Can Indian Men Wear Make-Up Like in Korea? | BTS

[@mohak_mangal]

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[@prachi4110]

Why 7 minutes from now

[@mayukhchaterji3222]

Could you please add subtitles to this?

[@dhiraj8641]

Nice video bhaiya

[@malakpetkarider]

Bhai, I was very disappointed when you disclosed your KZbin income in a QnA. For the effort you put, content you create should be paid huge money. After this video, I felt so happy that Mohak bhai is going to be a billionaire one day. All the best Bhai💐💐💐

[@saltyuser_]

Can you please add subs? Meri English thodi improve ho jaegi 😃😁

[@pranay561]

good that you're touching these type of topics, im fed up of hearing racist and homophobic comments

[@lalitthapa101]

One thing I've seen a lot is how people Shame on dark skinned people for putting makeup saying how it'll not make them fair and other racist stuff. Like,for them makeup is a tool to get white skin and nothing else.

[@petertonyson1352]

@@lalitthapa101 that's the pt. Why you want white skin, is it more beautiful, superior colour?

[@kashitakhalate9116]

@@petertonyson1352 offcourse putting makeup isnt to be white sometimes its just about feeling good bro.......who said people put makeup to look white.....its indians ppl who put foundation 3 times higher of their natural state to look white bhoot

[@petertonyson1352]

@@kashitakhalate9116 I said that in reply to Lalit Thapa, he said that make-up is a way to get white skin

[@youneedcooling8107]

@@kim_bhai_jong Bro applying makeup doesn't mean that specific person if happy or not with its natural self.

[@sanidhyasrivastava9008]

Japanese and Koreans notion of masculinity and feminity is very flexible

[@bhagatrishit486]

Only Koreans

[@iamray112]

look you never live in that society so how do you know about it?

[@sankkham]

Bt in sports they are more muscular than us 😂😂

[@ammo7204]

@@sankkham why the laughing emoji?

[@breathing9127]

@@sankkham if it's Punjab then no

[@imAkkie5]

Mohak is a one of the examples of the soft masculinity.... And example that you dont need makeup to show it.

[@sudarshan3965]

@@kim_bhai_jong not really.

[@bhuvaneshs.k638]

@@kim_bhai_jong I disagree... Makeup was present even in Egyptian or Mesopotamia or Roman/ greek era

[@just_a_bish]

@@kim_bhai_jong lmao not everyone wears makeup to look more white...some thing of it as art and it is an art and what's wrong if someone feel confident after wearing makeup

[@DS-Pakaemon]

BASICALLY. Be a good human. Don't hurt others.

[@sayaedtaj5777]

Useless it's a feminine trait to make up so men should not do such

[@sm0000]

To be a honest, being a girl I don't do make up at all, but that doesn't make me superior to girls who do make up...neither it makes me masculine. It is just something I don't feel meaningful to me, but it doesn't mean I would judge others who do. The arrogance of "I am man/ I am a woman", leads to limiting ourselves. Do things that you find meaningful, even in our ancient heritage men wearing earrings, necklace, anklets can be witnessed in sculptures... that doesn't mean that they were less manly. Some Indian men arrongantly say Kpop n all look girlish, let me ask you, do u have the courage to go out in formal meetings in Dhoti? Can you proudly show your manly heritage? ... therefore don't judge other people like these.

[@WAKANA-hj7qq]

Couldn’t have said better !

[@simerdeepsingh3379]

Respect++++++++

[@armanasa3956]

So true! Totally agree with everything you say. But I just want to sat, be it men or women unrealistic beauty standrds shouldn't become the norm in society.

[@sm0000]

@@armanasa3956 you are absolutely right. Agreed

[@Alroy_lobo]

You are naturally beautiful

[@sudarshan3965]

Earlier in India for men even applying a moisturizing cream, trimming eyebrows was made fun. Not it has become a norm.

[@EST457]

Even now men are expected to keep beards and people make fun of others who have no beard

[@kdjoshi726]

Well it's only a kind of norm in Bollywood/in correspondent to those working in fasion or related industry. It's still not a norm in day to day life

[@ayaskpandey]

@@EST457 most men don't keep beards anyway no one makes fun as you grow into a working citizen you are expected to keep a clean shave to look professional its only for teens or manchild who want to look cool

[@neonzigs3967]

I apply moisturizer cream coz my mom tells me to 😂😂

[@sanskaribilla2779]

@@ayaskpandey finally a person with IQ 🙏

[@ItsOurSpace]

Beauty is important thing in Korea. If you are not pretty then your talent and hard work doesn't matter to them

[@sarthak268]

Really, I didn't know that

[@Shitai-4ever]

@@sarthak268 ya apparently parent do plsatic surgery of their children as gift to them

[@dhruvsharma6993]

Bitter truth

[@kaleshwallah]

tum vhi se ho ky sneh chan ?

[@Annie-jo1np]

It's harsh but yea somewhere it's true

[@saintpotato5]

As a girl, I think it's such a shame that guys can't talk about their emotions to their male friends. My girls are moral pillars. Even guys deserve something like that. Not saying their female friends won't understand, but they can never relate to a lot of things like their male friends would do. I wish at least our generation can create a society where our guys can have access to that.

[@rhythmkhandelwal2940]

I believe girls friendships are stronger and better, they understand each other while boys just makes fun out of everything which is not always pleasant

[@dibyakantidas9116]

@@rhythmkhandelwal2940 boys friendship last much more than girls I think

[@vishalraj865]

@@rhythmkhandelwal2940 change your friends

[@Chirag7344]

@@dibyakantidas9116 its fact

[@sardius119]

@@rhythmkhandelwal2940 change your company

[@Bot-br5jz]

This is freaking hilarious. How people are forgetting men in this country wore jewellery, makeup and tilak on a daily basis since ancient times. People learnt how to use makeup and wear jewellery from ancient Indians.

[@अण्वायुवरीवर्त]

Can't deny jewellery, But tilak r anything but makeup

[@Bot-br5jz]

@@aryanically pfffffftttttrrttt women birthed the men , literally carried the whole freaking civilization, for you men to be even breathing on this planet.

[@Bang...9900]

IKR But it's hilarious that people suddenly remember all their culture and get the feeling of petroitism when they come to know about k-pop and specially bts lol Like they forget these stuffs when it comes to their likes and dislikes

[@Bot-br5jz]

@@Bang...9900 hahahahaha shut up men in our community are always chivalrous. Not the whole of India is just Bollywood fake masculinity copied from Arab and Hollywood. Some of us really live our culture in this country. Just pointed it out through my comment.

[@Bang...9900]

@@Bot-br5jz LoL dumb I didn't talked about bollywood and blah blah blah I'm talking about those who are double faced and I literally saw some people specially some dumb teenagers who act like adults dragging our hindu gods seriously !!Gods!!!?? just to win their stupid conversations with k-pop fans specially bts fans And yk what those where same dumbs who simp over female idols of girl groups of kpop Lmao

[@alittlebitofaditi]

It's funny that people have this notion that Indian male actors don't wear makeup. Amazing video tho! This really needed to be spoken about.

[@ojogukk8655]

Exactly my pov and not pointing this out coz I am bts army but this question just runs in my mind whenever anyone points it out this thing specifically about boys 💜

[@aishwarya2016]

I was looking for this kind of comment! Well said!

[@chocoboii6186]

It is your life whatever you wanna do. I am not a BTS fan but I don't hate them too, And I also don't want any people to hate them on there appearance.

[@samraddhikhare6274]

@@chocoboii6186 yeah it is not necessary to become fan. Respecting is enough ✨

[@Karanveer782w]

They were makeup just for shoot while your k-pop nigahs are getting weekly plastic surgery appointment.

[@awe-mazingart122]

So glad an Indian man is talking about this. And with such maturity👏

[@adamsmith4177]

mentally ill BTS fan girl

[@xdeexquisitex]

Why does everyone forget that in India too, before we got invaded BOTH men and women practiced beautification. It was a part of daily life to do skin care routines, hair care routines and wear ornaments and make-up made from natural things.

[@trailsofmusic6549]

Exactly

[@7wonders411]

Exactly (2)

[@archit80]

Exactly (3)

[@QuranwithRain]

FR! It’s such a white ppl concept to have such strict gender roles. Makeup just makes ppl look like themselves on their best day.

[@xdeexquisitex]

@@QuranwithRain yes! It was more like taking care of your outer as well as inner appearance to be more presentable and of course grooming yourself increases self confidence and esteem

[@koolvein_klein]

its okay if you don't like BTS, music is subjective, being a fan is subjective. But don't be racist and disrespect someone for being different than you. Cultures vary person to person, countries to countries

[@jagsiir1066]

And also don't hate some one if they don't like make up and bts

[@koolvein_klein]

@@jagsiir1066 there is difference between dislike and hate. Hate is strong word. You shouldn't hate living people if they have done nothing wrong to you. However you're free to dislike them

[@jagsiir1066]

@@koolvein_klein well i read many comments like , its not your fault not every one have good taste in music or not every one digest good looks of bts , they use this kind of sentences, even Indian girls show hate towards who don't like bts, because of toxic fan base people don't like bts

[@koolvein_klein]

@@jagsiir1066 fanbase isn't very right reason to judge artist. Toxicity depends on how big the fandom is. If you don't like BTS don't worry it's not big deal. Everyone has different taste

[@jagsiir1066]

@@koolvein_klein yup no love no hate

[@arpitsarkar4793]

At least now we're talking about such things. Back in our childhood, when it was much needed, we had no clue about others feelings. Thanks to Mohak and some other creators, we are modernizing ourselves.

[@ay4sh1]

@@kim_bhai_jong Cry about it

[@crocsAreUgly]

@@kim_bhai_jong Ah yes, rejecting biological mechanisms of releasing stress because why not! Why do you voluntarily want to be miserable, just to "prove" you're not a girl or something? In the end, it's you who loses

[@ankitpandey7205]

They are making men weaker

[@pikachuthunderbolt3919]

Lol the country is lecturing for makeup where lord Krishna , Ram use to wear kajal , tilak , jewellery and have good hairs I don't know what kind of culture we have today Is it Bollywood manipulated Punjabi gedi culture or what .

[@dontshipidolsorillsendyounk_96]

​@@pikachuthunderbolt3919 It is toxic people of our own country bro

[@joonieluv5918]

Everyone should be free to express themselves the way they want to, this goes both ways, whether someone wants to wear make-up or not should be based on their personal choice and not gender.

[@saltyuser_]

Glad to see you here twinie

[@joonieluv5918]

@@saltyuser_ Hi! Long time no see 🥺🥰

[@saltyuser_]

@@joonieluv5918 Misses you so much! 🥺

[@joonieluv5918]

@@saltyuser_ 😘😇💜

[@saltyuser_]

@@joonieluv5918 🤡❤️🍭

[@mayankbisht7691]

I think you are confusing Maschoism with Toxic Masculinity. Not all men who act tough are toxic

[@mohak_mangal]

Good point. I should have added that nuance and made it clearer. Thanks for pointing it out!

[@lalitthapa101]

But I do see maschosim as a gateway to toxic masculinity.

[@whoreslayer]

@@mohak_mangal L

[@imAkkie5]

@@lalitthapa101 right, the line between is blur and almost everyone on this way crosses it..

[@lalitthapa101]

@@nixxfleet there iisn't anything like "soft masculinity" though. Society isnt forcing men to be "soft" whatever that's supposed to mean.

[@Account-user]

Frankly speaking, even ancient Indian princes adorned themselves with jewellery, kajal and even kept long hair. In fact the present idea of masculinity amongst our generations is more a continuance of the Victorian notions from the Colonial times.

[@sandeep7365]

Here he's talking about make up not jewelleries

[@sky5413]

Actually it was not used to as a symbol of masculinity at all it was mostly used in ancient time as a tool to distinguish a royalty and a commoner.. Royalty usually wore lavish clothing and jwellery as well have a good skin and hair care..

[@vaibhavsharma7495]

Hard Masculinity and Soft Masculinity, both are the extreme natures that people usually have. And I think, we should maintain a balance of both the natures in ourselves.

[@achiever9560]

I agree, and why do males need to wear makeup for being soft masculine? For behavioral changes we need to work on the inside and not outside. Edit 1 jan 2023: I agree with @drake cliff and @karthik Chowdary People are just inventing new words because of so called influencers. They replying me with stupidity like let boys wear makeup!! let them do this do that blah blah💩💩

[@helper5846]

Why to put yourself in a box ? Act however you want.

[@tej4975]

@@achiever9560 Just maybe think about it in a reverse manner, if a girl doesn't wear makeup or starts dressing up as a boy, does not make it soft feminity or hard feminity. It just makes it her, a women. This concept is very similar to women because of feminism and that's why we appreciate korean men rather than calling them any kind of masculinity. They are just masculine in all its forms. I think that's why feminism as a movement is important for both men and women, because we can learn a lot from it.

[@cyan1656]

@@tej4975 well first of all change its name from feminism to something else.

[@terracottaelephant4972]

@@cyan1656 why? If men can have a movement solely for themselves called men’s rights movement then why can’t feminism a movement for everyone have that name?

[@suryansh8993]

Indians have to get rid of this toxic masculinity stereotype , they have to accept new and different things . I lie under the soft masculinity section and i face this toxic behaviour on daily basis .

[@suryansh8993]

@SPACED_OUT0_0 very well explained 💯

[@shashiprabha1593]

@Marz you took it in a wrong way..

[@khaepjjang536]

@Marz lets see ,, would support him

[@bonjovi1354]

U can't clap with one hand I am sure people find something annoying in u so they do that actually ...

[@suryansh8993]

@@bonjovi1354 annoyed by what ? Looks 😂 really ?

[@yourangel777]

The concept of the flower boy has been there in Korea since ancient times. In the Shilla Kingdom, they had flower boys, also the importance of appearance was there always. Also, BTS has been criticized for wearing makeup in the beginning. They came from a very small company and were not popular. But now that they are so big, nobody can say anything in Korean. Hybe was not one of the big companies from starting. TXT debuted in 2019 and BTS in 2013.

[@Ananya-lb8zw]

Makeup is not gender specific. People should do whatever they want. Who cares what others think? If you feel good doing something, then don't stop doing it. edit: 90% of the comments dumb fr. I do not mean committing crimes is okay. That should be common knowledge. I guess it was ignorant of me to think these incels have such common sense. But yes, do whatever you want, just don't harm yourself or others.

[@shambhavikulkarni5177]

Just make sure it doesn't hurt anyone's feelings and it's legal to do so....

[@prathampekamwar8751]

The problem is even the south koreans doesn't understand this as they also changed their looks just because it affected how girls thought about them 😂.

[@udiyomaan]

I like to bully, May I?

[@bloodonmytongue5408]

@@udiyomaan no thank you..

[@vicxthemw]

I feel good in beating someone is that is good to do or should i stop

[@prachi4110]

there is difference between hard masculinity and toxic masculinity most of the guys who seem tough or unemotional from far are some of the nicest guys you will ever meet when you talk with them

[@RobertDowneyJrOfficial]

@I'm not homophobic because i love lesbian video wtf

[@FirstnameLastname-cl4op]

@I'm not homophobic because i love lesbian video bro 2021 is going on not 400 AD

[@azieluroma4823]

@@RobertDowneyJrOfficial spammer/Troll....just ignore sh*its like that.

[@FirstnameLastname-cl4op]

@I'm not homophobic because i love lesbian video round off lga le yrr usi ke aas pass ka time

[@Pissfizz38326]

@The Quiver Reject Democracy embrace Anarchy🥴

[@Naturescuisine16]

I don't think that man wearing makeup is something to be ashamed of, it's just their choice to look more attractive and feel confident and honestly we can't judge anyone based upon their choice I mean it's life ..let them live in the way they feel more comfortable and confident .

[@loveu8594]

@@kim_bhai_jong Haha it's called reverse racism. They are sometimes against racism but then suddenly they'll tell you to take makeup to look more good because your natural skin is not anymore attractive to them.

[@boris2512]

@@loveu8594 😅

[@mohinish2273]

HELL NO🙅🙅🙅

[@riyak.7393]

@@mohinish2273 lol why?

[@abhishekrana7986]

@@riyak.7393 Bcz we don't have girly mongolian facial features imagine a indian men wearing makeup it would be a complete disaster

[@his_bravery_still_and_forever]

We need more man Like him I appreciate your knowledge and mentality bro🩷

[@mitravinda7330]

If making effort to look good by wearing decent clothes isn't wrong, then applying makeup or doing skin care routines shouldn't be too. At the end of the day it's all about how we feel about ourselves should be the issue here.

[@ri7744]

*Truly agree, it's not about makeup it's about your mindset* Like ppl in reply

[@touhidkhan1301]

Mind mein gobar var lo...waise bakwas mind ko apne pass rakho

[@s1mple965]

bts geih

[@ADITYA_138]

MATLAB kuch bhi? 😂😂😂😂 Sahi mai harkate unki dekho transgender hi lagte hai

[@hi_champion5156]

bts sucks

[@sardius119]

@@hi_champion5156 so does your existence

[@RajVerma-ng1xo]

You can portray soft masculinity without makeup as well. By the way one who applies should never be judged too.

[@GiselleOutsold]

*AESPA OUTSOLD BTS*

[@nknkannadiga9742]

@@GiselleOutsold wtf aespa

[@ibrav7979]

@@GiselleOutsold ok another toxic my

[@GiselleOutsold]

@@ibrav7979 *armys are really toxic no lie even though bts make basic music*

[@ibrav7979]

@@GiselleOutsold how is basic bad? Besides why you trynna drag bts into this

[@jainamssj]

Nykaa has estimated that mens beauty industry has a huge scope and is almost said to skyrocket as more and more men become beauty conscious. Its not about being girlish or boyish, anyone who wants to look better can use makeup, it's that simple.

[@sabarihariharan2005]

Honestly not just BTS all south east Asian artists including Chinese and Thai artists wear makeup. It's absolutely normal to want to pretty/handsom. The whole men shouldn't work on their looks sound like BS.

[@galactustales]

What if people are happy how they look with just bathing..

[@sabarihariharan2005]

In China male artists who wear makeup or just have more softer looks are called 'sissy artists' and ridiculed. The same way male idols in korea are ridiculed. China took things a bit too far by planning on banning 'sissy idols'

[@sabarihariharan2005]

@@galactustales that's amazing. However make up is a choice. Ppl just don't want to be made fun of for wearing make up. Give ppl a choice. If they want to they can if they dont want to then they don't have to.

[@akashbharadwaj02]

Males can improve their looks without looking feminine too

[@galactustales]

@@ava_lily521 it was just an enquiry whether its normal to not feel the need to be handsome with makeup etc Have a nice day! I didn't mean to be disrespectful :)

[@shraddhagawde4883]

I think these topics should be discussed in classrooms more, taking the notes what students think. Students can be easily told that they are wrong and they accept it. But when a person grows up with the wrong concept and suddenly someone tries to change their thinking, they don't readily accept it and act stubborn.

[@shivang1158]

You can't say that it is a wrong concept you don't think the life style depends on were the people live koreans can wear makeup like stuff because their skin is like that and they look good but this makeup stuff for men in India its not the right think our skin our rough look our features are different I can't imagine in the streets of Mumbai guys are wearing makeup think about it not everything is good for everyone

[@sonipriya9950]

But the problem is even the kids (most of them, not all) these days think they're even more mature than the adults, they think only their way of thinking is right, and most of them would probably act as stubborn as the grown-ups would do, if this ever happens... sharing from my own experience as a part of the upcoming generation. But wait- Who's even going to educate the youth on these need-of-the-time topics? Indian Education System and Schools? Lol sounds like a joke.. -_-

[@shraddhagawde4883]

@@shivang1158 I agree that our skin textures are different but if someone wants to try that too, we should accept that. And only make-up is not the way how soft masculinity is practised. Men in India are criticised for choosing softness (not only in India) because we have that image of how men should be since our childhood. So in my opinion schools should develop more in teaching us about wrong thinking patterns.

[@kuls43]

It's completely fine if someone doesn't like a man with make up and a woman with an artificial beard. Don't think of yourself as stereotype and conservative. You have right to chose your preferences. But this doesn't give you right to criticize, make fun of other guy as he has also complete right to wear makeup or beard. Keep your criticism to yourself. Personally I will feel uncomfortable and weird if my male colleague sitting next to me is wearing make up and a saree blouse. But I will take it and won't raise any issues about it.

[@sandeshrangari694]

@@shraddhagawde4883 most Indian schools have woman as a teacher 95% teacher are female in india so how can you say they are raised wrong ...

[@hogishim.]

I am an Indian woman and over the past few years have interacted with many Koreans. I agree that there is a gender divide in Korea, which is widely seen in the working culture there. There are many issues between the genders(eg . Men feel unfairly treated due to the mandatory military service and women feel unfairly treated which has led to the agressive feminism movement in Korea, which is not what we would consider feminism to be). However, I will point out that I noticed a stark difference between how Korean men treat women vs what happens back at home. I don't want to say that they treat women with more respect. I would rather say that they treated women in more or less the same way they treated men. And sometimes I feel that is what women really want. To be treated like a fellow human, than being treated as a person of the opposite gender. An interesting thing to point out would be the gaming culture in Korea. A lot of Koreans game and I was pleasantly surprised to see so many women in it. And they are not berated saying women don't know how to game, or ridiculed or made fun of. They genuinely feel women can do it too and don't go all crazy just because a woman is part of their team. II really liked seeing such a safe and supportive community during my time with them. I will also say that toxic masculinity in Korea is present in the military. If anyone wants to know more about it, I recommend watching the drama DP on Netflix.

[@manoshinandy5180]

But due you know in future they dont have young population their birth rate is 0.77 which is lowest in the world I am not saying lowering birth rate not good but extensively low birth rate have lots of problems just like high birth rate have.south korea is country with world class technology but not good future Over dependence on US troops will bring more problems for S korea

[@shaunak9133]

3.5 / 5 marks iss essay ke liye

[@samuraijosh1595]

Great write-up. We have a lot of work to do in India, don't we? 🙄🙄🙄

[@Yuvrxj29]

Sis itna bda comment kaise likh lia .

[@hogishim.]

@@manoshinandy5180 That is true. The younger generation is very stressed out. The job market is extremely competitive and the housing prices are insanely high. It is next to impossible for the younger generation to be able to afford a house in Korea. It's similar to India, but much worse. This is one of the major reasons why youngsters don't want to get married or have children. They are often referred to as the N-포세대(the generation that has given up on N number of things).

[@siyaramhanuman.00]

My geography teacher is a soft masculinity man. It's been 3 months since i know him . He teaches very well . He talks calm and soft . At first, me , myself,find it strange, even my classmate say this thing. It's because of the society and education system that we are not given proper knowledge about vital subjects like this. That's why I find it strange. But now i clearly appreciate and understand him . He's brave that he's showing what he likes or not by his social media. He even have a KZbin channel where he again speaks soft. That's the case same like what happened to me when i first get to know about lgbt community. At first when I saw something like this, i find it weird and confused. I kinda don't prefer this thing at first but I don't knew that I would became their supporter. Now i fully support them ❤️✨🏳️‍🌈. Only when I got knowledge about different preferences,types, choices, i change. In our society, we don't education about others culture, society, tradition and that's why we find them strange and started to hate them by getting influenced from the people near us. I thank technology and Mohak Sir that now we are getting information about these topics 👍🏻

[@shreyajanga9296]

Your comment also made me think that how many of us are so used to men in our families shouting or talking loudly at all times, especially directed towards us that soft-spoken and mild mannered men are seen are rarity! Now being soft spoken and mild mannered, being well put together are signs of educated, and mature!

[@ThunderLightStrikes]

Masculinity is masculinity. There is nothing hard, toxic or soft. Both men and women can be toxic. It is better that we let people express themselves irrespective of their gender without stereotyping the actions of men and women.

[@atanubhuyan7004]

Only if it was that simple

[@akhilsingh9884]

@@atanubhuyan7004 Can you define what exactly is toxic masculinity? search entire internet if you want

[@atanubhuyan7004]

@@akhilsingh9884 you just answered your own question on my behalf. Much thanks

[@lahiri07]

@@atanubhuyan7004 u can never define toxic masculinity

[@atanubhuyan7004]

@@lahiri07 mkay

[@shivangyadav6159]

I'm a man ...and i don't prefer makeup or any kind of beauty products on my face or body . And i don’t think bts members are feminine or anything. They are just confident, beautiful men . They wears make-up becoz They like it . I don't wear make-up becoz I don't like it . Simple 🤷‍♂️ Peace 💙🙌

[@sakshamtyagi9652]

They are feminine but there's nothing wrong with men being femme🤷‍♂️

[@unstoppablerunner1836]

@@sakshamtyagi9652 bruh male shouldn't be feminine . Imagine your father acting like a female

[@sakshamtyagi9652]

@@unstoppablerunner1836 says who ? Ohkay if my father was feminine what harm would it have done to anyone ? Masculinity is a social construct with no real use or application.

[@ammo7204]

@@unstoppablerunner1836 can you tell the meaning "acting like a female"? just give one or two examples.

[@kdjoshi726]

@@unstoppablerunner1836 So what if they "act like female" is it a bad thing?

[@सज्जनपुरुष]

hard masculinity is not the same as toxic one, i guess it depends on how u define it but still

[@sjzz]

There is nothing called Soft , hard or toxic masculinity. Masculinity is just masculinity. Is there something called Soft femininity or toxic femininity. It's just people acting their own way. Why you people straight up target masculinity?

[@ManishSingh-jz2hx]

@@sjzz I think there is something called toxic femininity tho. Ever heard of the screeching pseudo-feminist like the girl who slapped the auto driver.

[@sjzz]

@@ManishSingh-jz2hx to be honest , what examples most Feminist leaders have shown now I strongly hate feminist. Like strongly. I don't care if anyone is Pesudo feminist or feminazi , I just don't.

[@EST457]

I'm surprised this stupid comment have so many likes

[@hridayghosh2003]

unrelated to what you said, sajjan purush galat hindi hai. sajjan ka matlab hota hai accha purush. Toh is hisaab se aapka naam hai accha purush purush. Don't think I am making fun of you. I just want you to know where you are wrong so that you can improve.

[@yuchan063]

I am a Korean man and I have never actually seen a Korean man with makeup on in my life. K-pop idols exist to satisfy women, not their looks, clothes, or makeup actually done by Korean men.

[@samuraijosh1595]

really? i have seen many vlogs where kkorean men casually say they wear a tinge of makeeup, nothing wrong with that. it suitd them but it looks funny on us caucosioid people: brown white and black men

[@yuchan063]

@@samuraijosh1595 Koreans are Asians. Most Koreans are nerds or introverts, and I am too. Therefore, there are no friends around me who do vlog. I will tell you the truth about Korea that I experienced while living in Korea for about 20 years. Korean Men: South Korean men are the most highly regarded in the world among Korea, Japan and China, but I think the reality is not. Korean men are not as unique as Japanese men, nor are they as smart as Chinese men. On a personal basis, Korean men are the ugliest of the three countries. Korean men are the tallest, but have the smallest eyes. Korean plastic surgery: Living in South Korea, I realized that South Korean plastic surgery is not as serious as the Western press exaggerates. However, it is still at a serious level worldwide. In other words, not all good looking South Koreans have plastic surgery. There are many naturally good-looking people around me, but there is a certain percentage of people with as good looks anywhere in the world. If we limit ourselves to those who have not undergone plastic surgery, the percentage is not higher than the world average. Although the amount of plastic surgery in South Korea is the highest in the world, most of them are simple upper eyelid surgery. The United States ranks first in plastic surgery sales, because major surgeries such as breast surgery are the mainstream. (In South Korea, large breasts are traditionally not a standard of beauty, so very few people have plastic surgery there)

[@LilYoongs7]

Bro got scared seeing people attacking bts so he became one of them

[@rishabhyadav5126]

Although the looks of men have changed, K-pop bands still produce dramas as songs which reinforce the patriarchal idea of men being tough, and it is portrayed as if women need the protection and care of men to thrive and succeed. Story lines of typical k-pop dramas show tough men who are fighters and women who show expressions.

[@rishabhyadav5126]

@@kim_bhai_jong everything

[@unstoppablerunner1836]

@@rishabhyadav5126 if men and women are equally strong then why women fear walking in night ??

[@huaman4595]

Kuch bhi? Girl/boy bands making songs for self love and being strong individually! I'm not talking about rap. And I think you are confusd between K-pop and K-drama

[@AIRek7]

@@unstoppablerunner1836 u would know if u were a woman, not all men are same so what you don't other men do

[@dludbe1394]

@@huaman4595 if you leave BTS all songs instead 3-4 of it Then 3/4 part of kpop is about *** love relationship If you remove blackpink 3 songs then everything is about i have break up , i want love , care , I want revenge , i am alone & So so There is like 4 or 5 etc ,. Who write about self love including BTS So plz don't be so blind in being lover of kpop , kdramas Such other korean things To see the bad side of it and also about thinking that Korea have all perfect type things and others countries are just piece of ***

[@thetrusfratedarmy]

Thanks for covering this topic.💜 I'm a boy and I faced criticism for following BTS 😶😒

[@shikhasuman871]

Don't listen to haters, they're illogical! You're most welcome to the fandom!! 💜

[@sibasishdutta9009]

As you should be

[@hello-dz8co]

@@sibasishdutta9009 lmao

[@hello-dz8co]

@@shikhasuman871 saying a girl who has a chinese pfp 💀

[@shikhasuman871]

@@hello-dz8co So? What's wrong with it? Don't be racist! I'll put my profile whatever I want, nothing to do with you. If you don't like it, then don't look at it.

[@RohitOrg08]

Makeup is personal preference irrespective of gender. I personally don't like makeup. I like real person. No offence to those who loves or prefer makeup.

[@riyak.7393]

@Bumblesnuff buffallobath exactly.

[@Ruchisdrafts]

Who wears makeup are not all fake . They feel confident by wearing makeup ,it maybe because of their past incidents

[@chillndie]

@Bumblesnuff buffallobath chill bruh by real he meant 'natural' 🤦🏻

[@chillndie]

agreed 100%

[@kdjoshi726]

@Bumblesnuff buffallobath By real he means natural. Bruh how hard it is to grasp

[@priyankaghosh9463]

Around 4 years ago, my partner wore makeup curtsy to his best friend who is a makeup artist, and I thought it was quite awesome and bold to carry that makeup. And also more glad, he was more embracing of the makeup and open up about emotions and treating equally and not objectifying women/ men based on their appearance. Mohak is right, years of education and being brought up right can really change a person's perspective on society and embrace both the masculanity and feminine side of a person regardless of their sexuality.

[@aanushia2410]

When I had started discovering BTS. In the initial phases, I used to listen to their songs a lot. I used to play it on TV. And almost all the male individuals in my family. My father, my relatives, passed very bad comments on them. They teased them on their looks and the way they wore make-up. I didn't even realise all this until they pointed out. I tried to explain them that it's wrong to comment on others choice but guess what ...I was told to shut up. It's sad that even when you try to explain people, they don't understand, and that was the last time I played BTS songs in front of them. I couldn't see them humiliate BTS. I really hope things change

[@hyena5313]

Indians girls are okay with South koreans having superior mentality and calling indians ugly. But indians under 17 girls are not okay with their own superiority complex, which is few and far between.

[@ay4sh1]

@@hyena5313 What? As an Indian, I've always stood up for us and never accepted anyone calling Indians ugly, bro stop making assumptions pls

[@MJsharma007]

You're so called soft kpop men don't even add any black race in their band...

[@bro-nu1bd]

@@MJsharma007 there are so many black k-pop stars like fataou! Ever heard bout them ? And k-pop idol's don't scout themselves their companies do

[@cutelilpotato6214]

@@MJsharma007 oh wow have u seen a black singer getting famous and receiving support in India??? We've always known asian countries are still a lil conservatives and they are trying to improve there are 3-4 black kpop idols and I hope that the no. will increase soon

[@udaykhosla2616]

It’s a person’s own wish to do whatever they want

[@MKB720P]

Too much freedom isn't always good.

[@ahumanbeing5708]

@@MKB720P faq of dude it's freedom of choice

[@shashwattyagi9369]

Wrong statement , The right statement would be :- It's a person's own wish to do whatever they want to if they are not harming the society .

[@cricket007-j9t]

@@MKB720P True

[@cricket007-j9t]

According to your logic : A person can go naked in public because is his/her choice

[@Jjyotsnathagelaa]

a shout out of appreciation for taking this topic up and then instead of giving a judgement, this video puts views and facts... hope ppl really hear it with open mind and understand the importance of gender appreciation instead of reinforcing pre-existing ideas.

[@nitinanand3054]

Hii

[@SMALLYOUTUBER6822]

This is what every people's mindset should have ......

[@demonfighter4476]

'People's should more focus on inner beauty rather than physical attraction' that's message is wildly spreading world wide . But korea is doing opposite, it's their choice .

[@demonfighter4476]

@@sakshamtyagi9652 learn how to read , see their I mentioned, it's their choice . Didn't you read that ? I don't care whatever other do .

[@demonfighter4476]

@@sakshamtyagi9652 It's truth that people's are understanding inner beauty is more important than physical attraction. Go check out what flaws make up in peopls have created in South Korea. Then may you understand why it is bad and why people's are moving from it . It my opinion what should be done but also accepting that people's should do whatever they want not contradicting anything. I am trying to moving from old mindset of Physical beauty to inner one

[@demonfighter4476]

@@sakshamtyagi9652 that's was my point dude , inner beauty is more important than outer one . See my main comment stating the exact same . We should more focus on inner rather than outer .

[@srimanjha5112]

@@sakshamtyagi9652 beta sasta nasha mat kiya karo

[@nidhi0251]

I know people should focus on inner beauty rather than physical beauty and i hope someday this happens but at present time this is the harsh reality even when we choose what to wear we first see that if it looks good or not then see that if it is of good fabric or company or price it is basic human nature the first thing that comes to mind is looking good

[@Factism]

This Video Is Top Level! 🔥💕

[@GiselleOutsold]

*blackpink>>> bts*

[@whatifithappen1]

@@GiselleOutsold no one cares...both are trash

[@Yuvrxj29]

@Neptune bro I see u everywhere ★ elvish yadav video on Dhruv Rathee ★ Soch By Mohak Mangal ★ Deshbhakt ★Dhruv Rathee

[@Yuvrxj29]

@Neptune same 😁 If u are everywhere then I am also bcoz any channel I visit i see ur comment 😉

[@hey_you.]

​@@GiselleOutsold 😂 chal bhgg

[@aliturk6692]

Mohak you need to make a video on the increasing amount of gastric problems faced by Indians, the sheer amount who have them is mind boggling

[@samuraijosh1595]

🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮

[@محمّد.09]

هل حقا؟

[@Kangshou_Chang]

Gutka consumption and spices are the main reason.

[@gazzy01]

Drinking Tea even in exterme summer is also a reason

[@priyankagohel6454]

@Kaiji-Ken what's the joke?

[@ayeshaaeraysh]

Soft Masculinity ( not just in terms of makeup but emotional aspect) if adopted by Indian Men it will decrease crime rates n may uplift different sections of society n minor groups n will definitely empower women as well ❤ Your videos are amazing kudos to you 👏👏👏

[@Sathish11SK]

stupidest shit i read all day lmao women moment

[@marmithstark8232]

A real masculine men will see everybody as their equal and there is no relation of masculinity with crime plss don't fall for this modern thinking

[@marmithstark8232]

@@RJ-vk5kh do hardwork especially when u don't feel like it 👍

[@RJ-vk5kh]

@@marmithstark8232 Adonis spotted

[@RJ-vk5kh]

@productive vks 🫂🔥💪

[@aurob9680]

Yes i agree with this but wear makeup and adopting soft masculinity can create feeling of insecure of our face and appearance what now all women are facing.

[@kanishkkumar5431]

Yess exactly. ..when you give more priority to your upper beauty than your inner personality will destroy....this is what happening to south korea many people are mudering themselves .....

[@kashitakhalate9116]

You are forgetting one factor india doesn't have that make up thingyy too much....no girl wear makeup on daily basis in india...... occasionally things happens same can go for a boy to wear makeup occasionally....but in SK its id daily basis thing not occasion wise

[@braveguy7505]

@@kashitakhalate9116 yeah infact SK is the plastic surgery capital of world. The dark side of SK is young girls are forced to look beautiful by their parents in young age and tend to do facial surgery.

[@mayankshukla3912]

@@kashitakhalate9116 its still useless and stupid

[@MugenKami99]

@@braveguy7505 yeah their birthday presents or becoming a sophomore is to do a plastic surgery

[@winterpromise2523]

People have different cultures Indians doesn't use that much makeup (except celebrities) indians love to flaunt their natural skin tones that's why whenever we see someone wearing makeup since we are not habitual of seeing these type of makeup stuff and all we found it strange which is pretty common but hating someone for doing this is really bad Idea and i know it's difficult for us to accept this thing but it is slowly becoming popular all over world and we need to accept it 🙂

[@samuraijosh1595]

A load of bullshit. You don't have to don that 10000Rs make-up look every day. Just making sure you look sufficiently good within your budget should be become the bare minimum in our society for both men and women.

[@samuraijosh1595]

@@winterpromise2523 No, I'm just trying to say your "Indians don't use make-up cuz Indians love to flaunt their natural skin" is BS. Our is an extremely patriarchal, toxic-masculine and Homophobic culture, which is why make-up for men is a stigma, as discussed in this video. Also, Indian women do wear a fair amount of make-up: anything from a small 20rs Facial cream to a full 1000rs profesional one.

[@somschimmy966]

Just to break everyone's bubble. India's famous export - Bollywood, male actors do wear makeup and take care of their skin. It is just hush-hush, else how could their faces be so perfect in the polluted environment we all live in. Also Make-up is a personal choice. While it is toxic to enforce beauty standards on people, there is no harm in prioritising on looking good and using make-up to do so. There are nuances and greys everywhere!

[@winterpromise2523]

@@samuraijosh1595 oh yes it's definitely true but I think we don't use extreme makeup like Korean people and other East Asian people that's what I meant to say

[@akashbharadwaj02]

I bet people will not especially indians

[@visible6362]

Yes wearing makeup is someone's his/her own choice. I am a girl and I don't like wearing makeup at all .

[@happycatshappylife539]

Me too ...

[@asluggishday3242]

Same.... whenever I smell makeup the sensation of vomitting arises in me......I don't know why but I can't even smell it.

[@visible6362]

@@asluggishday3242 same here 😒

[@bonobonaya6452]

Everyone has right to represent themselves beautifully 💜💜💜

[@kunaladhikary2181]

Every country has their own rules but that doesn't mean any will hate korean men cuz most of the koreans respect Indians and we should respect them too

[@tripathiashutosh874]

Kitne Koreans se tum ne puchha ki wo India ki respect karte hai ya nahi 😑

[@kunaladhikary2181]

Agar puch sakti toh apne apko gyani mehesus karti

[@tripathiashutosh874]

@@kunaladhikary2181 toh fir kyu likha most of lorean lispect Indians 😙 every culture is different don't force us to became them Indian man celebrate there musculinity and Korean man celebrate there feminity 💋

[@Arshi_Berry]

@@tripathiashutosh874 who' s Forcing u? And puchkr to aap bhi nhi aaye they unse ki wo respect krte h ya nhi. Indians and koreans are two different countries. So why are you Comparing them. They are good at their own place. If u study their culture u will learn that Beard is not Preferable there! So please Stop comparing them! And listen no one is Saying to change yourself.. Don't blame Whole country for some toxic peoples and Fans. If you judge anyone by their looks, So it's Useless to argue with you.Thanks.

[@agustdlefttoe]

@@tripathiashutosh874 no bitches? 💀🖕

[@simonsiddique]

Mohak, I understand that you wanted to give the message in this video that soft masculinity is like freedom from toxic type we have in Indian subcontinent. And it is okay to do so. But, way you described about current South Korean culture I cannot help but wonder, isn't it now becoming a problem in their society? Like, if every man takes makeup in their society, job market accepts it as norm and majority of females prefer it; Isn't men who don't want to take makeups are in danger? Aren't they forced to go with the flow because society now demands them to look good at any means necessary to look "normal"?

[@kashitakhalate9116]

Your are right even here its same in our indian society here ....where man/boy who hasn't have enough beard growth is been made fun or rediculed by his fellow friends as chikna and all (mostly due to hereditary) they don't have

[@elgaatooo]

Exactly! These were my thoughts too.

[@aishwaryakhobragade2799]

He mustv used korean stars because of ongoing korean wave, people are literally insulting them. This is to inform the difference between the cultures or to make us understand the reason and to spread respect for it, also to share awareness that it's ok we can also accept it if we wish to do. He is not promoting anything. I think so

[@holytemplars3568]

@@kashitakhalate9116 get a life be a man , obey commandments of God and don't defend sinners .

[@beonmouth5821]

Yeah dude south korea is a dystopian society where you really don't want to born

[@MuskanKumari-st8up]

13:13... excuse me You are married😮😮 Kb??

[@arreyarrr]

Exactly..i was also shocked😂

[@Catttttt858]

Dukh hua 😂😂😂 ????

[@sanninlegends1843]

If your masculinity is so fragile that it would get crushed by wearing make-up, then what's the point of being a man? Dear men, please feel free to do what you like and express yourself openly (of course as long as it doesn't hurt others). People who tease you are the only ones who are narrow-minded and ignorant and can't understand the maturity of embracing oneself, so don't mind them. You do you.

[@shreeshiva9421]

If I'm applying makeup then I'm insecure about something and not confident about it. Now tell me the ones who wear makeup are having fragile masculinity or those who aren't having that??

[@sanninlegends1843]

@@shreeshiva9421 make up is not so much about cover up, than it is about enhancement. It's like a form of art, which requires skills, and it is more nuanced that just "covering up". It is, most times, a means of expression. Also, your point could be applied to women as well, not only men, which erases the dichotomy altogether. These are two different debates. The subject at hand in this video is, will a little bit of make up change your whole gender? You tell me. Will it? It's just a superficial form of enhancement that anyone is free to use, regardless of gender, and that's what I am trying to point out. Lots of men who want to wear make up are being discriminated against, especially in our country. I simply stand for them, because they have the right to do whatever they want, without having to worry about narrow-minded people who fail to understand the bigger picture.

[@shreeshiva9421]

@@sanninlegends1843 : And u need to coverup or enhance something only if u don't want others to look u that way right?? Look if makeup is being applied just for little enhancement np, but there are people (mostly women) who just look altogether different person when makeup is removed. I don't think wearing makeup denies masculinity of man, but just because someone criticises it how can u guys be so quick to judge them and call "masculinity fragile??". Isnt that wrong as well?? Actually I saw too many similar comments in the section saying FRAGILE MASCULINITY, just replied to urs nothing personal And yes, I think no one should wear makeup whether they are man or woman

[@sanninlegends1843]

@@shreeshiva9421 I understand what you're saying, but let's take this analogy: Make up is like wearing clothes. Some people like wearing nice shirts etc, so we should let them have fun. Some people like being shirtless, we should let them have fun too. Surely, I'm not saying "All the people in the world *should* wear make-up!" I'm just saying, let's not give shade to those who want to wear it and like to wear it. 'Cos ultimately it's their life and their choice. I'll reiterate the important point again: Wearing make up is like wearing clothes. If you like it, do it. If you don't like it, then don't do it. Presence or absence of make up, doesn't decide one's gender (just like clothes) Let's all be nice to each other and not give any shame to people who like using make up.

[@aswing2706]

Haha spoken like a true simp😀. 5000 browny points bro.

[@Atharva5650]

0:05 Magic of Mangals beauty. 🤣🤣🤣

[@vijetakumarisharma3643]

Everyone should express his/her feeling without hesitation, it not make them look weak but it makes people mentally strong. Thank you for talking about it and represent it between us so nicely

[@vijetakumarisharma3643]

@BRUTL ZUES makeup is something which personal preference. And if you're talking about it, then I think hiding your insecurities behind is your makeup or anger (like typical tough men) both are bad equally not for others but mostly for yourself. This is what called toxic. It hurts other later but hurt first mostly you

[@aakashkashyap4103]

@@vijetakumarisharma3643 makeup already made women insecures and thats why billion dollar of cosmetic surgeries happening all over the world specially in souh korea. atleast men should stay away from that shit .he means that.saying anything personal preference is not always correct girl.i know your favourite band put makeups.. try to cover all asspects of makeup not only personal prefernce.the reason why korea got most toxic enviroments about beauty.

[@XDXD-rj4si]

@BRUTL ZUES How is looking different not tough? It's you who is confirming to society's norms instead of being yourself

[@vijetakumarisharma3643]

@@aakashkashyap4103 if you're talking about insecurities, then let me ask you one thing, only an outer object (makeup) makes you to question your identity who is more insecure here???? And yes you're right korean beauty standard is very high which is not good but it not makes makeup bad. And let me clear one more thing, not only my favourite kpop artists but also your favourite Hollywood/Bollywood stars put makeup and there is nothing wrong with it..

[@vijetakumarisharma3643]

Arguing here worth nothing it's not like that my few words can change your minds. You're the one who know better than anyone else that what is good/bad for you. So make your decision wisely. Best of luck for your decisions and best wishes for your present and future 🙂🙂

[@Adityatalks..W]

I feel very disgusted at the way the men in our society Hate korean men just because they put make up... Not a big fan of Koreans but still looking at the regressiveness of our society despite various TransGender characters in our epics and history is very saddening

[@anubhutipanigrahi1861]

mallu detected opinion rejected

[@Adityatalks..W]

@@anubhutipanigrahi1861looks like someone got slammed real hard by a Mallu 😂

[@badlad2001]

@@anubhutipanigrahi1861 😂

[@bro-nu1bd]

@mee 😁 vallu mallu tallu sullu

[@mayankshukla3912]

Make up is not progressive 😂😂😂

[@lipixkpop]

If only 50% of men in India understood it then India will develop so rapidly. I hate toxic masculinity like men are also human and humans have feelings. They are not tree or stone that they will not have feeling. People need to understand that crying is ok ,showing your emotions is ok being a human is ok. Feelings are an important trait of humans so men should be equally treated even after showing their emotions and feeling. Otherwise their isn't much difference between men and tree. Trees breath, live and doesn't show their emotions men will also become like that.

[@buzztube1738]

Chal kuch bhi india kabhi develop nahi hoga aur aisi chijo ke baad to bilkul nhi nibbi

[@tusharsaxena3981]

Personally As long as I am alive I will never put any make up.

[@unsaturatedfat2888]

Same

[@AIRek7]

nobody is asking u to? or are they?

[@RajaRam-xx1kp]

Yeah...sigma male.....

[@FirstnameLastname-cl4op]

@@AIRek7 anyone asked you to reply this comment ?

[@AIRek7]

@Neptune why are YOU getting triggered by makeup lmao 😂

[@girlypop-563]

Its always surprises me, each and everytime, when I hear from men that they don't talk about their emotions to each other in a serious way because I've always had friends of various genders come and talk about their experiences and emotions naturally. It never occurred to me until recently that I've never thought very much about relationships amongst men and maybe that's why this comes as such a shock to me. Edit: After reading various comments, it is surprising to see the negative connotations associated with makeup. Makeup, yes can be used to hide your insecurities but it can also be used as fun or as an expression of self. You can either write with a pen or use it to stab each other. Makeup or a pen by itself isn't evil!

[@hareshgupta6321]

A true valid point. And it's true that the choice of one is of his own.👍

[@nitinanand3054]

Hii

[@nitinanand3054]

Hi

[@nitinanand3054]

@@utkarsh4424 soory bro

[@18maxx87]

@@nitinanand3054 this what we need to change despreation !

[@bhavyabhargava4394]

Dear Mohak, I totally agree with your point that wearing makeup should not be the basis to define a person's gender and I am really glad you talked about it. Sorry to write a long comment but could not explain it in fewer words. Let me throw some light on Hinduism and ancient cultures on the beauty of men. Sanatan Dharma and our Vedic culture promoted Shree which not only means wealth but also opulence of beauty which should be a part of everyone's life. Shree Krishna is an example without explanation. so does this affect his masculinity, Mahadev, really strong and a vairagi still ornamented himself and his beauty is incomparable and he depicts a mixture of soft and hard beauty (masculinity). Now come to kings to local villagers, all with respect to their will/ need/ wish beautified themselves. Some of the beautifications like mehndi also have health benefit aspects related to them and that is not all. So, the conclusion of all lines above is that no one questioned a person's masculinity based on their appearance (attractiveness is another thing). Masculinity should be based on whether he is able to protect his family, is he able to nurture and feed his family, and whether he is able to guide his family to righteousness. Just see what are the 7 oaths taken by men during the wedding you will realize what is the position of men and women (both are equal). Since I have talked a lot, just want to say this is inconsistent with all religions and ancient cultures if suspected closely like Egypt for example. But few cultures, as time progressed, who were not into intellectual progression and peace instead wanted to satisfy their greed, lust and ego they just made definitions so hard and clear that suppressed free-thinking which soon became the norm. Last one thing: - see each society before colonizations and invasions.

[@Vbangtanhyungs]

Putting looks aside ; they are very respectful and humble people! Their messages inspires me a lot ! Pls guys change your mentality that they have fangirls only cuz in ARMY fandom ; Adults , fanboys , old peoples and celebrities also expressed their love for BTS ! U can see how many songs are consist of love life and stupid lyrics but BTS has meaningful songs which helped many people to overcome from depression! *Even Joe Biden and John Cena praised BTS for spreading beautiful messages all over the world*!

[@AryanKumar-jo1pz]

Not that I'm against this "make-up for men" thing, but do keep in mind that *we are talking about a country which has highest rate of cosmetic surgery in the world*

[@shreeloves]

what even is your point?

[@raizel1155]

also i should add why plastic surgeries are so famous over there and normalised. in the past century koreans were ridiculed for their natural looks, especially by the American military which was stationed there. those doctors performed surgeries on women to make their eyes bigger etc using unsafe practices.this is believed to have distorted their standards of beauty

[@tanujashree]

@@shreeloves beauty standards are very toxic and rigid in south korea. Makeup is more of a sign of insecurity than being an art in reality.

[@AryanKumar-jo1pz]

@@raizel1155 damn, American was totally a bully in past though. There's no doubt to it

[@FirstnameLastname-cl4op]

@@AryanKumar-jo1pz it's still a shit

[@prajyotnaik7234]

I Would say that soft masculinity is the a very good message that we've got here but the makeup part is where the makeup industry takes advantage and manipulates us. Now it's your choice to wear makeup or not but embracing who you are and how you look without any synthetic skin covering your scars is the message to look forward to.

[@snaik9141]

Yup

[@sharvimorajkar3254]

Isn't that what it's doing right now tho? It's actually worse now that women are forced to look good ans people thinking that looking good is natural to them and is their duty.

[@darthkothicame7822]

@@sharvimorajkar3254 Yes for ex corporate consumerism drives these things & South Korean society is actually way too materialistic & consumer driven.

[@snaik9141]

@@darthkothicame7822 and it helped lift them out of poverty

[@saikatbanik9359]

@@snaik9141 how?

[@LLL_14_85]

I really appreciate your approach towards this topic, I'm an EXO-L myself, and I hear hate comments, typically on their looks, which I kind of don't agree with. Pop culture was made to spread music without barriers of language, but instead people picking on individual artist is just not fair.

[@Sam47763]

I totally disagree with it.. If they are spreading music then they should more concerned about their music not looks.. Even we have musicians.. But they choose to sell their looks rather than music.. Now every side have it's own pros and cons.. They are liked by millions for working on their feminine looks and so as well hated for it by millions.. I don't see anything wrong in it

[@Isha.kh_]

@@Sam47763 what tf you mean they selling looks bruh?? Have you even listen to their(bts) discography ,the ranges?? They sell music and the looks are cherry on top, and as far as make up is concerning u why yall get so pressed lmao its fcking there right to put it up or not. And also what is actually "femine looks"????!#$% you sound so xenophobic

[@Sam47763]

@@Isha.kh_ I don't want to argue with a fanboy.. Cause logic always loose in that case!! I mean seriously are they singers or doctors!! Saving lives lol

[@devraajmoran5969]

@@Sam47763 my dear k pop stars definitely focus on music too and when it's comes to looks ,it's korean culture and korean beauty standards that they have to take care of the looks ,Do you know how many songs each k pop groups release in a year ? do you what message they give to this world ? Do you how many hours they spent on music and dance ? Girl their albums doesn't get sell like that only Or even liked by other celebraties because of their looks And when it's comes to hate Ok I then I will also hate other artists Now is it ok ? You can't comment what their fans like without knowing anything It's true k pop give huge attention to looks but that doesn't mean looks means everything And hating any artists for his looks and for wearing make up It's call homophobic , that's wrong , that's it

[@Isha.kh_]

@@Sam47763 you talking about logic doesn't sit right with me lol, cuz ain't know way you thinking only doctor can save life, their(bts) impact is so goddamn huge you can't even imagine like people being in depression it's them who helped us all out when no one in this fcking society was there . And also you ur narrow-minded thinking is all fcking root problem to this society....bruh... if u don't like then move on, no one asking u for your opinion... stop sh!tting here.

[@Mimin_Haokip]

I love this guy. All the topics he covered are just so good and informative.

[@mdmumtazalam5812]

what a brilliant topic you selected. 👍 This video pushed me to think beyond current status quo in our society🙏

[@ishaan_malik2994]

I often apply balck nailpolish on my left hand, it looks extremely aesthetic over loose oversized clothes, if you know what I'm saying. But whenever i dress like that i keep on being judged by people around me, like you are judging me right now :D even my parents but now they are okay with that, people say that that's something girls do, and people say it looks gayish, dude I am more straight than most of the people watching this video. "Your OUTFIT doesn't define your sexuality" That's something we have made watching people around us since back then. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@Qwerty-jc3so]

Black nailpolish + oversized clothes! I love that look. Don't listen to others, you're amazing. Its so rare for an indian man to have that sort of fashion sense

[@ishaan_malik2994]

@@Qwerty-jc3so that's so sweet of you, thank you :))

[@hunter-um9tv]

Enjoy your life buddy don't think about what people will talk about you peace✌️

[@ishaan_malik2994]

@@hunter-um9tv yup, thank you so much :))

[@luffyy8194]

Yeah bro just ignore people who judge you👍🙌

[@sanchitaambasht1161]

Thank you Mohak for bringing this topic! This was much needed 🙌

[@delusionalsoul4165]

Lol after ages i found my name on cmnts 😂 btw mine name is Sanchita too nd it's too rare so i got amazed..

[@sanchitaambasht1161]

@@delusionalsoul4165 OMG SAME 😭😭😭😭 , lmao finally met someone with same name

[@FirstnameLastname-cl4op]

Nah not at all needed

[@binitakhatowal8140]

@@FirstnameLastname-cl4op then don't watch it babe .

[@sanchitaambasht1161]

@@FirstnameLastname-cl4op And why it's not?

[@mikaannie]

My all bts members is cute and wwh 😍❤💜Love you so much ᗷTS⟭⟬

[@ryunsho3603]

that's just their culture, people should be allowed to wear makeup or skin care if they want, south korea as a nation puts overwhelming emplasis on looks of a person thats why plastic surgery is so popular there, india is different not a lot of people care about looks but it''s ignorance to think that men dont wear makeup here cuz there is a high chance that whoever is your fav movie star/model/actor has worn makeup before cuz it's part of their job. its really a matter of personal preference idk why this has to be such big deal.

[@lalitthapa101]

Its Also affordability. India is still a very poor country and many don't even have enough food to eat let alone spend money on skin scare and beauty etc. South Korea on the other hand is one of the most developed and rich countries in the world. I see this as more economic

[@lysia7743]

not a lot of people care about looks? Kabhi arranged marriage dekhi h? jb log rishta dkhne jate h😂😂😂😂

[@Anurag_Dubey]

Kitna kamata hai suna hi hoga? Fir looks matter nhi karta😂

[@aparnasingh9358]

agreed

[@sibasishdutta9009]

Freak make up to a level is ok .But over exposure and plastic surgery without need is a disgrace to God's gift of human body.Well what can you expect from an atheist nation 👍🏼

[@akshajain3860]

Make ups can never bring tenderness or emotions in a person, it needs something more impactful than these sources of outer beauty. When we talk about soft masculinity, it is something innate and make ups can never help bringing that.

[@achiever9560]

That's the exact thing i was thinking for inner changes we need to work on inside not outside like makeup.

[@Gladiator007]

Finally, this comment I was looking for....hope people should realise this 🙏🏻

[@darthkothicame7822]

Yes it's true & infact Korea sees lot of outer beauty standards as indication of wealth,status & hygiene. Infact they despise people with hair. In South Korea the beauty standards have been set impulsive practices that men need to adopt too like how women need to be attractive in corporate jobs & have a trimmed look. I understand soft masculinity but Korean society is actually more racial & un(up) rooted society who themselves look down on their own traditional values. Currently consumerism dominates them,even US doesn't have this type standards

[@mayankshukla3912]

Yes his video was useless on this topic

[@PrantikaJagannath]

I agree with whatever you have said about the masculinity in India. I have a lot of male friends and honestly, most of them discusses with me about thier break ups, heartbreaks, self doubt, even my little brother also, who finds it difficult to express himself before his friends. Like in girls night stay, we girls discuss about life, bfs, relationships, career etc but in guy's groups, all they do is 'guy talk' about girls and stuff. The guys generally do not talk about feelings or emotions, mostly when the guys hang out, they either make fun of each others, or discuss about politics, cricket, soccer etc but not about feelings and stuff. But the same guys, when they hangout with their gfs or female friends, they talk about their insecurities and raw emotions. One of my childhood gali ka friend told me one that its easier for him to talk about his emotions to me or his gf. Also, I stay with my bf, and he loves to do skincare routine, massages or make ups. Whenever, I do my night routine, or skincare routine on my week offs he immediately comes up to me saying he too wants it and if I don't do it, he will fight with me. He is fond of massages too, which is why, one day he called a muscular man who literally crushed his bones which he enjoyed a lot. My bf is okay with doing make up not much fond of it, even when I do it. One day I did his make up because we were going to attend a marriage ceremony of our friend, of course, I was all decked up, he felt as if he was falling flat before my dress up so he got a little upset saying, "I looking like an ugly idiot before you who do not deserve you." I felt bad, I didn't want to compromise either, so I did his make up very subtly, it didn't change his appearance completely, but ut sure did enhance his features a little bit. He felt so confident that it lifted his hopes and spirits high. People did compliment him on that wedding and he felt amazing that night that he wasn't moving away from the mirror that night. I was very happy for him. From then onwards, he started liking make ups but he asl me to do it on him on very special occasions not like me who does make up almost everyday. Hence, make up is someone's personal choice, people shouldn't be making fun of someone doing or not doing make up.

[@PrantikaJagannath]

In India, it is a very hush hush thing. I know some guys who does make ups and skincare routine like my bf but they do not accept it or shy away or asks their gfs, female friends, sisters to not to disclose about it before anyone. I do not understand that why guys do not talk about real things.

[@Aryan-Swab]

And then there are men of 'Reject modernity embrace masculinity ' wale Jo kehte Hai ki makeup pehene wale mard aur emotional weak hote Hai or daadhi wale mard or emotionless strong hote Hai. Come on yaar, we boys and men are humans and humans have emotions and let us express them or else it can be a lot worse for us. A scientific study once shown that the men that showed no emotions are more likely to suffer from depression and anxiety, so if you see a boy or a man crying, don't make fun of him, comfort him.

[@sdorapatra6964]

I also suffered in my childhood for these type of people. I am from a small town. Here many of my friends and relatives made fun of me coz I openly showed my emotions... but I am glad that I met some freinds and have some relatives who admired me coz not only I show my emotions but they have told me that I am well aware of other's feelings, emotions at a young age and it is great.

[@Aryan-Swab]

@@sdorapatra6964 The idea of men holding their emotions is actually toxic, if u express ur emotions dose'nt make u less masculine, it makes you more human

[@sdorapatra6964]

@@Aryan-Swab I don't know I am right or not but nowadays people are losing their humanity, and more focusing on musculanity.

[@Aryan-Swab]

@@sdorapatra6964 You are right

[@alvinekka7975]

Yes my husband is victim of this masculinity fever . He also thinks that men don't cry ,that why he doesn't share anything serious Matter with me , doesn't even listen my problems ,he doesn't act loving ,caring , sad, happy , like robot . Men also have the right to cry ,sad ,share their feelings so we can comfort them . Soft men bano, egoistic men nahi . Kismat hi kharab he Mera .

[@divya_sancheti04]

Unless u don't harm anyone, there is nothing wrong in doing what u love♡

[@mithunnair8587]

There are pros and cons in wearing makeup, pros were discussed in these video, the cons are if guys start wear makeup there there would be a certain standards to keep for the men in the society too and the men who wouldn't want to wear makeup would be forced to wear makeup to look a certain way and beauty brands will take advantage of it, so it's a double edged sword

[@raizel1155]

hey, that is what has been happening to women for centuries !! can you even imagine how many billions were made by capitalizing women's insecurities that aside, I think makeup should be seen as an allegory for, men should not be ridiculed for wanting to look good. men should not be called names or insulted if they have any traditionally feminine interests.

[@kenich2611]

@@raizel1155 I agree but make-up was not traditionally feminine, arguably, many men's in past used some form of make-up.

[@moneymoney5423]

True as it happens to women but if we start to change how we see things and how we accept those flaws it'll be much easier to Express ourselves.just by being open minded we can break that sword 😁

[@deepakpune1]

wtf u rambling dude

[@aakashkashyap4103]

@@kenich2611 past doesnt mean good girl .little makeup is okay but dont hate your self and put too much makeup

[@lalitthapa101]

Korean notions of masculinity and feminity is really flexible which is a good thing.

[@sabarihariharan2005]

Ikrrrr it's a bummer that this exists only in their pop culture and not that prominent in their society.

[@gazzy01]

but LGBTQ+ treatment is worst than India.

[@table1717]

@@gazzy01Respectfully, how did you come to that conclusion..., Like are there any articles supporting your statement?

[@gazzy01]

@@table1717 because I've been following korean culture from 2017. Also in Kpop you don't see LFBTQ+ members

[@atulnarkhede2666]

6:12 bro personally i like TXT songs

[@aakk9796]

A veryyy veryy needed content. Even many Indians regardless of their age who aren't into kpop culture condemn it just because the male idols wear makeup and look girly. We as a society really need to understand this concept of "Toxic Masculinity". Thankfully we have you n your team who picks such topics which are supposed to be talked about.👍

[@nishank6969]

ok so? You think all mens should quit masculinity and just focus on looks??? That is not how god made us

[@nishank6969]

@JOSHUA THOMAS yes bro just stay fit that will make you attractive enough those chemicals destroy your face anyways

[@BaBa_YaG4]

Have you ever came across toxic fans? People may like or dislike Kpop it's up to them to deicide but hate is not justified. I like hip-hop and rock but I'm not obsessed with it neither do I go around and hate people who don't like hip-hop & rock. It's a fact that KPOP has the most toxic fan base.

[@aakk9796]

@@nishank6969 Mr.I never said that ....I just praised the channel that this concept was needed to be mentioned and they did. I'm not saying that good looks and being soft is what men should be like. "Toxic masculinity " includes aspects where men are just supposed to be strong,aggressive and ppl who can't show their emotions or how they feel. This is where concept of masculinity becomes toxic not only for the society but for men as well.....I hope now it's clear to you

[@aakk9796]

@@kim_bhai_jong you genuinely need to understand the concept of TOXIC MASCULINITY sir .....not putting anything on your face or putting anything your face DOES NOT define your masculinity

[@sonanvatsal900]

I like the message you conveyed in the end "to put an end to toxic masculinity". Honestly, it's so important because young boys are taught from an early age to show no emotions or to not cry which is so wrong as men have emotions too and they are human beings just like other genders. It's feels like 'anger' is the only emotion a guy should have which is really toxic for him and his family. Also, I personally like guys who wear guy liners, kohl and nail paint if it suits them.But I won't go for dudes who put on lipstick and other stuff. But that doesn't mean we shame those men who like wearing makeup and also no need to shame men who don't like wearing makeup. I've also seen men who also shame women for wearing makeup calling her 'insecured' and 'fake'. Masculinity and femininity shouldn't really have a definition. Every boy and girl is very different. It's important to respect everyone's choices without being toxic.

[@hunting304s]

Is it rule written anywhere?

[@riworld6443]

In short makeup is not specifically made for women ,men can use it too...make up is made to specify facial features more beautifully so any one can use it ✨✨

[@curiouscadet2140]

I don't know why masculinity is seen as negetive thing in today's society but the fact is that men are meant to be strong and masculine and it's not my thought but what nature has decided..see our ancestors who were wining kingdom and fighting wars at age of 19 and 20s Today everyone talks about feminism , you should also know without masculinity and strength everything in world become tougher.

[@vijetakumarisharma3643]

A true logical facts that you represent, I hope everyone learn something from this. I like kpop and because of this my so many friends makes fun of me and sometimes they hate k-pop and talk aggressively (hate speech) about kpop without any reason. They think that it make them look cool. I'm not saying everyone should like kpop but no one should hate somebody without any reason.

[@PRAVIG1]

They not hate k pop they hate toxic fan and there dream Which is very unrealistic and your are k pop fan that's why they Target you may be your not toxic fan listen dont tell them i ill korean and in future go to Korea and meet BTS is like a keya hi boli samjh gaye

[@saikatbanik9359]

@@PRAVIG1 absolutely true. There fanbase is very toxic

[@JagdeepSingh-rh5nh]

@@PRAVIG1 par bhai ismein toxic hi kya hai har ikk fan apne idol se milne ki chahat rakhta hai . Crazy obsession is a different thing but dreaming of meeting someone is just normal i guess 😗

[@tetesperm]

@@PRAVIG1 nope. take a look at the replies in these comment section, which is filled with bigots, homophobes, racists and desi supremist. Talking about how "toxic" the fanbase is while ignoring these motherless man-childs is pathetic

[@NarutoUzumaki-xd4db]

@@JagdeepSingh-rh5nh well problem is that they scream BTS is best, judging by views while they are literally very descent singer. And they talk about live performance in which they use a lot filters and backtrack to sound good

[@abhaybhagat2518]

Why anyone wears makeup, learn to be confident in your own skin. Skincare is acceptable but catfishing isn't Edit - Those who are trying to defend wearing makeup and using clothing as an analogy for it. Please stop embarrassing yourself and educate yourself from a socio-economic and historically manipulated business strategies standpoint. Learn not to be offended unnecessarily and don't give your pointless opinion about judging someone. No one wants an opinion that lacks complete perspective.

[@AIRek7]

then why wear clothes, aren't you confident enough in your own "skin"? Also you can't ask someone to feel confident when you don't know what they're facing everyday! Address the society to not judge people, make them comfortable.

[@namitarastogi244]

Wearing makeup doesn't mean feeling inferior about their own skin... Like we wear fashionable clothes, different hairstyles and different accessories... Similarly we wear makeup to look good for ourselves...

[@saikatbag3961]

It's about choice.

[@ubaidinamdar9535]

tell this to your mother or sister

[@sabarihariharan2005]

Wearing make up is to accentuate our natural beauty not to give us a whole new look. It is supposed to highlight our already present looks in a more well moulded way. Just because someone wears makeup doesn't mean they are uncomfortable with the way they look or feel inferior or less confident.

[@sw33tsat4n2]

I've a soft masculinity and I never wanted to be "the man" or something. I hope this video can move people who watch it. Thanks.

[@VenomMolotov]

This is not even a thing be whatever you want you guys are portraying manliness is bad and flowerboy is a great thing

[@mesmericmurmurs]

my skin today has next level glow because i started following a routine followed by many korean females and even males (im a TXT stan and i loved how yeonjun's skin glowed in most of their MVs so it was also an inspo). i even started enjoying skincare since they have this term "skin entertainment" where you take care of your skin and enjoy this process. so it is like a me-time. this has been taught to them since generations. today almost everyone around me asks what i did to my skin, and im proud of taking out the time for myself:)

[@abhi-wi2mj]

True , there should be platforms for boys and men to express fears and all

[@asthagoswami4713]

Dude I belive that India and Korea both needed to be better because If having mindset that tough masculinity is good then having mindset that having soft musculinity is good is bad too We should accept every men is real men.. No matter how he looks.. he has soft or hard masculinity, no matter.. He is a man. We should know that

[@vikrantdhanavade8005]

I think this idea of 'make up beauty' is problematic too. Girls or boys, No one need to wear make up on the face to look beautiful. Your health , empathy and self confidence makes you beautiful in real aspect. We should change the defination of beauty .

[@Gladiator007]

Finally some sensible comment.... 👍

[@vaishnavisharma1503]

correct but isn't it a depends on person's choice

[@vikrantdhanavade8005]

@@vaishnavisharma1503 person's choices could be influenced by the definition of beauty established in society. I came from small village of sahyadri mountain range. My grandpa belives that tan skin is more beautiful than fairness. Because tan skin will survives in any kinda climates compares to white one. Thats what my grandpa's definition of beauty. May be that one is also debatable . But his definition of beauty is totally different .Because he belongs to that era where cosmetic companies were less important and no obsession of people for outer beauty. We should follow our natural instinct . If you observe the behavior of your natural instinct, you will understand that our subconscious mind is always attracted towards healthy and happy people , instead of makeup beauty.

[@vaishnavisharma1503]

@@vikrantdhanavade8005 It's really beautiful line What I understand by your statement is Everyone have different definition of beauty💜

[@vikrantdhanavade8005]

@@vaishnavisharma1503 yes.. some definitions are ethnically correct. While others are just under influence of marketing of cosmetics with virtual beliefs.

[@aditisharma1773]

such a mature person

[@Chhexxy]

I also like wearing soft makeup it makes me look good and more confident 😉👀

[@harsh.rana846]

@v taehyung sorry we aren't considering gays

[@gaurav22roy]

A society obsessed with good looks but in their songs preaches about natural beauty.. lol

[@kid3966]

Hey how can you say the truth delete this comment!!!!

[@beonmouth5821]

विडंबना हो रहे जी बहुत बहुत - Lakshya bhaiya

[@Ray-xm3pd]

Well you will see many kpop idols on camera with their bare face soo...

[@Ray-xm3pd]

@Sagittarius A* ????? Fyi, in the kpop industry, idols are praised more if they naturally fit in kbs. The most popular visuals are all natural~ Even companies prefer natural idols. Sure some idols have a lot of plastic surgery but that ain't our business anyways

[@NarutoUzumaki-xd4db]

@@Ray-xm3pd nobody knows there medical history like who did skin whitening and who did plastic surgery.

[@acdf2002]

Korean men are really handsome! I really like the way they try to take good care of their body and skin.

[@akashchowdhury8922]

Not at all 😂

[@the_ab101]

plastic surgery left chat

[@arm3199]

7:07 Masculinity in its own isnt toxic at all! Being hard and strong is perfectly i repeat Perfectly fine, and great..and it goes equally to the soft masculine side..i think now the world is thoroughly confusing masculinity as being toxic rather than understand what real toxicity is..and isnt able to differentiate..being who you choose to be yourself is upto you!

[@nikhithabk613]

People often forget that makeup is used to enhance your features which are already there or create. It's an art. IT'S UNISEX

[@maruthimaruthi3720]

I think American way is good. Korea making flower boy's to decrease gender differences, in Europe USA Africa they making girls though to decrease gender differences. In a harsh apocalyptic conditions flower boy's won't survive but tiger girls will survive. Gender should be irrelevant in modern world respect human as a human. In middle East and india things are very different and gender inequality is very high in our society female is considered week and people always judge female. Men can wear makeup can do anything they like public should not judge his decision hard masculine is also bad men should be softened and women should get tougher in our society.

[@saltyuser_]

Wearing makeup doesn't make you a less man, and also one of my favourite youtuber has said that "असली मर्द वो होता है जो औरतों की इज्जत करना जानता है (real man is he, who knows how to respect woman)" there's nothing wrong to wear makeup, just the stereotyped society.. that keeps judging them, keep calling them feminine for wearing makeup. And like what's wrong if they love girly aesthetics? They're also human. And by calling them gays bis trans won't make u look cool, it just shows that how down your mentality is. And kudos to you mohak 👏 for bringing up this topic!

[@hydramortal4212]

🙌🙌

[@saltyuser_]

@@hydramortal4212 🙌

[@discordperson8677]

Just a piece of info, a real man should respect everyone, not only women. And a real women should also respect everyone. If we only promote that men should respect women , then won't that again lead to gender inequality?

[@saltyuser_]

@@discordperson8677 agree!

[@adityasubhedar9556]

looking tough , building muscles and hiding emotions is not toxic masculinity . men naturally need to be tough mentally and physically to protect their family , guys dont show emotions because in hard times their partner or children need the assurance that he will provide them . imagine if your family is poor and someone in family is ill , if the father starts crying everyone will immediatly loose hope .

[@doraemon_zone]

Right👏

[@anjali_kx]

But most boys are forced to do that.. Which affects their mental health.. This thing should not be normalised!!

[@Rolexsir10]

Ur right but there are many families and u may have seen in movies also where children really scared of their father and hesitate to share their feelings. Being tough in some situations gives hope and in other situations it portray toughness as insensitive person. We should behave according to situations and stop carrying same emotion in every situation. When a family member dies everyone cry including men that won't create hopeless environment. It's okay to cry when u really feel crying.