Is The Problem Lack of Black Men Providers or Too Many Black Women Gold Diggers? ©

[@byKevinSamuels]

CIA men (Confident Intelligent Assertive) are driven competitive men by nature. And, wiith a 100% mindset men are always in great position and no amount of gold digging is a problem. What's your biggest takeaway from this broadcast?

[@elonjoanwilliams614]

Kevin Samuels biggest take away would have to be a gold digger’s hypergamous nature shouldn’t be higher than your ambition.

[@bradleyjohnson8076]

Brother Kevin whats the name of the last song before you started your stream? Nice song to ride to.

[@klevdavful]

Biggest takeaway is that a lot of men had no clue show the whole concept being a normal thing even from childhood. And if you have single parent households it's definitely not going to be taught that women even from little girls behave in such a way. This is the way women are and Kevin really drove home the point of me and having value and you should not have a problem with gold diggers if you are a high-value man at the same time you should know how to deal with them as a high-value man. The other driving point is that men Who don't have any gold to dig you can't even say that she's a gold-digger because she's not digging in your mine because you have not produced it. So it's natural for women to flop around a man with money especially the man who just came into a bunch of money that's a natural thing just look at the sports athletes all of a sudden when they get that contract they have more women than they could ever dream of.

[@smitty5362]

I am a 26 year old man and I appreciate your channel. It’s good to hear this from someone who has been doing it before me

[@marcstsurin]

Hello, brother Kevin. "No amount of gold digging is a problem." ?? Then how do you identify when you're being taken advantage of? P.s. I appreciate your show.

[@elonjoanwilliams614]

The way Kevin is able to psychoanalyze people within a few minutes and call out their bs is a great ability and skill to have.

[@MisterOldSkoolRyder]

Also being the sales field from years past that we hear everything and break it down in mins.

[@billymaepa4576]

He's good HES VERY GOOD

[@jdub2802]

Comes with experience. He's been at it a while.

[@darrenhogue6031]

@@MisterOldSkoolRyder Spot on. I’m 23 and have been in sales since I was 18. The ability to ask questions and read people within 7 seconds based on their body language, tonality, and environment is a skill second to none.

[@andiep3854]

well he is CIA

[@devonlesesne2916]

I’m not a rich man, but I’m confused as to why people aren’t understanding this. When you tread in certain waters you have to understand what comes with that depth. Being a provider is a baseline whether you’re rich or not. Like he said if you want a certain type of woman, it comes with certain expenses. Some men can’t afford certain women and vice versa, it’s okay that people are out your league. He saying if you want that then come ready to play ball.

[@jaybae7315]

Facts!!!

[@TR-gg5er]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@iambreetv6824]

🙌🏽

[@mikeandmars2345]

Factss

[@mikeandmars2345]

Right bro what ever u want in life women cars house whatever u have to be ready to dig deep in your pockets to get what u want

[@a.town.2053]

I have no problem providing provision to a woman, as long as there is an equal exchange. The issue is, too many women want provision and have nothing to offer in return for that

[@vanaphill2454]

What would you like a woman to offer you in exchange for your provision?

[@godlovescouture8605]

There will never be an equal exchange. I get the bottom line, but I also think leadership requires a man to sacrifice to a degree. Yes, you get the big piece of chicken, but you also are the first to head out for the day.

[@STeroidsnicca]

Exactly why pay your hard earned money for no reason.

[@mak28busted]

@@larissaluxe4303 well said!

[@Bread_n_Butter.]

RayS2able And take trips

[@Hotep36]

It would be constructive to encourage black men to become Global! Black women are in South America, Canada, Africa etc. Blackmen must exercise their options Globally.

[@LadyPinkster]

BLACK TRUTH yup I agree and tbh, I believe everyone should at least attempt to try it out. Even black women.

[@midatlantic09]

+BLACK TRUTH I agree 100%. However, that's somewhat difficult to do unless a man has a way of making consistent money online or passively via something like real estate rentals, a pension, etc.

[@midatlantic09]

@Nikki B. In all fairness, probably the vast majority of women only want men for what they can provide, so saying "they don't want you, they want your money", in reference to women from other countries, applies to nearly all women worldwide. Let a man worth $20 million lose everything a month later and let's see who's still by his side by next year. I'm willing to bet that any woman he was involved with will be long gone.

[@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993]

@@chrischreative2245 you about to learn a hard lesson

[@ASSASSYN]

And those women are freaking beautiful. I dated outside of my nation with a black woman who was from Cameroon. It didn't work out. The cultural differences were too great. She had all these strange rules and my French was not sufficient to comprehend what she was trying to say.

[@JesseVealIII]

I have no problem with gold diggers PERSONALLY, but I understand that they can definitely slow down a man who isn’t rich yet and trying to build wealth. Also, let’s distinguish between a gold digger and a woman looking for a man who can provide. Providing means essentials and necessities. Gold diggers are out to get everything they possibly can. Low maitenance vs high maintenance.

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

@@larissaluxe4303 Sure they do, ever been to a college basketball/football game? Plenty of gold digging groupie hoes all over these broke ass players. I was an RA in college for a dorm with several players. They had chicks in and out of their dorms every night. Oh and trust me NON of them were rich, and all were broke ass poor college students lol.

[@blacmac7394]

@@scream1237 These niggas don't understand the difference between gold diggers and groupies.

[@Timoteo4]

@@TURBOBEATZZZ The ones chasing the athletes are trying to get in on the ground floor in case they have pro potential. Some of those guys are going to become instant millionaires. They're trying to be the one with him in the green room on draft night.

[@crooked52h]

Looking for someone to provide for you while you in turn provide no value...... equals gold digger PERIOD

[@mrcummings2339]

Mariah Carey spent 40 million dollars of her billionaire fiance's money in 4 months - he bid her adieu - I don't think some women appreciate how being wealthy doesn't mean you buy everything in sight.

[@harlem4653]

"Competitive men don't complain..they get better"🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@WealthyFirefighter]

From my perspective I think many men didn’t catch the other half of Kevin’s argument. The point I think Kevin really wanted to express was that a woman’s gold digging shouldn’t surpass a man’s ambition. I think his argument went off track when he defended gold digging culture which can’t be defended logically. Kevin’s own skillfully dismantling of the gold digger caller kind of proved the point Ace Metaphor and Jessica X were making about gold digging not being okay behavior.

[@byKevinSamuels]

If you notice she said she's having a problem finding a HENRY. That's in large part because these men are not the stupid dumbs marks the world has lead many women to believe they are.

[@makedafindlay9398]

@@byKevinSamuels 😂😂😂😉🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

[@juniorleslie4804]

@@byKevinSamuels He wants to be loved as a woman. Not to be a man loving a woman.

[@vanderumd11]

@@juniorleslie4804 he might love men

[@JesseVealIII]

The misconception is that you have to be “RICH” for a woman to be a gold digger. And that’s simply not true. All you have to have is more than the woman in question. If she only makes $15-20k a year a man making $40k-$60k Is STILL making 2-4x more than her and can drastically improve her lifestyle. Also, just because a brother isn’t rich doesn’t mean he should not be worried about being taken advantage of. Hell, the less money you have the more you’re usually gonna be on guard because a higher percentage of your income is going towards your essentials.

[@501Caution]

Brother! You made a wonderful point! I've been trying to understand Kev point. Black people only make up 1.7% of the US wealth. Where are all these so called Wealthy Black people at. Not Rich black people Wealthy! There's a major difference between the two. And why would he tell men especially well to do brothers to get married & he's not?👀👀

[@infinitymfg5397]

I've been saying this for years. The whole idea that a gold digger is only something that comes on the scene at a particular tax bracket is bunk. There are school teachers getting leached off of by women on section-8.

[@vanderumd11]

@@501Caution the good brother has been married twice. There is power that comes from a unity with children. It's an investment

[@501Caution]

@@vanderumd11 It's a wonderful investment when you're under the same roof with your kids!

[@501Caution]

@Nikki B. Black people as a whole don't have it like that. That's why I'm confused about this Image we have to put on to receive validation from other cultures as if we made it or we're better then the next. To me image is for Actors. Your true spiritual self is reality! But all this is about to come to an end anyways. In July 54% job cuts. People making 6 figures plus are going to feel this epidemic.

[@brandonsealey4511]

Kevin on point here. That dude talking about wanted to be loved and hugged was full of feminine energy. This is part of the problem with all of these boys being raised by single mothers. This is the result. Cringe inducing. Women hang around the finish line and wait for the winners. They have no time for this crybaby shit. Hypergamy doesn’t care about your problems or need to be hugged. Women want men who build create and are self starters, not begging for treats and belly scratches. Smdh.

[@dequanboone3270]

I understand what you saying but it is sometimes when I work my ass off and just want to chill with my girl and TV but I'm going to be doing everyday nor week

[@bigtex8991]

I disagree with you here my man. I work 60-80 hours a week and at the end of the day I like to be laid up with my wife. I don’t know how that feminine but to each his own I guess.

[@peewee3030]

And those are the single women🤷💯

[@peewee3030]

@The Gentrified Gentleman facts

[@cool_cat007smoove3]

Fo Reels

[@kingram8905]

"You cannot want the outcomes without the expected inputs", excellent! Too many men want the Championship ring but have mediocre goals and hearts that pump Koolaid.

[@terencethomas6452]

Mediocre goals are better none at all , some guys 👦 have no ambition whatsoever

[@jum0n3y]

In the words of Chris rock men are only loved under the conditions he provide

[@ravinglibertopian3226]

Which isn't love at all. This is the problem. If men and boys were just told the truth about the differences of men and women from the get go ; then we wouldn't be needing to have these sad, dampening and often soul crushing conversations now. The reason you see these kinds of men popping up all over the place now(not just black men) ; and not so much in previous generations is because their parents, teachers, professors, politicians and counselors lied to them their entire lives about how women actually operate. The unspoken truth that even Kevin probably won't dare to speak..... is that women don't love men, nor do they care about them ; and they never ever did. Once a man embraces this understanding for what it is.... he's both liberated and cursed. A wise man once said "you can either love women or understand them, but ya can't do both".

[@ravinglibertopian3226]

@Sabonis 3001 I think somewhere deep down ; even Kevin knows this. This is one of the many ultimate black pills. As a man.... no matter how successful you are, no matter how high status you are, no matter how much you provide, protect, nourish, shelter, etc ; it will never be good enough to satisfy her seemingly endless reign of hypergamy. It's really a damned if ya do ; and a damned if ya don't type of thing. You can either play the game(if your lucky enough to have a winning lottery ticket in the department of physical features and attributes) and always have to quote unquote "game" her just to keep her around or your excluded from the mating and dating scene altogether(losing genetic lottery ticket) ; and in some cases you just walk away from the scene altogether and go do your own thing(hobbies, careers and other passions and ambitions). It really is starting to turn into the have's and the have not's ; and not just with regards to the dating and mating market ; but for almost everything else as well(decent livable wages, retirement savings, social mobility and capital, marriage prospects, having a family, wealth accumulation, buying and owning a house, etc.). There's definitely a big disconnect in life perception and experiences between older and younger generations of men.

[@chrisharris2367]

Same conditions as for women which is why America made laws to protect women Aka marriage laws!

[@AmbitiousPanda739]

OMG. This sugar baby caller. Watching this channel has made me VERY conscious of my communication skills. Emotional intelligence and communication is a survival skill. My heart stops when I hear the way callers over talk, speak over Kevin etc. I’m grateful because if I ever did that before I have stopped immediately. I listen way more than I speak now.

[@yourlittlesecret7575]

Me too! I get so nervous as if I was the one that cut him off or spoke over him!

[@nikkiallen9629]

I agree. I do not speak over people anymore. I changed quite a few things after watching his videos.

[@kenfolk1122]

A man shouldn't be looking for love anyway. Love is what a woman wants. You should be looking for respect if anything.

[@vanaphill2454]

Women only respect men who can provide.

[@politicallyincorrect1546]

@Roy_Thousand Not true, you can respect someone, but not love them. A person that truly loves you will give you their all.

[@politicallyincorrect1546]

What's wrong with wanting love? Having someone who truly loves you is a wonderful thing that everyone should want and have.

[@kenfolk1122]

@@politicallyincorrect1546 nothing wrong with it. But a man should be looking for respect well before love. A man needs respect and a woman needs love....biblical

[@mikeandmars2345]

My man if can 📌 this comment i would

[@leahveal5470]

The gold should be the reward of an amazing woman who is in a marriage for the right reasons. Actions speak louder than words.

[@obiflex]

Correct

[@tavareslowery8643]

From what I see, Kevin is attempting to hold MEN to a HIGHER standard by reminding us of the theoretical and practical world. Men should NOT be complaining about being providers. NO other race of men, complains about being providers..

[@MalevolentElephant]

True, although I believe the black community is in a unique position due to slavery and Jim Crow, of not having ties to generational wealth and inheritance, which is how wealth is built and therefore gives the true ability to provide. All most Black men have is JOBS (careers) but if they lose that then there is nothing, whereas when a white man or Asian man loses their jobs they still have ties to wealth

[@lonewolflinebacker3165]

I see the same thing bro.. BM don't have a ruler's mentality...

[@jbadams56]

Actually other races do. They started MGTOW.

[@guyc1479]

@@jbadams56 💀

[@AB-vb4sv]

Provisions are fine but what are men paying for is the problem. It makes zero since for a man, even making average money, to take on a family of somebody else. I get the world is not fair but men need to mitigate that by assessing their pursuits. It also makes no sense for a woman to have multiple kids as well as age poorly to expect a man to come take care of her. Sorry, I’ll never agree with that and will die alone if needed. If I am to provide , it will be for younger women.

[@zak6093]

No way I'm paying for what others got for free.

[@AB-vb4sv]

Exactly

[@lisa3341]

if you reallly want it and you dont get it for free you will pay

[@AB-vb4sv]

@@lisa3341 that’s the point, we can get the same thing t a younger and cheaper rate.

[@peewee3030]

Exactly

[@peewee3030]

@@lisa3341 pay for what? Some used ass? Sorry, we good

[@Dbo_Sports]

What Ace doesn’t understand is that the woman wasn’t put here to love you. She was put here to respect you and to submit to your will. The Lord created us to love our wives, generally, women are not capable of that long term. Men were created to be self sufficient... natural builders. We have to be practical, not emotional.

[@skatermom8259]

Yes you hit it on the head. 👏🏽 When my husband and I were having some issues, he said he needed to feel respected. On the other side I needed to feel loved. It took time but we worked it out, we did therapy, and started going to church together and now we “get it”. Men need respect, women need love. It’s really simple, but we aren’t taught this!

[@SinzuSage]

All women can't be gold diggers. All men can't have gold. They don't have to. Those who want to put in the work will be better versions of themselves. Even if you on the bottom you can still grow. We gotta start where we are.

[@ilikepancakes2368]

But you need to build what’s necessary for yourself, not for a woman. Building yourself just to impress a woman is the same as simping.

[@kevindunlap5525]

@@ilikepancakes2368 But he's a "Sage" lol.

[@tp84816]

I think that Kevin touched on some mental blocks that successful men avoid. In order to be successful you can't diminish your role as a provider/ man by vocalizing in the manner the young man in the video did. The young man's feelings are valid but the manner in which he expressed them presents a barrier to success. Same thing about the gold digger stuff. Being angry about gold diggers more than you focus on your ambition and ability to only draw to you what you desire is not the mindset of a man who is successful. I appreciate the insight.

[@IkeOg]

100

[@innerpowerup]

This is what happens when men were asked to get in touch with his feminine side,he comes off as feminine and women don't respect that even though they asked for it.

[@AB-vb4sv]

Men’s emotions never matter and they never will. I have zero issue providing but if I’m the sole breadwinner, I refuse to date someone my age.

[@AJ-zv9tn]

damn you got a phd?

[@cool_cat007smoove3]

Absolutely Correct..

[@IDontKnowAnything1313]

“ Your hypergamy will never touch my ambitions “, that was beautifully said Mr. Samuels.

[@nicklausb]

Are you joking ?! Don't be offended, please.......this is NOT meant as an attack.......are you really telling me that a greedy person cannot desire (dream up wants) at a faster pace than a productive person can produce?????????? ????????????? One takes hard work, ingenuity, good fortune, and the corporation of others while the other takes only a greedy & selfish mind!!!!

[@IDontKnowAnything1313]

@YusafBryant can you explain your comment to me as if I was a 1st grader please, I’m not that smart and I’m usually slow to comprehend things, thank you

[@nicklausb]

@@IDontKnowAnything1313 K.S. said "your hypergamy will never touch my ambitious" , meaning (I suppose) that his (or a very productive HVM's) productivity (the amount of $ he makes) will always be greater than the amount of $ that a woman can spend. I could have interpreted his statement incorrectly........if so, please advise. I don't believe that to be accurate in real life. It's just too easy for a woman to want more and more increasingly expensive luxuries if she goes unchecked. Manufacturers make products and prices for those who want to spend more $ than the next guy. I can buy a toothbrush for 50 cents and you could spend $700 if you had it like that.... probably even much more! What about clothes, vehicles, properties?! Services, experiences, privilege & power?! The more you make, the more they spend to get you (& yours......her) to spend it with them.......... They get paid to make sure she knows what you need to buy for her, next.....& next.......& next

[@nicklausb]

@@IDontKnowAnything1313 this statement reminds me of one of my father's business partners..... He took a van in to an automotive shop for repairs and luxury upgrades and his departing words to the shop owner were "take care of everything & make it nice.... $'s no object" He soon regretted those words. To say the bill was exorbitant would be an understatement! He had to leave it at the shop for nearly a year before paying it off and collecting the vehicle! Yeah......$$$ doesn't grow on trees Lol

[@IDontKnowAnything1313]

@YusufBryant I see now I understand, thank you for taking time out of your day to explain yourself to me. What you’ve said is understandable and logic, it’s just that I think what Mr. Kevin was trying to imply was that, even if you were in a situation where the woman “ finessed you “ so to say, you should be resilient take it on the chin, charge it to the game and keep moving forward. Basically being a forward thinker. By all means I wasn’t saying let yourself get dicked around by a woman lol. Everything you’ve stated I totally agree with sir, that gold diggers mentally is disgusting to me personally but when you reach a certain level of financial freedom those type of people appear rather frequently (men/women). So I think he was trying to say you should expect that from women, not saying it’s right but I think we both agree that being hypergamous is woman’s nature to a degree

[@DeeboX-vv8ji]

Yes, I do. Because his sensitivity isn't a weakness, it's a strength! He's unafraid of what you think of him, it doesn't make him less of a provider, it makes him self aware. I'm a fucking soldier, but i Need for my woman to be my sounding board my rock, because the world doesn't care about my problems, but my woman should.

[@maxxfatal]

I have absolutely no problem being the provider, but if that's all she wants from me I'll pass.

[@SnickerbarConsciousness]

Absolutely bro cause that’s what most of these so-called sisters want is to use black men.

[@jaybae7315]

Eventhough I get that men have emotional needs as well as needed compassion, I feel like ACE Metaphor should've addressed these issues with a therapist in private.

[@nicklausb]

A decent women with hypergamy and a gold digger are 2 drastically different things. Even if you aren't lazy, why the heck would you want to have something TAKEN from you!

[@uberlupe1]

Yeah, I don't understand how he seems to miss this point.

[@thuroB30]

Yusuf Bryant, it’s really quite pathetic. Smh

[@Philosific]

I love Kevin and totally agree with most of what he said. But i agree with the sentiment of ace, tho not the delivery. I think context is needed. The average 27 yo female these days cant cook a proper meal nor keep a home. In the same breathe they want to be provided for, while at the same time be able to live the feminist lifestyle. What you find is they want to be treat with old value but not in old dynamics. They want to be treated like a lady with dominant masculine energy and compete with the man. As Jessica said, ive found majority of young men are refusing this. I dont think its a matter of them not being able to provide, i think its a matter of them not believing they should. Millennial women arent about traditional roles. I spoke to a young lady. She in her mid 20s. She expects to be a housewife with 3 kids and her husband must provide. She believes her husband must take her as she is, she wont be working out. She cant cook or clean, and wont be learning. She said her husband can do the cooking and if he wants hire someone to clean but she wont do it. The only thing she will be doing is taking care of the kids and doing what she wants. She is a 5 in the face. This is delusional. But this is the average idea of marriage for the millennial woman. Why would any man want to provide for this as a wife and at the same time be expected to be monogamous?

[@vanaphill2454]

Lack of men who can.provide for a good women.. If a women can work for a boss she can submit to a provider.

[@vanaphill2454]

Women only know how to submit to a provider. it's difficult to find men to submit to Most of them don't have a plan or a goal.

[@ejtaylor27]

Who tf hurt you??? You sound lonely miserable and bitter Just admit Your best chance for a good man was lost years ago-- now you looking at who you turned down and saying dam to yourself

[@senecaureliuslocke9432]

Kevin is still a genius when it comes to most things but I can't rock with this. Proof that the sentiment "you can't agree with everything someone says"...

[@MrColdsweat]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@CourtneyWms901]

"He who has the gold, RULES!"

[@thelastdracolich1237]

But still if she dont love me broke how she gonna love me when i get something.

[@CourtneyWms901]

@@thelastdracolich1237 If you're broke why are you worried about woman loving you?

[@danielb2789]

@@CourtneyWms901 i mean... Dang! (head scratch 😐)

[@mikeandmars2345]

@@CourtneyWms901 facts to be real its men look more for respect anyways

[@brwhite85]

Damn I'm going to miss these shows!!!😭

[@meaningoflife7199]

Me too 😭

[@herbertlewis8442]

BGS talks about diesel women. He said, according to women who have worked in the profession...once they see the male essence, they can never unsee it. That caller set herself up from the moment she decided to live that lifestyle

[@R_W_Goodson]

And you have won the Comment of the Day. This is a very basic concept that all men should know. It explains why “you cannot turn a pr0stitute into a housewife”.

[@thuroB30]

DAMN! Kev lost me with his gold digger argument. I really hope men aren’t out here simply paying woman for affection (much less marrying them). It’s actually quite pathetic when you think about it. Ijs

[@msi8311]

There is a difference between a gold digger, and a strategic woman who wants the best life for her future children. One waits at the finish line and focuses on helping herself, the other completes the race alongside her husband, helping him however she can because his wins are hers and vise versa. However both want high achieving men, which isn’t necessarily fair but is how it is. Nearly all men wish they were with beautiful women, nearly all women wish they were with providing men. Not all men can provide and not all women hit a genetic lottery. It’s called a bell curve.

[@ericb7776]

@@msi8311 Kevin said none of that

[@tylindsey5213]

The things if you provide in a great way those choose a woman with 4 kids you have options

[@TopHat_VR828]

Seems some men are happy being a John. Tricking is still tricking. Regardless of high value or not

[@ilikepancakes2368]

You pay for a woman’s affection one way or another. There is a reason why one of the top 3 reasons for divorce are finances. If a man lost his job, get ready to receive the divorce papers.

[@patrinafrierson8310]

ThankYou, Mr.Samuels for the beautiful Legacy you left for each generation to glean from!!!

[@ebonymalone8371]

As a woman when you hear a man talk like ace metaphor, run he will leave you in a burning house and cry and say I tried to save my family. I need a man cry by your damn self and when you bring the meat home you can get all the hugs and feet rubs and love you want.

[@ebonymalone8371]

Amelia MacCarthy majority of black men are parent by black women and the small number of black men adopted by white women are small number,But cannot answer that for you I have a high rising sophomore already have university sending me letters for their stem maths and science programs cornel, Yale, Rice university And Brown so my black son doing well and my husband to. Are you raising a black son?

[@ebonymalone8371]

Lady please most of the black men 18yrs old still at home what are you talking about, please stop 🛑 you don’t know what you are talking about.

[@ebonymalone8371]

Amelia MacCarthy Good for you I’m so glad you found a good black man raised by a black mother! 👌🏾🤗🤗🤗

[@NegritaBrujita]

Ebony K more like the black female children are kicked out at 18 years old. The black men can live on their parents couch as long as they want. Disclaimer: This is my own observation.

[@vanderumd11]

@Amelia MacCarthy incarceration rates have more to do with the court system and racist driven judgments. Not that I advocate for any wrong doings but I've had coworkers caught with cocaine and are allowed to pour it out vs get arrested. That is just an obvious point to the perspective.

[@uberlupe1]

The British lady was spot-on.

[@531greyghost]

She has seen an lives with the destruction women have brought to Britain.

[@Jay2.0-]

The caller proved Jessica’s point lol

[@AllPraisesToTMH]

I agree sir. Freedom, responsibility and accountability are supposed to be a package deal.

[@davidjemison9480]

Jessica is right to some extent in that men do want to be appreciate Kevin. Love is important if I would never advise my daughters to marry without love. Bringing love to the table is being cooperative submissive appreciative being attractive

[@michaelsimmons3114]

Shout out to Jessica! She's a real one✊🏿

[@michaelsimmons3114]

@Marley Marley ok bruh.....

[@bhillboy37]

I like dudes point. Very few men want to have their value tied to what's in their wallet. The same way a woman their value tied to what's between their legs. And seriously, a woman's wants can easily outpace a man's ambition. That's why they have a hundred pairs of shoes and tons of clothes. Generally, a woman's want for "things" is infinite. You get a 200k house and they start finding faults in it to get a 500k house. You get that for them and they look for faults to get $1Million home. I've been there. We are beings not just a vehicle to a more and more luxurious lifestyle for some woman to just sit back and judge on whether we're doing it right.

[@printerganginvestments]

If i had 100,000,000$ dollars I still don’t got it to put a woman in a damn thing 😂😂😂

[@vanderumd11]

So sorry. May I ask you career path? I am more than happy to have my family financial ambition tied to my worth. What is the point of being the head of your home if you cannot take care of everything in it. Unless you are middle class, which is fine.

[@vanderumd11]

@@printerganginvestments the reason your lazy behind is behind.

[@printerganginvestments]

VanGough 28 yrs old net worth 100,000$ plus. Never would have saved that much money spoiling lazy women. I have studied finance and investments since I was 14 and the mindset that you describe here does not lead getting rich fast. If I make 10,000$ per month and pay all bills I save mabey 2000$ per month. Now if my spouse was pulling her weight I could save 5000$ per month buy amazon stock now we are rich 4 real in 5 - 10 years

[@printerganginvestments]

VanGough I am an investor day trader started as a delivery driver. Never made more than 1400$ per week at a job no degree. Still 6 figure + net worth. This bs here is the reason people don’t get rich. You need to invest as much of your income as you can after bills. Then you won’t be middle class 4 long. I want to be in the .01% beta males wanna make 400,000 per year and spoil a bitch then get surprised when nba players and rappers take their women. Focus on getting REAL MONEY don’t start a family with someone ignorant

[@SaniBravo]

10k a month (after tax)is the 2020 goal for me! I’m %60 there soon as I get home from vacation I gotta double up!

[@Faith_therian960]

You can do it!

[@SaniBravo]

Jae Angelica 🙏🏾✊🏾✅

[@MISTERO70]

Congratulations bro. I'm not there by a long shot but I'm trying to get into coding right now so I can too.

[@SaniBravo]

Roger Conner That’s s very promising field

[@IkeOg]

Get that shit son

[@elonjoanwilliams614]

And shout out to Jessica X for calling out those women. Only for that exact type of women to call in on the show 😂.

[@KOOLCOMEDY]

I noticed that too. The caller confirmed exactly what Jessica was saying. What Jessica was saying was not difficult to understand at all. And then the caller came. 😂

[@swpdisciple]

You have to look at the economics and history...then you can fill in what direction you want to go with things. In the 50’s (really before) women demanded to have the right to work. After WWII and then the Korean War, there were more opportunities for women to work in traditional male jobs. Also, with the rise of skyscrapers/offices this provided a more comfortable climate for women to work (ostensibly eliminating the male strength/stamina advantage in a practical sense). Over time, this basically doubled the labor supply. That means wages come down. That’s why, in general men and women have to work. Women make 74 cents on the man’s dollar. So, for every $37K/yr woman, her male equivalent is only making $50K. In the black community, it’s even closer at 83 cents on the man’s dollar. So, yes, men in general want to provide but what’s the economics (reality) of the situation? Basically women wanted to work to self actualize and attain freedom or whatever. I’m not even entirely against that. Just know that there are consequences and it’s kinda zero sum. Now that they’re in wage slavery like most of us, their way of passing blame is by saying men are losers and aren’t making enough...in the climate women demanded. I get spurring men on to have a kingdom or whatever you want to call it, mentality but at what point do reality and hard numbers come into play?

[@Faith_therian960]

What Kevin is saying is that you create your own reality and your own numbers. You have to figure it out. There’s a plethora of info on KZbin about real estate, investing, businesses, etc. You can do it! Please put forth the effort to change your life for the better. 😉

[@swpdisciple]

Jae Angelica I’m just saying it’s the reality women created really...if you read articles of the period, men didn’t really want women working for (perhaps) these reasons. Women working suppressed wages in general while at the same time artificially raising the bar of what makes a woman happy. It’s the proverbial rock and hard place. This is why the marriage rate is plummeting and more and more men are walking away from women. I do decent with women but I def see where guys are coming from. I make like 40% more than the arbitrary example I gave and still on occasion I get that “do better” energy from women.

[@NegritaBrujita]

What of the woman who never “fought” on the front lines and demanded to work alongside men? I was born into a society where traditional roles and marriage had already been redefined (1990s). Thankfully, I had examples within my family of what a traditional marriage should be. However, the men of my generation has, too, been reprogrammed to not see the value of marriage and legacy. The natural order is in disorder.

[@swpdisciple]

Sainte Touré it’s a mess. Women have more so they want more from men to “match” them. It’s the reason why the 80/20 rule is a thing.

[@endthefed1448]

Wage gap is a myth. A multivariate analysis of wages globally data proves that.

[@obiflex]

No matter how rich I become, I don't want to marry a gold digger who only wants my money, PERIOD! I don't want to end up like Jeff Bezos or Bill Gates. I will continue to provide for my loved ones for as long as they remain a part of my life

[@hegearl7584]

I would just like to say that your content is transformational to those who are honest and recognize the truth that is provided for free. I was always confused about the cognitive dissonance in the conversations I have had with women including my ex-wife. Your content revealed exactly the tactics being used by most women. Thank you for calling it out.

[@endshadow7066]

I did listen to that video from Ace metaphor am I analyzed what he was saying it what I took from his sentiment is he wasn't saying that he did not want to be a provider he was simply implying that he wanted to be appreciated because he was providing I personally feel that there's nothing wrong with wanting to be appreciated

[@AB-ze2ho]

I listened to it and understood his pov.

[@DIDDYTBABY]

A woman, if she maintain her husband, is full of anger, impudence, and much reproach. Ecclesiasticus 25:22 KJVA

[@maxhouse2409]

Don't hate the golddigger, understand her game!

[@junkieyard2109]

Exactly man this is deep

[@missphilosophie]

Thank you Kevin, for trying to help these men even though they can't see it. I joined your patreon not really for the content, but to contribute to low percentage of black men who are really trying to help black males be MEN because you are a man.

[@lisafoster3868]

Agreed

[@BlackNuance]

Kevin lost me with this conversation. I agreed on his opinion about the dude crying on the video.

[@josephmiller1518]

i agree to a extent.... families been around way before high value men and nice houses in a suburb.i think the definition of provide has been bastardized. if you got a roof over your head and food in your mouth then you are provided for. its really a dig to the majority of men in this society and across the world. a poor man or a rich man should be respected and valued. its nice to have the finer things in life but its not an obligation.

[@everyonedeservestogohome2949]

Facts. I am a stay at home wife and I assist my husband in making his one modest income work so that I can be home with our child. Who is 2 and can read and write name from my persistence. Has never been to a daycare before or after covid.

[@michaelhowze8198]

No they haven't there were definitely higher value men in a tribal setting. "Uggh is the best Fisher in the entire valley. Any woman who gets with him won't ever go hungry. Also Uggh is a smart dude for figuring out how to fish so efficiently. Hey let's makes Ughh the head of fishing in our tribe." The requirements changed but high value men have always been a thing heirachiery is natural.

[@monterospooner1612]

💯👌🏾

[@gohardorgohome]

Women dont respect broke men. No matter how hard they try to fake it.

[@stevenwasserman9729]

To answer your question: I'd have no problem having that man with me if I knew what he was capable of. Expressing the things he is to an intimate partner is one thing, how he acts on his job, and stands with others is different. If he cannot separate the two areas then, no.

[@jdread873]

I wouldn't take neither one of you on the battlefield!!

[@leadye8916]

😂 LoL. First time I seen a show where a woman complaining Kevin isn’t critiquing women enough.!

[@specom]

Actually Graham Stephan NEVER STOPS asking you to hit the like button.

[@amzngmo.e]

There is a huge difference between asking and demanding. Graham does not cut the show off, act like a b and play annoying sounds. Nor does he have stupid soundbites.

[@johncrouch1868]

A wise man stays on his own path in life.

[@lowtolerancelevel3776]

Even if he's on the wrong one, or lost?

[@johncrouch1868]

@@lowtolerancelevel3776 If he's lost he wouldn't be wise. Save your insults.

[@ObjectiveHate]

Hugs??? Love??? Gifts??? Paying for dinner out??? WTF was that, a female with a electronic device to make her voice sound like a dude's voice??? I wouldn't let that dude help me change a car's oil, to hell with a complete engine rebuild and chassis restoration. Gun range??? - wouldn't want that dude around in neither scenario, nor many others where building and defending is needed.

[@mkbanks73a]

The way the young man expressed should not be seen as weakness. How many of our black men are in prison, dead, on the street or homosexual because he couldn't or wasn't truly taught what it means to be a man. Society has taught us a poor representation of manhood which is a problem that all men face, but within the black community is many times worse because of the lack of fathers. Check out Garrett J. White.

[@vanderumd11]

No. These are men who were unfortunately raised by women and do not know the role, responsibility, traits a real man should have. He is what we call in my business a hypothetical boss. His name is not on any paperwork and his position in the world is not upper six figures. Of course he is stressed and emotional, he knows he is not in his proper place as a man. I wish I would worry about some woman giving me hugs like she is my mother. My wife is to nurture our CHILDREN, that is it. Grown men do not need nurturing. Hear me again my brother, grown men do not need nurturing. High earning men do not need nurturing. When you play football you cannot cry this is a battlefield of men in this world. It is the reality. In 2020 look around. You let a generation of men raised by women start thinking like their mothers. They look at other men like they saw their mothers look at them, not like their father treated other men. There is a difference and in our community we need to see the reality of the world and stop even giving any credit to these female men. You said it, men that are out here holding other grown men. These are not high earning straight men who are here to lead,build,shape families.

[@TeflonBarbie]

Maybe you should start spreading the word to black men to stop having children out of wedlock and then maybe so many black men would not be produced in fatherless homes?

[@mkbanks73a]

This is a two fold problem. Women have to play their part to not consenting to sex out of wedlock. Unless your the Virgin Mary, no woman has had a child by not having sex (IVF not included).

[@vanderumd11]

@@TeflonBarbie the current situation, "her body her choice" does not give realistic responsibility to any man willing to engage in sexual activity. If it is the SOLE ability of a woman to decide what to do with her "OWN" body regardless of the will of the man then we cannot have it both ways. Either women who feel it is their body, regardless of child or not, take 100% responsibility (while unmarried) OR it is a 50/50 decision across the board. Two parents, two opinions, two decisions from beginning til end. Very Simple.

[@AB-vb4sv]

@@TeflonBarbie women have 10 plus ways to prevent pregnancy coupled with them rejecting men. Don’t blame men for kids solely.

[@chinocasellas7918]

I can appreciate a Man telling other Men to Step their Game up. This gives me motivation to push myself even harder so I can get to where I want to be. My goal is to be a Multi Millionaire, Travel the World, Get with high end Escorts if I choose, network with other Millionaires and Billionaires. I can't get there making 40k , 50k, or 80k year, I have to be making High 6 figures to 7 figures. I want to live a certain lifestyle so I get what Kevin is saying. Time to Step up my Game 100%. Thanks Kevin. Never be LESS than your BEST .

[@Odinfloki1974]

Everything Jessica was saying is exactly what you preach in all your videos Kevin. Why you were disagreeing with her was beyond puzzling.

[@carojames6776]

So much passion, delivery, belief - there's a place for him in the church or in politics.

[@perfectwealth]

At the end of that sugar baby call I can hear the shaking in Kevins voice.... I felt it too kev. Man I only can hope build the level of tact and withstraint that you had.

[@captainseyepatch3879]

Pretty much. Men who worry about gold diggers are almost always guys who more or less want/look for the kind of women they are worried about.

[@novusordoseclorum1915]

Guys dont beat yourself up....40K to 60K a year is Enough for a Man to live on alone. you dont need all the extras. Thank God you are in good health and have money in the Bank. The real question is....Where does she rank???✨

[@jasonburrell7001]

Damn, Kev’s wrong on this one. Gold diggers have no integrity or character, and that’s not the type of woman you want to marry. If you marry a GD, there won’t be any love, and your kids will have some of that bad integrity/character.

[@mrbbkk]

When you see that she is a heartless gold digger; delete forever. Let a bigger fool, be the sucker.

[@fubub3595]

Yeah definitely is wrong, but he always try to win the debate or argument bcz is the host

[@supernova-n3c]

1:17:39 i stand with this woman 👩 on this, Jessica is making a very good point Men should not be reduced to just a wallet.

[@vinlloyd5836]

ONE of the problems IS gold digging. You alluded to it yourself in one of your latest shows that you played earlier in this video. You pointed out how women leave their men because of money. And will do so even at the expense of a man of good character “just going through a hard time”. The overall problem is feminism. More men of the MGTOW persuasion would be responsive to marriage if the laws were safer and the women changed their attitude. Men don’t like being blind sided by the bait and switch. The example you gave of the Gold Rush era was at a time before third wave feminism. Women acted the part to deserve the outcome. And men were raised with their fathers in their home. The British female caller gets it. The caller you toasted right after her is what she’s referring to.

[@seetruth8775]

wonderfully put

[@boogadie1470]

I get what that men was talking about and I usually agree with Kevin you can't bottle up your feelings and expect a healthy outcome

[@JAYFULFILMZ]

The guy in the beginning audio wasn’t saying nothing wrong in principle but he wants women to love us the way we love them & that’s never gonna happen! He was way too emotional! I would never do a crime with him if that was my business! 💯

[@SnickerbarConsciousness]

Lol he was just pointing out something he is actually not going through that situation. And if he even was he have all right why shouldn’t black men not love genuinely by our women? The problem is we have too many snob in our community the black race is in a hell of a trouble.

[@sweetwater718]

Sir Samuels, you slaughtered this livestream!!! It was truly flooded with great thoughts and provocative ideas!!

[@Littlemyersgaming]

Any man that Cosigns gold diggers lack character and substance. To many real men out here that do not have to pay for a woman's acceptance. Nothing is wrong with providing for your woman but only a idiot will not her to hold him down emotionally!!! People go through ups and downs and when you're down your a lier if you don't want a real woman that's going to "rub you on your back and say baby it a be ok". Money can't buy love or loyalty!

[@jbadams56]

Yeah but money can create experiences and environments that allow love to flourish. We should normalize brothers wanting more for themselves.

[@Littlemyersgaming]

@@jbadams56 if that works for you go for it... My best experience with woman did not involve me spending money!!! Allow them to get to know you first... If they have a issue with getting to know you first leave them where they stand!!! I promise you when you do spend money taking her out you will have a far better experience knowing you're spending your hard earn cash on someone who appreciates you oppose to flashing cash... But that's me and I am happy with that!!!

[@nicklausb]

I can appreciate what you high level guys are doing. But it's not possible for everyone to be rich. Being a hardworking poor person is definitely a thing. Just because we don't wish poverty on everyone doesn't mean we should hate broke men, should it? Is every man that makes less than you, at that level only because of his own failings?

[@ugmusiqtv6846]

He's catering to his demographic. Honestly most poor people are poor because they don't plan ahead. For example Im in Virginia. The average household can be ran off $1600-2500 a month. There are people who make $50k a yr and are still renting. Most poor people spend more time trying to look rich instead of investing and do the work to acquire wealth, but the system is setup for the most inept to get money here.

[@ugmusiqtv6846]

Once a had a supervisor change everybody's schedule just so I couldn't go to school. Some of the workers were jealous because after a finished my work. I wld do my homework. These were black people. People understand the struggles black men go through. They just don't care.

[@ugmusiqtv6846]

@PancakesAnd Wine u can find a house in a pretty decent neighborhood for 100,000- 120,000 in Virginia. The further south the cheaper the land unless it's beachfront

[@nicklausb]

@@NebulasOnyx many so called high value people get there by being unscrupulous (doing something wrong), and many poorer people stay there by not being willing to give up their morals.......so miss me with that "you're doing something wrong .....if you're not rich" shet Thanks, but No thanks

[@nicklausb]

@@NebulasOnyx nice strawman. Read my words, don't change them to conveniently fit your narrative. I said there are some........ there are bad and good amongst rich and poor. Whoever doesn't know that, is foolish. Who WANTS to stay poor?! Why would someone need an excuse?! True... .. many don't want to make the sacrifices that may be required to advance, but don't assume that to be everyone's (who isn't rich) situation. If the world was set up so that everyone could be rich, no one would be. School system in the west was arbitrarily drawn out to keep graduates from flooding the job market....... which would not be capable of handling them. The economy is similar in many ways. Don't be an ass

[@HHV44]

Beautiful women are heaven for the eyes and hell for the soul And purgatory for the wallet.

[@rmercedes971]

OMG 😂 😂 😂

[@kiad.2552]

Absolutely one of the best KS episodes ever!

[@Century2008]

I not only listened to the video, I listened to her reply. I found her just aggressive in her soft tone and dismissive to the point the young man made. How sad, also as a coach I saw no wedding ring on her finger. What a false confidence that women who have degrees and unmarried think that they qualify to coach others on what they have not experienced themselves.

[@walterjohnson646]

I know that I'm late for the party and I agree with Kevin on almost everything but I think that he missed the mark on this. We are becoming a more complex society. Not that the guy was asking a woman to take the lead as much as he wants to see that she gives a damn about him emotionally. The money is really irrelevant when you are with someone. It's all in the same pot ideally. Kevin is real old school but we as men have evolved in a few ways.

[@cool_cat007smoove3]

The man wants love I agree, but he was graveling on the floor. I express myself and I use emotions, but not in this manner. The man was frustrated and his emotions took control of his mind then such speech was heard from him. Speak in knowledge if you have to speak

[@Omega---13]

@@cool_cat007smoove3 couldn’t agree with you more

[@cool_cat007smoove3]

@@Omega---13 understood.. That's life

[@Omega---13]

@@cool_cat007smoove3 I don’t get why men today have become too emotional like that

[@prettylifeprettywife7171]

Excellent content Mr Samuels!!!

[@francesortiz6364]

If I have a problem that affects relationship and my ability to communicate and express emotion that’s on me. I can’t expect nobody else to fix my problems. If they did not treat you how to love than your going to teach yourself.

[@PigeontoedP]

I’m not a HVM but I get it. That guy whining like he did is not something a man should do. Life ain’t fair and cry in front of your therapist. If that man has a woman she looking at him different. Women naturally don’t like weak men. Got to pay the cost to be the boss. I’m working to raise my value for the women I want and I never had an issue breaking bread with a woman

[@jeremydenny7646]

One of the best shows of his I've seen so far. We got to hear balancing conversations from a couple different angles.

[@alansjf33]

I am fine with everything you said except for your view on escorts . They may be at the top of their field monetarily but they are not different than other women who have sex for money . But I guess that is just my opinion.

[@darkzerk7]

Men who marry a golddigger refuse to accept their wife is an escort because the truth is degrading. As long as you pay to play *she is an escort*. It's as simple as that. Doesn't matter if you put a gold ring on her and call her a spouse, honey, wifey or whatever.

[@kingofcontroversy7925]

I agree and understand what Kevin saying but your audience is the 80% Who are not the High Earning Men (which is 10%) it's easy to speak and say what Kevin saying when you rich. It's a different reality for the 80% world. When the 80% call women golddiggers they are referring to women who only give you time or attention because you have some type of money, wether that's 50k or 75k a yr. She trying to get some of your coins. but if you rich of course that wont matter....a rich guy can meet that same woman the 80% called a gold digger. and spend 50k on her no problem and keep it moving cause he'll make that back easy.

[@ravinglibertopian3226]

..... and this is where the disconnect between Kevin and some of his audience is coming from. Most men don't make 6 figure salaries and are just average or below average in terms of net worth and income. However in this day and age with social media and the internet.... the standards for competition are being pushed higher than they ever have been due to women's natural hypergamy ; since they're the ones using most of these sites in the first place(last time I checked). So.... because women have more options via social media ; the bar to success with women is set that much higher for younger men today than in past generations. This unprecedented phenomenon is contributing to the further disenfranchisement and isolation of average men from the dating scene and hence.... society in general. Young men in real life and on the internet are being told that average isn't good enough. Problem is..... whether women or society like it or not ; most men ARE average ; and as the years role on, they're being more and more left behind. This is neither a stable nor sustainable model for any society long term.

[@Phoenixjuvibaby]

I agree. I think men should provide. As Pan-Afrikan I pride myself on self reliance. Providing No issue there. I dont mind giving a woman a home. My issue is if the relationship is exploitative. If a man gripes about his hard work being exploited by women who are self serving he is well within his rights.

[@nicklausb]

I do understand who your target audience is. And I listen because I see a lot of benefit in your knowledge that you impart, though I'm far from qualifying to be one of your target audience members . But do you really HAVE to be making that kind of money in order to take care of a family? I mean, if you get a woman who can be content with what you can provide, though they're definitely few & far in between, will you be less of a man because you're not even with the top 10% of other men? Plenty of women below the poverty line......doesn't it make sense for some of them to be provided for by men less than rich?

[@rmercedes971]

Agree 💯... My husband makes $60K and I stay home with the kids, but we BOTH sacrifice and compromise A LOT. It’s about find someone with your same values and that is willing to make sacrifices, no one can have everything in life.

[@michaelhowze8198]

He's basing it off of an upper middle class life in a major city. You don't have to live at that level nor do you have to live in major city. So it can change depending on where you choose to move and what exactly you want your lifestyle to be. I'm comfortably at 80k with 5 kids and a wife for example. I also live in a small town no where near a major city it's all choices.

[@wendellbabin6457]

@@michaelhowze8198 Billionaire Warren Buffett famously lived in same house, in Omaha, that he did LONG before Berkshire Hathaway was worth billions. Like Grandpa used to tell us, " You don't get money by spending it.". And "Just because the check won't bounce doesn't mean you can afford it." Just never understood whole thing with Gucci Bags, etc. To go to the grocery store? Or a PTA meeting? Put on the dog a few times? Why? And for the dudes, a Mercedes or similar. Why? A car loses thousands of dollars the INSTANT it is yours. And never stops. Parts cost the Earth. Many towns only place you can get it worked on is at the dealership which may not even be in your town. Yeah nice ride, but SO WHAT? Rather keep the cash any day of the week. If for no other reason because NO ONE knows what tomorrow will bring. Uber wealthy that can just buy another new one if it breaks, yeah, OK. But us folks who weren't BORN with it, I don't think I could ever justify this in my mind.

[@Projekt8020]

"I WANNA BE HUGGED!" What the French toast?! 😂

[@Jay2.0-]

Jessica definitely made valid points

[@elizabethjones4325]

Wale and Rick Ross said it best. "They gonna love me for my Ambition"

[@JD2.0N54]

He's talking about gold digging hos..

[@Yak.indebox]

Jordan Sharpe exactly

[@ronaldmczee3886]

I dont mind providing but she has too show me her worth.

[@ronaldmczee3886]

. That's why I dont give money unless we in relationship

[@vanderumd11]

If you are here into the 7 figures and are not looking to provide you sir have it all wrong

[@aaliyahsashabrookes7952]

@Jordan Sharpe So you would want your daughter to date a man who doesn't have his basics together? Women should screen men the same way we screen our fruits, friends, and other things. This helps us decipher as a human what is good for us and what is not! Not all food is good food (same with people). Don't date if you have not got yourself together, you're wasting your time and the woman's time. Your focus should be positioning yourself and then having a string of women that you can choose from (therefore the quality of women you pick is better).

[@ronaldmczee3886]

Jordan Sharpe you a hundred percent correct

[@thelastdracolich1237]

If we not married i dont owe her nothing.

[@keithwilliams5158]

He is right on every thing

[@davidjemison9480]

Here is where Kevin may be wrong without love men will die alone. I think there is too much pushing on a front that is unrealistic. Men should be grateful that are high earning but remember someone put you there because they bought your product men. Here is one word we men and women need to use more in life Humility. Consider this when a man gets sick or lose all his money a gold digger will run from the Sugar Daddy and move on to the next Sugar Daddy because these are the rules however there is difference with a Gold Digger and High Quality Woman. I have no dog in this fight with Gold diggers.

[@koolshaker7615]

I have encountered a few situations where friends of mine were showing me something on their phones and hadn't hit the like button and I asked them and on some occasions told them to hit the like button because it's the least they could do .. 🤣Maybe some think it will be known they were watching and had some kind of fear, dislike ect. Your right that's some weak selfish BS....

[@gmoney4236]

Not one time did that adult male say he needed to be respected. This is why its a big difference between a man among men, vs a man among women.

[@philyd48]

Can a African American woman be a hypergamous gold digger combo?

[@mylesanderson2861]

The problem is even if I made 10K a month the women who are worth providing for are already married or in LTRs its just not much out there worth providing for that's my personal perspective on the matter.

[@everyonedeservestogohome2949]

No worries, Keep trying. Try book clubs. I was single for 12 years and introverted. If it wasn't for my husband coming into the book club I was in we would have never met and found we shared the same values and beliefs. All based on us both reading the book: Medical Apartheid. Choose your values and foundations then go to where the women with those values can be found. All love to you bro 🙏

[@mylesanderson2861]

@Surgeon 17 My sentiments exactly.

[@phantombags]

Kevin’s show is for men who can afford the latest Ferraris and Porsches. Now think about what careers or salary you may need.

[@amzngmo.e]

All I can say is that I am glad guys like him still exist and there are plenty of women who actually want love too. Glad he played that. I guess the top 10% of men do live in a different world. To each their own. Don't worry. Be happy.

[@uberlupe1]

The problem is that the women that want the gold aren't worth it.

[@nvra75]

Caught the Deadwood reference. That was a great show.

[@WTF3602]

A lot of black women are in survival mode. To any man, rather you have a wealth of money or not, that's a death sentence. Women want to give on the back end "I'll love you and support you and be a wife...after you provide food and fun and prove to me..." And then later on decide "I can do better". Who's going for that?

[@rah_soj3rsey]

Bingo 🎯

[@aswilled1]

it's so strange the way he was moving to get black men/families to rise in america, he dies. these types seem too always do.