C-PTSD Behavior Explained - Common Traits, Triggers & Treatment Options | BetterHelp

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People with C-PTSD engage in particular behaviors. Many individuals with the condition have issues with substance abuse. They might indulge in drugs and alcohol to self-medicate from the pain of their trauma. People with C-PTSD frequently engage in self-harm behavior. They might hurt themselves because they want to feel something rather than emotional numbness. Another reason people with C-PTSD self-harm is to distract themselves from the pain of trauma.
Individuals who have C-PTSD struggle with self-soothing. They can struggle with intense anxiety issues, such as panic attacks. Their anxiety can feel overwhelming, and it translates into interpersonal relationships. They can worry about abandonment, and as a result, hesitate from expressing their feelings. People with C-PTSD might engage in people-pleasing behavior to keep relationships. If you’re living with C-PTSD, seeking therapy can help you. Working with an online therapist is an excellent option for you, especially if you struggle with social anxiety. Don’t wait to find ways to cope, seek out treatment and start feeling better.
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@barry1369
@barry1369 3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I’m amongst a group of people I always just feel so different to them
@klattalexis
@klattalexis 5 жыл бұрын
Treatments cost money. Many of us cannot afford treatment.
@joevignolor4u949
@joevignolor4u949 5 жыл бұрын
True. Part of the cycle of this illness is that these problems can affect your ability to produce sufficient income and obtain health insurance through employment. You end up in a permanent deep hole and you can't get out of it.
@victoriaarcturus203
@victoriaarcturus203 5 жыл бұрын
Alex Klatt online releasing meditations can help, I literally burst into tears straight away & keep repeating I don’t need to harm myself anymore, search utube meditations by Rasa
@jamesidakula1705
@jamesidakula1705 5 жыл бұрын
You've said it. It cripples you. Can't expect anyone to understand it, either. In this money hungry world, people just judge you by that.
@fitkatstyle4388
@fitkatstyle4388 5 жыл бұрын
I haven't used any but I have seen CPTSD workbooks on Amazon. That's at least an affordable start.
@k8lynmae
@k8lynmae 5 жыл бұрын
In Australia we can get free psychologist visits and a set amount per year and some of these psychologists even allow us more
@OldToughDW
@OldToughDW 5 жыл бұрын
I survived physical and emotional abuse as a child, two Narcissistic spouses and I am a man's man. These are the first videos I found that make sense out of the emotional chaos and self defensive reactions I have had my whole life. Senseless emotional pain is the worst, because of the struggle to make sense of it. I am 61 years old. Could you please cover how to learn to trust people again? I literally expect everyone to stab me in the back or betray my trust; all the time.
@dyan785
@dyan785 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@diggdogg5378
@diggdogg5378 5 жыл бұрын
Trust yourself, trust your judgment, trust that if someone breaks your trust in them.. you will be fine. Self reliance is the key. Trust others cause you want to not cause you have to.
@keiheaherakiwi1611
@keiheaherakiwi1611 5 жыл бұрын
OldToughDW that’s a tough one..... I’m in the beginning of healing from 37 yrs of narc abuse. A lot of my work colleagues think I’m a tough nut, when in reality I end up in a big heap bawling my eyes out. I watch a whole lot of KZbin channels which are helping so much. Like you OldToughDW it’s hard to trust anyone and my small circle and I mean small circle of friends know what I’m going thru. Good luck with your journey there are unfortunately NO quick fixes... I hope I learn to trust again..... I’m worth more and so are you 1 day at a time....you will never forget the hurt, but it does ease ..... I cry when it’s needed.... I’m angry when it’s needed....I’m happy when it’s there..... human emotions are necessary I think it’s healthy to experience them all. If you experiencing a bad flashback/memory I refocus and say positive affirmations straight after....calms me down a load. The journey is long I’m taking it step by step day by day. Blessing to you
@lynnentler5725
@lynnentler5725 5 жыл бұрын
Test them
@louieslaw
@louieslaw 4 жыл бұрын
Takes a lot of therapy. Many years. Can't unlearn that over night. The best thing that may help is a great cognitive hypnotist.
@ingejustavanderhelm5208
@ingejustavanderhelm5208 5 жыл бұрын
Doctors in the Netherlands are under-educated on what PTSD is. For instance when I told my doctor I still face PTSD symptoms, she responded saying "Yeah, I also sometimes have an off-day".
@danmalone5365
@danmalone5365 5 жыл бұрын
When you've missed the five stages of development (connection) (attunement) (trust), (autonomy), (love, sexuality), you lose the capacity to speak your mind without guilt and fear its almost as if you have a mild case of ASD. As a result developing a survival style that may not be relevant in the current environment as a result of what didn’t develop in those five key areas. How can you feel something that never was taught in the first place. No foundation
@marten594
@marten594 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks. No foundation....
@Wrenjamin_
@Wrenjamin_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@AudoricArt Same. This comment resonates with me
@shivastonestrange7121
@shivastonestrange7121 3 жыл бұрын
Wow...You said that...I have no foundation either...I had to sit and work it out, things like 'what age to cover up in front of my brothers', 'when to stop kissing my youngest brother on the lips?' 'Should I shut the toilet door when weeing?' Ect...
@youcantseemeanymore
@youcantseemeanymore 3 жыл бұрын
Wow you hit the nail on the head.I'm also 53 I learned from my psychologist whom I only met due to my pain management doctors insistence since my urine tests were 100% clean 90% of the time,but whenever they were dirty the couple times a year He was shocked at the extent. Since I was mild-mannered and quite articulate I believe He suspected something akin to cptsd. Thank God he did some 3 years ago or I would not be here today. You seen I had thrill-seeking adrenaline rush type of self harm in order to feel feelings.Thank God I have a chance at happiness now your comment really helped me thank you very much God bless you and happy holidays..
@danielraypickrel4316
@danielraypickrel4316 5 жыл бұрын
From victim to survivors to thriver.
@carolinebrenning178
@carolinebrenning178 3 жыл бұрын
I pray that I and everyone watching this video get there!🙏
@JaimeeL901
@JaimeeL901 3 жыл бұрын
Prayers for everyone to transition to thriver!
@disgaeajean13
@disgaeajean13 3 жыл бұрын
And on top of the ‘pleasing others’ is the perfectionism 😞
@maissamalhamwi2050
@maissamalhamwi2050 5 жыл бұрын
I feel that you love everyone just sitting behind your camera and watching you. I love how you talk. Was very helpful. Thank you
@beckywaytoomuch
@beckywaytoomuch 5 жыл бұрын
I get this feeling too
@TheThereader1
@TheThereader1 4 жыл бұрын
Me too 🌼
@emmyakame4625
@emmyakame4625 4 жыл бұрын
How she explained the self-harm portion really impressed me. I felt very understood and even gave me more insight as to why I continued doing it to myself. I would totally recommend sharing that segment to someone who refuses to acknowledge the "addictveness" or reason behind as to why someone would start to self-harm.
@crave4mour_gaming641
@crave4mour_gaming641 4 жыл бұрын
I have it. Working out helps with PTSD, it gives energy, self motivation, happiness, and something to look forward to seeing progress. Keeps me out of trouble.
@anemoneenemy8449
@anemoneenemy8449 3 жыл бұрын
I had thought briefly that I might have cptsd but I didn't look too much into it. I've been diagnosed with depression since I was a preteen but this video really resonated with me. I began bawling uncontrollably watching this. Her voice and eyes are so kind, and she talks about self harm in a way that doesn't make me feel ashamed, which is more than anyone else has ever done. I cant begin to thank you enough for this and I cant wait to start seeking a diagnosis in therapy.
@jomar8818
@jomar8818 3 жыл бұрын
I have nightmares every single night and it always goes back to my childhood like I'm trying to change it
@jessmparis
@jessmparis 3 жыл бұрын
This video made me so emotional. I wish mental health care was actually accessible to me
@victoramber816
@victoramber816 3 жыл бұрын
It’s gonna get better don’t worry you are strong you can do it. Your stronger than you. Believe keep going believe In Yourself. Have a good day. Ps I find that when I’m overwhelmed or anxious leaving what you currently doing to not explode helps; leaving it to do something healthy.
@victoramber816
@victoramber816 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you have a good day
@zenyediajackson4067
@zenyediajackson4067 5 жыл бұрын
Self harm can be an addiction.
@joevignolor4u949
@joevignolor4u949 5 жыл бұрын
Of course it can. It releases endorphins into you system that stimulate the pleasure centers of your brain. It's definitely addictive.
@CobaltLobo
@CobaltLobo 5 жыл бұрын
it's a natural opioid release, definitely addictive
@StevenWyman
@StevenWyman 4 жыл бұрын
I thought I was crazy.
@ferox35
@ferox35 4 жыл бұрын
It can be very addictive. Hardest thing I ever gave up
@neverabsolutelynever
@neverabsolutelynever 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I just watched another video where they mentioned it’s being talked about possibly becoming it’s own mental health category. I was young when I started experiencing symptoms of CPTSD (didn’t know at the time) & I didn’t have access to alcohol or drugs frequently when I was distressed... but I had food and self harm. I am finally free from my traumatic situation(s) and haven’t done it since!
@reneemorgan3144
@reneemorgan3144 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for explaining CPTSD. Will you explain Covert Narcissism and how it affects Mother/Daughter relationships when a Mother is a Covert Passive/Aggressive Narcissist.
@LashayneHampton
@LashayneHampton 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Renee are you there?
@xoxoaudrey543
@xoxoaudrey543 3 жыл бұрын
I experienced my first real panic attack the other day, and I escaped the abusive situation almost a year ago. It's crazy how much our minds will protect us for so long.
@HenriThibodeau
@HenriThibodeau 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you - I can feel your empathy, and it helps me feel validated.
@MommaDuck7
@MommaDuck7 3 жыл бұрын
I had *never* thought of people pleasing in this manner. Wow.
@PaxSierra
@PaxSierra 4 жыл бұрын
The transition to the mentality of a survivor is literally what saved my life. Well said. Great videos.
@TheEclecticEmpath
@TheEclecticEmpath 5 жыл бұрын
These people cause cognitive dissonance and we dont know which way is up or down when we are in their clutches. Hugs to survivors!
@TravisTennies
@TravisTennies 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the hug. I need them so bad, but I never get any.
@amandaleebeauty5080
@amandaleebeauty5080 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos. My little sister informed me yesterday she used to cut herself in high school to cope 💔. My mother is a cluster B personality. She inflicted a great deal of emotional and mental abuse on her and I. A vast difference in comparison to my brothers. It was and is a reality we live in alone. Suffer in silence with just us girls to validate one another’s experiences. She went no contact 7 years ago and has accomplished so much. A degree in psychology, married her high school sweet heart. Currently pursuing medical school. She blows me away all the time. I can’t help but feel so sad and crushed for her. My little sister suffered like that alone 💔. I want to go back to that young woman and hug her so tight. Tell her she’s not alone her big sister is here. My mother has brought me to the edge but to hurt so badly you cut. Emotional abuse needs to be more openly discussed. We need to be aware of these kids of individuals and the damage they cause to the people who love them. No child should suffer in silence like that. No bruises to show the hurt and cruelty has been inflicted on them.
@julianac2377
@julianac2377 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing about you and your sister. Being the youngest of 8 (6girls 2boys)with a twin brother, being raised with a chauvinistic mother & emotionally detached father; we girls suffered in silence (unbeknownst to our father)of psychological mutilation by our mother while we watched our brothers be praised like gods. Having the dynamic of being both the youngest (often forgotten about/lost in the chaos-neglected) & being twin to a boy (constantly being compared to/disregarded/achievements overshadowed) I unknowingly suffered and became so numb that i found comfort in self mutilation as well as my sisters. There is clarity in feeling the euphoria as endorphins flow through the body. There is a self-awareness that follows and from that we pull strength and spiritualism that we harness for ourselves as use as a tool for growth. The beautiful aspect about that is that since that awareness was inflicted (given) by our own self, no one has the power to take it away and therefore it becomes a source of empowerment to build with until healthier methods of self love develop. The reason i share this is not for sympathy or self-indulgence, but for insight. Coming from having some commonalities in our background & being in a much healthier space now, I see that you obviously care deeply, but still having sorrow and sadness for her evolution of self only brings more sadness, because her choice led you to have negative feelings. As absurd as that sounds, since we aren't responsible for anyone's feelings but own, there is still that guilt of feeling responsible. Also, that there is nothing that can be done to change the past which leaves a feeling of helplessness. It doesn't help to hold on to those emotions it only provides an avenue to revisit those destructive memories. Does that make sense? I don't mean to pick your words apart or belittle by any means, just to state that it would provide growth and acceleration to focus on the necessity of those experiences that she overcame to be the beautiful soul she is today. And in conveying that, substitutes the feelings of guilt & shame for feelings of strength & accomplishment. 💞
@abusetoenlightenment3074
@abusetoenlightenment3074 5 жыл бұрын
@@julianac2377 Thank you for taking the time to explain your experience with such candour and insight. I wonder if I can share it as I feel the simple truth and wisdom in your clarity of words. Thank you.
@clairenj8751
@clairenj8751 5 жыл бұрын
Amanda Lee Beauty o
@tandyerowe5602
@tandyerowe5602 5 жыл бұрын
You are not alone, my sisters and I faced similar upbringings, sadly. 🤗
@FaithfulandTrue949
@FaithfulandTrue949 4 жыл бұрын
Amanda Lee Beauty what an apt name, beauty on the inside is evident, God bless you. Your post is so healing, would like to adopt you as my sister. The cognitive dissonance of narcissistic, psychopathic and borderline family members who are either overtly or covertly abusive: they steer you towards wrong choices in order to further entrap you when it goes wrong - because through Ignorance, you seek counsel from them. A lifetime of trauma, here I stand alone and isolated to protect my offspring. Yet my heart breaks for them... Deserving to be truly loved by a family, these are hard lessons.
@kinny2098
@kinny2098 5 жыл бұрын
This doctor is first class. If the front-line doctors had this lady's understanding and insight, then I believe far more people would helped in time.
@EMTwombly
@EMTwombly 5 жыл бұрын
With C-PTSD some of my self harm behavior was isolating, people pleasing with learning how to physically or intellectually fighting them if things did not go well. That being said, I’ve committed myself to treatment and with some medication, ACT/CPT therapy and learning my MBTI personality have really, really helped! (ACT - acceptance and commitment therapy, CPT- cognitive processing therapy, MBTI - Meyers-Briggs test (personality)index)
@flyhis
@flyhis 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, you’ve helped me so much put into words what I’ve been wrestling against much of my life. I was feeling suicidal just a feel days ago as I couldn’t come to terms as to why I’d keep harming myself just as I was about to achieve something great in my life. I felt helplessly incurable. But I’ve been attending psychoanalysis sessions for over a year now and many of my symptoms have now subdued. Watching your video, though, has been a great help for my understanding the childhood trauma I went through: parenting emotional neglect, constant bullying at home and at school for being different from what society expected me to be, and the list goes on. Thank you for being so clear about this topic. I’d certainly make an effort and set up sessions with you if I were in the USA. Thank you all the same! Rafael, Brazil
@jamesidakula1705
@jamesidakula1705 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I'll watch more of your videos. Doing a lot of self therapy right now. It's great to hear a kind, understanding voice instead of a judgemental, cold one. One year and 8 months sober from alcohol and it still feels like I just quit last month. Anger, grief and grief again. Wears me out, but It's getting better. Slowly. Very slowly. Thank you again.
@TheAaronfarrington
@TheAaronfarrington 3 жыл бұрын
i didnt believe i had PTSD really until this week. a silly little argument spiralled out of control, not even an argument just a statement and i flew out, my mind spiralled and i was thinking about the trauma i had and the trauma i inflicted over and over, i starved my self from monday to yesterday and ignored my wife and our new dog in that time i was pushing her away and now ive got through it ive destroyed our bond. i cant believe it had to get to this point for me to see what it has done to me. i have an appt today with my GP and i will start seeing a therapist but ive collapsed an incredible 12 year relationship. this short video is clear and almost soothing in its hope that i can get through this.
@jazzguitar3441
@jazzguitar3441 5 жыл бұрын
Very helpful, and I like your calm and unagitated way of speaking very much. Plus the explanation of self harm, which is not only very difficult to understand for outsiders, but mostly even for self-harmers themselves.
@marinaschaefer8229
@marinaschaefer8229 4 жыл бұрын
You have taught me so much in such a short period. You are a God send into the insight of people being traumatized in life.
@bgarbled
@bgarbled 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Really struggling, esp lately. Your video made me feel less alone/isolated. God bless
@trailerkru9520
@trailerkru9520 3 жыл бұрын
I have recently been diagnosed with PTSD, I have never heard about C PTSD before until now , thank you for sharing I really appreciate the knowledge that you have passed on.
@louisedrummond6259
@louisedrummond6259 4 жыл бұрын
I recognize myself in this excellent video. I have been in lots of therapy. It has kept me alive and helped enormously. AA and Al-anon, have helped to manage my feelings and to trust my perceptions. I can still be thrown for a loop but the problem is pale now compared to what it was, and life is now worth living. Keep going. If I could do it, anyone can.
@baileygregg6567
@baileygregg6567 5 жыл бұрын
Still rings true, thank you for recognizing it. Though aware and working on it, not many want to hear what I learned...
@louisenorton141
@louisenorton141 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your videos. I’ve been trying to find words to explain this to my sister in law and brother (who are very aware of my childhood trauma as well as adulthood trauma. I’m in woman’s trauma therapy. Third week. I’m hoping I can also stop being scared because it’s so exhausting. I want to believe you because I can see the kindness in ur eyes when u speak. The gentleness that comes through ur words. Thank you for giving me a voice to share. Wish you were my therapist. ❤️
@jcast1976
@jcast1976 3 жыл бұрын
Pleasing others..I always wondered why i did that. Couldn’t put my finger on it. Thank you so much.
@AzimuthAviation
@AzimuthAviation 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the wonderful video. Determination to be a survivor lead me many years ago to study many areas of human behavior through both college and university sources online but also informative videos such as this. I loved the comment how you enjoy seeing victims becoming survivors. When you've personally experienced the trauma and take up the fight to understand it the pain can diminish while the memory becomes a good motivation to continue and help others. I have found that I can put up a good fight for others and am administrator in a survivor's group online. It helps me to chip away at my own experiences while helping others...
@louisenorton141
@louisenorton141 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you again. I feel like you spoke my words. ❤️ it’s easier to share a video then it is talking for me. ❤️
@bkChick2000
@bkChick2000 3 жыл бұрын
the way to talk makes me feel so safe
@judygarner3316
@judygarner3316 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I have cptsd and your video helped me understand more of what I have went threw
@sarahs4663
@sarahs4663 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for this video. You made me feel like i'm not as alone as i feel and i appreciate that.
@timothymcdonnell7942
@timothymcdonnell7942 4 жыл бұрын
I thought recovering would be a happy experience but it's just not. I was blind to my behaviour, but now I see the damage that I have done to everyone in my life. I am experiencing so much guilt and shame. I won't kill myself but I see why people do. It's very dark. I don't like it but I'll look for better days ahead.
@breecase8356
@breecase8356 3 жыл бұрын
I have this and trichotillomania. Def makes sense. Its such a relief to find a real diagnoises after seeing doctor's since i was 17 and im now 28.
@1966nz
@1966nz 5 жыл бұрын
Insightful, helpful, and empathetic.
@Miak214
@Miak214 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on! I Love this! I can’t wait to share this with my family and those who don’t understand C-PTSD. Thank you very much!
@mamaoshera706
@mamaoshera706 5 жыл бұрын
I love this....that you have take the time to address what is happening in my life...thank you for taking the time to give all of us this very important information about this I wish to delve into my take on it further at a later time ...enjoy the rest of your day
@mentalhealthaddictionselfh6985
@mentalhealthaddictionselfh6985 4 жыл бұрын
Dr.Sonya Bruner I want to thank you I've been watching your videos for years you have made my life safer by making me feel like that I'm ok I've been struggling with selfharm with cutting and using drugs when I feel like I'm going to cut I watch your videos and it stops me thanks from my heart
@yellabyrd5821
@yellabyrd5821 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for differentiating between CPTSD and BPD
@adampowell5376
@adampowell5376 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I am a severely traumatised person. I have many problems that I need to address but I do not always know the order of priority.
@delphinium5555
@delphinium5555 3 жыл бұрын
I have this. So difficult to live with. Every day, all day is pain and hard work.
@lannygang4129
@lannygang4129 3 жыл бұрын
You helped me so much. Thank you, this was so uplifting. :)
@_S.D._
@_S.D._ 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, I am a recovering cutter. They way you described the reasons for the self-harm are spot on. It's been 2.5 years since my last episode :). I've been diagnosed with BPD and PTSD. I was told since my trama started in early childhood and continued until mid twenties they can't pin the exact cause.
@cameronadams913
@cameronadams913 4 жыл бұрын
It makes me feel good to just have some say I understand why you do this.
@themissmay
@themissmay 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing description, thank you
@Margaret75
@Margaret75 5 жыл бұрын
Omg this is the first time I have had a real explanation of my ptsd
@davidsullivan8791
@davidsullivan8791 5 жыл бұрын
watched 2 of your videos on cptsd. so helpful and heartfelt info. thanks looking forward to more
@operationmindfuck7145
@operationmindfuck7145 5 жыл бұрын
What if we are approaching the problem incorrectly? If people are taking substances to relieve the emotional pain perhaps it would be a good idea to give them therapy in that state of mind where they have the strength to confront the thoughts that plague them. The brain needs to process traumatic experiences so that it can file them away. Until you let you mind think about these things, and let the pain wash through you, they won't go away. The painful pangs of memory will keep coming back if you push it out of your mind without meditating on it. The pain doesn't get any worse if you do think about it but it will diminish each time. I find Cannabis is a great way to meditate but it can you very anxious if you have PTSD and you may just think you don't like weed but it is because it is trying to bring things to the front that you have buried. Cannabis is a potent healing agent for the mind if you just lay back in a quiet room and think about your problems and solutions will find you when you do this bringing a sense of calm and purpose.
@Zehested
@Zehested 5 жыл бұрын
My experience exactly!👍 Thank you for this comment🙏🌎❤
@jamesidakula1705
@jamesidakula1705 5 жыл бұрын
It's so true. I used cannabis to help me stop drinking. Alcohol was killing me. Not many people understand the value of cannabis. Haven't had a drink in a year and 8 months. You're right. It's therapeutic. Take care.
@sarasmr4278
@sarasmr4278 5 жыл бұрын
EMDR is a similar concept, without medication. It's about engaging the whole brain while thinking about the intrusive memories so the brain can process them appropriately. The limbic system handles trauma memories, which is why they're different and can become intrusive. EMDR...with weed? Very interesting thought.
@YouAreGoingToLoseMe87
@YouAreGoingToLoseMe87 5 жыл бұрын
You are correct, but here in the US drug arrests make the state rich. Do 20 for some grass but a pedophile gets probation. Rinse wash repeat
@user-go3sr1pm1d
@user-go3sr1pm1d 5 жыл бұрын
Idk speaking from my experience (I want to say I'm somewhat on the spectrum of ptsd/ I have trauma/ I am a very insightful person, I have worked through alot of my pain, however its always there when you get thinking.) Cannabis had some really crazy effects to me. I am a person that doesn't get flashbacks but on cannabis they were there, I would hear the sounds of my child hood, feel weighed down really badly. However it made me realize I am more anxious than anything, I would get weed hangovers, and feel detached for weeks. Almost to a point of depersonalization. It's scary as fuck, like living in a haze, for me I feel high when I'm not high. I also had my body not agree with alcohol so I was testing weed since legalization was on the horizon and I never played around with limits before. Whenever I talk about cannabis and how it affects me it's very strong reactions. I think it's just important for people to know that just as much as it is there for them. Don't get me wrong, I love weed but it has to be the right amount, and I do want to try CBD.
@androgynyprodigy393
@androgynyprodigy393 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me realize some things about my mind I didn't know were blockages
@kristinreich6226
@kristinreich6226 3 жыл бұрын
As far as self harming... When I have done that in the past... I always felt like I was turning the emotional pain into physical pain... Which is something tangible. I understand why that hurts. I understand what made it hurt. It makes far more sense than emotional pain. Best explanation I can give
@Fugzaizm
@Fugzaizm 3 жыл бұрын
I have been looking for a way to explain to my fiance how and why I do things and this has helped me understand me in a better way to be able to show this to my partner and start to express myself and get out how I am n why I react or respond how I do. Thank you.
@BodyOfMyGuitar
@BodyOfMyGuitar 5 жыл бұрын
You mentioned effective treatments for CPTSD. Do you have a video on what they are? Thank you.
@k8lynmae
@k8lynmae 5 жыл бұрын
Look up Pat Ogden here on KZbin and even web search for her techniques on reversing effects from traumas.
@Ashley-5555
@Ashley-5555 3 жыл бұрын
im very violent in a theatrical way, never actually violent of course. just words in a safe space on my own, drawings, poetry... i thank the universe for stepping in when i needed it... was almost like my whole life ive been possessed and i finally have found ways of healing which are for the greater good of myself and others
@Wooddweller
@Wooddweller 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the clarity !
@25johis
@25johis 5 жыл бұрын
Very good video. Thank you. Hugs from Norway 🇳🇴
@ownsil4864
@ownsil4864 3 жыл бұрын
I have not been diagnosed with this, but I have been diagnosed with ptsd. I have been living in so much pain for the past 3 years and I think this is the answer because all of this was pretty much explaining me 😋
@katiefinnegan4649
@katiefinnegan4649 5 жыл бұрын
Hi, I have a suggestion for a video. My partner has been diagnosed with C-PTSD and my suggestion is for any helpful tips for the significant other to support the CPTSD victim, and perhaps ways they can cope with the struggle to support the CPTSD victim. It’s so hard sometimes. Thanks for a great video.
@cyndihowland2741
@cyndihowland2741 4 жыл бұрын
7-29-2020 Thank you for this video. My recent therapy is Brain Spotting. I am making progress. Sincerely, Cynthia
@HBKinky
@HBKinky 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video!
@kazimierzgarshin3924
@kazimierzgarshin3924 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your explanation.
@riachysami
@riachysami 5 жыл бұрын
Great to know you guys are putting those videos on KZbin now. I'm on Betterhelp & i wonder if you are a counsellor there & if I could do counselling with you there. Please let me know in the comments.
@jasongentile7098
@jasongentile7098 5 жыл бұрын
This was fantastic. Thank you
@jamieztar
@jamieztar 3 жыл бұрын
Nicely articulated. Thank you.
@AVERYCK77
@AVERYCK77 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Could you please tell us more about the links that might exist between cptsd and psychosis?
@sarahrangoonwala1494
@sarahrangoonwala1494 5 жыл бұрын
May I please request for recomnendations for types of therapies for C-PTSD? This video was very beneficial. Thank you :)
@k8lynmae
@k8lynmae 5 жыл бұрын
Look up Pat Ogden both here on KZbin and web search on her techniques on traumas
@FineFeatheredHomestead
@FineFeatheredHomestead 5 жыл бұрын
CBT is the best. Cognitive behavioral therapy. For self harm complications or severe abuse, DBT is greatly effective too. Dialectical behavior therapy. For decreasing intensity of flashbacks, EMDR is very effective. And journaling can help get those thoughts out, while art, drama, music, sports or exercise and pursuing joys helps put goodness in and increase resilience.
@123marchello
@123marchello 4 жыл бұрын
I wish she was my therapist. She’s good. She understands, has the knowledge and has the heart. She believes in your your overall healing within all domains. I just know I’d have a good report with her.
@billpardy7271
@billpardy7271 4 жыл бұрын
thank u for insite n 2 ptsd,im learrning alot about my disorder,ptsd.
@andresalvarez1089
@andresalvarez1089 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@qyn8886
@qyn8886 3 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so calming, and I have to say I love the video, however this topic seemed like it affected you in some way ? I hope you are feeling well and that this video didn’t make you uncomfortable to talk about for us all.
@Kira-ni8eu
@Kira-ni8eu 4 жыл бұрын
i don't know why but i love this woman
@ambershively7653
@ambershively7653 5 жыл бұрын
I have PTSD and was misdiagnosed as borderline disorder. I understand how it can hurt treatment.
@SundryGirl
@SundryGirl 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your help mine is definitely complex
@ilovemexoxo5720
@ilovemexoxo5720 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
@nonombredotcom
@nonombredotcom 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😭
@writerwarriorqueen
@writerwarriorqueen 5 жыл бұрын
This video is a lifesaver.
@Lanena123musiclover
@Lanena123musiclover 5 жыл бұрын
Love your video....so on point...
@PhoenixtheII
@PhoenixtheII 5 жыл бұрын
5:34, *hugs*, You've been there too haven't you?
@superslyko123
@superslyko123 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed. You can see it in her eyes. ........ She knows.
@KathrynBriley
@KathrynBriley 5 жыл бұрын
Trying to hug CPSD symptoms away? Have you completely list your mind?!!!!!
@bluewolf783
@bluewolf783 5 жыл бұрын
@@KathrynBriley I'm sure that is not at all what was meant. Maybe chill a little.
@becky7008
@becky7008 5 жыл бұрын
not necessarily..as a therapist, she has worked with many patients and just feels a lot empathy
@UhDayDream
@UhDayDream 4 жыл бұрын
Kathryn Briley I don’t like hugs either but seeing “*hugs*” like that I understand the intent & that was soothing to read on here.
@cobalius
@cobalius 4 жыл бұрын
5:49 my favorite part and also yours C:
@jazwar3285
@jazwar3285 4 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@katie-annescott533
@katie-annescott533 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@zahraalbattat2968
@zahraalbattat2968 3 жыл бұрын
I can listen to you all day long
@livelearn8500
@livelearn8500 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe you can go over how someone can help when interacting with someone with cptsd. Like if they are friends or if they are close. What are some things that someone with cptsd do that other people may not understand and what are some ways to be patient and try to understand?
@dreamznaspiratons7064
@dreamznaspiratons7064 3 жыл бұрын
thank you. god bless you
@paulJkiely
@paulJkiely 5 жыл бұрын
She’s somewhat soothing...
@pamsimonson5500
@pamsimonson5500 5 жыл бұрын
I will have this the rest of my life from this situation. Money and a relationship can't fix it
@philiphammar
@philiphammar 4 жыл бұрын
I would love to see this woman smile!
@walidbtts3396
@walidbtts3396 4 жыл бұрын
She is speaking about a srrious subject and i personnally see light in her eyes
@FirstLast-cw5dj
@FirstLast-cw5dj 5 жыл бұрын
_Thanks._
@namesdaisy4538
@namesdaisy4538 4 жыл бұрын
Really like your videos, too bad nothing recent. Thanks.
@razmataz44
@razmataz44 3 жыл бұрын
what are the treatments Dr, i have looked into schema, any options would be HUGELY APPRECIATED. I have avoidant, adhd, hyper sensitivity to any change, neurosis, aspd and prob some narc in there, please any help or directions which therapy works would be MASSIVELY APPRECIATED, many thanks for your time and help
@taiweannoona1204
@taiweannoona1204 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou💞
@LissyBabyBop
@LissyBabyBop 5 жыл бұрын
Literally me. Multiple traumas and I have had all of the symptoms..
@KathrynBriley
@KathrynBriley 5 жыл бұрын
Lady Droog's corner: What's been your accomplishment to reverse or undo the harmful effects of the trauma you sustained?
@hfactor6429
@hfactor6429 4 жыл бұрын
All true And VERY interested in those ways to make life more manageable
@jessicacalinao779
@jessicacalinao779 4 жыл бұрын
My fiancé is going through a lot of stuff with his PTSD and what he does is drink until he’s drunk. I’m trying to find a way that can help me understand and how to be there for him with it.
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