I feel that maybe a novel from olivers point of view, his thoughts and how he felt after he left would be amazing. I dont know about other people but i watched the movie and read the book and always wondered what were olivers thoughts.
@estelle30055 жыл бұрын
S Rivera As soon as I passed the first chapter I realised that I needed to read another book from Oliver’s perspective just to find out why Elio went through so much emotional anguish at Oliver’s hands.😭😭
@KnowTrentTimoy4 жыл бұрын
@@estelle3005 "Why Elio went through so much emotional anguish at Oliver's hands." First, Elio's only 17 yrs old and this was his first true love (some people never experience a first love let alone an intense summer fling of this magnitude just as a perspective). Second, Elio was coming into his own and discovering all of the nuances of his sexuality. He's a very intelligent and sophisticated young man for his age. Above par, educationally speaking thanks, in part, to two highly educated parents but like most young people at 17 years old he lacks the maturity and wisdom to fully grasp the impact and the intensity this kind of love had in store for him. It's not surprising that he went through such a roller coaster of emotional range due to the world wind love affair he experienced with 24 year old Oliver. Without even knowing what thoughts and emotional idiosyncrasies Oliver might've endured I'd surmise that he dealt with the love affair with a little more composure and competence. At least it came across that way with the minimal visual aids the audience was exposed to. I, like yourself, am interested in Oliver's thoughts as well. A follow up would be most enjoyable but don't hold your breath. I think part of the director's ingenuity in his vision was to let the audience make up their own minds on what transpired thereafter. We have to wait and see if there will ever be a part two.
@estelle30054 жыл бұрын
Trent Timoy - well said. I enjoyed reading this very much. Hopefully you can join our CMBYN Facebook group so you share your thoughts with thousands of other members
@TelleFidelino3 жыл бұрын
As Mr. André Aciman said in one of his interviews, “Oliver would never even write a book” hahahah
@humminbird69902 жыл бұрын
@@KnowTrentTimoy Well explained. I can see you have a vast knowledge on this matter. Maybe one day you can come up with your book. That will be nice.
@SunnyBear6 жыл бұрын
I always get worried with American talk show hosts but this one was conducted wonderfully! Great interview, thank you!!
@3506Dodge5 жыл бұрын
Why do you get worried?
@knightarmor69814 жыл бұрын
@@3506Dodge its superficial usually thats why
@Nexus2Eden6 жыл бұрын
I honestly have to say if they do a sequel I pray that it has nothing to do with AIDS. I absolutely hate that every single gay movie surrounding or from the 80's had to have two vital scenes...the obligatory masturbation scene and dealing with AIDS. This movie was so amazing because it was the first gay film where we didn't have watch the protagonist disowned by his parents and we didn't have to watch him or his lover die from AIDS. It was what made this movie so moving to me - as a gay man that grew up in 80's surrounded by HIV and death. Yes it was a major part of our lives...but it was not the only thing that defined our lives - just as sex is not the only thing that defines being gay. It is so incredibly refreshing to see an actual love story just about love, which is difficult enough, without rehashing the AIDS epidemic every fucking movie. Love this film, keep it devoid of AIDS - we have had enough movies about that tragic period and most of us would like to forget how horrific it was.
@garymagruder71546 жыл бұрын
To leave out reality creates a hollow shell......AIDS could have been present without destroying the romance. ‘’God’s Own Country ‘’from Britain makes this film look like a Walt Disney sham . This is not a great film ,better perhaps than the novel ,however. I read the book ( not a masterpiece is an understatement) which took an act of will on my part....I read a book a week as a 75 year- old retired teacher of literature so I’m not a novice in a sophisticated judgement. The film was visually charming ,the script an improvement even if a bit scrubbed. The wish fulfillment of a loving family with a father who may or may not have been true to himself was a narrative hook for many most likely . In many ways the film was like a Hallmark love story by Sparks only a bit more artificially sweet . With apologies to those who were somehow captured by the experience .
@JoshBWeaver6 жыл бұрын
There are other films, not of this caliber of course, that do not focus on coming out or AIDS or conflict with parents. So you're wrong about that part of your rant.
@stenfjord16 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for you that you couldn't "willingly suspend your disbelief" enough to just flow with the beauty of this film.
@Linward6 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. Since we have the same conjecture, I'd like to recommend watching the movie "Making Love". Here's a link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gZDYoHSve7lgj5I
@Kevbotoconnell6 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure where AIDS would have fit into this story at all, seeing as the entire idea is that it takes place in this microcosm over a summer in Italy.
@gary4165 жыл бұрын
I read the book first, but I agree with Mr Aciman, see the movie first and then the beautiful, poetic writing comes alive
@princepeterwolf6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful interview much to thank the incredible and gracious host! I haven't seen a host this prepared, gracious and secure in allot of time. I don't know if she will ever read this, but if it happens, may she know her work and grace is recognized and very much appreciated
@mimosameltdown37966 жыл бұрын
I agree I was also very impressed with her.
@chookaschookas4446 жыл бұрын
More fuel for my obsession with this movie and book. :) Thank you
@333br6 жыл бұрын
I know, i want it to be over, but this didn't help in a good way.
@lemonde-libere70626 жыл бұрын
Chookas Chookas obsession ??? Have u an Addict ?
@chookaschookas4446 жыл бұрын
Yes Auda Jos, I do. Happily, not all obsessions are harmful. Some are wonderful :)
@estelle30055 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone! And just to warn you there’s no cure for this beautiful illness we all have.
@tessharte13074 жыл бұрын
estelle3005 I wish there was sometimes it’s so painful that I do t want to read anymore .
@333br6 жыл бұрын
I think Andre Aciman is one of the sweetest and friendliest authors ever! i adore him!
@andysmith68245 жыл бұрын
I am in love with this movie. And the soundtrack. And the actor who plays Elio as well as his father. I love everything about the movie. And I cry at the end every time, but I let it happen. I need it to happen. I'm in my early 50s and I have missed out on so much in life. It's a beautiful movie and I can't begin to explain how or why I feel so close to it. Thank you for listening.
@xoxo-dr8df5 жыл бұрын
That lady needs an award for this interview. I need her to conduct an interview for Armie, Tim, Luca and Micheal! RN! Also, André was right in choosing Elio to be 17 years old. 17 is like being in a crosswalk, knows the rules but always so ready break them in a heartbeat.
@p4u7y5 жыл бұрын
Mr Aciman - we don’t deserve you. What a gift you gave to human beings
@emilyd.14926 жыл бұрын
this is an art piece that forever changed my life too, like the two characters. such a gift. thank you Andre.
@cecilingram60186 жыл бұрын
Now i know why I love this book this is the kind love that everyone wants in their life but very few of us ever get a chance to see it The author has such a beautiful spirit and it comes though every page of the the book
@Dannyboi26 жыл бұрын
Finally I found this gem of an interview, I read the author wasn't gay and the LGBTQ comunity felt using str8 actors and a str8 writer couldn't capture the gay experience. ( WRONG) I've kept saying to myself after reading the Book, no way this author is straight. Seeing the movie repeated times, I saw Timothee's free spirit and Armie's reluctance as to say he wished he could be a s free as Timothee in their eyes on film. That's why the book and the movie have been so critically acclaimed. Now I find out the author is fluid as water, I can go back and fight the naysayers. Yay- what a great interview.
@paulaapu72076 жыл бұрын
The book is set in 1987, the film in 1983. Still, this was Italy, and they were both young, and actually they did talk about health when having sex for the first time.
@stenfjord16 жыл бұрын
It was set in 1983. Most people, including gay people, had not yet heard of AIDS. Those who had thought it was caused by poppers. I read that in serious newspapers.
@cecilingram60186 жыл бұрын
PurelyAfrican where do you get the idea that the book was written for girls also the director and screenwriter of the movie are gay men
@stenfjord16 жыл бұрын
Elio becomes gay, if you read the book.
@stenfjord16 жыл бұрын
Semantics. The book skips from the movie's end to many years later. In the meantime Elio has lived the life of a gay man. That is what I mistakenly called "becoming gay." But I could argue your point that one's sexuality is not fluid and is set at birth. NOTHING in the book implies that Elio was bisexual after his teenage experimentation.
@MaggieMcEvoy6 жыл бұрын
Wow, such a great interview , great questions and dialogue
@stevekrause59316 жыл бұрын
Yes, she's excellent. One of the better ones I've seen, and I've watched a lot of them.
@bmills95356 жыл бұрын
Interesting question about parents that are concerned about this movie being about a seventeen year old boy. Clearly these parents do not understand the beauty of the parents in this film. They do not understand that any parent trying to control there seventeen year old child is missing out on truly helping that child with their life. When they are young we must control our children to help them learn, but at seventeen they have a mind of their own and are trying to experience life on their own terms. I think the best any parent can do at this point is allow the seventeen year old to make up their mind and then try to help them navigate through their life experience. The boy here clearly knows what he wants and goes after it. The Oliver character is tormented by his age as a parent would be, but Elio makes if very difficult to push away. I think one of the most beautiful things about this film is that both parents knew what was going on and did nothing to stop it. When the mother looks at the gold star around her son’s neck and knew exactly where it came from tells her husband that Elio and Oliver needed their alone time. Then there is of course the speech that professor Perlman gives his son when he is in such great pain from a broken heart is the best parental speech ever. We all suffer pain in our lives, and we should all remember that to kill the pain by pushing the memory out we have to kill the joy we experienced as well. Why would any parent want to remove that joy from their child’s life? The only thing we accomplish by doing that would be to cause resentment from our children. Of course every parent wants to protect their child for life, but at this age I think it’s better to help them than control them.
@gfadhilla6 жыл бұрын
well said * claps *
@sudhirchandra97905 жыл бұрын
Wow so well expressed. The way u have put your words into such beautiful expression is highly appreciable
@warrenalexander52856 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen the film, but the book is a masterpiece. I had to ration myself to a small portion every day as I didn't want to finish it too quickly and the temptation was to read the entire book in one sitting as it was so absorbing.
@ConnieBach6 жыл бұрын
I could read the book over and over... every words are gems! I've watched the movie 5 times already! The best thing happened on screen in a long long time! 10 stars!
@louieadam2516 жыл бұрын
I read the novel and watched. the movie. Both mediums are exceptional. I agree with Andre' the movie itself is beautiful. It is an interpretation of the book. Andre' Aciman is brilliant novelist, You can feel the characters in his book and it seems you are one of them and you are in that moment. You can smell the flowers or feel the heat of the summer as he describes very vividly. Awesome!!!! Timothee and Armie are the perfect actors for those roles.
@maurice81806 жыл бұрын
6:56 "... and I envy them" haha André, I see what you did there
@sweettea7355 жыл бұрын
Marlene Zeugswetter wait what? What does that mean?
@mamamyah44333 жыл бұрын
@@sweettea735 i know this is two years late but it’s a line in the book and movie from the father of Elio.
@sweettea7353 жыл бұрын
@@mamamyah4433 oh ok 👍🏼
@mygoat06046 жыл бұрын
I can't decide if I like this interview more or the French one Chalamet and Hammer did. Great conversation, great preparation, and great insights.
@louisegaba47376 жыл бұрын
mygoat0604 hey, could you tell me which one is the french one please?? xx !
@jaxmanx6 жыл бұрын
I have been both oliver and elio in my time. I can relate too
@henrydaquipel87006 жыл бұрын
oh my god this makes me sooo happy! great interview! i love the energy and professionalism of the host! thank you!
@novarainnoval6 жыл бұрын
The interviewer was so well prepared!
@hrefnahrodlandsdotter2536 жыл бұрын
The best book and movie I've ever read and seen. I love it ❤️
@joutlawproductions6 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, but your interview is only as good as the interviewer and she knocked it out of the park!
@mariamysoul3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being good at your job. ms interviewer. it's really appreciated.
@p4u7y5 жыл бұрын
I love this interview the host is the best. Super engaging-give her a talk show
@Zenyell5 жыл бұрын
He’s so eloquent. I feel like if this video were even a second longer I would have shed a tear from all his vivid words.
@globalman6 жыл бұрын
This interviewer was superlative, everything most or all usamerican interviewers are NOT. Thank you.
@ssilva8726 жыл бұрын
Great host and interview.
@myaukat5 жыл бұрын
no coincidence. really was a greater hand playing part on setting up these people to be together. Andre, Luca, James, Timothee, Armie, Michael, and all parties involved. Not your sophisticated sci-fi with visual effects or obvious heroes in glitzy costumes. The simplicity of moments occurred in layers and sequence somewhat interlaced and intensified, also how defining those moments were to one's perception on self and the world around are what drawn me (over and over) to the storytelling in the visual. Thank you for the book, Andre..
@Lior6215 жыл бұрын
Such a good interviewer! And Andre Aciman is amazing obviously
@od24376 жыл бұрын
"director wants to do something with AIDS?! " please no, that will be just too sad
@chrisbeckwith29276 жыл бұрын
So true... I lived through it, but lost friends to AIDS... If I had to watch it effect Elio and Oliver, it would bring back some of the worst memories in my life. Please let them be eternally happy together in their friendship.
@Nexus2Eden6 жыл бұрын
Agreed, I just wrote a paragraph on that comment. Like the other commenter - I, too, lived through the 80's (came of age in the 80's) and the AIDs epidemic that terrified and horrified us all. We don't need another movie about lost love to HIV or that drama. What set this story apart was that it wasn't fixated on that crisis, but instead just on the love between two people. I pray they don't do another AIDs film, god that would be the worst.
@bcnmanhattan50226 жыл бұрын
that would be treacherous to the film and the book. Also Luca, the director has emphasized so much of him wanting this movie NOT to be sad, depressing, oppresive... I mean and now Aids???? Anyway it would always depend on what he does about it. It seems logical that a gay story in the late 80's or in the 90's should have SOME reference to the epidemic, so, I'll wait and see.
@Budimichael6 жыл бұрын
chris beckwith one of the things that actors mentioned was this story doesn’t punish the same sex love as like the other same sex movies and stories that did now and in the past, that is what made this story great, just concentrate on the pure love about two humans. Please don’t put aids into this , maybe it involves being in a denial about reality, but please don’t shoot these characters with aids...
@apasrahongsakula37626 жыл бұрын
AGE...
@Meijimack5 жыл бұрын
Andre Aciman is a genial interviewee with a most interesting background. He was born and raised in Alexandria, Egypt in 1951 and is currently distinguished professor at the Graduate Center of City University of New York, teaching the history of literary theory and the works of Marcel Proust.
@liamwhitney5095 жыл бұрын
Mr. Aciman has always conducted himself as a real mensch. He is a credit to the planet.
@CharlotteElizabeth92 Жыл бұрын
This book will stay with me forever. I hope the film encourages people to read it (although the film is an excellent homage).
@maksymilianreiter31116 жыл бұрын
Really great interview! Super interesting conversation, makes the whole picture even more beautiful.
@charlesscribneriii75876 жыл бұрын
Best author interview, best translation of novel to film, best collaboration between author and director: a model of art at its best!
@daisybuchanan82054 жыл бұрын
I zm in love with both the host and André, great interview and of course an amazing movie.
@tubeaddict12204 жыл бұрын
Charming interviewer and charming interviewee. Asked just the questions I would have wanted to and the answers are so genuine and rational and well expressed. I watched the film first and totally agree with the author that was the right way round and for exactly the reasons he explained.
@gggreggg6 жыл бұрын
i can guarantee that the age difference was not a problem in a real-life situation. Would that everyone could have such a wonderful relationship while exploring unknown areas of one's life.
@macyjudkins86676 жыл бұрын
Great interview
@oscarsantos22404 жыл бұрын
The host is always KEY.
@aliciabiundo71862 жыл бұрын
Andre Aciman te felicito por el libro de exquisita escritura,los relatos te conducen al lugar de la historia y vivir con los protagonistas,eso es lograr un buen libro,lo leí dos veces y sigo descubriendo sentimientos nuevos
@cf36195 жыл бұрын
It’s an amazing feel good movie & I just love it ✌🏻💗
@hilarywright93766 жыл бұрын
The book is INCREDIBLE!!
@neltobe6 жыл бұрын
don know this network, or host, but she is really great..... love this movie/book too
@katielui1316 жыл бұрын
I am happy coz I did it in the right order: the movie first then the book !
@ladaffodilion6 жыл бұрын
Finished reading the novel one week ago. I loved Elio's psychological narration. did not see the film.
@tessharte13074 жыл бұрын
God I wish I could write like him .
@bellaluna11116 жыл бұрын
charmie is hella real
@NPD4296 жыл бұрын
Amazing adaptation of an okay book. I don't know if it was just the digital copy but the book read like a rough draft. Conversations between people are written in paragraph form without indentation or quotations to differentiate between who is speaking. My recommendation, like the author's, is to watch the movie first and then read the book. This will ensure you are already vested in the characters and can place a face to a name. It also fleshes out the movie somewhat by allowing Elio to more thoroughly read into his house guest's actions and express his initial as well as final impressions more easily thus allowing the reader to recognize Elio's misinterpretations of Oliver as nothing more than someone reading too deeply into the actions of a person they are smitten by. This movie/novel broke my heart. It transported me back to my youth, when the idea of being in love kept me in a perpetual state of bliss. But it also took me back to some of the emptiest moments in my life as well. Teenage angst... its a gift, a curse, and a beautiful thing... to feel something so utterly and completely with every fiber of ur being.. the good and the bad.
@jenniferzbarouskaya65515 жыл бұрын
Nicholas Dosen digital copy!! I read it on my iphone as i couldnt wait to buy a physical copy. Big mistake!! Inthen listened audiobook narated by Armie and its just wonderful.
@jenniferzbarouskaya65515 жыл бұрын
Nicholas Dosen i do not ever read gidital! First time!
@johnedwardjones9996 жыл бұрын
Wonderful interview.
@domzkidomz5 жыл бұрын
Amazing interview!! Kudos 👏👏👏👏
@reng9355 жыл бұрын
What a great host!
@brianclaudio19425 жыл бұрын
Give Aciman a retroactive Nobel Prize for literature already!
@Velvetlighteclipse4 жыл бұрын
a good interview!!
@katielui1316 жыл бұрын
I wonder what faces Andre had pictured for Elio and Oliver before he could no longer rmb them coz the movie came out
@MichelleVisageOnlyFans6 жыл бұрын
Great interview, great questions. The presenter is fantastic! So natural and genuine, very well, in-depth informed and doesn't interrupt, like some. Yes, I'm talking about the pompous, shallow, self-centered Oprah. This was very refreshing to watch, I loved that movie, and guess what by now it is announced there WILL be a sequel, indeed! :) Thank you!
@sandrarivera12626 жыл бұрын
I feel like the thumbnail is misleading for people who don't know who André is. . .
@andrewang176 жыл бұрын
i did not know he is in the movie as well, well done
@fantasy17145 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite interview for the movie
@xz93766 жыл бұрын
He is wonderful.
@deunoga4 жыл бұрын
Super Interview Autor book film actors ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@barrystalder58895 жыл бұрын
Omg great interview...interviewer!
@iwnunn79996 жыл бұрын
Good interview
@gfadhilla6 жыл бұрын
what?? i just realized that andre is in the film????
@7bladesky8904 жыл бұрын
Ghina Fadhilla whaaat????? Was he?
@gfadhilla4 жыл бұрын
7Blade Sky 7:56
@7bladesky8904 жыл бұрын
@@gfadhillai didnt even notice... guess gonna rewatch it again XD
@shvetasingh10834 жыл бұрын
After reading your comment, I realised that he do played a little role as a perlman's guest mounir. Elio used to call those guests sunny and cher. 😅
@mawasorangutan4 жыл бұрын
What???you guys didn't know???sunny and cher 😉
@raymond86616 жыл бұрын
it's like : Mystery of Love❤️❤️❤️❤️
@shuakyxiong96816 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@danob33496 жыл бұрын
Awesome first question
@nourhansalloum8224 жыл бұрын
What a sweet man
@aguswidjaja37676 жыл бұрын
Please no sequels. The movie is great as it is.
@BelieveInImagination6 жыл бұрын
6:00 about Timmy/Armie :) x
@Vimaylau6 жыл бұрын
8:47 A reading tonight at Elliot Bay Book Company ...ELIOt bay book company. Coincidence? I think not
@leightonellis49576 жыл бұрын
THE MOVIE AND BOOK IS SOOOOO FREAKING GOOOOOOD 😭👏🏳️🌈👌🔥❤️🍑
@sweettea7355 жыл бұрын
Actual Internet trash lmao peach
@KnowTrentTimoy6 жыл бұрын
I just bought the movie and I'm setting a side some time to really indulge and enjoy this film. I'm not sure I want to read the book but I might consider it.
@daniatuni6 жыл бұрын
i listened to the audiobook (its read by armie hammer) and i would really recommend it! you can listen to the soundtrack at the same time, its so good
@checkyourbackash70826 жыл бұрын
Trent Timoy believe me you have to read the novel , that’s genesis of everything !
@mr.commenter79535 жыл бұрын
I'm 17!
@katielui1316 жыл бұрын
oh God yes I had so much experience at age 17 as well omdz is that coincidence how even
@DendyJungle6 жыл бұрын
It had to be a boy boy relationship. There is too much power struggle between opposite genders especially of there is a big age gap
@unowen-nh9ov6 жыл бұрын
Mo That will be news to the children of Charlie Chaplin, Pierre Trudeau, Cary Grant, Celine Dion - decades difference in their spouses' ages. To name a few.
@7bladesky8904 жыл бұрын
I agree it's kinda creepy with a teenage girl and grown man
@georgesofield45965 жыл бұрын
A ndre please keep writing!
@1jenrette6 жыл бұрын
5 Stars * * * * *
@jimbox87622 жыл бұрын
Many young boy had their first crush of men at the young age of 16 and dealing with their sexuality.
@kevindavila6256 жыл бұрын
Please please please please dont make it about aids. There's enough greatly made stories about aids. Please please please give us a happy ending
@HistorySpace76 жыл бұрын
I went to KZbin and saw the thumbnail of a video where a woman talked about call me by your name, I put the video and did not see any actor in the movie, I thanked God, because I find it uncomfortable to see interviews of my movies favorite, weird, then I listen to the author's name and I'm like 'what'.
@LivingLife-hk8ov6 жыл бұрын
17 and 24 is not a problem AT ALL! WTF Is that athings though??? To hate it to dislike it??
@fantasy17145 жыл бұрын
Now I understand why he chose elio to be 17
@alfiemarie5 жыл бұрын
lol i thought the woman in the thumbnail was the author
@anastasiad23025 жыл бұрын
why is the thumbnail of this video of the interviewer and not the author haha
@annacookbook6 жыл бұрын
1:04 I'm her 😂
@enricogiovani41856 жыл бұрын
Ditto re the comments on keeping AIDS as a theme or plot in the sequal. Keep the plot about the love and intimicy of Elio and Oliver. We face so much negativity everyday, the sequal should allow us the escape that the first film did.
@frawgy6 жыл бұрын
Change the thumbnail..... 👎👎👎👎
@lordeselenite75384 жыл бұрын
When he started talking about Aids... they're going to ruin my favourite film/book I'm not happy😐
@MrMuskaaan16 жыл бұрын
boy-girl is a cliche,yassss tru,my man.
@quetzaltpa44503 жыл бұрын
..
@fufifufi25784 жыл бұрын
I'm glad he didn't do boy and girl
@Loostyc5 жыл бұрын
Is gay sex forbidden at the age of 17 in the USA or Sth?
@themythicfire2 жыл бұрын
no..depends on the state..its either 16+ or 18+
@scotthorn75622 жыл бұрын
The sequel was such a let down. couldn’t even finish it. I think he had no inspiration.
@upstatenewyork3 жыл бұрын
Oliver was too old for a 17 year old. Didn’t like that.