Can A Woman Waste Her Life Trying To Understand A Mother-Enmeshed Man?

[@oliverjrcooper]

Enmeshment - How To No Longer Be Attracted To A Mother-Enmeshed Man - www.amazon.com/Enmeshment-How-Longer-Attracted-Mother-Enmeshed/dp/B0DGX8RBS7

[@jbeat66]

This really hit home... 😔 Any ladies reading this right now, just know it does get better. Leaving my person was one of the hardest yet best choice I have made. I couldn't help him, he had to help himself. U gotta do the work, the self-reflection, self-love & put up healthy boundaries. It's so worth it! In the end, I found myself & now I know the difference between an unhealthy & healthy relationship. I do not regret it yet I will never go back to that madness/sadness. 🙏

[@kingchris340]

I was with a woman enmeshed with her son and she literally left me for him

[@seaofdaffodils]

I needed to hear this. Thanks for the great content! 7 months later and a few months of intense family of origin work in therapy and I do feel I have a much better compass for managing healthy relationships with people who are equally as capable of being in them. The relationship was painful but it mirrored to me my own childhood wounds, my own struggles with intimacy, and I feel much stronger and more capable of handling life.

[@scottwells2456]

No blame. But the relationship failure is from both sides. Although not nessassarily in equal measure. We both take the risk. The mother emeshed man may of course duped her, but rather the disloyalty bind duped them both if no recovery efforts had preceeded the relationship. It depends on what was going on for each party when the relationship was initiated. The mother emeshed man normally create 's relationship bonds with women with their own particular challenges. And women with often quite specific issues create relationships with mother emeshed men. The result? Two broken children trying to get healing from and heal the other.

[@jbeat66]

Exactly 💯

[@aftertheirkind7781]

Thank you again for helping me see that I was constantly analyzing his behavior to avoid the pain I was feeling from his rejection. I went to your website and signed up for a consultation. I look forward to hearing from you! Thank you so much for sharing your gifts with all of us...

[@BethLove333]

Thank you for making these videos. I feel alone and isolated in learning about this now. But it has been a long and grueling relationship. I have been with him for almost 14 years. We are both 36. He is abusive too and I feel his Mom kind of is too. It has been so difficult for me to leave him and stay broken up. I hope I do this time. I always knew he was abusive because he would physically abuse me. He had a porn addiction too. But now, I must come to know and realize why I would be attracted and what my fears are about intimacy. Anyhow, thank you so much for speaking about this in such healing ways.

[@oliverjrcooper]

Hello StarsAlwayS, thank you for your comment. It sounds like you are on the right track. Keep going and don't give up on yourself. You can do this.

[@kimvannote5024]

Good Video. Thank you

[@daviddurkheim2905]

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