The real question is are they changing for the right reasons some people change to deceive you or manipulate so they really didn’t change for the better
@trinigirl7846 Жыл бұрын
Why cant genuine people attract genuine people in this life? Its not that hard. The dating scene and human beings are so discouraging and complicated on a whole😒
@miamiflutist Жыл бұрын
I totally agree
@vardaainur-michaelmas5462 Жыл бұрын
Hehehe, ikr! it’s a fallen world, Genesis ch.3. lol
@user-rd2so6pc2s Жыл бұрын
people living without GOD get living without GOD results. That simple.
@shabey8436 Жыл бұрын
People are out of they damn mind now a days. Common sense is no longer common sense. Loving someone else is know longer selfless it’s now selfish. Being a mature adult and a role model no longer exist, it’s looked at as being a goody too shoes. Having morals and values is out the window and being ignorant and indignant is where it’s at. Society in a whole is going deeper and deeper into the abyss of no return.
@user-rd2so6pc2s Жыл бұрын
@@shabey8436 who was the goody 2 shoes?
@annb8296 Жыл бұрын
I gave up on men for now anyway as I was getting too many migraines. Now I feel free and relieved and enjoy life. Don't know if I will ever fall in love or trust a man ever again. It may sound sad but it's how a person views it and if you are fine with it that's what matters but if you can't live without a man that's your choice too. But I'll just say you won't die without one.
@la6136 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same. Honestly I feel so much peace and completely stress free after I stopped dealing with men. I have no regrets and I don't think it is a bad thing! It feels really good to focus on yourself and your life goals.
@annb8296 Жыл бұрын
@@la6136 That's good to hear. I'm glad you're doing good. It's like we lose a part of ourselves and don't even realize it. I agree It's not bad to focus on ourselves. I have gotten to know myself again and I really like who I am. Take care 🙂❤️💯
@iamunstoppable205 Жыл бұрын
@@la6136PREACH!!!
@lala5061 Жыл бұрын
Facts...u will probably live a long time without one..especially if he is not right for u he will make u sick physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually...
@annb8296 Жыл бұрын
@@lala5061 Yes nothing is worth being miserable and sick. There's a lot in life to do and enjoy whether you're in a relationship with a man or not. Just because you don't have one or the right one for you doesn't mean you have to be alone in the world. You can share and enjoy things with your family and friends or yourself. I don't even think of myself as alone as I consider myself my own best friend. I enjoy my own company. There are just so many things to do and learn and experience that often a man wouldn't want to do with you anyway. It's okay to want a relationship but women should not quit living no matter whether they are in one or not. If something makes you miserable though it's just not worth it.
@deneciaanderson4267 Жыл бұрын
Only God can change an individual, man and woman. We battle flesh and spirit everyday, which is why we need the Holy Spirit dwelling in us to change for the better. God changed me because I used to not love myself and compromise my standards. I operated from lack of self worth. When I ran into God I found true, joy, peace, and purpose. I found a Heavenly Father who loved me despite of all my flaws and the wicked deeds I committed. Thats the love of Christ!!!
@HernameisSAFFA Жыл бұрын
This comment resonates with me the most...Amen
@sg222009 Жыл бұрын
I do believe that men can change but they just don’t change with woman they are mistreating. They change after they leave you.
@MissPetrina1 Жыл бұрын
Yes. A man CAN change. But will he? Is he motivated? A woman should never go with a man based on assuming she can change him. He changes inspired by his fear and love of God and the love of the woman in his life. He does it for himself and because he knows it's right. Or else it won't work.
@A.Purpose Жыл бұрын
I 100% agree
@dejanae7336 Жыл бұрын
100.
@judekabongo282 Жыл бұрын
I needed this I'm in the exact situation right now!
@taramay8174 Жыл бұрын
200 percent agree 💯
@fascinatedbytruth4296 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate all the information you share. You bring so much clarity to a lot of situations when it come to self awareness and relationships. Thank you for sharing the messages
@mjj5642 Жыл бұрын
“Clunk... LOCKEDT!” 😩😩😩😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@FreedomLane73 Жыл бұрын
Me too. I care nothing about hurting feelings. Black man or not.
@FreedomLane73 Жыл бұрын
People can change, most don’t. It’s up to you.
@robinnewton1061 Жыл бұрын
I really admire your truthfulness and honesty Mr. Gaskin. True servant of the Lord….God keep blessing you and yours.
@PrincessSharifa434 Жыл бұрын
This was probably one of your most important videos yet! Thank you and I look forward to you red flags video.
@tieonneyvonne1222 Жыл бұрын
Excellent advice, Tony! Thank you for your life-changing content! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
@suzannhar Жыл бұрын
Tony’s crazy voice has me in stitches every time. I only watch to get my laugh on😂😂😂😂content is still good though
@sharonhall7439 Жыл бұрын
anybody can if they want to
@NooooneYA1010 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Ppl can change, it takes work but change is possible.
@taramay8174 Жыл бұрын
Its a choice
@denoradavis4815 Жыл бұрын
God Bless !!! I’m so happy you go into all these different areas very helpful. Nothing impossible For God !!!
@profmj7630 Жыл бұрын
Great message Tony!
@TraciHudson2024 Жыл бұрын
Cause those woman or still broken and haven’t allow God to restore them cause I was bitter and hurt and was like men is this and that but I went through the Healing process it was hard but I did it and I’m Married again and I also start to hold myself accountable of what part I play in that relationship and realize they was just not for me they wanted something different I can’t change my ways to fit them and it’s not me
@lala5061 Жыл бұрын
Amen u inspired me with this ...God bless your marriage and I hope u have peace and joy...I like messages that give me hope 🙏🏽
@akilahbatyah6505 Жыл бұрын
@39:15 I absolutely agree. A lot of women don’t know what the red flags are. Then if they do have a clue they don’t know the severity of the red flags and how they can lead to their deletion if not avoided.
@devanteaboyd Жыл бұрын
Tony, you should have walked away bro lol 🤣🤣 You so funny man.
@AllAboutAndrew444 Жыл бұрын
Good points 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@thart6205 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video ❤
@CIMANI Жыл бұрын
Oh i respect it cuz you be going on and on bout a topic wit good intent and good insight ofc which we all appreciate!
@choiceone21 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree people change with the help of the Holy Spirit but outside of that those spirits that was once chased away will come but bigger and stronger.
@dorothymatthews6690 Жыл бұрын
Hey all remember Kenny Rogers song? "You gotta know when to hold them, know when to fold them know when to walk away, know when to run, you never count your money when youre sitting at the table, there be time enough for counting. when the day is done!" Point in case, dont gamble in love. Life or relationships. Know what youre walking into! Whoo Tony! This was a word!
@Itsnurselo2you Жыл бұрын
I don’t think so @TonyGaskins only if they really want to like you have said in the past I’ve recently met the man I tried to date in January and for the third time recently his ex from 2015 we had a conversation really good honestly and I found out that not only has he been the same for now 8 years he’s gotten worse and according to her I did right by choosing myself and it was really clarifying to know that all that I felt I wasn’t bugging or going crazy and that he was really that way
@valenciawalker6498 Жыл бұрын
anen🙏🏽🙏🏽 I believe a man can change if its the man's will if God is his source.
@devanteaboyd Жыл бұрын
I'm HERE!
@LifeCoachSheriAnnette111 Жыл бұрын
This is so good! I do believe men can change who want to! Amen!🙌🏽
@EbikeAdventures667 Жыл бұрын
So can women!!!
@808Dolphin Жыл бұрын
Yes just fast and pray for them
@fishstickbio594 Жыл бұрын
It’s hard to believe that a man will change for the better …..sorry …can’t buy into that since he had a pattern of bad behaviors ….I was shocked to see how men behave and think in America . Will take my very bad experience to my grave and I will tell all my relatives in Europe too. It’s totally unacceptable .
@antoinettej2495 Жыл бұрын
This also reminds me of the current Cardi B and Offset situation... I just hope that they got everything straightened out as well. They should listen to this video and take the lesson.
@2B-Steele Жыл бұрын
😂😂It ain’t nothing like. You will sneak a funny one in there in a minute 😂
@trintrin7819 Жыл бұрын
I kid you not Mr. Tony, I was interested in a guy that does all three (I didn’t know this at the time and I do NONE of those things) and I was thinking well we are young he’ll probably grow out of it and I prayed to God about it. And boom you mentioned it. Let’s me know he is not meant for me but someone else