How to know he’s not ready?

[@Glamrocs]

Listen!!!! I escaped to a shelter then a friends couch. I did it with 4 children. I made up my mind he was not going to hit me anymore in front of my children. It wasn’t easy but it’s possible with Gods strength.

[@marishalewis484]

Glamrocs Makeup Wow! Thank God you got out of that situation.

[@Glamrocs]

Marisha Lewis Amen

[@cardiac711]

I so glad you're here to help us. Thank you. God is good.

[@keysham8494]

Amen, that takes strength and courage but God is going to bless you for putting you and your children first. God bless you.

[@Glamrocs]

Cherlyrese Montgomery Thank you

[@BeautifulDzyre]

Take aways... you will KNOW if he wants you because he will SHOW you in his ACTIONS. WITHOUT ANY QUESTIONS... if you are confused, or conflicted, the answer is NO! NEXT!

[@gwenhayden6812]

L

[@KalimahSBICeo]

That's my energy! And not just in the beginning the ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP!.. Or not!👋👋👋👋 bye!💃

[@aleecewhite3919]

Yup had to tell a guy that today, that because I'm confused the answer is no. He said he still wants to pursue me just because, I think he is just lonely.

[@danyelgarcia3689]

@@aleecewhite3919 how long for you to realize that you were confused about how he felt? And then until you said something? I know I stayed too long. I needed to end it almost immediately just from my gut alone but I stayed thinking this is a nice guy.

[@aleecewhite3919]

@@danyelgarcia3689 We only been talking 3 months, but I knew after 3 weeks. Like, I said he still wants to pursue but we have an understanding that nothing is going tp happen between us for a long time until, I can feel God tell me it is safe to give him a chance. I don't talk with him everyday anymore, I told him that is too much and an emotional attachment is going to cause problems. We only talk 2 days a week now...Sorry I couldn't help you more, but I am still believing in Gods timing! Good luck, and I will pray for you

[@alicea561]

Your peace is more important then driving yourself crazy trying to understand why something happened the way it did LET IT GO!!!!

[@kanyin442]

Amen!

[@loveslife7334]

DAVID ALICEA - Easier said then Done smfh!!! I need help

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

🙏🏻😌🌺

[@janiceparkerson4727]

Hallelujah.

[@danyelgarcia3689]

WORD UP !

[@Tarahsays]

I’m so glad I’m 100% single, I can’t be putting up with all these games. No thanks I’ll just focus on me !

[@kenishalperkins]

Shatara Smith Amen. Same here.

[@merouria6524]

Women claim the don't have time for games but they are about games.

[@tiaisblessed5961]

Shatara Smith yes me too I don’t have time

[@cherh]

Same sis same! 😂

[@intentionalgreatness]

Take a break then jump back in. It's all about understanding and then doing things differently. Dating itself is a game..of gathering info and teaching people how to treat you while loving yourself.

[@saiyansnake]

When a man truly loves a woman, she will never have to question it! Everything he says and does will exude love!

[@lashondarochell7584]

Thank you 💗 I needed to hear this with tears in my eyes.

[@disnalee]

Omg everything he says is what my hubby is doing to me!!! Thank you!!!

[@benithacalloway8286]

Been in relationship for a longtime never knew what love is he got caught I left

[@zen_mindset1]

Facts❤

[@chelleb2258]

Tony is a low key comedian.

[@dvnwifey222]

Highkey lol

[@tymakaeli1480]

That "dragging you by your ponytail" was funny 😄 😆 🤣

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

He really is!

[@dejanae7336]

High key. 😂

[@pangvidal]

Omg I die laughing at the things he says 😂😂

[@msve3730]

Sometimes the grown boy will not tell the woman shes not the one because deep down he knows she will find someone better and will be treated better because she deserves it.

[@allaboutherterritory]

Facts

[@Arizona_lilly]

Yep he knows she can do better that breaks their ego

[@dejanae7336]

Amen. ❤

[@rachellove4797]

Children like peace. I wish my parents had separated many days.

[@nessparadis6948]

I was telling this to someone today and she said she felt the same about her parents.

[@rachellove4797]

@Eternity With Christ my mom stayed to "honor her vowels". I doubt that's the real reason. But whatever...lol.

[@wealldeserveloveandhappine7430]

Oml yess

[@shirondamoore8833]

This when O made my decision it was over. I spoke with my grown cousins about there parents and I was floored that they wanted their parents to separate.

[@nessava4965]

And children deserve peace. Too many parents dragging their kids up rather than raising and nurturing them to their highest self love.

[@overcomingdaily4695]

Sometimes we see the mix signals and red flags but we go in hoping that it will change. Fear of being single and desperation cause some women to settle for less.

[@antoinitaviolette4140]

Sim Ham Jesus is my everything those red flags are shockers, though some men are so unstable that you can't trust anything they say, or possibly what they might do, but if you lean on Holy Ghost, and really take your time, He will reveal secrets because He is the Light. (A lot of men and women are not ready for relationships. Some font want to miss the opportunity, knowing they are not ready, nor interested, and are full of the devil.)

[@FlourButtaSuga]

Bottom line Men are about action, look at how they move because like my mama used to say "I can show you better than I can tell you"! If he wants you for his wife he will show you💯

[@PrettiRissa]

ChefA Onthe1 Yesss ! A man that is serious will not leave ANY room for guess work! 😩😩😩 so true. Us as ladies have to be the one to stop dealing with them too. Bc they will continue to deal as long as we allow them!

[@nickbry7357]

Amen sis

[@justinenunley9385]

What about the ones that “commit” but still cheat

[@ntrasmr87]

@@justinenunley9385 lol leave ! Who wants to be cheated on? You don’t know what he is liable to bring back to your bed and body .

[@laclosdubois677]

By age 14 I started encouraging my mom to leave my dad (I was too innocent/naive before then, I thought he was “working late” cause that’s what she told me). He didn’t hit her but humiliated her and belittled her. We left him when I was 16, she had been married to him for 35 years, she was 56, had never worked outside the home, didn’t speak English, she didn’t know how to drive (and my dad had a lot to do with all of these things), but she left him. We had many, many hard times after that, but our home was healthy and peaceful, and her courage for leaving him (though I was daddy’s girl and it hurt) was one of the most important lessons she or anyone ever taught me.

[@ntrasmr87]

❤️

[@LeeMajikija]

🙏🏽🕯

[@BrooklynBaby100]

Sending you love and hope. Proud of the wise choices you and your mother have made. It’s never too late to live a peaceful life.

[@crystalmims4225]

Beautiful

[@jojo-coach6927]

I've been in a homeless shelter.. You will get through it .

[@wowzers6178]

I was in a shelter, squatted in an empty house, then move to a room in my sister house. Now 16 months later I have a house and I leave for law school in a few months. It gets better.

[@safaamubarak6659]

@@wowzers6178 That's incredible OMG!! If you don't mind tell me how you managed to elevate so i can follow your steps

[@fatimawilliams4959]

I'm finna give LITTLE UGLY A CHANCE !! LOL 😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@JayJay999_92]

ROSEMARY Williams I had to make sure I heard him right 😂😂😂😂😂

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Lol

[@angelamarshall3867]

Tammy Slade facts

[@chelleb2258]

@Tammy Slade Tony didn't say fix him up.

[@anntoinetteboyd5098]

@Tammy Slade OMG that is so true, but once u fix them up, some other woman start looking at him and he start feeling himself, and will leave you for someone else...true story, not mine but a friend.😁

[@DeeDee-no7bb]

We must always be willing to walk away! I had to do this 3 times in my life so far and it gets easier. I refuse to be a used up bitter woman.

[@sanjeshnidevi982]

So true! I leave EARLY and NEVER wasted more than a year with a toxic man. It is so empowering and liberating to make such a proactive decision.

[@DeeDee-no7bb]

Lara Srinivasan absolutely!!

[@PrettiRissa]

Deidre Allen yess! A man that is serious will not leave ANY room for guess work! 😩😩😩 so true. Us as ladies have to be the one to stop dealing with them too. Bc they will continue to deal as long as we allow them!

[@doryjo127]

Been there and I have done that many many times. I won’t even give u the chance to act stupid. U are gone!!

[@survivorship4290]

"He got a warm body, but he got a cold heart..."

[@AtheneHolder]

If this ain't a muthafkn word

[@tiffanyg5465]

Another good one Tony. I believe if women would wise up the men would have no choice but to do better or do without. We have the power👌

[@shereses.3298]

Correct. So many women are so desperate though 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. I pray that womankind can do better.

[@tiffanyg5465]

@@shereses.3298 Yes desperation seems to be the trend for many women.

[@esthernichols4451]

You betta say that sis... Yes!!!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

💯💯💯

[@mariewalton7079]

I agree a 100%

[@TeraChantelle]

"It's going to be a chapter, but it's gonna be the best seller.." FELT THIS.

[@jroyal2229]

I’m gonna be honest, of course I want a husband but, I’m not settling until I feel in my heart/mind that I’m at peace that he’s “the one.” Until then, I’ll remain single & wake up in the morning with a peace of mind.

[@iamannettec]

Feed your mind and spirit to attract real love. Amen! Be blessed.

[@susiecarmichael3157]

🧡🧡🧡🧡

[@mothoughtspoetry]

Well spoken🙌🙌🙌❤❤

[@gwendolynbarry7415]

"If you have to wonder if he is the one, then he's not the one". Thank you, Tony. We have a hard time hearing this absolute truth, but the truth makes us free. Also, I want to add that if any of us stayed too long and feel used up, instead of blaming the guy, take responsibility to have higher standards, require respect from the beginning. Take classes and watch many of Tony's videos. I want to also read the new book coming out that you and your wife have written. Thanks again for telling it like it is !

[@a1xluv]

Right! Men are natural born hunters! If they want something or someone they will go after them wholeheartedly until they get what they want! So if a man is not pursuing you, then you’re not the one! This concept was so hard for me to understand; this was several reasons why I was always making excuses for men! I was like oh he works a lot, he’s too busy, NO! The thing is, you’re just not what he really and truly wants! That is a hard pill to swallow, ESPECIALLY, when you really want a man, and he’s a good guy!

[@bosslady9108]

Those were the exact excuses that I was telling myself. I finally got fed up with making excuses for a man that really didn't want me and walked away.

[@bellabong8862]

Same here. Mine was the "warm body with a cold heart." I would never take that MF'er back or entertain another man who gives me anxiety and makes me doubt his words and intentions. Ever! Done.

[@SheCanSmile]

A woman who walks away wins - @chloe_

[@pamelasbutterflylife1312]

I love Sister chloe_ 💎🌹💄💋! A feminine woman who truly loves herself and did her inner healing can swiftly walk away when love is no longer being served ❤!

[@PrettiRissa]

A man that is serious will not leave ANY room for guess work! 😩😩😩 so true. Us as ladies have to be the one to stop dealing with them too. Bc they will continue to deal as long as we allow them!

[@proudblackwoman4824]

I think the hardest pill for WOMEN to swallow is the fact that 99% of the men we meet, particularly black men, were never ever really interested in us for more than just sex. And we have to be honest about that. And so that makes us feel like we were never good enough to begin with. When in reality, a lot of black men are HURT themselves, and using women as a scapegoat. This was hard to hear, but it explains so much. Tony is constantly advising women to GET OFF THEIR BACKS because he knows most men only value what is between your legs. That could not be more true, as I have experienced that personally throughout the years. Next month will make a year since I've slept with anyone. I took away the very thing that most men value the most. If you want my time, you will have to get to know me WITHOUT that. Point. Blank. Period. I learned the lesson. Now I play the game by MY rules. Thank you Tony Gaskins!

[@latoyablackman8063]

Be blessed. This is so true. Love yourself first. Don’t allow any Human being to be worth more than your peace and happiness.

[@marishalewis484]

Latoya Blackman Amen. Peace is a necessity.

[@teef1198]

Amen🙏

[@thisgloriouslifee]

Tony this advice just saved a lot of people who are in toxic/abusive relationships.

[@krissyhartley6224]

I allowed myself to be drug through the mud by my pony for 8 years, but I've grown by leaps and bounds, and I'm so far past that now. Thank God and Thank you Mr. Gaskins.

[@marilynking527]

This is accurate I remember when my parents were together and I was a kid I kept asking myself why my mom and dad was together because they never showed each other love smh

[@marilynking527]

Eternity With Christ I agree with this 100%

[@dbedazzling1]

True

[@Bgrace15]

'Lil urgly' is back ya'll 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭 I cannot

[@KCoopp9]

LOL IM WEAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@marilynking527]

Bl15 Grace 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect]

Finisheddd 🤣😂😁

[@MissShauntae]

😂🤣😂

[@messymamachronicles8962]

😂😂😂

[@pamelawilson2553]

Never need a guy to tell you what he is CLEARLY showing you. We don’t need people to tell us it’s raining when we can clearly see raindrops. A kid knows when it’s thundering and lightning rain is coming. Those are the red flags. Thank God for the heads up . 😉

[@latonyabell9551]

Amen Bro Tony, used up like a piece of gum spit out after all the sugar is gone then put under his feet and stomped on. That's too much pain. Let's get up yall and start 🚶 away.✌

[@angelicagabrieli7169]

Latonya Bell well said Sister❤️

[@jbs82love7]

Listen, he done told y'all na..you hear👂 the wisdom of a Man's truth.👂👀👏

[@yvette9305]

Tony you preached this. He was living with me and when he went out I changed the locks on my house and packed all his stuff in tubs my daughter had from college and set them out on the front porch. I had asked him to leave but he wasn’t trying to go anywhere. Now I’m healing and doing the work taking it slow with a wonderful man that I met in the grocery store. Legs closed of course. 😉

[@Nurseaholic]

Yes, when I was old enough my sister and I both told my mom that we are better off being by ourselves. We love Dad, but we know she is not happy. 🥺👌🏾 Kids see it and feel the energy. 💯

[@KalimahSBICeo]

Children know more than we think....see... And can figure it all out... Their logic make sense if u listen.. Children have the innocence we loose as we age... Ijs🤷

[@cielitasanta-cruz2439]

Amen!!!Amen!!!👏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾

[@angelasanderlin2722]

I am not going to stay where I’m not respected. I’m out. If there’s no respect, there’s no love. Don’t ever be afraid to walk away. Trust and believe the blessing is on the other side.

[@catricesmith3819]

Im so glad that i found you on KZbin.

[@fiftyfiftylifestyle456]

This is one of the reasons why online dating does not work. We are swiping left on lil ugly when he could be the one. 🤷‍♀️ Dear lil ugly when you see me out and about, come say hi! 🙋‍♀️🙏💗😂.

[@arielcherie]

Bibi Lafleur 🤣🤣

[@januarywalton7376]

Lol

[@nickbry7357]

Oh no...poor lill ulgy

[@womaninblack8333]

Bibi Lafleur yesssss bae!!! 😂

[@teshaparx4802]

Bibi Lafleur...Gurl Bye!! 😆🤣😄❤️

[@Rdy2win]

Yes I had to go to a Shelter it was the hardest thing but yet best the thing that ever happened to me and my children. The shelter had 9 mo program that I commented to that help me to start my process to healing. Mentally Spiritually Emotionally Physically and Finically. I became a Candidate for a Rehab home. That me and my children move in 1yr ago. Soon to receive my deed in the next couple of months 🤗 🙌🏽Yes my children said it was a hotel lol I was truly worried about them but they did a awesome job. Thank you! Coach Tony. Coming to be a Certified Coach soon 😊. Thank you for your inspiration and faithfulness. TBT.

[@nancycortez1231]

I leave the toxic marriage 10 yrs ago i packed my clothes important papers and i drove with my daughters they were 2 yrs old and 6 yrs old i went from staying at my sister's house sleeping and old mattress but so thankful for her support Hard work i was able to purchase my mobile home, my new car Been able to take vacations Europe, Africa and Mexico All this on 2010 i made the best decision in my life i don't regret I start living life in good way God is my strength i learned from all that Never ever settle for less Love yourself to the most

[@Nurseaholic]

Lmfao Tony Gaskins said “when they grow up cold 🥶, they don’t know how to be warm...” Your women voices are hilarious 🤣

[@t.deniecewilliams5023]

Exactly! 😂😂😂

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Gurrrrl

[@heyyynerdbird9741]

We need constant reminders

[@sha2408]

21:08 this is saddest part, that’s the example we give our kids when we stay with these good for nothing grown boys! Whether they are their fathers or NOT. You are better off ALONE than staying!

[@wealldeserveloveandhappine7430]

Amen...

[@bre_s9164]

Tony is the truth. Signed, sealed, and DELIVERT! lol

[@taynaburton5828]

All the aggressive, Tony😁 but I get what you are saying and you are 🎯 My father told me don't let a man tell you twice that he doesn't want you! His dogging you out and treating you like dirt is him telling you that he doesn't want you. No one mistreats what they love like crap!

[@xodierra]

Walking away really is the hardest part ! Takes a lot of strength

[@Moonpiebye]

No laying on your back for affection LADIES 💥💥

[@nickbry7357]

Preach sis

[@venda1008]

Word

[@kandid898]

So true women use sex for affection.....

[@aliciag946]

Facts 💯

[@mindlifenergy]

BROTHER TONY this video today is such a complete answer of really understanding I really appreciate the logic behind really getting and moving on and realizing Men can be Grown boys but the enlightenment has helped me realize I need to always be in my POWER and make the steps to preserve ME .....GOD and I don't have time for the foolery ...BLESS YOU BROTHER

[@anointedstilettos]

I have my money put aside 💲💲💲and my rental car reservation 🚘ready for the self love retreat this year. I'm there.

[@cedtriciasgymjourney9614]

That’s what’s up Sister! Let me look into that 🤓

[@anointedstilettos]

@@cedtriciasgymjourney9614 I paid to go last year, then got my money beck. I'm not doing that this year.

[@cedtriciasgymjourney9614]

Anointed Stilettos Yes Ma’ma! Definitely go. I’m in Seattle I will wait a little bit untill he’s in Cali for the August retreat.

[@anointedstilettos]

@@cedtriciasgymjourney9614 I am excited about that retreat.

[@Godislove818]

This is 100% . I,m not staying , been there wasted too many years but now i,ll rather start over and find real love , be Blessed Tony..

[@cheekscheeks5840]

I’m afraid of starting over yes but I’m not having all those issues . But I moved on it’s hard believe me but following the videos n classes it’s coming along great

[@drea4373]

“Twice a fool since Sunday”🤣🤣🤣.

[@user-ti9gi5zx9s]

We had to stay in a shelter. I told my kid it was a hotel. He still talks about how much fun he had there.

[@mzlibra7567]

I know someone who is waiting on a man been in jail 10 years don't know when he's getting out and he's dogging her out from jail she is stuck don't even wanna talk to another man.. Lord help her please🤦🤦🤦

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Lord have mercy. Jesus please be an eye opener and deliverer, that's crazy. 10 years !!! Dang.

[@mzlibra7567]

Tracy G yes you're absolutely right

[@aliciag946]

That's crazy, wow 😳

[@shereses.3298]

"We do better as humans, when we are reacting to what we've been given"....Thanks Mr. Gaskins, so DEEP, so TRUE!

[@cass1190]

Wow! God bless you Tony. This is exactly what I’m going through with my 7 year relationship. Thank you for your message. You’re giving me the strength to keep pushing forward and to continue to move on.

[@nakooshaalbert8884]

Thank you for posting again! We need the daily message Brother Tony

[@yoanac1]

Nakoosha A yes!!

[@greengoddessof75]

This is a powerful video!! Blessings to you Tony!! Your saving alot of women including myself with your videos. To all my sister's in the world. Please keep your heads up!!👑🙏🏾✊🏾🐃❤💋

[@micheleprice9771]

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!

[@AllThingsTiffanyTV]

The sad part is there are so many men beating on women and the women still stay because they feel Like they can fight back, lonely, or financially can’t survive alone. They put everything before their safety. 😢😢😢

[@lindawade8137]

DON"T PLAY YOURSELF

[@susiecarmichael3157]

In the words of Beyonce 👑✨🌹

[@ulricka2131]

Tony, it is like you know me personally. This has been my story. His sister has used my Christian faith to try to keep me locked down (because she knows no woman can deal with her brother in long term). But i am taking care of myself, getting new knowledge. Self Love and Christ love are what i need for now. Thank you brother Tony. Keep up with your excellent work🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@nikkyshamz2696]

You can do it, dont let anyone manipulate you, you deserve better 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@WomanofZion7]

Now this is informative!

[@candaceclark9266]

You have never lied!!! Preach!

[@marshellepayne4020]

Love these videos.. I’m getting stronger every day. Stress-free

[@ruthdesrosiers5742]

That mall story is HILARIOUS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. You are too funny Tony and those impressions 😂

[@bridgetsmalls9851]

Wish I knew about you 4 years ago ... Thank you 🙏 God bless you Sir 🙏🙏🙏

[@Shae_3]

Bridget Smalls I be thinking that same thing

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Right but better late than never.

[@angelicagabrieli7169]

Tony, words cannot express how much I appreciate your work and everything you do for us, women who want to create a healthy and loving relationship with grown men! May GOD Bless You and Your Family Abundantly and Richly in everything You do and in all areas of your lives IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST! AMEN!!!❤️

[@DynamicallyDC]

These are facts Tony..If you're not being treated with love & respect consistently then leave because what you have is not what you need!! It's not worth it dealing with a cold heart, just to have a warm body lying beside you!

[@justsomeideas9594]

Peace of mind is a must! Anything else is a waste of time. This was another banger🔥🔥🔥

[@ebonyflowers7599]

Thank you Tony. This was a WORD. you’re helping so many women not be lied to. Be blessed!

[@user-pn6qh7nk5q]

You are helping so many woman out there Tony 👐👌

[@dimplez28269]

Did he just say LIL Ugly at the 2:00 minute mark....I can NOT Brrreeeevve.... baaahahahahahaaaa!!!! 😭🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@elizabethmulder8057]

HAHAHAH ME TOO! Was looking for this comment!

[@tejuanahardison7516]

Dimplez he did that’s Tony lol

[@josie2919]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 lil ugly! He speaking the truth! I love this man! I pray that God continues to bless you!

[@PuriBarbie]

I left an abusive family with my daughter for a shelter and Tony is absolutely right your kids will think it’s your own place or a hotel. She made friends the the other children. The shelter helped us to move out in our own apartment eventually. You may be in there for a WHILE but work hard and pray everyday. The day I decided to leave I packed a bag while they were away. God bless you Tony. I pray my experience helps a women who is debating on going. Go and be strong your children are resilient.

[@marcusthomas2752]

be blessed

[@lynghee159]

Tony, your wife is blessed! I think you're a Godsend & a genius! Never noticed that men set goals, then meet them - women don't approach goals the same way. Thank you!

[@girlwakeuppodcast4622]

This message was EVERYTHING!!!!

[@jdilla7142]

🙏🏿Be Blessed🙏🏿.

[@sheilamartin7561]

i like the word "slap crazy"...Too cool. be blessed!

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Just landed in PHOENIX I’m listening Tony

[@Celeb_tresses]

Thanks for this video. I left my relationship in December right before covid-19 came and I have no regrets . He wasn’t abusive but he switched up on me on top of everything else I was fed up with. I felt a storm ⛈ coming. I told him I was leaving he didn’t believe me , so I packed my stuff and left when he was at work

[@Celeb_tresses]

He came home to an empty apartment. I took everything I owned. Looking at that empty apartment made me realize he brung absolutely nothing to that relationship. Lesson learned

[@aaliyahgr3611]

Wow this is so true! Actually brought tears to my eyes lol Dropping 💎 GEMS 💎 !!!

[@RubyRoxxie]

“I’m over here talkin to lil ugly..” 🤣🤣🤣 I cant. You’re hilarious, Tony!!!

[@Melli510]

Thanks Tony going thru this right now he is not returning my calls all of a sudden, so i am tired of chasing this person so obviously i aint the one he wants.

[@domoniquelucas2678]

Thank you very much for this message. Ive been going through with my kids dad and yesterday was my last straw with him and hearing this message truly clarifies everythg. Thank you.

[@cynthiacarter2564]

Tiny is so funny but I enjoy the truth that he speaks.

[@cynthiacarter2564]

That’s tony sorry for the mistake

[@blackwalnut1943]

“Grown Boys” are always looking for a relationship

[@grouson11]

A relationship that only benefits them = a situationship... I'll pass!

[@KashiAyumi]

It was a Sad Topic But when he said “ALL THE AGGRESSIVES”😂😂...I agree I’m done being Used up & Giving but being left Empty. I Love myself too much to be Drained. I’ve been doing Self Inventory for 2 years & STILL HAVE SO MUCH LEFT TO LEARN. God Bless you brother Tony🌟 & I’m Dying about the Book Story😂😂

[@dolcesweet5173]

I am so grateful for these videos. Looking back my mother & father clearly did not belong together. He cheated, belittled her, treated her like a maid and once even brought the side chick & her family over for dinner thinking we didn’t pick up on it. I grew animosity towards both parents because my mom was weak for accepting the treatment, dad was weak for just not admitting things were not working & the damage it has done to my siblings & I. I have ridiculous anxiety, became a master at self sabotage & had terrible taste in partners. Now doing all of the inner work, learned from my past mistakes, facing my demons, praying & watching these videos to stay on the right path. I had to cut off my mother though to be at absolute peace. She copes by dwelling in misery & trying to convince me to lower my standards. Not going to happen.

[@vainqueurvainqueur5342]

Tony your voice impersonation are cracking me up!! But MAN you're telling the truth. Be blessed.

[@lasheahill7107]

Brother Tony you have a great sense of humor. All jokes aside God bless you and this ministry. Too many kids are watching their mothers getting beat, suffocated, killed. ..It's time we fight the devil back by living holy and righteous the way God has called us to in Jesus name.

[@sunshineonmyshouldersmakes8331]

Thank you. My heart feels so sad but I'm gonna watch your videos over and over so I can remember my WORTH!!! Thank you Jesus and thank you Tony

[@kenishalperkins]

After hearing this I know I have a book in me 🙌🏿

[@Moonpiebye]

don't be the concession stand keep your treats LADIES 💥💥

[@sabrinahayat4477]

Freaking hell just I amazed how you described me how I was in my marriage and even after for 2 years ! I’m so happy I found here and you enlightened me so well! We need these lesson here for UK also!

[@starznmyeyez8906]

Tony this is one of your Best videos ever. Nothing but the truth even if it stings. Ladies it's time. If a man don't want you, don't let him have to show you or tell you twice.

[@mysteryhorses.A.Corona]

Thank you for your message! I left an 8 year situationship! The isdue was no commitment long term. I was not honored nor respected. Blessed Be!

[@cheekscheeks5840]

BE BLESSED.... FACTS 💯💯💯💯💯

[@perspectivelysingle2573]

Your reenactments are so funny

[@tanitrarobinson7477]

Yes! Lol

[@mistyfreeman1990]

Ikr 😂

[@ceciliaguglielmo8766]

I just got out of relationship like this. I was in a cycle of no where!! Tony Gaskins love hearing what you have to say “Thank You!”

[@april85br]

Babayyyyyyy that first 20 was me looking mirror 😩😩 but God is a faithful healer and redeemer. Thank you thank you thank you big bro Tony! This was NEEDED you hear me?!