Can Men Really Change?

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[@PrincessSharifa434]

"I judge!" It's the unexpected comedy for me 😂

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

Yesss

[@QueenConsious]

The real question is are they changing for the right reasons some people change to deceive you or manipulate so they really didn’t change for the better

[@trinigirl7846]

Why cant genuine people attract genuine people in this life? Its not that hard. The dating scene and human beings are so discouraging and complicated on a whole😒

[@miamiflutist]

I totally agree

[@vardaainur-michaelmas5462]

Hehehe, ikr! it’s a fallen world, Genesis ch.3. lol

[@user-rd2so6pc2s]

people living without GOD get living without GOD results. That simple.

[@shabey8436]

People are out of they damn mind now a days. Common sense is no longer common sense. Loving someone else is know longer selfless it’s now selfish. Being a mature adult and a role model no longer exist, it’s looked at as being a goody too shoes. Having morals and values is out the window and being ignorant and indignant is where it’s at. Society in a whole is going deeper and deeper into the abyss of no return.

[@user-rd2so6pc2s]

@@shabey8436 who was the goody 2 shoes?

[@annb8296]

I gave up on men for now anyway as I was getting too many migraines. Now I feel free and relieved and enjoy life. Don't know if I will ever fall in love or trust a man ever again. It may sound sad but it's how a person views it and if you are fine with it that's what matters but if you can't live without a man that's your choice too. But I'll just say you won't die without one.

[@la6136]

I feel the same. Honestly I feel so much peace and completely stress free after I stopped dealing with men. I have no regrets and I don't think it is a bad thing! It feels really good to focus on yourself and your life goals.

[@annb8296]

@@la6136 That's good to hear. I'm glad you're doing good. It's like we lose a part of ourselves and don't even realize it. I agree It's not bad to focus on ourselves. I have gotten to know myself again and I really like who I am. Take care 🙂❤️💯

[@iamunstoppable205]

​@@la6136PREACH!!!

[@lala5061]

Facts...u will probably live a long time without one..especially if he is not right for u he will make u sick physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually...

[@annb8296]

@@lala5061 Yes nothing is worth being miserable and sick. There's a lot in life to do and enjoy whether you're in a relationship with a man or not. Just because you don't have one or the right one for you doesn't mean you have to be alone in the world. You can share and enjoy things with your family and friends or yourself. I don't even think of myself as alone as I consider myself my own best friend. I enjoy my own company. There are just so many things to do and learn and experience that often a man wouldn't want to do with you anyway. It's okay to want a relationship but women should not quit living no matter whether they are in one or not. If something makes you miserable though it's just not worth it.

[@deneciaanderson4267]

Only God can change an individual, man and woman. We battle flesh and spirit everyday, which is why we need the Holy Spirit dwelling in us to change for the better. God changed me because I used to not love myself and compromise my standards. I operated from lack of self worth. When I ran into God I found true, joy, peace, and purpose. I found a Heavenly Father who loved me despite of all my flaws and the wicked deeds I committed. Thats the love of Christ!!!

[@HernameisSAFFA]

This comment resonates with me the most...Amen

[@sg222009]

I do believe that men can change but they just don’t change with woman they are mistreating. They change after they leave you.

[@MissPetrina1]

Yes. A man CAN change. But will he? Is he motivated? A woman should never go with a man based on assuming she can change him. He changes inspired by his fear and love of God and the love of the woman in his life. He does it for himself and because he knows it's right. Or else it won't work.

[@A.Purpose]

I 100% agree

[@dejanae7336]

100.

[@judekabongo282]

I needed this I'm in the exact situation right now!

[@taramay8174]

200 percent agree 💯

[@fascinatedbytruth4296]

I appreciate all the information you share. You bring so much clarity to a lot of situations when it come to self awareness and relationships. Thank you for sharing the messages

[@mjj5642]

“Clunk... LOCKEDT!” 😩😩😩😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@FreedomLane73]

Me too. I care nothing about hurting feelings. Black man or not.

[@FreedomLane73]

People can change, most don’t. It’s up to you.

[@robinnewton1061]

I really admire your truthfulness and honesty Mr. Gaskin. True servant of the Lord….God keep blessing you and yours.

[@PrincessSharifa434]

This was probably one of your most important videos yet! Thank you and I look forward to you red flags video.

[@tieonneyvonne1222]

Excellent advice, Tony! Thank you for your life-changing content! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@suzannhar]

Tony’s crazy voice has me in stitches every time. I only watch to get my laugh on😂😂😂😂content is still good though

[@sharonhall7439]

anybody can if they want to

[@NooooneYA1010]

Yes! Ppl can change, it takes work but change is possible.

[@taramay8174]

Its a choice

[@denoradavis4815]

God Bless !!! I’m so happy you go into all these different areas very helpful. Nothing impossible For God !!!

[@profmj7630]

Great message Tony!

[@TraciHudson2024]

Cause those woman or still broken and haven’t allow God to restore them cause I was bitter and hurt and was like men is this and that but I went through the Healing process it was hard but I did it and I’m Married again and I also start to hold myself accountable of what part I play in that relationship and realize they was just not for me they wanted something different I can’t change my ways to fit them and it’s not me

[@lala5061]

Amen u inspired me with this ...God bless your marriage and I hope u have peace and joy...I like messages that give me hope 🙏🏽

[@akilahbatyah6505]

@39:15 I absolutely agree. A lot of women don’t know what the red flags are. Then if they do have a clue they don’t know the severity of the red flags and how they can lead to their deletion if not avoided.

[@devanteaboyd]

Tony, you should have walked away bro lol 🤣🤣 You so funny man.

[@AllAboutAndrew444]

Good points 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@thart6205]

I appreciate this video ❤

[@CIMANI]

Oh i respect it cuz you be going on and on bout a topic wit good intent and good insight ofc which we all appreciate!

[@choiceone21]

I totally agree people change with the help of the Holy Spirit but outside of that those spirits that was once chased away will come but bigger and stronger.

[@dorothymatthews6690]

Hey all remember Kenny Rogers song? "You gotta know when to hold them, know when to fold them know when to walk away, know when to run, you never count your money when youre sitting at the table, there be time enough for counting. when the day is done!" Point in case, dont gamble in love. Life or relationships. Know what youre walking into! Whoo Tony! This was a word!

[@Itsnurselo2you]

I don’t think so @TonyGaskins only if they really want to like you have said in the past I’ve recently met the man I tried to date in January and for the third time recently his ex from 2015 we had a conversation really good honestly and I found out that not only has he been the same for now 8 years he’s gotten worse and according to her I did right by choosing myself and it was really clarifying to know that all that I felt I wasn’t bugging or going crazy and that he was really that way

[@valenciawalker6498]

anen🙏🏽🙏🏽 I believe a man can change if its the man's will if God is his source.

[@devanteaboyd]

I'm HERE!

[@LifeCoachSheriAnnette111]

This is so good! I do believe men can change who want to! Amen!🙌🏽

[@EbikeAdventures667]

So can women!!!

[@808Dolphin]

Yes just fast and pray for them

[@fishstickbio594]

It’s hard to believe that a man will change for the better …..sorry …can’t buy into that since he had a pattern of bad behaviors ….I was shocked to see how men behave and think in America . Will take my very bad experience to my grave and I will tell all my relatives in Europe too. It’s totally unacceptable .

[@antoinettej2495]

This also reminds me of the current Cardi B and Offset situation... I just hope that they got everything straightened out as well. They should listen to this video and take the lesson.

[@2B-Steele]

😂😂It ain’t nothing like. You will sneak a funny one in there in a minute 😂

[@trintrin7819]

I kid you not Mr. Tony, I was interested in a guy that does all three (I didn’t know this at the time and I do NONE of those things) and I was thinking well we are young he’ll probably grow out of it and I prayed to God about it. And boom you mentioned it. Let’s me know he is not meant for me but someone else

[@AllAboutAndrew444]

Right on time word

[@Rahkiya]

Amen

[@MiMi-vb8lg]

🎯💖💖💖💖

[@yewandeisikalu5366]

Does Vaping fall under smoking ?

[@jcymngo]

Yes

[@aquarislov79]

🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾🤣🤣🤣

[@AllAboutAndrew444]

Good points 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼