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@Re3iRtH3 жыл бұрын
Rich, is your book available in Mandarin translation?
@johnkeitcgau45113 жыл бұрын
What about women that marry down, does it ever happen ?
@DinoSvanhvit3 жыл бұрын
”Never sign a contract with someone who gets paid to break it”. Truth. It’s a retirement insurance for women.
@shawnbippley14073 жыл бұрын
It probably SHOULD BE. However, most women burn through the cash inside a couple of years.
@gizzad3 жыл бұрын
Wow, that's an incredible realization
@globalc38493 жыл бұрын
Wow. Awesome and profound.
@ltrocha3 жыл бұрын
I personally never got married... but I watched many of my friends do it and pay for it dearly.
@36handy3 жыл бұрын
I’m over 50 never married. LTR of 9 years. Walked away with at least my shirt because I didn’t have to split 1/2 assets. Thank god.
@no-ud9dh3 жыл бұрын
@@36handy because you have no REAL game. You can't even trick anyone into marrying you. You just floating flopp
@garrett92483 жыл бұрын
@@no-ud9dh wdym?
@David-fw4ly3 жыл бұрын
@@no-ud9dh I’m 40 y/o and dating a cute little 20 y/o. I’m never getting married. I do have some friends who seem to have awesome marriages, and some friends who got divorced. It’s just not for me. I like being able to have relationships with women without the treat of losing my assets. Simple as that. Plus I don’t want kids so no need to make a commitment such as marriage.
@hardwiredtoselfdestruction34013 жыл бұрын
@@no-ud9dh lol dont hate cause he won
@spectator69643 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution? - Groucho Marx
@e.o94703 жыл бұрын
It ain't wonderful these days anymore!
@hardwiredtoselfdestruction34013 жыл бұрын
Yep what an "I wonder" institution
@ktolwal3 жыл бұрын
pearls of wisdom. albeit read it a bit late ;)
@homeacres9454 Жыл бұрын
Is Groucho Marx the brother of Karl Marx?
@sarahsaville6829 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@itsallgoodz13 жыл бұрын
Being married is like having cable TV with one channel
@ocvegasproperty3 жыл бұрын
That you can’t cancel without paying for it anyway, they can cancel at any time and for any reason and you still need to pay for it, and you can’t go to the movies or enjoy any other Entertainment.
@SantanuPaul278913 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@EricJA9213 жыл бұрын
Lmao good one
@indobrit49993 жыл бұрын
It shows your iq comparing a cable connection with life long relationship life is not about fucking around random girls and boozing around and living like who cares this attitude will eventually ruin your life Marriage of done with a good intention from both sides without any greed or benefits just for love and making family will make your life you will see that your life is meaningful and you have your own family to enjoy your son daughters your wife your parents playing with them ofcourse marrying a guy girl who just loves your money and property the marriage won't last long and it will make you believe marriage ruin your life
@jhrisado3 жыл бұрын
@@indobrit4999 it’s a Simile, relax.
@Royster9313 жыл бұрын
This time last year is was living in my garage, my wife had asked me to get out of the house. She said "be a man and leave". I was cooking all my meals on a rice cooker and still keeping up the facade at my workplace. My blue pill life was a pile of rubble. I was scared of what might happen. I had know idea of how to approach the situation. Then I came across Rich Cooper. He seemed genuine and had some straight forward advice. I've now pieced my life back together and I now see things in a rational way. A big thank you Rich
@SA-vz7qi3 жыл бұрын
Ended it or mended it?
@The88Nomad3 жыл бұрын
You must be Indian. Keeping up a fake image whilst the woman behaved like an alpha around you. You have to become ruthless! Get your dignity back and show this woman you have options and you don’t need her because you’re a MAN!!!!
@mariejane15673 жыл бұрын
ok what's the real story not your sob story.
@Royster9313 жыл бұрын
@@The88Nomad Must be an entitled white man. Keeping up a fake tough guy image whilst making anonymous comments on KZbin
@ltrocha3 жыл бұрын
The "ACTRESSES"! I personally dated two women who successfully were able to hide their true personality for a year and a half! At the time, I thought about marrying each of them. Fortunately for me, I held off long enough for them to show their "TRUE" personality. Thank God!
@r3d_ti3_guy3 жыл бұрын
Same here. Felt something wasn’t right and waited until the 2.5 yr mark. The true colors came out and I left. No harm done. Lesson learned. ALWAYS listen to your gut.
@SA-vz7qi3 жыл бұрын
Screen, screen and screen again. Even if not going to marry.
@andre1987eph3 жыл бұрын
It's called "mask slip". you can save time by carefully studying their eyes in many of their past photographs online, instagtam, facebook, waybackmachine etc, if you have discernment. You can see it in their eyes in a small percent of their photos.
@mrmarkcima2 жыл бұрын
Guys, what did they start doing? What changed in them?
@patriciocordova4493 жыл бұрын
I just married 2 years ago.....DO NOT MARRY.
@christhomas61993 жыл бұрын
Damn bro, it's that bad already? You have my thoughts and prayers 💯
@robbenvanpersie15623 жыл бұрын
Why don't you recommend?
@Re3iRtH3 жыл бұрын
Please elaborate.
@patriciocordova4493 жыл бұрын
@@Re3iRtH it’s not that my wife is a bad person but that after marriage we stopped having sex, We always had great sex and I was under the impression it would continue but as soon as the resources were LOCKED IN so to speak sex stopped almost immediately, last time we had sex was last year yet I’m still providing financially very well, if you like sex don’t marry live together or simply move on, just don’t marry.
@Re3iRtH3 жыл бұрын
@@patriciocordova449 Dude I wouldn't be able to handle that for a week. My condolences.
@RedPillGrimReaper3 жыл бұрын
Imagine how bad it must be for a divorce lawyer to tell men not to get married. He’s literally putting his own livelihood on the line by risking the possibility of having fewer clients just to elucidate the truth. Kudos to him
@rustyshackleford32813 жыл бұрын
he wont be hurting for clients, how many men have never heard of this channel or others that co-op here and are about to be or already married and going through divorce.
@jcnlaw3 жыл бұрын
We will never run out of divorce clients. Guys simply refuse to listen and act accordingly.
@aaronbrutus94833 жыл бұрын
Most men won't listen.
@TheSh_dow3 жыл бұрын
Imagine a world when you get fired your employer must maintain your standard of living...
@Norm4753 жыл бұрын
Not quite the same. A more accurate definition is, "you quit your employer and he still has to maintain your standard of living."
@The_General_Zubas3 жыл бұрын
There are people who want the Birth Rate to drop. Its working.
@duderanch182373 жыл бұрын
F-ninism, COVID lockdowns, hatred of men. You're totally right, there's something bigger at play.
@Ross60413 жыл бұрын
True. They forgot to tell Nigeria, the up and coming world economy LOL
@The_General_Zubas3 жыл бұрын
@@Ross6041 That's because they only want a Certain Pigment to stop breeding, the other Pigments can.
@hardwiredtoselfdestruction34013 жыл бұрын
Who? The chews?
@The_General_Zubas3 жыл бұрын
@@hardwiredtoselfdestruction3401 More than that. A Consortium of International America Haters.
@rf38993 жыл бұрын
I'm 50 Years old and never married and have no kids. Life is good!
@majorkade3 жыл бұрын
That's one way to do it. Congrats.
@36handy3 жыл бұрын
Bingo. Same. Living better than ever!!
@redpilled70043 жыл бұрын
How do you find the purpose in a such life? I agree with you, just me looking for some advice.
@rf38993 жыл бұрын
@@redpilled7004 I have my family and friends and work along with various hobbies. I like to travel and learn other cultures and meet new people.
@no-ud9dh3 жыл бұрын
Because you have no REAL game. Squeaky mous
@exploderman3333 жыл бұрын
This stuff makes me so sad man. I feel for you divorced homies. Only reason I ever wanted to get married was because I was primarily raised by a single mother. As I grew up, and had my dad in my life more and more, and being in relationships, I realize more and more why my dad just works all day and doesn’t deal with women at all.
@artbasss3 жыл бұрын
Hey, Richard. You mentioned Russia as a supposedly conservative society marriage wise. The last generation that really practiced it was my grandparent’s one. I’m 40, never married for obvious reasons. I witnessed my dad getting divorced twice and what it has done to him. The situation here is absolutely the same. The Men Movement, as we call it here, is getting stronger every day. Take care brother.
@keepersboy3 жыл бұрын
Together with my ex for 27 years.. 59 now 12 years out from divorce. Someone asked me once what would I change. I was completely screwed over by her... BUT I have 3 wonderful grown children that I had to fight tooth and nail to get shared custody. I cant imagine not having my kids so maybe no matter the cost in some ways it was worth it.. I am certainly a wiser and better person now. Will NEVER marry someone again though.
@zakzanloft30403 жыл бұрын
A few rules for finding a decent woman to date (if you must) 1) Shyness, must exhibit shyness, reserved, bashfulness. Lots of blushing is a plus. You do NOT want the woman who wants to be the center of attention. If she's loud, she's disallowed 2) Not a single mother 3) Smiley. Must smile very often. 4) Kindness, good-natured, charitable 5) Would rather you make the decisions / call the shots...Defers to you 6) Looks up to you. Enamored by you or what you do. Thinks you are the shit. 7) Not moody. If she's using pms or any other excuse to be rude towards you, it's a big red flag. End it.
@redness19243 жыл бұрын
Thanks for doing these videos Rich. It's comforting to know most men are going through this and some men have it much worse than I do. Stay strong brothers.
@somecelt52683 жыл бұрын
My wife was a virgin when we met and is very submissive. Foreign born of course. Keeping her enthralled plus a solid prenuptial makes our chances better than most. Of course we are planning on having children or I would not have gone through with it.
@majorkade3 жыл бұрын
I married an Asian lady while living overseas. We have comparable backgrounds, and have been together 21 years now. Married 18. No kids. Living in the USA, and it hasn't corrupted her yet.
@soapshowdown47213 жыл бұрын
I'm seeing a very traditional girl, wants to wait until marriage but I just found this channel because she doesn't pay for Sh*t and currently makes slightly more than me. Great values but and I'm sure she'll be loyal as we grow older. (early 20s rn). But I don't know how date payments should be split up.
@bjfreeland6163 жыл бұрын
@@soapshowdown4721 take turns paying bro
@PablitoDevil3 жыл бұрын
Or better , you can tie her up so she wont be able to run away, i think thats the best option
@somecelt52683 жыл бұрын
@@soapshowdown4721 - All women want a man to provide. My wife never paid when we dated nor as my wife. That is not the test. The tests are 1- Are they grateful when you pay and 2 - They aren’t asking you to pay more then you can afford. My young, hot, virgin wife would not have chosen me if I wasn’t a good earner. Like Rich says, a woman’s nature is what it is. The best solution for men is to find ways to get paid well.
@Tomegun1273 жыл бұрын
If it cost you as much to get Married as it does to get divorced , no one would do it !!!
@jorgemendoza85413 жыл бұрын
It costs more to get divorced, not just monetarily, emotionally, mentally, and physically! The laws need to change if women want equality, nowadays both people work therefore man should not have to support or reward someone for their bad behavior! We need to come together and make a change!
@gregorylatta81597 ай бұрын
Nowadays, it does 😆
@jdcohen76883 жыл бұрын
Rich is absolutely correct about people that spend a lot on weddings tends to get divorced at a higher rate. Out of all my friends I only have two that are happily married and they both didn’t even have a wedding.
@RealHughFlynt3 жыл бұрын
AGREED. You got to go into every situation knowing traditional marriage values are OBSOLETE 💥💯
@RealHughFlynt3 жыл бұрын
@ALXXX FACTS 💥💯
@martinh92633 жыл бұрын
I'm married, yet I bought Rich's book for myself, and recently another copy for my son who just turned 23. I'm hopeful he won't suffer the same mistakes I have. Men, get your boys this book, even if it's high school age.
@thebign88863 жыл бұрын
Fair play to you. Good work
@steveraus34953 жыл бұрын
I'm 58 and never married. Have had many girlfriends, but only 2 whom I was emotionally available: always too intimidated to pursue those that I was. Thought I was a loser for this. Today I understand that my fears were completely rational. I realize how wise I was to not commit to a woman I'm not in love with, and my standoffishness to the others was actually vetting. I'M A WINNER!
@youngorion15243 жыл бұрын
12:46 and that's the truth of it. I go home for my full-time job to another full-time job. Afterwards I go to school for full-time or part-time, and work some more. In the middle of all that work from all three of these facets spill over each other. On top of managing the finances and running errands, I'm told that I'm not doing enough for my spouse and from my spouse. Marriage is a lot of work with a very little reward. You will be demonized, you will be guilty to prevent innocent, and even when she is seen in the wrong you will still have to apologize for how you pushed her to that point.
@monterospooner16123 жыл бұрын
I dont blame the men who are divorced or still married who dont recommend marriage to anyone, in my opinion you have to be beyond delusional or psychotic to go through with it knowing just about everything if not all you built from your hard work, blood, sweat, and tears could instantly be taken from you for the rest of your life, as for me im good they can keep that shit good video Rich 🧠💪🏾💯
@SA-vz7qi3 жыл бұрын
A friend I went to school with never married and no kids. He has done well in his career in finance, but often muses he may just pack it in and move home (where he still own a house) and do some simple work. He never does but he gets great relief he always has the option. Nice big house, low personal expenses and would be able to live on a part time retail wage if needed. He doesn't feel the stress when others at work do, worst case scenario he is fine.
@honestabe73493 жыл бұрын
My wife of 26 years and I spent only $1,500 on our wedding. If you have to bribe your wife to marry you with huge ring and expensive marriage you are watching your future and building your demise. From day one I tell all my dates and wife if you don’t like what I bring to table there’s the door.
@JoseDiaz-rd9fh2 жыл бұрын
Culture and societal norms are so important to the overall quality of women and keeping them inline. A woman like your wife represents probably only 3 to 5% of the total population
@mstripling863 жыл бұрын
I am actually in the process of getting divorced myself, I will definitely have a hard time recommending marriage to any one I know.
@homeacres9454 Жыл бұрын
Good luck in the courts bro
@idratherbeoutdoors30853 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Every young man needs to know all about narcissism and that family of issues before getting involved.
@thegreenbikerider61893 жыл бұрын
One of my uni friends got married and bought a house with his wife. Within six months she had some kind of breakdown/episode and left him. Divorced and dumped with a mortgage, he could just about get by. That was 8 years ago. I decided never to get married after that shit show.
@goatmcgregor89513 жыл бұрын
Dumped him with the mortgage? That’s a good thing 😂
@thegreenbikerider61893 жыл бұрын
@@goatmcgregor8951 He was a contractor with the BBC so work wasn't guaranteed.
@TheGamer-cs5sm3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to say thank you for what you doing and wanted to say sometimes it really helps to hear and see someone else opinion on some topic, even though its a really painful to grow and learn specially when all you learned was wrong, I be honest seen things as how they really are and relay on my self and working on my self to grow , one step at a time, saved me from suicide, even though I have 10 times more problem to solve and not having a partner ( sexual ), I feel really happy and not Alone anymore, I'm really happy that I'm in charge and I get to take one step at the time and solving problems one by one ( for the first time in my life ), your videos and mind set and talks really helped me to speed the prosses and grow faster specially wrap my mind faster on the start of seen things as what they are ( about sexual market ) , For once in my life, I am truly happy , maybe I live in a hell ( as always was ), but I get to chose to make changes, one step at a time.
@TheNORegretShow3 жыл бұрын
I was 27 when I got married was divorced by 31. Don't get married here in Jersey she got the house alimony for 3 years. Zero kids she had a job I just make too much. Then she tried to come after my annuity and pension. She didn't get either but like I said she got the house. They change after you marry them. They go from lets build a happy home to I want this and that.
@Doeexist3 жыл бұрын
This was the coldest episode I’ve ever listened to. Chills my bones man.
@incognitosomeone82963 жыл бұрын
you should make a poll more precise: 1) you do not recommand marriage 2) you recommand marriage for religious reasons 3) you recommand marriage to have kids 4) you recommand marriage for other reasons
@oliverbenis3 жыл бұрын
There is no reason to get married now with the current state of the marriage laws. LKR
@manthings15683 жыл бұрын
Hi Rich, Im 57 divorced 11 years, few LTRs since, at 22:00 you said women are not good at relationships...I've been saying this for YEARS! Women are good people, good mothers, good friend, etc...but they suck at being a GOOD WOMAN in romantic relas..root cause is selfishness IMO...and YES make the video on this topic it is essential!
@aaronguerrero20033 жыл бұрын
In the Bible, although Jesus Christ didn’t tell him to say it, Paul advised not to get married to avoid troubles in the last days. Your videos are helping me understand that view point. I might change my mind on marriage later on considering I’m only 18, but hey, aleast now know I should at least get a prenup. Thanks for the vids Richard.
@TheMightySar3 жыл бұрын
I bought your book and it remind me when I was alpha , so your book is 100% true woman break for alpha and make rule for beta. I live it and now I apply the alpha , and woman approach me but i only casual date only. live by my self and never ever live with a woman again. I like my time alone and on my purpose banking . my son is reading your book.
@hardwiredtoselfdestruction34013 жыл бұрын
Whats thw name of his book?
@lordzooq89873 жыл бұрын
Dude I'm 21 and I'm a similar boat! I'm fucking happy as hell to see you sharing his book with your son's if boys don't learn men won't know
@lordzooq89873 жыл бұрын
The unplugged alpha, buy it on Amazon!
@harvestingseason27253 жыл бұрын
Were you ever rejected from potential dates for having a kid from another past relationship?
@Pablo.Degregori3 жыл бұрын
Richard you should seriously consider translating your book to Spanish huge market there
@SunnyFly1003 жыл бұрын
I do believe Jordan Peterson’s view on marriage is deeper and reflects reality much closer then the “reverse feminism” promoted on this channel.
@cssanders263 жыл бұрын
Man it would be a good segment if Rich Cooper and Kevin Samuels session together. It would be epic. Keep going
@CarsonAdventures3 жыл бұрын
12 year amazing relationship, she gets pregnant I do what I thought was the right thing get engaged and then we got married less then 6 months in she becomes a completely different person and our relationship ends thank God for prenups. My children live with me and our happy. She got a little money burnt through it and she is sad. And ive course I'm the happiest ive ever been but before that was the worst 2 years of my life, it was hell on earth. Near getting married again. Marrage has been ruined by spoiled people. Someone who expects to sit at home all day and do nothing expect play on facebook and other social media sites then expects to be treated like a queen while you cook, clean and take care of the kids. It was like being a single parent to 3 kids and one was the biggest spoiled brat you could imagine. Don't get married
@JoseDiaz-rd9fh2 жыл бұрын
Your experience really sends home the point about culture. This kind of behavior rarely happened in the early 1900s 1930s. Cultural and societal norms are so important to keeping women in line. There are still parts of the world with cultures that completely disapprove of any mention of divorce. Your verbal commitment in front of God actually means something. Western society expects more from men than they ever have and in sharp contrast they have removed all accountability and responsibility from women. It should be no surprise why we have the chaos we do today
@jonbob98722 жыл бұрын
It's really odd how she just changed like that. Any insight why? Did she cook etc for the previous 12 years?
@johnrencheck2283 Жыл бұрын
@@jonbob9872 its knowing when the contract ends she gets the jackpot and they know it NEVER MARRY
@wesdoesitmkii76323 жыл бұрын
That poor bloke, his story is horrifying!
@waynosfotos3 жыл бұрын
Hey Rich, just wanted to say, saw your PSA with the McClaren, garage vid. I know you feel frustrated, KZbin has a lot of hate and BS, but you are doing some great stuff to help dudes out there. It maybe only a small percentage of total dudes, i don't know how many have turned their life around. But you are saving some lifes, even preventing mental health issues with all this BS PC. Keep at and thanks for all the effort and time you put in. I know you make money from it all, but as a fellow KZbinr, i appreciate how much time goes into this lifestyle and the hate that come with that business choice. In summary, fly like an Eagle above the YT BS and thanks for all the advice and effort you have put in. Looking forward to seeing more of the better half, your McClaren! Lol
@no-ud9dh3 жыл бұрын
Great stuff keep scamming me with vomit your thoughts every 3 hours for 1 hour. Pussy is still out of reach. real game still would not speak. Fraud one way to not appear as weak.
@svtk51043 жыл бұрын
Why - it works - everything is ok when you are just yourself - when the yourself is really good. (I've seen it, not bragging) But even then it gets boring after while.
@KYLOWW3 жыл бұрын
For me I don't want to get married since there is no point. Also I believe in not wanting to be a parent and that is a choice that i'm glad to make but I still want to find a woman out there who also doesn't want to have kids and to still live a meaningful and positive life and to inspire others to chase excellence and that they can make choices on their own and not letting society dictate their lives. If any one else has advice on input please share I'm open to anything.
@robbenvanpersie15623 жыл бұрын
As marriages go down how would it affect our society ? Any consequences?
@killaclownz9113 жыл бұрын
Love you Rich, again with the wonderful content! Thank you for helping men everywhere make the best possible choices.
@jimarger85337 ай бұрын
She was a dream for the three years living together; not so much next three years married. Post divorce screened dates for feminist sentiments. Met an Asian girl with conservative values whom became my best friend/girl friend. We are not married but like family today, 41 yrs later. Marriage to a feminist just wasn't even close to what I thought it would be. It was like a one way commitment all on me.
@munafo132 жыл бұрын
Smart men don't learn from their mistakes, they learn from other people's mistakes...
'Purple doilies... I don't give a Fck!' 😂... Loving your work Rich keep it up 👍🏾
@redpill44313 жыл бұрын
It will not make any difference no matter what you do.If she wants out then its over .
@bws19713 жыл бұрын
Being married is like being in jail and paying for the cell and all amenities for you and everyone else
@nickthelad233 жыл бұрын
Lol, I literally tell all my buds to just focus on YOU and that’s all, and I’m only 22 and I’m just purely focused on my goals and ambitions bruh.. marriage is for chumps that wanna let their girl wear the pants in the relationship!
@lordzooq89873 жыл бұрын
Amen, 21 and same. I salute anyone I see get married like a soldier who died. Poor man.
@nickthelad233 жыл бұрын
@@lordzooq8987 lmao! Funny thing is I see all these channels suggesting to workout lol. I’ve got hooked to bodybuilding since l8 freshman yr of high, and I’m now 204-206fasted & walk around at 210-212lbs at 5’9, and started at 118-120lbs lol, it’s SAD to see that everyone’s now suggesting exercise lmfao.. ig:yonickybruh
@nickthelad233 жыл бұрын
I guess dudes out there don’t wanna get hyuuugggeee bruh, idgaf though, they’re loss honestly, and hopping on my 1st cycle soon since I’m graduating on the 29th & taking a yr off before law school..
@sanityone6493 жыл бұрын
I noticed that most of the long term wives ive met have the smallest wedding rings...maybe just a wedding band. It seems to me, the bigger the ring...the shorter the marriage.
@JohnnyRebKy2 жыл бұрын
I really dodged the bullet. I’m 38 and have never been legally married. Had a LTR for 10 years and that’s it. But I made sure to have all my ducks in a row so she wasn’t able to get anything of mine when she bailed 😎👍🏻. She left with nothing but her clothes and bathroom items. My momma didn’t raise a fool. I will NEVER marry the government. I’m not afraid to make a commitment to God but the family court system can go to hell. In my LTR I made a commitment to God to treat her well and not sleep with other women and I kept my promise. As far as I’m concerned marriage is between you, her, and God. I considered myself married to her but when she broke that promise it was over. She committed treason against our home and was ejected from it
@Jaxksworld3 жыл бұрын
So glad I found this video, will be ordering the book! Thank you all for the insight and hardship warnings
@Elwinator33 жыл бұрын
Mahdy knows in his heart what a relationship could be which is why he sticks with her. When he spoke about his possessive SO I could see his eyes when he went on about being open. If that wasn't so he wouldn't have anything to talk about. Like Brad Pitt giving excuse to not marry Angelina over Prop 8 getting voted in. He eventually married her after the court shot it down only to divorce her. Both were a couple of knot heads. Both were show BUSY but not working on themselves.
@ericraber12143 жыл бұрын
Why do the judges allow restraining orders with the divorces orders to be issued when theirs no cause?
@raymondjames25903 жыл бұрын
Guys I've been married for 45 years so far can't complain
@KingKhan-1233 жыл бұрын
I will marry only when alimony as a concept and law is made redundant.
@deboreas71763 жыл бұрын
Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, is time to pause and reflect.
@kingclarence17103 жыл бұрын
Love all of your content man !!💯 Wish I had known this years ago. Passing your site and book to my younger cousins and friends !👍
@42NORRIS3 жыл бұрын
Rich, I may be wrong but I believe a recovering BET is a recovering gambling addict.
@daviddelgado69403 жыл бұрын
Divorced in 2015,( unfaithful wife), together for 17 years, everything changed after getting married worst decision of my life,wedding cake is abstinence food.she cheated and got the house, it took me a few years to rebuild my life, I live with muscular dystrophy and I'm still happy now, I have the best companion ever now, my dog Oadie! Stay out of the slaughter house!
@TrueIndie883 жыл бұрын
Incredible episode. The Dr story was almost too painful to listen to.
@akonitony23 жыл бұрын
Rich, I know you are busy, but it may behoove you to talk to me about my divorce where the roles were basically reversed since i was taking care of our 2 sons 78% of the time. She ended up paying child support, as well as a portion of my attorney's fees which were extra to fight her in mediation.
@charaznable92093 жыл бұрын
I'd love to see a world where it is mostly the dads getting custody and the bitchy career moms having to pay the child support.
@johnrencheck2283 Жыл бұрын
Marriage should be as easy to get out of as it is to get in one
@MM-op6ti3 жыл бұрын
No disrespect intended, but it’s kind of telling that the only guys who recommend marriage are the widowers.....
@ghostdog70533 жыл бұрын
That's a hell of a jacket Rich!!
@GASHPAN3 жыл бұрын
A lot of good advice in this one video. Many raised points and stories which sound very familiar...! Avoid marriage.
@scottfletcher19563 жыл бұрын
I'm 42, never been married. What Rich is saying is 100% true, let's be honest.
@harvestingseason27253 жыл бұрын
Any kids?
@scottfletcher19563 жыл бұрын
@@harvestingseason2725 I did have a son.
@harvestingseason27253 жыл бұрын
@@scottfletcher1956 did you ever get rejected from potential dates for having a child from a past relationship?
@scottfletcher19563 жыл бұрын
@@harvestingseason2725 never had the opportunity. My current live in gf is the mother of my kid. I've been ridiculed multiple times over my lifetime for letting the good one go. The way I see it... Marriage in today's society is a joke. The customs of the past religious path to marriage is completely outdated. I was lucky to have a step-dad when I was younger who ended up paying child support for 18 years for a kid that wasn't his. He even proved it in court with 99% certainty. Didn't matter, judge said all thevkid knew was him as his father and the other guy didn't want to be found. He dropped the gavel. I live in Washington state and the laws are very pro woman here.
@harvestingseason27253 жыл бұрын
@@scottfletcher1956 what do you mean been ridiculed for letting the good one go? They mean that for you not getting married to ur gf??
@elitecombatfitnesscentral61703 жыл бұрын
I have an acquaintance that met a super super hot chick with two kids from a previous marriage... things started getting serious and six months later he moves her and her kids into his house... three months later he's unloading her and her kids at her mom's house... because he caught her having relations with her ex who lived across the country.
@michaelmiller50763 жыл бұрын
Ok, I have to know, I’ve been dating a girl for about a year and a half. Long story short I mentioned moving in together before we get married, and her response was,”I don’t want to give you a free trail.” In my opinion it is a red flag. What do you think? I’ll answer any questions.
@sanityone6493 жыл бұрын
A lot of women have a notch count higher than 10 before the graduate from high school.
@confirmedbachelor60192 жыл бұрын
True alienation can be perpetrated by either the father or the mother. It stems from a broken attachment system that is triggered by the family unit transitioning from an intact family structure to a separated family structure. Just bad mouthing the other parent is not alienation. Real alienation is sinister and is extremely damaging to the child. In most cases, the alienating parent has a personality disorder.
@massimobargagna56413 жыл бұрын
'' Is what you'er holding onto WORTH the space its taking up ? ''
@hammertents53073 жыл бұрын
A new subscriber I've been married over 11 years and I agree with what you say but we have to asile acknowledg the situation of weak men out there
@TILLEYJS3 жыл бұрын
Married twice. Divorced twice. Total cost less than 3k.
@milescivis1018 Жыл бұрын
But how many wasted days?
@TILLEYJS Жыл бұрын
@@milescivis1018 I guess ultimately I don't really consider it wasted. I learned a lot regardless of outcome. Had numerous failed long term relationships. Got most of what I wanted out of them.
@milescivis1018 Жыл бұрын
@@TILLEYJS well then yeah, I guess that’s why a lot of guys line up for the meat grinder more than once. Not me though, you only get one spin on this merry go round
@YOUPIMatin1233 жыл бұрын
Reached 6 figures thanks to you kicking my ass virtually. Living like a poor, investing 90% of it into more income streams. Thanks.
@hedge3133 жыл бұрын
That Bond bar of Tactical Soap smells good!
@majorkade3 жыл бұрын
I love Esther Perel. Brilliant.
@grandremnant69013 жыл бұрын
$103,000 in legal expenses as never won once as ex committed perjury, contempt of court with no penalty where I would have been In jail. Then daughter gaslighted so hasn’t spoken with me since 2007 as a pharmacist clearly drugged my daughter to lie about me on the stand in court.
@john83me143 жыл бұрын
I struggle to stay with a women for a week straight with overnights...yrs? Decades? NOPE 32, no kids, single, never married, 6 figure career...going to Thailand 2022😜
@David-fw4ly3 жыл бұрын
Do you go to Thailand by yourself? I’ve been thinking about going, either Thailand or Philippines I hear both are good.
@john83me143 жыл бұрын
@@David-fw4ly this will be my first time. I'm going alone. Actually I'm going to the Philippines 1st. But Thailand is better in every way from guys I know who went. Phillipino women just OVERLY friendly and they THROW themselves at foreign men😍 even more than Thai girls. You'll meet people their...they are a friendly culture.
@David-fw4ly3 жыл бұрын
@@john83me14 Cool, have fun!
@David-fw4ly3 жыл бұрын
@Nancy Mora Condoms prevent STD’s in case you didn’t know.
@ericraber12143 жыл бұрын
Marriage so expensive... which e-reader should I get for the books?
@thomasdcat34633 жыл бұрын
Thank you Old man for your great advises
@RETIRE20243 жыл бұрын
Just a public service. THANK YOU
@marriagecausesdivorce7540 Жыл бұрын
many women want to get married for 1. the babies and 2. the financial security (the husband might make 3 on the list, unless the 4. wedding party and 5. honeymoon overtake him).
@anchorsaweigh98933 жыл бұрын
I voted to discourage marriage. I’ve been married 18 years. Most of it has been pretty good. We have 3 boys 17, 15 and 6 mos. My wife has been pretty dang solid so you would think why I would vote against marriage. I’ve seen so many men destroyed spiritually and financially. They could have invested the money they spent on family court, lawyers and fees. I was lucky enough to have a partner but if given the choice today I would opt out hands down.
@nickf93923 жыл бұрын
If you are married the only reason you get to live in your own house is because your wife lets you. Thats right. She can have you removed from your own home anytime she feels like it, and make sure you go to jail as well. All she has to do is file a false protection from abuse charge against you, and you are now gone. Don't think so....you poor fool, you've been warned.
@risefromyourpain Жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ!
@ronaldboykin975515 күн бұрын
If I suspect a woman of any foul intentions I would have a close friend around who could be a witness to her behavior! I don’t care how cunning and beautiful she is!
@patrick25303 жыл бұрын
It's a bad idea.
@badass1g3 жыл бұрын
The more money spent on a marriage means the deeper the pockets the man has.Therefore the bigger payout for the woman to walk away and take half. When I hear of rich people getting married it makes me realize that they have a lot to learn about life.
@ileumilia3 жыл бұрын
My mom gets child support from dad and my brothers dad and we don't see any of it and it's more than 1000 a month
@mysterio15703 жыл бұрын
The only way to not get messed up with Financial hardships from a Divorce is to not marry/or have bio kids with a woman. So its GF/STR for like. She can take it or leave it. You have to have options even if it's not reality to you at the moment.
@robertreynolds27263 жыл бұрын
Marriage is like buying a car, never own something that depreciates simply lease it.
@bjfreeland6163 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@matthattermatador45953 жыл бұрын
Sorry but this is an insult to my car. My car is always there when I need her. Very low maintenance and I always keep her running smooth. She’s sexy to look at and doesn’t care when I stare at her for long periods of time just to admire her beauty. And I enjoy taking her out on the weekends. In short my car is better than a woman. 😂
@redpill44313 жыл бұрын
No leasing is a very bad deal as well
@MrSweetaz3 жыл бұрын
LOL, my dad taught me to never buy a cow if all I wanted was a Pint of milk.
@GUNMETALGUYUSA3 жыл бұрын
@@matthattermatador4595 preach brother
@ct55893 жыл бұрын
Wow that neurosurgeon story made my stomach sick.. wtf
@romzillatv3 жыл бұрын
Only 75%? 🤣
@neemyn4073 жыл бұрын
Divorce rate? Yes
@neemyn4073 жыл бұрын
100k + on family courth whay
@arms57863 жыл бұрын
Only 75% of men voted the other 25% had to be women. I mean that the only logical way to come up with it.
@MartyPowell552 жыл бұрын
Lived together with my ex wife for 3 years before we got married. As soon as we got married the fucking wheels fell off lol.. Before the marriage and like I said, living together, we got along fantastic.. I couldn't believe the change in behavior.. I have not re married..the divorce was in 2007.. I have dated many, many women since then..she, however is working on husband #4 😂😂
@kenshowalter16793 жыл бұрын
$150k isn’t much. I was paying $40k per month for years. I did win full custody with discretionary access for her. Nobody takes my kids. Not for any price.
@farwankhojik17503 жыл бұрын
Warren, last time someone asked you about your opinions for q1, you said you didn't care about q1results and now you make a video on q1 results