Cadeaux at the Chateau: A VINTAGE SHIRT FOR SELMAR!

This time we move to the Marquis' Apartment for the gift opening, as I'm trying to show you different glimpses of the chateau each week. We open incredibly thoughtful gifts, from buttercup porcelain via greenlandic wrist warmers, to a very special shirt for Selmar!
In 'Cadeaux at the Chateau', all of the inhabitants of the Chateau de Lalande gather together to open beautiful gifts that people have sent from all over the world. All of the monetisation from these videos will be donated to a different charity each month.
I used to show the gifts as part of 'The Chateau Diaries' episodes, but you're all so very generous that we have many gifts, and if we spent the episodes opening them, we wouldn't be able to show you other aspects of chateau life! So, for those of you who enjoy watching presents being opened, and as a way to thank those of you who were kind enough to send them, I've made this new channel. Every week we will film your beautiful gifts whilst enjoying afternoon tea or aperitif together.
It is very important to me that you know that we in no way expect anyone to send us gifts. I would like to go further than that and add that, if doing so will put you in any financial difficulty whatsoever, please, please do not send us anything. Knowing that you join us by watching 'The Chateau Diaries' gives us all an enormous boost. But for those of you who have sent these incredibly thoughtful gifts, I hope that seeing us open them gives you a fraction of the joy that you've given us 💖💖💖
If you would like to see more of our life at the chateau, please go to our main 'Chateau Diaries' channel:
/ thechateaudiaries

[@ourfloridagarden4191]

That is a beautiful moment between Steph and Selmar. He is very caring of all and that can be over looked by many.

[@scpmdt]

Selmar was made for Lalande. He is a wonderful person & treats people with respect. A PERFECT GENTLEMAN.

[@marlenesistrunk5300]

I think it’s obvious since he’s a WorkAway asked or Chosen to stay

[@mattmc90]

What a lovely moment between you and Selmar, Stephanie. He evidently cares a lot, and that moment of you voicing your appreciation was just so heart-warming. xx

[@yvonneharrison4112]

So true, it’s like Stephanie has a unique connection with each person at LeLande.

[@oliveappleby8672]

Matthew McA ..yes very interesting exchange💖💖💋

[@noellaq8056]

That was a beautiful moment when Stephanie told Selmar how much she appreciated the fact that he always looked out for her ... and Selmar’s response. May Lalande always be graced with your kind and caring presence, Selmar. Stephanie, thank you for my card which arrived a few days ago. It made us very happy! And that was a beautiful parcel that Selmar received. It was selected with care! The shirt is so beautiful, too. It suits your personality .... and the little tango without music was heartwarming. Thank you, all at Lalande. Ha ha ha! I laughed so hard when Philippe said, “you should drink from that (hedgehog) mug when you’re feeling prickly”. Don’t we all ... ?

[@EmilyBoltz]

Such a wonderful group of people. They bring so much happiness to so many!

[@aleta5873]

Who knew that hedgehogs had 'long legs' to stand up and scurry away...? per Selmar.

[@RalphTGP]

Anyone who has read "Far From The Madding Crowd" will have found that a poignant moment.

[@paulabrown3075]

anybody else think stephanie and selmar make a great couple. together they could make the chateau even greater.

[@bella151272]

Selmar you are so genuine and caring, Stephanie is so lucky to have you around.

[@juliegraham8133]

Agreed! I am so excited to hear you are Taurus like me Selmar, please could I ask what date, I am the 12th.😊

[@paulabrown3075]

stephanie and selmar they seem perfect for each other. does anyone else think so? Paula Harris Brown georgia...usa

[@colorfullownsome3931]

I cried when Stephanie thanks Selmar, " you do look after me"

[@teresacarle294]

😢me too.

[@sarahyates6055]

Two placemats would work in Mummy’s apartment! For her and Percy

[@mcharlie260]

"A vegan behind the camera and a pile of allergies over there" 😂😂😂😂

[@chrismaraccini8108]

Who ever did the camera was good. Didn't hear any sound effects from them, very professional.

[@sharong8511]

Kind of awkward for Philip though...

[@chrismaraccini8108]

@@sharong8511 Why was it awkward for Phillip, he seemed OK. Did I miss something between him & the camera person?

[@wisequeens]

Selmar had beautiful manners he waited 10 minutes ... until everyone stopped going on to open his gift

[@hatshepsut8329]

Loved Selmar’s shirt gift. It fit him well and he and Stephanie looked beautiful dancing together! He really is a beautiful soul. It always seems more “homey” there at the chateau with him and good old Diesel hanging about too.

[@cynthialambert9067]

My friend Pieter Estersohn did the photographs for that Kentucky house book.

[@aleta5873]

Oh wow! Steph really appreciated them...(I'm from the LA area). "Stay at home" again..

[@joycejohnson395]

Musk ox wool (the inner wool) is called qiviut in the US. It’s incredibly warm and as soft as silk. It has to be hand combed from the musk oxen so it’s relatively rare. The wrist warmers are not only beautiful and beautifully crafted but truly generous gifts.

[@lrlasvegas6427]

Thank you for explaining!

[@primrosedahlia9466]

Yes it's a very generous gift and they were very cute

[@karlasmit7535]

And the embellished knitting was gorgeous. Was that tiny beads?

[@Redstomp]

My mother knitted those for Stephanie! It is indeed quite rare, and when we visited Greenland together years ago, we ended gathering a lot of it (since the oxen rub against bushes and rocks, you can pick it off of that in nature). This yarn is not made from that gathered bunch though, but the yarn is SO wonderfully soft, and warm. Really quite incomparable. My mother was so excited to see Stephanie open them, and even spotting her wearing them outside in another video last week!

[@Redstomp]

@@karlasmit7535 Yes, those are tiny little beads that are drawn onto the yarn and knitted into little patterns!

[@nigelbullock9039]

Selmar is just an awesome chap. He adds sunshine to the house. Keep him for as long as he can.

[@avanzarconladislexiaavanza2789]

Lovely to see Selmar again. True, purple does look good on Selmar ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@dawnmariemay8324]

It’s his favourite colour I heard him say recently. So very nice❣️

[@susantaylor1359]

Lalande is just a magical place, for it has brought so many amazing people to help Stephanie and be there for her. It has give myself and other loads of joy and new friends. I love the special bond that Stephanie and Selmar have. Take care

[@SusieQ2023]

“Fish and Chips flavored crisps. Oh my gosh. Is that ... good?” Sooo funny! Sooo true though, right?

[@nataliejameson6455]

Oh Stephanie I'm so happy you liked the Spode cup!!!! It's so you!!! Enjoy😍

[@karlasmit7535]

Absolutely thoughtful and kind gift.

[@LindaBrandtArt]

Even if it’s months after your birthday this was the perfect time to open my gift. I have been in hospital 6 days now and today is really hard. This helped so much and enjoy the pasta

[@MsLinda165]

Dear soul! Get well soon!

[@teresaaldinger4787]

Get well soon Linda! You sent such lovely gifts

[@teresacarle294]

😔So very sorry to hear you are in hospital🏥. Hard enough to be ill🤒 as well as separated from loved ones. You're not alone in spirit. ⚜Lalander's near & far draw a circle of caring about you like a cosy blanket. Your reaching out with such a kind & thoughtful🎁gift has touched us all. 🙏Pray for your recovery & return home. 🕊God bless you & keep you always! ☮💛🌼

[@lrlasvegas6427]

Get well soon!

[@primrosedahlia9466]

Get well soon❤️hugs from Norway

[@barbaralemere5183]

Inside the drinks cabinet door!

[@barbaralemere5183]

Show the staff that every

[@chasethecat3839]

Hahaha

[@aleta5873]

Hahaa! Funny...

[@barbaralemere5183]

I don’t know what happened to my post. Stephanie you have to frame your mother’s picture and hide it around the chateau every day. You know, in the kitchen cupboard, in the drinks cabinet, in the laundry room, just rot freak out the staff and resident that Madame is keeping her eye in them!😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@brittanyneely8895]

So happy you liked the books! I will send more chocolate bourbon balls! 💕

[@chasethecat3839]

Yes, after seeing those, I went down to the kitchen to try anx find anything similar cause it made my mouth water, lol. Nothing close

[@karlasmit7535]

You chose happy and well chosen gifts for Stephanie. Very kind a d well done of you.

[@peg7981]

The best part of the video was Selmar's shirt.

[@shannonvans]

I have the same Copeland Spode Buttercup teacup and saucer. I can pretend Stephanie and I are having tea together when I use mine. What joy people share when they send gifts to LaLande.

[@Sandra-qi3bm]

I agree with the comments about how caring Salmar is, I agree your lucky to have him Stephanie

[@cate4338]

Selmar referring to Isabelle 'yes, she raised us well' ... gorgeous ... and so many more lovely moments ...

[@jimm8682]

Selmar is soo diplomatic a proper gentleman, Manuka honey is good for when you need something soft for your sore throat, great for winter.

[@dotwillcoxson5352]

Manuka honey has great healing properties on wounds 🦘🦘🦘

[@edsamson8916]

It’s so true. Everyone wants to help to ensure the contination and cultural diversity of Lalande So inspiring. Take care from Canada

[@nettybubba7730]

I teared up when Stephanie and Selmar had a mutal moment of Gratitude....I honestly thought Stephanie was tearing up also....such a beautiful moment. 💝

[@k8michele]

I love watching these videos, I’m in America and it’s been so divided. It does my heart good to be reminded how nice, giving and kind people are! ❤️❤️❤️

[@eastcoastartist]

The circles of lace would make the perfect end edge of a pillow case.

[@cerwelt]

Who would think one could get such a charge out of watching people open gifts? I never miss it. Thanks for sharing. I wanted to sing the “unbirthday” song to you.

[@PrincessHarlotte]

You should see the plethora of "unboxing" vids on YT, especially for kids! It's a "thing" apparently? 💜

[@Jennifer62389]

Selmar looks good in his gifted shirt.

[@martinphillips7221]

Stephanie is the joy and happiness we all need .The salon of kindness is a bright spot in a torrid age

[@lisaakinlabi]

The shirt was wonderful on Salmar - lovely gift!

[@valeryc2001]

How does it feel to get gifts from around the world.......this is better than any reality tv series......it’s real and one day you will be on tv.........wow

[@eileenlane787]

woohoo stephenie rinsed the travek mug before addding tea :)

[@amyphillips3277]

DeeAnn Vincent is my aunt!!!!I am watching this video with my grandmother DeeAnn is her sister in-law.She gave you the Copeland Spode cup and saucer.My name is Kaylee and I love your videos.😊❤️😊❤️😊❤️😊❤️

[@carolweaver3269]

Do love the Purple! Never was thinking of the Purple color on Selmar, but it truly is a very good color for him! It is true how Selmar is like the overseer and tries to make sure all is running nicely/ Stephanie we know its the 'lady of the house or Queen of this Chateau, ' but he is there when things get a bit crazy, and helps to bring things back into the norm. I think it is Stephanies birthday every day! * I thought she was born around my birthday Sept. 22nd and wished her Happy Birthday, and she was so gracious and went right along with me* Lovely gifts received!! So many talented viewers. I think they search high and love finding just the right gift for all of the family at La Lande! Which is a nice thing. Do miss mommy and Scotsman( Gerald) I know they will all be back. ( love watching Diesal receiving gifts he loves it so much! Sees everyone else opening them and just waits and hopes. His little bed was so nice.) Such a perfect shirt, Selmar! They did their homework to even have a bull on it your astrological sign. Realy perfect !!!

[@carolweaver3269]

@@vino140 Yes, she is very gracious! She appreciates every gift and person sending it.

[@beedevonlife]

Selmar is just great 😁

[@jeanthobaben]

You are such a "mini-me" of your mother. Certainly you know you will age beautifully.

[@carolehanrahan]

I loved the Spode travel mug and I think that if Stephanie carries the mug, wears the blue and white bracelet and wears her blue and white skirt then my day can be considered complete! So many lovely things yet again.

[@robwestley7370]

Sandra Westley that bracelet will go perfect with Stephanie’s blue dress and skirt.

[@cleverclogs2244]

Selmar's scarf looks perfect on him! 👌

[@ntakovacj3644]

as usual I sit here with a smile on my face the whole time. Especially when they open all that CANDY! This is so funny -- I don't want any of it but their delight is delightful. Shrimp and banana candy? Well, certainly the Lalande crowd does eat a lot of healthy home grown food and they need a little sugar now and then. I love the story about the new found e-bay friends. Lalande truly inspires special attachments.

[@eileenlane787]

the shrimp and banana are awful . My daughters fav are the squshys . there delish

[@robinchurch5658]

Yet another wonderful opening of treasures, but the most treasured thing to me is the laughter of all you sweet LaLanders. It is truly medicine for my soul☺️ And the Hedge Hugs mug “ for when you’re feeling prickly” (as Philip so humorously put it)-are any of you every truly prickly? Just a note to all of us Americans: you can get those Danish cookies just about anywhere in the states in that beautiful blue tin, but they are called Royal Dansk Danish Butter Cookies. They are soooo good, I eat a tin of them every week. They keep me from feeling prickly in these crazy times🤗

[@Redstomp]

My mom sent those over (here from Denmark). Fun to know that they can be bought so readily in the States as well. :D

[@sandraford4235]

The Dollar Store sells them

[@elewysoffinchingefeld3066]

Wish I was there! I love to bake and I also know people with piles of allergies, so I like the challenge of figuring out what I can make that they can eat!

[@karlasmit7535]

You would be a treat for so many with food challenges. I hope you can go sometime.

[@karenellisbrown8169]

Selmar you wear that shirt so well.

[@anneduigan4933]

I is still lovely to watch the charming unbirthday gifts being opened and always better when they are for everyone!

[@izzy1563]

Unwrapping the Fortnum Mason jam strawberry server reminded me of how my mother packed my school lunches years ago. It took me a considerable amount of time unwrapping on school days.

[@maureenreid]

Great book to choose to put your book mark in the great Robert Burns!! Those portraits of you and Isobelle are brilliant, the best I have seen xx

[@luciagonzalez4899]

The circles of lace, I believe are for edging pillowcases; my great grandmother crocheted many of these and sewed them to the pillowcases.

[@cynthialuna5786]

Lady Stephanie I love the way Selmar moves you around dancing. You just float. You both dance so well. Enjoyed this episode, thank you , God bless all.

[@zant4113]

As a 30 year resident of Portland, that Hedge Hugs mug is quintessential Portlandia humor...I can almost envision the store it came from...makes me miss my old hometown.

[@janicerobinson2970]

Stephane &Selma He Is Very Caring Lovely Man 👨 💕

[@saintsi6997]

Best show on TV !

[@saskatoongirl3163]

You know that painting behind you makes me think of Alice in Wonderland with the clothing and the garden scenery.

[@cathyblackhall3448]

It’s lovely isn’t it?The colours are beautiful.

[@juliegibbons5988]

and now we must treat Philip, bless you Philip.... patient as a saint. I am trying to think of a gift for you!

[@ShaheenKhan-xw3we]

Stephanie, your cadeux a la lande is so exciting and enjoyable ♥️🤗

[@myhillslife27]

Iris that is so sweet .. How thoughtful! Selmar that is so sweet.. I do love that dress Stephane

[@ta3970]

I love it when Stephine and her friends " come out to play" now my week is off to a good start. Xoxo 💛

[@Laia12]

I am so happy that you did like the sketches I made for you. I can do wayyy more details on those though. The moment between you and Selmar is so hearth warming! I love you guys so much! Hugs from Canada! J'adore regarder vos vidéos. xoxo 💕💕💕

[@birgittvanwijk9646]

Hello dear Lalanders, the pig is on the Christmas cup is a Nordic tradition. Pigs are a symbol of good luck for the new year. In German it’s a “Gluecksschwein” = lucky pig. When something risky works out well they say: “Ich habe Schwein gehabt” = I got lucky. A Christmas tradition is a molded pink marzipan pig. Mandy knows and can tell you more about it. All the best and thank you for another great vlog! Birgitt

[@deannayoung5311]

How lovely Stephanie as I was Watching you all opening the wonderful packages 🤗 I gazed at the picture on the wall💐🥰 behind you all, And noticed your outfits all Match well with it..lol lol lol I adore you truly 💞💞💞

[@chasethecat3839]

True that

[@kimphilpin1062]

Big warm hugs to all at the Chateau.

[@claudine1928]

From what i could se, i love the painting behind you, works really well with the yellow wall. Nice vlog, cousy to watch.

[@Jayrose59]

These are always such great vlogs.

[@EmilyBoltz]

Why to start my week! I love it- lo e the shirt Selmar!

[@bambiborel6837]

Melting; Stephanie...Selmar must have been a big brother to you in another time 🦚

[@cwatson1975]

Maybe the circles of lace could be used in framing two prints you want to link? Or tie backs for one window room?

[@chasethecat3839]

Ewl..tie backs, yes!!

[@karlasmit7535]

I wondered about neckline/collar on a dress or top.

[@elizabethgeyer-green9910]

I think l have commented before l really enjoy Stephanie and Selmar’s brother sister relationship 🙏

[@yvonnesullivan4388]

Selmar and Stephanie would make a lovely couple❤

[@yvonnesullivan4388]

Watch Diesel with bone don't let him eat the whole thing at once

[@Horus070]

Who knows ... some friendships do end up as partners for life ... happened to me 😅

[@oldheadcook]

Had to work on the Christmas tree, I am turning my 7 foot tree in to a 4 foot tree to sit on a table ❗️. So this blog was my reward and what a nice prize it was❣️ The gifts were wonderful and the yellow walls were bright and sunny which was much needed 👍

[@MP-xf6gq]

OMG......STEPH....you have 3 months worth of gifts to open. I think next week you should have everyone open all of them at once and than you can walk around and view them all. Sooooo cute seeing Diesel eat his new bone!

[@katehobbs2008]

? Diesel eats his newborn what? That sounds a bit creepy ! Maybe all will be clear when I get to that bit of the blog 😁

[@MP-xf6gq]

@@katehobbs2008 NEW B O N E (Typo)

[@MP-xf6gq]

@@katehobbs2008 new bone lol

[@MP-xf6gq]

@@vino140 NO WAY. NO boring at all. I love how Steph opens something and always shows her appreciation and also has some humor with it and also knows where to put her gifts or has a story about a gift. :-)

[@denisefazio6708]

Beautiful Selmar Moment!

[@suellenmcgillick8177]

It’s always so much fun to watch the opening of gifts. The shirt looks exceptionally handsome on Selma. The mugs are so meaningful and we often look for them when we are out and about. The Hedge Hugs is especially cute.

[@myhillslife27]

THAT IS HILARIOUS! the empty box!

[@reremaiwhaipooti7166]

So inspiring, to all of you ❤️😚😍😘🌹

[@Helen-us1ly]

What a joy to partake in your enthusiasm.

[@myhillslife27]

That cup and saucer is beautiful!!!! How lovely! to find friends on EBay.. I don't use it..thats so sweet

[@patriciaodoherty5202]

I never tire of your forever Christmas!The joy of it all!Thank you,thank you ,thank you!You are all so lovely!!!

[@lindabradley1054]

I have never seen such PERFECT sketches - THEY ARE SO REAL - like Stephanie and her mother looking out at us.

[@Laia12]

@Linda Bradley Thank you dear!

[@chasethecat3839]

Those ard very beautifully beaded wrist warmers. To buy them on Etsy would be big $. Wow. Very nice

[@primrosedahlia9466]

Yes very generous gift.

[@isabelleottawa3818]

I loved so much the Spode blue mug that I ordered 2 for myself. Tea tastes so much better in bone China. Cheers!

[@rodneydecoster318]

Stephanie is without doubt the most gracious human being. People are reacting to what Selmar read but quite honestly he was just reading a note someone else had written. Stephanie is the most gracious and she never finds fault with anyone.

[@rose-marie7351]

My favourite moment of the day: lalande vlog! ❤️

[@jamesmurray5249]

Thank you everyone .Absolutely brilliant .😊

[@consideredwhisper]

There must be room for a picture framer to volunteer at the chateau for a few weeks... Also BBC please invite Stephanie to do Strictly next year!

[@JulianeGabriel]

Ohh I love the ebay connection story!

[@michelerandall123]

The yellow placemats could also be used in room on end tables for that room that Stephanie put the yellow bedspread and pillow cover that came from Florence.

[@JaimeThomas]

Watching these gift openings are always so special thank you Stephanie

[@nebula402]

Musk ox wool is also known as qiviut. It’s really soft, warm, and VERY expensive!

[@aleta5873]

Wish we could post a pic of a musk ox...I saw one walking along side a road in Alaska by a You tuber traveling ...It was unreal, like looking at a prehistoric creature. The fur or coat is from it's spine to the ground, hangs like a very thick , heavy curtain. It swayed as it walked...amazing.

[@nebula402]

@@aleta5873 I live in Alaska which is how I’m familiar with them. They’re really cool animals and are more closely related to goats than oxen. There’s a musk ox farm not far from me that I love visiting!

[@aleta5873]

@@nebula402 Wow! They look like they'd be scary. They're huge. Goat not oxen...Thanks for the information. I live in a suburb of LA (all my life). Wow Alaska. That's some country up there. Take care this winter.

[@petajackson3305]

Lovely episode - missing Kat’s bright face . Thanks as always 😘

[@dancerockslife]

What a lovely video that was! This was my first time attending the live chat after over a year of watching. THANK YOU all for being so welcoming and sweet. Much love from Austria, Theresa

[@charleswalker1185]

I so love the opening of the presents...

[@jennifersmall1998]

There is nothing worse than “ muddling your gods up” x

[@ournewnormalnow8432]

Wonderful!🎁🎁🎁 Which charity will November's recipient?

[@1weazy291]

Hi all at La lande💕 beautiful gifts ‼️ thank you for sharing this exciting gift opening👏🏻👏🏻😁

[@daniellereid01]

Maybe Mr. 'Pile of Allergies' could let everyone know what he is allergic to as I think many people would like to send him treats, too. I, myself, am allergic to gluten and dairy, plus I cannot eat nightshade plants due to arthritis, so I know how difficult it can be. I truly loved this vlog, Stephanie et al. It was very heartwarming xox

[@primrosedahlia9466]

I was thinking the exact same thing. I'm also allergic and have EDS so I'm constantly on an anti inflammatory diet and can enjoy all the lovely cakes, chocolate and candies other people enjoy. I mean, we get used to it because it's so much better to have a body and digestive system that works properly, but every now and then it's nice when someone surprises us with something we can actually eat without getting sick. Phillip isn't the only one who has allergies in the castle. Marie also eats gluten-free, and there have been several vegan people there. I'm sure there's a lot of gluten free bakers who would send them some nice gluten-free Christmas cookies.

[@loellafolenta5683]

Why in the name of god would anyone want to send him treats... for what?

[@christinebrown2765]

Stephanie and Nati's dresses at the beginning of the vlog were beautiful

[@jaynegrunnill3705]

Fun Cadeaux,thanks,love the shirt Selmar!

[@myhillslife27]

Steph the yellow placemats for the B&B for a couple who are guests

[@janetmackinnon3411]

Wonderfrul portrait of Isabelle! (2021)