That was AWESOME! Growing up in with a single mother and no father figure until I became 7 was difficult. I watched my mother and her live in boyfriend of 10 yrs try to create a family. Once he got saved he wanted to marry my mother and she wasn't doing it. It was crushing for me because I called him Dad. Something I deeply desired as a child because I didn't know my own father. From that experience I vowed not to take myself through that very issue. But I failed, I had three children out of wedlock from three different men. It wasn't until I got saved and was under a pastor who taught us the very thing you spoke about my thinking and my mindset changed. Now I am married and I waited for God to place that man who came from a home with both parents who were married and saved. My mistakes I talk to my children about and I teach them the ways of God so that they won't repeat mine. The brokenness and the broken systems stop with me. There is so much more that went on in my life but I would have to put it in a book. God has blessed my life ,my marriage, my children and he gets all of the Glory! This was right on point! Whoo No secrets!
@taylormariee87337 жыл бұрын
Lynette Lowman great testimony and I really want my two girls(out of marriage) to see me with a man of God and eventually happy marriage,but it seems almost impossible these days because these men aren't use to boundaries and they definitely not trying to wait for a woman who was once sexually active so I go back and forth in my mind with what I want vs what seems to be my reality at the moment
@LynetteLowman7 жыл бұрын
Taylor Mariee , I refused to budge because I knew God would send a man who wouldn't try to interfer with me abstaining. If he doesn't respect you then he's not sent by God. I know and understand your conflict but don't say away from the blessing that God has in store for you. Continue to be obedient to the Lord and all he has told you. Remember his promises and never forget your children are watching you too. I will pray for you and I know for sure that God is faithful.
@taylormariee87337 жыл бұрын
Lynette Lowman thank you I appreciate your reply and My daughters are such a huge part of why I can't give up 😊
@LynetteLowman7 жыл бұрын
Taylor Mariee I'm praying for you doll. I agree and I know that it will happen for you.
@robertahadden9564 жыл бұрын
God bless you and ur wee family x
@tunoshingealueendo27994 жыл бұрын
If my country could have preachers like him, we will FIX THE SYSTEM... Thank you Lord for your servants- Flowers leading us through your word....
@miagrant78127 жыл бұрын
Woooooooo!! This was my story I grew up fatherless and as result I picked the same kind of men over and over. My kids father was half there or not at all. I raised two boys frustrated and broken. Jouneled about it for years. God finally saved me reprogrammed me and my thinking. God gave me purpose and has anointed me to break that family curse that has been around for awhile and I just wrote my 1st christian novel about this..#DELIVERANCE!! Thanks yall this was Great, I hope it reaches many!
@iamlivingtailormade5 жыл бұрын
“You’ll never arrive if you don’t depart.” - well received 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@realliferealtalkwithbiggs7774 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯 “God cannot bless what you fake” cray!!
@livingvirtuouslyfree56007 жыл бұрын
So powerful! Me and my mom was talking about generational poverty and mental illness. This is a confirmation of what has begun to do in my life. I am the solution.
@KeepHerSafePodcast7 жыл бұрын
Man! Look yall hit a spot! My mother always told me keep money on the side and dont trust men! Lord i had to stop the video to tell my daughters what i learned cause i taught them that. Thank you! We are learning 🙌
@ZisCorner7 жыл бұрын
Dayshi Weber this is growth! Praise God that you realized that it needed to change and you did not wait until your daughters got older but you told them now that it has to change.
@p.r.99825 жыл бұрын
You're breaking the broken system! Awesome! Praise God!!!
@strikemistress52237 жыл бұрын
Best channel I ever came across on KZbin. Thank you guys! I'm in the process of redefining my relationship and this is all I needed.
@loydillu24717 жыл бұрын
you guys should have a million subs. Beautiful message.
@tasiaowens.4 жыл бұрын
18 and I’m breaking my family systems , almost everyone in my family has only been in broken relationships, I haven’t heard not one person tell me to wait til marriage to have sex . Everything I was taught / seen I knew in my heart was wrong now everyone is labeling me different because I refuse to do the things they do ! I just started my Christian journey these videos has been helping me ! This isn’t easy at all lately my siblings has been so negative towards me since I’ve been getting closer to God !!! It hurts but I know it’s right
@melanted80654 жыл бұрын
Continue Sis!!! Continue to desire to bea Virtuous Woman. Our Heavenly Father WILL GUIDE YOU as you seek him. It is hard when you have no support, but keep drawing closer to HIM. He will reward you and enrich your life and your future children... Break the generational curse in your family 🥰
@lataciajackson6574 Жыл бұрын
I needed this Thank you Lord for allowing me to see & hear in the MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST AMEN AMEN AMEN 🙌 God Bless Pastor Flowers family and congregation in Jesus name AMEN 🙏🏽
@adelineproverbs31394 жыл бұрын
Amen. The buck stops with me.
@Natural2bmii5 жыл бұрын
"Deliverance over dignity"🙇🏾♀️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@sonyawest25505 жыл бұрын
The same way we can learn; we can also unlearn! Change is a beautiful opportunity, to me.
@janetb18065 жыл бұрын
“I may not have seen the standard, but I am going to BE the standard” I receive it!
@billycothran59894 жыл бұрын
You guys are amazing!!! Keep teaching!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@AKC357 Жыл бұрын
SPIRITUALLY AND MORALLY POWERFUL 💥💥💥💗💯💪🏾💗💝❗️❗️❗️
@tinikiaj5877 жыл бұрын
Come on Jesus!!!
@StartUpSquad2.03 жыл бұрын
This a powerful message. Power to the work of the glory
@prov31wmn6 жыл бұрын
Y'ALL BETTER PREACH! ☺👍💯
@ryansmith77215 жыл бұрын
As for me and my house we will serve the Lord!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@rockymountainprincess90787 жыл бұрын
You two are such a blessing! Thank you for sharing the wisdom and knowledge that God has imparted to you for such a time as this. God bless!
@tirzahdoveheshbon36185 жыл бұрын
Real talk.
@momsdiner96533 жыл бұрын
This was sooooo good!!! Thank you, God's many blessings over your ministry
@C1ERRA057 жыл бұрын
Yes. The buck stops here!!
@otitijasmine7 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Intentionality is so important. Excellence comes with consistency, and if we want to be excellent in God, we have to consistently seek Him and value Him over our flesh, our wants, and other worldly hindrances. I did a 6-part KZbin series on preparing for greatness and talked a lot about being intentional, building solid daily habits, and reaching for more. Your thoughts fit neatly into what I said, so I'm excited to get this confirmation! 😄
@angelafayesims15633 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah & Thank you Jesus💞💞😊😊👏👏😇😇🔥🔥👈👈💪💪💞💞🙏🙏!!! Recently rededicated my body, mind, & soul to My Lord & Savior JESUS CHRIST!!! GOD BLESS YOU BOTH FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE TO START YOUR CHANNEL MINISTRY😊😊😇😇💞💞🔥🔥💪💪🙏🙏!!!
@neishawiley66727 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes .... please preach! This is confirmation for me three ways. My son, my daughter, and me.... all three of us have a need... y'all are speaking on things that the church and our community has taught us and this right here is breaking the chains. Praying for covering for y'all as you help us busy through and break through the snares of the enemy. May his traps meet their demise at every view of this video. Amen... we will live and God's will for the next generation will come to pass. I just love y'all... amen
@violetgutierrez53157 жыл бұрын
Now this right here is all me and my family. God has been revealing this and using my Pastor to repair this missing part. He's been the first man that I have allowed to guide me and instruct me. I realized not too long ago that I always had an issue with authority I never had it, instead I had to be strong and look out for myself but all I wanted was to be loved. Luckily God protected me and set me apart in my youth. Just last week I sensed God tell me that I would have a marriage that would defy my circumstances. I would have a Godly marriage where unlike what I had seen in growing up a testament of God's goodness and faithfulness 💜 I have hard work ahead but this video has confirmed God's plans for me and his knowledge of me!
@PopGoesNappy6 жыл бұрын
Go on and preach, preacher, preach!
@JamesWalker-ew2xz5 жыл бұрын
This is NEXT LEVEL!!!!!!!!!
@kimwalker13707 жыл бұрын
This is on point. Thanks for enlightening the flock. Keep em' coming!
@celestebowen63404 жыл бұрын
Great Word💯💯💯
@kenyattastarks95907 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thankful for this message !!!!!
@joytotheworld68045 жыл бұрын
Exactly my family is so broken they normalised my sisters abuse and it stops with me. And don’t be sorry to preach, speak it 🙏🏻❤️
@ashley.n.childres3947 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah!!! This was exactly what I needed to hear!!! Thank you SO much guys!!!
@gorgeouswales96354 жыл бұрын
Good! Thank you both, God Bless
@Clauds714 жыл бұрын
Awesome 👏😊🙏
@PropelExcelArts4 жыл бұрын
Great word! Just found the background music gave a stressful vibe.
@monique___mills7 жыл бұрын
Wisdom! Wisdom! Wisdom!!!! Soooo profound! 🙌
@smilejesussaves94017 жыл бұрын
So many powerful one liners in this chat!
@baldwinstrong13507 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this video, preach!!😎 I just with God help to become a Eph.5 man. And apply this to my life.
@reneeorsak11442 жыл бұрын
Grateful for yalls YES! @ example
@marshacreary24426 жыл бұрын
This sounds like the Root Causes and Fruits sermon at Transformation Church
@RegainingRaven7 жыл бұрын
Preach, Preach, Preach, Preach that gospel truth!!!!
@msaverielle2 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@DominionCharisse7 жыл бұрын
Y'all went in on this one!! So good! The buck stops here!
@ms.claudia48556 жыл бұрын
Good wisdom
@AmazingKay30 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@tirzahdoveheshbon36185 жыл бұрын
Perfect! Powerful!
@p.r.99825 жыл бұрын
One of your best videos to date!! Exposure is key. I'll pray God for more and more of it
@LisalovesMichael5 жыл бұрын
This is soooo good. There is alot of us that have a hard time to adopt to the kingdom marriage when you haven't been taught. It's sooo sad. I been engaged but never married, to this point I decided to just stay single..... Too many damaged goods, including me, it's work...it's a process...it's alot of stress. May God be with us all. 🙏
@janetb18065 жыл бұрын
I was taught wrong...but God
@mea9237 жыл бұрын
I've been following and studying at you guys' feet for awhile now. And you're always dropping jewels but this right here!!! I felt the anointing of the Holy Spirit on this message. May God continue to grow and flourish your ministry and your marriage. You've already been a blessing to so many. The world ain't ready....but it better get ready 👏🏽🤗🙌🏽❤️😇
@joyricherson45706 жыл бұрын
But God still blessed and provided
@downtownon7thavenue7 жыл бұрын
Amen Amen and Amen!!
@ladennayoung29394 жыл бұрын
Good word/video. Thanks for sharing. Unfortunately my father passed away when I was four.
@xxbigmarkxx21297 жыл бұрын
COME ON!!!!!!!!!! TALK THAT TALK!
@soystef5 жыл бұрын
Just stumbled upon you 2- I love your message and energy. Bless you all and all listening.
@harlemworldking79427 жыл бұрын
Peace another bomb⚫Luv yall .PREACH PREACH NEVER STOP YOURSELF ha.beloved.yall did that...1,000,000,000👍
this was such a good word, thank you so much for your obedience in sharing this word...Praying God continues to change our mindsets and renews our minds to break the cycle of broken systems that have been in place #itstopswithme
@AshleyJohnson-xd1ei7 жыл бұрын
Great message
@paigeelise31794 жыл бұрын
Come on y’all yes
@nickloshenderson69682 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@mujuninjunwa39397 жыл бұрын
Jerry and Tanisha this is deep. God bless you. Greetings from Tanzania, Eastern Africa.
@aishabrown21675 жыл бұрын
Grew up with a father who was in and out came to see me when he could be bothered and then just stopped all together when I was 11. Now in a relationship with someone and trying to also "stay independent" it doesn't work mindset had to change. Have to stop thinking he will always let me down
@ferdinabaptista1325 жыл бұрын
Wow!! That was so good!! Thank you for that message 😊
@vegacardullo19175 жыл бұрын
Wow mind blown so true
@janetb18065 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@tiawhitmore15334 жыл бұрын
Y'all are adorable
@modernlyethnic7753 жыл бұрын
Y’all dope!
@ryansmith77215 жыл бұрын
I choose deliverance over my dignity. Sometimes the family tree could have a noose around your neck!!! 💁😇
@empresserica4 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful and powerful word. I always grow so much listening to the both of you. Can I just say though that that music was not soothing
@arethajackson135784 жыл бұрын
Y’all taught that
@darlenecarruthers-shelton8375 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!! if you ha and ask God to make me different . to break the cycle , to break the system. thank you Jesus.ve not been expose to you won't know what to do. you think it is normal. I had to learn diffetent
@nickloshenderson69682 жыл бұрын
Alright facts
@JustAmiya715 жыл бұрын
This was so good, can yall do a deeper series on brokeness alone.
@lilybun20874 жыл бұрын
Can you talk about plastic surgery and body dysmorphia. I can’t leave my house because of how I feel about myself
@joyricherson45706 жыл бұрын
I didn’t agree with the keeping money thing but I wished I had
@joyricherson45706 жыл бұрын
But I still agree you need to reveal all but they do too
@notesbynaq4 жыл бұрын
Can we talk about when a parent, whether it's the mother or the father, sows bad seeds or gives their kids misguided advice or misguided direction or a poisonous and toxic mindset? I'm asking this because I'm a divorced mom with 2 sons who have always lived with me yet throughout their lives their father has always been present on a continual basis and has been able to see them daily if he wanted to because that flexibility was there....regardless of us being together and not. However, we did not see eye to eye on a lot of things, one of those things for example being the importance of raising kids with Christian values and going to church and not being exposed to all sorts of nonsense. So me as mom would be telling them 1 thing and trying to raise them 1 way and then their male role model being dad would do some of the opposit or present to them that what I was telling them was just me being "mom" but certain things were OK for them to do and they didn't have to give weight to a lot of what I would say. So my question is can you address that sometimes 1 parent, mother of father, even though they're truly present in the children's lives, can still be damaging.... Can you talk about this?
@lenae38817 жыл бұрын
come on now 🙌
@4everseeking3614 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for sharing your wisdom with us. I mean that. I'm grateful! I've heard you all refer to the woman as a "help meet" in various videos. Genesis described Eve as Adam's help mate. Where is the "meet" term within the Bible? Thanks in advance Pastor!
@d.marieandrews80074 жыл бұрын
"RIB-MAN/BONE" - YEAH RIGHT!!!😭💔😰(DRY, DRY, SKIN/BONES ADAM'S BONES) E.T👽"TWINS" "SOUL-MATE" - GOD-LY MAN from ABBA HOLY FATHER MYSTIC SPIRIT!!!!🤗That's what I'm "WAITING" FOR,...IN YOUR NAME, YESHAU PRAISE "THY 'WILL' BE DONE!!!!" not in my name!!!! A-MAN/A-MEN 😍