Can Japanese Girls Chat Up Men in Japan?

[@TheRealGuywithoutaMustache]

This is a pretty interesting topic, nice to see it from their perspective

[@ルリ-ruri]

2:50 imagine trying to take a hint given by japanese woman that taking beating around the bush to a whole new level. as if taking a hint from regular woman isnt hard enough already. ladies, not every men is a telepath like professor x.

[@MiguelDLewis]

Japanese women are regular women.

[@20世紀青年-t3x]

It seems these videos were taken in January or before that. As a Japanese, I sympathize with most of the girls, but at the same time, I would like the girls to know Japanese boys also think and hesitate in the same way.

[@Henchman_Holding_Wrench]

Well, I'd be in trouble in Japan then. I'm totally oblivious to signs. I really appreciate when a girl makes a move. Very bold. Very cool.

[@rigatoni_pasta]

It doesn't matter who we are, what matters is our plan. Very cool indeed.

[@Hedgehog1039]

@TreeFiddy So... like 50 girls lik eme then? :O I never knew! xD lol

[@k0248]

@TreeFiddy that'd be the easiest sign

[@k0248]

Yo people literally got anime protagonist level blindness

[@TheSonic1685]

Girls do make a move in Japan sometimes the question cathy is asking here was phrased incorrectly. Girls won't chat a guy up by they may confess their feelings to him.

[@quintrankid8045]

I wonder what the answers would be if you changed the question just a little bit to: how do you give a hint to a guy you like?

[@45641560456405640563]

Yeah, I was waiting for a question like that. So OK, you can't openly just approach him so how do you get his attention?

[@goldentrout4811]

Can't expect the men to do all the work, we've been rejected so many times we're dying inside. Help a brother out a bit at least.

[@enigma1329]

First of all, don't be drunk!😉🤤 Try to get a small talk indirectly. Don't be to direct in her appearence🤐. Make some indirect "compliments" like: "I thought, I've seen you somewhere before!"🤩. Think of yourself as yourself, when you talk to her. Just be natural!🤠 If you or she have a pet it will be easier! (... much easier!!!🐕🐈🥰) Just do it!👌🤪

[@Shino88]

@@enigma1329 only a Japanese person would use this level of emoji to explain their idea lol

[@enigma1329]

@@Shino88 In my heart i am a japanese person 😁

[@angon4xd824]

I think it's a universal rule that men like when women approach them, like for once they are not doing all the shitty work

[@xjamirakrystalx4764]

except women only approach men 0.0google000001% of the time . no rule exists

[@Truepk]

Ha rejection, onto the next fish But yea, I honestly agree that women would get less rejection Percentages compared to men when trying to hook up.

[@kingdomheartsispeak4724]

6:49 girl in blue jacket is kinda cute

[@Truepk]

Just followed Cathy Cat on Instagram, I hope she knows what's up.

[@vitorh3568]

0:10 KuroCathy yes!!!

[@jaytate491]

How do you get to make new friends if you will only talk to existing ones ?

[@CorbenDallas007]

I like the Gothic Lolita look you are wearing. 🙂 And the dark hair looks great on you Cathy. By the way, do you know of the Japanese kawaii metal group Babymetal? They also rock the Gothic Lolita look! 😊

[@commanderstraker6732]

PA PA YA!!

[@justme4037]

GIMME CHOCOLATE

[@k0248]

6:40 the woman on the right has a very cool fashionable adult style

[@coralblake9868]

Sounds like returning to match makers, like in the story of Mulan. Loving the gothic look.

[@josakura]

This whole herbivore men situation in Japan is tragic! 😭

[@monmalin]

There are Western men that are half way herbivore, they are called MGTOW monk

[@tareyus2977]

Lol a Japanese female literally said she loved my roommate after he asked her on Google translate what the best candy was.

[@NEINFUTURER]

3:45 「やまとなでしく」って流行ると思うｗ

[@rigatoni_pasta]

Bro. It’d be rad if a girl approached me. That’d probably make my day tbh.

[@dream_dealer]

Nice profile pic!

[@MrRourk]

Will watch for more Cathy in Black Dress :)

[@_________3897]

No offense but if those girls only stalk people and say nothing... why would you expect others to come and chat you up? If you do those things and are kinda distant... no one is going to walk up to you and ask you out.

[@Moonby__22]

Despite of this interesting topic and their cool way of explaining their feeling Am I the only one who thinks they dress really well? Idk but I like how they dress ^^

[@bloodyangel1]

I don't really like short hair, but that girl on the right at 6:24 is very attractive. They were all pretty cute though.

[@baussocks]

i would'nt push my feelings on him, i would just feel sorry if i did....''

[@SpeKterDesigns]

These people desperately need to get back to matchmaking. How is it that they managed to have parents in the first place? Something must have been different for their grandparents and parents to be able to chat to each other and form a relationship. Maybe you needed to chat to some couples and see if the couples who got together did the girl give more signs or even ask the guy out or were the guys more confidant and actually had several dates or asked several girls out over time and got rejections but was still willing to ask girls out?

[@michael3088]

Well I guess we are already seeing the consequences. Less people are getting married and settling down and the birth rate of children is dropping rapidly.

[@justme4037]

That's because japanese have to work to hard but earn to less for children and a lot of other reasons. But girls not chatting up boys is pretty sure not a big deal...

[@syifano3135]

3:15 I guess its our first blur. I appreciate

[@Truepk]

I think 9 million people live in Tokyo and way more than that pass through Tokyo on a Daily basis. The chance of meeting the same people is not very high for that social awkwardness of getting rejected and them seeing you trying to chat up with others.

[@bostontracy5151]

I can kind of understand why girls are terrified of- and won’t go up to guys themselves, because it’s always been a make dominant world where guys had to go up to cute girls to talk to them; and Japan is still socially stuck in the past like that. The problem is, like you said, Japanese boys are too timid to actually TRY to talk to women. A big problem with talking to women here in these States across the pond, is that many women like to play games and lead men on and toy with their feelings. I’m long since tired of games, that was high-school B.S. and I’ve got no more use for girls who play games. That being said, I won’t talk to women with romantic intentions because the only ones that won’t try to get close and allude to having feelings for me are girls who play games and I’m better off without those. On a lighter note, I of course liked your beautiful long pigtails, but I also liked the dark theme you tried on at the beginning/end of the video? Isn’t that close to your natural hair color? I remember you saying it was pretty dark and I’d love to see you go back to your natural hair color. While that dark hair DID look good with the dark dress, I still think it’d look lovely with your various other dresses. You’re just a beautiful girl and I’d like to see you go back to your natural hair color. ☺️

[@ryanlewis9953]

Just watch their body language. Things like that could tell you something.

[@francescovellucci3218]

This is really nice topic :) by the way depends on the place. I was in japan and if u go to club people are more open.. Can happen that a girl that is not shy come speak with u. Maybe not on the street because they respect your privacy 🔏 :)

[@xjamirakrystalx4764]

dosent happen

[@francescovellucci3218]

It Happened to me

[@xjamirakrystalx4764]

0.00google000.1% of the time it happens .

[@francescovellucci3218]

@@xjamirakrystalx4764 lol why 1% of the time :) is not true... Depends where u are in japan and which people are around u... Can happen sometimes in club but not outside

[@ghlscitel6714]

Answer to this question: Frankly "Yes". Hppened to me several times.

[@dbp-wv1hs]

7:57 we're not. all pointers suggest we're approaching an age where being single is just as normal and Japan is ahead of the curve. It's not fun approaching people, it's not appreciated (a not insignificant amount of people would even refer to it as harassment now) and most relationships do not last in any case. personally, i don't think this development's a bad thing!

[@Mecks089]

In other words: Plain old Anti-socialism.

[@dbp-wv1hs]

​@@Mecks089 On the contrary, I don't mind a bit of socialism 🌹

[@willpower8061]

Geez, no wonder the birth rate's dropping. How can one be a friend unless you talk to a person 1st? Think of all the missed chances..

[@JingleJohngle]

It's more of their economy and culture that prevent them from earning enough to raise a child

[@willpower8061]

@@JingleJohngle true, true, definitely a big factor.

[@toradora1439]

We have a very similar situation here in the US that has been developing over the past decade, but its not because men are shy. Its because women are too promiscuous.

[@AK-nj8gd]

LOL at the end of the video you change between three different accents (British, American and German)..

[@プリンス-g2k]

👍

[@hiba8709]

I love you 🥰🥰🥰

[@shinjaokinawa5122]

Can't you take a hint, Oh I didn't mean you, Yes I was talking to you but I thought you were different. (How?) Let's just be friends, OH! I'd love to go out with you, but I don't think my boy friend would like that. Shall I go on?

[@fernandogarciagomez9404]

Nice nice nice nice !

[@Yama00]

LADIES, DON'T BE SHY. THERE IS NO LAW THAT SAYS THAT YOU CANNOT TALK TO THE OPPOSITE SEX, OR ANYONE ELSE YOU WANT. IT'S TALKING, NOT SELLING DRUGS, RIGHT? NARCOTICS IS A VERY SERIOUS OFFENSE IN JAPAN. I ALWAYS ENCOURAGE MEN AND WOMEN TO TALK TO EACH OTHER, PROVIDED IT IS RESPECTFUL AND NOT EXPLOITIVE. I AM VERY CURIOUS ABOUT THE BURAKUMIN. I'D LIKE TO SEE THEM ON YOUR CHANNEL.

[@blahblah2018]

No auto-generated closed captioning for Japanese?

[@samuraidapreguica7825]

Realized that as well. Sometimes its not very accurate, but I do use it for self-study and it helps a lot.

[@EdwinTheGreat337]

Have to be honest. I'm not at all attracted to these girls.

[@notme7310]

They’re not attracted to you either

[@onlychristian1477]

What about foreign men 😳

[@MrSayonara88]

definitely NO, they're shy...and super self conscience of their English......they prefer someone who is fluent in Japanese.

[@apoorvbansal6590]

and here i am cannot stop messaging a girl i like i know i sound like a creep..but what can i really do :(

[@iTzJ1]

U know I really wish women would drop these stupid games of 'get the hint' know this and know that's, it's like maths puzzles and equations for us to find the answer to, it's no wonder some guys can't bother with being in a serious relationship with them, they make things complicated by having these unrealistic expectations of men then get whiny when we couldn't solve the equation 🙄

[@jeffreyrusselljr7713]

I'm not sure if this is an American thing or my personality, but I'll chat any girl I'm attracted to up. I'm married now so I dont do it anymore, but before I was frequently called a player so it could just be me.

[@YoshiroTakekimi-YTO-]

Primero UwU

[@donkeyhota.dontflamingo9294]

Can u please wear normal clothes just as a normal person?