Brushing Alix NAPPY NAPPY hair 😳

[@MaryHartman-ei9pv]

Miya....just reading her book on the floor??!! 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤She is a doll!

[@Epic_explorer_1]

Miya’s gospel version 😅😂❤

[@lillyherndz]

I love seeing Miya’s personality develop she’s literally so smart and silly 🩵

[@Carmensteas]

Well jeez Stephen! Youre hitting her hair with the brush not brushing it. Go from the bottom up to get the tangles out. My hair is down to my butt too and I use Earthling shampoo and conditioner bars. It's so easy to brush my hair out and it feels really soft and healthy. Sing it Maya!!!

[@gidgetpll]

Conditioner folks. It would have made combing the knots out much easier.

[@cynthiamarie007]

That's what I was yelling the entire time😆

[@Tara20052]

And detangler spray.

[@nerdqueent3281]

Awe Miya and her gospel singing hehe

[@fanelemcunu]

“Sounds like a Gospel version”😂😂😂 the fact that after you said that I heard it too.

[@lexidorsey3952]

Recommend leave in conditioner it’ll make that soooo much easier to comb thro. As someone who tends to not brush her hair on my days off, leave in conditioner has saved so many tears and frustration with my hair!!

[@Phoebe907]

I get really tangled hair like this too. The only thing that helps is brushing it in the shower while the conditioner is in it. There is another way, and that is what you suggested, which is cutting it shorter. It looks like you have fine hair like me. I like Pureology Strength shampoo and conditioner for my hair.

[@jessicaguzman8762]

It helps if you add a little bit of water and leave some conditioner in your hair✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@niwaka8263]

Alix and baby ✊‼️　　✊‼️ Stephen ⤴️⤴️　⤴️⤴️ So good husband ❣️❣️❣️ Miya Little sister 💕

[@agnieszka.toloczko84]

When combing your hair, always start from the ends and then gradually upwards, never from top to bottom♥️

[@sbjmutualventures]

Head Kandy, Third Wheel. It's a spray leave- in conditioner that I use on my granddaughters' hair bc they have very tangled hair. It's so great! ❤

[@karenminnear7352]

Call it what you want. If it does not bother her. Lighten up people.

[@JAdreams88]

Dear Karen (the irony here is too much), It’s not up to you to decide sweetheart. You don’t get to tell people to get over something that is deeply rooted in oppression and hate. Sheesh. Your whole comment is like a use case for a sociology class 😂. BYE KAREN. Stay out of Black business.

[@nakole234]

@@karenminnear7352 it’s got nothing to do with her being bothered by the term because it’s not a term SHE HERSELF should be bothered by in the first place. the term is not derogatory to HER TYPE of hair. the stupidity in these comments boy i tell you.

[@zc7893]

Damn Karen’s really on a fucking roll with this one! what a pure idiot.

[@jenc3259]

@JAdreams88 umm the utter hypocrisy in your response is ironic. She can use whatever language she wants just as you can. Karen is a derogatory term deeply rooted in hate and oppression. Haha see we can all do it. Stop being so easily offended.

[@daniellescott698]

@@jenc3259The OP’s name is Karen though 🙃.

[@shelley6477]

I was seriously ill in the hospital earlier this year for 8 weeks and the back of my hair was a completed knotted nightmare. I paid for a salon to do their magic and am so glad I did bc I also considered just chopping it all off.

[@treehuggergirl_2010]

@shelley6477 I was also in the hospital this year January-March for 57 days and mostly kept my 24” of hair in a braid. The fabulous Techs washed it for me. Glad you are out of hospital now.

[@spiderrocket8367]

Miya got some good vocals

[@stephaniehc-oj7df]

LMFAO 😂 This comment section is HILARIOUS im dying! 😂

[@porshp8941]

miya can sing. mark my words she got a good good singers voice

[@gnaastiin2963]

Such an incredible family, I just know they’ll read the comments, listen, learn and edit the word-and teach their kids how to correct their mistakes with grace. Stephen is a public figure; aside from being the right thing to do he has a responsibility to be on the right of this.

[@jenc3259]

@gnaastiin2963 no

[@floweeg9142]

Miya !!! you so cute!

[@sierramartinez4248]

it really annoys me that Stephen gets annoyed by brushing your hair when he literally has 2 daughters as well. The way he was brushing it too! Like there is a way to brush hair with force without hurting the persons scalp.

[@kellyh4617]

Omg dem knots Alix 😰😂. how lol?? Your hair usually always looks so silky. Just a tip Stephen has to brush from the bottom up to avoid making split ends ;).

[@shawnmcgregor6878]

Glad you redid video much better!

[@evinrude1236]

You need a good trim.....and some leave-in conditioner will help with the tangles. Gosh....that was painful to watch. 😣

[@charlieehstephenson4893]

I’m genuinely shocked you tube allowed you to upload the video with that word used in this way , 🫢it’s a derogatory racist term ,maybe use the word matted or tangled, I’m going to assume you didn’t know and it’s a genuine mistake, youtube should’ve picked this up , even here in the United Kingdom we know that word used in that sentence is derogatory also here the word nappy is what you call a diaper .

[@peachesandpoets]

Why would they care? They aren't affected so why would they consider anybody else? It's important to allow people to show you who they are. Now we know who they are.

[@nakole234]

Please do not call her hair nappy

[@sleepteam]

Quiet yourself.

[@J_WheelerDoll30]

Nappy isn’t bad if used properly. I’m brown with curly thick hair and my hair, at times when dry will be tangled and nappy

[@jenc3259]

@nakole234 this broad is offended by the word nappy, and just wished another stillborn baby on me because if see no word as offensive as we should be stronger than words. I guess weak evil people have nappy hearts and can't get past it. Please think before you talk your beyond ignorant @nakole234

[@jenc3259]

@nakole234 please do not wish death on people's children. You're disgusting

[@jenc3259]

@J_WheelerDoll30 this woman is so offended by the word nappy she responded to my comment wishing death on my unborn child. Hahaha but nappy is a bad thing to say. Deluded this human

[@manivasudevan1692]

Hi baby Miya and alix ❤

[@Sunnybrook-69]

My hair gets like that too!!!! Only I don't have anyone at home to help. 😢

[@lizzie1665]

I recommend the Avon detangling hair brush. I have long , thick , curly hair and I won't buy any other hair brush. It is worth it, trust me. That looked so painful. I remember those days.

[@Rebeccabecc]

Lol 😅😂 they have leave in conditioner 😅

[@katbrunelle2290]

You shouldn't brush wet hair it breaks it. You need some spray on conditioner and use a wide tooth comb. Or you can also try braiding your hair at night.

[@Bunny-8889]

Put hair conditioner or the hair oil and it will brush out easier.

[@asiadavis5612]

Girl you need to put some conditioner and let it sit for 24hrs under a shower cap

[@ntaliantalia7448]

Why make it difficult? 🙃 Use conditioner.

[@nidiabenavides5017]

Detangling spray bruhhh lol

[@realisticrachel-000]

nowhere near as bad as my hair gets when it's been a hard time with the kids

[@karmichottie]

do y’all even know what tf the term “nappy” means???

[@ashleystevenson9949]

I really didn’t know the true meaning of that word until i just looked it up. Very interesting 🧐 I grow up using the word when my hair would get like that as well. I don’t think a lot of people really know the true meaning, just something we grow up hearing and continue to use.

[@ravenc4912]

What does it mean? My family used the word every time our hair got nappy. I use it when my hair gets tangled knotted and matted.

[@BbyTree]

​@@ravenc4912you know Google is a great tool to look up information.

[@matthewnewton8812]

I think genuinely they did not, when they used it in the video. I’ve met people- mostly southern- who use the word to refer to Caucasian hair when it’s “frizzy”, or the effect of sleeping on wet hair, for example. I don’t think these people meant anything offensive by it at all. These here are good, decent people. Plus, that is sort of the nature of a living language… it’s organic and changing all the time. Years from now that may be the only usage anyone remembers at all.

[@asiadavis5612]

Do you? Because her hair is a tangled mess. Nappy doesn’t automatically equate to “black” hair.

[@suziedebolt6619]

Stephen your mean. Stop it

[@taintedlove202]

A nice 3 inch trim would take care of that….😊

[@mar.mar.4872]

He is so gentle and caring in all videos when he take care of childrens hair, but here... How anyone considering this as love language? Is it like this in partnership and after become parent? Not spilling hate, just asking.

[@pamelasueg]

Put your hair over your shoulders, use a wide tooth comb and start combing from the bottom working snarls out.

[@NinaBina_87]

Nappy Hair? Seriously? There’s a million different words in the English language but you chose Nappy Hair? Come on…

[@ABalancedApproach]

Next time lather conditioner on hari then detangle it with a wide tooth come. It won't hurt that much.

[@nancyaneke1346]

As a Black woman who enjoys watching your content, I just want to say that I’m slightly offended by your use of the term “nappy.” Please educate yourselves on the racist history of that term and refrain from using it ever again as to not alienate your Black subscribers. This is the first time I’ve seen a racist term used on this channel, so I’ll assume y’all just didn’t know. Kudos to the subscribers calling this out in the comments. ❤

[@pamelissha]

I didn't know it had a racist connotation. I thought it was related to "nap", just the same as "bed head" for referring to a messy hair

[@jenc3259]

​@pamelissha everything is racist if they want it to be.

[@jenc3259]

@@whysojaded haha OK Karen 👍

[@pamelissha]

⁠I've heard the term before. As I stated, I thought they were referring to a messy hair, as the one you get after you wake up from a nap regardless of of your race... I honestly can't remember if every single scenario where I've heard it, they were referring to a black person 🤔🤔🤔

[@jenc3259]

@@pamelissha exactly.

[@dorisannecrissman2375]

When your hair is like that put argan oil in it and it easier to brush the nots will come out Brush easy

[@CeliaMesser]

If I missed it, sorry, but have u all found out what the baby is, 👣 Boy or Girl, 🤫🫣😀

[@mariakoulias9284]

Next time this happened you put on conditioner and right away it gets untangle easier!!

[@ashleihansen263]

Wtf brush ur hair before talking a shower 😢so sad love u long natural haired women

[@rdamerson]

LOL🤠How'dy from Texas

[@JamesOzmun]

Put some lotion in her hair. And Alix don’t cut your hair.

[@ravenc4912]

Right her long hair is pretty

[@Shredder_83]

Love between them

[@amalyako]

Please stop accusing him of being rude to her 😑

[@iChristyD]

Totally the wrong brush for tangled hair!! You’re just ripping it out using that motion to brush it.

[@starz56]

Cute 😍

[@merakimimi]

lol I cut off mine. I have a hidden bald spot in the back of my head. No regrets lol

[@JAdreams88]

Nappy? Really?! This sucks to see this coming from you guys. And please don’t be persuaded, by anyone who CANNOT be offended by this, that you’ve done nothing wrong. Do better. Be a little more aware. Just because other cultures immediately Black language, music, dance, food, and culture every day, does not mean you live it. Ugh. Bye

[@staciepaulsen5588]

On Google's dictionary nappy means a diaper or absorbent material wrapped around the baby's bottom!

[@JAdreams88]

@@staciepaulsen5588 ….. I’m over here cracking up… but not sure if you are serious or… Hmm. Ok. 1. Google’s dictionary? They have their own? Or do you care to share which site you specifically looked at. 2. You are correct, »in the UK« people do refer you to diaper’s as nappy’s. I’m sure you know that this couple isn’t located in the UK. 3. I’m sure that you also saw the US definition of the word. I’m sure you saw how “Google’s dictionary” said that the term is, “…often regarded as offensive when used by nonblack people”. 4. This couple lives in the United States 5. Is it your presumption that’s he is saying, “Brushing Alix DIAPER DIAPER hair”? Is it likely that this US based couple is using the UK definition? Does that make sense to you? At all? All you did is prove my point. CULTURE & CONTEXT MATTER. If they lived in the UK, then there would be a higher likelihood that they would use this term in different ways. Yet and still, even if they were in the UK, they are TALKING ABOUT HAIR. I believe you know exactly what they meant. I wasted my time over explaining this to you, in the most Christ-like way that I can muster at the moment, because this matters. Also the fact that you attempted to weaponize your ignorance is so… ugh… on brand.

[@jenc3259]

@staciepaulsen5588 people don't like when you show them English language. Just because the term has been used in other ways does not mean when used properly it is offensive. If it offends scuttle on. The very notion that everyone should watch their language to make others feel good is insane. Learn to feel good in yourself and what others do, doesn't affect you. That's peak performance. Sadly, a bunch of people can't do that. They must perpetuate victimhood. It's pathetic. People need to grow and move on. Everyone go read the book They Were White And They Were Slaves. See how white people evolved from being slaves themselves. How we ended it here in America. How we never allowed any people to keep us down. It would be best if EVERYONE read it. To learn what isn't taught in our brainwashing schools. And for everyone who is offended.... it starts at home. So long as rappers are pushing the other offensive N word and nappy is used in there songs, people will not take the issue seriously. We don't have special language we can each use. That's not how free speech works.

[@jenc3259]

@JAdreams88 can you explain your last sentence? I'm trying to figure out what "Just because other cultures immediately Black language, music, dance, food, and culture every day, does not mean you live it." Means. It doesn't say anything the way written. I'm not sure if you're going with the cultural appropriation route or what. Just trying to understand where you're going with it.

[@staciepaulsen5588]

@@JAdreams88 I was just generalizing it what it said on Google nothing more nothing less I'm sure there's different cultures with different meanings of this word but I don't use this word because I don't know what it means! All I did was Google it and was just generalizing what it said if people use this in their culture well it's a good learning experience here, but that's what it said and if it has more meanings then everything is a learning adventure in more ways than one!

[@anaririca]

suavizante para el pelo

[@cassiem3893]

I’m half Japanese. Can y’all stop using the words tsunami and karaoke? While you’re at it, please stop eating sushi, or at least don’t call it sushi. Oh and if your name is Naomi or Tamara or Tamika (which I’ve noticed are pretty popular among black folks), you might want to change them because they belong to us. Thanks.

[@mahfuzahaque3839]

The difference is the meaning behind those words weren't used a derogatory term towards a certain race. You really thought you ate with this comment but it really just shows how ignorant you are. A simple google search can explain the history of "nappy".

[@chrismcpherson1586]

Why would you let your hair get nappy ? You need it cut

[@dorsietate]

Girl, get you a good detangler spray and keep that man away from your hair‼️

[@annaisewatson4558]

Omg just use spray...

[@mariamkaram123]

❤❤❤

[@suziedebolt6619]

Why are you being so mean to Alix?

[@xeeteejgoswami3788]

Stephen can you do clean shaven your beard to surprise your family please

[@graesha]

I’d hope since your video has not been posted long enough you’d retract your caption, her hair is not nappy and you know it. You’re literally coming for black people right now and their hair. Please Google words next time

[@SunnyDay-od8iq]

💇

[@suziedebolt6619]

Trim your hair before the baby comes make it easy on yourself?

[@mubasharjani3282]

🇵🇰🎈💕💕💕😅

[@mushimushi9706]

Damn the hate in the comment section.

[@debg8053]

Not a good choice of word for her hair

[@jenc3259]

Haha weak people getting mad over the term nappy. It's so funny. Can't say words because people are offended, me over here over using said words so people grow a damn spine.

[@BbyTree]

Being "weak" has absolutely NOTHING to do with it. It's derogatory and by continuing to use continues to oppress certain races.

[@zc7893]

lmao i’m praying you have another stillbirth. don’t reproduce when this is your outlook on topics that don’t genuinely effect you.

[@nakole234]

Don’t reproduce 🩵🩵

[@jenc3259]

@nakole234 you're so offended by the word nappy, that you wish death on my unborn child? Seek help. Immediately

[@jenc3259]

@nakole234 so nappy is wrong, but wishing death on a baby is OK? Girl your heart and head are nappy.

[@stonesatglasshouses3477]

Yall in the comments need to chill. Nappy hair is how everyone I know refers to their hair when it gets all tangled- like after a hard nap. Different words mean different things depending where you grew up.

[@adrianlombre5696]

I really like you guys but … not cool.

[@psychedelicbabee]

Her hair IS FAR from nappy. I can’t believe y’all would even use that word to describe her hair as it’s a derogatory word.

[@zc7893]

It’s the “NAPPY NAPPY” in all caps for me 😭😭😭😭😭😭 these people are so far from reality and they carry way too much influence TO NOT be educated on such a thing. Sad asf.

[@ravenc4912]

Derogatory? lol

[@clairebear197627]

🙄

[@psychedelicbabee]

@@ravenc4912 “derogatory?” yeah goofy ass. since when was calling someone’s hair nappy a compliment? “nappy” is a derogatory term lmfao. if you’ve got access to youtube then you’ve got access to google big dawg. USE IT. 😃😃😃

[@zc7893]

@@ravenc4912”Derogatory?” You’ve literally got access to google LMAO

[@TheLegendofCalista]

@dustinpoynter

[@donnafrost590]

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