THE LONG WAIT BEFORE HE PUTS A RING ON IT | How Long We Waited

[@bumploveug]

How long is too long while waiting for your man to propose marriage? Is an elaborate proposal a deal breaker for you or not? We'd like to hear from you, grab a Newmans snack and a drink and lets dig in to this #newepisode ! Video credits: Production: Garage Group Set: Golden Tulip Kampala Outfits: Fashion Episode Shoes: Shoe Puzzle Hair: Zuri Luxury If you enjoyed this video please like it, share with someone who needs to watch this and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove

[@conniezoe]

Hello Bump love You are so Loved😘 Hi Pumla Am always smiling when listening to you sweet souls. The previous episode opened My mind about alot of things Please talk to us about dating single Fathers or single parents when you don't have a baby. My Own story is I have been dating this Guy for over 5years and he is a single Dad of One ,he has never talked anything about marriage and having children and yet me I really want to settle down and have children and one Time we tried to talk about marriage issues and he keeps saying, that time will come and whenever he says that , it confuses me totally. And he keeps saying he has Alot of things to do before he gets married and in this 5years we have dated he is still having Alot of things to do🤔 I really don't know what to do coz it feels like I have wasted time and I really don't want to waste More Time. Please hide my identity thank you . I love you ladies so much

[@Deedor72]

I love the anonymous statement @ the clown dating for 10 years. That part should be amplified. Just listening during my "hours"

[@Deedor72]

Pumla those terms and conditions by the busy "proposer" were 🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️ aside from the disclaimer..seems he was a poet if not a psychopath eh life heheh

[@Deedor72]

I agree with Rachel, please consider hearing from the men to help unpack this hidden mystery...why do they take long to commit?

[@Deedor72]

Huh....what if he rans away @lady proposing to the man that shame 🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️

[@shaniceo8291]

Racheal i love your transparency n honesty ...may the lord bless your union with Ben , you are a great role model to many christian women I love you to pieces ,Ben hit a jackpot with you.

[@kanisakisakyewanyama459]

And for Racheal ,mulokole byaddala.she doesn't comprise her faith beliefs❤❤❤love u RAY

[@berylchepkorir9953]

Rosette's energy is so light, soft and warm. She's funny too. I'm loving her more and more. Her personality is shining!

[@roseviela.30]

Thank u

[@I.am.human26]

I have been in Anonymous’s situation and after two years of the waiting, man married another woman 3 months after I walked away. I realized that I just wasn’t the person for him and ladies if you notice that please walk away. One thing that I emphasize now is that as you wait, if you feel absolute peace in the process then wait but if you don’t feel a sense of peace in your heart then find out where that is coming from and fix it. Thank you ladies.

[@priscillachinsembu4669]

I don't feel any peace at all

[@happie-xt6qw]

Angie is emotionally sweet in her narrative of 7 proposals 💯🥰

[@nabwiregloria]

I’d very much love to hear Manuela’s take on the part for a woman proposing😂

[@mildrednakaayi]

I have decided that Pumla has lived multiple lives😂😂. She blows my mind every episode 😂

[@faithamong2389]

Just love her

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaahaaa! They are like 4 lives only. I swear 😅

[@shirleyenejessicah6752]

😂😂😂

[@letitiawoods8746]

😂😂 pumla u r one in a kind😂😂😂

[@orishabafranklineisabelah5144]

Oba how old is pumla😆😆😆

[@julietajok4126]

Angie carries her blessings so beautifully.She always feels like a baby sister you are rooting for though she is older.

[@masizibahove8939]

Angir putting on a lil girl's voice whist telling her silly story😂😂

[@Value357]

a lot of lessons to be learnt here

[@rwamsrit]

Rosette had me there 😂😂😂😂😂

[@sumayamya357]

Confession, I watch most episodes twice. it finishes and I quickly roll back to the beginning and re-watch comfortably like its the first time. Thanks for sharing your stories and insights. you don't know how many souls you guide. May God bless you more and more everyday

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We are blessed for Bump Lovers like you ❤

[@josephinenalwoga2337]

Same here 🤗

[@AgathaMartha]

Speaking for me

[@janicein3820]

❤❤

[@mildrednakaayi]

The value and stories Pumla adds to this show🙌🏾😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hehehe! Thank you Mildred.

[@ajNKaj]

@@pumlanabachwa8668that proposal😃i was sitting on edge of my sit… love you❤️

[@nakachwareginah2689]

Naye Angie 😂😂😂😂can’t u let me be?!am on the floor

[@ayopamella]

Pumla's very mechanical proposal had me on the floor eeeeeeeh!!!!😂😂😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Mwana gwe...mechanics live amongst us

[@judithpeace001]

Anggie is so sweet narrating her proposals hhaahaa......Bambi Rachel..........but Pumla is always exceptional with her stories..........and then our soft Rosset ....thank you ladies........Emmanuela we missed you for this episode

[@sarahmagoola7948]

All through Pumla's story i kept thinking she had literally found a male version of herself. Smart, ambitious, assertive and a planner

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

And then he wanted kids 😅

[@alicealice4426]

​@pumlanabachwa8668 If he didn't want kids would your have said yes?

[@sharonmuhindi7794]

True

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

​@@alicealice4426i did consider.

[@brendadawa4165]

Thank you ladies for this spreadsheet of advise. It takes discipline to decide to be patient, to let go and to do the proposal. I like the way Angie balances all sides and Pumla, your deep way of deciphering the content is just top notch. I missed Manuel's input althought at some point she alluded into how her proposal went. I remember it was at Hotel Protea, a surprise proposal to which she said yes and she went back to the car and said no to Brian. Racheal, your ideas resonate alot with me.

[@GraceM-u1j]

Rosette I am a fellow woman but gal, I like you for being an elegant. The effort you put you put to self love is evident ❤ wow I like u

[@rutheglance9673]

I hv always said that she is such an intentional fashionista, her style is cool n Manuela z style is bold

[@roseviela.30]

Thanks dear❤

[@thurayyanaslo3478]

Atte her second name is Najjemba which makes her my daughter, I love you Rosette

[@roseviela.30]

@@thurayyanaslo3478❤❤❤❤❤

[@stellanantongo4682]

I love rechael's eyes they are good to look at

[@christinenakazzi280]

Naye banange 😂😂the last 20 minutes did it for me and a single woman in her 20's I'm always here to learn, thank you ladies, ❤❤loving the looks.

[@gift2362]

Me too but I have learnt a lot from these ladies mazima

[@amandaakatukunda]

Angie got enough proposals for the whole bump love crew😅 But the guy who proposed to Pumla ...He had a real PROPOSAL!

[@mujabiprossy5856]

Wow very interesting

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

It was a real proposal mazima. No mincing words

[@anonnona6433]

​@@pumlanabachwa8668And it could have worked if children were not part of his equation. As an observer, he was a perfect match 😂😂😂😂😂

[@justineamulen5755]

By the way, on second thought, it was actually a serious proposal proposal.

[@amandaakatukunda]

It was a serious proposal. Extremely well thought out...as Pumla said serial killer attention to detail. It's just that it was more of a deal than love and we love love

[@laurak442]

Angie and Pumla had me rolling on the floor with that supermarket analogy especially the Frankfurter.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Angie is so silly. She floored me completely 😂😂😂

[@laurak442]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 😂😂😂

[@acengmonica5895]

Been a silent fan of the show but pumlas stories are hilarious😂, they've brought me out of the box today..😄

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

If this is all it takes, I'll keep them coming 😅

[@Its.helleina]

please keep them coming 🤣🤣@@pumlanabachwa8668

[@mercynamikoye9084]

I love how Angie tells the story of her relationship. She's such a vibe

[@Phi_semwezi]

Rach. Thank you Soo much. I couldn't agree any better. Am also for the no sex before marriage belief, how ever hard it may be these days. Those things of men enjoying wife bu privileges on girlfriend level... Apana. It's all possible if we communicate like you ladies put it. But also men who engage pipoz daughters for like Soo long without taking things to another level bambi like Pumla always says,,, DO BETTER.

[@atuheiredoris8495]

Angie’s proposals and how she’s telling us 😅😅😅

[@nuwaherezapeace3841]

Me I'm dying of pumla's story😂😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😊😊😊

[@mercymukisa9297]

Its key that we get to understand the seasons as well, to some of us who were close in age and life, I could not expect my Man to marry off immediately we finished school. He was fully committed to me and ready for marriage but there were no resources to support that, we had no jobs even a place of our own. However peer pressure disorganized me, I demanded and put ultimatums. I almost lost the love of my life. But love wins it all. We have been together for 3 years now since we left school and wedding preparations are underway. My advise is that, please understand your partner and the situation at hand.

[@bagumajulietkengonzi1908]

Love what you've said but most girls are not patient enough to understand their partner's situation and because of that they end up letting go of a good man

[@olivia-kim-abba]

Interesting conversation as always. Like Rachel said at the end no relationship is the same. Copy cut paste won’t work. Right now am speaking as a 4th floor member- Romantic Proposal & Wedding are simply the icing on the cake. In other words u can eat the cake without the icing sugar. The question you should be asking yourself Does my person have what it takes to bake a beautiful scrumptious cake (Marriage)?? If you are ready to share life with another human being- Focus and prepare for the marriage. Ie prayer, conversations, conversations n more conversations about them, with them, from people who they have related with (Exs), relatives etc. if you can afford it plz go and have therapy conversations (plz note not marriage counselling) but conversation to really understand who you both are, what baggage you both have to work through and what are u both ready to commit to. If the person is not willing to commit to this process I would know am simply having a good time with them and Next… this is me speaking from my 4th floor. I now see how marriage proposals and weddings with bells & whistles truly blind women especially and Alas the “Marriage ain’t marriaging”… May you find what works for you ladies.

[@zaburahzaburahh1784]

Aggie those bad manners of taking back the ring 😂😢

[@hanifahnamuli947]

Wow 😳 this is deep and should be shared with all 18_23year olds and every adult female, thanks ladies for the show ❤❤

[@orishabafranklineisabelah5144]

Was waiting Manuela... Mrs waoooo waooooo. 😆😆😆😆😆But guys.. love is indeed a beautiful thing... A woman should propose banangeeee

[@tessa_vahn_]

Rachel is looking extremely gorgeous. That's a very elegant dress. I also loved everything she shared.

[@edithbateganya9069]

Eeeehhh....Mama!!! Oba, who's Angie's hubby? He feels like a dream. That's commitment

[@bernadettelunkuse7927]

Rachel you look so good today. Your makeup artist chose the right colors for your complexion

[@sharonletia4755]

That supermarket analogy took me ooooout🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@niyigenammarsmireille5453]

I always wait for Angie's storytime 🥳🥳🥳, How i love you Angie♥️

[@ndagiremasha2565]

I love how Angie talks she’s so calm😊

[@NassaziShamim]

Pumla is a very intelligent person 👍

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Such Big blessings. Received with love ❤

[@lydiambabazi6463]

I really think we should leave the proposal role to the man that's if he's the one that asked for the relationship. Let's leave some bit of dignity to ourselves as women. If he saw you fit for a partner, let him seal it. If he's not proposing and time is being burnt let her walk out of it.

[@naturindablessing5330]

My mind

[@ugandankitchen.]

We didnt date so for us when we met and you know talked about all we needed to know,the next time he proposed and marriage was next. There was no waiting because to me it was either am getting married or am single not being in between or dating for years.

[@julietajok4126]

Pumla has surely squeezed rinsed and squeezed everything out of this life. 😂😂. You just have to love her

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😅😅😅

[@zaburahzaburahh1784]

I love Rachel and Ssegujja's consistence they are always present wow we love u

[@anonnona6433]

8:41 Ben, if you are watching this, please do it for your girl. Get in touch Kemi, surprise her please ❤❤❤❤❤ Please make her dream come true😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@pcmelce]

Hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂 shelf vs counter analogy

[@stacyviola4542]

😂😂 a torch and a broom got me rolling 😂😂

[@mirriamngombe9586]

Angie the way she explains ,very composed , wait emmanuela's laugh is missing 😅😅

[@kemiomeke1120]

❤

[@saradodo1064]

Last 20mins were fire 🔥 ladies. This is what I always preach to young women, happily married for 16yrs and still going

[@namatovucarol2783]

Pumla 😂😂😂 it's the torch and broom for me

[@gladnessmtei8706]

😅😅😅 the supermarket example is most vivid ...

[@lucyfnakiyegawamala7892]

The end is so hilarious. Thank you ladies. I'm married to a lovely man, with whom we dated for a few months. But i had known him before as an aquaintance. As the ladies have put it, pray about everything

[@peruthmwenkanya2508]

Pumla explains everything so well. She makes it understandable...

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh! I love that you can relate with my explanations 🙏🏾

[@gift2362]

I swear 😂😂😂

[@AmonginRacheal-eb8jr]

That proposal Pumla got is crazy....I would have laughed in the middle of it.

[@serugoveronica9097]

Oh Angie, i just love this lady, you really crack you me up. Love you ladies , you have allowed to be vulnerable so we make new mistakes.

[@kanisakisakyewanyama459]

I swear i LOVE ANGIE😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@elynajohn1079]

WOW!!!!! this is so interesting and thanks ladies for tabling this. Am a single and not worried lady who has been proposed for a number of times. The 1st came when I was still in high school, he brought a ring when he was in 1st year of college, apparently he said he liked me because he saw that I would be a good complement to his future plans but the timing wasn't good for me as I was still young and I had to turn him down. The 2nd came when I was in college with a guy I had dated for a long time in an on and off situation. He came after building his future saying he needed to have a stable home with babies and baby names for his 3 children, I felt like I was going to be an incubator not a wife and always made me feel like a stranger when with him. Finally a recent one was with a guy who proposed after I told him that its over because he wasn't committing. But hey, i know when the right one come, everything will workout

[@CeciliaMwebaza]

Rosette had got me for a second 😂😂😂😂😂😂 today's episode banange, naye Pumla😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@Jojo-pv3uf]

This is my first time watching! Love from 🇰🇪 and 🇺🇸! Great content!

[@masizibahove8939]

Stale frankfurters 😂😂😂banange don't do that to us! just started watching this and catching up.

[@nancyayikoru6089]

This show has been edutaining and hillarious😂😂 Thanks guys I love your energies today. We've missed Manuela

[@ScriptureswithTasi]

The supermarket analogy was so accurate😂😂😂, thanks ladies.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Anytime now they are returning you to the shelf 😅

[@ScriptureswithTasi]

At least it will be to the shelf not to be left at the check out counter until obsolescence 😂

[@namugerwajuliet4633]

Wasn’t that a serial killer?? Pumla pumla pumla how many times have i called u😂😂😂😂 u spice up this show hun, hats off🫡

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaa! We must be alert at all times 😎

[@anonnona6433]

He was a man in love, paying attention to all the small details, knew what he wanted, clearly communicated it, they had a good friendship. oh my! He took time to learn her patterns. I really appreciate him 😂🤣Hopefully he is happy where he is 🤩

[@lwangaatlanta]

I swear Pumla u were right to say NO...what kind of proposal was that even😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂that was a business deal

[@phionakajumba3868]

But Angie was Ba summer going back Necessary😂😂😂😂😂

[@NOM2090]

Racheal you made this episode so fulfilling, i couldn't agree more or less on whatever you said .

[@rosiealways1082]

The drama in Angie’s proposal left me in stitches 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Do that to men today, you’re out minimum at the 2nd time

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You're even lucky if you survive the 1st 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kemiomeke1120]

And bambi I truly thought that everyone went through the same like me 🙈😂😂😂

[@rgorret6980]

​@@kemiomeke1120😂😂😂😂 but you 😂😂😂😂

[@doreenbayoa3829]

​@@kemiomeke1120not with the men of now days 😂

[@kiraboneema808]

@@doreenbayoa3829 dear last week it was 4th proposal.. its mch possible if the age difference is big not age mates

[@victoriaasibazuyo4949]

ladies this is so true the supermarket analogy has nailed it

[@ConquererAnita-ns7qu]

Racheal, woooow thay was good to first think thru and know wat u wanted, thank u ladiesss. Woooow

[@ruthharrietmusana1552]

I Loved the way Angie said "Old enough for a proposal" 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣Ono omwana alina ekyejo one of the last borns

[@graceakello3781]

Pumla,you have lived life to the fullest! Today's story is IT!!!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaa! I'm always happy to share 😊

[@ruthiekuku5865]

I want to see the dad version of this episode..🤔

[@leodinaaero9333]

The Warrior, the conqueror, the Lion is here. That crowned it all. 😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂

[@thebakdrop]

Angie you're the exception... the rest of us are the rule... guaranteed those ninjas would walk away. Y'all are unicorns🎉🎉

[@Nakimerasharon]

Manuela you missed this 😂😂, keep your laughters and sighs wherever you're

[@giftanyijukire4000]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂angie Oj has seen days 😂😂😂

[@gift2362]

For suwa😂😂😂

[@ebifaevalyne8584]

Rosette has killed me on this one 😂

[@kigongowinnie4014]

Pumla oh how i love you 😅

[@dorahankwasa4908]

I really love you all but the broom thing has killed me 😂😂😂😂

[@giftanyijukire4000]

Rosette 😩😩😩😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂 I didn’t see that coming

[@roseviela.30]

Hehehehe. Pulling ur leg

[@faithamong2389]

I love the way @ Pulma said it some people do so much to try to fix in what the other person wants be true to yourself Love you guys thanks for the show we appreciate

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yes. Be true to yourself.

[@anonnona6433]

100% If you know that you don't like doing certain chores, don't pretend to love them so much just to win him over.

[@catherinenamboow]

Love you guys

[@zaburahzaburahh1784]

Let's keep here I know u ladies have alot of stories to narrate to us let's keep waiting

[@Rhodakagoda-gu6oi]

Angie indeed ur born at the end tail,7times🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣not this generation. Thanks my sweet 16

[@lwangaatlanta]

Naye Angie yo dramatic😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@eunicebiira2331]

Thanks ladies😂and I loveeeee the laughter with jokes at the end😂Loved it! I always look forward to your segments.

[@lukomaedith8914]

Exactly what Rach said.....Ladies nowadays give in so much that they are not Holy chosen at the end of the day...in Senga Hamida's words "abawala be'naku zzino basuse okwefumbiza" and they are left for other women who didn't give in...And surprisingly nowadays men know ladies want to have children..I personally I was asked by a guy how old I was mbu he wanted to know how long I would wait.....Ladies thank you thank you.....please keep doing this.....

[@latellaannz6518]

Naye Angie seven times 😂😂😂😂😂 I tap on your blessings

[@tumwebazekenneth4492]

Ben's statement of "let's stop being stupid " cracked me..😂😂. But meanwhile @Pumla oba how best can yo escapades in this area of love be preserved- ndowooza a ka documentary would suffice kuba they are just so hilarious deserving of retelling...😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! We need some archives ndowooza. These are the joys of being intentionally single in your 20s & 30s 😅

[@sweetmutima70]

For sure Pumla should write a book about her life. It would be a great one for this generation.

[@markshawn7335]

Pumlas commentary and funny life experiences 😂😂😂 I wish I could get a Time Machine and grownup with Pumla 😂

[@zaburahzaburahh1784]

Am loving the ladies shoes🎉

[@gracegift7994]

Someone said, women look for stability where Men look for freedom ❤! This was hilarious 😂

[@Daphne-u6v]

Oh dear Rosette you real got me 😂

[@roseviela.30]

😂😂😂

[@paulinemwangi2045]

ooooh we are still growing soo well slowly i joined these amaizing channel when we were 20 subscribers mmmmh n i have enjoyed n learnt alot being here

[@akotclare2133]

The supermarket example is the best😅. Akitegede act accordingly 😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

For shuwa 😂😂😂

[@jackynambatya]

JJamu embaga..ne proposal..nsooke nziimbe enyuumba😂😂😂😂"nze that's what i have pictured "pumla👏👏👏love u

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love you too sis ❤

[@angellaayebale]

Rosette how could you do that to us😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@roseviela.30]

😂

[@nakasaggaresty1991]

The supermarket ideology 😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂

[@phionakajumba3868]

Angi u gonna kill me with Laughter one day😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@vickiepearl2085]

Pumla is so amazing I just loved every bit of her even the natural Beauty 😍

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you love ❤