why many of our black women date outside their race/date the same sex. It’s a double standard because he wouldn’t want to deal with no woman w 8 kids and he’s contributing to this perpetuating cycle that doesn’t truly bring our black families back together.. nah this was a L bro. You want more kids w the intent on not having intent to build w the future mother of your unborn lol, wild. We gotta heal man.
@Teatimewithtasch4 ай бұрын
This is an amazing response king and so honest. Thank you for bringing a real conversation along with many others in the comments 💯🙏🏾
@attainingknowledgeoftruth83484 ай бұрын
@HonestBarnes, sorry but you sound like a single mother raised simpleton. You accuse BM while being totally ignorant of the stats. First off A much higher percentage of BW have children than BM (%46BM vs %64 BW.) Also in comparison to BM there is a much higher percentage of BW with multiple children by multiple men. Learn the facts before you talk down on BM.
@Cheryl-g2w4 ай бұрын
@@HonestBarnes 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@miamisolider32294 ай бұрын
She is 100 percent 💯 correct
@valzod38084 ай бұрын
She 💯 percent correct.
@noblezenith654 ай бұрын
She said multiple disrespectful statements that she can't verify. That's not truth. She said he has a hurt ego, low functioning, broken man, broken home, selfish, etc.. She can't prove any of that. What's a fact is she's 41 and alone with no kids and about to go through menopause and will soon be infertile. To me she lost. Cam Won. He has what he wants she doesn't and it's almost too late for her biologically speaking. W Cam.
@BreLakersN64 ай бұрын
@@noblezenith65she did not disrespect him in any form. She was very respectful and professional. In all honesty she was too gentle with him ! She danced around the truth trying not to hurt his ego or feelings. She made her analysis based off what she knows about his personal life and her experience counseling other low functioning men. She didn’t tell one lie!
@FaithandNova4 ай бұрын
@@noblezenith65if she never creates a child so be it. It better to never experience parenthood than to create kids just to destroy their lives. And DON’T say oh he’s rich as an excuse.
@aridivinity71234 ай бұрын
@@FaithandNovadame ! mic drop …. Facts
@KRYINGFREEMANX4 ай бұрын
BETA
@TommieTheTsunami4 ай бұрын
Omg she repeats exactly what he says consistently. Him stopping her each time saying I didn’t say that… can we say narcissistic behaviors.
@Ppietie4 ай бұрын
Yeppp! Hit the nail
@Teatimewithtasch4 ай бұрын
I said the same thing on another comment his narcissism is loud and the brokenness within him is even louder. The sad part about this is she handled in the most respectful manner the indifference while exposing and shining a light on His truth not being the appropriate standard.
@freshdew41534 ай бұрын
Yes we can 😩😆!
@AnnaM41174 ай бұрын
I appreciate that he posted this even though it didn’t shine the best light on him. The spotlight is only easy when you’re being praised.
@GreenwoodCotton4 ай бұрын
He keep it a stack. Respect to Cam.
@theIssue-tt4 ай бұрын
For clicks
@shewr46644 ай бұрын
This Dr. should be awarded an honorary common sense award!
@ChristinaJenkins-pk3ty4 ай бұрын
@@shewr4664 yup! Father's don't realize the impact of them not in the house. The living example. Can is just creating he's not investing anything. Can =Nick Cannon Jr.
@arron2lucas4 ай бұрын
Not really because she really can't comprehend his perspective... she dismissed his concerns for marriage to try to get him into a gotcha moment. There's no way she could possibly understand the pitfalls marriage has for a man of his stature...
@terrylampkin264 ай бұрын
@@arron2lucas U won the common sense award my brother..big facts!!!
@n1rvana_4 ай бұрын
@@arron2lucas Its not even that Having kids outside of marriage is just not smart. There is a long studied psychological effect on kids not having both parents in the home Its benefits him but it isnt good for the kids. And this whole prioritizing your own joy over the kids development is a very MODERN (and shitty) concept. The kids come into the picture? Its not ABOUT you anymore. He can be concerned with marriage day and night and have an infinite amount of good reasons not to. Custody battles having half his shit taken and the leverage the woman has in the relationship dur to that. All valid concerns. But at the end of the day: its still going to be don't have kids. Just because its dismissed doesn't mean there is a lack of understanding. Its may just be that she find is comparatively unimportant This video is actually the BIGGEST issue with the black community and guess who also falls behind the most: the black community. Ironically enough pre 1980s when we were having children in wedlock at 80%. This toxicity bm bd culture wasn't a thing. Black wall streets were ironically more common. Less people in jail we were just better. And people are trying to justify this. It's insane to me
@arron2lucas4 ай бұрын
@n1rvana_ so would it have been better if he had 3 divorces?
@mosesn84624 ай бұрын
She is right. Cam is rich and he can have many kids as he likes with multiple women. But he's not creating homes with mom and dad present, helping the kids with homework, eat dinner together, make sure they go to bed on time, make sure they stay away from trouble, and grow up to be doctors, lawyers, engineers, scientists, and become responsible citizens in society. Every kid deserves to have a mom and dad in the home and having 8 kids with 3 women only create broken homes.
@brendahudson85784 ай бұрын
For a man to come. from a 2 parent home and profess to be so intelligent is really ignorant to not understand how he has created 3 broken homes and is very selfish.
@shernette324 ай бұрын
Exactly, this should have been common knowledge..
@Teatimewithtasch4 ай бұрын
What I’ve come to realize is that just because a child comes from a “two parent” household doesn’t dismiss them from having brokenness within that infrastructure. There are many married people that still produce broken children because of the lack of emotional presence a child needs from BOTH PARENTS in order to thrive in life. It is very clear that in his own family dynamic there is a deficit that produced this person that has shown his full self in this very necessary discussion.
@krystingrant62924 ай бұрын
@@Teatimewithtaschwell said I'm one. Added trauma I'm adopted. He was their but wasnt a dedicated father. Very strained relationship
@Teatimewithtasch4 ай бұрын
@@krystingrant6292 it’s ok sis although we can’t change the family that God used as a vehicle to bring us to the earth realm I’ve prayed for a significant healing to be activated in your behalf. “For greater is He that is within us than he that is in the world”. I declare and decree that our Father will arrest your spirit and reveal Himself to you journeying you down the road less traveled. God is a good God and is the greatest love of all. You are His own daughter and He loves you abundantly allow your spirit to rest in that alone and trust that He will save you and be there for you ALWAYS. 💜🙏🏾
@sevinhundred38444 ай бұрын
He seen sumn in that marriage that made him not want to be married
@LARAG60954 ай бұрын
SHE IS ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!!!
@Lance_p844 ай бұрын
Who has more kids, black men or black women?😂
@PoohKalonji_974 ай бұрын
No she’s not
@noblezenith654 ай бұрын
She said multiple disrespectful statements that she can't verify. That's not truth. She said he has a hurt ego, low functioning, broken man, broken home, selfish, etc.. She can't prove any of that. What's a fact is she's 41 and alone with no kids and about to go through menopause and will soon be infertile. To me she lost. Cam Won. He has what he wants she doesn't and it's almost too late for her biologically speaking. W Cam.
@zekey664 ай бұрын
@@Lance_p84 yall both dumb
@filmadcamp15124 ай бұрын
@@noblezenith65This was a horrible argument you made that was void of any logic. It's the same logic that Cam tried to use to berate her. In no way is a single baby daddy with multiple baby mamas "winning" over a single successful woman he will never have access to. He knows he's low functioning and so do you.😏
@kaylasweet54314 ай бұрын
This was a really good analogy ! I hope Cam can rewatch this and understand where she is coming from , rather than being defensive!
@elizabethgodfrey10334 ай бұрын
Cam Is also helping kids not his own, too! So, u can’t slay the whole man. I think. She is too harsh! Why not tell some of his good, too!
@chase7154 ай бұрын
@@elizabethgodfrey1033 Oh please! Too many men want to give it to women straight no chaser but want to be coddled in YOUR truth?! That’s not only hypocritical but absolutely insane. Seek your higher self and do better dude.
@PSi-fp8ve4 ай бұрын
I hope Cam doesn't let her plant bad seeds in his heart
@BreezyBeKind4224 ай бұрын
I’m sure Cam is a good father, the kind to always make sure his kids are straight and taken care of. But he might not get the chance to be a great dad, that bond comes from spending real time with your children. Genuine, continuous, individual time. It’s hard to have a nightmare and go to your dad to feel protected when he doesn’t live in the same house. Or get home from a long day at school and end up telling him everything and having a deep convo just because y’all both happened to be in the kitchen together. Of course we can’t help that some families don’t workout and not all kids get to have a both-parent home. But I don’t think we should ever pretend it doesn’t suck to not have a solid family foundation.
@jackieburns52574 ай бұрын
Yes, he misses important events ,conversations etc.
@jstar3084 ай бұрын
Rich or not, men with multiple baby mamas will always be a joke to me but they will claim that women are “washed up” if they have multiple baby daddies.
@clivinsvolcy12944 ай бұрын
A rich man could never be washed up
@Treemonieee4 ай бұрын
@@clivinsvolcy1294He sure can be washed with money!
@barbi3fr3sh064 ай бұрын
This! Men will literally tell women their value decreases when they have children yet are the same ones making these women baby mamas. I wish ladies with no children would wise up and stop laying with men who have a kid(s) just because he has money or is attractive.
@Jafithagreat4 ай бұрын
@@jstar308 the women who knowingly birth children in those situations are more of a joke
@clivinsvolcy12944 ай бұрын
@@Treemonieee nope. not true....you women made it that way
@christinegriffith33774 ай бұрын
I love Dr Bryant. He needed to hear that.
@Takashii854 ай бұрын
Won't change a thing for men like him.
@starrstewart13594 ай бұрын
Dr. Bryant spoke facts.
@PSi-fp8ve4 ай бұрын
That's because you see truth as lies and lies as truth
@Takashii854 ай бұрын
@PSi-fp8ve You think that having 8 kids with 3 different women, and claiming to "take your time" and be selfish is not true?? Is Dr Bryant talking bout you, bro?
@jones1924 ай бұрын
This man is contributing to generations of broke homes and does not even realize it.
@chase7154 ай бұрын
He does, he just thought they spewed enough lies to only blame women.
@Takashii854 ай бұрын
There are thousands more like him. And we wonder why the community has so much dysfunctional behaviour
@jones1924 ай бұрын
@@Takashii85 exactly. He is not the only and the people that applaud this behavior have no clue.
@AGLew174 ай бұрын
As a cat that just started his 60th solar revolution last Saturday, I wholeheartedly, vehemently, and adamantly, & without a doubt agree with Dr. Bryant! While I understand there are unfortunate & unforseen situations where parents may have/share kids but end up residing in different residences, such as divorce, ended committed relationships, etc, intentionally creating many situations like this is extremely, extremely selfish to the children, and it is not player, dope, or fly, IMHO!
@lovelee8834 ай бұрын
Exactly it’s the intentional aspect.
@mizz2ts864 ай бұрын
That key word you said was INTENTIONALLY! Cam tried to back pedal later on and say things happen, while his segue into this topic was him saying “I have 8 kids and I want more.” Most importantly he stated “I don’t care how they get here, I just want God to bring em.” This was after she asked if he wanted them by his future wife. Meaning he wants to continue to INTENTIONALLY create broken homes and blended families that he doesn’t consider them to be because the kids live with him. He doesn’t understand they’re still broken because the children’s mother’s aren’t living with them. They are blended because they are all living with each other without their individual mothers and with his current partner. There are things that a child requires from both parents on a daily basis. I pray that Cam asks God for guidance, to hear with the ears, but understand with the heart. ❤🙏🏾
@AGLew174 ай бұрын
@@mizz2ts86 , yeeeeaaaah, it seems like he also really doesn't understand what a blended family is!😆
@mizz2ts864 ай бұрын
@@AGLew17 It’s seems as though he was only listening to respond vs understand. He was quick to let her know that he studied sociology as well though. He didn’t study it to the level that she has though. If I heard correctly she has a PHD? Done quote me, but I think that’s what he said during her introduction. I don’t really keep up with Cam. I don’t watch his stuff for real. I think I’ve only watched his show when his mom was a guest. Someone I follow suggested we watch this one and I’m glad I did. It just confirmed what I already thought about him. I’m not judging him I’ll just continue to pray for him and his kids. Most of all this new partner of his. She used to preach against men like Cam, he has changed her entire stance. I hate that for her. I do pray that his parents being ministers are giving him Godly counsel. 🙏🏾❤️
@AGLew174 ай бұрын
@@mizz2ts86 , exactly! Very well said!!!
@Trefeezy4 ай бұрын
Bro said “the kicker is, I want more kids” lol…just to get destroyed even more😂
@HonestBarnes4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@BlazianReice4 ай бұрын
Wow she really broke that down!
@slay.lawson4 ай бұрын
I agree with her perspective as a single father that grew up in the brokest of broken homes. I recognized the effect that my upbringing had on me early in life and still made the mistake of having children out of wedlock smh. I can’t relate to men that brag about it and make it a goal as if it’s an accomplishment.
@MsDrea3154 ай бұрын
He lacks accountability and the ability to see things outside of his view
@truestory20064 ай бұрын
It's wild for a women to say anyone lacks accountability
@n30_s0ul_924 ай бұрын
@@truestory2006its wild to generalize women when her comment was made specifically about the video we are watching… the deflection is real. respectfully go heal 🙏🏾💜
@n1rvana_4 ай бұрын
@@truestory2006 But did she lie?
@truestory20064 ай бұрын
@n30_s0ul_92 cam actually made more valid points than she did if you watch the interview and she's the one who needs healing queen
@truestory20064 ай бұрын
@@n1rvana_ she was proven wrong several times during the conversation
@queenofthesouth42054 ай бұрын
Lord have mercy on these 8 kids....and the "daddy hunger" they will encounter.
@jaycee92584 ай бұрын
Exactly! And he doesn't seem to understand that. I wish he and Nick Cannon would get some help - proper, deep therapy.
@PSi-fp8ve4 ай бұрын
That's a terrible seed to try to plant in someone's heart
@michiganpyroaddicts44824 ай бұрын
There’s kids in these situations that grew up with no money how you think we feel 😂 pookie strikes again
@earllrae14 ай бұрын
This is why I educate my daughter to recognize the FLAGS ON THE FIELD and keep it moving away from this type of energy!!!🧐
@jayporcelain9134 ай бұрын
Cam: “Just tell me when I can talk.” Dr. Bryant: “Yea almost.” GIRL LAY HIM OUT!!!!!!
@justussdad4264 ай бұрын
No amount of love or nice occasions can overcome that deficit
@rhodiahicks44594 ай бұрын
He has daughters would he want them to date like him ? Like the same thoughts
@diggs19894 ай бұрын
These men are so disconnected from women they don’t even consider their own daughters/sisters fr
@Trillary_Banks4 ай бұрын
@@diggs1989THIS!!!
@RicanPrincess8884 ай бұрын
I love the men in these comments, there’s always room for improvement but hold yourself accountable and be open to listen strong black women.
@ChrisDaAce274 ай бұрын
Never for any reason be willing to listen to a strong black woman.
@oodief884 ай бұрын
@ChrisDaAce27 and that's why y'all are forever at the bottom.
@clifton69194 ай бұрын
You lost me at strong black women
@WENOTMEPRODUCTIONS4 ай бұрын
She cooked you Cam no lie
@corasbloom4 ай бұрын
I know a pookie when I see one and I already knew he was a pookie.
@biga35864 ай бұрын
She got a point on this one G
@tufslk19824 ай бұрын
That was so elegantly done ❤ Did he know who he was interviewing ⁉️😎
@CoralNeon-nk6vf4 ай бұрын
😂chile he wasn't ready for that gracious read!💅🏾💯🙌🏾
@Teatimewithtasch4 ай бұрын
I am going to be honest in my opinion, he saw the interview with Nick Cannon and Dr Bryant and thought to himself with high narcissism being activated that he would get her on his platform and “bring her down to size” and it backfired. This is a clear example of what the “enemy intends for harm, God will use it for good”. He needed to be exposed and his ego needed to be ruptured. Pride goeth before the fall. It isn’t wise to maliciously plan to attack or make someone that you don’t know look bad to paint a “narrative” without taking a look at self first.
@shewanda14 ай бұрын
CAM'S MASK FELL APART IN FRONT OF OUR EYES.
@atsey384 ай бұрын
Its SAD how both men and women don't think about the kids .
@anataye884 ай бұрын
@@Stillhoveringsir, she isn't talking to you specifically. She didn't tag you. You are very triggered. Go to therapy please.
@Stillhovering4 ай бұрын
@@anataye88 I didn’t disrespect her or her opinion I stated a fact , you look like you the one need therapy
@keycrum42184 ай бұрын
@@anataye88a hit dog will holler
@michiganpyroaddicts44824 ай бұрын
@@Stillhoveringkick rocks pookie
@Stillhovering4 ай бұрын
@@michiganpyroaddicts4482 lmao to be pookie you have to be the one the girls run to after they have kids
@SamirahAllen4 ай бұрын
She is so educated and I love it. 💯
@Tina_Chris4 ай бұрын
I hope this conversation was meaningful for those who watched it. Let's hope it provided some help.
@RiRithe14 ай бұрын
Too many people have podcast without enough knowledge and spewing out nonsense to the current and next generation
@jammzy29594 ай бұрын
This.
@Jaycarbrownie124 ай бұрын
You have 8 kids they don’t have full access to you and the fact that you think it is ok to raise kids at a distance is crazy . Thank god for my dad he stuck it out for my mom to be in the house with us.
@srianna04164 ай бұрын
Well, they don't have full access to their mom, but you're right. They are still missing a parent.
@michiganpyroaddicts44823 ай бұрын
@@Jaycarbrownie12 them deadbeats don’t care they just like to sleep around then blame the kids
@nightseertarot33374 ай бұрын
Whos your next victim? She is so strong.
@chinito17244 ай бұрын
That, was incorrect and it was misandry. The women who chose to have children with Cam Newton were adults. They chose to have children with a rich NFL star. She lost me
@nightseertarot33374 ай бұрын
@@chinito1724 you don't know what kinds of promises he was making to those women.
@chase7154 ай бұрын
Absolutely! 💯
@chase7154 ай бұрын
@@chinito1724You men seem to be more focused on what the next man has, than to actually receive the point. Sad part is your fellow bros refuse to correct you. Blind leading the blind. Sad really.
@Nyx5444 ай бұрын
@@chase715bars
@jetuanburrell67844 ай бұрын
Okay she broke it down # Dr. Bryant.
@PaulJuniorMusic4 ай бұрын
Cam got a heavy dose of truth right here. But, I do respect him for sharing this on his channel. It’s something he needed to hear. 💯
@jasmineedwards25974 ай бұрын
I really respect the points she made and I do feel she’s on to something with exploring the causes of shortfalls within the black community.
@dyshaunierandall51854 ай бұрын
Men talk about women all the time, but the fact that they can go around having babies by multiple women is not OK. Please stop this nonsense and creating a lot of broken homes. I don’t care how much money you have or who you are.
@michiganpyroaddicts44824 ай бұрын
Then when you ask them they will be like it was the past 😂😂, nah pookie you were chasing random women
@tashahall18554 ай бұрын
Welp, he wont be having her back on the show😂
@cjohnson_4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@chase7154 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@TyAintGonEatNoiHop4 ай бұрын
Definitely Therapy at a high level
@julzunplugged4 ай бұрын
Or just common sense articulated masterfully.
@Jaylapov4 ай бұрын
@@julzunplugged seem like a lot of men don’t have common sense 😂
@uscitizen10354 ай бұрын
He seems like a good person but his children still got a absentee part time dad.
@jones1924 ай бұрын
Cam is reminding me of Kevin Gates. Want to be deep but sound d"mb as h3ll.
@cjohnson_4 ай бұрын
Yessss
@shonda04134 ай бұрын
Notice, he couldn't even say that he wanted more kids with Jazz smh
@Itsascorpiothang4 ай бұрын
I’m a product of this behavior and she’s 100% correct.
@kidmelo19944 ай бұрын
She is 100% correct. However the bigger issue is , how many women will still choose to be the baby mama knowing the his perspective. People choose money over true family core. He only saying this because the way Marriage is currently constructed is horrible for men.
@sammycastelo94464 ай бұрын
Shot out to Cam 4 his transparently on this touchy topic. Also great advice from Dr. Bryant & she didn’t try to diminish Cam at all.
@auzij49494 ай бұрын
I now view him totally differently 🤔🙁.
@gregorydavis86994 ай бұрын
Explain?
@marshawnrussell62514 ай бұрын
Judging a book by it cover your never read the back of a book where the Author notes lays
@@auzij4949 why? This is an opportunity for healing and perhaps he wasn’t aware of the root of why he behaves as he does.
@lavianahampton46414 ай бұрын
Just because you have money doesn’t mean you should be out making a bunch of kids with different women . It takes more than money to be a good parent
@nightseertarot33374 ай бұрын
He is calling himself out, i appreciate that. He is making himself an example.
@Dontrolling4 ай бұрын
As someone that was born into a family with a father that has multiple kids and baby mamas, it hurts beyond repair looking at it from the outside, being raised by a single mother with no masculine figure there when I needed it was not fun. I see pictures of him with his other “families” and it used to anger me especially as a teenager, I had to teach myself to control that and understand that his actions are out of my control. He also eventually just stopped pursuing creating a relationship with me and my brother. All I do is feel sorry for the children he’s creating because I know they will suffer the same way. I’m grateful that I can say I met my dad because a lot of people can’t say that but ultimately he’s just a stranger. I don’t even know his favorite color.
@michiganpyroaddicts44824 ай бұрын
@@Dontrolling right sad world some people just don’t care and only do what benefits them
@supakev974 ай бұрын
It seems ironic there’s an ad inserted advising people not to make decisions that permanently impact other peoples lives in the middle of this conversation 😮
@felicianothorpe37194 ай бұрын
I thought this was very mature of you to post. Much respect and I really pray despite everything God will enable you to build a home with your children.
@marshamarshamarshmallow4 ай бұрын
And prayerfully he doesn’t bring anyone kids into this world and create more brokenness
@lovelee8834 ай бұрын
HomeS
@4wamps4 ай бұрын
He is building homes, his success is taking care of all of those kids
@arringtoncane4 ай бұрын
I needed this advice in 1995, 1996, and 2004.
@l.o.e.41644 ай бұрын
He said “the kicker is… I want more” “I just want GOD to bring em”. Bro… are you not a Christian?Man we’re lost!!
@Stgdnia4 ай бұрын
Lool some of the men in these comments are the definition of deflection and not taking the accountability. And somehow accountability is their favourite word to use. Hilarious 😅
@samfran894 ай бұрын
It's definitely way more men giving kudos to Ms Bryant but everyone sees what they wanna see lol
@chase7154 ай бұрын
@@samfran89 There’s no way you can say way more. This is being shared all over social media and most of the comments I’ve personally seen are men attacking her. Kudos to the ones that know better.
@Ann-e1s4 ай бұрын
Sis, you have Cam deeply thinking wbout his actions & personal trauma/feara. He is a good person, but we all must appreciate his imperfections addressed publicly. Oh girl!! You spoke truth to so many that it is"unfair and its selfish" create so many broken homes. I love to see the spotlight on low & high functioning people. Our communities need this level of education & accountability.
@phyliciapatterson9104 ай бұрын
She 💯 correct. I told my dad this before he passed, and i was 16. I could see the damage my dad's actions had on each of us.
@AndreCHatchett4 ай бұрын
No alimony with broken homes. The step dads will be the guy who steps/cleans up. Shoutout to the step Dads
@Gametime413004 ай бұрын
This wasn’t disrespectful at all she was very measured and dignified. And he was keeping it real
@misst2274 ай бұрын
_A broken home is when the people that make up the family don't live together!_ _That can be mother or father including the children!_ _Bruh, you know what it is..._ _Cut it out!_
@eugenedusauzay94684 ай бұрын
How can you respect someone saying they have 8 kids 3 different women and sitting there confident smiling saying still want more, its embarrassing but it reflects more on us that he has the confidence to express this and knows he wouldn't get shunned from us, thats why I respect NOI they got Standards we need to level up in the standard department
@chase7154 ай бұрын
Well said! I see so many men agreeing with him just because he’s a man. They’re actually hurting him and their community more than anything.
@broncosbest64414 ай бұрын
Exactly. There’s no peer pressure in the community to stop this. Everyone just tolerates it without comment. There’s not even shame attached which kept people in line in the past. Could you say I’ve got 8 children by 3 different women years ago and get no pushback. Could you be a football player like tyreek hill and have 5 babies in one year? You would have lost every endorsement deal. Now it’s so what.
@tmgtrapmobgodz4 ай бұрын
1 Timothy 2:12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. 1 Kings 11:3 states that Solomon, the third king of Israel, had a harem that included 700 wives and 300 concubines Judges 8:30 - Now Gideon had seventy sons, his own offspring, for he had many wives. She is smooth but wrong completely. Man can want a woman and a woman has a choice to stay. If a man had a choice, the man would keep all his kids and women in the same home. Woman has chose not to share same home with a king in one house hold. (Africa) eastern continent have kings with multiple wives because in the original ethiopian bible that speaks of a man with more and can prove are allowed many wive/ women to procreate. 1 Kings 11:3 states that Solomon, the third king of Israel, had a harem that included 700 wives and 300 concubines 2 Samuel 12:8 - And I gave you your master's house and your master's wives into your arms and gave you the house of Israel and of Judah. And if this were too little, I would add to you as much more. The westernized woman refuse the order. God speaks of man in two positions kings and poor slave. Queens of royal blood and poor servant. God wants procreation without the cost of struggle. God over man, man over woman, woman over child.
@haroldbutler39464 ай бұрын
Everyone in THE home. That's the "solution". One band, one sound.
@octaviuscesar2214 ай бұрын
He and the Mothers should be ashamed! 8 kids three different Mothers! He máy bay able to financially provide hút the emotional and mental issues that He inflicts will forever hunt his children!
@michiganpyroaddicts44824 ай бұрын
Those type of dudes don’t care they just keep sleeping around 😂
@kimmeier73294 ай бұрын
Oooh I love her, he ain’t never had no one talk to him this way! 👏
@hermanthomas57454 ай бұрын
Facts and truth and anyone who doesn’t believe it is in agreement to do exactly what he does
@jacqueline77814 ай бұрын
This is a strong 💪🏾 black lady we need more of ladies like this 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@ReadbyWisteria4 ай бұрын
It’s insane to me how some modern men and women have no problem having kids , but are afraid of marriage / divorce. It’s selfish to bring a child into this world because you’re being careless, with no intention of marriage.
@Miechie64 ай бұрын
Check mate
@williamarrington64154 ай бұрын
Cam is Not equipped to carry on a conversation with this woman... He is a selfish BOY.....
@truehou4 ай бұрын
Cam gotta be trolling. I believe he knows all too well that multiple kids in multiple homes isn’t a “high functioning” choice.
@SharriD4 ай бұрын
Life choices is about risk. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Cam is just using fear as an excuse to act as a Corinthian, a man in pursuit of pleasure at the expense of innocent children. It takes a man of good moral character and discipline to address his trauma before bringing others into the relationship.
@DivineShine303 ай бұрын
@@SharriD Correct
@shantalbarbot5801Ай бұрын
Well said
@chasefire2324 ай бұрын
She is right! We all gotta do the work on ourselves and be open to the help. It only makes us better and stronger.
@JustSaying830224 ай бұрын
He is so typical!!! It’s this type of brothuh that gives the rest a horrible name! He’s definitely not high quality
@JuanCarlos-wb2ve4 ай бұрын
When surface level ninjas think they're deep and profound. He sounds ridiculous.
@ladynavoa82044 ай бұрын
Immaturity vs maturity in a conversation is what this is. 🔥 this a woman guys 👏🏾 Doc B
@roaming19964 ай бұрын
This is why we need therapy , I’m not a fan of him, but this was gold, I wish him much growth and understanding.
@wilieshamccrorey88964 ай бұрын
Cam needs therapy because he was embarrassed by his situation so he took it wrong and got offended by the facts.
@sallysson4 ай бұрын
Stand up and clap for Dr. Cheyenne. Cam thought his being cute. All the while, being a player is still plaguing our society and should not be looked upon as an honor.