Can a man love two women?

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[@tishloftco]

“DON’T EVER ENTERTAIN A MAN WHOSE ENTERTAINING OTHER WOMEN”- TONY GASKINS ( POINT BLANK PERIOOOOD)!

[@moneyblue1541]

Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤩

[@franshonjackson186]

You are absolutely right

[@lessonlearnt5560]

I’m glad I watched this video, I’m hurting by my husbands unfaithfulness. He’s cheating and still cheating. I can’t believe I Ioved him even when he takes off his wedding ring each time he’s cheating on me.😭😭😭😭

[@DeeDee-no7bb]

If a man has two women, he don’t deserve neither one ☝️ No way !!

[@nontobekomncwabe4976]

"If you talking to a man and he also talking to another woman and you in competition with the other woman, he don't love either one of y'all."

[@aprilnicole8096]

Nontobeko Mncwabe wish my niece would understand this 🙄

[@thehopefulbudgeter]

TRUTH AF!

[@rozh8321]

P-E-R-I-AAAD...

[@montricec8795]

Say it again

[@CocoChanelle-1]

And he’s selfish and greedy.

[@terrybolton2711]

If a Man says he loves two women he probably loves his self too much .. Selfish Greedy

[@Toyiamichelle]

Bingo

[@NursingHubPro]

Terry Bolton That’s a very nice way to put it.🤬

[@nitag2187]

BOOM 💥

[@vickydayo7868]

To me he doesn't the meaning of be in love. He just loves WOMEN

[@thehopefulbudgeter]

I don’t think it’s even “Love” it’s LUST in my opinion. I hate how grown boys will look at women as possessions. It’s Heartless.

[@marybenford]

Wanting a man to yourself isn't being jealous; it's being territorial. Jealousy is wanting something that isn't yours, being territorial is protecting what is.

[@tishloftco]

WHEN A MAN TRULY LOVES YOU AND IS IN LOVE WITH YOU, HE WILL NOT HURT YOU‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@micheleprice9771]

AMEN!SO RIGHT!YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!

[@abykijana9803]

I swear i agree with that. Trust me i have two wives and i have children from both and i do love them. What can i do about it? I do love them both i care for them and care for my children. Am a polygamous

[@JohnsonLee59]

That's no true

[@SGWndrWmn1211]

3 min into this video and im just tired of men all over again😓

[@nickycurtis6378]

I felt the same, it's sad times looking for a decent partner these days!

[@annamayyy9771]

@@nickycurtis6378 it's sad looking for a partner who's not entertaining other people

[@MrDomonique3]

Right! 😩

[@louwil67]

Stephanie Orona 😩😆

[@tanitrarobinson7477]

I so understand....

[@tishloftco]

Tony: “You hear meeeeeeeeee” You hear meeeeeeeeeee? Everyone: “ YES TONY WE HEAR YOUUUUUUUUUUUU‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@Glamrocs]

Tish Cody Loud and clear 😂

[@tamikamatthews4905]

We hear u brother Tony Gaskins

[@keturah1980]

I love when he says that😂

[@joshuaking9050]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@tishloftco]

@Glamrocsmakeup yesssssss, good to me🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@heartlesswoman1904]

In the words of Jonny Depp...’if you love two people choose the second, because if you really loved the first you wouldn’t have fallen in love with the second to begin with’

[@adoringgalore5636]

Das deep

[@ulricka2131]

He does not love either of them!

[@talicialee]

Father!!!

[@christinewarren8134]

Choose the second one? Yes because relationships and love are a competition in committed relationships. In that case the "chosen" one will be back in competition in not time....again 💅

[@godseed79]

Good one!!

[@ed000]

Don't you Ever in your life talk to a man who is talking to other women..... As soon as you hear him talking to other women PACK your bags and leave.... You hear Me, I hear you, Tony

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

There ain't gonna b no bags to pack cos if we ain't married we ain't gonna b living in the same house and if we is married...he gon do the packing and leaving ....point blank period !

[@aprildanielle2693]

💯🗣🗣

[@genevasanders1883]

If a man loves you rather you his girl friend, fiance or wife. Another woman shouldn't be an option. Don't entertain he selfish behavior. Love yourself. BE BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏

[@neicylove820]

Ever heard of a Narcissist?! These sad, sorry creatures really think that they can afford 2 women. SMH!!

[@ellehub2136]

@Geneva Sanders Not "shouldn't be an option," COULDN'T BE!!!

[@missj5564]

Some people do not know the definition of love and will confuse it with lust.

[@saforniajohnson1676]

True

[@ForeverAutumn77]

Agreed

[@Thetruthspeaker-u2n]

Exactly! So much so they spell it wrong..i.e LUV!!

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Most*

[@TheeBratzDollxox]

People literally use “love” and “sex” interchangeably in songs and poems and literature, then people wonder why they’re confused Lol

[@ginad8238]

33:35 “I will die for my wife.. now for another woman..? Jesus died for you”😂😂😂

[@ladyb129]

Let the church say Amen. 😂

[@bowleged1]

I hollered😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂

[@anyap3154]

Newday 2C yea for 21 years I’ve heard I die for you, now I guess he would die for a gf half his age 😏🤦🏻‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤣

[@Erikayo]

🤣

[@ginad8238]

@@anyap3154 wow🥲

[@marishalewis484]

He love you like his favorite pair of socks and that’s why he change you out every couple of days-stanky feet 🤣😂

[@talicialee]

😂😂😂

[@Glamrocs]

The crazy thing is some don’t mind

[@marishalewis484]

Glamrocs Makeup you’re right and it’s very crazy. It’s some in the comments justifying it 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Glamrocs]

Marisha Lewis I know 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@kelleybright3113]

🤣🤣😏

[@marishalewis484]

Don’t you ever compete with another woman! Say that Tony! Thank You & be blessed!

[@andriantaylor2727]

Sis they do compare with another. I dont like that at all....

[@honeylatte6928]

If you're man truly love you it will be only you 💞

[@tishloftco]

Honey Latte ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@michellemurphy2993]

Perioooddddd!!

[@brick_housedee6711]

DAM!!! LOOKING BACK HOW STUPID I WAS AND JUST SMDH!! THIS CAN'T REACH ME AGAIN LESSONS LEARNED

[@kelleybright3113]

Stings 2kno I was dum

[@kelleybright3113]

I'm aware I'll do bettr

[@lifegoeson1545]

Same here I was looking so stupid

[@Getitgirl816]

Liken to, can a man serve two Master's? No, he will love one and hate the other. ✌🏾

[@tishloftco]

Teasha Stewart ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@LeafsIn2025]

Good point!

[@nitag2187]

39:12 💀😂😂 I’m laughing but in all honesty it’s sad. We’ve gotta do better and raise our standards. Everyone’s situation is different... My last relationship and dealings w that person was NOT a smart decision on my part. I won’t sit up here and throw him under the bus because I chose to deal w him... but he “forgets” he WILL be held accountable even if he chooses not to be. Continues to live his life disregarding God and what’s right. But that situation taught me what I DO NOT want... and made me focus on loving and taking care of myself more. LOVE IS What love does. Love is not neglectful and careless either. Single until my heart gets what it deserves. Thank you Tony🙏🏽

[@teresahargrow6750]

It's sex and a soul tie that makes a man thinks he is in love with two women. He don't love either one of them.

[@iyolaagard784]

True!

[@ShaGurl609]

Soulties are real

[@Coolct]

I appreciate this so much! My mom told me growing up as soon as you find out he’s talking to someone else excuse yourself from the situation, he’s not that into you...

[@ettarobinson2162]

This man is the prime example of a man who is worth waiting for. We have to continue to wait in faith knowing that this type of Love is the real deal. Thanks Tony.

[@felishapittman2778]

Agreed

[@berthaeliascreative9178]

Truth!!!

[@neicylove820]

👏🏽

[@kelleybright3113]

Str8 truth good men out here

[@womanofgod2948]

Tony did not get like this overnight, it was a process. As women we need to ask ourselves if we would be willing to take a mediocre man and mold him into a great man. Cuz it takes work to reach to the level Tony is at

[@simplyart24]

People think it is a joke when they allow these men and women to be with them and someone else, you could end up paying for someone's mistakes in a permanent way. HIV and all these other diseases are no joke, you can end up dying people, let's all get smarter in 2020 and pick better partners.

[@neicylove820]

It's sad when the man/woman you're married to "lays it low and spreads it wide" with someone else and then expects you to "bust it open" for them! What the what?!!

[@itsme3k]

You better tell em!

[@simplyart24]

Niecy Love what?😌😂that’s a new one for me, I’m not catching whatever you got from them, bye boy!

[@neicylove820]

@@simplyart24 lol

[@ieshjust16]

HPV

[@thehopefulbudgeter]

As soon as my husband and I became official one specific female friend became extremely jealous to the point we had to cut her off. My husband cut off all his friends just because I come first. PeriodT. He doesn’t regret it, he’s at home happy with me. We are each others best friends and that’s that. 💘

[@faithmoore3243]

God bless you both!

[@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453]

Jade Dometita so awesome. My husband and I are divorcing over the his female friend. He chose that relationship over our 20 year marriage.

[@AliveBlessedGrateful]

Yvonne Transformer Update : My problem is, he didn’t nor would he ever cut her off. Doesn’t even want to have boundaries when it comes to her. So it’s over. We’re done.

[@fitafries7274]

Everything he’s saying is TRUE!!

[@bamblue5725]

@Jessica Webb c

[@aprilstafford8829]

If he doing it to her he will do it to you...period

[@toniemillsap8910]

Amen

[@yeahthatsme921]

Men can't afford two women

[@neicylove820]

Men will always find a way to pay for what they want! Perrriooodddttt!

[@gma904]

For real. A middle eastern man once told me he had several wives because he could afford to provide for them. It’s not my thing but I kind of respected him for that.

[@natalieboult4726]

Meant to be that wau

[@aliciabee2781]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😳😳😳😳💘 that note.

[@marysmith6803]

@@gma904 slap crazy

[@lovejones69]

I will NOT compete with any woman over a man PERIOD💯

[@tishloftco]

Love Jones POINT BLANK PERIOOOOOOD‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@lovejones69]

Tish Cody 😂Lmbo... yes my love we are too worthy of the BEST💯 no need to compete when we’re confident in who we are.❤️

[@itsme3k]

Exactly!

[@DanielleGillmoreJohnson]

EXACTLY!!

[@TiggysTC]

NEVER Especially when you realize YOU'RE the prize and that you have other options

[@blackhalfpint1608]

When you are truly in love with your spouse you can't even think of or image yourself seeing someone else. I think some people get lust and love confused .ijs

[@thediabolicalempath7246]

Love your wife and love the other woman

[@kristinaherrejon7181]

I have the highest respect for you Tony. May God bless you, your wife and children always.

[@missadug]

When you start doing the impressions. I can't I fall out laughing every time! You are speaking straight facts! My cousin who is about 17 years older than me (I'm 36 and shes 53) said something like what you said: She said I don't care if my man cheats as long as he still gives me money and respects me enough to use a condom (insert, hand on my head emoji). I thought, she needs therapy! You confirmed this for me. Be BLESSED!

[@TiggysTC]

🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ggpebbles3354]

That is literally the trick of the enemy, the devil wants you to believe the lie that men aren't made to love just one woman. This is a lie from the pit of hell. DEVIL YOU LIE!

[@neicylove820]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@ggpebbles3354]

@@neicylove820 its true, we forget that the devils job is to kill steal and destroy and he is good at his job!

[@ForeverAutumn77]

Amen

[@aboutbusinessknowledge5675]

Why are you accusing the devil of lying when is clearly the man that lied? By accusing the devil for the man's lies, you are absolving the man from his responsibility to tell the truth.

[@aranacha27rose98]

These men so broken by they parents 😭🌹That's why They can't or won't love no one

[@krhervey441]

Let that damn man be and why even entertain a fool who don't even know what he wants. I refuse to lower myself to such foolery. He can keep them diseases to himself.

[@Proverbs-vw2sc]

Tony, I think this has been your best video yet! Everything you said is the absolute truth. This is exactly why I am divorced today. My ex put everyone before me, he even let his brothers disrespect me. That is when I knew that he did not love me. Ladies listen to Tony he is dropping some jewels. Be Blessed!!!

[@Beautifullybyg]

Same reason I'm divorced. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@Proverbs-vw2sc]

@@Beautifullybyg It's hard out here, but I believe that God is with us no matter what! Be Blessed!

[@turningyourpainintopurpose9172]

This is exactly why I am getting divorce. It took the Holy Spirit to slap me upside my head. Now he wants me back, NO THANK YOU!!!

[@johnnydestid2078]

Yes mam... my ex did me the exact same way... never understood why he did that

[@johnnydestid2078]

@@Beautifullybyg same thing

[@KantisSimmons]

Tony you are spot on in the video.... and bruh you are hilarious. New name “Funny Tony” // Blessings on you sir!!

[@angiedee5124]

"He gonna be in the Bahamas swimming in something other than water!"😂😂😂

[@marishalewis484]

Angie Dee 🤣🤣🤣

[@ladyb129]

Lol!!! 😂😂😂

[@kelleybright3113]

🤣🤣🤣🤾‍♀️🤾‍♀️🤾‍♀️

[@itsme3k]

God made me a jealous and selfish woman....if he wants to entertain another woman he can go right ahead. My heart and legs are shut, and I'm on to the next endeavor, period!! Be blessed🙏

[@ci.ci.1998]

Tamika Mayes Like I tell women and I’m 21 years old if a man want to entertain another woman “purposely” then it ain’t no sense of me getting jealous and getting into unnecessary battles which can alll be avoided. if he’s opening that door and entertaining her I’ll just step‼️ Now the only time I will get jealous of my husband because “he’s mine”is when he’s not opening that door for that other woman and he’s telling me that she’s trying to seduce him on so many levels so in that case I’m going to check her. Also if he’s naive and don’t even think to comprehend a woman trying to seduce him I’m going to tell him and I’m going to talk to them both for 1. So he can know what’s he’s dealing with and about to come up against and 2. To let her know to back off.

[@itsme3k]

@@ci.ci.1998 The only people I would fight for are my children. Never over a man...... My jealousy and not wanting to share is why I wouldn't entertain a man as such. That includes my husband. Just saying!

[@ci.ci.1998]

Tamika Mayes Yeah I can see it from your perspective if he’s not putting you first then I’ll just focus on my kids and not him worry about him at all. But if he’s telling you that he’s doesn’t want that other woman then he’s yours all to yourself I’m not saying go crazy and keep him from associating with other women because they are going to be everywhere lol in the workplace etc As Long he know how to control himself around them.

[@neicylove820]

I'm so there with you!

[@lumintalocke7724]

@@ci.ci.1998 Hi Tameka please listen to this over and over. Saying this out of love.

[@prettytaurus3671]

“Don’t ever entertain a man, that’s entertaining other women.”

[@DynamicallyDC]

✅

[@momofabardian1308]

That means leave men alone altogether then cuz they all entertaining other women. A man will not put himself in a deficit when it comes to receiving attention & affection from a woman

[@prettytaurus3671]

JjWsgirl potz this was a direct quote from the video. However, what I infer Tony was saying is...that if a man really likes you/loves you/thinks you’re the one, he will drop any other women he may be entertaining, and focus only on you. If you are one of many, or if he is talking to you and other women at the same time, you are not the one and you should not continue to date him.

[@merouria6524]

Most black women sleeping with the same men.

[@calashibryant295]

Ever!!! Yes!!!

[@chrissyrenee820]

🗣screaming: TONY!!! I know you've hurt some folks feelings with this good word..... ALL FACTS💯

[@kelleybright3113]

Mines include but I'll keep my grown on top

[@toniemillsap8910]

Constructive criticism!!

[@missy3505]

People can feel any way they want about anyone...but the important part is A man would not do anything to hurt someone he Big Loves!

[@daphnem6213]

The guy I was with said he “love me” then confessed that he’s starting to fall “in love with me” we’re 3 months in.. yet he’s still entertaining his “bms” and his female “bestie” lol... love is an action word! Needless to say, I broke it off last night. I’m not Competing with Any One but the old Me.

[@IamGodsVessel77]

I believe EVERY BIT of this! A man will let any and everything happen to you when they don't love or give a crap about you! Big Facts! Don't even bother dealing with him if he can't choose you over anybody else and especially if he DOES NOT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD. He's damaged goods until GOD makes him a man!

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Ladies, Never play yourself like a fiddle!! Pack you bags and leave him. "NEPHEW TONY" is not playing. BOOOMM POWWWW A MAN CAN NOT LOVE 2 WOMEN.

[@sonyayoung263]

Psychologist and Psychiatrist are constantly telling women that a man can love you and still cheat. Thank you for saying that it’s not possible, I have felt this way. I told my friend this and she said that her marriage counselor said, “he loves me, but he cheats because something is missing in our marriage.” Now this woman out here buying lingerie, taking pole dancing lessons and cooking lessons. Lawdy, lawdy help us! 🙏🏾

[@havegrace9111]

Yes, something is missing from her marriage ! .....LOVE! Lol. Some counselors make the situation worse, because they are trying to keep marriages together at all costs or the patients point the finger at counselor and say they suck and counseling didnt work. The people going have to be willing to change. Or no it wont work. Most men dont even love themselves, so how the hell are they supposed to love another?

[@abcdefg208]

After he drove that truck you think he is coming back here hell no

[@MajicGurl]

...not IN love sis. Not the understanding you have. Anyone can love multiple things or people at once but not BE IN love with the multiple things or people. BIG DIFFERENCE. Wanted to emphasize 👌!

[@rachellove4797]

Pathetic

[@scrumptious2k1]

These "medical professionals" have to get paid too...

[@blackhalfpint1608]

I think when you allow your spouse to sleep around your self esteem is at rock bottom and usually the man know it and that's why men can only behave this way with certain women.

[@potajonapotaje9158]

Raised with three brothers; getting more knowledge from this messages Tony will never know how much he is helping me. Ordering my book can’t wait what wife says. Be blessed

[@katrinadodd9015]

If you are talking to a man that's talking to multiple women or hanging out with his baby mama, lace up your track shoes and start running, don't even stretch. I got it Tony. I'm one of God's daughters and He has a whole man just for me. Be Blessed!

[@ashleyrolle2214]

"Don't you ever in yo life entertain a man that is talking to multiple women"....I'm listenin' Tony! Point blank PERIOOOOD

[@AE-106]

BIG FACTS BROTHER TONY! If I Even Suspect he's with someone else, I am O-U-T, track shoes, heals, slides, Barefoot! I am to be the Only one. If I choose to be with only one, he Must reciprocate...I will wait. Only need one! Thank you for honesty and Keeping It REEEAAAL.✌🙏❤🌻

[@ruthwells3990]

Lust yeah, love, NO!!!! More than likely he don’t really love himself because if he knows what real love is he is Godly, and messiness is far removed from the Lord.

[@christinewarren8134]

Amen all day

[@neicylove820]

Love your comment. Real men who really love their women are far above the messiness of it all!

[@myfingoodies]

When he's not in love with you, he will steal your rent money, and let you get evicted with two babies on your hips, with nowhere to go yeah story of my past life, but God has established me and ain't never had rent issues 15 years now. Listen to the man of God so that you don't fall for those snares.

[@myfingoodies]

@heynowhey yes hun only God

[@phyoomz7841]

Black women love God but can't seem to stop having kids out of wedlock

[@true4585]

Phyoomz You must be that type of man 😂 bitter self

[@phyoomz7841]

@@true4585 Good black men such as myself force black women to look in the mirror and be accountable. And we don't feed their need for drama. I'm a black man that most black women don't like.

[@myfingoodies]

@@phyoomz7841 At that time I did not love God because the bible says when you love God you keep His commandments which I didn't.

[@nicolet961]

"unless you look at that woman and it turns your stomach" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tony always keeps it real

[@marishalewis484]

Nicole T I can’t with him 🤣🤣🤣

[@jaquitaburnett2179]

My God my God my God!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽.....got me clapping my hands and stumping my feet at work......acting a straight fool smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ PREEEAAACCCHHH!! LOLOL 😂

[@tiffanyg5465]

This is a very Desperate generation of people. Smh

[@lynnerene]

100%! The thirst is real.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Nope just not taught have to love God, themselves, and others properly. Most people live their life based off of what they see, or what they don't see unfortunately.

[@arandaholley1719]

I am glad you brought up levels to this thing. The Bible made these things clear. I pray people seek enlightenment. Don't let a man water a lawn where he does not care for. So on the phone call each woman is telling the other what each one needs to hear. Treating women liked rotated tires.

[@ggpebbles3354]

Choose me or lose me!!!

[@joanjones3677]

Father your daughter's in trouble please help her🤣🤣🤣

[@marishalewis484]

Tony said 😂🤣🤣🤣 saved, sanctified, and Holy Ghost filled I got to sit the the Holy Ghost down for a min and Lord I’ll be right back. I got to sit him down for a sec & pick the Holy Ghost back up 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

[@missj5564]

I will be feeling like that sometimes. 😆😆

[@marishalewis484]

Miss J I do too, so I know what you mean. It’s certain things that can take you there.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Its real😂😂😂

[@kelleybright3113]

That's the best thing I heard in life

[@KCoopp9]

"Breaking news he does not love you"! LOL I wish I could get my cousin to watch you Tony, She has been with her kids father for 13 years but she says he has never cheated but the family knows he has because we know the girl. I told her she is a fool and to leave but every time she kicks him out he comes back and she lets him SMH.

[@Itchpls]

The only other woman a man supposed love is his mother if not his mother his daughter and will whip butt about his daughter that unconditional love... No man in a relationship should be entertaining another woman if he doesn’t want his woman entertaining another man.. Periodt.. Love the content in your video

[@lilchocolatetinkc6743]

Tonnnnnyyyyyyyy Im hollering, In my 20's I used to be that fool talking to another Woman on the phone

[@ggpebbles3354]

A man with two women doesn't love or respect himself and he doesn't know how to love. Like brother Tony said you are buckets... he don't love you.

[@rhondabrown8859]

Facts! A bucket...you hear me!! Damn!!!

[@tishloftco]

GG Pebbles ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@neicylove820]

We are God's daughters, the Apples of HIS eyes and like Queen Gaskins, we ALL deserve a man of our very OWN!!! Let the Queens say, Amen!!

[@ggpebbles3354]

@niecy love, Amen and Amen again!

[@Allthingscocoposh]

We as women really don’t know our worth! Definitely time to do some reevaluating! Tony makes this shit sound incredible man o man. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@JaneDoe-dn4wk]

You are so right about the males and females not being friends. They don’t want to be your friend. And so right about the 2 women thing

[@lorrainegregg3745]

Your so right. One of my greatest pet peeves is my husband of 27years never defended me through words or deeds and he cheated all of those years while we raised 5 children and he made more children outside of us, thus I'm divorcing him and he can't believe I'm done with him. I have men friends and my brothers and uncles who have went to war for me physically and verbally. But my husband left me out on a limb to be slayed. Smh, it's the truth.

[@neicylove820]

Man do I feel your pain. Walking a similar walk...

[@JRenee-Sings]

Aww man, I hope you find the strength to leave and that the man you deserve is on his way

[@lorrainegregg3745]

@@JRenee-Sings Thank you.

[@CoachHC]

I know you speaking truth. One of my ex a few years ago explained this exact thing to me, even after his divorced because she cheated but never stop loving her. Unfortunately many women still go thru and try to compete over the same man who don't give 2 f's. Real stuff, but I have some of my girlfriends playing the game, have 2 men fighting for her a mess. Be Blessed

[@brendajones8073]

I ain’t competing with nobody or fighting over no man. I wish I would argue with another woman over a man on the phone or anything else. I was married 20 something yrs and never went through that and I ain’t about to start.

[@cathrinet6298]

I found out last summer while I was pregnant with my son that my ex is in a relationship with his ex, with who he has a daughter with. He left me while finding out we weer expecting. I didnt about her, because otherwise I would leave him . He wouldnt let me go and hid my pregnancy from everybody in his family. When his ex now girlfriend heard about it. She went along with him and is now expecting a baby herself. Our children are 4 monts apart. Also I just recently found out they were already together when we were in a relationship taking holidays etc. For me I am very angry, but I need to heal and be happy for my kids. I will never tolerante this narcissist again.

[@nontobekomncwabe4976]

I'm so sorry sweety. May God heal you. 💛

[@koastalpeach4535]

Cathy be strong, keep pressing your way, and let that man go. Day by day it will get easier.

[@cathrinet6298]

@@nontobekomncwabe4976 thank you, I will stay close to God. Becaus He will never leave me

[@cathrinet6298]

@@koastalpeach4535 I hope it will❤ thank you

[@chynadoll77cyn59]

KoastalPeach pleas right let him go.

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Heya, Blessed tribe!!! Good morning Bigbro Tony, Listen 👑👑QUEENS👑👑.. A man cannot love two women. Know your👑 self worths& Value.

[@justsomeideas9594]

Yes, you hit this out the park. A man who is truly in love with you, the thought of entertaining another woman won’t happen. He’ll make sure his wife and his seeds are provided for, without being told to do this. Just know, TG, Mrs. Gaskins will not be the only one with a whole man to herself. I’m claiming it and already put it out there in the universe. I am a child of the most highest god. I definitely know my worth and full value.

[@ruferojohnson8362]

Thank you Tony. I just found out my husband of 9yrs is cheating on me. While he was at work I put all of his things outside on the Porch, change all my the locks on the door and told his ass he is no longer welcome in this house. He tried to tell me he want to come and do this and do that. I said not even in garage that he is welcome back in my home. I'm waiting for the courts to open to file for divorce. Nope I love him but I love me more. Not putting up with that crap.

[@notjustaprettyface]

@@ruferojohnson8362 good for you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@mskesha4735]

Tony.....you said a MOUTHFUL!!! Any man who has the audacity to feel as if a good woman is expendable because they’ve been dealing with women who accept less than their worth....is NOT WORTH IT!!! A man who truly loves a woman WILL NOT!!! Walk away ladies. Know your worth!!!

[@marishalewis484]

Takesha Feagin Agreed-You definitely have to be able to walk away.

[@mskesha4735]

Marisha Lewis FACTS!!! Being comfortable with your decision is growth. No matter how much you like a person. You HAVE to like yourself more.

[@kenishalperkins]

Lawd after this I need about four hugs 😐

[@nikkyshamz2696]

🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@kenishalperkins]

Nikky Shamz Thank you Babe

[@Happinessis_12]

@@nikkyshamz2696you are so pretty girl, your makeup is on fleek 😍😍😍

[@avianne]

When Tony started imitating a conversation with two women arguing over the loser... I lost it😂🤣🤣🤣🤣. Wheeeww, we gotta do better as women... That is just ridiculous now

[@yvonneb2119]

Yo....you are hysterical!!!! I’m crying 😂😂😂😂😂. You ain’t Never lie. You helping someone right now. I Pray they listen to you. Keep giving what God gives you. Peace & Bessings

[@amraharbas9517]

“We have breaking news this just in HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU” Hahahahahah omg

[@jn6074]

Can you please do a video on mommas boy & family influences on your partner!!

[@amazinggrace6881]

Family influences and momma boy 👦 please

[@notthatvashti8127]

Yes, your take on that would be appreciated! Good suggestion!

[@Moonpiebye]

Ladies if a man step to you talking about I love you and her..respond like Tony..tell him to go get 🧠 help..or dirct him to Tony GASKINS KZbin 👍

[@viewly390]

Be blessed. Tony when I say you’ve been hitting the nail on the head with these videos I can’t even tell you. Free coaching praise be to God. Tony may you be blessed beyond measure all the days of your life. May your wife and your children and your children’s children be blessed all the days of their lives in Jesus name.

[@nickbry7357]

Amen!!

[@TuBella14]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Amen

[@kjhyler]

Amen

[@mercedesmontgomery9094]

When a man is in love with you will he have his wife’s back over even his momma????

[@11071874]

This is a good lesson that you’re teaching. You made this plain and simple. If nobody understood this meat...they’re just a slapped fool. This knowledge comes from God.

[@lavettgraves750]

Listen… I am so glad Tony is available to be used as a vessel to correct the daughters of God. Lord knows we need it🤦🏾‍♀️

[@CaramelKissez]

"Du du du duuu BREAKING NEWS, HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!" I grew up in a household like this. My tolerance for this growing up is a definite no. I drop men in a heart beat n change my number hearing about another women. I love myself too much. I don't need that many red flags. Dude came to my house saying I was playing about the other woman when I cut him off Dec 2018. He is still trying to get me back. He thought emailing me other women pics was going to work 2019. I don't play second. All he emails me saying is I love you, I emailed him if this is your love....hate me. Man in his 40s with 3 kids with 3 different women. I'm telling you no more men with kids. He was the last. I have no kids and want it with my future husband. #blessedtribe

[@nikkyshamz2696]

It will come to pass sis♥️

[@CaramelKissez]

@@nikkyshamz2696 it has luv💞

[@TiggysTC]

🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯

[@CaramelKissez]

@@TiggysTC ❤🙏🏽

[@toniemillsap8910]

I hate how I feel cause I am not press and yes I am one had to learn the hard way through hurtful experiences. I will drop him like its hot. I might be into him too. My heart gets harden but not bitter. I learned to love God 1st, then everything else will follow. Matt 6:33

[@MajicGurl]

Lmfao 😆🤣 @ Barbara & Shirley phone convo lmao. No way in New Kingdom w/ New covenant would I tolerate & entertain foolishness from anyone especially a dusty seed dropping in trash man. There's no way. How can many women be so desperately seeking dusty public pipe men? Where the women doing this @?

[@lanickiiboo]

God bless you Tony! I appreciate hearing the beautiful truth on this beautiful morning!🙏🏻💛✨✨✨

[@ed000]

He cheats but he tells me,I'm not in the dark; girl You slap crazy, you need therapy.....listen toooo me..... Yes Tony I'm listening toooo youuu!!

[@chrisparker6249]

Man can't serve two masters, either he'll love one and hate the other. This Bible principal lays the foundation to serving one, loving just one. We, both men and women cannot love two potential partners, yet we humanize love and use it to our benefit or gain. God never placed his love for US in subcategories. He loved the world/us enough to send his only begotten son to die for our sins. The lines between, love, lust, and infatuation have been blurred in the eyes of man. If we don't understand just what true love is, we will continue on "loving" blindly.

[@keturah1980]

Chris Parker amen!!! Exactly what I was thinking....

[@skwilson34]

They having that Shirley Brown Woman to Woman conversation🤣🤣🤣

[@LadyTrucker43]

He gone be swimming in something other than water.😆

[@Glamrocs]

Lady Trucker 43 😂😂😂

[@kirstenjavery9647]

Wow! Has to be terrible when them tables turn .

[@empress1081]

"You hear me"...☺️ Yes we hear you Tony!! lol👌🏽

[@nickbry7357]

We hear him loud and clear

[@empress1081]

@@nickbry7357 Sure do☺️☺️

[@fatimawilliams4959]

2 FRIES SHORT OF A HAPPY MEAL !! I CANT WITH TONY GASKINS!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@abeja0201]

Listen here "Will cheat on you in the name of your injury" 😬😆😂 Tell em Gaskins!

[@tishloftco]

abeja0201 I hollered‼️‼️‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@abeja0201]

@@tishloftco same here Tish😂😂😂

[@kikinyte6806]

Tony Said he stood up to his daddy.....and said mumma ....I loovve you ...and stepped back 🚶🏿‍♂️😂

[@marishalewis484]

KiKi Nyte 🤣😂😭😭

[@viewly390]

“Ethos and ergos and everybody os”, 😂 Tony is funny

[@marishalewis484]

Sashisroyal One 😂😂

[@nikkyshamz2696]

😂😂😂

[@redeemed1352]

lol

[@DynamicallyDC]

I had a guy tell me he was in love with me while entertaining another woman. I figured a man couldn't love two women at the same time because if he loved either one, there would be no room for three! Well said Tony, When a man truly loves you, he wont hurt you intentionally. 🙌🏽

[@cuttinup97]

Entertaining them in what way?

[@margaretwince2748]

That requires maturity, self control, self discipline. When a man cheats it has nothing to do with his wife, or dificiencys in his relationship at home. He is damaged from the environment he was raised in or what he saw or sees his peers do. It is not to excuse this behavior at all. He is not grounded and he has to grow up or keep it moving.

[@MajicGurl]

Love that comment "joining the mental health movement" Tony. I'm stealing 💛👌.

[@cooldaisylu7683]

The message is something I have needed to hear. I ended a relationship that was exactly what Tony is talking about. I feel at peace and know my worth! Moving forward with the rest of my life. Happy, single and blessed. So ladies know your worth and move on down the road if your man wants two women. That doesn’t make any sense and is completely unacceptable. So don’t accept it. Any man that doesn’t want just you isn’t worthy of you, your time, most importantly your love and affections.

[@destinyuplift]

Tony I'm with you when you're right. I'm Saved, sanctify, holy ghost fill too but I will sit the holy ghost right down and pick it back up after I'm finish with you! You better say it Tony, I'm for God but I will not let nobody disrespect me nor my family...Nope!

[@marishalewis484]

DestinyB Yes, I felt that! It’s certain things that you just don’t do. I just pictured him ready to lay any man ouuuut 😂

[@destinyuplift]

@@marishalewis484 someone tried me a couple of weeks ago. I sat the holy ghost down😂😂😂 and I got that person together. This person was very rude and disrespectful to me for no reason. I was very nice/nasty.

[@marishalewis484]

DestinyB Same thing happen to me at our church anniversary & I kept the Holy Ghost. God saved her that night and she don’t even know it.

[@coachsamempowers5837]

DestinyB ikr like Bizzle said save doesn't mean soft... 👌👌👌

[@tracylewis1168]

"Two fries short of a Happy Meal"...That's facts. Can't take risks with people's hearts and emotions. That's a very dangerous game...everyone loses.

[@WillsGirl2005]

I just love Tony.. he so point blank and thee periot.He said you need to join a mental health movement.. you NEED therapy.. you are lost. 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@ladyt_speaks_truths3923]

In other words the answer to if a man can love two women is No bc he is only concerned with trying to fill the gaps/voids within himself - not giving any care or concern (nice words) abt anyone's feelings/needs but his own.

[@mishalay9461]

Am I the only one in tears laughing?!??? He said, “the truck clipped you on the side!” I’m at work dying!!! 😂😂😂

[@gma904]

Mishalay Girl, I’m over here in tears. 😂😂🤣

[@lumintalocke7724]

On the floor.

[@taneciadavis6970]

Naw, I am on the floor laughing at " You will b carried by 6" never heard it put in that terminology. 😊

[@driaannbull]

On the left side! 🤣

[@amybennett2576]

No, I am laughing but its all true

[@northernroots6807]

Tony thanks for all that you do. I was dating a guy that I found out wasn't truthful with me from the get go. When he knew I was in love with him,he thought he had me, it's because of watching your videos and the fact that he realized he couldn't play me for a fool anymore that he knew I was hip to his games. Some men will play you like a fiddle. If a woman doesn't know the game, it's like she's swimming with sharks.

[@mae6847]

😂😂😂 while I’m watching this the entire time I’m 😂😂😂. This is so true. Everything you said is so true. I’ve had disagreements over this in my younger years but all I had to do was keep on living and the proof was there.