BUS DRIVERS & S💔X WORKERS… ARE THE SAMETHING‼️

[@johnathanmeeks186]

One example is a person degrading themself, the other example is someone making an honest living.

[@ravecomedical9647]

Simply stated..

[@karimmayweather2189]

I don't how it is outside of NY but the Bus Drivers in NY make decent money and Bridget is right a lot of them have a lot of good health benefits, paid vacations, sick days, holidays, retirement plans like 401k and a pension too. I doubt s*x workers or night life employees get any of those perks. Matter of fact I didn't even know Bus Drivers were frown upon until Eboni K said she wouldn't date one.

[@rla8713]

​@@karimmayweather2189herd mentality

[@AG-xt6ei]

🏆

[@blackty3477]

Yes but women “FEEL” regardless of it being an honest living, that it’s beneath them

[@The_Servantbul]

Shorty wild

[@KillahBartt]

Men are in Love Women are in Business

[@NeilTruick]

You will never get enough likes for that comment. Bars.

[@olaakande5581]

Putting a bus driver on the same level as a prostitute is plain sad

[@oblivion7300]

Which is ironic because women are more emotional than men.

[@kingtarantinosisk544]

Not true it just men can't control they lust

[@zairethinker]

Wrong Men are not in love, Males are. big difference

[@TheRealBigManHarris]

She's irrational. Those are not good comparisons

[@IAMDJKOOLROD1200]

She’s a woman

[@ravecomedical9647]

This convo is a good example why blacks are behind so many other cultures…clowning bus drivers, or people that make an honest living with good jobs are crazy especially by these YT podcasters that are not even successful but think they are.. smh don’t confuse having a job that’s considered provocative with success..being a podcaster is cool but these people are not living better then most working class people, in fact I think it’s the opposite.. Most of these people we see on YT can’t even afford health insurance, have to have multiple content channels, merch , tours etc..let’s see what the net profit is after expenses get paid…then talk..

[@nikkideevah]

They aren’t clowning bus drivers. It was one woman who is a lawyer, been on CNN & other networks saying that she would not date a bus driver but she would date an owner. And that makes sense for her.

[@AG-xt6ei]

@@nikkideevahits not just here

[@christianjames92]

I went to an all white high-school so a lot of my friends that I know now in my 30s are white or hispanic. The fascinating thing I find with white people and hispanics is that their wives and girlfriends don't belittle the fact that they're blue collar workers. I know a white dude who works as a roof salesman and he makes maybe $70k a year. His wife doesn't clown him for getting up on roofs 10 hours a day and writing up estimates. She wakes up at 6 AM and cooks him breakfast, cooks and packs his lunch, then gets ready for her work as a teacher, etc. They take pride in their man and seem to not care about nonsense. Then again with this discussion I wonder how much of it is that we're clinically online compared to this being a genuine thing with black women.

[@RESTORINGTHEFEELING]

@@nikkideevahmade so much sense she’s now havin babies conceived from a doctor injecting a dudes body fluids into her she picked out a book….We can dress it up in big words of academia but end of the day that’s where her mentality led her & society says it’s ok so people just roll wit it. I’m all for everyone choosing what they wanna choose but what I won’t do is start faking like the results of their choices isn’t some of the weirdest outcomes known to man throughout the history of mankind. Salute to Eboni K & turkey baster babies but she should be the but of an intelligent persons jokes on the daily. No way on gods green earth man/woman was created to conceive thru the process of looking down on normal people & having options so thin after the fact ur stickin objects in u to bring life to the world😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@RESTORINGTHEFEELING]

@@christianjames92it’s an online thing & unfortunately there are some low IQ black folks who subscribe to this line of thinking. The moment u hear someone from NY,ATL,MIA, or LA bring up sex work & nightlife occupations in a relationship convo just know they’re not speaking from the perspective of the everyday average man/woman.

[@jehrardmartin4340]

One of the dumbest analogies I've heard in my life. Smh

[@justinfields1210]

People gotta start being okay with saying things like "I don't know" or "I don't have the answer right now". Being asked a question doesn't mean you know the answer.

[@MostWantedAlien]

Perfect comment.

[@houndawg]

Comparing a bus driver to a sex worker is a terrible comparison

[@BigShrimpin416]

I was gonna comment the exact same thing! It’s a horrible comparison!

[@BigShrimpin416]

I was gonna comment the exact same thing! It’s a horrible comparison!

[@antarticp7477]

thats woman brain for you lmao !

[@masonrock]

It's actually a very good comparison because it gets to the root of our hypocrisy as people. Men (for whatever) have this idea that a woman should be virginal and look down on any woman who is comfortable with her sexuality. While those same men go out and try to sleep with as many women as possible. On the flipside, women will dog a man with a stable career because "it's not ambitious enough". Meanwhile, those same women are working in the cafeteria kitchen of the school the man drives the bus for.

[@xzavieredwards5824]

Washington DC bus drivers make $140,000. 3x American average.

[@Mightymorphinpowerbottoms]

NYC as well.

[@youngart3]

Facts drive for metro yu big dawg around here

[@nishashawn2021]

Yes because of the cost of living. Perspective is everything

[@keithwisdom1663]

Phd bus driver

[@isaiahrholt]

@@nishashawn2021make that in KY as well and cost of living is way cheaper … yall on the east coast be paying ridiculous prices… I lived in ny not the city tho and was in p.g county Maryland A lot and so I know the deal …. It’s not 1994 anymore it’s no point to live in these places honestly come on down to the south (not N.C or va) or fl but Central America it’s way cheaper

[@mrjames851]

This is the moment you realize most people don't need podcasts. Sex work is a question of integrity. Don't ever put that in the same sentence as a bird making ignorant assumptions about a legitimate job.

[@christianjames92]

Not really. Sex work is a hustle. If a chick is naturally beautiful and can make money off of her looks I see nothing wrong with it.

[@swanm3ta850]

@@christianjames92the sucker has spoken

[@god_son_7188]

@@christianjames92simping at it’s finest 🙌🏽

[@christianjames92]

@@swanm3ta850 Nah just a realistic nicca. I don't pay for sex like you niccas. I laugh at them hustling dudes like you. Why would a chick work a 9 to 5 when she can hustle dumb dudes and make 6 figures doing only fans or stripping?

[@christianjames92]

@@god_son_7188 Simping in what way? By telling you the truth? Why would a bad chick work a 9 to 5 when she can post pictures on IG and OFs and make 10k a month doing that? I'm telling you reality. Niccas don't know a thing about hustling.

[@AG-xt6ei]

Why not use a maid or cashier at target? Nail/lash tech/???? Just jumped all the way to extreme. Sex worker and drug dealer/scammer would have been better comparisons

[@elitetteh]

Sex worker (eg stripper, only fans girl, adult film star) is not illegal. Scamming / drug dealing is. She’s talking about legal professions that might have stigmas attached.

[@kareemabdulwahhab6919]

She rather have a baby father than have a husband. Leave these kinds of women alone.

[@Kincaid2576]

She waited until she was married before trying to have kids though.

[@iamhassanelsaddique]

I can’t believe how far we are from reality. Maybe it’s me maybe I’m just too poor for these conversations. When people are scared to tell their family they love a bus driver bc it’s not provocative WOW…. Hope it’s works out for everyone

[@AG-xt6ei]

Shit is wild famo

[@JoshBrezzy]

This is reality bro!🤷🏾‍♂️

[@iamhassanelsaddique]

@@JoshBrezzy smh

[@RESTORINGTHEFEELING]

It’s not “we” bro it’s podcasts where the faces on it live or are from MIA,NY,LA,ATL, & run in the entertainment business circles. They’re not speaking from the average man/woman perspective who doesn’t have a desire to be in that business. This is why it was so easy for homegirl to interject “sex work” & “nightlife” into the convo. Cuz those occupations/lifestyles are part of that whole scene so it’s normal everyday shi* to them.

[@iamhassanelsaddique]

@@RESTORINGTHEFEELING good point.

[@brandonarmstrong6106]

Na shawty bugging and ya giving her a pass lol

[@AG-xt6ei]

Yep, because shes light skinned and “pretty”

[@CharlitoBeats]

You would think these ladies are speaking on shady dollar van drivers with no paperwork when it comes to the dudes driving the city bus …wtf 😂

[@coolc3281]

She moving the goal Post like most women

[@Mightymorphinpowerbottoms]

She’s not, you’re just slow.

[@swanm3ta850]

@@Mightymorphinpowerbottomsa sodomite has no place in heterosexual conversations

[@AGentlemansJourney77]

20 year bus driver here in Toronto....I thought this video was interesting.

[@JG-dy2hk]

Say more

[@AGentlemansJourney77]

@@JG-dy2hk Well she's right in some ways when she states that drivers do get viewed as lazy, not very ambitious, and stuff because dealing with the public for most of my life now you do get viewed and labelled. The public does label you as lazy, unmotivated, overpaid, rude, bad attitude, and more. I've been called every name in the book, I've seen pretty much every (including a suicide jumper in 2008). I joke with some of my friends who are not in this industry that my job is a little bit like prostitution because the amount of screwing I get from the public and how bus companies can be like pimps because so many of us get screwed over by the company or union in some manner. I'm grateful to have a job but its one that changes you over time.

[@flood76]

TTC!!!

[@AGentlemansJourney77]

@@flood76 Sadly yes. I'm assuming you're from TDot then.

[@flood76]

@@AGentlemansJourney77 Yep!

[@nystateofmind954]

Bottle girls don’t get benefits. Plus they age by the minute. Nothing to offer in the end…

[@nofacade100]

I understand her saying she’s comparing the bias…..but it’s still not a good comparison…S*x workers are participating in activities that can literally cause their partners their lives.

[@gottech5601]

Bridget is talking nuts on this one smh

[@sq1ne]

Goofy comparison. Even if it IS just the bias.

[@olaakande5581]

Putting a bus driver on the same level of a prostitute is sad

[@malcolms3220]

Nothing wrong with driving a bus but this is really about social class. Upper class women aren’t really supposed to “date down” like that. What do they have in common to talk about? How can they relate to each other? The bottle chicks wouldn’t be so bad if they had a plan on how to transition out of that into something more serious but most of them get caught up in the life. That’s when they end up still in the club in their 30s with a kid or two. No real skills to do anything,addicted to fast money and can’t figure how to do something else more “legitimate” to make money.

[@meschellewilson8046]

Social class or chance at upward mobility. There are men who just want to drive a bus and nothing else and there are men who drive the bus for benefits and are moving and shaking with side hustles. Me personally I want the 2nd option. I am never comfortable, so I don't want a content man because he will never match my energy. That leads to resentment.

[@rla8713]

​@meschellewilson8046 that's why I invested in chewy.

[@AG-xt6ei]

@@meschellewilson8046in NYC a bus driver, construction worker, etc make more than “educated” women though.

[@meschellewilson8046]

@AG-xt6ei you assume women with these standards are educated. Some of them are. Some women are shallow just like some men are shallow. I'm an insurance agent and have some side hustles. I used to work at Ford full time. I wanted freedom. I chased it. I'm not compatible with a guy who just wants a stable job. Not an insult at all. I want a guy who would want to invest with me or separately and travel without putting in a request for time off. Different lifestyles. We might make the same or you might make more but freedom is more important to me at this point than money.

[@AG-xt6ei]

@@meschellewilson8046i can respect that,but usually they are also wage slaves

[@coughdrop435]

They really let her get that off? A bus driver and bottle girl/ stripper are polar opposites. On is boring but very lucrative in future and the other is nothing but risks and severe consequences

[@storminnorman3990]

My wife married a bus driver (me) Prior to that she was married to a 6 figure a year plumber, and was a stay home mom. She also took on a job as a school teacher after her divorce

[@AGentlemansJourney77]

How long have you been driving and do you work for the MTA? 20 years for me but here in Toronto. Been through the grinder and the stuff I've seen. My wife understands why I'm such a homebody.

[@lovejoy1452]

All you were middle class blue collar people. You dated in your circle

[@storminnorman3990]

@@AGentlemansJourney77 when I met her, I was a School Bus Driver making way less than her ex-husband was. In fact during that time, I had three jobs due to Child Support obligations. Getting with me was a huge financial step down for her. Things are a little better now though. Still struggling but doing better. We ended up purchasing a house together. Three bedrooms two bath. Her old house had five bedrooms though.

[@AGentlemansJourney77]

@storminnorman3990 I'm actually purchasing a house right now. Just sitting in the bank now. Anxiety is through the roof cause it's so expensive up here and I might have to work the overtime now. Congratulations to you.

[@storminnorman3990]

@@AGentlemansJourney77 ... Thank you. Buying a home isn’t a fun experience at all but well worth it in the end. Good luck.

[@sj5506]

She mad annoying her voice face expression everything

[@ricorogers9319]

Comparing a job that's based around sex.(fantasy or not)....vs a job with benefits and a pension is ridiculous........This is a classic attempt at "men do it too"

[@antarticp7477]

thats nasty work bridget im ashamed at women if they put men in the space with safe jobs as sex workers .. especially in light of all of these single mothers out here .... like its 2024 man when yall gonna smarten up .... if you wont do it for yourself atleast do it for the kids man .... smh

[@5robin375]

Any woman comparing a career as a bus driver to that of a sex worker is a Bird…. Giving a bird a microphone is insane.

[@atoiswearableart4196]

Yes can make character assessments when the job name is Sex worked or stripper vs bus driver . Yes there are biases for each scenario but which one is less dramatic ?

[@amylove5500]

This is a good trio… Y’all should consider doing something together lol.

[@ProgressiveAction]

Saying a Bus Operator is a person who has no ambition or don't want more from themselves and having these dudes agree with that shows us society is lost. I'm not mad at Bridget for saying it, but I'm lost at ESSO & Hynaken agreeing with this foolishness. I bet these Bag Fuel men DO NOT make 100K + a year, DO NOT have a pension, DO NOT have 401K, DO NOT have great health insurance that covers them and their family and if they do, they're paying a crazy amount for it, DO NOT have sick days, paid vacation, FMLA, nada.... Just views and clicks... But guess what, a Bus Operator in the MTA have all these things + more.

[@Lazy-Turbo]

I don’t know how anyone could rationalize that comparison in good faith without being somewhat disingenuous 😂😂

[@Delfino-oy3bw]

The purpose of dating iz to marry

[@antarticp7477]

lets be clear also going 50 / 50 with someone isnt taking someone money ! those are reserved for them bums who actually live off women ....

[@antarticp7477]

crazy thing is women be confused in this conversatin cause they tend to like the men who dont have thier best interest at heart sadly ... and the rest of the solid men somewhat suffer behind that cause they cant tell the difference and just put us all in one bag based on thier experiences .... i can date string of terrible bad women and still recognize there good women out here and i gotta step my character game up as far as the people i choose to bring into my life .....

[@antarticp7477]

she sounds crazy !! there are bus drivers who are the head of thier household lmao men and women ... come back to reality mama you been living on these podcast for toooooo long

[@lamarkpowells]

A lot of emotional men in the comments but she isn’t wrong because while one is honorable and one is dishonorable they both could imply character defects that the opposite gender could find unattractive especially the women at the top of society

[@tamikal.7346]

And this is exactly what she was saying. They're biases on both ends.

[@jman1562001]

Character deficits aside, women would settle for a bus driver all things being equal but most men ain't settling with a sex worker.

[@zairethinker]

There is no character defects with a blue collar job so she is wrong

[@swanm3ta850]

@@tamikal.7346and what kind of character flaws would a bus driver have that is remotely comparable to a sex worker??

[@IlPookiell]

Bridgett was dead wrong, how did they let her get that off

[@chrissypargo]

Love Bridget Kelly should makes a good podcaster. Make her y’all third host 😊

[@jaythehumblekeys128]

No Bridgett, Those are not fair comparisons

[@rla8713]

This whole segment is clown ish

[@emptycell]

What a bird

[@djonesthe21]

One is a working class person making an honest living that doesn’t degrade their morals, the other one is forever ruining their reputation for a little attention and money

[@wearethemasons]

And they’re both paying the bills

[@djonesthe21]

@@wearethemasons yup, you have fun sacrificing any morals or integrity to “pay the bills”. Just means you didn’t have any as is

[@ST19890]

Bridgett so disconnected on the relationship type questions

[@tonyellison6078]

She wildin 😂😂

[@starttheconvopod]

These dudes are delusional. A dude ain’t feeling bad if his baby mama wants to pay for the apartment they stay at, even if he has the means to pay… stop it lol

[@oladeebiazazi4538]

Tbh it used be frowned upon they from the older generation

[@AG-xt6ei]

A real man dont wanna depend on no woman

[@oladeebiazazi4538]

@@AG-xt6ei I’m not gonna say niggas ain’t real man if they do that but she will start losing respect for you

[@michaelsmith8947]

@@AG-xt6ei I don’t know of any black man that wants his woman taking care of him…….. You are so right!!! Bro you can always tell ninja’s raised in a single parent home…. Every dude cool with his woman taken care got mommy issues 😂

[@oblivion7300]

Why she look bigger than both of them.

[@Bandemic.Loot.Toronta]

Hollyweird , most of these so called woman in front of the cam are just tyler perry's that got the surgery on the low. Also why they tend to be very toxic, they hate real women.

[@goodybagzausar1380]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@rla8713]

I see why Mandi dumped her. Her takes are wild and illogical

[@EEdi-ob2ze]

Old bird brain

[@OldChanCharlie]

Great pod

[@RESTORINGTHEFEELING]

Notice only people in NY,ATL,Miami, & LA always interject nightlife hustles, & stripping into male/female interaction convos based in real life. I’ll be so glad when either this wave of relationship talk is over or people stop having disingenuous banter & begin to talk from a normal everyday man/woman perspective. Nobody cares what tricks & chicks who sell their body or the thought of are doing,thinking, & how they’re moving. That’s not how every adult strives to live their life or activities they choose to be involved with on a daily basis. I remember a time when trick & sex work convos were reserved for pimps,sex workers, & tricks who lived that lifestyle. Now it’s like that energy has bled into everyday black culture/relationship talk. Enuff🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

[@nenajay3174]

The problem is that these days everybody is "millionaire". I can't count how many people I've heard claim that online and now the expectation is that everyone should be bosses and make at least six figures. You have a whole group of women who require that. People don't realize the importance of everyday workers or employees until they're not available.

[@ivanduvok]

8:21 Cristiano Ronaldo is Portuguese not Spanish but I get Esso's point, to the non Latino eye/ear Portuguese and Spanish are pretty much the same thing 😃

[@samkidsonthebiggestscreenc1164]

How is driving a bus a man with no Ambition.its crazy how in the pass 15 or 20 years a man with a well paying job with benefits is not a man. An for other men to shit on men with jobs that is Quite capable of taking care of a 4 person household is crazy

[@bakariwalker854]

Wrong, u can’t compare a feeling about someone’s character and a label u will forever carry with u. There r so many reasons y that was crazy that it’s actually crazy lol!!!!

[@JLarkins-ho6nh]

That's a extreme example, it's really, women will crap on a 9-5 guy, but men with means will date the girl at Wendy's.

[@modularman8528]

Some Chicks choosing not to date/marry bus drivers is the same equivalent as some men not wanting to date/marry overweight women it's not a issue to make sense of or debate about

[@floatinrocktubetalk3768]

Ronaldo didn’t marry shorty. It’s insane to try and make the comparison. It’s delusional.

[@freshestinclass763]

The internet documents women not wanting doctors, dentists, and lawyers... so all bets are off.

[@Decorlos]

If you think both of those fields of work is the same thing you are definitely out of touch with life

[@KingDTB]

She made the dumbest take of 2024 and got these 🤡’s to agree at the end😭😭 hard to watch

[@babufits1584]

1:00 lol really thought she got em with that one, like what world she living in?

[@sundocdouglas]

Bernice Burgos caught a stray bullet outta nowhere

[@shakirapaul89]

“That’s the black girl thing “ 🙄 no tf it’s not

[@shareefspencer1469]

Working for MTA in the nyc they get paid

[@christianjames92]

I went to an all white high-school so a lot of my friends that I know now in my 30s are white or hispanic. The fascinating thing I find with white people and hispanics is that their wives and girlfriends don't belittle the fact that they're blue collar workers. I know a white dude who works as a roof salesman and he makes maybe $70k a year. His wife doesn't clown him for getting up on roofs 10 hours a day and writing up estimates. She wakes up at 6 AM and cooks him breakfast, cooks and packs his lunch, then gets ready for her work as a teacher, etc. They take pride in their man and seem to not care about nonsense. Then again with this discussion I wonder how much of it is that we're clinically online compared to this being a genuine thing with black women.

[@elitetteh]

Definitely chronically online. Tons of black bus drivers and plumbers and mail men have wives and girlfriends. But social media drowns out that reality.

[@mytoob21]

Its all about the benjamins baby

[@Truckernc]

Hynaken is a terrible interviewer

[@Bandemic.Loot.Toronta]

Damn , she too deep in the matrix lol

[@thewaldronproject]

I disagree with Heineken ………

[@Pandagocrazy]

What is going on here you

[@teeinfinity]

false equivalent

[@deesee2051]

She’s to smart for both of these dudes 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️. Dude on the left sassy 💁🏾‍♀️ as hell

[@shantaalli2865]

😂Smart? Comparing a man being a bus driver to a women being a sex work is DUMB as HELL😢.

[@oladeebiazazi4538]

I fuck with Bridget but that’s a terrible comparison🙃

[@starttheconvopod]

She got a point.. you got dudes wifing up sex workers… they ain’t gon tell people the work she do tho…

[@wearethemasons]

Only here for Bridgette…..y’all need to calm down

[@ItzD]

The comparison is the bias not the actually profession, if you'll focus on that it would make sense. Genders do look down on certain professions.

[@AG-xt6ei]

Yea but she went to the most extreme profession, she could have said a maid or acashier at mcdonalds.

[@ItzD]

@@AG-xt6ei I don't think most men would care if a women was a maid or cashier. But an OF model or a stripper, for example, most men would not want to date a woman in that profession. Even if it was in her past.

[@swanm3ta850]

@@ItzDok but how do you know that most women wouldn’t date a bus driver??

[@ItzD]

@@swanm3ta850 I never said that, but given that this is still a topic and the reaction, you can not deny that there is a stigma with dating a bus driver. Again, this is not about the profession but the bias.

[@swanm3ta850]

@@ItzD yea I guess. The stigma of bus drivers is what though? Bus drivers are broke and don’t have an exciting job? Those are the only stigmas I can think of which aren’t even close to comparable to the stigma of sex workers

[@giovannicarter3076]

Get dude off the show