BUZZFEED EMPLOYEES REACT TO THE TRY GUYS DRAMA

#thetryguys #tryguys #nedfulmer #spillsesh

[@BrandiFountain2218]

The fact that Ariel was able to have composure and even smile during the little encounter…that woman is a saint.

[@psychxmania]

exactly.

[@tizzynator4950]

She didn't just smile, she also said (in another video), "we're working on working things out."

[@cademancaden]

Chances are she's less shocked than we all are, if you know what I mean.

[@littleekellyy]

@Louis Kingsta usually agree but once you have a family it gets a bit more complicated. ned was cheating for a whole year though so it would be crazy if they somehow worked this out, but at the same time not surprising.

[@spacebar9733]

@@littleekellyy no self respect is something you need to show your children ESPECIALLY with two boys in this world. she's showing them how women can be treated this way and theyll get away with it.

[@mandaleemilly6367]

Getting cheated on sucks bad enough on its own. To also have everyone on the internet talk about their opinion of your relationship has got to make it feel so much worse. It’s gotta be so humiliating for Ariel.

[@rinamartinez3778]

Not to mention the crazy amount of people that are hearing their names for the first time because of this and it’s, well, because if this. 🫤 I have a feeling that if their marriage is going to stand any chance they need to move out of LA and back to be closer to family. But if he’s a serial cheater she needs to walk away.

[@jcam5064]

Eh, I can see that but I think it also sounds super satisfying to at least have massive amounts of people recognizing they the cheaters are pos’.

[@Jiorgiapeach]

She’s exploited her ‘marriage’ and ‘family’ for coin and clout for years. This is what happens when you do things like that; when you sell a fantasy; a fallacy; when you ask ppl to pay you for relationship ethics seminars… and no, anyone that watched their early videos was not surprised. He was clearly a freak.

[@blooples757]

I would not be surprised if she was just staying off of social media, for now. It's what's best for her, imo.

[@newname3021]

Just like you are rn?

[@KaytNicol3]

I feel bad for Alex’s former fiancé because imagine wasting ten years on a relationship for it to end like that

[@misskiwi2977]

The ex-employees saying they knew and not surprised (especially the lady-like BF ladies) are disgusting. Maybe because I remember a few of them shaded Safiya after she left, always gave me bad vibes and seeing them crawl out of the woodwork to comment on this situation just further confirms how mean they are

[@keeran02]

they probably didn’t even know. they just want the clout from saying that they knew when in reality they were probably just as surprised as up.

[@Nicky-mz1co]

Shoot I'm not surprised either. The way he acts in some vids is awful 😒

[@aehrlynn]

Never liked the lady-like group from buzzfeed some of them just came off as obnoxious to me

[@TQM]

I don't understand why it's disgusting. That's the general reaction of the audience right now - Ned gave off weird vibes and fans aren't surprised. If you don't find the audience reaction disgusting, you shouldn't find former buzzfeed employee reactions disgusting. Do you expect them to stand in solidarity or something? I don't know why people find their reactions so unacceptable. Ned and Alex fuck up, yet ex buzzfeed employees still get hate? Lol this is exhausting

[@J1ntu]

@@TQM yeah like I'm wondering what he was like when the cameras were off. Plus they're were people saying he was cheating long before this happened (not tied to any of the BF people shown in this)

[@dannynguyen4192]

I hope Ariel doesn't stay with Ned just for "the kids" because that typically creates a more broken family and hurts the kids more in the long run than just getting a divorce.

[@berrymerry1141]

he's cheated before so I feel like she will stay but who knows

[@seahorsingaround]

@@berrymerry1141 I feel like it could potentially be different this time. Sometimes you downplay a lot of shit for the sake of staying together, but it’s possible she’ll see the things people are saying and how much support she has and decide to move on. I’m not in their relationship so obviously can’t make a judgment, I just hope she does what’s best for both her and their kids.

[@Verylengthyapple]

yes especially because the kids are young, it’s better to break up now than later

[@armerls]

Yup!!!!

[@berrymerry1141]

@@seahorsingaround I hope so because if she does stay then her mental health and confidence is going to plummet naturally. So I agree and I hope in the end that she's happy and the kids are okay.

[@manic_girl]

Saying “not surprised” while not saying anything to Ariel is not the flex they think it is. Edit cus this blew up: I’m not saying they were required to tell Ariel. Or that Ariel would believe them if they did. But tweeting about saying they knew he was creepy just seems like they’re trying to draw the attention to themselves, while Ariel’s family is falling apart. It’s insensitive and weird behavior.

[@paigew6707]

They didn’t work with Ariel and no one said they saw him cheat, it seems like all the the former buzzfeed coworkers just thought he was a creep. You can’t just run up to your coworkers wife and tell her that you think her husband is creepy with no concrete proof. Now if they saw him cheat, the wife worked at buzzfeed/was accessible, and they said nothing, yeah, that wouldn’t be a flex.

[@yallratripbye9570]

I've told someone anonymously that their husband was cheating on them, 1) she didn't believe me, instead she argued with me 2.) she is still with him. so giving someone the truth doesn't mean they'll accept it and it doesn't mean you'll fix it. it was super self absorbed and delusional of me to tell that woman her husband was a cheater expecting her to leave

[@-Umbrella.]

@@yallratripbye9570 It wasn't self absorbed or delusional. You were trying to do the right thing. Her reaction is her choice but it's better to be informed. I've had someone tell me about a cheating ex and yeah at first it's hard to place the negative feelings properly but in hindsight I appreciated being told.

[@tirzxh]

exactly, i found it extremely disrespectful ariel must feel awful

[@Shyknit]

@@-Umbrella. I think they meant self absorbed thinking she would leave based on her word alone. Like if someone came up to you anonymously and said your partner was cheating would you just automatically believe them?

[@LususxNaturae]

The best “response” was Quinta’s. She really paid it dust, rightfully.

[@loopynpc1074]

The former employees talking so much shit and they just watched as Ariel got betrayed. It's honestly disgusting, Ariel deserves peace

[@m00n1uvr]

I love how summer was kinda uneventful , as soon as fall came we found out about Ned , Adam Levine is cheating , the queen died , Trisha gave birth LIKE DAMN

[@leaalpers9711]

Right! Calmest summer we've had in a while but fall is definitely going to be interesting

[@m00n1uvr]

@@leaalpers9711 right like this is most def not the last of it and I'm totally here for it

[@princesstya203]

Trisha did WHAT?! 😦

[@amylovemyart]

And if you are into watching Twitch streams, there are so mamy fucking drama lately. September was one hell of month. Can't wait for October.

[@leaalpers9711]

@@princesstya203 Trisha had a kid. Named her Malibu Barbie

[@Kata_Rin]

No way… Alex’s fiancé gave her a second chance then, and she blew it. Dang Will seriously deserves better. He was way too nice.

[@spacebar9733]

fr but they were together for 10 years so it makes sense, it's so sad though.

[@222222ania]

And Ariel is doing the same? Like what’s your point

[@rileysearle371]

@@222222ania they never said ariel wasn't?

[@HL-ud8xx]

Will is the dummy for giving a cheater a second chance. She doesn't want Will. I laughed at will telling Ned to "stay away" from Alex. Oh that's right Ned held Alex at gunpoint. Seriously dude? They work together. 🙄

[@eml6419]

So Will knew for months too, even contacted Ned, but didn't say anything to Ariel ?

[@Anna-cp4me]

It's surprising enough he managed to score someone like Ariel and he has the audacity to cheat on her.

[@andreaasmc]

they're both stupid for cheating in the first place but the way they did it just takes their stupidity to a whole new level. the fact that they had a whole emotional relationship going on just makes me wonder how the hell they planned on making it work... like ever. it seems like they were genuinely invested in each other beyond the physical stuff and it's just insane to me how they totally discarded any and all types of rational thinking to be having full blown serious relationships while married/engaged

[@Jellybeans90]

Honestly, anyone else disgusted by former buzzfeed employee tweets. Like I did not find it appropriate at all and quite disrespectful.

[@OhMiOhMyMelon]

Seriously, had nothing to say before and now you want to throw gas on the fire, okay 🙄😒 this affects Ariel and their kids too

[@Lyco_Smoke]

Yes! It was so rude of them to tweet those things. There was no need for that. Like okay? If Ariel sees that she’s going to be rethinking a lot of interactions with them and wonder if they were laughing behind her back

[@courtneyasher1783]

Especially Kelsey who literally is part of a podcast within the try guys network….

[@heretic3334]

Clout chasers who just want a piece of the drama 😂 which is sad, because they’re now part of the noise that Ariel is trying to keep out

[@nymphohalo]

For réal! It wasn’t their place. Idgaf if they did work with him, no one asked for their dumbass opinions.

[@shadow6743]

My sister and I were talking about the former Buzzfeed employees and they all came off as those people who were jealous of the Try Guys success so they then used Ned's actions to have a petty swing at them. It just felt gross.

[@Ponce17]

Yupp exactly buzzfeed has become extremely annoying and uninteresting

[@emmabemma3100]

Half the people who commented are even more successful running podcasts and tv shows. No one is jealous of Ned. In fact most are friends with all the try guys but Ned So let’s no call someone jealous for holding people accountable for their actions.

[@lovelyfluer]

Exactly what I thought. They seemed self absorbed making the situation about themselves. Especially Jazz tweeting “y’all are surprised..?”

[@user-tl9ji5pd7t]

so they're attacking ned out of jealousy? lmao what's funny is that his 3 male besties knew his behavior even better yet it's only his former coworkers getting hate for not warning her

[@entretenimiento3347]

This us taking it to the extreme of petty but in my mind is like is something comes out about you don't go crying why other people chime into it... but well

[@GiornoIsYourDaddy]

Everyone at buzzfeed coming out saying “not surprised” are just as shitty as ✨Ned ✨if they saw sketchy behavior & never thought to mention it to his wife. It’s just cruel to her at this point

[@luvnalaska44]

So sad they both disrespected their partners. It’s beyond devastating when someone destroys your trust. It’s something that can never truly be repaired.

[@erikaclaudia7981]

Alex is to blame as much as Ned, this is not a power play thing. They both knew what was at stake and what would be the consequences

[@jacobbaker4545]

Alex mentiomed that she tried to get some guy with a pregnant wife to come out with her. Its not her first rodeo. Some ppl get off on being the other person

[@whitykitty2651]

alex is at fault for ruining her own relationship and ned is at fault for ruining his relationship. the spouse takes the guilt for their own relationship. everyone else in the world isn't entitled to make sure you don't cheat (like adam levine).

[@auroragalaxy1733]

@@jacobbaker4545 gaaaaaaaaaaasp WHAT

[@YesiTravels]

@@jacobbaker4545 that’s was kind boggling to hear that. Obviously if anyone heard that and wanted to do that they’d know she’s avl like that.

[@W4TSKY]

Exactly. They were both in committed relationships and both cheated. They're both to blame for this. Ned is getting more flack because he's the bigger name and she was a subordinate, but neither party is faultless in this.

[@teeehee123]

The fact that he works with both his wife and the woman he was cheating on her with... in the same building... sometimes in the same videos.

[@Sadmares]

You’d be shocked one of my friends is going through something similar her dad cheated with her moms sister they were all living under the same roof yikes! & her mom chose to stay with him & she put all the blame on her sister kicked her out but stayed with the dad um make it make sense lmfao

[@Natsmarie08]

There is a podcast episode where Becky is asking Ariel if she would like for someone to tell her if her husband was cheating and she immediately said no. That could be why no one ever told her anything and just let it be.

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

That’s really sad.

[@rainieday91]

THANK YOU for talking about how he was fired because it was inappropriate to date a coworker. Saw someone talking about how cheating wouldn't make you lose a job in non influencer life, and I was like, uh no, having a romantic/sexual relationship with someone directly under you at a workplace ABSOLUTELY can and will get you fired???

[@_joslynjohnson]

i would be heartbroken that none of his ex coworkers told ariel before until now… :/

[@astromechas]

Yeah, the ex-Buzzfeed employees coming out and saying “we been knew” or whatever is a little distasteful considering what Ariel must be going through right now….

[@megansstallion818]

​@@astromechas it really does suck makes it seems like she never had friends

[@DDDawn23]

We don't m ow the whole story .... Stop assuming no one tried to tell her, if you've been in love you don't see these things at first. Maybe EVERYONE knew and told her before she started dating him but continued to be with him, maybe she did know but didn't care. Stop putting others on blast for nothing we know about

[@Meli_monster]

If that's the case then shameful that no one told his wife that he's cheating. But we don't know if that's the case. Maybe they did tell her. Maybe they didn't. Maybe they did and she didn't believe it. Or maybe she told ned and pretended it didn't happen and stayed together. We don't know but sucks to see.

[@nymphohalo]

Cause they’re all fake as fuck but want clout saying “I KNEW IT!”

[@clydefr0g]

Can we get more compilations of Alex? It’s time women get called out as much as guys for cheating. She had a full fiancé.

[@nymphohalo]

Omg yes plz, let’s expose Alex cause she’s just as much in the wrong

[@JulianaJu07]

yes 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@thismoment4life1]

For 10 years!!! Threw that all away for Ned Fulmer.

[@kiiiirbzzz]

THISSS

[@dotcom3015]

She’s in the wrong for cheating. But I don’t see how that would help her ex fiancé. All these video compilations seem a little too vindictive for people not even in the relationship.

[@mysassybear]

The sickest part is Ned and Alex knew eachothers partner/family they are both equally at fault.

[@Squidknee98]

There’s no such thing as a consensual workplace relationship between an employee and their superior

[@kaitlincornell2151]

Its just crazy that they did this in the public. I understand dragging Ned because he was the boss but we also need to put some blame on Alex as well. Alex was with someone for ten years and they were also hurt by this and she's also an adult who chose to do this. Alex's partner and Ariel also Ariel's kids, I hope they have time to heal and they gain back the trust that was destroyed.

[@foreverdreaming8999]

She was also friends with Ariel for many years and she's the producer behind the video where Ariel talked about being insecure bc she's not younger than Ned and stuff...

[@kaitlincornell2151]

@@foreverdreaming8999 I forgot about that, that’s even more upsetting. I don’t wish ill on nobody but I hope they get the karma that they deserve from hurting people that just loved them.

[@foreverdreaming8999]

@@kaitlincornell2151 Ariel is a queen she can do better than Ned

[@fernandaescobar3721]

Yes! My friend and I were talking about this yesterday. He is a complete asshole and is rightfully getting 💩 but she was his wife's FRIEND she was there from the f*** begging!! I don't like calling other women names but this kind of woman deserves to be called a W*ore

[@vanessabartee3123]

He was over compensating by saying he loved his wife so much because in reality he’s a unfaithful cheater smh

[@kelsiiie9786]

Yep

[@bcdl7961]

Oh my God! That is such great insight.

[@randomslytherin2432]

Yes but also it's important to note that some people are just that expressive. I may be out of my depth here, but sometimes when issues like these arise, the public has a tendency to attach certain behaviors to complete black and white stigmas ❤️

[@SoelPockychan]

I feel like we all know someone or a couple that portraits themselves this way. I understand having a happy family and a successful marriage is part of his brand and makes them money because that's what he was selling to his audience. But there's a lot of people who only have relationships or portray their relationship in a completely different way just for the camera, it's a show and a business for them only. We gotta be more skeptical with what people are selling us as content online 🤷‍♀️ specially as I see a lot of my friends who aren't married or in a relationship putting couples on pedestals or envying them when they don't know half of what's going on behind close doors. That's why I as I got older I became disenchanted with a lot of content creators, family vlogs and couples I grew up watching on this platform.

[@amberfoss510]

I noticed that too

[@lizxu322]

Can't believe Ned has the balls to smile and look happy while walking with ariel

[@lametron]

Not a PR stunt that's cool lmaoooo

[@AK-ob9bx]

I’m 28, no kids. I’ve dated 4 guys. I’m with my current boyfriend and I literally say at the beginning of the relationship: if you cheat on me, break up with me. Don’t come and cuddle me and sleep in my bed, eat my food. You obviously don’t want to be with me

[@cv7958]

Better to break up before the cheating occurs, ideally. As soon as you want someone else and want to pursue someone else, call off the current relationship. It doesn’t happen overnight. It builds up to cheating and there’s time to think/break up.

[@ROZWBRAZEL]

*especially* don't eat _my_ food no tater tots for cheaters

[@anniem2777]

@@cv7958 exactly

[@DestinyHonor]

Tbh, I wish that those ex buzzfeed employees stop shading or commenting about this incident out of respect for Ariel. Those comments like... Y'all shock? Saw this coming... All these comments seems to be blindsiding his wife.

[@Lyco_Smoke]

It’s so insulting

[@berrymerry1141]

I mean I agree they don't need to tweet but he's openly admitted to cheating before so I doubt its so much of a "blindside" for her. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

[@vixxxenfoxxx3660]

The worse are those claiming 'maybe they wanted to mind their own business' as if posting these 'not shocked' videos and post are some how them 'minding their own business'. Who actually flexes something like this? Why actually brags about being a garbage human? Is this really what today's crowd supports?

[@luchicaa]

What is the comments were towards Alex. She too worked at buzzfeed

[@erbcri8070]

@@berrymerry1141 when did he admit to cheating before?😮

[@apriltheInvincible]

Anything less than a divorce will break my heart for her. Not that my opinion matters in any way at all, but as a woman, my heart goes out to another woman whose life has been forever changed by a man who will grovel and cry for a few years until things are stable enough to do it again, while deep down, she will never trust him. Purely my thoughts.

[@berrymerry1141]

From someone who's been cheated on before, if you stay the first time then you show them that they can get away with it. I'm sure it's difficult with kids but this is his second PUBLIC cheating situation, she needs to think of herself and the kids for the long run.

[@poopypants80085]

i agree.. especially with how long they've been sneaking around. it's so sad and i hope she finds the strength to pick herself.

[@apriltheInvincible]

@@berrymerry1141 Second??

[@yulana990]

@Louis Kingsta So you DO feel sorry for Ariel, since this is the first time for her (from what we know) and her youngest child isnt even 2 yet. If you wanna judge people who return to the same person over and over, fine, but that's not Ariel. I also agree that I hope she gets divorced and has that self respect, but with kids and family involved it is always harder. We also have no idea how her family and his family are reacting and the things they are saying. Sadly a lot of women also get trapped in marriages as people and their partners try to put this narrative in their mind that divorcing would harm the children, which in this case it certainly wouldn't as she has the money, has the personality and strength, and has a successfull life. Sadly though its still a thing in society as a whole. Which makes no sense, as to me its more harmful to allow cheating which in turn teaches your kids that cheating is fine aslong as you have kids, or they will never know and any bitterness she might hold on to can be seen as irrational by them later as they grow. I have situations like that in my own family, where sadly women who are divorced are shamed on, swell as women who are widows and move on, so someone stayed married and the kids still have no idea what disgusting things their father did. So now the mother is being shamed not just by society to stay with him, and her own family, but also her kids about her ( rightful) bitterness at times. Just know its not easy being A Woman, and even though they live in America and its more progressive, some families still push these mindsets more then others, and some have learned it from society normalizing it. Hopefully she isn't one, but we shouldn't judge her choice as its her life and the first time for her too.

[@janesays1278]

@@berrymerry1141 Second? Which public cheating situation came before this one?

[@eclipse8482]

This isn’t his first time cheating. Her sticking by him is so telling too. It sucks he’s able to do what he did and have his wife STILL forgive him at the end of the day. It couldn’t be me. 🙅🏻‍♀️

[@amcg6076]

It sucks when people stay together only for their children she deserves so much better

[@Purrf3ctP3ach]

Staying with him doesn't necessarily mean forgiving him

[@butterflybunnyunicorn2518]

@@Purrf3ctP3ach it's still a win for him and humiliating for her, she deserves better.

[@Featheryfaith7]

She's a codependent. Toxic relationships.

[@gwenethp511]

Sometimes you have to say with people so your kids can have financial stability. My mother stayed with my father because otherwise we would not have been able to afford the good education I had access to. Yes, it sucks to see women staying with neglectful partners but you have to think about your kids. Our purpose is to make life better for the next generation, especially our direct descendents.

[@karlasantiago2793]

“Working on working this out” translate to “I can’t rip his head off because of our kids”

[@gglydie4242]

Yep! I heard it as 'our lawyers are drawing up the papers right now'

[@aubrey8673]

If they have been together for over a year… truly disgusting. She is nicer than me if my husband of 10 years told me he has been having an affair for over a year, you best believe I’d be out the door. I feel so bad that she has to be hounded by paparazzi and made a spectacle of because of his selfish actions

[@miracle9445]

tmz reporters were questioning her while she was out with Ned. it was awful

[@aubrey8673]

@@miracle9445 I know it made me so sad. Like just leave her alone

[@meowiestwo]

if that's "nice," i don't want to be nice.

[@nymphohalo]

And then she’s out with him while paparazzi came out. How embarrassing

[@nonprofitgirl]

Aubrey, I agree 100%.. dude, Ariel doesn’t deserve this at all. So sad. Hey, Ned, TRY being faithful, (former) Try Guy. What a loser. And Alex is just as gross to me.

[@zoerowe9362]

If the fact that everyone knew for MONTHS before this is true, this makes me question how the company works and priortizes things. Like some of the employees work with his wife on the podcast. How could they work with her and know a big secret about her husband? Makes me think that Ariel and Ned had an understanding between each other and they all were taking the time to craft responses/reactions for when it all came up. Does this make it right, hell no. Ariel 100% deserves better than this and it breaks my heart to know that this is all happening to her.

[@jacobbaker4545]

It probably was not his first time. Look at how they cheated...they didnt give a flip. Hes cheated and shes taken him many times probably.

[@tabortoothtiger7580]

From what I've seen, it's not the first time he's done this. Ariel knows. She clearly just doesn't want to rock the boat too much and split because of her children with him. Like I've already said on another comment, you can't help somebody who WANTS to be walked all over. Some women just have to have it backfire massively in their own face to realize their worth.

[@HaydensDinoHaven]

The main 4 guys actually didn’t know until a month ago they probably knew Ned was a sleaze and I’m sure Ariel knew too but I think it was this one where it was a year long sustained relationship with an employee that was the straw because I’m sure all the guys were thoroughly disgusted when they found out especially Eugene

[@YesiTravels]

Idk if this means anything but there’s a few episodes where Ariel always seemed “curious” or bi-curious. I remember everytime she’d have some wine or did one w Matt, Matt would be like “A-R-IE-L when talking about sleepovers 🤔! So it sometimes would make me think like “dang girl, okay if you want to be open or in an open or try girls out. Go you”

[@YesiTravels]

But at the end of the day, if it was just curiosity, she shouldn’t have been taken advantage of and unaware if she was ever okay with the idea of it. I know a marriage takes a lot of work and I just hope he’s not a serial cheater.

[@alanawinters21435]

I’m not surprised if the other guys knew about it earlier in the month - these kind of investigations can take a substantial amount of time to resolve. Gathering evidence, statements, contacting lawyers for legal ramifications, etc. Especially if the initial allegations were denied then confirmed as more evidence surfaces. We don’t know how messy it was to extricate Ned from the company since he helped create it. And as for Alex, if they can’t part ways with her due to some legal loopholes or whatnot, she should resign. I would imagine the office is one hostile work environment for her. My sympathies go out to Ariel, her kids, the other guys and staff.

[@eroshiyda]

yeah, plus they've been editing him out of videos since wayyy before this all came to light, so

[@alanawinters21435]

@@eroshiyda yeah - the last one he was clearly in aired on September 3rd and was the high diving one.

[@aff77141]

Seriously. People acting like they're scumbags for not just blowing it out of the water when there's a lot of legal issues and their own livelihoods at stake here. Remember that we are not behind the closed doors and whatever it may look like from the outside, we need to wait for the dust to settle to be truly fair

[@gieniinabottle8431]

I don't know why you wouldn't want to leave that would make you feel so uncomfortable to be in let alone others to be in by default

[@markramos1216]

Looks like Ned is in his _James Charles_ era, being surrounded by allegations, edited out of entire videos, and those close to him having to issue statements publicly denouncing him. 🤭

[@CastilloJessica_]

The obsession y’all have on James is beyond me 💀

[@raisedfromash]

Not to mention the paparazzi footage 💀 never thought I'd see a try guy be the center of a tmz style paparazzi clip 💀💀

[@davidsesh2802]

@@CastilloJessica_ the dude uses his instagram and tiktok as a dating site to groom and send ass pics to lil boys like 4 different times💀and youre ok with it

[@markramos1216]

@@CastilloJessica_ There’s a _huge_ difference between “obsession” and sharing opinions based on what public figures literally put out online themselves but go off bestie 💖

[@markramos1216]

@@davidsesh2802 “She thought she did smt” ✋💀

[@jamieosaka6208]

The issue is that Ned was essentially head of HR for the "try guys" company

[@bibliowolf5735]

Where is the proof of this? It has severe legal consequences & frankly gives complete justification for the Try Guys to fire him.

[@AikoHyuuga369]

@@bibliowolf5735 they talked about it back when they started the company- and a few times after that. She was an employee and he’s a ceo and hr. He’s still be ceo at the moment even if he’s not publicly associated with them anymore.

[@nenegrey2282]

@@bibliowolf5735 iirc the guys mentioned it in a video a while ago, like in a throwaway comment they said that the company doesn't (or at the time didn't) have a proper HR team and they let Ned handle that side of the business. The guys love Ariel and the kids, but Ned didn't get fired because he cheated on her (especially since we know he's been flirting and creeping on women for years). He got fired because he cheated on her *with an employee* specifically. The improper work relationship is definitely the reason. Ned put the whole company at risk. Alex could now say she was coerced into a relationship because Ned was her boss. She could sue Ned and the company. I believe she's left/will leave of her own volition, but if the guys fire her she could sue them for retaliation, too. And it would set a dangerous precedent because in the future other employees could make up all sorts of allegations, now that the company's image was marred by this scandal. It's a mess. I've seen people complain about Alex getting off easy but the truth is that her cheating on her partner is her own business. On the other hand, Ned risks bringing the whole company down with him, this is why people focus on him. This is so much bigger than just his marriage.

[@nenegrey2282]

@@acemoto6232 We're not talking about morality, but about the legal consequences of the CEO and head of HR of a company starting a relationship with an employee. This isn't a cheating scandal to gossip about and play morality police. This can become very, very ugly for the whole company. Ned wasn't fired for cheating, but for putting the company at risk. Stories have come out of him flirting with women left and right for years, and of the other Try Guys knowing, this might not be the first time he's cheated. But he kept his job because he didn't compromise the company. Alex is responsible as well but legally, she could say that she was coerced or harassed and was too scared of being fired in retaliation so she stayed in the relationship, and a judge would probably rule in her favor. This is so much bigger than just a cheating scandal. Ned put the whole company at risk and that's why he was fired. I don't personally care about two complete strangers cheating. The problem for me is when abuse of power and workplace sexual misconduct come into play. Had Ned cheated with someone that didn't work for him, I would not be here watching videos like this and worrying about the future of The Try Guys.

[@Srabubulupa]

It only has legal issues if the company policy states that relationships are forbidden. Plenty of companies are ok with it and to avoid issues they sign a contract soooo...

[@mijavera]

I know everyone is supporting Ariel but what about Will? Feel bad for the dude. Wonder if they are still going to get married.

[@Lyco_Smoke]

Probably not. Apparently, he deleted all his photos with her on Instagram, stopped following her and set his account to private.

[@alisonratliff7814]

I heard he deleted all his pics of her on Instagram, unfollowed her, and then made his account private. But could just be another rumor. However...if one of the other rumors about him telling Ned to back off when this first started coming up in December 2021 is true at all, you would think he'd finally be dunzo!?! 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@nymphohalo]

He’s doing to Alex what Ariel doesn’t have the guts to do with Ned: ending things

[@Harleymotor]

Good for him honestly, I’m glad they didn’t tie the knot yet when he found out

[@sydneyharp1989]

10 years I hope Will replaces Ned in the Try Guys

[@markramos1216]

Celebrities cheating on their wives and becoming their own category of videos on my favorite tea channels was NOT on my 2022 Bingo card 😩

[@briceidaloya2941]

best comment 😂👌🏻 i spit out my coffee ☕ after reading this

[@Victoria-dg8kg]

Wasn’t Ned also basically the whole HR department? Lol it’s a bad look when the HR director is hooking up with an employee 👀

[@tempymcaccounterson5744]

I don’t think the paparazzi was a PR move. Mostly because they very quickly left. Ned didn’t say much other then “gotta go” and Ariel seemed INCREDIBLY uncomfortable when saying they were working things out. If I had to make a guess they might still be together like that because they have two incredibly young kids and are still trying to figure out what is best.

[@nymphohalo]

I think they’re gonna stay together cause I don’t think Ariel is mentally strong enough to be on her own with her kids

[@caithenry8429]

Or it was a staged PR thing where Ned begged/convinced her to say that in order to save his brand image. The Fulmer's had brand deals with Target, a podcast apparently listed under Fulmer Media, and a cookbook out. Completely disgusting to see this POS use his wife and his marriage as a way to make money when in reality he's a scumbag.

[@meme-bu8qu]

@@caithenry8429 Why I think it is PR thing.

[@karly.asshhh]

​@@nymphohalo Oh... that would be so sad. Sis should get a divorced, raise the kids separately and make her own life.

[@aff77141]

"Working things out" can also easily mean deciding when who gets the kids 🤐

[@brandonmagtoto5795]

Wait why Ned is the only one being blamed?? Isn’t Alex also taken? And cheated on her boyfriend or something?

[@busybree]

She had a fiancé that she was with for 10.5 years

[@KisDraga]

Everyone knows they’re both to blame. The story is news worthy because everyone knows the try guys so the story is what Ned, from try guys , did and the ripple effect in their company. ..

[@abril443]

Because people understand power dynamics in the work place, insecure girls can see the attention from their superior as incredibly enticing

[@brandonmagtoto5795]

Although I do would say what Ned was way worse cuz of having kids. Both parties did something terrible regardless

[@ichabodfrances8544]

I think the big thing is that he started dating his employee, so the power dynamic there is really taboo too

[@dannyfenton9529]

None of these people knew or had any suspicion. So many people switch up after people are exposed and act like they knew the whole time or had some kind of feeling. No you didn’t. Pretending to have been ahead of everyone else is not a flex especially when it’s about a person you’re supposed to be friends with being unfaithful.

[@cv7958]

You might have a “feeling” or suspicion but how many of us would confront someone with an accusation that damning with no concrete proof? I suspect that might’ve happened. Like you feel something is off but would you be willing to offend someone close to you by asking if they are cheating on their wife?

[@skeleton5459]

I am actually impressed on the way Try guys is handling this whole situation. They fired Ned as soon as the photos came out and they were transparent. As soon as the fans noticed. They told their fans Ned isn't on the team anymore They didn't make their fans wait months for an answer..Then they made Ned take accountability by putting it on him to explain it and he took the L and admitted it. I just want to give the Try Guys teams props for how they handled things

[@houseofaction]

they didn't fire him, they simply made a business decision to remove him from the channel. he still is an owner

[@swetharavikumar3687]

it's a messy process to remove the company's association with him as he is one of the owners after all. they will have financial losses and many legal routes to consider on which would be the best way to move forward. they also have to deal with the employees and their own feelings too. honestly I feel so bad for them, Ariel,her kids, will and the try team

[@nickbrown2113]

The Try guys knew LOL from the beginning

[@geomeopeoleo1740]

@@nickbrown2113 do you have proof or are you just guessing?

[@nickbrown2113]

@@geomeopeoleo1740 ohh lol after the podcast, I have changed my mind about this..

[@Issynothere]

I can’t wait for Becky to throw hands

[@kyrasaturn]

I would pay to see Becky rip into him

[@catalinanoes2154]

omg i freaking " dislike" your comments but didnt mean to because YESSS I HOPE SHE DID/DOES.

[@bellaryder5044]

hmmm and the fact that most of the ex-buzzfeed employees saying that they weren't suprised about it was from ladylike is very telling given how they mocked safiya when she started her own channel. all those gals can do is throw shade but can't have a consistent career like their more known former colleagues

[@hermionegranger6405]

Saf is miles ahead of them in terms of quality content, integrity, personality, and above all else class. Even if she knew something was up with Ned she would never say something because she never needed that validation. Never liked the ladys from Ladylike and then being shady and pulling this "yall didn't know" bullshit already tells me everything I need to know about them.

[@banan7308]

Ariel hasn't been in the past couple podcasts with the other ladies either 😔 I'm really thinking that they were trying to deal with this quietly and let Ned go. Ariel strikes me as the type to not want to blow things up publicly. Especially as they have kids, imagine seeing all this sht about your father on the internet 😳 All the shady tweets from ex co workers must be really difficult to see too.

[@tabortoothtiger7580]

They possibly could have told her, and clearly, she isn't ready to walk away from the relationship herself. You can tell somebody that they're getting cheated on or that their partner is shady, but unless they themselves realize that, there's nothing more you can do. Who's to say his coworkers or friends didn't tell her? And she just sat back and let it continue happening. Clearly, if she's so willing to work it out if the TMZ videos are real, then yeah, it wouldn't strike me as odd that there's a possibility that she was told and just let it go. I'll say it again, you can't always help somebody if they're willing to be walked all over. You can't force somebody to find their own worth. That has to come to them on it's own time. She has to find the strength to say enough is enough. Nobody can do that for her.

[@banan7308]

@@tabortoothtiger7580 that is very true!

[@susanmiller4159]

If this has been going on for a year, he put a lot of people in an extremely awkward situation. They share so many friends from the Try Guys. It’s a wonder Rachel didn’t rip him a new one. But maybe she didn’t know. Ariel, I support you whichever way you go. ❤

[@saf2127]

Agree, the other victims here are all the other employees of Try Guys. A lot of people staked their livelihoods and careers on this company, and it’s all gone to shit now because of the irresponsible actions of two colleagues. I wouldn’t blame any of the other staff for leaving this mess, and if they do, I hope they can find new (and less toxic) jobs right away.

[@aff77141]

Part of me has to wonder if, as everything was brewing, Ariel knew, everyone knew, but they didn't know who WITH or at least didn't have enough proof to oust him, and her being in so many videos lately is Rachel trying to get her to make some friends with other ladies on the team besides Zach & Kieth's partners, so she'd feel more supported and have friends she can more easily connect and spend time with (IE, other moms) if the worst came to worst. I hope even if that wasn't the plan, it did that

[@madietrueblood3481]

its so sick how many people will know but not say a word. If they are really your friend they would tell you!! even if thsy dont believe it they will at least mention it. Knowing and not saying anything is so shitty smh. I really hope Ariel knows she can do it by herself and she deserves so much more. Not everyone or every situation deserves a second chance, and if the rumors are true. . whew

[@D_slade]

Maybe they did and Ariel was in denial, happens a lot. We don’t know what’s going on entirely behind the scenes

[@gioplease6848]

Sometimes people like to mind their business.

[@gacktist00]

I don't think Ariel is their friend

[@komalpreetbrar7740]

Ned’s cheated on His wife before. This isn’t his first time. He’s admitted to it on some Buzzfeed video.

[@tabortoothtiger7580]

@@D_slade I mean, the fact she's still with him in the video proves to me that she's a bit too forgiving if it's all real. Can't help somebody who's willing to be walked all over.

[@JenneeB927]

Those who yell the loudest are usually the most guilty.

[@lifelikelisa]

I never thought that his over-the-top “my wife” stuff was fishy. I just assumed he was happy he found someone willing to sleep with him.

[@lainey7583]

I feel like it’s so rude for people to come up to them like that and ask if they’re working things out like how do you think that makes Ariel feel?? Who wants to be asked “are you working things out” publicly after your husband cheated on you??

[@LuvCroissant]

Ariel is her own person, so is all of the adults involved in this scandal. What I wanna know is who made the it public? The try guys company was already editing him out, and I only can guess how all these guys feel about the situation. Man, this month is truly cracking the faces of so many people, karma is coming for folks!

[@daria5846]

Will did

[@jennibeanieee]

It’s one thing to get cheated on but it’s even worse when you get cheated on and everyone knew but you. The moment someone saw Ned and Alex being flirty together they should’ve said something to Ariel. I can only imagine what Ariel is going through but Alex’s fiancé must be disgusted and upset the fact he wanted to marry and spend his life with her and now he finds out she’s been cheating is upsetting and just like with Ariel if the coworkers knew something was up with Ned and Alex they should’ve said something to BOTH OF THEM.

[@sj.lyons4]

they were my childhood. i loved them all so much. i hate seeing this but i hope ariel is truly okay

[@megansstallion818]

QUINTA 😭 SHE CLEARED I LOVE HER

[@markramos1216]

The way I was literally just watching Abbott on Hulu rn 💀

[@wow.hi.7678]

@@markramos1216 is it worth the watch? I’d watch to support but is the plot good?

[@ItsJC-gu3jz]

@@wow.hi.7678 it’s sooo good

[@wow.hi.7678]

@@ItsJC-gu3jz noted👍🏽

[@shadowqueen2134]

That TikTok of Ned and Ariel is a little uncalled for, Ariel was all happy to see them and then he started asking about the marriage

[@Rachel-xu4br]

I can't believe Will wasted a decade of his life to her. They got engaged relatively not too long ago. If I knew they were together that long when I watched the video of when she announced it (in one of the Food Babies videos) that would have been the first red flag to me if I had that context.

[@Chelseallauren]

The paparazzi isn’t waiting around for Ned/Ariel. Definitely called the paps and definitely a pr move.

[@caithenry8429]

Imagine how he pitched it. "Think of our brand, our podcast, our sponsorships, our cookbook!" 🤢Poor woman has been through too much to save his ego and brand image

[@Tails1]

Also saying your not suprised is not only rude to Ariel cause she already probably feels so stupid right now and awful about herself, but also to his fans. He really had us all so fooled for YEARS. Almost a decade. Actually everyone is very suprised.

[@luluscrooge3891]

RIGHT! I was not expecting this at all. Shit's fucked.

[@cal.w5269]

They were suggesting he has a phoney personality so they saw through his bullshit words, manipulation and love bombing. All red flags 🚩 🚩🚩

[@cal.w5269]

Don’t feel bad he manipulated his fans, he manipulates so many people so it can’t be your fault, only his

[@jacobbaker4545]

Im surprised people people didnt see Ned as fake to begin with. Hed always make little comments that were suspect as hell, and he tried to hard to appear perfect.

[@brooke4753]

I mean i thought he seemed fake when i watched their videos but i didn’t notice the suspicious comments until I saw a compilation a few days ago moving after everything i think people including be more aware that when people online seem like they have the perfect relationship we only see what’s happening when the cameras rolling (sorry this comments long but i’ve been thinking about this situation a lot)

[@aretwothetoo7758]

Everything is clearer in hindsight tho. Ned didn’t seem suspicious at all until this😐

[@saf2127]

Yeah, Ned never passed the sniff test for me. The “we are perfect wedded domestic bliss!!!” schtick wore on me (happily single and childfree individual for life here) and I unsubscribed some time ago. Here I was just thinking he was a bit phony and annoying, but it was so much worse.

[@ambersexton517]

I don't know about fake, but I personally never liked Ned because there were a few videos early on when the Try Guys first started their KZbin channel where he had to get drunk for the video and he acted like an absolute a**hole. It wasn't like, 'oh hey, I'm acting like this to be funny,' he was just an outright jerk. Never really could support Ned after that, though I do still watch their videos because I like the other Try Guys.

[@m.-9615]

I always thought that he was genuine in the beginning when they were still in the honeymoon phase. Then it became his internet persona and he just stuck with it. I don't think most adults were buying his overly clingy codependent husband act. It was just his role to play in the Try Guys and he was so stupid to ruin the one thing he was known for.

[@Angela-uc5nq]

My heart breaks for Ariel and their kids. I hope she is okay.

[@XLeon_S_KennedyX]

What is more angry about these 2 people is that they did not even tried to hide the relationship. They have balls of steel to cheat their loved one publicly, i give them that.

[@estrellaalaniz3821]

Alex’s blue ball recipe was the perfect amount of shade lol

[@notavalleygirl]

My heart aches for Ariel! Paparazzi leave the poor woman alone! She's too kind and good for this!

[@Jiorgiapeach]

This is an opportunity to self-reflect and recognize the harmful and predatory nature of parasocial relationships. This is not about Ned or Alex or Ariel or the other Try Guys. This is about having the curtain pulled back, looking Oz right in the face… You never knew these people. You will never know these people. They preyed on your very basic instinct to form bonds with others. You watched them. You thought you knew them. You believed them. Maybe You even took seminars on relationships ethics from them… But they preyed on you. Here’s an example: So Alex’s fiancé first knew about the affair more than a year ago. The try guys knew about it more than a year ago. They promised it was a short fling; it was over. The fiancé And the try guys decided to ‘move on.’ Only when the fiancé received photos on Sept 1 of 2022, evidence that the relationship had not ended more than a year ago, that it has continued the entire time, did he threaten to go public with the photos/videos. And that is when the Try Guys decided to cut ties with Ned and edit him out of videos. Now go back and look at all Of the try guy content from 2022 and some of 2021… all of that was a lie

[@gglydie4242]

Definitely a huge part of why we are all reeling. Also, I simply enjoyed the Try Guys as light relief, a laugh to unwind after a day of work. And I feel like Ned and Alex broke it, like one of my favourite toys.

[@nursebridgie]

❤

[@chaselynn8720]

the boys did not know

[@rosemarie9980]

i'm just surprised that they haven't taken any action with alex. they even removed ned's name as executive producer on their youtube description but still have her name. it takes two (or more) people to cheat. she's as guilty as he is in this situation imo.

[@lauraeshelman766]

The fact that ned was her boss means she can sue for wrongful termination or something. She is just as wrong but I don't think they can straight up fire her

[@lanac5793]

@@lauraeshelman766 exactly. Your personal rationships can't affect your job

[@eva7327]

There is a huge difference between being morally wrong and being legally wrong. Yes they both cheated on their partner but Ned put the company in jeopardy and basically risked a lawsuit. He was her boss so this responsibility is on him.

[@danapohl444]

As her boss, he had more power in the situation. Both of them were wrong but that doesn't mean legally they are seen aa equal on how they get punished.

[@2009blacqbarbie]

Ariel had to have known prior to all this coming out because there’s no way I would be out and about with my cheating husband with a smile on my face but then again I understand putting on a brave face

[@daria5846]

Allegedly they found out a month ago. But only now everything went public

[@Kathi88]

For sure.

[@kyramonday9141]

Poor Ariel, she was so uncomfortable when that person questioned her and she just goes, "uhhhhh... we are working on working things out..." Meaning things probably are not working out...

[@laureneighmy3306]

Clearly people have yet to watch Keith Eats the Menu @ Caesar's Palace to see the very subtle digs Keith makes at Ned and Alex

[@todd7821]

I’m honestly a lil upset how the “other woman” was also engaged but none of the buzz feed workers are talking about her also cheating. Don’t leave her out of this miss ma’am

[@LittlelauraMJ]

I think one of the reasons this completely BLEW UP is because #1 The Try Guys have never been involved in drama and no in ever thought there would be any #2 of The 4 of them, Ned seemed like the last person on earth people would suspect of cheating, specially in such an obvious manner and #3 no one thought any of them would do something that risked SO much in their lives..... family... company.... friend group.... I mean the list can go on and on . I am curious to see how everything turns out for all of them.

[@ps3udologue]

I love hearing you sound flabbergasted at the end about the Try Guys drama because, yeah we all feel the same way. It's crazy. Also Ned is forever meme'd with his 'consensual workplace relationship'.

[@somethingstupid1075]

i can’t imagine having to deal with this kind of thing, let alone having to deal with it while being in the public spotlight

[@ed-schramm]

that paparazzi video of them is so weeeeeeird, ned's laughing it off like OOPSIE I GOT CAUGHT

[@CallMeHunee]

It’s crazy because this should only concern them and instead it’s exposed to the world. I would never want to be famous, absolutely no privacy. Imagine apologizing to people you don’t know for cheating. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@gglydie4242]

Humiliating enough to find out you've been cheated on, but soooooo publicly. Ugh. But they all signed up to the public life, so they knew the risk included handing over their privacy. I couldn't do it.

[@vicg2652]

Last I heard, the try guys haven’t “broken up”. They just kicked Ned out and they’re taking a few days off.

[@Gingerm0nster]

I always find it weird how when someone with a “nice” reputation is exposed for something bad, all these people crawl out of the woodwork to declare “I knew it” or “I’m not surprised” with smug vindictiveness. I’m not defending Ned in the slightest, and he’s being properly dunked on by the internet at large. But do these irrelevant ex-Buzzfeed employees really think their hot takes are noteworthy? Maybe the ones that worked with Ned directly. But if you supposedly “knew all along” why is this the first time you’ve ever said anything? Either way, I don’t trust people who dance on the graves of someone else’s reputation. Reeks of clout chasing.

[@lizthedisjointedzebra692]

I wasn't remotely surprised. He always seemed to be....overcompensating, with his ENTIRE personality being "I love my wife". It's just like...who is he trying to convince? Himself?

[@SweetGlitter1309]

No one in the try guys circle has called it cheating. He said, “I had a consensual work place relationship.” He didn’t say I cheated on my wife or I had an affair. I wonder if Ariel knew and didn’t care and the only one who had a problem was Alex’s fiancé. The paparazzi video of them together being a united front was too odd. WEIRD

[@houseofaction]

exactly, i am thinking they are in an open relationship. and the only one that didn't know was Alex's fiance.

[@AmberTurdsShittyBedsheet]

Which means they all screwed over Will. Which means everyone knew and enabled his behavior. What's worse was Ned was allegedly creepy with women and Ariel still defends him. Doormat.

[@Ellebee952]

One of the hardest things about getting cheated on is finding out how many people knew but never said anything. Assuming none of them ever said something to Ariel offline, having so many of his former coworkers eagerly tell the world but not you has to be hard

[@lamorrafierro2573]

Out of all the videos I’ve seen about this subject. This one is my favorite

[@iwaron9225]

I would die to be a part of those group chats

[@MichTemp95]

"working on working things out" could be construed either way, they could be trying to work on their marriage and moving past this or trying to work on a divorce that is mutually beneficial so they can stay on the best terms possible for their children. Either way my heart goes out to Ariel and the children and Alex's fiancé, and I wish them all the best.

[@SamFokker]

Going to a concert with your coworker-girlfriend and getting recognized by fans who know you as the wife-obsessed married Try Guy is INSANE. The audacity. It's like he didn't even care, obviously people would see them making out??

[@killsteel8498]

As someone who loved the try guys this hurts especially because I know the feeling she’s going through I hope Ariel gets better she didn’t deserve any of this

[@YourMomSVT]

Alex’s fiancé knew about the initial cheating when it first started last year and asked her to stop, y’all REALLY don’t think Ariel new 😂😂😂😂

[@sleepyfriendstm]

Exactly. Ariel knew and was trying to keep it quiet right along with everyone else cuz she was not tryna fumble the bag. She ain't even react like this was news...lol

[@AmberTurdsShittyBedsheet]

@@sleepyfriendstm But she'll be happy to use it for clout and views. Every day that passes, they all seem shady. How can you sit there and say you care about your kids when you're willing to let your husband walk all over you which they'll eventually witness? I don't get some women, at all.

[@kyris66]

@@AmberTurdsShittyBedsheet You're assuming she's being walked all over. We don't know if they have an understanding which would explain why she might be fine with it. Some women *are* fine with this and we're in no position to judge if they are since it's not our relationship.

[@ND-kh5yw]

@@kyris66 if they had an understanding and it was all good then why wouldn't she say that?

[@kyris66]

@@ND-kh5yw Business reasons? Ned did build this character of himself as a wife guy. Probably weird if Ariel out loud said, 'actually...' Again, this is all UNHELPFUL SPECULATION over someone's very real personal lives. We should just leave it alone.

[@amberalire2053]

I'm convinced they probably loved the thrill of sneaking around and wanted to push it to see when they would get caught. I feel bad for Ariel and her fiancé

[@luxurypetscz]

I also reached up to Ariel with an "sorry that happened" message. But now I realize that we're just assuming Ariel didn't know. This might not be the first time, it just is the first time WE found out.

[@JL-cb7rg]

I wish more companies would fire people for infidelity. Cheating is abuse.

[@sierrahsoto6486]

Ned has some balls to leave his comments on I’ll give him that much 😂

[@cherwhite9030]

Can we just ask how Ariel feels? Maybe it's time to stop gossiping & let Ariel & the Try Guys heal from this issue. We're all fans, that doesn't mean that we have a right gossip about their lives.

[@PrincessCelestia19]

boy I would've loved to be a fly on the wall when Ned had to have that fight with his "loving" wife he loves ever so much.

[@softhands77]

I’m so disgusted and and disappointed by Ned. He had everything and just threw it away!!! Sending healing prayers to Ariel, you will get through this, I’m so sorry this happened to you!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

[@shilosonora6147]

if keith cheats on becky, i am shaving his hairline.

[@MarinaAli]

I feel like people have these social media parasocial relationships but at the end of the day, these ppl were coworkers. They may all appear as friends, but in reality, were just working together for their brand. I don’t think it’s your coworker’s responsibility to tell your spouse if you’ve been cheating on them. What’s most shocking to me is how everyone who knew Ned at the time knows this was all an open secret.

[@MrsNgabire]

Thank you! I could never imagine telling ANY of my coworkers' spouses that I saw them cheating, let alone if I just had suspicions (which seems to be the case for most people saying "I'm not surprised") unless I was very good friends with that spouse. It's none of my business, and there's no telling how much Ariel already knew...

[@Natalie-cv2nt]

"responsibility", you act like it's a damn chore 💀wtf is wrong with you?? It's a moral code.

[@heathercoffey6]

Then I think they should have just stayed quiet and not tweet about how they aren’t surprised. They were more than willing to be quiet back then so why be so loud about it now? Just came off as disrespectful to the spouse and her children.

[@kelseywillow8110]

Exactly people have suspicions and also mind their business. If they spoke up it would have destroyed a marriage. Now it somehow got revealed and he ruined it for himself..a Harry styles concert and kissing in a club?

[@Natalie-cv2nt]

@@kelseywillow8110 you people make no sense 💀

[@gabriella-emmanuellesaro2970]

I love how respectful the paparazzi was lol

[@prawn2003]

The only thing trashier than cheating on your wife (who has kids) is sleeping with a married man. They both should know better.

[@laurawestenra]

I would argue the man betraying his partner and family is more immoral. Is the bar lower for men?both are gross.

[@amandaturner4991]

@@laurawestenra there's always going to be a boy's club. It's less so now, but traditionally in the past, men got props for having more conquests while women got shamed for the same thing.. They're equally gross imo, but of course, what Ned did was illegal as well as immoral, so maybe his was a little grosser...?? 🤷🤷

[@laura5leftwing]

If you haven’t seen the Reddit threads exposing Ned as a sloppy drunk and a creepy flirt, you have to

[@katc.6922]

link plsssss 🙏

[@kebrinab13]

Whaaaattttt?!?!

[@roxanna6987]

Like he got caught flirting with a 19 year old and even Keith knew it 🤦‍♀️

[@evelynmejia2344]

Yes I read them toooo. Sloppy sloppppyyyy man child

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