I been dating wrong like my whole life. Good I know now. Its not too late to get it right
@Empressintuition4 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@Kmillions774 жыл бұрын
Yes, same here! I wish I would of known all this before but glad I know now.
@Kmillions774 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanydiggs7625 yes, yes, yes bless you ❤
@ninasky32754 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanydiggs7625 yes thats right and we can teach our (future) children better
@uyiclementina69844 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm oh yes
@chrisparker62494 жыл бұрын
The roles have drastically switched these days....Women are now the hunters/pursuers, and some if not most men are okay with this change in pace. It's never a woman's place to pursue a man, no matter what the circumstances may be. Women are only to be in position to receive their King, emphasis on KING!
@chrisparker62494 жыл бұрын
@Denetria Wright I agree Ms. Wright, we are attracted to each other physically for the most part, so this can easily put a woman in the position as the pursuer. Sadly there are some gorgeous people in this world but lack substance as well.
@queenofthesouth42054 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Parker
@chrisparker62494 жыл бұрын
@@fah232 Sadly F A H it's becoming a custom or normality in today's society where women are agressive in their approach and have no problem being the pursuer. I do feel that this behavior can establish an expectation for some men where they may see the woman as being easy to sleep with. That's not the tone we need to set here. Women are Queens but not every woman acknowledge her royalty.
@lyndapeoples81274 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you, Chris Parker oh, but I'm not one of those who pursues.
@Coolct4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@michellelucius79734 жыл бұрын
This is so true a guy was texting after the third day I’m like is it a reason you can’t call me. He said yes I’m in a situation. After he told me the situation ( He live with a Woman) I stop reply and blocked him.
@traquilasmith22754 жыл бұрын
U did right for your self. Don't waste your time Or settle for less that was a sign from God. God knows the right man. God bless
@saiyansnake4 жыл бұрын
SMH, good riddance, that guy was a scum bag.
@manij19134 жыл бұрын
Michelle Lucius 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 instant BLOCK ...... that and “I live with my baby mama for the kids “ or “Sweetie we not together but you mine “ BBBLLLOOOCCCCKKKKKEEEDDDTTTT 😂
@MsSweets02114 жыл бұрын
💪🏾
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
🤦🏾♀️ Thank God you was wasn’t desperate for a man
@marquittadixon7761 Жыл бұрын
This man is literally a comedian 🤣🤣🤣 but he dropping straight gems 💎 Thank you Tony!
@sanaimcclain Жыл бұрын
on everything had me cracking up😭
@TDJ8329 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@veronicamiltonnewdimension Жыл бұрын
He is soooo funny! 😂
@Therealhoneydip__ Жыл бұрын
Factual
@harmonybringswealth919310 ай бұрын
Yes but need the help from big brother😁😅🤣,
@Steviecyanide4442 жыл бұрын
I’m 20 with no type of guidance from either of my parents. I really needed this ✨
@Steviecyanide4442 жыл бұрын
I been doin EVERYTHING wrong LMAOO
@xandriaborges2 жыл бұрын
You wanna be friends girl?!? Im turning 20 next month 😊
@avanoelle53332 жыл бұрын
Same!! I’m pretty much reparenting myself. It’s a journey it’s hard af but I already feel so much better
@dimedavispresentstalkyospit Жыл бұрын
I appreciate yall for realizing this early on💯💯 keep educating yourself and surround yourself with ppl who are on your level. Be different from the crowd. The crowd is crowded for a reason and misleading one another
@sherikawilliams1466 Жыл бұрын
I was there am in my 30s learning this to teach my kids
@YodyMarie20114 жыл бұрын
I criiiieeeeedddddd when he said he has to have Citizenship in the same Country 🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂, nothing but the TRUTH
@Empressshorts4 жыл бұрын
Yolanda Marie he be having me hollering!! 🤣
@lyndapeoples81274 жыл бұрын
Yolanda Marie... my eyes are already big and they got really big when I heard him say that! 😳
@Wavy-Waves4 жыл бұрын
Yolanda Marie LAWD HAVE MERCY!!! He is telling the truth. My cousin just married a Nigerian & it has been a nightmare. I told that fool don’t do it!
@Wavy-Waves4 жыл бұрын
Abisola Abiodun Girl start your KZbin channel first.
@kenyafromcali4 жыл бұрын
Ma’am that was nothing but the truth!
@Milk_Marie104 жыл бұрын
When he said “ some of yall was raised by a worry wart, so everybody you meet you think they wanna chop you up and put you in their freezer” I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂
@marilynking5274 жыл бұрын
Marquetta Wilson 😂😂😂😂😂
@missmarymack34574 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂
@Ashley_Banks4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nofybn77944 жыл бұрын
Better to be a worry wort then chopped up in a freezer.
@daniellelewis80434 жыл бұрын
Lol
@candybroadway30234 жыл бұрын
Tony is the big brother I never had...you have enriched my life. You have made a difference.
@jerelene213 жыл бұрын
Agreed!🙏🏾
@CatGee3 жыл бұрын
I always say the same! So true
@RecoveryCEO3 жыл бұрын
I really give up on dating especially with black men.
@MoneTheGreatiAm3 жыл бұрын
BIG Facts!!!! He's saved me so much time
@nellynell31093 жыл бұрын
💯
@jamiepope98232 жыл бұрын
Everytime I meet a new person, I come back to this video....this time I will follow the steps....
@Stillmikaela18 күн бұрын
Me too!
@tiffanyharris92924 жыл бұрын
For the single ladies this is great advice, I conducted myself in this same manner and my now fiancé said he appreciated the fact that I let him handle things yet he knew I had my own. Know your worth ladies and don't buy into what society says we should do.
@beauphomasterpiece37954 жыл бұрын
Also I’d like to add do not drink anywhere with this person you are dating for at least 6-8 months in especially if you are celibate or abstinent. It can alter your decisions
@CeeceByrd4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏😊
@Denise_Cocoa4 жыл бұрын
This is true but I’d like your opinion cuz I JUST had this conversation yesterday with a friend. She is dating a guy and wants to see him when he’s drinking/drunk so she can see how he behaves. Is he aggressive, mean, nasty, perverted, etc. What do you think about that perspective?
@Shae_34 жыл бұрын
Yep
@hellosunshine36474 жыл бұрын
I had someone offer to cook me dinner and bring the wine. Df!! No sir, no thank! My coworker told me I was crazy for not accepting. But I barely drink as it is, I'm cleaning up my body, and I definitely will not drink with a man I'm getting to know. No! Stand on that!🙌
@hellosunshine36474 жыл бұрын
@@Denise_Cocoa that is interesting but can be dangerous? But I know some people drink on dates maybe one or two, but some people can hold their liquor well so it may require more. This is a hard one! I would say email tony with it. Hopefully we get an answer! Because I've dated a man who was an alcoholic and I had no clue until it was too late smh
@logikgirl124 жыл бұрын
This is bulletproof! Any person dating like this would never be underappreciated or lied to. The grown boys would not have space to do their misdeeds, they would be dropped very early on!
@brendascott82674 жыл бұрын
Paid for a course on a date.😂😂😂
@234forte4 жыл бұрын
Lies+
@mahletalem4 жыл бұрын
Very early on indeed
@jcymngo Жыл бұрын
Truth!
@ericabostwick40334 жыл бұрын
This is good step by step instructions....
@marishalewis4844 жыл бұрын
Bosslady Pebbles Yes it is!
@angelaaaron55754 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@jjosborneable4 жыл бұрын
Agree
@mariahpowell3 жыл бұрын
“He better have transportation, a place to stay and citizenship” 😭😂😂😂
@DH-zi5ob2 жыл бұрын
And when Brotha Tony said that third middle leg ready to dip that stick🤣🤣 that right there made me enthusiastic to wait!
@drea12282 жыл бұрын
He is soooo humorous 😂😂
@elizabethcross83722 жыл бұрын
Emphasis on citizenship 🤣🤣🤣
@jacquelynsimmons61312 жыл бұрын
Say that!!
@elizabethclarke20058 ай бұрын
OMG I cant stop crying and laughing at the same time
@seahorn20584 жыл бұрын
“It’s not that we aim high and miss, it’s that we aim low and hit”. This blessed me Mr. Gaskins, God bless you🙏🏽
@Mahogonykisses3 жыл бұрын
This tho!!!
@TravelBug1892 жыл бұрын
That hit me like a ton of bricks
@jlove33714 жыл бұрын
“This is a red flag if you meet a man and in the beginning all he’s doing is texting you” This is so correct and it’s my pet peeve...we’re grown, why text all day.
@sharoncobb25474 жыл бұрын
So true,I loathe that, big turn off!
@wealldeserveloveandhappine74304 жыл бұрын
Yesssss. He's a grown boy
@queenofthesouth42054 жыл бұрын
AMEN AND AMEN
@wealldeserveloveandhappine74304 жыл бұрын
@@DatDyme980 yesss
@eveheart28764 жыл бұрын
I agree
@krystavi054 жыл бұрын
Where was this video when I was in my early twenties?! 😭😭😭 I was told to save myself until marriage, but that's it. I wasn't given all this information, no red flags, no step-by-step instructions, not even clear boundary lines. Nothing. Just "no sex until marriage". I can't even begin to explain how necessary this video is! Thank you Tony Gaskins. You've made me feel much more capable of dating correctly with just this video. God continue to bless you!
@007stinkey4 жыл бұрын
I needed it about 21 days ago 😭😭😭
@Shanakkk4 жыл бұрын
Never too late
@naturesgirl74473 жыл бұрын
I didn't get instructions neither
@golden_shaperson24193 жыл бұрын
Sooo true
@shutit40243 жыл бұрын
Sameeee I was only told once but not taught anything well I had friends having $ex and guess what I did?
@lynmariah35394 жыл бұрын
Father God I ask that you protect this Man , his mind as he continue to give us wisdom that we need . This generation NEEDS to hear this , you hear meeee! Satan is mad because he don’t want us to know this information , buttt God in your name I pray Amen🙏🏾
@latanyawilliams52004 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@SmileyQueenlife4 жыл бұрын
This guy is a lifesaver. I been going through these grown boys giving in and letting them have their way but no more !!!
@aliciabenson4743 жыл бұрын
You not alone 😫🙏🏽
@valeriew3643 жыл бұрын
Amen, I’m tired of bending for them.
@dorothymatthews66903 жыл бұрын
Good for you Kaykay! Been there done that too. I've been celebrate for 10 years now and will remain so until marriage.
@girl_startover Жыл бұрын
You need 10 hours to know if he crazy 🤣 this man pure Gold
@pamelasbutterflylife13129 ай бұрын
😭😭😭
@shereewhite48284 жыл бұрын
All the single ladies, including myself, as well as single men, let's M.I.U.M!!!!! (MAKE IT UNTIL MARRIAGE! = Abstinent until marriage! Last month marked my 6th yr of being abstinent! 😊
@Wavy-Waves4 жыл бұрын
Sheree White So proud of you, because it can be difficult. Great example for all of us. Keep up the good work.
@shereewhite48284 жыл бұрын
@@MichElle-py8lk While some are being sarcastic, God knows my heart & will honor my sacrifice. I shared my journey to inspire others. People give the award, God gives the reward.
@Wavy-Waves4 жыл бұрын
Beulah4ever Honey, don’t be upset with someone trying to do right & get it right. Why don’t you take a page out of her book? She is winning along with countless other women. How is your way of doing it working out for you? See when you do it the right way, it is rewarding. I have lived my entire life this way, waiting till marriage. My medals are: no stds, no unwanted pregnancies, no abortions, a husband who adored me, children whom I knew who their father was, without wandering, not worrying about if he is cheating, or really loves me, & true happiness to name a few. Instead of bashing this lady, learn from her. Allow her to motivate you to do the same & get a good husband. Don’t put a sister down. Remember the message was from a real man,she happens to be a great example, like me.😎
@bronicaloglesby36104 жыл бұрын
@@shereewhite4828 Keep up the great work 👍 It's a struggle but you are showing others through example of what God can do through you!
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Great job 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Watchme4114 жыл бұрын
"eating peach cobbler" 😋🍑 & " singing on the microphone" 🗣🎤 🤣🤣😂😂... love the subliminals
@Wavy-Waves4 жыл бұрын
campbella 81 My slow 50 yr. old tail was lost for a minute.😂😂😂😂 I got it y’all. Y’all young folks is something else with these names.😳😂😂😂
@zelmahenry73004 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂eating peach cobbler and singing on the microphone
@lindaturner90184 жыл бұрын
@@Wavy-Waves aá z
@skyshae32246 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@violets7114 жыл бұрын
I made it through all 48 minutes and this video was totally worth it. My eyes are open now!
@nicolemuse11642 жыл бұрын
Same
@nursesrock42643 жыл бұрын
This is the most important video you have ever posted, in my opinion. Step by step for the clueless and curious. It's definitely not a 1 or 2 time watch...it's a study and perfect type of lesson
@gorgeousreese97413 жыл бұрын
Yesss I’ll definitely be studying and applying !
@donnahouston69582 жыл бұрын
Wow i agree I have LISTEN To this Video like Three Times Before THIS Video Goodness I have made so many mistakes but this has really equipped me
@noig_donnypia56478 ай бұрын
When my husband finds me, I want Tony at the wedding. 💒 I’ve learned more from him in the few months of watching his videos than from my own father in the 10 years, he’s been home from prison. It’s never too late to get it right. I didn’t have the proper guidance but God sent us Tony. for the women that wanna do right but weren’t taking the right steps. I’m excited for the new chapter I’m starting. no more giving in.
@vanessak.2353Ай бұрын
@@noig_donnypia5647 girl, watch R.C. Blake's Jr. The father we all need
@Itsdannib4 жыл бұрын
This could have saved me so much time dealing with individuals but I’m on it now! Thanks Tony for the vid🙌🏽🙏🏽
@oliviahatchett93344 жыл бұрын
I know I’m late, but I just said this to myself lol
@yolettahall40034 жыл бұрын
Same here, better late than never 🦋🌹❤️❣️
@Th3lite4 жыл бұрын
We live and we learn dear and it’s better late than never. Be good to yourself.
@btalley81984 жыл бұрын
Deleting folks off my phone now...
@DanaEliz244 жыл бұрын
I was just saying I wish I saw this 7 months ago ! God allowed us to see this video when we did for a reason so we are on it now Sis!!
@jereline1004 жыл бұрын
I'm going to save this video for when I start dating again and i'm going follow your every step. When I get married I'm inviting you to my wedding Tony 😅 Be blessed 🙏🏾
@TharaMesseroux12 жыл бұрын
I am single now, but when I get married, I’ll let you know too, Tony!💗 Thank you for taking the time to educate us! Be blessed!🍀🦋
@chasafras4 жыл бұрын
When he makes the woman’s voice when he’s explaining something 😂
@lzsunshine4 жыл бұрын
Whew chile! He pops that tongue and gets to going and I fall out every time. I have to rewind to actually listen to what he has said because the voice takes me out every single time.
@marilynking5274 жыл бұрын
Marie Minx yes 😂😂😂
@Radience1004 жыл бұрын
Yes! It’s hilarious !!!!!!😂🤣
@blacklove29234 жыл бұрын
Funny right..😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
@missj55644 жыл бұрын
He is hilarious when he does that.
@kokokay9734 Жыл бұрын
This is seriously the best dating advice I’ve seen thus far.
@gracedean29574 жыл бұрын
My mom and dad said this is the way it was during their times in the 50s and 60s. They didn't understand this dating one-person thing. During their time they didn't have sex, they called it "courting" and you could court whomever you wanted until you decided to marry. When I was dating I would tell guys this and they immediately want to call me a hoe because in their head they are thinking about having sex when dating is just apart of getting to know someone. In getting to know someone, sex is not a requirement.
@shaylatates13384 жыл бұрын
“Struggling with your loose booty ways “ 😩🤣🤣🤣 I love Tony Gaskins god bless point blank perioddd!
@msbubblyqueen35364 жыл бұрын
Omg this is a great one.. @43 yrs old i thought i was old fashion ..but this is the true basics ladies👍☺
@nikkirowland4 жыл бұрын
Ms BubblyPisces yessss!!
@chantico2214 жыл бұрын
Where was this video 10 years ago lawd! Lol
@lawanda8914 жыл бұрын
Girl okay I’m 10 years late too 😫
@altheapearson4674 жыл бұрын
Purple Dove 87for auistuydysuuist
@Nomoremonitoring4 жыл бұрын
Right!
@natural.74 жыл бұрын
😄😄😄
@kimiko_1114 жыл бұрын
"Broke, busted and disgusted" 😂😂😂
@chantelcaldwell5984 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I need a man who is confident and can lead!!! Show me some chivalry and effort!
@phillyflytee98494 жыл бұрын
I dated a guy and within 2 months he asked me to be his gf. I could not be his gf because he did not have his own home.. I found out he was sleeping house to house couch to couch. Bye!!
@naram82824 жыл бұрын
I had the same scenario 🤣😂, on the third date that I’ve taken him for his bday, he asked to be his gf, ended up stuck with a ‘recovering’ addict in &out of sober homes, driving him around from a place to a place, doc app, spending money and energy on him because I felt sorry for him. What a waste of precious time:(
@princesssophiawise35604 жыл бұрын
@@naram8282 woooooow! my jaw just dropped! wow!
@Ladydiva65904 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Ladydiva65904 жыл бұрын
@@naram8282 wow My ex boyfriend would go to work everyday. Every time I would ask him about going out on a date. He would play broke . But he had the Audacity to ask me for sex I told him to keep it moving and Goodbye 👋🏾
@naram82824 жыл бұрын
@@Ladydiva6590 Good for you sweetie😃👍 We, women have to learn to take the higher road than cheapen ourselves
@GoodGrief1014 жыл бұрын
I learned in my early twenties to not let a man buy me a drink. I did a few times while out with friend’s. Anyway, an eight dollar drink isn’t an investment in my time. It doesn’t give anyone the go ahead to follow anyone around and etc. I started being upfront and would let them know if you buy me a drink, do it because you want to, but don’t expect anything. I would get a drink and be left alone. Setting boundaries and being upfront is a must! Tony knows what he’s talking about. I wish that I could have known a lot of this stuff as soon as I turned 18 to avoid a lot of nonsense. Thank you and be blessed!
@prettygirllafarrah4 жыл бұрын
LaVette I wish the same ! No one really taught us about dating and dating rules . We just went the flow 🤷🏾♀️.
@GoodGrief1014 жыл бұрын
prettygirllafarrah that’s true. My kid’s are teens and I probably over share. I wasn’t talked to 🙄and I want them to be smarter than I was.
@traquilasmith22754 жыл бұрын
Right so true i wish i knew this year's ago as well learning and growing now. 👏
@GoodGrief1014 жыл бұрын
Traquila Smith it’s nice to be 40 and waking all the way up!
@ashunt294 жыл бұрын
I appreciate me some Tony Gaskins!!! He keeps it so real. He's like having a great guy friend who won't stir you wrong. He really looks out for women, we need to have support from a Christian man who tells his faults as a player but how he's changed his life around for the better. I love how he loves and incorporates his love for his wife in his videos. He paints pictures for me. Can't wait to get their book together or hear from her. She sounds like a strong woman. His messages are for free, that's priceless.
@devonadee8584 жыл бұрын
That book is going to be good!
@ashunt294 жыл бұрын
@@p_tiffanii I will have to check Pastor Blakes out. Thank you for your recommendation. He reminds me of Chico Bean, the comedian, as far as his physical attributes.
@christinedozier21543 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@Naturalwoman7304 жыл бұрын
Loose bootie, singing on the mic and hotdogging, u are too funny, this is so informative and entertaining at the same time. I love it
@cheryljones20093 жыл бұрын
I've never even heard the term "hotdogging" & I'm 50 years old!!! 😆 lol
@DeeQJohnson3 жыл бұрын
What in the world is hotdogging😂
@shutit40243 жыл бұрын
@@DeeQJohnson I think it means anal
@TharaMesseroux12 жыл бұрын
I am single now, but when I get married, I’ll let you know, Tony!💗 Thank you for taking the time to educate us! Be blessed!🍀🦋
@a.87744 жыл бұрын
I like it when Tony changes his voice to the feminine side 😀❤️
@hoyatay20044 жыл бұрын
Anne Johnson pure gold!😹
@HeartOfGold..4 жыл бұрын
Seems like this is going to be an informative video. I just turned 22 never had a Bf yet. Just taking notes and getting my personal life together. Waiting until the time is right in my life to be in a relationship. I don't want to give my time to the wrong man.
@BayouTheModel4 жыл бұрын
Heart Of Gold I completely understand. Good for you!
@tierajohnson15564 жыл бұрын
stay that way girly you'll know when the time is right .
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect4 жыл бұрын
Follow this advice to the last word and you'll be a-okay
@sha24084 жыл бұрын
Heart Of Gold you came to the absolute right place! Listen to every video! Get this knowledge!
@HeartOfGold..4 жыл бұрын
@@sha2408 Thank you I have been watching his videos for a while now. All of them are so helpful. My goal is to binge all of them lol
@msve37304 жыл бұрын
" A woman approaching a man is like a gizzel approaching a lion " basically your making it easy for them. Easy Prey
@elizabethschilling71784 жыл бұрын
Great way of looking at this! Easy prey.
@msve37304 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethschilling7178 yup I was rethinking my entire life , I'm like man. Wtf was I doing
@traquilasmith22754 жыл бұрын
So true easy prey wow good point.
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
***Gazelle
@durbansaladyinaccra21734 жыл бұрын
@@nikkyshamz2696 I am in the same habit of correcting people's spelling. We should have been English teachers :D
@yvonneatsu53233 жыл бұрын
I believe in living separately before getting married. No need to play house. Thnak you Tony Gaskins!
@jooo-cfroot8281 Жыл бұрын
It makes me sad that I made so many mistakes in the past but I was desperate just wanting to be loved and he played the exact games you mention 😢. Thank You Tony for your Honest approach….I can take it and I will use the knowledge!
@mirandasmith85014 жыл бұрын
I don't have any brothers until now. Tony is the protective brother I always wanted. Thank you big bro, much love for you❤
@BA-hb9hh4 жыл бұрын
THIS VID SHOULD BE IN THE SCHOOL SYSTEM. BRAVO TO YOU FOR THIS FABULOUS VIDEO
@anitahobbs8394 жыл бұрын
Lol so true ! I needed this years ago !
@jerralatrice4 жыл бұрын
"God know I'm home safe."🤣
@marishalewis4844 жыл бұрын
Jerra Latrice then he said I’m going to bed 🤣🤣🤣
@jerralatrice4 жыл бұрын
@@marishalewis484 Right!! That was hilarious!😂
@sephrah_precious3 жыл бұрын
My head is killing me from all the laughing 😂🤣. Your straight face humour in this is too much! Honestly, great tips and I’m saving this video for when the time comes 🙏🏽.
@triciamokoena31562 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one who was laughing so hard at his straight face humour ! But indeed great tips. It will separate the grown boys from potential husbands.
@LadyJefferson2 жыл бұрын
You can at least take a walk around the lake and he can afford a slice of pizza ..
@Birthforthekingdom2 жыл бұрын
Dating wrong my whole life I’ve paid for meals, supported a man allowed cheating and disrespect. Now I’ve been alone for 5 months and it’s the best time ever I’m learning more than I’ve ever learned . Can you do videos on women dating with kids
@shereewhite48284 жыл бұрын
OMG!!!! This was soooooo informative for women & men of ALL AGES! I'm a 51yr old black woman who's very old fashioned! I agree 100% with what you've explained brother Tony. Women pleeeeease listen to this man, he's speaking the whole truth & nothing but the truth! Men take note on dating & courting, there's a difference. I'm so old school I still use blue magic grease & sulfur 8 grease! 😂😂😂 God bless you brother Tony. This message really blessed me.
@phyllisgoodnight94814 жыл бұрын
He should teach this in the church's to the young ladies or the church should get the lesson and start teaching them. We need to do things God's way again.
@prossykemigisha17084 жыл бұрын
@@phyllisgoodnight9481 Amen to that.
@MzSoulll4 жыл бұрын
"you still strugglin wit yo loose booty ways" - Tony Gaskins. lmaooo
@jartustevens98314 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@JasmineJordyn4 жыл бұрын
Yes I died 😂
@amandanicole80592 жыл бұрын
😩😂😂😂
@vhayashi73694 жыл бұрын
I love how he uses words he doesn't know exactly what they mean but he says he's "going to use it because he likes the way it sounds!" 😂😂😂
@radhikaraj73944 жыл бұрын
no eating that peach cobbler no singing on the microphone LOL! im done! Tony you are too good.
@cierraselby87334 жыл бұрын
I thought I had it all together, I've been dating all wrong. I'm ready to do this the right way, thanks Tony! This was enlightening AND hilarious!
@lyndapeoples81274 жыл бұрын
This is probably the best video that I've ever heard regarding dating, Tony. I learned a lot and I appreciate it. It all makes sense to me...kind of strict. I live a strict life so that's saying something!!
@Beautifullybyg4 жыл бұрын
I'm going to revise my dating goals and expectations.
@alicea5614 жыл бұрын
Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows
@Jasmyne4444 жыл бұрын
This has changed my life. 🤯🤯🤯 God bless you 🙌🏾
@nicoletreichel11Ай бұрын
I need to watch this once a month for sure lol good reminders
@lionessetoile6604 жыл бұрын
41 dislikes are those Men who feel like losing stupid fish to get from the river. We are here to learn and get ourselves ready into this crazy and messy world. Thank you so much. I sat quietly and paid attention to your advices like a preschooler do. Stay blessed 🙌
@ThatGyrlReese4 жыл бұрын
“God know I’m home safe. I ain’t got to tell you I’m home safe. What you goin do if I’m ain’t home safe. Nuthing.” 🤣🤣 Tony is hilarious.
@Laur_r.4 жыл бұрын
Sharece Vance lol I had to replay that part! 😂
@Nasrumii4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😭😭😭
@ThatGyrlReese4 жыл бұрын
Lauren B. 😂 I did too!
@SehYoga4 жыл бұрын
Sharece Vance lol
@queensmith24694 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂 😂 😂
@TrueEssence1004 жыл бұрын
OMG..I'm hollering...."Loose booty ways"🤣🤣🤣
@Mirror_My_Ambition4 жыл бұрын
Gurrrrlllll...he is so funny. He took me out with that
@LatashaToday4 жыл бұрын
D'Essence of Beautee I almost cried
@rubikscube67223 жыл бұрын
I got married at 30 and divorced at 40. If only I had access to this kind of advice before I got married. 100% of Tony’s advice in this video is true. I violated almost all of those things he forewarns here, and my exhusband did everything Tony forewarns of a selfish, shady man when I was dating him. Now looking to live the rest of my life with “me” at the forefront, not some stinking man. He needs to prove himself in every way the next time around 😂
@madonatadros20412 жыл бұрын
This man has changed my life for the better. You are doing God’s work Tony! God is blessing you and your family.
@knightyknight53994 жыл бұрын
Gave a guy my number and he was texting me 01:30 in the morning calling me honey and baby....That was a no from me...😣..Hes number was lost in a heart beat...
@kaydee_66444 жыл бұрын
"One of them slices of pizza out that winda"😅🤣😆
@m.williams34974 жыл бұрын
Khadeeja Shah 😂😂
@ceejay514 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@goddessblack87874 жыл бұрын
I promise these phrases I had me rolling 😆😆
@truthloves32064 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@LondonKLuv4 жыл бұрын
I love how that southern accent comes all the way through. lol
@jartustevens98314 жыл бұрын
I hear you, I totally agree. Been saving myself for awhile. my partner is out there God will send him💞🙏
@Jasmyne4444 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@brittnyy1133 жыл бұрын
I watched this video after talking to a guy for a few weeks and not being sure of where we were going...and literally the very next day, I used all the tips in the video to confidently have the big talk with the guy..... found out he was only looking for FWB, not a relationship! I had no idea of that before and he'dnever told me, because we'd never talked about it! We were going on nice dates, but never really talking and learning each other. Glad I watched this and was able to apply the tips, and save my time/emotions for someone serious.... it hurts ALOT! Because I really liked this guy, but I would've been more hurt if I'd given him the kitty and found out later he was playing me. I will use this video to guide me in the future!
@nicolemuse11642 жыл бұрын
I get ot but the signs were already there but glad you moved on
@deymimartinez5302 жыл бұрын
BEST dating advice I've heard in my life. Thank you Tony.
@katrinadodd90154 жыл бұрын
Tony is a comedian/preacher. I love it. Keep speaking truth.
@AllThingsTiffanyTV4 жыл бұрын
I Uber everywhere when going on dates. These ppl could be crazy. I don’t need anyone popping up at my house when things go bad. So far so good glad i stop letting ppl know where i live
@beauphomasterpiece37954 жыл бұрын
TiffanyB TV that’s a good idea cause I’ve dated people who have access to systems so if they saw my car tag they can figure out where you live . Crazy yes
@wall482914 жыл бұрын
@@DatDyme980 me too
@AllThingsTiffanyTV4 жыл бұрын
IMPACT BEAUTY 😳😳😱😱😱
@m.williams34974 жыл бұрын
Nikki Doe the google number is my favorite I give it to everybody. Only ppl super close to me have my number
@wowso44 жыл бұрын
TiffanyB TV when should you allow them to pick you up? On the second date or when your in a relationship?
@elizabethschilling71784 жыл бұрын
Lol! Loose booty ways!! 🤦♀️😂😂
@dorothysparrow43554 жыл бұрын
I was on the floor😂😂🤣🤣
@AllThingsTiffanyTV4 жыл бұрын
Holleringggggg 😂😂😂😂
@Theduchess07094 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Schilling girl I cried laughing 😂
@MsDash174 жыл бұрын
@@Theduchess0709 🤣 LOL!!
@CeeceByrd4 жыл бұрын
😂
@ramonaphillipsteach32843 жыл бұрын
I been married twice, once widowed. I did it the wrong way. Now God has healed my heart, I have forgiven my ex’s and myself. Got some therapy from past traumas. Today, I am ready, back at the gym, working on my brain, I know the Lord, we have a relationship. I am also an influencer. Thanks Tony!!!🙏🏽🙌🤗💕☀️
@Godfavorsmi4 жыл бұрын
When he said “the bigger the Diamond the smaller the Love”, I automatically thought of Cardi B & Offset!😅
@doramawrie37413 жыл бұрын
Lol Lovely Losja!!
@Mahogonykisses3 жыл бұрын
Thissssss partttt!!
@nikkinanette88073 жыл бұрын
I know people like that personally. Buying the chick a larger wedding ring within the 1st year, then throwing the upgrade ring 💍 in other women’s faces only to get a divorce a few years later.
@bowleged14 жыл бұрын
Soon as my phone said Tony Gaskins uploaded a new video I had a moment of Glee
@shaylat794 жыл бұрын
Wow lmbo.... you are one of a kind in metaphors and similes “ Aquafina”, “3rd leg” , “ Peach cobbler” etc ....
@jessicamartir564 жыл бұрын
lmfao i crack up when he mention the Aquafina and 3rd leg
@heyyashleyyy26694 жыл бұрын
He really is haha
@lerandabrewer39234 жыл бұрын
Be blessed .. Coach this is how I've always felt....there are ALOT of grown boys in my area that are looking for help it's so incredibly frustrating.....I'm praying this is my season for Boaz to show up
@lerandabrewer39234 жыл бұрын
@Purple Dove You're absolutely right....
@ceemac3044 жыл бұрын
pray and dry fast for 3 days. break generational curse
@Explorewithkim4 жыл бұрын
@Purple Dove what do you mean?
@jr384994 жыл бұрын
This man is the TRUTH! He is on point!
@courtneyhoward9096 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Tony, for this! My mom never taught me anything about dating except you have to be friends first (get to know them), My dad wasn't around, and my two older brothers didn't teach me anything. So I appreciate this information at 34 years old. Bless you 🙏🏾
@marthabrown13304 жыл бұрын
The best dating advice I ever listened to. I wish someone told me this long ago. I will play this for my daughters.
@2JJSweet4 жыл бұрын
Is it okay that I crack up constantly throughout your videos?! 😅🤣 You are WISE and HILARIOUS at the same time!
@TonyGaskins4 жыл бұрын
So glad you can get a good laugh!!
@nashjulie9332 Жыл бұрын
And keeps a straight face with those jokes...
@helenlhocker4 жыл бұрын
Notes: No sex tell marriage The man needs to approach “ask “””down on one knee “”” A. Man needs to lead a household 100% faithful Loving your wife and. Your children A Mann needs to come talk to the women man needs to court the women No mind games
@chrisparker62494 жыл бұрын
Yes he does but a woman must be in position to receive her Man/King.
@MsAries19683 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskin saving generations.
@terrikronmeyer7326 Жыл бұрын
Best Advice!! Especially not encouraging the mind games-Awesome Coach!
@itsme3k4 жыл бұрын
My daily Tony fix! Be blessed 🙏
@_Demii4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!! Please, ladies watch the entire video. There are so many layers!
@neekyneekk4 жыл бұрын
😂man Toni is funny “you hear me” lol he speaks facts with a little bit of humor ..great video ..be blessed 🙏🏾
@extinctionlevelevent14314 жыл бұрын
From the mouth of Tupac: “If a man knows you’ll do anything for him, then he will RUN you.” “Ladies, you have ALL the power. Stand your ground and hold tight to your principles.” “You LEAD him...or you LEAVE him!” In other words...Push for what you want from a man, or you let him go!
@ylbrannon4 жыл бұрын
This is my 3rd, 4th time watching this video. I purchased your book, A Woman's Influence, and I will stay everything you are saying is true. Dating someone now and he is consistently pursuing as you say. Thank you!
@brownsugarglamour4 жыл бұрын
“Celibant” 😂😭😭💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
@ci.ci.19984 жыл бұрын
brownsugarglamour 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
@jamiechang15614 жыл бұрын
LMAO!!!!!! "Celibant. No you ain't because you can't spell it" 😂😂😂
@mirchld4 жыл бұрын
Tony’s expressions do it for me each time 😂😂😂😂😂😂be blessed Tony!
@meriammedina21784 жыл бұрын
I’ve done everything wrong my entire life 🤦🏻♀️ Thank you Tony for bringing me into the light 🙌🏼
@noziphoshongwe952311 ай бұрын
Girllll you and I. That's why I'm here now.
@tracylove77594 жыл бұрын
I found you tonight and you are one of the best 😂😂😂, I’m abstinent for the past yr and your advice just made me feel stronger and more confident in what I’m doing. Thank you from France 🇫🇷
@victoriaspeaking11923 жыл бұрын
I will listen to this daily along with prayer and meditation for a mind shift. Thank you for this valuable information!
@aprimadonnasociety18674 жыл бұрын
Abstinence is tough, but I believe abstaining until marriage is attainable!
@sherrewebb16324 жыл бұрын
Sangin on the microphone and eating peach cobbler. Wooo this video is THE best 🤣🤣🤣 Informative and hilarious. Thanks Tony. Be blessed my brotha
@ashleygoodrich32944 жыл бұрын
The next guy I meet I hope he doesn’t like dating like that cause we’ll have that in common. I’m so tired of running into men claiming “ We don’t have to do anything” then going Ghost just because I’m keeping my Legs closed🙄🙄 Dating is so annoying nowadays
@mwellsdr4 жыл бұрын
Sis I'm going through the shit right. Now.... you want everything in the world until I tell you... wont be no goosie in this coochie
@desire2024 жыл бұрын
Exhausting...
@ascelinek4 жыл бұрын
Sis I’m tired, it’s the same cycle of grown boys over and over again. As soon as you don’t give it up then they skate right outta there 🙃
@xekaicithole34334 жыл бұрын
I have done this but still the guys go away.
@MOONstrucky80723 жыл бұрын
Dating is so frustrating and a lot of it comes from dishonesty--- people unwilling to be upfront or hiding their true intentions... I've only just turned 30 this year and I'm already disheartened 😔.
@lukreecelupe88492 жыл бұрын
“Singing on the microphone” ? 😂😂😂😂😂👀 I have choked on my tea
@IBELIEVEN74 жыл бұрын
POWERFUL wisdom....Thank you Jesussss for using this Gentleman as a tool to help us all who will receive this...