Buying My First Horse UK | Q&A + The Process | UK Equestrian YouTuber

[@RidingWithRhi]

I tried really hard to slow down my speaking y'all i just get so excited. I hope this was better 😂 x

[@kippen64]

Love ex-race horses. In Australia, lots of Thoroughbreds are ridden at pony club by children. However I will concede that these horses generally live out in a paddock.

[@spotteddreams7935]

Loved this! Brought back lot of memories of when I bought my first pony (when I was 28). I was looking for something around 12, 14hh, a gelding a definitely not Welsh.... I ended up with a gelding, 13.2hh , 25 and Welsh! Lol! He was an absolute dream though, perfect first pony and we had so much fun together, I had never experienced a bond like that with an animal before. I was hear broken when we had to let him go at the age of 38, but it was his time.

[@RidingWithRhi]

They always say it's the ones you never expect that end up being the ones you choose! Xx

[@nikkichloe]

This is my favourite thing on youtube right now. Rhi I am so grateful that you are filming this process, it's literally my dream, but I I'm not in the right place in life to be doing what you're doing, so I will gladly share yours. It's also so fascinating and informative. If I ever do get to buy my own horse, then this is great info. I'm sooooo excited for you!!!

[@RidingWithRhi]

Thank you Nikki ! i'm excited to share it with you ❤

[@hgrace6744]

this is so exciting. i bought my first pony recently. we were looking for something around 16hh, age 10-12 and a connie or a cob. i ended up with a 14.2hh 4 year old that’s got unknown breeding so we don’t know what she is lol but she’s perfect. hope everything works out with your new horse

[@cesib7544]

I LOVE THIS CHANNEL!!!!!

[@RidingWithRhi]

❤❤

[@cerysc851]

You are exactly like me! I just bought my dream horse this week and the stress was INTENSE but it is SO worth it! I am absolutely over the moon now and enjoying the shopping phase!! 😄

[@irosepower]

I love you’re really planning and buying a horse for life - as it should be. I was v. lucky, my horse was the first horse I viewed - I viewed a second, but it made me realise the first horse was a great match. I’ve had Laddie for 7 years now, he’s the best boi. Best decision! Not all plain sailing mind you, but that’s expected with horses 😂 Good luck with your search, I really hope you find your forever horse!

[@RidingWithRhi]

Aww Laddie! What a great name. Thank you for the luck ✨

[@anna7203]

i ride a horse called laddie 🥰 (the best name haha)

[@rubadubdub9155]

I’m super happy to say that you have a new subscriber! I can’t wait to see your journey. I was meant to start horse riding again ( I rode when I was 6-7 )but I couldn’t because of COVID. But I’m super exited! 🥰xx

[@hollieirwin2599]

I love this channel and im in a very similar position to you, took a little break from horses after i finished uni (equine science degree so i was done with horses by the time i finished) 😂😂 about a year after i graduated i found my loan horse and ive been riding her for 2 years now, shes amazing and me and her owner work out her care between us perfectly and i wont be giving her up unless i absolutely have to but i know I'll be buying when this eventually comes to an end and this video is super helpful

[@RidingWithRhi]

Equine Sciences! So cool. Your loan sounds awesome! I hope wherever my wayward buying path takes me I'll be able to share it and you'll find it useful.

[@Anna-tj9ef]

That's great!! I'm really happy for you. Obviously it will be sad to see ted go but its very exciting!!

[@millymcz]

I'm so excited for you! I cannot wait until this time comes for me, won't be for a while but this has certainly made me wish I was in your position! Good luck with your search, I'm sure you will find the perfect match before too long! It would be great to see more videos on the process of buying your horse and I look forward to future videos of you and your new addition! ❤😊 x

[@RidingWithRhi]

Thank you! I’m excited to share it ❤️

[@KalishkaRuby]

So excited for you and this journey! In November I bought my first horse in 8 years and it was a crazy process. I love him to bits but I found the ‘window shopping’ and talking stage took the longest, then he was only the second I went to view. I put in an offer the next day subject to vetting and he arrived just over a week later ☺️ I would say that “the one” is an unhelpful idea. There will be dozens of horses out there who fit your criteria and it is necessary to be logical about it. I adored mine’s advert but had a bad experience at the first viewing so lowered my expectations drastically for the second as it was the same day. He was very sweet though and my husband sealed it the next day by asking “if they were to ring you now saying someone else had bought him would you be upset?” It was an immediate “yes” so there was my answer! I just trusted that the vet would pick up any injuries/lameness/concerns as I’m also inexperienced in that area. It’s a strange time at the moment but I hope you’re doing okay with the stress of it all. It will be worth it in the end ❤️😁

[@mdee860]

👏👏👏😘 to your husband! Congrats to you.

[@angelfoodcake1979]

Yep, putting up my hands, here also buying a horse during a pandemic. Delightful with movement restrictions and all....ah yes, and Brexit now too. I would have waited for an easing of restrictions and the situation as a whole, but it was an odd culmination of bizarre circumstances for me. Just gotta go with the flow. But the buying process is not romantic at all.

[@RidingWithRhi]

Glad I’m not the only one 🤣

[@lmnolan6870]

Me too!

[@daughterandprincess]

Really great video, very informative! Excited for you and haha yes totally could understand being fast as excited, tbf it was better than you might think 😉

[@shaunalt7]

Aww I'm so excited for you!! Best of luck with the search ❤️

[@RidingWithRhi]

Thank you ❤️

[@zinxxx2985]

This is really good advice

[@contreem6475]

I'm just watching this again because I'm looking for my own and I keep thinking about Mr Woods and your journey with him, rip Mr woods

[@oliviaphillips9725]

Omg for prices I had been looking at own for ages and my mums horse was bigger but similar and mine is 15k and she paid 8k for hers 🥰🥰 the prices are mad 😡 we may still be viewing mine as she has got one in a bit ago and libby is being wasted and getting fresh 🥰🥰 love your videos

[@jadeapplegate5771]

Loved the video as always! Loved to see you answer so many questions and be open with us 💓

[@colouredcobs9528]

Ahhhhh I am so happy for you! ❤️😍

[@RidingWithRhi]

thank you. So excited to share the journey ☺

[@colouredcobs9528]

@@RidingWithRhi can not wait to watch! Xx

[@equineelli2726]

I'm so excited for you! This has really helped me to uunderstand how much you need to look for when buying a horse! Good luck! X

[@RidingWithRhi]

Thank you ❤️❤️

[@esme1402]

Hi! I just found your channel! I'm already in love with Ted :) I am hoping to one day part loan a horse one day and your videos have really inspired me to keep going and try my hardest through lockdown

[@miaorla5009]

I bet Ted is feeling a bit jealous! 😂 Really happy for you! -✨🥰 I have just recently got my own horse ( an 11.3 hh Gypsy Vanner stallion) he was given to us for free and he's 2 years old currently. He's a real challenge, He's my first horse ever and I've only been actually around horses for a year and a half and riding for just over a year but he's the best thing that could've ever happened to me Good luck!!💕🦄

[@kippen64]

He'd make a nice gelding.

[@miaorla5009]

@@kippen64 I suppose - but he's wonderful as a stallion! ✌😎

[@mdee860]

Do watch some Warwick Schiller videos on KZbin. Esp. the ones from 4 yrs ago to now. You can do a lot of good, patient training from now until he's 4 yrs old & his spine will be ready to start with a light rider. Hope you keep riding other 🐴 & take lessons till then. Gypsies Vans are so gorgeous! Is he black & white or?? I'm sure you will be busy keeping mane, tail & his feathers fluffy & beautiful 😁😆😉

[@miaorla5009]

@@mdee860 I'll check it out! Thanks for the tips! Of course, he's still such a big baby! Super proud of all the ground work and liberty work he's accomplished so far. I actually work with horses as a groom and rider so I do get to ride plenty (sometimes too much!) He's a Tabiano Silver (so I'm told), so like grey and white. Very pretty, with an almost bluey hue to the grey. Pity you can attach photos in yt comments, I'm always looking for an opportunity to show him off 😂🐎 he does have his own instagram haha 🙈🦓

[@mdee860]

@@miaorla5009 - OMG - He sounds stunning. I wish I could see him. Is ur Instagram as your name is here? As he's only 2 start with light groundwork & stretches for his top line development. Do you know the carrot/ bow method? Do each side only once & then he gets his dinner! As he gets closer to 3, you can increase his # of ground training. I also watch Tara on KZbin. She bought an incredible Arab stallion @ 3 yr old, had him gelded (she wasn't going to breed him, although he has champion bloodlines) & started his groundwork for wn entire year, backed him & trained him herself. Amazing job. She's working on 2 yr old Bella, who was a 1 yr old, completely unhandled filly. She won't back her horses until 4 to prevent spine & leg problems. Kissing Spine is career ending, painful & caused by too much too soon. I don't want to see that for you & your horse. So preventable & the surgery is $$$$$. Both Warwick Sciller & Tara create amazingly responsive, sane horses - all with positive reward, scratches & treats - no whips, etc. They really become partners who look after their humans. I hope that for you. Is your trainer riding your 2 year old??? If so, maybe you want to wait on that, or is she just teaching handling & groundwork @ 2?

[@lb2065]

Your videos are so helpful and extremely relatable, please keep making them

[@RidingWithRhi]

Thank you Lisa! I am slowing down the number of videos I make just for now, but they will still be uploaded periodically.

[@NoThankUBeQuiet]

I full leased my mare for YEARS. Then was given her after she needed major medical work. 2 years ago I would never have put a young child on her. Shes...the wicked witch (But I ADORE her) but it turns out even the wicked witch has a soft spot for small babies and she turns into the ultimate babysitter. So anything can happen.

[@hollieirwin2599]

My mare is the same 😂😂 will gladly deck me but put a child on/near her and she turns into the sweetest bombproof childs pony 😂😂😂

[@mdee860]

So cute!

[@annahardy8230]

so happy for you!!!!! will you still be able to see ted? xx

[@sl31064]

I've been behind on KZbin for a few weeks and I find you're buying a horse 😂 that's exciting! Good for you!! I'm sure you've answered this already but what's going to happen with Ted now? ❤️

[@mdee860]

Yes... what?

[@lucyfox7802]

I’m also looking for a similar horse to you! Prices are ridiculous at the minute 😂 xx buying has never been so stressful 😂

[@itisjack3782]

omgggg I am so excited for you, since I can't have my own :(

[@jlbeventing8053]

I’ve been looking for the exact same thing as you since March 2020! Had so many problems with sarcoids and horses going the next day after arranging a viewing! Or horses failing 5 stage vettings. It’s been so depressing 😢

[@RidingWithRhi]

I know - it's such a hard time. Stay strong! You'll find your forever horse ☺

[@peterthehorse8204]

I own an ex racehorse certainly didn’t go out looking for one but he is the most intelligent, brave horse I’ve ever owned, he isn’t actually the “typical build” people think they are my friend also competes her ex race horse at PSG, they are very trainable. My horse never bolts if I ask him to go he does but he can’t be bothered it bores him 🤣

[@RidingWithRhi]

I love stories like this!!! I know that I had a very general list of reasons I don’t go for them BUT a lot of my friends have *fantastic* TBs who aren’t hot / naughty etc ❤️❤️❤️

[@peterthehorse8204]

@@RidingWithRhi thanks for replying 🥰 you may be surprised what you come back home with haha! I went looking for a grey 6 year old come back with a 3.5 year old just cut chestnut thoroughbred 🤷🏻‍♀️😂 slightly bonkers and it’s not been easy haha ! But I wouldn’t change it for the world! Your channel is great! Now subscribed to H&C tv after seeing your videos for inspo! X

[@RidingWithRhi]

Oh I know, I’m half expecting now to come home with a 17.2hh ex racer mare. If I do I’ll have to revisit this video I think 🤣🤣

[@peterthehorse8204]

@@RidingWithRhi hilarious! I mean you might not! But I have a few vids of my boy on here 😊 owned him 4 years now :-) Good luck with your search, you will know when he/she(ex racer/warmblood/Irish or even a shire 🤣🤣) is the one 😍

[@RidingWithRhi]

🤣🤣 a shire. Perhaps I shall pack it all in and get a Shetland instead. It’s the obvious choice 🤣

[@originallyalice]

I saw your wanted post on a Facebook group I’m in 😅 I was looking for my first horse for this year too but just been given a gelding 🥰 he’s a happy hacker that’s been a bit of a problem in the past but I love him and I’ll get a more sporty horse in future I think ☺️

[@theluckyequestrian]

I wish you the best of luck with finding your new horse . It can be difficult i was lucky the second horse I tried was the perfect horse for me but that was nearly 3 years ago . The market is crazy now I feel sorry for anyone looking for a horse now but don’t lose hope in spring and summer more horses will be available to buy . Don’t rule out mares they can have brilliant temperaments . My mare is completely safe my brother has learned how riding on her.

[@lucymorganeq6050]

I had my first buying experience this summer, when covid restrictions were relaxed. About Eight in total, did lots of driving 😂 hope fully ur first trial will be a good experience, i feel mine was although the horse kept double barrel bucking from previous ulcer issues which the spurs i out on at the end annoyed, but really opened my eyes x

[@lucymorganeq6050]

Fell in love with a horse, tried him again a week later... but conformation wasnt good and i was told by an int event rider it was a mistake to buy it !! I was gutted but had to listen as didnt want to be stupid. I got bored of searching so gave up (had nothing to ride as just sold my pony) and then Nala my dun mare came along. Got to see her then a week later tried her again

[@lucymorganeq6050]

And saw the extra hits like trot up, tacking up, grooming, little hack, first on her when she was spooky, jumped, untacked and sponged off. Then in the car home placed my offer and they accepted!! Get opinions off of a few equestrians, people who are experts. I asked insta about the horse i loved and people told me he’d be fine... now i have a lovely mare who i can event poss end this year or next year. Good luck on ur search !! 💕💕

[@RidingWithRhi]

Ah such a good story - i'm glad you found her! Yes my poor more experienced horse friends are getting videos sent to them daily for opinions 😂so valuable to have though

[@mdee860]

I can not imagine getting kicked, let alone spurred when having nerve or ulcer issue. I'd buck like he*l too!

[@lucymorganeq6050]

@@mdee860 do you think i want to cause a horse discomfort? It was a fair fucks response from the horse but i had little information about it and was told to put spurs on, but i cant afford to buy a horse as a rescue case so i walked away from the purchase

[@EviesHangout]

How exciting! Best of luck with the buying process! 💜 Edit: love your outfit and makeup too!

[@RidingWithRhi]

Thank you very much! On both counts. Love your colour coordinated heart 😄

[@mdee860]

Kissing Spine: SO PREVENTABLE! It's caused by riding/ jumping TOO EARLY, and too intense of a program for age. Until 6 yrs. old - their spines are still growing/ hardening. Go slow... or plan to retire your horse at 8 to 9 years old. Take note EU Standards don't let horses compete in Jumping Shows until they're 6 yrs old minimum. Best are the 10-12 year olds!

[@stormhawk27]

I was horse shopping August-December and the horse prices here in the US are out of control too! I don't get it.

[@RidingWithRhi]

it's honestly such a wild time!

[@mdee860]

Try to wait out the storm... if you can. Just like a housing bubble!

[@iloveponies3681]

good luck! I actually got my first horse a couple months ago she's on my profile picture xx

[@cico5487]

A sane minded horse is a main priority, hack the horse not just the sand school, ask for a video of it being shod, and five stage vettings are good but remember they don’t guarantee the horses future health, I had my first horse five stage vetted, X-ray legs, and a physio check he passed everything and 2 weeks later he was kicked in the field and broke his back leg and needed major surgery that’s why horse insurance is a must and the vets bill came to 8k and 2 years of rehab and completely start again training, and a 5 year old 17hh sports horse on box rest in winter was a complete nightmare, you need to make sure the horse is happy in the stable for a few of days without blowing their minds or out in the field without issues. My advice is get insurance, buy the safe horse over the flashy one, if you feel pushed walk away, see the horse in bad weather so winds and rain, and spend time with horse and see it several times. And make a worst case scenario case, horses do go wrong and it’s not all riding happy, bad days happen and it’s best to think ahead. Good luck 😀

[@RidingWithRhi]

Oh 100%! All true. I am of course going to have robust insurance with high support for vet bills and you're right - nothing is promised and we can only take an (educated) gamble and hope for the best!

[@ericawilliamson8545]

This is very exciting! But what are your plans for Ted?

[@elliegilles4048]

going back to his owners

[@zedy33]

Awesome video Rhi! Can’t wait to see how the hunt goes. Can live your excitement vicariously through you until I’m in a positing to buy my own. I think I lucked out with my ex-racer share. He’s a gentleman and not a hot head. Always considered myself someone who wanted a horse with more bone and maybe when I get my own, but for now he puts a lot of my ex racer concerns out. Not trying to convince you - pretty sure he is one of a kind haha x

[@RidingWithRhi]

Haha oh totally! I do know a few ex racers who are absolutely fabulous and I was generalising for sure. I just have a soft spot for an ISH with a bit more chonk 🤣⭐️

[@lorrainegray9257]

So love your channel. Thankyou for all the sensible advice. Just starting my own search....but much later in life 😂

[@RidingWithRhi]

Thanks Lorraine

[@lucycoomber6781]

i’m so excited for you!

[@RidingWithRhi]

thank you ❤

[@serenatoovey548]

Covid prices are so controversial right now. As someone looking to buy my first horse it is something I’m trying to understand, it just adds an extra level of difficulty. I’m looking for similar to you, but more in the 15-16hh bracket, an allrounder to do hacking, schooling, fun rides and low level competing. I’d love to find a family friend that my non-horsey family members could come and be involved with. Most importantly it needs to be safe and have no vices and pass a vetting! Back in October, even November this was relatively easy to find at mid 4 figures, and now as you say they’re going for almost 5 figures! I just can’t afford or justify it, and I’m really hoping prices come down after lockdown. I can understand people selling, breeding and dealing are now able to make more of a with these higher prices, and that’s great for them. I understand that livery, and feed adds up, but I don’t think it’s fair to expect that to influence prices. I understand schooling can increase prices, and equally I would expect to pay more through a respectable dealer than private sales. It’s the same with cars. Surely a long term and well suited home is more important than price? These prices are pushing so many people like myself out of the market. For buyers, especially buying unseen at the moment, it is so risky. Like you, I won’t be buying unseen. Most appropriate horses available under 5 figures have vices or would fail a vetting and it’s making it even more stressful. And as you said, the good ones are going so quickly and I don’t want to be rushed into my decision. And to see people on Facebook groups talking saying that people shouldn’t buy a horse if they can’t afford these prices makes me feel so judged for my budget. I have a healthy budget, however I don’t want to spend that all on just buying a horse. I’ve seen people lose their jobs with Covid and want to keep plenty in savings for tack, livery, insurance, farrier, vet bills etc. I feel like it’s buyers vs sellers on this topic at the moment. I do worry about the amount of animals that will end up in rescue centres or have been ruined by novice owners and sold on for cheap after Covid. I feel like it needs to be talked about a lot more than it is right now. Like you, I don’t want an ex-racehorse (for my first horse at least) and that’s all I seem to be able to find at the moment. Even green cobs advertised as happy hackers are going for £6-7k. I’ve also seen very few loans or LWVTB understandably as it’s risky for the owner but again makes it tricky buying in lockdown. I will definitely be searching on Horsemart and Horsequest more so than Facebook pages. When sellers don’t post a price bracket, location or any info it makes it such hard work. It’s all so disheartening and makes me regret not buying a horse I saw before Christmas at a realistic price. Hopefully prices even out to a happy medium for buyers and sellers and hopefully I find the right one eventually. I’m happy to wait but it’s hard. I wish you luck in finding your dream horse and would love to chat more about buying. I just want to finish my mini rant (sorry) by saying I find these videos incredibly reassuring, useful and informative so thank you x

[@RidingWithRhi]

I totally understand. Sometimes it’s just nice to be able to check in with someone else and know that you’re not alone in what is a frustrating situation. It’s also helpful to know that other people understand you when you say “horse buying is supposed to be romantic and fun.., but it’s actually really depressing”. Your right one will come along just as he will for me! My friend said for every month you don’t find one, put what you save on livery etc towards your budget, which I think is great advice even if you don’t want to spend above X amount. I agree with you on the Facebook debate - of course dealers and breeders should be able to get their money back on horses they’ve produced, the challenge is all of these 5 year olds who are 4 weeks in from coming over from Ireland, newly broken, never even seen an XC jump and still going for 8k 🤣 I also agree that it’s not that people can’t afford the monthly costs of upkeep, a lot of people just don’t have the thousands it now costs as an upfront lump sum. Don’t give up! That horse before Christmas wasn’t the one - when they are, you just know and you stop looking. If your gut said no there’s always a reason why.

[@annegulbransen3961]

A year and a half ago my dad proposed the idea of adopting an American wild mustang for $25. I had been riding for about 9 years at this point and asked for a horse every day so my dad thought this would be a great idea for me and the horse to learn together. I had always seen myself retraining an off the track thoroughbred as my first horse since that’s what my trainer does as a side job but my dad said it was a wild mustang or no horse at all so I took it. 18 months later I have yet to ride my horse which is very discouraging because I thought she would be my forever horse. I don’t want to give up and sell my horse because I don’t know what kind of home she would go to but I want a rideable horse.

[@mdee860]

Please start watching the wild mustang training videos, Warwick Schiller videos - all on KZbin. I think they might be able to help you & your horse. Good training takes time, patience & NO whips or anger. They won't forget. How old is your Mustang?

[@annegulbransen3961]

@@mdee860 she is 5 years old. She has been making great progress with my trainer while I've been at college and I hope to get on her this summer. She did injure her leg during a training session with my trainer and is currently on stall rest. It will probably be a couple weeks before we can bring her back into work.

[@mdee860]

@@annegulbransen3961 - that's a really good age to start a Mustang. I hear you about riding & being impatient, but better safe than sorry. Hmmm, I hope you look into the "injury" caused by your trainer. Get REALLY nosey - it's your horse, you have every right to protect your own horse. Ask ??? of barn manager, other boarders. What did she say happened? Do you need a Vet check? Bowed tendon? That's a riding horse's end! I don't mean to scare you, but full stall rest for 2 weeks?? Also, how big is your Mustang & how much does your trainer weigh? Too much weight at 4-6 yrs old & jumping then can cause Kissing Spine by 8. Be safe & good, good luck Anne. I rode my whole life, minus college & few very brief times- never caused an injury.

[@annegulbransen3961]

@@mdee860 the injury was not my trainer's fault! My mom was there when it happened. My mustang was getting getting desensitized to things on her back and spooked while on the lunge line. We think she gashed open her own leg because it was on the inside hind leg in an area where she couldn't have cut it on the round pen. A vet was called but he was not very optimistic and said that he didn't think stiches would even hold in that area and would have left without doing anything if my trainer hadn't talked him into cleaning and dressing the wound. My trainer has been a big help in caring for her while I'm at college. Ginger is on stall rest right now with hand walking two times a day. My parents have been very diligent in doing that and I will most likely take over when I come back from college in a week!

[@mdee860]

@@annegulbransen3961 - so happy to hear that Anne. Yes, an inside of leg gash from a frightened horse - most likely clipped itself with own hoof. I was worried your young horse maybe bowed a tendon in training. Happy to hear that everyone is pitching in and caring for your new horse while you are away. It does not sound like trainer induced injury at all, from how you described it. Even older, well trained horses can & do injure themselves out in a pasture. When you're home from school, I really suggest watching those newer Warwick Schiller videos in the morning, prior to seeing your horse every day. That is really where training is headed & you'll be that much smarter for it & your horse will be happier & more chill. He really works marvels with high strung, excitable horses & even those that need to be re-trained. All with no anger, no whips, etc. You do have to be firm sometimes, but never with a bit or a whip. If you're going to spend time working with your horse when you get home, might as well do it the right way, the first time. Take the best of what your trainer does & add it to his method & you'll end up with a safe & sane partner! Wishing you & your horse the best.

[@edenbrown3470]

PRICES!!! Omg 😳 I’ve been trying so hard... sold within hours it’s mad. Also people buying please beware of rip offs... I spent money on a 5* vetting which it badly failed... I asked for a £200 discount (which is v v little for how badly it failed, the horse was majorly overpriced but I loved it) and it was refused and the horse went up again higher price and it sold within hours I assume to someone who didn’t vet it! The hunt continues ❤️🤩🙌🏼🐎

[@RidingWithRhi]

Oh man I’m sorry. I think you were probably right to walk away though, long term. The right one will come along !

[@adelewozhere4025]

i’m semi-actively looking for a horse with certainty that ill hopefully have one by christmas 2022, - however, the thing that is making my nervous and unsure is how do you know who to trust when it comes to buying? what made you know you could trust some of the dealers you visit? i don’t currently have any ‘horsey’ people around me who’d be able to help me navigate this journey… so what do i do!

[@RidingWithRhi]

Honestly it's really hard. You just have to be on your guard as much as possible: look closely at every video and question on everything - it's almost more about what isn't shown or said as it is about what is. Eg. If you never see a clip of them on a circle, or doing a transition, or lots of them jumping but never over fillers, or the ad says they can jump 1 metre 30 but in the videos they are only popping 2ft, always question it. Sometimes it's nothing but sometimes is deliberate. Ask for show names so you can look up records, ask deliberate, direct questions about vet history. Some instructors / professionals offer "horse finding" services and I would personally see if you can work with one if you aren't 100% confident that you can spot issues on your own. I saw horses I would have potentially said yes to, had my coach say no and found out a few months later that the previous owners had been hiding a huge behavioural issue etc. Not everyone is bad and the majority aren't, but trust your gut, ask lots of questions and don't let your desire for a horse make you make a rash decision. It's so much better to wait than spend X amount on the wrong horse, or to spend £500 on a vetting rather than trying to save money only to find out the horse needs a £3,000 operation etc. Ultimately whatever you do, things can always go wrong and vetting can be clean and then the horse can have an accident etc but do everything you can to set yourself up for success by being organised, practical and vigilant.

[@dougie.the.connie8537]

The prices are insane at the moment. My friend bought a horse worth around £3-4k for £6.5k!😲

[@RidingWithRhi]

Yup - it's wild

[@rachaelhutchings2659]

The girls from Buck off banter did a section on horse prices and actually I think they’re fairly fair at the moment. Breeding or bring on a horse costs a lot in time and money and I think a lot of people don’t appreciate this. My youngster was cheap ish, I bought her at 6 weeks and have had her with me since weaning, obviously I don’t plan on selling her but if I did I’d be losing A LOT of money. She’s rising 4 now and been lightly backed but all of the ground work etc has been done by me yet she’s not worth much more than I paid for her in real terms. Realistically a horse is only worth what people are willing to pay but the time and effort put into producing them is often overlooked and if a horse is up for 5k then it’s probably worth it.

[@mdee860]

@@rachaelhutchings2659 - so glad you're taking it slow. So many people rush the riding & by 4 are jumping 😱😖 Their spines aren't set until 6. So many cases of Kissing Spine caused by too much, too young. Then many have to "retire" at 8 or 9 yrs old!!! So, 👏👏👏 You. Your patience will pay off in the long run. So much groundwork & exposing them to new things can break up the tedium, but you'll have a great hacking partner for life!

[@ellieberryman9126]

Hey I’m also looking for my first horse! Just getting back into it after a year off and so I don’t currently have a trainer or any horsey friends, any tips on who to get advice from when looking? I don’t feel I know enough to tell what’s going to be a mistake to buy on my own!

[@nightmarenyx19]

I’ve always wanted a horse but I live in an area where there’s not many yards local

[@DrakonEmpire]

I’m aware I’m a year late. I truly hate the misconception that all race horses and just thoroughbreds as a whole are crazy horses who bolt. They aren’t. I’m buying a 7yr old mare who is an OTTB, and she’s just as calm as the 15yr old lesson horse I rode.

[@ASR-winkeyy]

Buying horses in the uk is a bit hard cause there is mostley flats and you can buy land but its really far away

[@LiaNicola]

when will you stop loaning ted? Love this video!! xx

[@slou3552]

Omg how exciting 😆 I guess buying ted isn’t an option?

[@staceyarbelo4255]

I know you have mentioned before Ted is not for sale. Have his owners reconsidered and would you want to buy him?

[@falconk9]

Sarcoids can be treated with golden paste (turmeric) FYI.

[@RidingWithRhi]

I don’t doubt it! But from what I’ve read / heard they can be very problematic, particularly if they appear in the girth area / behind the shoulder etc

[@edenbrown3470]

I had 5 vets recommend to me to not buy a horse that had a cluster of three... this was to be a barrier to its movement. This horse was also 8 and backed earlier this year ... good advice Rhi x

[@elsamoore8245]

I’m looking for share and even that is the hardest thing in the world to do!!!😫😩 will I ever find one? I go to school so my mum says it has to be closer enough to get their by a bus and if anyone takes a public bus they know it takes forever to get home, however that situation is being slightly resolved because my dad is agreeing that he can drive me there (he works from home) but but it has to be under 40 minutes even forty minutes isn’t very ‘good’ because it’s unrealistic which I understand and I really do appreciate and I’m very great full that they’ll let me do horse share but they say no to a lot of adverts even when they’re really good but too far. Anyways, my dad looks OJ right horse right home and it takes him two seconds to find one local and one that’s not for 18+ (I’m twelve )which was Inca the Irish SPORT HORSE 🙈 I’ve ridden horses the same height the same age (riding school horses and one in my pfp 🥰) but she said safe forward but not strong and gentle she was very sweet which great because I’ll try any horse with consent at the same time I’ve never sat on a dressage many many push button horse so it felt very exciting but also that feeling were I’m like ‘I’m not good enough’ or ‘I’ve gone blank everything I’ve learnt is wrong’ so the lady said that she can give me lessons and I’ll start all over and she’ll give me lessons and I can do yard chores (which I’m more than happy to do) and who knows after, the lady was extremely kind and supportive but at the same time I’m not sure she wants to take me on as her horse does need a sharer and exercise. Riding in a was a feeling I’d want to take on and become really good one day however because of the expenses I would be riding only twice a month and not even now because of the national lockdown (horse sharing and loaning is still allowed but the owner didn’t feel comfortable) and who knows how long it’ll last. My goal is to have a furry legged best friend do more riding especially with less tack ( I loooove riding without stirrups let alone a saddle), improve riding and even some competitions! The second horse I viewed was 14.2 so a pony was Mr Justin who had a quirky greedy personality that I really enjoyed although he had three other sharers and I think it was riding school so it would have only been specific slots then he’d be passed on to the next client, I’m not snobby but I wasn’t really looking for something like that although when I sat on him and warmed him up I could only get so many strides of trot let a alone a canter from him but then she said he was coming up to be a 26 yo so it seemed to me that he probably would have liked to just be having a happy retirement with little children on his back for occasional pony rides, however I’m not an expert and I’m sure he’s in great care just not suitable for me which is annoying because then I would have been visiting and riding twice a week which could have been a dream especially since it was a reasonable price. So that leaves me here not sure if I want to ride Inca please let me know if you have any suggestions and thank you so much if you read this! Ahh I. Just needed to get this off my chest as it’s driving me stir crazy stay safe bye💖

[@JustHorseyMie]

I once read an ad on a big pony that "didn't like to canter too much, as he got very tired"... that to me read: Has learned to take advantage of a rider and is dead to the leg. I also saw an ad with a horse that said: "very sensitive mouth", but in the photo's he was in a kimblewick bit... how sensitive is the horse when a kid is riding this horse in that bit...

[@mdee860]

Beware - doesn't like to Canter - code for pain, could be ulcers, leg or spine problems, too.

[@JustHorseyMie]

It could, but from the pictures, it looked more like a rider problem.

[@rachaelhutchings2659]

Out of interest what prompted the change so soon after moving Ted onto full livery given that he’s a bit stressy in some circumstances? Moving yards is a big thing that his owners obviously agreed to so was the decision already made that you’d be giving up his loan, will he be staying where he is or going back to his original yard? Not a criticism but genuine interest.

[@RidingWithRhi]

It was always a three month trial and, after a few conversations, it was clear it was no longer a good fit for either party (who, at all times has Ted’s interests at heart).

[@rachaelhutchings2659]

That’s fair enough, as I say I was just curious because moving yards is a big thing for both parties and the horses. Good luck with your search, although obviously more expensive owning is definitely my preference for sure.

[@RidingWithRhi]

Thank you! Exciting times ahead ❤️

[@dikfik2390]

Your amazing rhi 👍

[@RidingWithRhi]

😭❤️ I actually needed that today

[@moonbear5534]

What breed is Ted? I love your videos and I absolutely love your riding. Your my idol!

[@laurenjaime8364]

Where the best place to buy horses because I just can’t find any good places to find them

[@emilymcparland3267]

there have been a few posts on the price on Facebook however people just end up canceling them. I think its insane however as we go into recession I think the prices must drop cause how can people afford these?!

[@annieluvsyxu4611]

I’ve found the perfect horse and I’m going to buy him but I can’t travel due to COVID so I’m not sure what to do

[@RidingWithRhi]

I wouldn't buy unseen. Either ask for a trial period or walk away - that would be my advice.

[@theitherd]

If we stumble across a horse that fits your criteria, would it be useful to have these shared with you or is it just going to be much?

[@RidingWithRhi]

No please feel free to share! Very kind of you.

[@theitherd]

This guys been in my news feed a bit: www.nfed.co.uk/ad.php?ref=165011

[@ceolgirl1]

Do you think an 18 year old horse is too old to buy? Looking for a confidence giver!

[@RidingWithRhi]

It totally depends on the horse, their past/injuries and what you want to do with them. I personally wouldn't really look much above 12/13 because I know I want to keep competing, schooling etc for a few years yet, but if you just wanted a happy hacker for example then 18 might be fine. I know horses who have retired in their teens and others who have gone on to be ridden a few times a week in their 30s so it really does depend. What I would say is that when you buy an older horse, you must also be prepared to care for them during their retirement, even when they can no longer be ridden, which may come up quicker than you hoped or expected.

[@equestrian2143]

Would you consider a standardbred? They are chunky horses if you find a well bred one! X

[@RidingWithRhi]

I'm not sure - I don't know a huge amount about them tbh, we don't have that many here in the UK! X

[@equestrian2143]

@@RidingWithRhi I was on Preloved and saw a huge 16.1 chunky skewbald 8yr standardbred they are quite common in different places where I live there are loads and are great jumpers he was great, it’s a shame as he is now sold would of been really good for what you are looking for and he was in Kent so not too far from London! Good luck and if i see any I can share it in here if it matches your preference good luck on your search xx

[@RidingWithRhi]

Share away! The more eyes the better. I think I know the one you mean.. was he a Hackney x ? If so, I spoke to his owners!

[@equestrian2143]

@@RidingWithRhi no not hackney a standardbred xx

[@RidingWithRhi]

oh i thought perhaps it might have been a hackney cross. Not the same horse clearly haha

[@ellabagley2262]

Can you do a video explaining BE ??

[@RidingWithRhi]

Yes! When I get my head around it 🤣 I have never done any BE (British Eventing) before but I’ll certainly share as I go. In essence, BE is eventing, so you do Dressage, Cross Country and Showjumping ✨

[@Lexi-hk3iv]

Without trying to sound mean it’s probably not the best time to look for a horse. COVID-19 rules and the massive demand for horse . It probably would be impossible to find the right horse since they are selling within hours and are probably going for like 8 thousand. Your only full loaning since October . why don’t you stick with it for a bit longer until the COVID 19 claims down and the lockdown lifted.

[@RidingWithRhi]

I hear what you are saying. I am taking my time and not in a rush to find the right horse and will wait months if I have to, but equally continuing my full loan is not an option.

[@animalsandrobloxlol8702]

Omg i didn't know you were geting a horse! Do you think you'll miss ted a lot?

[@RidingWithRhi]

I am! Of course☺️, but it’s also an exciting adventure ahead. ❤️

[@raythegoth]

220th like! hehe

[@RidingWithRhi]

❤️

[@lu6176]

What will happen to ted ?

[@DrakonEmpire]

I’m a year late yet I’m still coming for a second comment. Don’t take this personally, but I can’t stand it when people diss my breed. Thoroughbreds can have plenty of bone. I’ve known some thoroughbreds to be as tall as 18HH, and the one I’m buying is 17.2hh and she’s built like a warmblood. Thoroughbreds can have amazing hooves and legs, just as any horse. “Don’t like the way they think”… so you don’t like how any horses think? Not all thoroughbreds are “sharp and hot”. We have a few OTTBs who are 6-8 years old, still somewhat fresh from the track who are the laziest horses ever. It’s honestly disappointing to hear someone be so discriminating against an entire breed through misconceptions.

[@RidingWithRhi]

I absolutely love seeing people so passionate about their favourite breeds, so thank you for your comment. I did do a video with the RoR society too so got their perspective which was lovely. I have changed my stance slightly since this video and wouldn't rule them out - particularly the ones with a bit more bone, but they are still not my preference as a breed.

[@DrakonEmpire]

@@RidingWithRhi that’s fine if they aren’t your preference, but you stated it as if they were all that way. There are some “crazy” and hot thoroughbreds, but that’s simply from their handling. Thoroughbreds also have large height variations! I’ve seen them as short as 14.2hh, which is pony size, and as tall as 18hh, draft size! Not to mention thoroughbreds are used to breed warmbloods.

[@RidingWithRhi]

all fair comment!

[@TheUnderCoverChanneI]

Owning a horse is all fun and games until another horse bites your horse’s eye out lmao so watch out for that 😅 But good luck in your search!

[@willowk5451]

How is a horse jumping the same big fence ten times different then a horse jumping a 1.40m course with 16 jumps or a cross country course of 20 jumps spread across acres of land?😂

[@RidingWithRhi]

Because that at least gives them some variety of fences, turns, distance and shows how they cover ground and approach different types of obstacles. You jump one fence in a school to show how they approach, take off, land. Jumping that same thing over and over again to me is not the same as a course and doesn’t help me understand the horse more than seeing it jump that fence twice.

[@willowk5451]

@@RidingWithRhi ohhhhhh ok I see what you mean that’s understandable

[@equestrianashes6564]

WAIT I THOUGHT YOU OWNED VOSSI 😂

[@RidingWithRhi]

You're thinking of Riding With Charlotte haha

[@equestrianashes6564]

@@RidingWithRhi omg i am 😂

[@chloeelkins4844]

Hi try ejc