Burnout ~ It's a Thing

[@vjones3899]

I just recently discovered your KZbin channel and I am thoroughly enjoying it. I don't have any crafty friends either but you are such an inspiration. I've been going backwards to catch up on past episodes. Thank you so much for providing such interesting content. Please don't stop.

[@JeriBellini]

I don't think that's possible, unless I got really sick! I love making videos and spending time with everyone here! 💛💛💛

[@Jusmom1]

Don't Apologize! We ALL have times when we can't keep up with everything on our plates. We appreciate EVERYTHING you do!

[@JeriBellini]

Hi Jusmom, Thanks for being here and connecting with me in the comments! 💜

[@gailsmith-gv5zl]

In England, we say that things are getting on top of us. I call it Grains of Sand Syndrome: when you can walk on the sand, it's fine; when it gets round your knees, it's hard; the higher it gets, it paralyses you; when it gets over your head, you drown. Remember, most people have a holiday. Most people use that holiday to rest, recharge and refocus. Use your time in the summer to focus on your family and wellbeing. If you need to do videos, commit to every two weeks so you can do an extra now and again if you feel moved to. We can all cope with you having time to yourself, just so long as we know you're OK. Look after yourself, an empty teapot does not provide tea!! Big love, Gxx

[@JeriBellini]

I love that analogy. I guess I started sinking into the beach! LOL Thanks so much! hugs, 💜

[@DaisyDebs]

I like the tea pot thing ! 🫖

[@MSmith696]

I don’t add comments to YT but I want to make sure you know that you are very valuable. I’m 79, in a new location without friends and having trouble finding creative folks with which to enjoy common interests. I may not comment but I always feel as if we’re having a visit when I watch you. And I love all the inspiration I get from you for new and interesting projects. Find the schedule that works best for you but know there are many of us out here that will follow you no matter when and how much you bring to us. ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Thank YOU so much for coming on to comment! You got 10 likes on your comment which tells me there's many others that don't comment but appreciate my channel and that makes my heart so happy! Sending hugs and love to all of you! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@weezie2867]

Jeri you are speaking my language! I'm so glad you paused to share this video. I'm sure I am not the only one that connects with what you were sharing and feels like-minded. Thanks dear youtube friend!❤

[@JeriBellini]

And thank YOU for being here! 💜

[@gloriamcphail4589]

I'd watch your videos if they only came once a month. Your creativity was just what I needed this summer. I'm a caregiver wife and it's hard to take care of ourselves so we must do what's necessary to keep well. It's not hard to tell that you're a giving person. I'm sure your honesty resonated with hundreds of us.

[@JeriBellini]

Gloria, thank you so very much! 💜💜💜 Caregiving is hard, I did it for many years. Sending you hugs! 💜💜💜

[@sherylmcgettigan1920]

Don't beat yourself up, your community will be here, at least those who are genuine. Hang in there. Yeah burnout is real, take care of yourself.

[@marleneburdett9241]

Family and your self care is the most important thing. Take next summer off or even just one month. All of us seniors know exactly what you're saying. You're the best!

[@Love-to-sew-so-much-56]

You should do what is right for you! And feels good! Take care of yourself first. The rest will just fall into place. Love your videos, no matter how often or how not often you post them. You’re a very sweet lady. Have fun live life to the fullest!

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks for your comment and for being here! 💜

[@lauragaudry3402]

“All’s good Mom!” Is what my son tells me, with an amazing hug, when I get overwhelmed. That helps more than I can say. I understand what you have been through and ask you to please not push too hard. We seldom see how we are doing ourselves and are truly blessed to have other’s in our lives to let us know. Keep creating, pray continually and enjoy the moment that God gives. You will be well! Hugs and blessings, 🤗❤️🇨🇦

[@JeriBellini]

Ahh, thank you so much! Praying and sending hugs back to you! 💛

[@lindalarsen1285]

I couldn't think of anything worse than 'duty videos'. We'd miss all the heart that is usually there. To quote another wonderful woman - 'you be you' Jeri xx

[@christinefetter1544]

Exactly right!❣

[@JeriBellini]

You received 7 thumbs up so others are agreeing with you. I love seeing that. This community is surely something special and I treasure each and every one of you! I would HATE making duty videos, BTW! What fun would that be?! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you! 💜💜💜

[@tinmouse1083]

I just love your content. Dont worry about schedules. I dont believe creativity follows a linear path, its more natiral, ebbing and flowing. Post when you can. 😊

[@JeriBellini]

Now that's a truth! Hugs and gratitude! 💜💜💜

[@HilaryArthur]

Taking a break is so necessary! I appreciate you. Do videos whenever it fits YOU, your life and your creative spark. No expectations here and no schedule required. I’ll watch when you post. 🥰

[@JeriBellini]

Good, I've heard this so many times now I'm starting to believe I can do it however is best for me! Thank you for commenting! 💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@kathyffarney-keck8593]

There is no guilt among friends. You need a break, then take a break. Come back when you can. When we are retired ,there is no employer telling us we have this many vacation days. We need to self regulate. We're human

[@stephaniehopkinsartist]

Yes indeed! ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Dear Steph, thank you for being here! 💜💜💜

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you Kathy! 💜💜💜

[@elizabethfenimore1362]

Don’t be hard on yourself.

[@cyn4rest]

Balance - if that’s even possible- is so hard. If it’s ever figured out, I hope the info will be shared. I identify with what you said. Thanks for opening and sharing your sweet and warm heart. ❤. I’ll watch (gratefully) whenever you’re able to post.

[@JeriBellini]

I’m learning more all the time. The key is willingness to make changes and not get stuck in “Nope”. 💜💜💜

[@lindabartlett3397]

I think of you as a friend I’ve never met 😊. You take care of yourself and I’ll watch for your videos for whenever you make one. I enjoy when you’re just chatting or when you are sharing a new project.

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks Linda, I love chatting with you! 💜💜💜

[@pattuck7680]

Oh Jeri I will absolutely support you! Thank you for your vulnerability and as others have said you don’t need to apologize. I love your”ya-ya”❣️I admire that you recognized your need for a break. Your videos are so important to me, it’s like talking with a good friend, cuz I do talk to you too. Whatever you do, however often you do it, I’ll be there with you. I even tell my husband “l’m gonna visit with my friend, Jeri”. Whether you know it or not you teach us more than stitching. You teach us how to be good people. I am grateful for you💕

[@JeriBellini]

Pat..... Pat... thank you from the heart. I am so grateful! 💜💜💜💜💜

[@bellascraftystudio]

Hi Jeri, I know exactly how you feel, I have experienced burn out this summer and I have had it once before. The problem is you don’t know it’s happening until it happens! Be gentle with yourself, you are so precious and we love what you bring to us in your videos. You will be fine, you are strong and beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing your gifts and talents its much appreciated. God bless Bella xx❤

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much Bella, and I'm so sorry you are experiencing this too. But the upside is you recognize it and so did I. So that allows us to make changes. Life is a constant readjusting of how we live to find that Balance. Sending you healing hugs and love, 💜💜💜

[@loraineh59]

Hi i have just found you .....going to enjoy catching up......i am 65 and like in Kent England UK....and just started sewing about 6 years ago ......and love it .....nice to have found your channel....📍✂️📍📍📍📍

[@JeriBellini]

Welcome!!! I am so glad you are here! Sit back, enjoy a cuppa and get caught up on what's going on here. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment! 💜💜💜

[@roylynnhoenig7785]

Of course I’ll watch you! Sometimes I don’t watch YT for a week or so. We all need breaks now and then. Focus on you and post when you want to! Grateful for you and for the love of stitching.

[@JeriBellini]

I'm not on YT all the time either, fits and spurts... Enjoy my videos when you pop in! Thank you! 💜

[@RebeccaStokes-g6t]

Bless you! You're so thoughtful to try and explain your burnout but you really don't need to....definitely love you and your videos regardless of content and timing! As K3N says "you do you"🥰and your supporters will always be there for you! You are a bright spot in my day and I THANK YOU!! Take care of yourself....we will be here with open arms to embrace you and your creative goodies! Hugs💕 Rebecca

[@JeriBellini]

Oh thanks Rebecca! 💜💜💜

[@HeatherEK]

So happy to see you are back. I love your videos and so appreciate your transparency. I have felt the same recently and it is so nice to know that I am not alone in some of these feelings. I too have spent a lot of time just creating and look forward to seeing more of what you have been creating when you are ready.

[@JeriBellini]

And I can't wait to show you! Making this video has lifted a HUGE weight off my shoulders. I just didn't know how to tell everyone what was going on. And then I just sat down and turned on the camera, I didn't even edit a thing! That doesn't happen very often. Thanks for watching! 💜

[@doniellefarrell2438]

Missed you Jerri!! So happy to see your face again!😁 With that being said, extremely happy you took that break and did what your body/mind was asking you to do. Have enjoyed your videos and ideas and you continue to do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself and when you post a video, I’ll watch!♥️

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much Donielle! 💜💜💜

[@maureenlatta6376]

Thank you for sharing from the inside. You would be surprised to find that if we were all sitting around a table at the same time (is there a table big enough) that we all suffer a form of burnout. Whether it be feeling isolated, trying to be all things to all our loved ones, being there for our friends, finding time to be creative or try something new. I truly enjoy your YT videos. They give me another path for my love of embroidery and just making things. Personally I find I bamboozle myself with wanting to try too many things. I overload myself but I am aware that time stands still for nobody so I will just keep 'doing'. I feel you need to rest your creative mind and once a month may be a good idea, as others have suggested. This will give you a big breather and all those ideas spinning around endlessly in your creative brain will just stand in line waiting to get out when you are ready. Big hugs and thanks for your inspiration.

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you for your heartfelt comment! I'm keeping track of all the suggestions and plan on making a few changes! 💜 And check out a book I am currently reading... Start More than you Can Finish! It's a fun read!

[@sharonparks8144]

You are an amazing woman - thank you for being so transparent - I love your videos - Blessings ❤️❤️

[@JeriBellini]

That is what my channel is about. If I hide this stuff what good will it do everyone? Thanks for being here! 💜

[@lindajeffree793]

Hi Jeri, I’ve only been subscribed for the last couple of months and someone whose in her late 60s I get what you’re saying and just want to thank you for sharing your heart and wish all the very best as you work through the right balance for you. I love your videos and the work you do and will continue to watch them, plus I have other videos of yours to catch up on ..all the best Linda 💕🌸🦋

[@JeriBellini]

Yes! Please do go back and watch the older ones! Appreciate you so much! 💜💜💜

[@leslierogan9637]

Thank you Jeri for your candor! We all struggle with balance and commitment! I would watch your videos no matter what you decide to show us and no matter what the schedule! ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much Leslie! 💜

[@lindaware3082]

We all need a break now and again. Keep well and I’ll look forward to your videos as they come. I’m moving soon to an area to be closer to my daughter but she’s at work all day so it’s like I will not know anyone. I’m lady in later years too. And yes burnout IS real. Take good care. ❤❤

[@JeriBellini]

Good luck with your move! It's not easy going to a new location, I know! hugs, 💜💜💜

[@cathyjenkins5985]

I love your videos and will support you and watch you on whatever schedule works for you and your well being ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Cathy, thank you so very much! sending hugs, 💜💜💜

[@colleenkabat5017]

I love this video! I, too, feel overwhelmed some days. I can relate to this. Also, I am anxious to follow your little square projects you showed at the end of your story. Please stay on KZbin!!! We love you!

[@JeriBellini]

I just traveled today, came home to have a visit with hubby bub, tired from the ride but already rooting through some wool to start another project. I will share soon! 💜💜💜 thank you!

[@karenivicevich1981]

I love watching you create. I would watch your videos at anytime, weekly, fortnightly, monthly ☺️ I'm a support worker and sometimes I get overwhelmed looking after others and forgetting about myself. We need to be kind to ourselves and you stepping back was the perfect thing for you to do. Guilt is a terrible thing, but never feel guilty for taking care of yourself. You deserve it 💙💐

[@JeriBellini]

You're the best! Thank you! 💜💜💜

[@lesleymccallion2185]

Hi Jeri, as others have said, no one can pour from an empty pot…it s hard to get the balance right and it s human to struggle with that. I feel as though I learn that afresh in my own life almost every week! I am glad then that you took a break to tend to yourself and again, as others have said the videos you create are very helpful, inspiring and warm. If one came once a month/ every six weeks that would be okay too! If you took a break for the Summer it s fine, or whatever works for you. That way the flame of creativity is kept live and flourishing for you and then your videos help us all with our creative flames too. Please take whatever time you need and when we see you again then it s wonderful. Love from East Yorkshire UK xxx

[@JeriBellini]

Hi Lesley, I wish I had been writing down all the wonderful comments that I received here... Everyone has a different way of expressing it and I LOVE it! pour from an empty pot! LOve that one! I'm back in PA for a little and just enjoying some small remodeling work in the house. I turned the camera on too so I'll be posting that soon! Thank you so much! 💜💜💜

[@jennifernesta4767]

K3N sent me to you. I just love you. Thank you for being”real”. I so relate to what you are sharing; good storyteller.

[@JeriBellini]

Love that Kathryn! Welcome and Thanks for coming over, I’m glad you’re here! 💜

[@kellytaylor4000]

Burnout is real!! I love your videos! And I’ll watch them whenever you can manage to put them out. We have retired to our cottage on the lake in the middle of the woods and it can get a little lonely. I will always look forward to your videos and I love your Facebook page too. They both allow me to feel more connected to creative people and I’m truly grateful for that.

[@JeriBellini]

Oh that FB page, I'm so glad I started that! The connections people are making make my heart sing! 💜💜💜

[@marticote3442]

Love your videos no matter how often they are Jeri. I too have had burnout which is why I’m only watching this video now, 2 weeks after it was posted! You are always worth waiting for!❤

[@JeriBellini]

Oui, I'm so sorry. I hope you're feeling better now and I could help a little. Sending hugs, 💜💜💜

[@michelebales]

You make transparency real. Thank you for the honesty. ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Always! If I can't be honest I can't be. Thank you! 💜💜💜

[@potterman71]

Wow. I'm English, and we often struggle to be open and express how we're feeling. Stiff upper lip is an expression you used to hear. Your openness and honesty are so refreshing. Most of us have hard things to deal with at times. Blessings to you and all your followers 😊

[@JeriBellini]

Oh Thank you! I'm pretty outspoken, I always hope it will help someone else if I share. 💛💛💛

[@lauraleeharden8358]

I completed understanding. I've been resting a lot this summer also, and I told myself that's OK.. Take time for yourself .Love you and love your videos whenever we can see them.❤❤

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you this means a lot! 💜

[@leonasdesigns]

Thanks for sharing this Jeri. I can totally understand. I am a “helper” person and often have to stop and remind myself that I need help myself too. So don’t feel bad for taking a break. You need to stay healthy to do all you do. I will be happy to see a video from you once a week if that’s what you need to do. Take care. ❤🙏

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks so much Leona! 💜💜💜

[@joyfullyjustine]

Burnout is a thing! Love your videos and will continue to watch how ever often they come out. Please don't feel guilty. Your peace and happiness should be more important than a video schedule. ❤️

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you Joy, thank you so much! 💜💜💜

[@GreenhornBonsai]

Thanks for all of your videos--I am grateful to you! And I know that taking care of yourself is the priority for sure. ❤

[@JeriBellini]

And thank YOU for taking the time to comment, it’s how we stay connected! Hugs, 💜💜💜

[@VikkiTucker]

By the way i put age as 60 … meant 70 🤭

[@BobbiKolllhoff]

Take one day at a time. I watch u all the time. Several times in fact. Love your projects. Yes to whenever u put a video on.

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you! Glad for your support and encouragement, it means a lot! 💜

[@penneybell8518]

Oh Jeri, so relieved that you have taken time for you. Happy to have your videos anytime - look after yourself 😊

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks Penny! I suppose you could always go back and watch the older ones, if you're like me, you won't remember them anyhow! 💜💜💜

[@jshepard56]

You gave us an example of self care and realigning your practices.thank you

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you, I guess I did! 😂 Thanks for being here! 💜

[@cathyhubmann8227]

Jeri, I will support you no matter how often you create videos! Please don’t feel you have to apologize when you need to take a break. I think we all understand that sometimes life is hard or complicated. I am 71 and I live a very isolated life. I have no creative buddies, so that makes you very special to me! It’s such a joy to watch your videos and spend some time with you. I support you and I know you support all of us. Thank you so very much!

[@JeriBellini]

I understand! And I am grateful for you! 💜💜💜

[@DeDraadFanaat]

I watch your videos for the real you🙏 Most of all I love and admire your authenticity and honesty❤❤❤ So please, keep doing you and never stop showing that you're human. That's the best part of all of us❤ We need more people like you!💪🥰❤️

[@JeriBellini]

You are so sweet and it's comments like this that keep me coming back! Sending hugs, 💛 💛 💛

[@DeDraadFanaat]

@JeriBellini 🙏🥰❤️

[@susanharris7725]

Dear Friend, You spoke very clearly about life as we age and our desires to fill it to the fullest. Or maybe some sorrow that old age doe’s physically catch up with us (me) whether I like it or not. I started watching you when you first came back to doing videos this spring because I was recovering from a long illness and I didn’t have anyone that wanted to create with me so I chose you. Yes I do sit and create with yo u and talk to you even though you are on a screen , somewhere inside I feel like you could here me (lol). Anyway what I want to tell you is that you have a friend in me. I think you are a sparkle plenty of a woman that gives with all her heart and I understand our need to go at our own pace whether fast or slow. Take care of yourself dear one , Thank you for your loving service to us, I will always sit and create with you . Sincerely, Susan Harris Ps I will put up my ufos from this summer on our Facebook page soon. I’m a bit behind lol

[@JeriBellini]

Susan I'm so glad you're in the FB group and I'm still learning who everyone is in there. Please do post when you are able I love to see what everyone is working on. And thank you, I can totally hear you talking to me while I'm filming! 💜💜💜

[@lavonngettmann5902]

Take a break when needed...I have found your content to be creative and joyful. Whenever and however you wish to create and post is just fine by me. I always have many hands in play (more than I should) so understand completely the need to recharge and reenergize so that we may be able to bring what we create to the table. Your sharing and inspiration moves me to be more creative and I am grateful beyond measure. And yes, I will create a Kofi account today. Thank you.

[@JeriBellini]

And I received your gift! Thank you SO much!!!! I am grateful that you are here and left a comment too! 💜💜💜

[@marymccauley2461]

You are a beautiful soul! Dont be so hard on yourself!!! Life happens! I love your videos. Give yourself permission to enjoy living! Don’t sweat it!

[@JeriBellini]

I'm feeling pretty amazing now, after reading hundreds of comments! Thank you! 💜

[@dailydoseofpaper]

Wow Jeri, this was partly as if it was me talking through your mouth! I was so looking forward to making videos the whole summer and then….so much was going on around me and I couldn’t keep up. I need quiet to be creative. And social life to stay social. And on top of it I have injured my arm ligament and have to take it very easy. So….there went my plan. Out the window. Anyway, Love your videos and will still be here whenever you are here. Take care🍀💖🍀💖

[@JeriBellini]

oh Machteld, I'm sorry about your arm, I hope it heals quickly. Best laid plans as they say. But it's life right, and as you can see if you read any of the comments, the community is always watching out for us and supporting us. They love us and understand. Sending healing hugs to you! 💜💜💜

[@dailydoseofpaper]

@@JeriBellini you are right Jeri!🍀💖💕

[@retroqueenbeeart]

Videos are a challenge to make. Your videos are wonderful and I learned a few things. I am 71 and I just started my utube channel. I am learning lots of tech. I love the supportive people of my art.

[@JeriBellini]

GOOD for you! There certainly IS a lot to learn, and I believe it keeps your brain going strong. Congrats on your new channel, I'll go check it out! This is indeed a wonderful community! 💜💜💜

[@JeriBellini]

GOOD for you! There certainly IS a lot to learn and I believe it keeps your brain going strong. Congrats on your new channel, I'll go check it out!

[@arlinenash8690]

Wow! A real human! How cool is this! Hanging out tighter, JUST because you're real, like me.

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks! and yup, you'll see all the warts here. I share to encourage! hugs, 💛

[@artistgrly]

Oh my goodness!!! How dare you try to be a human! Lol. Jeri, we all love you so much, and as fellow creators, we totally understand burnout. Been there - done that!! I can honestly say I will definitely watch every video you put out! I love your videos! You do you!! We got your back!! I watch your videos over and over cuz I love who you are and your personality. Love and hugs always!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@JeriBellini]

You're the best! AND I AM SO GRATEFUL! 💜💜💜

[@harrietculp2521]

I only found your channel today and love you and your videos! I am going through some of the same things. Keep going and think happier thoughts.

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much!! I hope you will subscribe and stick around for awhile! Thank you so much for commenting! 💜

[@vikkitucker7840]

I am 60 so i get it … we have the same amount time/hrs as everyone … but sometimes the everyones think we either have more time/effort etc to give & then ‘our’ time is past & it is as i have said past 25 yrs … it is Friday agin … it is always Friday😊and our week has gone agin … Comes around soo fast! I feel guilty/selfish if i have ‘me time’ that i dont deserve it or need it etc … that i need to keep giving of time & my energies then i have none … I have said when i do a ‘crash’ that there can be 10-11 things that can go wrong … but it is #12 that sets me off & it mebbe the smallest ‘lil thing of all of them but … it adds up … I have several medical issues & try very hard to push on … but am tired & like you said need a nap … but feel like i am giving in to ‘it’ so keep on going Please take care of you💜🙏🏻✝️ gentlehugs 💜

[@JeriBellini]

Hi Vikki, thanks for sharing. I hope you get a rest too! sending hugs, 💜

[@bernadettesimpson9563]

Hi Jeri .. l’ve watched most of your posts .. throughly enjoyed everyone of them in fact I just loved doing the Dots .. very therapeutic you are very valuable to this channel and add lots of interest .. please please take a break whenever you feel it’s ready .. look after yourself we will all be here for you … I’d like to show you what I’ve made with the dots one day … then you can see how important and creative you are… Bernie from the UK.. XXXXX

[@JeriBellini]

email me Bernie! My email is at the bottom of the description area. I'd love to see your dots! 💜

[@b1conboy]

I love your videos and please take care of yourself, I love your saying, aging gratefully ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much! It means so much to me when people take the time to leave me a comment! Hugs! 💛💛💛

[@melodiegustavsen2730]

We all need "mental health" days (or weeks or months). Finding balance with all the pieces of our lives is a never ending challenge. We understand and are happy that you're having creative time to play and recharge.

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much! 💜💜💜

[@kayehardy240]

It’s ok to take a break. We all need breaks sometime. I have missed you but you need to do what is best for you. I have just found your channel and I love it. Thank you for sharing your time and talents with us. Your small squares are bring me great satisfaction. Thanks again for your generosity with your time and talent. Take care of you!

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much! It's nice to hear I'm missed when not around! 💜💜💜

[@essie2335]

I’ve only recently come across your channel and I find you so inspirational! Any videos you choose to make and share would be wonderful. I’d rather see one video a month that you felt comfortable with and enjoyed making than more regular videos that caused you any stress (if that’s the right word) to make 💕

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you and WELCOME to my channel! I'm glad you're here! 💜💜💜

[@deniseohlman6514]

Jerri, you went on a creative vacation. You had to refresh yourself in order to keep making these wonderful videos. I love your videos so much I wish I lived in your tiny house village so we could have a cuppa once a day and visit. Take a break, whenever you feel the need. We will be here waiting for you, knowing you will have something fabulous to share when you come back. Denise from Chattanooga, TN

[@JeriBellini]

Oh don't I wish you were here too! 💜💜💜

[@andreahapgood400]

You are appreciated and I thank you so much for all the teaching you've given on your channel. I learnt how to coffee dye fabric, absolutely love the way you showed that in your 10 Minutey one....and to learn the skill of how to join fabric with the snip method, well you have changed my rag yarn creating experience forever! Like the creatives on youtube say, YOU DO YOU and send that guilty voice packing. Not only have you nothing to feel guilty about, You have given, gifted, so generously of your knowledge, and if you never made another video all would be well. You have done a most awesome and beautiful job on your channel. Be well and happy, thanks again.😘💖

[@JeriBellini]

Andrea such kind words, thank you for taking the time to write! 💜💜💜

[@susanclarke1787]

Dear Jeri, lovely to see you again after your much needed break. I understand your need to take some time out, I feel like that too and in fact did that very thing this summer. I will keep watching and liking your videos as like minded people are hard to find. Take care , we will be here. XX

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you Susan and I'm glad to hear you enjoyed your summer! 💜💜💜

[@bjoyp7463]

I am a fairly new subscriber and have been catching up on your past videos. LOVE your Chanel 😍. You absolutely should take a break when needed. I could relate to so much of what you said. Sounds like many of the comments here show you are among friends who understand and totally support your choices. Count me in that group 😊.

[@JeriBellini]

You are INNNNNNNN! Thank you so much! hugs, 💜💜💜

[@deborahmeyer-y4m]

I love all your videos, especially the crazy ones because I can really relate to them. I would only be upset if you stopped making them all together, so please, whenever you can just don't stop. I love you and I appreciate you coming here and sharing your talent and your thoughts. Blessings for a quick healing of your soul. 💛💛💛

[@JeriBellini]

I can't imagine stopping, I just made one yesterday and will be airing soon. Thank you for being here! 💛💛💛

[@janehargreaves3867]

Love your videos everyone needs a break don't be hard on yourself nice to see you back😊

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks Jane! I've answered enough comments now to know I better take a break or else! one of you might come after me! ha! 💜

[@bernadettesjones9142]

Yes I will continue to watch because I started the dot to dot♥️♥️

[@JeriBellini]

😂 And I love that you did! Enjoy the process! 💜💜💜

[@suebrown3194]

I'm the same age you are. I've found that I've slowed down in terms of the number of things I can or am willing to do. Chronic illness doesn't help matters any. Striking an appropriate balance is an on-going issue. Thanks for an open, honest video (as well as all of the creative content!).

[@JeriBellini]

you are so welcome Sue, it's a problem for all of us older folk! Especially when we have health issues. Sending you hugs, 💜

[@helensalo9810]

Thanks for this video couldn’t have come at a better time. As a fellow 69 yr old I was questioning if it was age now I feel a little better

[@JeriBellini]

I think it's partly age, I could tolerate a lot more whoo haaa when I was younger. Now I need a lot more calm and peace. And I did say no quite a few times this summer but evidently not enough!

[@annebotterill7971]

It’s ok to take a break! Don’t feel pressure. Follow your instincts. Just stop and breathe……. 🧘 🥰

[@JeriBellini]

My break involves rooting through my cloth so I can create. I just got home to PA and had the best time gathering for the next stitch fest. Can’t wait to sit and stitch tonight! 💜💜💜

[@barbarabeckman6722]

Of course you will be supported by us. I personally look forward to your creative talents.The most important thing is you take care of yourself and find what will work for you.

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks Barbara! 💜💜💜

[@anitajansen5610]

Hi Jeri, what a brave video👍Do what you have to do and what feels good. We'll see what or when there is a video. I have to say I also checked a few times if I had missed a video. Take your time, your rest and do what you like. I have been in a burnout/depression since November and I know what you are going through. Take good care of yourself🍀💐👍🧡

[@JeriBellini]

Oh no Anita, I hope you can too can make a few changes and come out of it. Sending you healing hugs! 💜

[@anitajansen5610]

@@JeriBellini thank you. I'm working on it. KZbin helps me and my crafts👍

[@lizsouthall9711]

Sending you love and a hug from England xxx

[@JeriBellini]

Sending you a big hug back! 💜💜💜

[@lisazilaro6906]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and insights, God bless 🪡🧵♥️

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you Lisa! hugs, 💜💜💜

[@catherinewyrobeck5388]

YR my clone. Similar lifestyle. Moved to a small town 4yrs ago knowing nobody. Recycle everything and produce creative items around the clock. Wish I knew someone who appreciated creativity but they don't seem to "get it." Slowly I'm finding my way, aways busy, never bored BUT it would be nice to know someone with similar interests. Retired. Love your projects!!! I do have 2 adult children in the area (reason for moving nearer to them) but again, they work and have busy lives.

[@JeriBellini]

yes, ONE like minded friend would be amazing! and my kids are super busy working and taking the kids all over the place so I don't get to see them much in the winter. 💜💜💜

[@barbarabeckman6722]

Thanks!

[@JeriBellini]

Oh thank you for the Super Support!!!! I am grateful! 💜💜💜

[@atwoodwoman]

Awww so heartfelt. Gurl, take care of you. We are here for you.

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you! 💜💜💜

[@joycrucitti6153]

Jeri, Sometimes I think promises are a sincere ideal want to do…we make them without knowing what the future holds…as humans we all make promises we can’t keep… they were sincere and realistic at the time they are made….but we don’t have those magic glasses to see the future!!! As I get closer to the 3/4 of the century mark I will also say as we age things we took in stride on our 50’s don’t always feel the same as they did… there are times we need to readjust (just a tad)….sometimes I wish my brain stop playing tricks on me … all the ideas or things I think I’ll do as I did in my 30-40’s or even younger!!! Okay tangent done🤣🤣 To answer your question… I’m sure that I’ll be here as long as I’m looking at the grass and NOT the roots!!!😂😂😂 have a bright and beautiful day/week/month etc!!!

[@JeriBellini]

What??!! LOL looking at the roots! Hope you hang around for a LONG time. Thanks for your comment! 💜

[@lindaschillers6405]

so great to see you Jeri!! so glad you took the time to refocus and feel better and more grounded. i hope you know that you can make a video for us whenever it works for you--no pressure and no schedule that you MUST meet. this aging process is a continuing learning experience for all of us. thank you for being so brave and sharing your learnings with us. i can't wait to see your video about your little wool squares but no pressure of course. take good care please! linda from California

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much for reaching out to me recently Linda, I am grateful for you and so many others! My day is getting off to a great start reading all the love here. Thanks again! 💜💜💜

[@liveintruth333]

Jeri, whenever, however you can manage to share, we will be here. I love your authentic generosity and wisdom, and I so appreciate how you are willing to express the struggles many of us have with the conflicts between giving to others, self care, and finding some balance in a world that places so many demands on us. You owe us nothing! But we love the fact that you care about us. No more explanations necessary. Just continue to do your best and that will be more than enough! You really inspire me in so many ways. Many, many thanks and love to you for sharing your creations and experiences.

[@JeriBellini]

Look at your KZbin name! I love it, LiveinTruth. That says it all! All the comments have been filling up my well, I feel so much better now and will resume shortly. Thank you! 💜💛💜

[@annagray4208]

Great that you are so honest as it may make others realise they need to avoid burnout happening to them. Take care please.

[@JeriBellini]

Exactly what I am hoping for! 💜💜💜

[@shelleygiesbrecht4759]

It’s ok if you take a break, it gives me a chance to get caught up with all the cool things you’ve already posted over the past few months. 😊

[@JeriBellini]

LOL I love that Shelley and funny you mention that, I watch other channels myself and can't imagine how anyone can keep up with all the fun projects that are out there! It's impossible! Slow and steady wins the race, right? 💜💜💜

[@christy773]

I would like to press the 'like' button a hundred times now that I know it will get you something too. But unfortunately, you can only use that button once. I know what you mean about thinking no one likes your work or your videos. I have that too! Very often in fact. But we, your fans, love to watch and listen to you ! ❤

[@JeriBellini]

Ahhh thank you Christy! 💜💜💜

[@BarbaraEaves-vz1vl]

💕💕 I have had burnout, and I understand. You will figure it out. 💕

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you, have never experienced this, so it was a bit frustrating. But I'm feeling better, and after my vaca to the homeland, I'll be back on track! 💜

[@janekrut2799]

So excited to see your face! Have you thought about taking a month vacation while in NJ? You could post a vacay picture/video, saying wish you were here? Like 2 min. would that help your algorithm? Your sharing your struggles is totally in line with your channel - and I for one, need it. Guilt is a joy stealer. Enjoyed your newsletter - Yellow Monday. Appreciate you so much.

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks Janet. This is the quiet time for rest. The kids went back to school, the campground is quiet... I'm going home for a week and when I come back I'll be all alone until the end of October when we close up. I'll get plenty of rest then! I promise. 💜💜💜

[@janekrut2799]

@@JeriBellini Sounds like a wonderful time! My thought was that it might be good to take a month off during the summer next year with no worries/commitments, but maybe a hi during that time. Enjoy the hustle and bustle of the kids and camp without having to find a quiet time to video. It may be hard for you as you care so much for the fellowship her, but just a thought. It sounds like a wonderful place that you have in the mountain- I can imagine it in winter, sigh, so beautiful. Although every season has it's challenges, doesn't it? I can no longer imagine myself shoveling to get out of the house, 4 and 5' drifts. My challenge this year has been the 110 degree days, trying to keep the hens cool, not to mention me! Whatever you do to keep yourself you, I'll be happy to watch whenever you post.

[@JeriBellini]

@@janekrut2799 I like your idea! If my plan works out, I'll make extra videos over the winter and use them over the summer. We'll see I'm still trying to figure it all out. I'm going home to PA tomorrow to visit with hubby Bub. ox

[@Bubbawork]

As usual, everything you say resonates with me and burnout is something we all suffer from at one time or another. I’m conscious of never really getting anything done, too many distractions, so I’m trying hard to manage my time better and be more creative. Can I just say you look great in the video - I love the colours you are wearing! Look forward to your next videos, I always enjoy them ❤ xx

[@JeriBellini]

Well thank you! I actually stopped wearing this lime green a few years ago when my hair turned gray.(was my all time FAV color) But I do like it, and this shirt is as old as dirt but I find I wear it a lot at the beach when I'm chilly. So funny you mentioned that! hugs, 💜💜💜

[@cathiespalding2083]

No need to say anything, just take care and looking forward to your videos again !

[@JeriBellini]

I appreciate that! Thank you so much! 💜💜💜

[@xxdonna1959xx]

I’d be quite happy for you to post whenever you can, whether just a chat or something beautiful and creative. I’ve only recently found you, and love all you do. Take care of yourself, and pop in to see us now and again ❤

[@JeriBellini]

I'll be popping again real soon, thanks for being here! 💜

[@wennwenn1178]

Jeri, as a well-known people pleaser, who is also isolated most times, the best thing that you can do is follow one of your mentor's Jude Hill. As you have said she stitches like nobody else you have ever seen. You are the same, when you are motivated and inspired your videos are amazing, yes even all the YaYa😊. Balance is the key, when your family come to stay then that is where your attention should be, everyone needs time off. Especially when we are trying to be all things to all people. I would rather see you once every few weeks when inspiration has struck rather than seeing you on this channel weekly and it feeling like a job, you are meant to be retired remember. Yes we all love and support you, and even if just like Jude you send out a quick newsletter with a few pics and a few words like she does, it keeps the connection alive, Im able to comment and see her and that is enough. 10 mins of watching you "pop in" share a little of what your doing or not, is more than enough, anything else is a bonus. YT is so structured, your a free spirit, the connection is more important, as is your health. I heard the hesitation in your voice about doing a FB group 😢 ah been there done that, us artistic folk get tired very quickly when it comes to anything overly structured. The point is unless you have a bf or someone who is happy to do all of that for you, dont worry about it. Not all of us want to share, just yet 😊 Your dots have been and are amazing, so while the camera is off I am still watching your previous videos as I'm sure many are. When I see a newsletter from Jude, I click it immediately, a lot of times she only mentions a few words, and as soon as I go to her shop on her website everything is almost always sold out! As you know her videos are 3 to 4 mins, 10 mins at most but how she inspires me with how much she loves cloth and texture is the highlight for my week. I guess she spends less time on videos and more time creating (hint hint) and that way finds a balance. For me personally, and maybe you should ask your followers, if you were to do up pre maid kits, just small ones 9 patches, with just some fabric and circles, OMG I would be buying them up all the time, knowing we are also supporting you. Something small and achieveable, starting is sometimes the hardest part. And knowing they have come from your stash, created with your hands, it would feel like a gift from a friend. Just an idea as to how to keep some money comming in, but also not putting so much pressure on yourself. Like you, we all get to a burn out period, this is when we know things have to change, you can't be your best self, if this feels like a chore. As introverts, being social is wonderful, butwe also need cave time, just to rest and ground ourselves. Yes of course we will always be here, YT shorts are great at connecting for 30 seconds and then back to your channel or website we go. Your amazing, talented, a wonderful teacher, but its necessary to learn the word No, and how to set boundaries. You are so inspiring, and genuine, thats why we love being part of your community, your only commitment is to yourself, push the "guilt monster" away. We will always be here 🎉, if you can just keep that connection ongoing, even with a newsletter, we know your safe, happy and it allows for you to ground yourself and let your creativity emerge. Time out is the best self care lesson I have ever learnt, we learn by watching you. The only permission you need to step away, is from yourself. We will always ❤ and support you xx Big hugs from 🇦🇺 watching you has helped me more than you will ever know. I still have my little stack of dots next to me that I work on every day, even just ten mins keeps me sane, and that is thanks to you x

[@JeriBellini]

Well aren't you wonderful! I was having a bit of an off day today, something came up and your beautiful message came at the exact right minute. I love your idea of small kits. I have SOOOO much stuff I would LOVE to downsize my supplies and it would warm my heart to know people were using some of it. I'll be working on that when the beach season is over. Regarding the FB group, that runs itself! Those people over there are amazing and take VERY good care of me, I can assure you of that! Also also, I do have a newsletter and you can sign up for it here: bit.ly/RecycledParts4ArtNewsletter. Thank you so much for your message! 💜💜💜

[@newmoonjlp]

I'm sure you'll find the right balance. Perhaps keep your regular KZbin schedule fall through spring and make them more occasional in the summer? You deserve to enjoy your summers with your family and everyone is much busier then anyway! Whatever you do, lose the guilt! You have nothing to apologize for.

[@JeriBellini]

My hubs suggested the same thing and also said I could bank videos. This past winter I was learning about lighting, cameras, editing etc but now I have that down I will have more time to make videos and do some of the other things I have been wanting to do, like post an eco print class I made a few years ago. It's just sitting... which is a shame. I hope to do something with that this season. Thanks for being here! 💜

[@lindas5964]

Jeri, for what it’s worth (I’m a newish subscriber), I want you to know you were the one who got me into slow stitching! I couldn’t really watch the other videos on KZbin about slow stitching (so many beautiful ones!!!) because I didn’t know what was going on, a lot of them the person doesn’t talk…but your video captivated me because I just enjoyed listening to you talk while I would knit. Over time I started learning what you were doing and low and behold now I have a lovely little set of sashiko thread and I’ve finally got a purpose for all those beautiful old linen scraps I’ve been carting around for years! I’ve made a cute little scrappy quilt and I’m working on a needle case! I love it! And you gave that to me. So don’t worry about making videos on a schedule! Just do them when you feel like it. I feel like you are a friend (I haven’t found any crafty people where I live either) and we can chat when you aren’t so busy. Love and hugs from Florida!

[@JeriBellini]

Ahhh, that's what I mean, you made my heart happy to hear I influenced you to start stitching. Thank you! 💜

[@katpaints]

I love it every time I find your videos - and the thing about the um, mature life, we are not 23! We have done it, been there, made this and that and are still loving trying new things. That does NOT mean that all of us can still do it all or even follow along with everything you or anyone else are doing. But having you visit is a charming thing! I love that you are wanting to be connected! Most people do! I love looking forward to seeing you! Seriously though, that obligation bit can burn one out faster than anything else, which defeats the point of it all!

[@JeriBellini]

So true and I can only do what I can only do. LOL and now that I let it all out, I'm contemplating how to proceed. Thank you for being here! 💜💜💜

[@Nanna-bm4ov]

I haven’t commented before. However, I want to say I hope you continue feeling better. Our physical & mental health are everything. It seems apparent you want to be your best for yourself and everybody & everything you care about. So continue doing whatever that looks like for you so you can feel your best. The comments show how much your subscribers relate to you. It was nice of you to explain this to us. It was a help to many. Friends just want what’s best for friends. Take care, rest and enjoy! On a lighter note, your board of treasures looks intriguing!

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much! and YES, that project has made me very happy lately! I will share it in a video soon. 💜💜💜

[@SharliMcLachlan]

I honor, respect and love you. Thank you for taking care of yourself, this is a strong message to all of us, you just gave us the gift of showing us what self care looks like. You again inspire me to be the best me possible. And I’m holding you in my heart ❤Sharli

[@JeriBellini]

Sharli, that is so sweet! Thank you! 💜💜💜 hugs

[@pattysolberg3618]

Missed you Jeri. So glad to see you again. I’m grateful for any videos you post.❤

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks so much Patty! 💜💜💜

[@kathiekarancz964]

OMG! I want to say that I am sorry for not watching in the last couple of months. You are GREAT. I just turned 70 and have been alone for around 15 years. Just in the last couple of months all of sudden I have become very depressed. Your video today was just what I needed to hear. I have something to ask….. you mentioned that your videos are to help with the aging too. NOT to say any of your other videos are not great. But what you did for me tonight was just what I needed to hear. THANK YOU!!! Lots of love back to you. Kathie from Mexico ❤️❤️❤️❤️🐢

[@JeriBellini]

Kathie, check out some of my other videos, not the How-Tos but the ones where I speak about some of the challenges of aging. There's a playlist too. If you liked this one you might like the others. I always speak from the heart. 💜

[@artycraftyhealing1646]

Dear Jeri ... we are all allowed to take a holiday ... good on you for having one ...please next time just enjoy your time off ... your content is amazing ... im just recovering from burnout for the past 10 months and still being kind to myself until i make it all the way through. One day I will launch my first video and I'll let you know 🤣

[@JeriBellini]

Please DO! Making videos is so relaxing and fun for me. I hope you will enjoy it too! 💜💜💜 And I'm so sorry you have been going through burnout too. There is a residual effect at least for me, I'm a sensitive person and I am noticing although I'm feeling better I still react quickly to small inconsistencies around me. I know this will pass with time. 💜💜💜

[@SaraRosone-f5d]

Simply adore you!

[@JeriBellini]

Simply adore you back! 💜💜💜

[@margaretbailey7337]

Hi Jeri; I see you are where all of us have/haven’t been at one point in time. We all deal with it differently and it’s not always easy to “snap out of it”. Just remember that there are a huge amount of people that care about you. I don’t know you at all but after watching a couple videos I do know you are a strong person. Give yourself credit. If you have to take a break, do it. Your body tells you what to do. Be nice to you. You deserve kindness. Take care of yourself. ❤️❤️

[@JeriBellini]

Thank you so much Margaret. I have been missing everyone terribly. 💛💛💛

[@dotlewallen6565]

I hear you and know what you are going through. Now that I am retired, I wanted to give back and do so many things including being kind and helping friends and family. I enjoy this so much as when I was working, I did not have the time. Now I have time but I am overwhelming myself and I know why. Because I feel I am not creating enough. THAT IS MY MEDIATING TIME, and I had ignored that. I needed that me time, so you are right we forget to do what makes us healthy. And YES, PACE YOURSELF and learn to take the time to create and mediate and spend time with just yourself

[@JeriBellini]

I’m always learning through experiences in life. Brian and I talk about this all the time. We agree that to try new things is good, if we see it’s not the thing for us we change it. Thinking about doing something and actually doing it can be so different. Like you said, you retired and did more helping others but then lost your you time. Always be willing to make adjustments in your life. My saying about that is… I reserve the right to change my mind. Hugs, 💜💜💜 thanks for your comment!

[@debzehr3244]

Always grateful for you, Jeri. I’m glad you’re taking the necessary time for your well being. 💖 We’ll watch earlier videos and look forward to new ones when you’re ready. 💖💖💖

[@JeriBellini]

Thanks Deb! That's what I was hoping! That's actually what I do when I find a creator I like, I go back and look at their older videos, tells me so much about them. hugs, 💜💜💜