25 Year Old Single Mother And Being Out of Control ©

[@GiovanniGNV]

Anyone else get the feeling she’s just smiling through the stress and pain?

[@imandalton4227]

Absolutely

[@allaboute8560]

Yep

[@shanesean5211]

And she's very pretty..... such a waste man.... it's very sad

[@mizzchoc10]

She needs a break to be honest. I get like that when I have been up all night studying for a final exam. I can't imagine her situation. She needs to forget about men for now and focus on herself. The baby daddy aint shit for her to carry all the burden. he needs to take care of the kid and coparent.

[@douchebaggio2349]

@@mizzchoc10 Your assuming alot about the child's father with zero info on him. Edit: I agree with everything else though.

[@_anansi2146]

"Being a mother at your age you are obviously overwhelmed" "Mommy" This show writes itself wow

[@damonglasse836]

Correct

[@bryjenkins3731]

I caught that and I almost spat out tea ☕🤣🤣

[@reinasanchez1718]

Definitely lol

[@reggieparker6185]

😂😂😂U a Foo😭

[@sonyaethaniel]

😀

[@moormagic1]

My mother always said, "No child is cute after 9:00 PM."

[@unaffiliated_x9279]

😆

[@imandalton4227]

Amen

[@yeahyeah5609]

Unfortunately many kids end up awake after 9. When my kids were little, they would be up late sometimes

[@ms.godiva3987]

After 8:30 pm😂😂

[@MissyRichmond]

😆😆😂

[@keithnetzel4210]

This is why a two parent household is so important and essential to raising kids.

[@Applecompuser]

Its probably a bit easier emotionally for the father to discipline but its really no excuse.

[@Nolovelostboo]

You can have two parents in a home and one of them still be irresponsible. There's a lot of women who don't put out men they shouldn't have kids with

[@heavyizthacrown-5842]

Not if there’s a man present

[@sshreddderr9409]

@@Applecompuser women cannot do it, they are not psychologically made to do that kind of stuff. its a fathers role to discipline. really, single motherhood should be illegal, like it used to. women should not be able to withdraw from their responsibility. it should be a fault based divorce, and the children should always go to the father. women should never be in control of their own lives, let alone the future of a child. women are children themselves, and are evolved to be patronized. women should not be able to legally own things, and they should not be able to work unless the husband signs the contract, and then the money should go to the mans account. women should have zero control over anything including their own life. it should be something that the husband negotiates with the male family members of the woman. the elephant in the room is that women will always destroy everything they touch because they were not meant to have any autonomy over their own lives. nature has a fine balance and if you take out a card from the card house, everything comes crashing down.

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

Once upon a time a man asked a beautiful woman to marry him. She said, "No." And he lived happily ever after.

[@antvaughns3031]

Priceless 🤣

[@LittleHenry90]

This man got some Matrix bullet dodge skills😉

[@noctisluciscaelum2960]

He became a millionaire and she hated him for her turning him down.

[@CaiebesPunk]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@abeni8safiya]

BRILLIANT!!!

[@centerofgravitymedia3514]

KS helped me filter these women even further . my tolerance is at an all time low

[@MrFebrezeMD]

Facts

[@Youinnerstandme]

Absolutely

[@MrYuckabuck]

I feel the same way, a lot of these women have become so unattractive to me it’s ridiculous.

[@vGEMZv]

It’s so easy to spot now

[@kmt8958]

Same

[@maia3420]

She’s not old enough to mother teenage boys. You think a teen boy doesn’t notice a 25 year old woman “that way”?

[@thund3r682]

Yeah a 9 year difference between a step mom is not it especially when they teenage boys.

[@1mic513]

Bad part is a lot of them are noticing the teen boys back- seriously- crazy but true

[@stayquietregretful552]

I don't think she realizes the age gap is weird. Her mate is 8 years older than her and the mate's sons are around 10 years younger than she🤯🤯🤯.

[@maia3420]

@@stayquietregretful552 Yup same distance between parent and child really. I don’t have an issue with age gap relationships but if there’s children involved they ought to be adults and moved out at that point. My own parents had a much bigger gap than this but even then the gap between my mother and my dad’s oldest male child was 13-14 years and they were still small children.

[@PaulHunt]

This is a great point! I wish Kevin would have talked about that. She's only 9 years older than his oldest child.

[@orangeblossoms88]

"Relationships are not supposed to be complicated... they're supposed to be simple and boring like white bread" 👏🏼 🙌🏼

[@patchuko82]

So true

[@deangelocrymes2113]

That's really truth

[@deangelocrymes2113]

@Robert Bessares all this fantasy foolishness that's pumped into ppl.. all they wanna do is get a divorce the minute they don't feel happy!! Lol whatever happen to responsibility...guess that don't count for nothin..in 2021.. get up and do what you like..hmmm🤔 not you personally!!

[@realmontana6838]

But women bring the complications…

[@ecmswagger]

Yeah spaghetti with toast is way more complicated as she proves 😂

[@efrain926]

Baby momma's stay with men like that because it feels good to have someone around that's a bigger train wreck than her.

[@Youinnerstandme]

Couldn’t put that any better

[@yogo9543]

Bingo

[@BG33917]

That’s a fact

[@stevietstevens9384]

Real talk!

[@AuContraireMonFraire]

Facts. Women get with men like this because if they get with a functional man that has his shit together, it will force herself to abide by his standards and have some accountability. Effectively taking away the role that most women love to play: the victim.

[@ThisBraveHeart]

“Relationships are not supposed to be complicated. They’re supposed to be simple and boring. Plain, like white bread.” -KS

[@nicmkend]

Let the church say, AMEN

[@ThisBraveHeart]

@Status DMG that’s exactly how my relationship with my husband is. Our life is incredibly simple besides the fact that he’s in the military and getting ready to deploy. When we do get to spend time together we’re playing with our kiddos, smoking and cooking food or just spending time relaxing together. Couldn’t imagine it being any other way honestly. Btw, those air fryers are a game changer lol!

[@Spokentruths725]

@@ThisBraveHeart not to be rude or intrusive but do you mean smoke weed? Just curious how you do it while being a parent. Do you hide it from the kids if they are young?

[@451whitworth4]

@@Spokentruths725 I think she smokes food (meat)

[@baobabguy4477]

@Status DMG air fryer huh? Welcome to elite status.

[@mercer840]

We know how this will go: 1 - Very soon she will have another baby from him 2 - The relationship will fall apart 3 - She will be a baby mama with 2 kids from 2 different fathers 4 - She will look for a HVM (with a laundry list) to come to rescue them 3

[@teewilliams4520]

So spot on.

[@V-MAX_9]

This is the "experience" and wisdom women think they're gaining in their 20s.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

1000%.

[@Julius29C]

She was young and dumb,give her the time to make more excuses.🤣🤣

[@michaelhatcher873]

Facts

[@chellec7347]

Rip KS. I recently left my ex alone . I’m twenty five while he was 35 . I have no children while he had three that were ten, six and five with a controlling bm. I felt like he was trying to groom me into the kind of person he wanted while I was miserable dealing with a narcissist with all that baggage . This video helped me a lot .

[@draco2xx]

why were u with a man with 3 kids to begin with, you are insane. you are better off single, you have options and you deserve better

[@oluwaogundiran]

@@draco2xx So wrong to go that far with your comment. Actions are part of living, and we do not get to evaluate many a mistake until we step into them. To each his own.

[@kevindunlap5525]

We don't want your children, and a real man certainly doesn't expect you to have to raise ours.

[@thesupervisor3270]

@@oluwaogundiranwell he’s right! Stop sugarcoating shit for these women they need to hear the harsh truth

[@chellec7347]

@@draco2xx I’m 27 now . All I can say is that I was convinced I was what he wanted . Dumbest yet the most humbling experience of my life . Not insane tho . I’m happy to say I’ve learned . My bf now is the same age as me with no children just like me. He just finished trade school a few months back . That experience made me realize what I want and what I don’t want forsure .

[@poincianacouponing1622]

She went from “we are both single parents and no one is perfect” to “how do I leave” in like 10 minutes. 🥴

[@andrewanderson5948]

Lol she was capping for half of the call wasting our time . KS sees right through these females games that's why he so short with them.

[@pats6658]

Everything out of these chicks mouths be lies and games. They need to be controlled.

[@malonetravis5785]

mind boggling

[@DemureDarlings]

@@pats6658 Need to be under the leadership of a GREAT LEADER!

[@wc3362]

@@pats6658 Islam seems to have them in check, and I'm not even Muslim

[@darkstarmatter1388]

There's nothing wrong with a t-shirt company. My son has a t-shirt company. He turns 10 this summer.

[@Melace002]

😂😂😂damn wtf

[@skymccloud]

Lol

[@funnierthanyaman]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Diving4pearls81]

🤣🤣🤣

[@curtallong3331]

🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MrSaintWofford]

After watching this I want to hug my parents for showing me how it is suppose to be done.

[@Jolly123123123]

I feel that.

[@MrSaintWofford]

@Tee sorry to hear about your dad and i absolutely will!!

[@Godjayel]

Man bro you said it

[@MrSaintWofford]

@MrEyeswideopen7 Shame Insults Guilt and the Need to be right doesn’t work over here.

[@A.I.-]

I was thinking along the same line... Part of these mess are the parents faults. And on the other end, you don't choose your parents. You don't choose your genes. You see these many times; dumb people always getting themselves into trouble. What else are you suppose to do to help these people? And the harshest part of life is that it compounds into bigger problems; You do one dumb thing and then another and then another. And then you have a big mess that can't be undone. If you're not smart on how to go about life; Life will sh!t on you, mercilessly.

[@tiamaria3123]

I'm a Jamaican woman...who has recently learnt of this man through people...who has lots of "BAD" and Disappointing comments about him..and believe me...I find his teachings as they are, "DEEP LESSONS" though they may hurt some what...but should you seek the lessons you will find the learnings...a.k.a WISDOM in disguise... I have found deep RESPECT for him ..R.I.P.

[@freestyleking12345]

I like how Kevin is patient with the baby and giving her time to get things in order even though she shouldn't have called.

[@imandalton4227]

The child in the background helps make his point

[@Juvaunie]

You mean get things in chaos😂

[@dabobthorton6169]

He was allowing it to make an example out of it

[@20skr20]

Cause Kevin doesn’t hate women .... proof ...

[@Just1n-Rhodes]

Thanks for commenting, I will refer you to my trade analyst and accountant to make good income , go more on Digital Assets BTÇ..

[@FemmeNoirArchives]

The fact that she thinks it’s ok to bring a man who she’s just met with 2 sons around her 3 year old daughter just scares me. You barely know him. Watch who you bring around your children !

[@metalliclark86]

These single moms treat HUMAN BABIES worse than I treat my house cat. Maybe that's why you don't see many cats involved in school shootings or drugs lol

[@FeelingFitFabFun]

Amen!

[@vincent763]

Father not in the kids life so she has no respect for who’s around the kid. Sad situation

[@deeflo6731]

You can't make this stuff up.. wow wow wow..

[@FemmeNoirArchives]

@Angela Grizzard a year is still not enough in my opinion and they don’t even live with each other

[@silenthashassin8912]

I'm still curious in regards to what type of candy was a infant asking for at 10 o'clock at night.

[@morrymoreturns9813]

LOL the baby was asking for “where’s my actual daddy, Momma?”

[@antoniotula262]

Redbull chews 😯

[@shaythareal2382]

Seems like she doesn’t know how to discipline her child, so she just gives her whatever she wants to keep her quiet

[@imandalton4227]

Ridiculous

[@ChrisfromDevelopment]

@@antoniotula262 I need those lol 😂

[@artwillvideos]

18:35 “…for as long as I’ve been adopted for.” I think that little nugget of knowledge audio-glitched past KS in the moment, because on top of everything else, THAT can explain a lot. She seems like a sweetheart, and life has taught her to hold on to whatever you can.

[@brandonholmes5953]

Good observation. Attachment issues.

[@jonathanhampton8379]

These are the shows the detractors never mention. When he’s patient, no sound effects, no “harsh tone”, and seriously trying to help a black woman. We appreciate the work KS.

[@missrussell9134]

I watched this video more than once and now this is exactly what I'm thinking. I can see that he had genuine concerns for her and the compassion he displayed even while showing her that she is on the wrong path.

[@jonathanhampton8379]

@@missrussell9134 Thank you Miss Russell. We appreciate your willingness to be open towards it. Wish you the best in all you do 🙏🏾

[@g_slim]

Great comment. He gave her a free therapy session.

[@Jukeboxster]

They don't want to believe that anyone finds his advice useful, so why would his detractors ever view these videos? How would they continue the "who hurt you" or "you don't like black women" narrative?

[@paulorr9262]

Agreed. She is a nice looking young lady who is run ragged.

[@TheDCGuitar13]

Moms on the phone and the kid is screaming. Fathers aren’t an option ladies. Marry before you carry. You’re only handicapping your child by bringing them to this world just to fulfill your ego.

[@DodgyDebb]

TRUE WORD❤️

[@notlookinforahug]

100 percent correct. She is failing like most single mothers.

[@josegonzalez6276]

Great comment

[@1luvcity]

✊

[@hilaryb8212]

💯💯💯 that's y I'm 29 single, and never been pregnant. Waiting for the💍👰🏿‍♀️💒

[@t0ny_708]

Why does it upset me so much when these mothers come on this show at all hours of the night to talk about themselves while their kids are in the background desparately trying to get their attention.

[@Crowbar11115]

Because it SHOULD upset you. I had to get super real with a GF one time...she spent so much time on her hair and makeup that she was legit missing out on time with her kids. We're talking almost 2 hours at a stretch basically every day. I did the math and the equates to 31 DAYS a year. That's a whole damn Month! She was missing out on an entire Month with her kids every year because she was so caught up on herself. Guess what she did next?? Tried to get into Modeling which required MORE time doing hair and makeup. Some of these Women prefer attention over time with their own children. It's horrible behavior.

[@ArcaneAnouki]

I'd suppose its because you have a parental instinct. How novel!

[@thesailorsdaughter414]

You’re not alone smh

[@AffluentBlacks]

There are even worse moms, like the ones who would just leave their kids alone while they go to the club or even go out of town for a weekend 👀

[@cindylouwho620]

Sad sad sad

[@marcijones4084]

This so heavy. She’s gorgeous, this man knows she’s the best he’s ever come in contact with. Kevin is being so delicate with her even though she came in strong and wrong. Therapy would help her reach her potential

[@ms.camillewarrenempress31]

Yep !!

[@marjoriedavis-barnes3625]

HER FUTURE IS BRIGHT IF SHE LISTEN AND LEARN HER WORTH, SHE'S BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY

[@JS-rz5gx]

She's attractive but far from gorgeous - I'd give her a 6.5. Subtract some points for being a solo mum and being dumb as a post and she's a solid 4.

[@alexmuenster2102]

>>She’s gorgeous

[@lorenzosmith5932]

​@@alexmuenster2102She has pretty black features. European women don't look like her at all. WTF are you talking about?

[@chewbaka7369]

Dang imagine he wakes up from a nice nap to see 100 messages about his girl talking about him to KS on KZbin 😆

[@The_Blaxk_Dream00]

Satisfied i say

[@GUIDacres7]

Whole time I’m thinking the same thing

[@LightningStrikes66]

😂😂😂😂

[@taylorurok]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@spacejunklad9171]

Damn 🤣

[@morrymoreturns9813]

Sad... she’s just 25 with a kid and the real father already left. She’s dating a older guy who already has kids because she prolly feels like he’s the only one who can help her. She doesn’t exactly understand how bad her situation is. She needs to try to find the real baby father but if he’s a Pookie and Ray Ray then he definitely isn’t coming back.

[@shaythareal2382]

She probably only with him cause he owns a company 😂😂 you know how these women are these days

[@Melace002]

@@shaythareal2382 true it doesn’t matter what it is

[@brianwonderbread8854]

Pretty much

[@coreytumulty816]

She probably has more in common with his teenage kids than she does with him.

[@Macheako]

@@shaythareal2382 of course!!!! Women LOVE money!!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@mainmam620]

" this is too much.. You're literally running around your apartment trying to find a decent cell signal, avoiding your daughter at 10'o'clock when she should be in bed..." DEAD🔥🔥💀 😭😭😭😭

[@davidca96]

I love it, its become hilariously predictable now

[@jarellbrown6974]

@@davidca96lol man you ain't lying and it truly is predictable for her to be in a situation like this and it's like I understand that it didn't work out with her child's father but the black community has to stop making families and not finishing them.

[@guyfromdubai]

@@jarellbrown6974 Its not despicable, she made those choices, she has to live with the consequences

[@jarellbrown6974]

@@guyfromdubai that's true and she does have to live with the consequences since she's still wet behind the ears.

[@joeysoG]

FACTS though😂

[@brettski2532]

😱Is This How It Would Be Dating A Single Mom?? OMG!😱

[@cgill4269]

It’s worse in some cases!! Try sleeping over with their kids living at home.. it was very weird the first dozen times!! And then there’s what we had here: that’s very, very, VERY annoying!

[@PureBusiness-ef7xu]

@@cgill4269Friends with benefits is always the better option. They go for it anyway so why not exercise it?

[@cgill4269]

@@PureBusiness-ef7xu great point!

[@ghostofdanielrobitaille5845]

This is EXACTLY what a 20ish year old mom would do. Them kids don't EVER be sleep when they supposed to. Always up wanting candy and juice 🤣

[@kylarush]

So damn true 😂

[@CharisBrinkley]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Swagalious689]

Yeah but dads 30 years old and shoulda just told them to hop in bed. When dad says get in bed if you're a kid its game over its bed time.

[@Wanderer25]

That's a smash and release type of chick. No patience for that chaotic mess.

[@bruthakam6180]

Babies having babies 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@CalvinHolysticChristianCoach]

Kevin told this young lady what her father should have. This brother is a treasure chest of wisdom. Most just won't accept it

[@D4RKH1M0THY]

Yeah he is Kevin need to be on TV and uncensored

[@barackthecomposer6642]

Yes my brother. He is basically attempting to father these women; but is being rejected by many of them.

[@alg5169]

Dude is a homosexual. How's he a treasure

[@IAmaRe3578]

Why do you say he is a homosexual ?

[@IAmaRe3578]

@@alg5169 why do you say he is homosexual?

[@tamaralong8519]

“Unless he owns Hanes, I don’t know what you plan on doing with that...” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@honeybee1226]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@JohnSmith-xl8er]

Dammit man

[@b.graham]

😂😂😂

[@badbeat7108]

Glad y'all commented what's wrong wit a t shirt company?? I guessed Kevin was low key hating.

[@tamaralong8519]

@@badbeat7108 You must own a t-shirt company

[@tashanapink7688]

As women, especially single mothers, deep down we know these things. We know every last thing KS is saying. We just been accepting less than because we feel bad about our decisions and our self worth has been depleted. I’m heartbroken 💔

[@keronfarrier2198]

That's deep

[@dd470_]

I hope you’re able to flourish in ways you never expected.

[@Waagghhboy]

Thanks for being honest. It's definitely hard to look at ourselves

[@llckarther87ll]

Well Chad and Tyrone doesn't want commitment either, so you girls must choose wisely your pretender Not the bottom or the top, men that are at your level

[@awil4320]

Yea that was Hella deep sis.

[@ojames1983]

She went from all fun and games attitude to serious and listening. Kevin broke it down to her like a strong father figure. 👏🏾 She needs therapy for real - her self esteem is in the toilet.

[@sydtaylor4022]

we all need therapy so does kevin you just see a person whos actually being honest i commend her thats hard to do

[@ojames1983]

@@sydtaylor4022 Kevin has already did his self work and therapy so no he doesn’t but yep

[@sydtaylor4022]

@@ojames1983 have you met him personally i hope your right but unless u live with someone u dont know anything about his self work

[@ojames1983]

@@sydtaylor4022 stop talking out the side of your neck. 💀💀

[@DivinelyMadeCece]

@@ojames1983 self work doesn't stop though, you gotta keep going and doing root work to deal with issues that sometimes professional help can't do for you. Bad habits doesn't stop overnight or with a couple of months

[@bretmelton7116]

Kevin was actually very gentle on her. I know a lot of people do not like his style. But he was not demoralizing to this girl at all. He spoke to her in a manner that she needed to hear. It took a long time before she even started listening. It was a lot of giggling and simple-minded answers in the front of the conversation

[@obi.shinobi]

Kevin's interaction with people is a reflection of their interaction with him. If they are calm and polite, he is calm and polite with them. If they are rude, he is rude to them.

[@kreed82]

If she was ugly it would have been very different

[@kreed82]

@@obi.shinobi not always If the caller has a trifling character he goes in

[@obi.shinobi]

@@kreed82 yea exactly... "trifling" if they are trifling he will be trifling also

[@danzeljohnson3341]

I think it was because you can hear kids in the background and Kevin changes his tone when it’s bullshit being spoken. She’s just ignorant

[@jd3127]

As a father that makes sure his toddler is in bed by a specific time, hearing how active her 3 year old is at 10 PM is triggering for me. I hope she’s able to bring order to her life and household soon!

[@damnright1968]

Yes, sitting here after 7pm and knowing that my 2 year old is in bed already and hearing a 3 year old up at 10pm just shocks me.

[@kaktusdesiberie7196]

@@canecorsomom2023 I have 5 children and until the first went to school they stayed up late with my husband and me. We ate late because my husband is Mediterranean and that’s what he likes and my kids are well behaved, have good grades and pretty normal. I’m sure her baby ate her meals and had her snacks, people, especially American people, need to understand their lifestyle is not the norm across the globe neither an absolute truth.

[@MatthewRonaldWiebe]

I got three kids with my wife, and while we have some flexibility with bedtime and nap time (we start no new activities after 7PM) there's a hard lights out time for my kids at 8:00PM. I get anxiety around parents who don't drop what they're doing to engage their kids.

[@PGO_Gaming]

There is no order without the man to establish it. If you're a father that makes sure their toddler is in bed by a specific time, why would you expect, essentially a single mother to bring order to a household?

[@HIS_StoryonLove]

@@canecorsomom2023 same... this is a no-brainer how ridiculous this is.

[@rwilliams951]

You alright Kevin , thank you for talking to that young lady like a father which is surely what she needed. I pray for her sake she listened and follows your advice. 🙏🏽👑💯

[@Marktheproducer]

Wow. Her whole tone changed once she went into her bathroom. She called because she wants a way out. And needs therapy for sure. Praying she takes KS advice and becomes better.

[@DizzKoMane]

That part

[@9525joe]

Yeah man, actually hit me hard. She knows her situation is terrible and was tryna play it off like it’s not that bad. That’s the real reason she called. And imagine being her man and thinking everything is good, you really never know what’s going on in these women‘s head/heart. They can pretend like no other.

[@mrbigg151]

Females generally have a serious fear of failure, where men learn from their failures. She wants to "look good" for her friends/family, but can't hold her own. They both had kids at a young age, and are still living in the childlike mindset.

[@ericjones499]

She’s got daddy issues....

[@stilman3780]

She knows what Kevin said was the truth. She knew that when she called. She was hoping he would tell her the same feel good logic she tells herself. When Kevin broke it down her sadness was confirmation of the "I knew it" feeling she had within.

[@DeaconGoss]

I wish some of these young ladies would understand just because a guy will sleep with you doesn’t mean he’ll ever marry you. Too many judge themselves based on the looks/type of man that will sleep with them:

[@coreytumulty816]

They are literally incapable of distinguishing between the 2. Even though 90% of the men they slept with their life have ghosted afterwords and proved otherwise.

[@CPI99]

I don’t know what’s hard about that. People’s perception got messed up now they think they’re the exception in every way. It just don’t work like that

[@ghariiscool]

Very true

[@kimberlylusby3365]

@Status DMG Why not just wait until you are married. Why risk making babies with a women that is not your wife.

[@kimberlylusby3365]

@@VershySpeaks Exactly.

[@two-moonz2953]

I love the way Kevin always strips them of their masks. Male or female. By the end of the interview we see the real person asking for advice. No more bubbly laughter, head bobbing. No more flirting. Just them. The real person just showed up. You can see it in the eyes. It makes me question my own life. Kevin has a gift. Thank you.

[@KayMyName]

On God

[@tejhandiallo2768]

Or maybe the women get tired of being interrogated and insulted over dumb shit for 20 minutes straight

[@two-moonz2953]

@@tejhandiallo2768 Hey, no one makes them call in. That's their choice. Or is that someone else's fault?

[@sunnyflower6143]

So true!

[@Erniepotts]

I wish I had this gift.

[@PapiChulo3600]

She has a great energy. Hopefully she gets out of that chaos and finds a better place.

[@astrodude9146]

Bro when he said why is your 3yr old still up at 10 that shit literally clicked with me, my mom always made sure I had a schedule. Anyone can have kids not everyone can be a parent. Find people who have order in their life.

[@Skye2000x]

She is working late. She will develop a schedule. Stop judging.

[@Skye2000x]

@@ShaunHensley as a mum trust me I know exactly what is okay and not. And sometimes if the kid stays up until 10 it’s okay! I bet that 3 year old had nap during the day. There is called flexibility. Routine are the best ! Wont always work . You will thrive to make it work. Stop judging especially if you don’t have a child! Btw I know dads having their kids up way to late . They are solo too. Men even worst at routines.

[@fatimahrahman6158]

At 3 years old, they need 12 hours sleep. I guess she awakens at 11:00 AM!

[@fatimahrahman6158]

@@Skye2000x Raised two.8:30 bedtime until they were 8. Then it was 9:30 Pm. They now wake up at 5:30 AM as they run their own companies...

[@trishc93]

Yea.. I felt that. I have a 4 year old & my mom jokingly calls me the warden because my son has had a bedtime since he was 6 months! Lol he’s fed & in bed by 8:30-9 at the latest! I do not play! I need my me time lol kids definitely need a routine & structure!

[@FrancescaFrancesca]

Its killing me each time Kevin says "with a T-Shirt company" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bestenor18]

Yes I’m in tears 😭 lol 😂

[@anthonyrogers3569]

U look gorgeous

[@tw1954]

Girl I cracked up lol

[@patchuko82]

Im dead

[@blazilfrazil2]

He said it with so much distain

[@JEFE310]

This shows me how important a father's role in the home is necessary. These conversations has shown me how to identify the problems and dysfunction in our women. She really wanna cry. She needed this conversation. Sis get some help.

[@MsRocks-tc3uc]

Listen! I thank my dad every day. If more fathers were in the home, it wouldnt be so many broken men and women.

[@gws259]

All jabs aside she look like tears there an needed foward talk

[@ReaperGang2x]

Yea as hard as I wanted too critique her I felt for her. ☹️

[@indramami9080]

A father is THEE MOST IMPORTANT ROLE MODEL/EXAMPLE in a woman’s life. 💯🙌🏼

[@middletech]

Poverty rate of child would be cut in half if custody was given to the father.

[@japekto2138]

One of my cardinal rules is keep things simple, including relationships. Not necessarily the easiest, but clear. I'm happy to see Mr. Samuels mention it.

[@JoshAllen702]

Imagine being a teenage boy with a "stepmom" that look like this, young minded and only a few years older than you ...oh boy...😰

[@BatmanBeyondBelief]

They make videos about this kinda stuff lmaooooooo

[@infozone9601]

That old timer a fool for wifing this up.

[@BloodofEli]

@@infozone9601 old timer??? He's 33 literally in his prime.

[@TheTsugnawmi2010]

@@BloodofEli 33 is not a mans physical prime. The comments are clearly talking about physical traits.

[@bank80]

@@TheTsugnawmi2010 Actually 33 is still physical prime for a man.

[@healingheart4994]

When his kids turn 18, he will be gone. He has been raising his kids all his life, he will not start all the way over with hers. Facts

[@christiwright2249]

You don’t know that...

[@Uryū_Ishida3]

@@christiwright2249 we do now that lady wake up from your little fantasy world

[@davidwilson6681]

eh, I feel like the single fathers I know are more grounded than that. I think he might be the best she can get, honestly

[@robertlunderwood]

@@davidwilson6681 And he'll still be gone once his kids are grown.

[@nequestions1996]

No way my greedy azz daughter could ever make it to 10pm without eating.

[@hotmess9640]

“We both connected because we have kids” “Is this the victim oppression olympics” I literally fell on the floor like a dead body LMFAO

[@azballer137]

Lmfao!

[@LogikalMindset]

😂😂😂😂

[@dannieisKING]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭

[@RealSerie26]

Lol. It should be the complete opposite. She loves baby momma drama and the reduced disposable income.

[@fabriceizzo2922]

Women who grew up in broken homes tend to rush into relationships as soon as they can desperately trying to create a better home than they had grown up. They make a lot of mistakes and compromises along the way, like having a child out of wedlock.

[@InspirebyKhan]

Very true, very sad and unfortunately I see it much too often.

[@DogumentaryTV]

I hope she figures things out and course corrects, I'm rooting for her.

[@Skye2000x]

@riser you are a really bitter and negative person

[@LGNanarchy]

@@Skye2000x Did that trigger? Stop being such a beta male, bro.

[@tiegideon9816]

@@LGNanarchy Not wishing the worst for your own people makes you a “beta” now lol. Right

[@sunnyflower6143]

Amen.

[@BlackJVidz]

Good to see you on here. Love your documentaries.

[@kingtee1607]

This young sista smiles on the outside but she is at her breaking point

[@kirkhugginsjr9317]

Her eyes give it away

[@summerlyric506]

Yep. Coming home from work and her daughter is not put to bed. That's no true support.

[@horaysworld]

We really have to stop associating trauma bonding with compatibility and love..

[@ceded6543]

THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@stetsonwashington]

Posting this !!

[@amirasiya07]

WHOOOO....G-A-M-E💥

[@kcgold711]

Facts us women do have a issue with doing that seeing someone's issues and using supporting them as if that will give you love.

[@libertybelllocks7476]

Women who have been ran through and ruined their normal bonding capabilities can only form a bond through trauma. And once that trauma hits it peak there will absolutely be no way to bond with anyone else.

[@Auvibee]

This one touched me. Praying for her and her daughter.

[@JM-ps8cb]

This video is heavier than most I’ve seen on this channel. She almost breaks down and cries at multiple points in this video, but she holds it back, and puts on a smile... I’m glad Kevin gave her the time he did and the advice he did, even tho she was having connection issues and having to deal with her child.

[@jesseoglesby7480]

A good looking young lady. I hope she follows Kevin's advice and meets a guy who wants her as a wife and not just a Booty Call.....

[@satyro8186]

Point out exactly where she was about to cry I believe you're misreading the situation

[@daveelcock9476]

@@satyro8186 no he ain't, I could see it too, but she held it together, That guy better marry her, she must love him to stick around when he ain't able to handle her financially ,cause after this session she's out and she won't have a problem getting a man who can.

[@georgiapeach2020]

You're so right. She wanted to cry.

[@canreach100subswithnovideo3]

Yep. She was smiling through unshed tears.

[@LFRFAMILY]

*She is a Lil Cute ill guided young lady dating a reformed Dough Boy. Facts*

[@jonlosius7939]

Dough Boy Graphic Tall Tee will be what’s hot this decade. Her man is playing the Nostradamus game.

[@delbertjohnson7232]

Bruh i was thinking the same thing. He prob still at the trap.

[@jimmythemuscle9612]

That sums it up

[@andrejamal5438]

I can bet that

[@MainEvent628]

@@jonlosius7939 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@HaveUMetNicole01]

This is embarrassing 😔🤦🏾‍♀️ I feel bad for her and the life cycle she will continue.

[@fc775]

I don't feel bad she was adult and made her decision.. Learn from others mistake

[@theidiotwhosnotstupid5424]

Bruh, Kevin's gonna need therapy more than any of us at this rate 😂😂 😭😭

[@mdean22]

🏃🏿‍♂️

[@manzinin1070]

"How do you walk away from this situation..." She finally asked the real question she came for

[@theboxentertainment9125]

Fatcs

[@TheMABExperience]

The expression on Kevin's face throughout this video is the face every guy makes when a decent chick becomes another single mother statistic. The kid crying in the back did it for me. 😂

[@velazquezn]

7:45 You can read Kevin mind almost exploding, "...candy before go bed at 10PM..."

[@amirasiya07]

It was total disarray in that household....ain’t no Man there in that home. Because a man would make sure them kids was feed and in the bed by 8:30p

[@Afrocypher9590]

Bruh on God 😂🤣💀

[@esalaam89]

Factz

[@d.c.4706]

May I ask what makes her “decent”? I’m just trying to understand what dudes consider “decent”. Are you referring to her physical appearance?

[@jonnyGourde]

These videos MAKE me wanna stay focus on my grind,no cohabitation,work out and invest everything in myself. Fr

[@hybridownzDK]

Facts I would go back to my home country to find a woman to have my child in the future cos they are not like these western women.

[@matchhunter6941]

Cohabitation =less s*x !!

[@lordzooq8987]

When I finally decide to settle down in damn sure not wifing an american woman

[@princewellingham9182]

🎯

[@ironlionllc3725]

Not In My Trap My Boy lmao 😂

[@robertburton2915]

This lady impressed me as she answered most questions and was honest after a bit about what she wanted to ask. She didn’t get defensive when confronted with the truth or critqued. In my experience, people often take a few minutes to get to the question they really want to ask. Do feel sorry for the guy, but doubt she is the first to jump off that train.

[@peacelove7437]

She acts & has a mindset of a 15 year old . Lol

[@upstatecommunications9031]

She’s immature. Most 25 year olds are. But she’s not combative or arrogant. She does have some potential

[@billbandoh5818]

Tears are literally coming down my face when she said “I’m sorry her dinner is almost ready... a 3 year old eating dinner at 10pm”. 😪

[@PassportG]

Sad bro. Wtf 😔

[@madame_fryson]

Sooo 😞 sad‼️

[@kenilousjackson9488]

With a 33 year old man

[@marquiseleach3611]

Who runs a t-shirt company with 2 kids

[@995black]

The baby probably ate already and when her mom got off she probably asked her child was she hungry

[@jonathanmarvens]

Her situation is like a Chinese parade: red flags everywhere 🥴

[@Aparturum]

😹😹😹😹

[@catchingvibes7308]

BARS🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jonlosius7939]

I’m stealing that.

[@Immunity1080]

Chinese parade lol I like that might have to use it

[@zoekeys1814]

@@jonlosius7939 lol me as well

[@roneymcintyrejr9714]

In private conversations amongst their peers, a justification for poor decisions is "The sex was good." When confronted with logic, the justification is "Love is blind." 🤦

[@bobright1617]

Good enough to ruin their lives and their kids and possibly the whole bloodline, smh

[@roneymcintyrejr9714]

@@bobright1617 Multi-generational Welfare Mentality and logic.

[@joejoerunya8908]

Exactly.. he had swag

[@manniefresh3425]

@@bobright1617 yes, hedonism at its best

[@t.robertjohnson7274]

Absolutely. Spot fucking on.

[@As_A________Commenter]

“Relationships are not supposed to be complicated” One thing I have learned, and this applies to men and women, some people seek the drama because it’s about the only interesting thing in their lives. The drama puts them in the spotlight, and they crave the attention of friends and family. Social media has kicked this into overdrive because now even complete strangers can bear witness. These types will never find a “nice guy/girl” because the idea of peace and normalcy seems boring, and they have to be judged on merit and accomplishment instead.

[@bjornblackwood3111]

“I’m an RN” “Another goddamn nurse” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 toooooo accurate

[@dickmarx1298]

None of them actually want to be nurses, they just become nurses so that they can be around high value men and try to snag one for themselves. I.e. doctor, surgeon, administrator,

[@LetGoStressFree]

Respectable field

[@JCollex]

I'm crying LMAoo bruh If I had a dollar for how many warped thinking nurses I've dealt with my entire life. the response was so accurate.

[@craigadair128]

I am not sure what his heartburn is with nurses. It actually is a good profession that pays relatively well.

[@tekoa1998]

@Kevin Samuel's I’ve been following you but what is the deal with Nurses? Please advise.

[@mrbarbadosfrombirthonelove2344]

Kevin is the black Superman....trying to save our ppl minds one day at a time.... Big respect

[@skinfanjay]

💯

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[@Just1n-Rhodes]

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[@christopherhenson5509]

Damn, she has a tattoo on her chest, and thinks that she's special, and has a baby up past 10 PM And the father of her baby is "around" meaning, there's no responsible parent in the equation That woman is over her head!

[@antoniotula262]

Only thing missing is smoke alarm beeping

[@dickmarx1298]

She's absolutely special. Wearing a helmet, eating crayons, riding the short bus kind of special.

[@carlforpresidentanthony4574]

Nurse 👩‍⚕️...Chest Tattoo?? 😳...da fugg 🥺

[@cw5024]

@@darbyohara i think she was doing that because i believe she said that the 30 yr old man was around. Once she went to the bathroom she started to get serious and looked as if she really wanted help on how to get out of her current situation. Then she went back into the living room and became fake again

[@Bidness100]

@@darbyohara 💯

[@BeautyWithShayOfficial]

She’s so beautiful. Him and his teenage sons will steal her youthfulness. That’s a huge responsibility at 25. I’m almost 25 in a month, and I would never. Let that man go, girl. You can get better. You will and you deserve it💯💯you can tell she’s crying on the inside. Her tears wanted to pour out while Kevin was showing her, her worth. Any man with his shit together and willing to help her raise her daughter correctly will be lucky and thankful to have her. She seems like a decent young lady. I hope she has left this situation. Seriously.

[@Mark-go7qm]

Thankful to have her ? Lol can you make an another joke

[@alexmuenster2102]

>>She’s so beautiful.

[@frankpinmtl]

@@Mark-go7qm Not to mention that sexy tattoo over her left breast. Classy, that. Just what you want your woman to come to you with, along with a 3 year old.

[@mikesmith1181]

She just got off work and needs to play with her kid. Take note how it is all about HER. Not what is best for the child.

[@metalliclark86]

Is it ever any different?

[@reesemonique]

AND that she had dinner cooking at 10pm, so that baby aint eat all day 🤦‍♀️

[@kikistylzz]

Play with her child?? It’s 10pm!!! Her kid should be in bed. What she needs to do is find suitable child care that will have her baby in bed by the time she gets home so she can shower and go to sleep that way she is well rested to play with her the next day.

[@charellesexii6555]

She just got off and need to put the kid to bed

[@ZachDaHater1]

She probably does that every night, she was cooking dinner for the kid but wanted to take a little time and finally get around to calling KS. I wouldn't judge her harshly because of that. I'm sure she's a great mother doing the best she can.

[@MrGrp30]

"Relationships are not suppose to be complicated, plain like white bread." Love it! ❤ Well said Mr. Samuels.

[@herbsaint636]

Yes exactly

[@blademanx]

sure, sure, if only it were that simple.....

[@MrGrp30]

@@blademanx Amen to that!

[@CarMiNe6361]

@@blademanx it is that simple. People just love to make what should be simple, miserably complex.

[@breslibrary]

Facts.. No 3 year old should be up that late.. But she blew that off because it's so normal to her.

[@Rivers198]

@Eetzjuss Toogood selfish immature behavior

[@keltonmaloy9499]

These modern single women kids be up till midnight on a school night, no discipline or structure in the house allows caos to take over.

[@KurtCBrown]

That was so very sad. God find a way to save that child 🙏

[@josephwatts9013]

“Relationships are supposed to be simple and boring” I feel much better now that I realize this truth!

[@MakesiJosephRiddimRider]

Truth... everyone looking for that fire and running up their body count

[@adamp.8571]

Sadly this is probably the number one reason women leave. I’m more afraid to bore a woman than to cheat on her. A woman most likely take you back if you cheat. There IS NO COMING BACK if a woman is bored.

[@nubienatty]

Yet we chase these fantasies of fun loving adventures

[@Christina-oq4td]

@@nubienatty The entertainment industry put them their. It’s what sells ALL their products. Stop watching.

[@chadj4237]

@@adamp.8571 if she’s bored she can go to the zoo for all I care. It’s not our job to take them on emotional rollercoasters when we just wanna chill. Stability to those types of women means there’s no passion. And they hate when guys are too chill to join their circus of bullshit

[@mohanaofragaming1510]

When kevin heard 25 1 child n stepmom to 2 teenagers, he was like wtf is this. The side eye was deadly 😂😂😂😂

[@rachelann724]

“Wtf is this” 😂🤣😂 sorry but that’s funny

[@jayromasanta8072]

With the way she acting, i wont be surprised if she ran a train on them teens

[@johnnydangerous5971]

🤣🤣🤣

[@judohunter1]

I was 💀💀💀

[@blueshanks1]

@@jayromasanta8072 wtf man 🤣🤣😂. Lucky boy

[@Crowbar11115]

More proof that her looks are basically a smokescreen. The looks mean WAY less than the attitude, drama, delusions...

[@damonglasse836]

Correct

[@Ajxni]

yeah thats true but any woman who come on this show before they even talk niggas are quick to put a number on them in the live chats lol. thats just how it is .

[@renegade595]

@@Ajxni so disappointing but fax.

[@tyrone8402]

Gosh she is stunningly beautiful, I hope things work out for her. I like her energy, willingness to learn, and her humility.

[@Veganphobic]

My wife bbq ribs and salmon yesterday. I’m so happy right now at work today eating on break watching this thank you Jesus!!!

[@princewellingham9182]

So are you vegan or what?

[@J97H51]

@@princewellingham9182 vegan "Phobic"

[@princewellingham9182]

@@J97H51 ok cool. Got it

[@intelligentthinker8085]

She is very humble but does need guidance. She will be ok if she takes his advice.

[@Layziethug5]

Wow... she thinks she adds to a man’s life, but she can barely handle her own child long enough to have a whole conversation. She would be a liability just for that.

[@lordzooq8987]

I'm starting to realize modern w are all liabilities tbh. Just pump and dump because honestly they're not wife worthy.

[@simetalmusic]

not even a liability, not to be dealt with from the jump.

[@tayhovah]

She's actually not like the rest, she has a legitimate chance at turning this thing around and having an amazing life.

[@careypaulwilliams1663]

I never read comments before i post. You are the only person besides myself who sees the potential of her situation.

[@top5bulletxo920]

why do you say that?

[@mcuembedded]

@@top5bulletxo920 Probably because she's kinda childish. Not a warrior with pitchforks yet, so good guidance can help. You can usually spot the pitchforks instantly... and those are the cases with 0 hope.

[@top5bulletxo920]

Pratik Panda yeah true, plus she’s very cute as well so she’ll probably have a lot more men coming her way then the average looking woman. She just needs to learn from her mistake & I’ll think she’ll be alright.

[@mcuembedded]

@@top5bulletxo920 But again, the issue is that she won't be who she is. She will be who her friends are... and that screws up the heads of 40 year olds too with decades of life experience. What are the chances of her finding normal friends?

[@feliciagray5781]

When he said you live a chaotic life, you can see her whole demeanor change and tell it got real for her fast.

[@awakenwithmychal5390]

This is what I don't like about women. She's trashing him behind his back but won't be straight with him in a honest conversation!

[@jimmythemuscle9612]

🎯

[@TheRealAwestBeats]

Her man need to dump her! Asap

[@Knight_Jon_Artorias]

Women didn't evolve to be confrontational. That's why they aren't straightforward with their ideas and opinions. That's a typically masculine trait.

[@Diesel-le5fx]

@@Knight_Jon_Artorias To late for that now. They're independent and all about feminism and wanting to be equal. They would challenge your statement now no matter how much sense it makes. Lol

[@dueldab2117]

Actually it’s his fault for being a loser and feeling that he deserves a woman. Even a broken down one.

[@myrahj1482]

Kevin said candy but babygirl was asking for spaghetti 🍝 "Mommy I want Shetti" which is just as bad because she's hungry at 10pm and this Mom couldn't figure out to feed & bath the baby BEFORE calling. Our community needs so much help🙏🏽

[@davisdavis9085]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀👀👀👀🙊🙊🙊🛑🛑🛑🛑🤣😂😂😂

[@matthewjohnson3302]

A little judgmental

[@jgee9015]

She dont REPRESENT every black family

[@jacobpotter2237]

@@jgee9015 the majority.

[@crackcassidy9833]

And they say women aren't funny🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@jrtstrategicapital560]

Kevin…your doing a great community service by educating these young women (men too) and others of their fallacy that being a baby mama is wonderful. It becomes a vicious cycle ..and the innocent kids are truly victimized thru hungry, poverty, living alone while their parent is working, no father etc…. How did this “selfish” act of procreation become so popular. In my generation, it was too shameful to be a baby mama…when did it become accepted as normal or rather normalized dysfunction? Truly a sad condition.. I’ve been watching your videos and thankful your doing a wonderful job .

[@triste4-21]

I'm not black or female but damn, I'm glad I came across your videos. Changed my life.

[@lucasmazzoli4426]

@Reloaded Past man like big herc, big respect from 🇬🇧

[@powermiller855]

Keep watching men and women need to learn this especially older videos

[@iGodTalks]

FACTS ♠️

[@itsallgood6146]

Why?

[@jdruckus6640]

I have to show my son these videos when he is old enough to understand. This is some real schooling here.

[@Bangin0utWest]

Absolutely brotha

[@bobbylong8073]

Today's children are very wise. Teaching starts in the womb. Educate your child now please. We need to talk to children as young adults, but with corrections. The parents should run the house at all times, with proper instruction you see a young gentleman or lady whose ready for the world. You're good parent... parents please don't hold back the knowledge. Educated children make great students...teachers fight over them for the right to teach them....

[@marjoriedavis-barnes3625]

REAL SCHOOLING!!!

[@mrjasonsamuel23]

I'm 40 and I wished I had this in my 20's

[@timothywilson4903]

You can apply Kevin's wisdom to any relationship, regardless of race, sex, creed etc. He's not afraid to speak the truth. Honestly, it's refreshing as hell cuz I feel like most people in his position have been sugarcoating shit for too long

[@barrydaryle7817]

Facts

[@will4evermoore]

You are right I apply to my own relationship and question my life

[@barrydock7100]

The truth always cuts through the bs . She can barely hold a conversation without laughing. Her hands constantly in her face what's that about?

[@anraegodley-cooper6321]

NAILED IT

[@earlem9771]

That goes without saying

[@Scaley_Reptile]

Thank you Kevin...I do same "one day letting up on routines, giving into tantrums...can take a week putting both you and kid through it because one moments laziness." Did it to a friend's daughter/grand daughter few times regularly. We gotta be honest and straight with ppl..

[@djgvo1822]

She came in here with so much energy, was happy about her 33 year old man and his 2 kids. When Kevin started breaking things down, her moral went down as well lol. The look on her face said it all. Can’t make this shit up

[@thebull683]

This is the theme of every video. They come on here flirty as hell but the smile slowly fades

[@MrSamadolfo]

😏 Win by 'Faitality'

[@ebonieosborne170]

Yes I saw that morale dip down Fa Sho 😁

[@BountyRogueCinemax]

She was very proud of him, said he was a father figure' and then went to the bathroom to whisper she wants to get rid of him and break it off. Lmao bro I'm good of women man I'm good single

[@stilman3780]

She knows what Kevin said was the truth. She knew that when she called. She was hoping he would tell her the same feel good logic she tells herself. When Kevin broke it down her sadness was confirmation of the "I knew it" feeling she had within.

[@kingsmarkx1]

Through all those pretty smiles is pain.....this is beyond sad, just heartbreaking.

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[@TheAgentmigs]

She wasn't convincing anybody with that.

[@stanleywallace2692]

I hate when people say that getting a medical assistant certificate is going to college...That’s not going to College...That’s a medical training program🙄...she’s not even close to being a nurse...It annoys me because people like me went to school for 4 years and actually have degrees and we put the work in and those who have masters degrees too...I’m just tired of hearing that narrative

[@robsawyer8034]

Thank you, I said the same exact thing.

[@stanleywallace2692]

@@robsawyer8034 Do you know how many women I’ve dated and I ask them “hey did you go to college” they’ll say yes and then tell me they have a medical assistant degree or a medical coding degree🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@leslieclarkson2291]

@@stanleywallace2692 😂😂😂😂😂

[@stanleywallace2692]

@@leslieclarkson2291 no seriously can you answer why women do this it’s absurd🤣...

[@ayodejijames3769]

@@stanleywallace2692 validation, they all want to be accepted by society, inferiority complex. They talk about being independent and stuff and powerful. But dont give a damn about them and they'll cry themselves to sleep every day. That's why they'll constantly lie just to make sure they are noticed or feel relevant. College my ass

[@SuperSaiyanEagle]

Holly shit dude this was sad. Homeboy was patient af and probably felt sorry for her. Hopefully it all works out for her baby and her.

[@mr.brooks3748]

Im so glad he didnt go off on her and all that because you can tell she's not like the other women on here. Being adopted and around unhealthy relationships she's not bitter she just wants love and support but doesn't know healthy true marriage material love. This one was different. I feel for her. Salute to kevin on this one for recognizing that off the jump

[@natashajackson6473]

Yes I looked at him differently

[@stwoods25]

I agree with you sir..

[@ms.camillewarrenempress31]

Deep

[@canreach100subswithnovideo3]

agree

[@jessicalatour2746]

He only goes off when ppl get disrespectful and talk over him! He’s always spitting the truth. Man but this was hard to watch so sad.

[@synastry2013]

He gave her great advice. I feel sorry for that young lady. I hope things work out for her and her baby girl.

[@sweetwonkahallelujah7016]

If I got 2 kids and she got just 1 and she younger than me and supportive...either I would marry her now or wait until my kids independent and live my life without her...raising another kid is serious work

[@marjoriedavis-barnes3625]

ME TOO

[@moneymonarch8102]

At first I thought her sense of humor was endearing but then the more Kevin went in and she kept smiling the more it became sad

[@pooh4025]

She was pretending because the guy was still in the house.

[@spiritualak5147]

She just goofy asf

[@pauldwalker]

it’s a defense mechanism

[@dannybaldwin7343]

@@spiritualak5147 that's our future 😁

[@artwillvideos]

Aww. I thought she was about to cry at one point. I feel for her. Some people are in overwhelming situations but think it’s normal, because so many others are there, too. And she’s out here trying to be a good mom, trying to raise her daughter well, trying to be a good partner in a relationship, trying to be a good pseudo step-mom (but can’t be as the girlfriend)…and never pausing to take a few deep breaths (she has little to no time, obviously, for reflection) to realize that this is insane. I hope she finds peace.

[@frankzappa6391]

She is locked in the bathroom with the kid screaming outside. This is just wild.

[@enermaxstephens1051]

@Joshua Merwine Undisciplined kids will behave that way though

[@chuckbareika5478]

This is the trash raising these kids nowadays

[@ZAAA1234]

She obviously has her mom or someone in the other room with her child. And if you don't have a child than you wouldn't understand how hard it is to raise one.

[@ZAAA1234]

She obviously has her mom or someone in the other room with her child. And if you don't have a child than you wouldn't understand how hard it is to raise one.

[@frankzappa6391]

@@ZAAA1234 1) You don’t even know the girl nor know whether or not her mom is there. 2) You can’t argue the complexity of a situation when you readily chose to have a child. Like Kevin says, it makes no sense to have a kid before you have a significant other.

[@TooDirty]

So many good guys out there get over looked on purpose that's why I don't feel bad. I only feel bad for the child.

[@BigReggii]

Facts

[@9525joe]

💯

[@LastChance601]

💯👍

[@n8tivsole]

facts

[@kitejohnson515]

Most of these good guys don't even like Black women. All you can do is think about your own rejection while a woman is suffering shr didn't reject you so stop projecting it onto her

[@MartialMind]

I'm rooting heavily for this woman to succeed. Her demeanor was a bit over the top and annoying at times, but overall, she was very pleasant and these days, you can't even expect that much from people. These days a lot of people start off interactions with the intention of being as unpleasant and combative as possible so it's a breath of fresh air to see the opposite from time to time. She really did a number on her life and she'll need some serious help to get on track, and I really do hope she can figure this out. I wish her the best.

[@lakendricwest9333]

I hear you but unfortunately, a good attitude is no excuse to screw up her life and be irresponsible. She shows her bad attitude by her bad choices in men and deciding to be a baby mama.

[@Skye2000x]

@@lakendricwest9333 stop judging! Focus on and teach looser bum men’s to do better.

[@nebablack5681]

I hope she wins, if she would focus on the right man, she could win. She has the looks, she just needs some structure.

[@shaunoffrange8122]

@@Skye2000x I think men would be better men when they see good men chosen over bad boys and players. A lot of baby daddy's were never father material, just good sexual partners. So don't complain he ain't shit if your having sex with him because apparently you like his ain't shit was. Now your surprised he's not a good. He wasn't good before how would he be after?

[@tyronehill1237]

She don't wanna be saved

[@MotivatedI]

I dated a single mother with a four year old son who she wanted to watch tv till 1am. I tried to bring in sense but I was attacked. She wanted the son to watch tv so he doesn’t bother her. I left amicably with those reasons. I wish her well but hearing her and the daughter at 10pm who isn’t well mannered to be even in bed at hour brought me some PTSD