Are Modern Women Ready For Reality? ©

[@carolinefodale6733]

When a man earns money he dreams of giving his wife the best life. When a woman earns money she feels like she doesn’t need a man. Crazy

[@Javi808]

@caroline fodale Feminism told women to get a degree and that you don’t need a man. Feminism has lied to women for generations now, and has done significant damage to the family unit.

[@1stwastheword]

if a women has to go to work, she shouldn't be required to serve a man too men today don't want to be providers they want to use women for their benefit & work her to death

[@luckygluxx]

@@1stwastheword They sound like bums. Most guys that can take care of themselves dont move like that. Stay away from bums

[@D_Chief.]

@@1stwastheword The category of men you deal with also defines who you are. If you've dealt with or, currently dealing with a dude who works you like a mule, then you have self esteem issues. I suggest you get off KZbin and get your mind right instead of just vomiting utter bullcrap

[@1stwastheword]

lol @@D_Chief. you're on KZbin I did everything "right" & still dealt with a narcopath · it's not a male-female problem · it's a good seed / bad seed problem & truth be told, there's more bad seed among men than women, still ... the women are catching up

[@pauseyourfeelings5227]

I was married at 22 and was fortunate enough to make $80,000 a year. We got a divorce in our 30s because she said she need to find herself. I'm currently engaged and she has four cats. Kevin is telling no lies about these women

[@princeobi1119]

No disrespect, but as a man who’s doing well for himself, what benefit is it for you to get married?

[@TheShowOff2I]

“Find herself” Woman Translation: “I’m going to leave my current relationship see if I can get a higher value man, if my plan doesn’t work and I get pumped and dumped and can’t lock down commitment, a Relationship and or marriage I’ll just go back to my previous partner if i don’t reach my initial goal of monkey branching to a higher earning man.”

[@saltymom4157]

4 cats😂

[@starzzzz527]

Did you say Cats?.... I would Run 🏃‍♂️

[@ciarrajohnson3849]

That $80K at 22 is gravy. Marriage, though, is a No-No because nothing was BUILT. Love is a destination most people’s GPS will never reach and money can’t change that. All these chicks want is a wedding! That $80K would be gravy now because I’m actually marrying someone who loves me and I wasn’t raised to be a Ring Whisperer😄😄

[@darthflyer257]

Women spent the last 2 decades telling men "I don't need a man" and are now surprised that men listened.

[@Shanard242]

Like I'm suppose to convince you that taking care of the house, kids, he body, and normal motherly duties driving a Benz truck is the shit end of the stick smfh

[@diegomagellan]

A massive shit test that backfired

[@ItsDJNuName]

I’m hollering!!!!!!!!

[@rightel121]

A women saying she dont need a man is a witchcraft demonic practice, and many so called "Christians" women have said that line. This is why Jesus will say "I never knew you, Depart from me"

[@consciousawakening6959]

Lmaorotf...

[@myyt3824]

His last monologue in this video was poignant and touching. “That dash between when you’re born and when you die is supposed to be filled with people. Not money.” WOW. Ain’t that the truth. I can’t imagine the pain and regret I’d feel if I held out for a rich man instead of marrying a good man like my husband. When I’m sick, he cares for me. When I was out of my mind with depression and anxiety during post partum, he cared for me and our new born daughter even when he was up at 4:00 am to go to work. If I need help, he’ll drop what he’s doing to be there for me. He works his ass off to provide for us. I wouldn’t trade him for a rich man or for anything else. He’s what I want to fill my dash between my birth and death dates with.

[@karmagal1796]

You are truly blessed. ☺️

[@JS-mg1mk]

This is so true. I'll take an average loyal guy over a "high value" man whos going to cheat any chance he gets.

[@BIGNOSEPOPPA]

@@JS-mg1mka man who cheats isn’t a bad person. Thats just some dumb shit women made up in their own head.

[@ypmm53]

Beautifully stated! Very happy for you both!! I wish most sistas had this midset. Wishing you both many more years of happiness together!!

[@BIGNOSEPOPPA]

@@JS-mg1mk you say that because that’s all you can get. You are 4.

[@MsSooobless]

I’ve been housewife going on 21 years with 3 kids. Kevin is absolutely right! 🎯 From what I see, Modern Women these days aren’t ready to be a housewife. I learned from my Grandmother because my Mother was a Modern PHD Woman, married to my father. I watched my Mother over the years disrespect and neglect my Dad and felt sorry for him until he finally left my mother and married a woman who treated him like a King. I was 14 when my parents divorced and til this day my Mother is still by herself with her PHD and lonely AF even though she won’t admit it. Thank God for my Grandmother who was a housewife. I grew up watching and learning from her. She catered to my Grandfather with so much love affection. I always said that’s what I want my relationship to be like. She taught me how to cook at an early age, how to write and balance a checkbook. Because of her my daughters are able to learn from me and my son is able to learn from his father the way a relationship is suppose to be.

[@Frankelmind1]

Thank you sis....

[@bull.dog.]

I almost had a tear. I've lost my family due to my wife wanting to live a modern lifestyle, while promising me to be a traditional woman.... I've sobered up so much and won't get married anymore and won't date western women at all. I'm an engineer and leader in life, so I'm not a sissy guy, but i cannot make a woman live a life that she resents.

[@Cdrop63]

Bless her 🥲

[@MsSooobless]

@@bull.dog.You weren’t meant to be her husband. Your meant to be someone else’s husband whose going to love respect and adore you. Don’t give up, your wife is out there!

[@jonathancoleman3444]

Love hearing stories like this

[@jjones0822]

I just figured KS out. He's not trying show women how to get HV men. He trying to turn women off of HV men, and give them a dose of reality. You're average, you need an average man. Accept it

[@Omar-kt6in]

Bingo. And its hurting the Black American race as a whole.

[@jjones0822]

@@Omar-kt6in how is it hurting?

[@ShadowbannedbyYoutube]

@@jjones0822 took you this long to wake up correct ?

[@ShadowbannedbyYoutube]

Sorry Blackman....wrong hole...lol

[@amzngmo.e]

With all the nasty things he says, this realization is the only reason I continue to watch. I actually agree with him on that.

[@DaSkarekrow]

If a woman has high school diploma, making 40,500 for the rest of her life,....a man would accept her, but women won't accept men that make that.... Great math, Kevin!

[@2Tall03XX]

The double standard and delusion is real!

[@stealthassulter]

Let's make it easier . No highschool diploma. But good looking and submissive women will do.

[@thahirshibu5042]

@@stealthassulter no such thing in the UK

[@limitlessinfinite2284]

@@thahirshibu5042 real talk. Not over here.

[@davidthompson184]

That’s definitely true. I couldn’t care less what a woman makes honestly.

[@Rose-fi8uy]

My grandmother was married at 15. She had 9 children. She never graduated high school. At yet she was highly esteemed and loved by her husband and entire family

[@brianlopez2893]

She’s a victim

[@Mamasboys85]

My grandmother made it to 3rd grade, then left school to help her family earn money. I used to feel so sorry for her but in her old age, she felt sorry for me being a 20 year old “liberated” baby mama (I left a DV situation) she wanted me to get married SO BAD. I wish I had listened back then!

[@WillieWiley-uk3rk]

Damn that's deep

[@darkstarmatter1388]

My "PhD" wife said she didn't need me during an argument. Cool. Test time. Our dryer broke. She tells me, and I remind her that I'm not needed. She ordered a dryer but every delivery would be at least two-three weeks. Instead of taking the old one out of the basement and picking up a new one on my way home, I just took me and my kids clothes to the laundromat. After a week or so, my daughter knocks on my bedroom door. *knock knock* "Yes?" "Mommy said please come help her. she she needs you." 😂

[@williebeamen1205]

Sad that we have to do that, but glad it worked out.

[@Hulk-mc7bp]

So...the dryer did not get fixed when she waved her Ph D in front of it?!🤔😱😱😄

[@JUSTLIFE78]

@@Hulk-mc7bp lol. I needed that laugh.

[@salinasmith4055]

Yall ain't nothing nice 😂😂😂

[@ShadowbannedbyYoutube]

Your kids remember two weeks without a dryer,......you mumbling to yourself

[@jamarranthony]

I got married at 23 and my wife was 22. We were young but we wanted to figure it out together! So many people now a days think marriage is 30+ year olds and that is very weird to me. Why not build a life with someone instead of trying to get on board with someone’s program when they are probably stuck in their ways. It’s a beautiful thing to grow old with my wife who I’ve been with since highschool. She has stuck by my side from the time I was broke as shit from Detroit Michigan and now we live in AZ and I’m a realtor making good money now and she will enjoy every bit of it because she was with me “shooting in the gym”! People need to grow up and get it together!

[@amin291]

God bless brotha! Are you married to a sista or not? I'm asking cause I plan on moving to Phoenix and wanna know what it's like our there for brothas... Thanks in advance!!

[@jamarranthony]

Not gonna lie growing up I got no love from black women. I was always called names like African booty scratcher and other stuff and would lose any girl I liked to a light skinned brotha. No hate at all towards them but my lady who is mixed but looks more white never showed me anything but love. So to answer your question my wife would be considered white in America’s eyes but down here in Arizona all races of women love black men as long as your about your business. I drive both a 2018 BMW X3 and a 2021 Camaro and women from all races try to approach me on the regular. So come down here to Arizona for-sure because it’s a good life!

[@codeworldentertainment4890]

Woooow bro congrats so inspiring to hear god bless you and your family! I'm also from Detroit and live in Phoenix, AZ as well from the 313 to the Firebird City!!! Lol but I feel you on that stay blessed stay safe 💯

[@floridashottest2538]

Amen!!!! Love this positivity!!! I hope all young women & men view your comment

[@posdadtx]

God bless you, hope your marriage never ends, we haven't all be so blessed but glad to hear from those that have 🙏🏽

[@SirYeetus]

35 year old single mother with no domestic skills, $20,000 in debt: "I deserve a high value man!" Me: "Should I choose her, or a 20 year old with no kids...such a difficult choice!" 👀

[@doncalypso]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@doncalypso]

"Ha! Just like a woman..." --- Skeletor --- 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@bababamooo906]

Hahahaha !

[@rajakghosh6602]

A proper garden tool.

[@factzfigurez4042]

@@doncalypso Phish fan?

[@DanniChan_Worldwide]

One year later and this video STILL packs a punch!

[@richardsmith878]

She turned down 3 proposals but if given a chance to speak on black men she would be the first to say that men just wanna play the field and don't wanna get married. You can't make this shit up🤷‍♂️

[@a.wilkerson2nd334]

I didn't think about it like that🤣😂🤣

[@King-ns7it]

Facts

[@King-ns7it]

@@burningwolf5805 big facts

[@richardsmith878]

@Hordy Jones exactly 💯 lol

[@Blacbeard31]

Agree 100%!

[@hornetguy9063]

Value a man making $40k a year Share a man making $400k a year Choose one, women

[@blackredd6563]

@@khennimahmud4006 then leave. He ain’t making the money to disrespect you like that. Any man worth anything that makes average understands cheating is a no go

[@lydk2146]

That’s not fair

[@hornetguy9063]

Lyd K is it fair that women treat the $40k guy like crap? No. Life isn’t fair. Women create the rules of the game and say only the top tier of men will do. Therefore, the top tier of men have women falling over themselves to be with them. If a man at that status is loyal and monogamous to you, he’s making a choice to do so.

[@lydk2146]

@@hornetguy9063 no it’s not. Neither is cheating.

[@hornetguy9063]

Lyd K I’m glad we agree it’s not fair. I’m just saying that’s unfortunately the reality. If a valuable man stays 100% loyal to a woman, that’s a choice. If an average woman stays 100% loyal to a man, that’s also a choice. Because in both cases, they’re going to have options, and sometimes they’ll be good ones

[@aaronbrutus9483]

She has the nerve to ask if money has power, while eliminating all dating options who make less than her. 🤔

[@bachataintimate3726]

BOOOMMM!!!! THIS EXACTLY!!!

[@TheRealAnswer23]

Her conscience wass DEAD or DEAF. She provided proof that there is no thought before speech on this topic.

[@FC-xc3zy]

Thats their logic

[@G23Chris]

Bruh I mean the delusion and non logic thinking is just at an alarming level

[@birdieagszero6570]

Good call hold this gold 🌟

[@reginak.6084]

When I was in high school, my father always told me that my husband is not in my school, he's already in University. 🙌🏽

[@TheGreatVanbino]

Smart man

[@stevelumumbashabazzz5087]

Women being more mature than men it’s a myth.

[@myfathersson3751]

Facts

[@gooddogtalks]

Just like when they said men like sex more than women do. That's a lie to keep sex as power. Women have a dedicated sex organ men don't.

[@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa4842]

Women be like "I was young and dumb" And yet they are the same one screaming how girls mature faster than boys

[@1beatsbytdot]

@@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa4842 The cognitive dissonance

[@johnh8705]

Right. My 34 year old sister and my 67 year old mother both act like 5 year old girls when things don't go their way.

[@senpaity9732]

“So you think money is power??” Then proceeds to not have the same loyalty for a man making less money 😂😳

[@sensoeirensen]

This is typical womens "logic"

[@blaakheart8]

The irony

[@anthonyrichardson5330]

Unbelievable smh

[@justinwinfree7843]

And she's supposed to be educated

[@YouTube_Handler]

This basic disconnect is common in most modern women...the delusional hypocrisy is so deeply ingrained that it’s second nature...

[@FireAngelChris]

These women find it so offensive to be married in their 20s but regret it in their 40s since they are alone.

[@geosam2699]

You can’t make this shit up! 😂

[@FireAngelChris]

@@geosam2699 Lol it’s ridiculous to me man🤣🤣

[@diegomagellan]

Dissonance and female solipsism.

[@daphneytennard3267]

In my 20's I knew nothing about being married and if I did marry...I would be divorce.... I had nooooooooo good role models of good marriages in my family … the women were always bosses and totally in control of everything. I had a different outlook that the man is the head...and he should be the decision maker and I was to be in agreement with him. Too many divorces in my family...age 20 would have been the same for me.

[@tshaolin971]

Go figure their math 🙆‍♀️

[@mrpierre3355]

Because this young lady was not arrogant and was respectful, EVERYONE had the opportunity to hear and fully understand what Kevin has been communicating. Excellent content.

[@darthbrooks4933]

I wish I had this dude to listen to when I was 15

[@gohondon1981]

I know right.

[@ThetrueTeddyB]

Yes sir

[@claing17]

Man i know!!!! 20 years after and I'm like wooowww ohh well better late than never. I dodged a few bullets along the way.

[@ThetrueTeddyB]

@@claing17 same! 💪🏾🙏🏽

[@JesusSteven__]

I can listen to him and I'm 14

[@colbalt95]

•Most Women don't want to settle for a man that other women don't want. •These Women want men that other women want •Those men want to have more women •Most men don't want to settle for a woman that other men had

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

Repeat.

[@Treadvlogs1]

Cyclical

[@wsmn16]

The cycle

[@guraiya6910]

Cheating I can understand. I don't hope that KS means banging other women outside your own marriage.

[@colbalt95]

@@guraiya6910 The sexual revolution came with power but at a price. If women don’t need a man then a man doesn’t need to be for one woman.

[@leimubei]

Why is it that these females are older and will say they were young and dumb when they made certain mistakes, but if you talked to them when they were 20-24 they would say that they are old enough and grown enough to take care of themselves.

[@mansajose5226]

And they would call u immature

[@IamSammich]

Hindsight is 20/20

[@tyronehill1237]

No accountability

[@diegomagellan]

Dissonance

[@bluewave3417]

@Matt Joseph "The hubris of youth" Damn that's a mouthful. So true.

[@saintjohn3722]

Her femininity brought out a different KS. A fun side, chilled side. Great convo you two!

[@kysstaylor]

Wrong he did that himself

[@saintjohn3722]

@@kysstaylor sure

[@patriotallen9717]

When I married my wife she was 21. I was 34 and had my own consulting business. I have not made less than 200K since I was 38 and I am now 60. We had 12 kids and are still together. Kevin does know what he is talking about. By the way, my wife's goal was to get married and have a large family. She did not go to university.....but was very much prepared to pursue her profession....wife and mother.

[@tgchikukwa6947]

@Patriot Allen your wife made the right decision and you are a great man and good on civilisation with 12 kids. Well done.

[@slevinchannel7589]

@@tgchikukwa6947 12 kids is way too much, dude... ...

[@tgchikukwa6947]

@@slevinchannel7589 That's not too much and it's from one woman, however he has been earning over 200k since he was 38, okay.

[@slevinchannel7589]

@@tgchikukwa6947 ????

[@Mike_M.]

@Patriot Allen you actually proved Kevin right🤷🏿‍♂️

[@JLuke2oo7]

The most painful thing is, this woman would probably have made an excellent partner for somebody, but women have filled her head with so much crap that she doesn't even realise it until it's too late...

[@The_ScapeGoat]

That's the whole point. She is not a catch, she would've been if her mind wasn't poisoned with nonsense. Attitude is everything because life's not fair. These women are completely delusional and have been for decades. This is a very deep groove that they've worked themselves into. She has years of *un*learning to do before she's ready for a relationship, and she's already at geriatric pregnancy age.

[@Ronyashmet520]

Not partner, a wife.

[@SharpshooterSensei]

Women logic: "It's settling if I, the woman, make more and the man makes less. But a man is not settling for me if he's making more than me." Kings, y'all need to wake up!!

[@MrHakubi]

Her savings and debt are more important than what she currently makes. Most women are negative broke.

[@tshaolin971]

Women and logic is a hard fit.

[@KingKom1996]

Calling it "logic" is a yoga downward stretch. But I understand ur point broski.

[@5paris]

🎯🎯🎯🎯 make that make sense

[@hangukhiphop]

@@Bb-jm6wx aight but only after you've started the process of making the man's babies and no sooner because only a fraction of the women a man dates in his lifetime will give him babies

[@AONStew]

This sister was very nice and pleasant and Kevin dropped his guard so she could see the difference. He uses his knowledge to educate and deliberate direction like a father. Daddy don’t care how you feel he cares that you know what’s real. That’s the innergy I’ve always got from the brother. Rest in love brother.

[@miltonbates6425]

"I'm old fashioned and very submissive" coming from a modern woman is the equivalent of saying "I am a female chameleon and can change my behavior to whatever results in my own advantage"

[@fredstriker2042]

Yep... behold Gentleman, the chameleon in its natural habitat

[@monterospooner1612]

And its so easily to see through all you have to do is observe them, they give themselves away 💯👌🏾

[@stallionshark1726]

True that

[@orihellcon]

💯

[@leethebee101]

@@monterospooner1612 Yup, women tell on themselves and they don't even realize it...

[@_Iamdmoney]

This is the video that really sums up what KS mission is all about. He doesn't hate women he trying to help. This was a whole vibe, like an Uncle passing down wisdom to a niece on how to make the right decisions with her life before it's too late.

[@hangukhiphop]

Sure an Uncle... an Uncle _TOM!!!_ lol jk

[@chocolatethunder7453]

You right man! This was a real convo he tried to open this girls eyes

[@ironmasc5791]

It was powerful👌🏾

[@keishapuryear8180]

So what happens when that young uneducated woman who went from her parents home to her husband is left for a younger model. How will she provide for her kids? How will they live rat kids go to college? By KS explanation no one will want the responsibility of that woman and her kids. KS complains that men lose half in divorce but justifies behaviors that lead to divorce.

[@hangukhiphop]

@@keishapuryear8180 uhhh divorce settlements? Remember she gets half his stuff?? lmao

[@pureblackfire511]

my mom had 5 of us and she started from age 22-29. she married my dad at 21. they been married since 1977.

So what

[@Ty-J_250]

Damn, 20yrs before I was even born...

[@MisTracy39TheVeganLady]

My grandparents were married for 63 years .. They stayed in separate bedrooms for the last 30 years of their marriy! .. They never divorced back in those days .. They actually honored their promises to GOD "till death us do part" 🙏🏽

[@wnalikka]

👏🏿👏🏿🔥🎊🍾

[@olmardymard767]

I love it

[@bigshane4ever930]

This one is among my favorites Kevin has done and much praise to the lady in this video...I wish more like her grew on trees!!

[@blurtling]

She's a fantastic listener

[@AmericanAfrican13]

I dont understand how a woman can do all the "I'm independent and got my own" stuff and then be surprised at being alone. Thats literally what independent means. Like they like to say keep that same energy. You made your choices.

[@crimsonite1524]

people have romanticized loneliness/isolation, marketed it and sold it to them. its packaged real good, it starts off with infantalizing women in their 20s, then continue to sell women in their 30s romance and reality tv, so by the time its the mid 30s and 40s its late

[@kinga9301]

Exactly... Smfh

[@mari_j_mc]

This is true

[@bluewave3417]

@@crimsonite1524 Loneliness/ isolation is big business. How else are they going to sell these overpriced condos they're building in big cities all across America? There's big money to be made from people being single. Crazy thing is popular culture promotes being single, sexy, and "free". But when you look at how business works in this country its a different picture. Business is about group economics. Most small businesses are owned by families. The best residential real estate is usually in neighborhoods that require dual income to buy into. And if you have dual income AND an inlaw living in house to handle childcare? Damn you're really winning. The very things the media promotes are the things that kill wealth accumulation. But our people fall for the okie doke time after time.

[@marjuliafreeney8763]

So women aren't supposed to be self sufficient? We can't be self sufficient, independent & still be with a man?

[@Hizzoner21]

Gents, if you're married to a good woman, hold onto her tight - for no reason - and thank the heavens you don't have to deal with this madness.

[@davidnelson4347]

Amen

[@likemike-music2645]

And don’t be scared to let her ass go if she acting up

[@Hizzoner21]

@@likemike-music2645 100%

[@hadar_benyisrael2989]

Or else just get the Kitty and send them on they way...

[@aakeem7able]

Hallelujah praise the Lawd

[@jbb8261]

Ladies it isn’t hard I was dating a RICH man and he made it clear by the third date that other women would be included. I chose not to continue dating him bc I’m not into that life. He’s probably married or in an open relationship and I’m with my pragmatic middle class husband. Very happy. You women need to know what you’re signing up for. I don’t blame rich men for making you options if you letthem. In my case he was open about it.

[@jbb8261]

@Jonah DrinkWater read to comprehend, not to argue. I never said that was a step down. Go take a walk and breathe or something.

[@MrBigkilla]

so you are cheater...

[@slevinchannel7589]

Pop-Culture-Fans and -Experts and -More can tell you: Wokeness and Virtue Signaling is totally destroying entire Franchises; for example Doctor Who and others. I mean, Duh. Can we talk about that? And how etire Franchises, like Doctor Who, BURN thanks to Modern Wokeness and other Stuff? I mean, if Chris Chibnal or Kennedy-"The Force is Female"-Brat arent the 2 Epic Examples of how not to be, i dont know what is.

[@kiaharper7172]

@@MrBigkilla You can't read....

[@keked9231]

Be honest and upfront

[@olyna]

She was really sweet and willing to learn. I enjoy these peaceful and productive conversations.I am still watching and learning god father. it is only now that you are gone that I miss you the most. Iam on a mission to watch all your videos,hoping that I can carry on doing your work in the community. Thank you Kevin,for everything you have done for us black men in particular.

[@tonyjones4225]

It’s sad there’s not much respect for average men when average men make the world infrastructure possible but somebody has to do the dirty work shout out to all my tradesmen with average incomes ladies get a man with some skills construction, plumbing, Electrical, truck driver, hvac, welder, mechanic etc these men become more valuable when times get tough even hvm have to call us when they stuff breaks men who can use their hands to build or fix something never goes out of style.... good show Kevin 👍🏿

[@Cahluvca]

I'm honestly not surprised. Many today have 1% blinders on due to living vicariously through celebrities and social media

[@vman992mah2]

I m Mechanic. One lady blatantly said when I persuaded her she never saw potential cause she assumed I was working for someone else and she is a career woman. Went and had a baby with Chad now she looking for a guy to marry her I said no I won't be able to. Don't want u now she is still beautiful at 31 but not as 5 ,years ago. I would pump definitely but no relationship with her. She stopped talking to me

[@aziz-kashifmustafaaii5101]

Very True...much respect to my blue collar brothers! Salute!

[@tonyjones4225]

@@ShaunHensley no shit Sherlock

[@Bklynn1974]

Facts

[@freshfade]

Kevin is the only KZbinr that I subscribe to - every convo has so much substance and truth. His goal is just to help our culture advance, but some people don’t seem to understand that. Over the years, certain groups have made an effort to destroy the black household and they’ve succeeded by making black women devalue black men.

[@tonyasnow2712]

Telling women to chose a man over yourself & career😳. Noooo There can be a balance.

[@fredstriker2042]

Look into Coach Greg Adams, RPM, MHD, and replicant fish. Other great black red pill providers. And don't be afraid to look into many of the other guys out there of other races, some amazing content providers. Peace

[@360undead]

Some people??

[@ArtistGoodLefty]

He's wrong on this one though

[@360undead]

@@ArtistGoodLefty how

[@youknowelgin]

“Just living” = adding up bodies to their graveyard 🪦

[@sirm.3952]

🗣🤣💯

[@doncalypso]

...and the *_Thousand ROOSTER Stare_* to boot.

[@carlpoole3161]

👌🏾🤣👌🏾🤣👌🏾💯🤟🏽

[@TheRealCalijokes01]

Then they say there ready lol used goods

[@louisj4645]

She for the streets guys...does anyone have her information...I need to see something lol

[@MisTracy39TheVeganLady]

My grandparents were married for 63 years .. They stayed in separate bedrooms for the last 30 years of their marriage! .. They never divorced back in those days .. They actually honored their promises to GOD "till death us do part" 🙏🏽

[@BIGNOSEPOPPA]

What's the idea that they stayed in separate rooms for the last 30 years? Were they not happy anymore?

[@MisTracy39TheVeganLady]

@@BIGNOSEPOPPA They were married for 63 years!! .. That should say enough right there! .. You don't have to be happy and in love to be loyal to one another! .. They honored their promise to GOD .. that's the most important part .. so if that meant they had to spend the last 30 years in separate rooms so be it .. People nowadays should try it instead of destroying their families because somebody's not happy anymore! .. it's not about happiness it's about honoring GOD and family!

[@nalecejones2791]

You can’t be submissive cooperative and loving bc he makes less than 50k a year. WOW!!! 😯

[@Trelix]

Unbelievable right. Smh

[@YungJay216]

Makes you think about the level of disrespect they must have for there fathers, grandfathers and great grandfathers.

[@2Tall03XX]

Now I ain’t saying she a gold digger.....

[@felixkarpeh6690]

Imagine if men started being disrespectful because women didnt meet our standards.

[@2Tall03XX]

@@felixkarpeh6690 we’d be dubbed “abusive”

[@jossefbye9354]

-Would you be submissive to him if he was making 43.5 a year ? -no i won't even give him a chance . - then why would he only have one woman when he's high value ? The godfather guys .

[@antoniotula262]

That part really stood out to me 🚩💀😨

[@jakeackermann9059]

@imma beat yo azz, honestly bro that's the best comment I've ever read on one of these videos. They are not submissive to any dude regardless of what he's got going on. They just pretend to be what a man is looking for in the early stages. This whole "I'll be submissige when I meet the right guy" is a load of bullshit.

[@jossefbye9354]

@@antoniotula262 did the same for me

[@bluvtant1715]

ON POINT !

[@nickligeewear9038]

My parents got married at a young age. They're Jamaican 🇯🇲. I am the last of 5 children. I found out years after when I got married in my mid 20s that my mom hooked up with my dad because he was the bread winner back then. When they arrived in the US mom thought it would be the same financially with dad. They learned that it wasn't so easy. So my mom disrespected my dad for years until they separated. When I spoke with my dad he told me "its di best decision mi eva mek" and I'm happy for him. My mom is like the modern women.....sad that she's by herself now in a big house but yet trying to give me advice on my marriage. I told her marriage is for better or for worse and she is not allowed to give me advice at all. Sounds harsh but my hubby that molded me into the better woman I am today. He taught me ALOT WHAT MY PARENTS NEVER TAUGHT ME AS A WOMAN...as a fearing man of God, alpha mindset and the best Father to our kids, protector and so much more. Just a few traits that I will never take for granted..men? Know what your worth. Women? I feel sorry for those in their 30s with no decision on ya love life.

[@BigDaddy4Real]

Thank you for sharing and congratulations on finding a real man and truly honoring him and your marriage. I hope thousands see your example of a successful relationship.

[@akeemgmedia5079]

I needed this, thank you.

[@nigeltaylor9141]

Thanks miss Martin your husband is blessed to have you. I'm also from your parents country. big up

[@rickypressey4808]

This was great !

[@melindapierre6616]

That first part. A man of God.. you are blessed. Your husband knows who he submits to. He knows who holds him accountable as the foundation. May your household continue to be fruitful.

[@johnbrown-cl6sj]

Kevin hit my situation right on the money. I was 34 when I married my age 29 wife. I met her at 21 and we grew together. At 41 I have my safety career and I am on track to hit $80k financial stride at age 44. Both vehicles are paid off and we have a better financial situation as a married couple than we would have had as single adults. Ladies listen and take notes. I luckily did this all on my own without guidance from any male leadership. Now I am ready to reach back and give advice to the young people out there starting their lives.

[@TheActualKingSmith]

It’s difficult to get young men (18-29) to see the vision.

[@johnbrown-cl6sj]

@@TheActualKingSmith You are right! It still needs to be said when we talk to them. I have been thinking hard about creating a speak to talk to teenagers at local High Schools just to focus on developing as a young adult to make the rest of THEIR life easier moving forward. It is a shame how many young people are creating children without a sense of direction on how to be a fully functioning adult. Good talking with Sir. Enjoy your day!

[@TheActualKingSmith]

@@johnbrown-cl6sj that’s fantastic man. I want to be a part of something like that local to my area. I may DEVELOP something when I’m done with my MBA in March and have more time to work on a product like this. Good luck man! Salute

[@anthonyharrison7728]

She wasn't ready to get married at 22 because she wasn't done riding the CC.

[@soblack5738]

She is doing damage control at this point. She sounds feminine and calm, but this comes too late

[@MrSupermanbe]

These woman don’t understand the age gap and marriage. They think an age gap is a bad thing like they haven’t seen Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jone, Idris Elba and current wife, Jay Z and Beyoncé, George Clooney and his wife,Trump and Melanie. I could go on and on.

[@georgewindsor2667]

best comment. CC lol

[@vincenttooles1415]

"What women you date because I ain't broke?" Comical 😂. In the minds of most women if they can go out for drinks and go on a seasonal girls trip then they aren't broke, regardless of their financial situation.

[@thebull683]

@@soblack5738 yea she seemed very compromising and understanding in the video. They’re good at faking it tho

[@JavonShannon]

This is probably the most productive conversation you have ever had with a woman. She may not still respect the under $50,000 club but she still gets everything else.

[@thomasneedham1224]

Takes time to digest life altering information.

[@equivalentexchangeisalie5726]

Ultimately though she's average and falling and can only command the under $50k club. If she doesn't respect that, it's a lost cause

[@slevinchannel7589]

Pop-Culture-Fans and -Experts and -More can tell you: Wokeness and Virtue Signaling is totally destroying entire Franchises; for example Doctor Who and others. I mean, Duh. Can we talk about that? And how etire Franchises, like Doctor Who, BURN thanks to Modern Wokeness and other Stuff? I mean, if Chris Chibnal or Kennedy-"The Force is Female"-Brat arent the 2 Epic Examples of how not to be, i dont know what is.

[@robertlunderwood]

Unfortunately, she's going to have the same results as a rachet, alone.

[@Japan705]

That's crazy that she admitted to denying all 3 proposals because in her mind, she did not find the men valuable enough. That means for the length of time she was with each man she was draining their resources dry knowing the whole time she would never go further in marriage

[@Darealist5629]

💯

[@Key_1111]

Exactly! It doesn't take long to know whether or not you want to be with someone.

[@thomasneedham1224]

At least she gave them some puntang, some want you to date them for 8 months with no action.

[@alexanderpolanco3895]

Underrated comment ☝️

[@DV-lr8ec]

I only need a 5 minute convo to know if i wanna keep talking to a female

[@feosayan]

My late wife was 25 when we got married in 1994. We had three children, while both of us were going to college. My kids are now 27, 26, and 24. Marry to the right person early, work together to build a solid family relationship and foundation. Bless her soul. Now, it's difficult dating to find the next right person in my age bracket. Marry early, is a good thing.

[@ANKAMedien]

not going to lie, one of the best KS conversations I have seen so far! and likely because she engaged him more respectfully than 90% of the rest of the women who come on this show

[@pbennett13]

I’m rooting for her.. not the fantasy, but I do hope she finds a mate she can love and be loved

[@yahneyoung5505]

Respect looks good on the one giving AND receiving it✊🏾🤝🏽!

[@MisTracy39TheVeganLady]

She said her grandmother taught her how to behave! 😉👍🏼

[@fluffingfluff]

She is a lovely woman, when you think about it after the lust and romance have settled, it all comes down to the person. Can we have a pleasant time together is what's important. And I truly hope she will find someone to spend her life with, this conversation has helped her market herself better than most other women ever could. Good luck to her.

[@kbrobertson9230]

I been told most women don’t mature until their 45. That’s when theirs bodies don’t look the same and have hit the wall.

[@factzfigurez4042]

someone has been watching COJ144 lol

[@e69alpha]

They hit the wall sooner than that

[@SirYeetus]

They wise up when middle aged women realize their "happy ending" will never happen & they wasted it chasing Chad/Tyrone.

[@miltonbates6425]

Middle aged women and the media perpetuate that ugly lie.

[@BlackSantana]

@@factzfigurez4042 allegedly 🤣😂😂😂🔴

[@lsporter88]

You made great points as per usual. She was really cute, with a radiant smile, and a great attitude. Most importantly, she had manners, she listened, a Man can definitely work with her. I want her to find her Husband. Great conversation. Great show.

[@grindhard4312]

Exactly!! And I agree she's very beautiful! And I think she learned some things today

[@Dbo_Sports]

It was only because she was talking to a man of extremely high value who is knowledgeable. The real test is whether or not she would take that advice from a brotha without a platform. Women only respect power, especially black women. But every man can’t have power. Most men think the way that Kevin thinks, which is in a practical manner, but she would’ve dismissed those men five mins into the conversation. She is like most black women, she can be worked with, provided that you are in a position of power with her.

[@lsporter88]

@@Dbo_Sports You're not wrong. Yet and still she's one of the good ones. In fact you make a fair point about many Women. It takes a Woman with a fairly evolved mind (or soul) to get beyond the primitive and self-serving part of female nature you have described. And most Women nowadays are not that evolved. They don't spend much time reflecting on the nature of what you've said here or much of anything else. Kevin has spent the better part of a year exposing that in some of these Women. He's actually doing a great service to many in more ways than one. Great comment my Brotha.

[@grindhard4312]

@@Dbo_Sports Greatest comment ever. On point 100%

[@johndoe5715]

each their own but for me shes 34, massive snozzel, eyelids look weird, judging by her receding hairline its not her own hair and someone with a inflated ego (cos she turned down 3 proposals). for me its pass and shes all yours, imma look for a younger model with less mileage

[@3Scalpel]

One of *the* best episodes on practical advice, with insights and explanations, that Kevin has produced. Top shelf info and wisdom.

[@SirYeetus]

How can the modern woman mentally mature when they're rarely held accountable for their actions? They go through life being "liberated" without the fear of *CONSEQUENCES* for their bad choices 🤷‍♂️

[@2Tall03XX]

We need sharia law!!

[@gooddogtalks]

We don't even look at the effect of teenage oral contraceptive use. It permanently shrinks the hypothalamus. the area of the brain responsible for decision making and problem solving skills and emotional stability.

[@FazeParticles]

@@2Tall03XX or simply repeal the 19th.

[@ufokamakazie1]

Women view these conversations as insulting or demeaning when they’re actually a lifeline......Salute @ 007amuels.

[@Treadvlogs1]

Literally a lifeline.

[@Malthizar]

*Black women. White, Indian, Hispanic, and Asian are also listening and they're *taking notes* We just can't seem to ever get it together

[@rmglover3191]

The way she listens and takes the information in with her whole body. The way she smiles. She's willing to learn; indeed, seemed to learn on-the-spot. She's a gem. This was a grounded, thought-provoking interaction. Mr. Samuel's lessons have prompted me to reevaluate my own life and to do the math. We only have a certain number of days, of seasons, of chances. At 50, I'm fortunate enough to still have a strong back due to clean living. But I only have a decade to really get my money in order. I'm in his top 15%, but that means nothing. Aim to be the best.

[@libertydrive4388]

Even a woman with a pleasant demeanor like her will have ratchet outcomes unless she shakes off the feminist programming given to her since childhood.

[@KuroKuji]

Kevin is doing good for the community. Much Respect, my brother.

[@ThirdEyeTyrone]

You can’t negotiate genuine desire. If they don’t want a normal guy, there’s nothing that can be done. We just have to go out separate ways

[@marks-0-0]

Two good points right there.

[@patriciaattah849]

Exactly KS don’t understand no need to shame them for their desire. Delusional or not it would be torturous life to accept someone you don’t want cause you scared to be alone.

[@Kammale]

@@patriciaattah849 he’s not shaming them for their desires. He is just laying it out to their faces. You have 2 options: live in reality or choose to die alone. Sadly, the second option is going to be the end of a lot of them, if they don’t adjust their mindset.

[@Subjectiveopinion.]

Preach! I see no lies here. I couldn’t have said this better myself. Genuine desire. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@foxbodyblues6709]

If you are gonna quote Rollo you should give him credit

[@MHSenju3000]

After looking at these videos I have such a better appreciation for my wife. I make 80k and year in law enforcement and she holds it down like I make 500k. A lot of these women are so delusional it's not even funny.

[@Cahluvca]

Congrats

[@vanhuvanhuvese2738]

yes it does help even for some thinking woman. They see how brutal the dating market is and keep their home and not mess it up

[@willpower3317]

Same here, literally. It’s a blessing.

[@drwpsych]

As a married man, do you agree with Kevin’s position on adultery being permissible for married men who are high earners?

[@MHSenju3000]

@@drwpsych I just left a comment on that if you scroll up. I can understand kevs perspective on the animalistic nature of men having sex and how there is no feeling involved. Its just a physical act for most men. For me tho that's easy to smash women. For me it shows respect to my wife to not do that and just communicate my sexual desires etc...and that works for us just fine. She wears lingerie etc and naturally I show my appreciation which makes her want to do it more. It doesn't matter if you make 50k or 500k there will always be women and temptation.

[@vincem2759]

It's not wrong for women to not like a man cheating, but date a regular ass loyal man then LOL

[@rando3963]

Exactly lmao what don’t they get

[@Michael_Kelsey]

LITERALLY! But regular women are not interested in regular men these days. They consider dating a man on their level to be settling.

[@rando3963]

@@Michael_Kelsey exactly but they don’t want those men, and a woman can come in here and say they want a man like that all they want, but the percentage is low of those men being wanted.

[@bofasofa9399]

you people are so weird lmao, cheating is cheating, male or female. If you're a cheater, you're a cheater, its actually really simple to understand.

[@vincem2759]

@@bofasofa9399 Has nothing to do with what I posted LOL

[@brucepeters6748]

The last 5 minutes were really good. The lady was really listening and Kevin opened up.

[@92Sunshine]

My mom got married at 15 and stayed married to my father until he died. She married again in less than 6 months. She has practically been married all her life. It baffles me that this generation is immature compared to previous generations. They’ll gladly have children but getting married is somehow very horrifying.

[@emmaphilo4049]

It's because of prince charming and those stupid Disney movies

[@ccdev]

@@emmaphilo4049 goddamn Disney movies putting a lot of crap into women's head and turning guys into wannabe white knights.

[@damienwyche5859]

Hold up, she got married again 6 mths after your father passed?!

[@92Sunshine]

Yes within 6 months. It does not take years to know if you want to marry someone especially if you’re 40+ yrs old.

[@TheKING-il3dx]

Sorry to say this to u n all due respect but but your mum is totally dysfunctional without a man. Totally is not a good thing.

[@jpii8468]

The Derrick Jaxn types helped create these types. We all saw how that worked out in real life.

[@mrjjthor]

Problem with Derrick is he was capitalizing on women's insecurities. However, he's the exact same man that he was putting down in his vids. Lol.

[@lillith77]

Yeah, and look at what happened to Mr. Jaxn

[@lupethejerk]

But he’s actually helping women with the TRUTH

[@christinevillanueva54]

Lol

[@JohnSmithNYC]

As a single Black-Man, in NYC, with no children. I can also testify that I have never dated a woman who could cook better than me. 2 that knew the basics. Neither of them was Black.

[@jamaalhardiman3635]

Women see cooking for a man as a down grade or a negative thing. Smh

[@MaJeSTiCz0]

@@jamaalhardiman3635 That's sad

[@Yesssssir29]

Facts

[@TheRealTact]

🤦🏽‍♂️ but our grandmas and shit know how to cook this good ass thanksgiving food and these young tots can’t do shit.

[@SGGCREATIVES]

I just commented the same thing! Same case as you. Not a chef. But I am yet to find one who can cook as much as do.

[@SirDistic]

Kevin spits facts. He's not wrong, he's not disrespecting women, he's not talking down to them. He's trying to help both men and women. Trying to educate both of them. Look at human history, men have always been hunters/providers, women have been caretakers. A submissive woman will make a man happy, a pushy, bossy, pain in the ass woman will make a man unhappy. If a woman's man is unhappy she is unhappy. If he's content, because she's doing what she needs to do, she is happy as well.

[@Evanito4]

This was a great conversation, Kevin. She was very mature and respectful, as well as receptive to your advice through experience. You obviously liked her too. I noticed how relaxed you were and how you enjoyed making her laugh. She is lovely and you both seemed to get along effortlessly. These are my favorite videos.

[@monae1852]

Yes, I noticed the same!

[@shanedpain7734]

Mature? She's 34 and pretends to not know that money is power. Wants 3 children lol This chick is as stupid as a bag of rocks...

[@pbennett13]

she may not get the fantasy she wants but I do hope she finds marriage snd happiness on her level. She’s good for someone and someone would be good for her

[@abupasha9967]

@@shanedpain7734 Unfortunately most women believe in the fairy-tale of finding Mr Right. They shown so many RomCom movies that the fictional movies become aspirational. I was with a woman who believed in the movies and when our life failed to live up to that seen in the movies, she got bored. She was so intent on making life exciting that she would break up and get back together just for the fun of it. She enjoyed the chaos....but I digress. The difference between this woman and the other women we see interviewed is that she is respectful. She knows how to carry a conversation. These are very important skills that many women do not possess. Unfortunately, age is against her, but I have no doubt that as long she lowers her expectations, she will find a respectful man who will respect her.

[@atstafford10]

It seems as if she would be a good catch for a good man of means. And, Kevin is enjoying himself.

[@JWC24.7]

I like her! She’s well spoken, pleasant, and seems to be a nice woman. I hope it works out for her! 🧬🥂 ✅

[@treveonsmith7829]

Kevin thought she was cool too. That's why he gave her the whole life game at the end

[@yojerico5856]

Well she seems like a woman that a man can work with I will say that and definitely one of the few pleasant sisters that Kevin has had to deal with on his show.

[@abupasha9967]

Agreed. She is a nice woman...someone you can spend your evenings and weekends with, outside of work and enjoy your time together. There won't be big arguments or crazy demands with this one. Some of the other "sisters" we see in these interviews are so obnoxious, that they would turn off any decent men.

[@TheKING-il3dx]

What?? Did you hear her say she would not submissive n loyal to someone earning 45k. But only to a higher earner. She's dumb n and dishonest. If you are truly loyal n submissive someone's pay bracket does not matter.

[@KeyvonTruth]

Yeah but she past 30 and still is single. So don’t let that fool you. She’s the PROBLEM

[@pepper3732]

I thank God for my wife I marry my wife at 19 and we've been together for twenty something years

[@aziz-kashifmustafaaii5101]

Good for You both.

[@sirenenoire4091]

Sweet.

[@AllByDesign4]

Dude never rest easy. At any time you could be slaughtered. They are getting the level up info from their beehive. You’ve been warned.

[@metropolitanmobilemechanic2244]

CONGRATULATIONS! Keep up the good work!

[@metropolitanmobilemechanic2244]

@@AllByDesign4 For real. Keep her away from the independent, ratchet, single women. They have nothing in common.

[@decaygrim8943]

Kevin your show has taught me so much about life and our society as a whole. i really appreciate you man. you turned on a light bulb in my head that i was never expecting to turn on.

[@adamvalerino6474]

My grandparents got married at 18 and 17 and they've been married for 62 years.

[@grindhard4312]

So did my grandparents. My grandfather was 18 or 19 and my grandmother was 17. They were married 50+ yrs until my grandfather died in '00. My grandmother passed away this year.

[@benreilly5951]

"it should be very simple. You go from your father's house to your husband's house. That's perfect."

[@reddsmoke904]

This the calmest ive seen Kevin so far.

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

Because that women wasn’t rude

[@kgrunenwald]

Marriage is about commitment. Love is not butterflies, it's comfort, responsibility and being thoughtful of your spouse. And that comes in time together. Working over the rough spots

[@brightemerald3924]

That’s so true.

[@Leroy175]

Kevin is giving women a wealth of good information. Just hope they pay heed.

[@diegomagellan]

@Adam A. fewer men to many women. Supply and demand

[@Leroy175]

@Onion Potato , he sure is !

[@Madness1299]

There's some things that no woman is capable of stopping, like 304-ing, accepting reality, accepting responsibility, out of control emotions, self-created confusion, evil streaks, laziness, attraction to raw/rugged men, addiction to money, arrogance, opening their mouths, etc. - but they can make minor improvements to some of those things for a period of time, with a little male help.

[@cakefete2]

Yall see how quick she gave Kevin her measurements? He didn't even ask before she spit it out. Usually, women act like they don't hear the question, she knows she's fit, and didn't even wait for him to ask.

[@Enscriptiv]

Did you see the girl who "couldn't" send her insta profile to kevin to give her a rating and then stalled till he hung up lol.

[@TheKING-il3dx]

That's not the point for relationship survival

[@blackmatt78]

Kevin- Dress 👗 size? Woman- huh? Excuse me? 😂

[@markesblack]

Yeah. It is a perfect example. When they are in shape it is simple. But most of the women turn deaf or slow when they are asked about their measurements.

[@annabellawr]

Kevin LITERALLY laid everything out for her so clearly. When he asked “what experience do you need from the outside world to be a better wife?” .... she said “just living” ..... 😑

[@tshaolin971]

She is highly confused.

[@blackthanos914]

Anna R. You are gorgeous

[@pbennett13]

she came in with wrong mindset but he gave her a lot to chew on… I hope she can change… but her GFs may pull her back

[@draco2xx]

@@blackthanos914 she ight stop gassing up these women heads. dont know what to believe these days with these face editing technology

[@blackthanos914]

@@draco2xx 🤣🤣🤣 You have a valid point lol

[@JDM98Ferio]

She actually seemed to take the advice well and even seemed to learn something! She seems like a nice woman who needed some guidance. Good job Kevin!

[@pbennett13]

I’m rooting for her.. not the fantasy, but I do hope she finds a mate she can love and be loved

[@JDM98Ferio]

@@pbennett13 amen brother!

[@blurtling]

she was a fantastic guest

[@dre22]

Conversations are pleasant when women listen, are cooperative and don’t take it personal as was the case here. So credit to this lady.

[@TheKING-il3dx]

She's slow. Not a logical thinker.

[@victormuhammad1393]

She was respectful but still fixated on the cheating mindset. 34 with no children usually dictates selfishness and job driven

[@hardbodyfitnessandmotivati6743]

Kevin is playing a Jedi Mind trick on these women whether intentional or not. But since so many woman want High Value Man or what they think a HVM and over look the average guy, he's letting them know what they may have to deal with when you deal with these type of men. His leading them right down the road and revealing their delusion. It's fucking genius.

[@footballcoach3862]

I wasn't understanding too at first, until I finally figured it out, he is definitively using reverse physiology on this women, and they have no clue..

[@hardbodyfitnessandmotivati6743]

@Status DMG Well stated. These people watch the "average at best" clip and now Kevin is the worst thing since Harvey Weinstien. They say hit dogs holler and his critics have been hollering like mfer.

[@maverickrahming531]

Yes EXACTLY also Kevin is revealing the ugly side of HVM which is exercising their options (cheating) This is definitely making a huge impact and making women want to reconsider dealing with an average guy over a HVM. Women and men can never be equals it goes against biology.

[@ejrgames9314]

@@ShaunHensley wdum? bear with me I’m quite young

[@TheDCGuitar13]

Fellas. When a woman says “so you’re saying” end the conversation. Just end it. I promise you 100 out of 100 times, the conversation will circle for hours til she finds something youre mildly wrong about that has no significance to the argument but makes her feel Better.

[@richardkm5355]

Real talk

[@Grambling88]

TheDCGuitar13....agreed or the old classic 'I feel'

[@adulttalks3348]

Agreed

[@anthonyrobinson7072]

“I just feel like” said every woman ever!🤦🏾‍♂️ Absolutely ignoring reality.

[@areacharlottejukebox]

I like her....she seems lovely. She actually seems like a person who would be a valuable wife. She just needs to adjust what/who she's looking for and she'll be happy. Good luck sweetheart. I hope you do actually find someone.

[@fluffingfluff]

Exactly right brother her attitude and personality are so wonderful and just like you, I hope she will find her man soon.

[@fevrenevanescence6901]

I never see women say that about nice men🤔

[@fevrenevanescence6901]

She's not that sweet, remember she turned down 3 engagements because she didn't find them valuable enough, meanwhile she drained their resources while she was with them.

[@coldhardtruth333]

@@fevrenevanescence6901 These guys still don’t get it ..

[@thebridge5483]

She can’t go against her nature despite common sense

[@jayalexferg]

Her femininity added 1.5 to 2 points to her overall beauty

[@ugaais]

OK so a 3 then…

[@beelaparish]

Yes because she isn’t cute

[@nbonthegrind]

She wore it like a champ and The Godfather broke it down to the bone gristle. I think she official for being honest and taking good advice and admitting her faults while acknowledging the things she didn’t know.

[@anniea8039]

I have been married 21 (married at 24) years to a wonderful man...my highschool sweetheart 💕. 3 kids , still happily married. We have been watching your videos, you are doing so much for the black community....keep it up!!! I have to say this is one of your best 👌🏾 I will be sending this video to my nieces, all in their twenties ranging from 23 -29 none married.

[@xguy9999]

My wife married me when she was 22, I was 26. We've been happily married for over 16 years.

[@theMister07]

Salute!

[@crimsonite1524]

that sounds beautiful. we are in the only period in history when 22yr olds think they are too young for commitment to a decent man

[@ameliagray1618]

@@crimsonite1524 It's not about youth, it's about being ready.

[@tessy28]

@@crimsonite1524 it's about being emotionally and mentally ready for a life long commitment not about how old you are.

[@crimsonite1524]

@@tessy28 and this channel has shown that women in this generation for the most part never get there, even middle aged women. theres really not much to be ready for, the duties are obvious. the problem is that liberalism, collectivism, feminism and careerism has diverted peoples desires, and the vast majority of them will never recover, though they may chant self awareness mantras, they are just running still on their mental treadmill. if someone is not ready in their 20s theyll never be ready because they will never catch up with father time, so i disagree, its about being emotionally and mentally ready at the right time, which should be youth.

[@doks1423]

Bravo!! This was like a Master class. I wish all the women who hate on this brother would take note of conversations like this. It's the way a caring father should school their daughter(s).

[@DJE360WORLD]

The grass is greener on the other side syndrome. I know many ladies with many proposals they turned down and still waiting for a new one to come. Optical illusion at it's finest.

[@DanFreeman723]

A mirage in the desert...

[@jpatt85]

...And somehow they think getting proposals from UNWANTED men holds weight or value. If someone offered me $50k for a home that's worth $300k I wouldn't strut around proudly saying "I got 3 offers for my home."

[@stopcensorship7365]

This helps regular men appreciate their value with their regular income. Men are a prize. 🏆

[@brightemerald3924]

They are when they prove themselves as responsible men. I was fortunate to marry a good responsible man. Still married and raised two grown children who are very successful in their own right. My husband never made over 60k in our marriage but money was never a problem. Provided well for a family of four. I am so Grateful to him for all his sacrifices. The best man ever.

[@allenmenefield4560]

He’s truly undefeated. Being appalled by a man making the 1% not committing but a man making 40k that would commit she couldn’t.

[@u-n-isurvive3030]

Hypergamy is in women's nature, but back in the day black folks would get married in their early 20s before they had anything. Kevin's point that women wait too late is really important because the more a woman earns as she ages, the higher her standard for a mate will be. Eventually she will price herself out of the dating market because she's too old to meet the standards of the men she's going after (who are looking for healthy child bearing women in their 20s).

[@JamalW239]

The issue with that is that if they start to out earn their husband, they will become unsatisfied with him and get a divorce. Women becoming financially independent was a net positive but combined with their hypergamous nature it has hindered many from getting relationships

[@dontpanicitsorganic88]

Back then, everyone won, now everyone has traded stability and boredom for short term flings and hedonism. We did this to ourselves, this is the good news too because we can undo it as well. It's going to take time, but I like the look of cognitive dissonance people get when Kevin breaks it down.

[@J2dADispora]

I'm 41, wouldn't consider myself 'High Value'. Yet and still, I find myself actively avoiding desparate women. In my 20's, I chased women relentlessly. In my 40's, I have to avoid eye contact, keep conversations short and think of excuses to hurry myself along. Ive had women approach me out jogging, shopping, at the gym, out eating with family. Some of them as young as 28..

[@Templar451]

Keep dodging brother.

[@big_t_dynasty]

I really enjoyed the pleasant conversation between the 2 of them. Kevin chuckling and making jokes is kinda cool.

[@robsawyer8034]

Most are the same: college, ride the carousel, job, ride the carousel, ride a little more and then once older they look for a man to take care of them. Simply put they want to ride and not pay later.

[@Darealist5629]

💯

[@ignaciotorres2850]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@mackmittenz01]

I'm getting taxi 🚕 vibes

[@Dopeee3]

im 22 and these conversations are DEFINETLY meant for us

[@HolisticDramaFree]

Right?

[@michaelamitchell1603]

Girl me too, I’m 22 & I just took like notes in my notebook lol. I don’t wanna be single 😂

[@ojalara3937]

Yea take notes. The older men get. Te more money we make and the easier it is to get women. We don’t want these older damaged bitter women. We can get younger women basically any time

[@kuraido6370]

In Japan they call a woman who hasn't married by 25 "Christmas Cake", because after the 25th you get the leftovers.

[@joethekinghawk7514]

Wow..

[@andreaa.1393]

😂

[@stingtopoison5864]

They what 😆 im start saying that to black women

[@cjmarsh504]

Sheng Nu

[@retrome4194]

The same for men

[@ozwsda430]

this is one his best sessions where he presents his points, she is somewhat realistic, receptive and cooperative engaging in conversation.

[@toomuchwolves]

Her: So you think money has power Also her: *deliberately says she won't be submissive etc to a Man making 40k a year Me: 🥴🤦🏿‍♂️ Sad part is this is how the average BW thinks nowadays

[@antoniotula262]

Amazing how she was so shocked when Kevin was saying cheating is what HVM do, yet her response to how she would treat a man making avg salary was priceless. Huge disconnect. She expects to crap on avg guy but she can't rationalize HVM doing same to her?!💀

[@aziz-kashifmustafaaii5101]

Exactly 💯

[@IaintTrynaGoOutLikeBIGnPAC]

They also be the same BW that calls themselves Kweens but they ain't married. How are you a Kween with no husband not even a boyfriend? They calling themselves single couples 🤣

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

Women in their teens: "Yay feminism" Women in their 20's: "I'm a strong, independent woman. I don't need a man" Women in their 30's: "Where have all the good men gone?" Women in their 40's: Single, lonely and surrounded by 10 cats

[@joethekinghawk7514]

Boom boom boom...

[@aaronnobles541]

50's: "AMEN PASTOR IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST I PRAY"

[@mangekoo3682]

Pretty much

[@mauricemartin2982]

Ten cats equals one panther

[@stingtopoison5864]

O shyt 😆

[@HassanPoyo]

This is the first time I disagree with Kevin. If she satisfies me, makes good food, cleans, is submissive and doesn’t cause problems/gives me headaches and stands by me as I build up my value, then she has my loyalty.

[@johnthompkins9593]

Ok that is you, but once you've built that $ up keep the same energy.

[@shakatucker7060]

Word lol

[@KNEWERAADVERTISING]

He seems to be playing devil's advocate, interpret what he is saying in the right context

[@aziz-kashifmustafaaii5101]

You don't have to disagree, just understand the options that a HVM has. Most men that I come in contact with just want one good cooperative and fit woman to make a family and share life with. Men usually step out from their relationship as a stress reliever, greed or just vanity. If he is working and on his purpose, he doesn't have time for such activities. I pray he has a woman who would give him the kind of peace that makes a man comes home for love...We still loves one wife. I am not saying it's right, because it's best to be with just one good woman, in any case, but men of high means always have options. Peace

[@jasmine_daville]

You can be loyal to Your family which could consist of more than One female.

[@larrywmedford6587]

She says that 22 is immature. When I was 22, I was an infantry squad leader in Vietnam. I helped carry a wounded man. I helped carry a dead man. Two times a man beside me was shot. I was responsible for men's lives. Convince me that men and women are the same. Convince me that men and women are exactly equal. Audie Murphy was awarded the Medal of Honor when he was 21. You can see him on KZbin. Look him up.

[@johannesswillery7855]

Your example explains why a 22 year old woman is immature. They don't have to face life the way you did. Thank you for your service.