Can Modern Relationships Be "Fixed"? Instagram Live ©

[@nelsonperez007]

This should be required viewing before divorce. This would save families.

[@rayhmann]

Better after coledge

[@graylineodell2737]

Yep wish I would have found Kevin 2 yrs ago would’ve been perfect maybe could have saved my family.

[@FatCryBaby]

AGREED…..you’re spot on my brother!!

[@hurricaneq8411]

@@malikwilson7387 🤯

[@leshawn.d.1805]

Before marriage.

[@miapdx503]

It's called sacrifice. To put your husband first, yes you pay a price. And it's totally worth it. 🌺 Remember he's paying too. He's sacrificing too.

[@aria4141]

i will put my kids first :)

[@keptbygrace6221]

@@aria4141 your children will grow up and leave to start their own families. Husband and wife bond should be strongest bc that is the foundation. Spouse before kids.

[@pennyproud1621]

Well put.

[@therealblacksheep330]

@@ShaunHensley preach

[@tru_king24]

Shaun Hensley honestly raising kids is hard af idk how broke ppl do that shit but i would put my kids before my wife as well just cuz i kno if i had kids that bond would neva break a woman is impossible to keep or keep happy just sayin 🤷🏾‍♂️ i wouldnt spoil the hell out of them like a woman either tho i wouldnt create a narc or sociopath 😂💯

[@theteknologist9574]

This woman has so much light in her eyes. Her face shows that she is open to hearing new information and seeking to truly understand. She has the most pleasant energy I've seen from any of Kevin's guest in quite some time.

[@ignacioromero5014]

She's not in the USA thats why

[@blasiankiki7831]

She has a beautiful nature but she’s just educated. She has the same concerns as many American women she just has a non confrontational demeanor so it allowed for a beautiful dialogue.

[@blasiankiki7831]

@@ignacioromero5014 no that’s not why.. trust me …they have their ruffians just like we do.. trust me

[@touchd_dwn_n88panthergod4]

Her best years are behind her ... neeeeeeeexxxxxt!!!

[@quentinparker7404]

Those qualities make her attractive.

[@MarshC]

She's easily the most peaceful, beautiful, respectful person I have witnessed Kevin speak with. Definitely a prospect.

[@benhartart9487]

She’s 37 well into the Wall, risky pregnancy after age 35 also

[@Jigbunu]

What about her racism

[@benjaminmacauley9388]

I agree with you 💯 % 😊😊😊 That's why we didn't heard any " SLAPPE " sound .......

[@darktobi2869]

You just mindlessly repeating the same thing as the top comment. If you skip to 9:30 you will see she’s just another feminist.

[@absolute757]

This woman's pleasant attitude makes her more attractive than any Instagram thot

[@michaelmatthews5720]

Facts

[@brandonwilliams315]

Yes it did, I was thinking the same thing

[@hanselbeckfordjr7530]

This is what Jamaican women are- beautiful, smart and inspirational. I miss my home 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@abdulabdul-qg3mc]

She isn’t American. She is either African or Caribbean. It’s Americans that mostly have all the issues discussed on this platform

[@hanselbeckfordjr7530]

@@abdulabdul-qg3mc She is Jamaican. Facts

[@mrspleats]

Kevin realizes that he was speaking to an engaging intelligent young lady who it's clear was well raised and not from the hood. Intelligent and beautiful. Kevin loved the interaction and engaged with her as a woman to be respected for a full episode. Other women should take a page out of her book. Bravo both ways

[@davidenglish476]

For sho . Mental shock wave.

[@medicisounds1384]

Young? Are you death? She said she was 37 That’s not young anymore that’s right at middle aged Stop being a beta

[@steez5769]

Most modern women don’t understand that men respect and are fond of women who are calm, collected, feminine, polite, patient, ect. When a woman acts like a “boss babe” and all bitter / entitled toward men, it’s automatically a turn off.

[@rshepherd80]

@@medicisounds1384 whether she's young or not was it necessary to say what you said. Just a thought.... think about it... the need to call someone a beta.. what does that say about your thought process.... speak softly and carry a big stick....

[@eugenedantzler4485]

@@rshepherd80 💯

[@j.c.denton5193]

Can I just say how lovely and refreshing it was to hear her give straight answers to his questions and tell the truth, ESPECIALLY when it made her voice shake? That's courage, integrity, respect, and bloody-minded honesty. Would that there were many more like her.

[@julesfalcone]

He talked more than her. That almost never happens.

[@silewis9396]

Well said. Great conversation

[@chillywill95831]

She's quite lovely. And, she knows how to ask questions and listen for answers without having the answer already in her head. Something Kevin said it's so true. Our wives really can't be our friends. They could never stomach the shit we talk about to our friends.

[@anthonym9137]

she from the Caribbean its different

[@tammy07778]

We are grown to be respectful, in the Caribbean and Jamaica is a predominantly Christian country so things are different here.

[@Lumbeelegend]

She gave pushback, she disagreed, she brought arguments and questions... She was respectful, calm, and peaceful and was one of the best callers I've seen. Snatch her up

[@elinkaneedum1358]

It was the best conversation I've seen him have with a female. She was also probably the most respectful female and intellectual female he's had on. She spoke the way you speak to a grown man. Awesome communication 👏 🙌

[@aswilled1]

she is definitely a wife. She may very well be a HVW

[@dannyramos5924]

The big the thing is that she isn't American

[@marvelouss719]

Maybe Kevin should have...he would probably still be alive. As a fellow Jamaican, I enjoyed this dialogue immensely.

[@TheEdge101]

I agree 👍

[@BBrandonBMusic]

This was a great conversation. This woman was articulate and engaged, asked pertinent questions and as usual, Kevin gave great responses.

[@dickersontee4399]

This is the best convo ever!!! Love you both ❤❤

[@giniolamy]

Maybe because she's not a black American woman

[@BBrandonBMusic]

@@giniolamy My 1st inclination is to say that you're wrong, when sadly, you may be right.

[@giniolamy]

@@BBrandonBMusic lol

[@tamysmart6886]

I changed my religion and left my career to raise our children i had that much respect trust and value in my husband.. we raised 2 sons and 2 daughters..my daughters were raised in a house thats allowed them to see a man and woman's role..yes role..my sons are in for a rude awakening at 35 and 27 they ask me always "mom whats wrong with these females? they can't cook cant clean"

[@johnman025]

At the beginning, I found this woman really attractive and cute. As the conversation carried on, she became absolutely beautiful by the way she talked and carried herself.

[@rikrob5172]

Jamaican Christian girl

[@ramoeneg7874]

Facts, Exactly.

[@HaloDesigns-oc6mt]

She is a rare breed💯 well spoken🙌, listen to understand💪🏾

[@evolvinglight6461]

Facts I was digging her energy..

[@medicisounds1384]

Simo

[@thedeanogaming]

I'm a Jamaican too. I'm so glad one of my female counterparts are learning the ways of being feminine because majority of jamaican girls are masculine and too aggressive.

[@MichaEl.Tammuz]

Facts!

[@andrereynolds2025]

Fi real.

[@jamesblanco2221]

And when u respond to them, they are quick to play the victim....All that rough talk go out the window.

[@thedeanogaming]

@@MichaEl.Tammuz 💯🙏

[@thedeanogaming]

@@andrereynolds2025 🇯🇲💯

[@webcityguymyclubb4032]

This man is going to be sorely missed. His intelligence, honesty and insight is so strong in him and so lacking in the world.

[@mrjasonsamuel23]

i wish that i had him growing up. i would be so better off right now. so i am trying to push myself right now, to be a better man

[@nalgasapestosas9648]

THAT'S the reason why he had to be taken out!!! As soon as I found out how he died, I instantly knew he didn't die of natural causes; the female he was with must have been paid handsomely, whether she was an amateur or a pro, she succeeded in sending him off. He definitely was a ONE of a kind!!! He should have been like Moses or Elijah, who both raised up a disciple to take up after where he left off. Hallelujah. Praise the Lord.

[@LanierHale-oq3dr]

Any BM on his level has Uncle Sam in the rear view mirror.

[@demarcusrichard249]

She became so much more beautiful to me after this conversation. She was honest and up front to the point even Kevin was at ease with this conversation. We need more of this.

[@shazahashim8687]

African american women are the most aggressive women and very stubborn

[@Christina-rb8vk]

I agree! I give her a 10! I am glad that she let him talk so we can all learn!!

[@bennystewart1859]

Exactly... she will look at things differently now, and guess what? She's gonna win!

[@305lula]

Amen

[@ogprez4419]

Jamaican women be like that..

[@KenTheCurator]

Jamaican women are awesome, my dad brought my mom over back in the 40's. they were married for 61 years and he died a happy 98 year old man

[@indirastone7382]

That’s beautiful! Thanks for sharing.

[@karlmax6031]

@@indirastone7382 same. I brought my wife over 25 years ago. We're still married and she has never understood the "modern" woman's attitude to marriage. She was pregnant and she went to one of those antenatal classes. The tutor was on about how she is being abused and what was abuse. This tutor was trying to convince her that she'll get this and that if if she was alone and it's not a stigma here if she doesn't have a husband and gives birth to a child without one. She got home furious and she narrated what happened, I laughed and nearly fell off my chair. Till this day, it's shaken her to the core and she is very scared for our 3 boys.

[@Twonne1]

@@indirastone7382 I was about to say the exact same thing.

[@JohnWick-ym4gm]

I might have to do the same, because the Jamaican women I have been experiencing in America, are not traditional. I am a traditional Jamaican man. Please send me a traditional Jamaican women my way please :)

[@alisonwilson5144]

@@JohnWick-ym4gm Hello 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@mrsccfinn]

As a born and raised Jamaican woman married for almost 21 years, it's refreshing to see an actual conversation about relationship challenges. You can have dissenting ideas without confrontational behavior.

[@TinaMarieJ]

Agreed

[@gaza_alien8572]

Dis bwoy all him bumboclaat do a bring down black Queens

[@HeavyK.]

Sometimes I think women just like to argue for the fun of it, when men really don't want to compete in the work world for 8 - 10 hours a day (with men and women) and come home to their woman that wants to fight because she's bored.

[@lamontejackson5713]

So true

[@Jonathanlouisa]

I don't know why, but when I was reading you comment, I did it in a Jamaican accent xD

[@rmak2950]

Jamaica represented well!!!! Moments like this I'm proud to be Jamaican

[@SR77736]

Same

[@charms85]

Before she said where she was, I was shouting out, “she a Jamaican”. Yes Sister show them that we are a different breed. A breed of class, commonsense and intelligence. Kevin enjoyed this conversation.

[@CEWIII9873]

more so than Trenchtown?

[@teegoboss]

​@@CEWIII9873 She come from Duhaney Park🙂

[@Dizzymarvel]

Usually Jamaica women are stubborn to handle facts given to them

[@johnboy1760]

She’s lovely. An articulate woman who brought forward her own points rather than just parrot the same things we’ve heard 1000 times before. I hope she finds what she’s looking for.

[@pwagers]

Yes she is lovely, there are more good women here in Jamaica than bad ones.

[@lesliejohnson-nelson4003]

@@pwagers lies

[@pwagers]

@@lesliejohnson-nelson4003 I have to ask are you a Jamaican ?

[@bennystewart1859]

She will after this conversation...her value just went way up.

[@laignermassey3631]

Beautiful woman with a beautiful smile and lovely skin. I loved listening to her speak. Their interaction was respectful and informative. I loved watching this. 💖

[@patrickt955]

Agree with you...I didn't want it to end

[@rshepherd80]

Indeed she's a treasure beautiful understanding and willing to have a discussion the sad reality is as to everybody these days want everybody to hear them and listen to them but they are not willing to do the same return so it's a breath of fresh afresh air Sorry for the typos I'll probably have to edit later I'm on the move so I'm doing a voice to text my apologies but I love the concept and the idea between what you saidd when she's been saying in this whole video

[@MrBronx61]

Co-sign. She's a breath of fresh air.

[@bellamonroe7322]

I love her smile 😊

[@ceelothatmane9421]

My only issue was her constantly laughing. Maybe I’m awkward but stuff like that irks my soul. It’s like ppl who hate when people smack when they eat. Other than that, she seems like good ppls

[@musanetesakupwanya1050]

"80% of children are made by 16% of men".. That shook me to the core. This entire video was incredible.

[@metadata5760]

60%, not 16%

[@octaviovega3289]

@@metadata5760 16%* do the math, g

[@metadata5760]

@@octaviovega3289 What math? It's a fact that you can Google lol

[@gokeoluyemo]

@@metadata5760 Not true if 51 percent is single and childless and 30 percent is married

[@ljderricotte3719]

16% of children born out of wedlock

[@DaveS1969]

I really like her, she seems so genuine and wanting to understand the whole thing. Props for her being a woman that's open.

[@SkRo0L3w5e]

There’s a reason this sounds more like a conversation than a debate. Because she was willing to listen.

[@IamKingReacts]

!!!!!!!!

[@worldpoole]

1000%

[@scottandigan6276]

@Anti-Black Devils Must Die straight facts.

[@darktobi2869]

Nah she was a typical feminist and it came out at 9:30. Y’all just get tricked by the veneer.

[@AGrumpyMonk]

I watched this live, she was a breath of fresh air. Can't say the same about some callers after.

[@Pedant_Patrol]

Breath*

[@AGrumpyMonk]

@@Pedant_Patrol good for you buddy.

[@Pedant_Patrol]

@@AGrumpyMonk you're welcome.

[@shaneroach8883]

@@AGrumpyMonk trolls bro........ this by far one of the most refreshing interview

[@michaelbrown8861]

Don’t be fooled by their fake feminine ..remember how she started the interview....she knew KS would roast her that’s why she didn’t

[@damionliba1917]

Damn, a Jamaican woman that know how to act right. That was a wonderful conversation. I will be looking out for her to tell her that she represent Jamaican women pretty well.🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@VolcanicWisdom]

Real talk it's a good look 🇯🇲

[@danielhudson3570]

Enjoyed every bit of this conversation 🇯🇲

[@tamarap4201]

Yes, great convo‼️

[@brandonsterling8026]

Facts her femininity up💯

[@roblangcalyo]

She doesn’t act right. All her questions are her views

[@carlosjoelgarcia3200]

There is more wisdom in 20 mins of this program than 30 years of marriage therapy. He is truly the Godfather! May his soul rest in peace! He is sorely missed!

[@PB22559]

The fact she has a pleasant demenour and is actually listening makes her more attractive. Most of the women who call in don't even know how to have a conversation.

[@J2dADispora]

And that island accent 😍😍😍😍

[@PB22559]

@@J2dADispora Indeed. Much more pleasing to the ear than the US accents in my opinion.

[@antoniotula262]

These are the type of Jamaican/ Caribbean wmn i knew growing up. Pleasant personality, in shape, not much make up, working & or in school. Its Great to see they still exist.

[@ForceFedFetusFillet]

She's not American. That's why.

[@hiqualitychocesp8424]

She may not have had an attitude but the whole time she tried to find fault in man instead of accountability. Then at the very end she said blk ppl want to be together. Then KS hit her with the sobering statistic helping her understand all too well. She has a underlying problem with black men but don't want black men to be with other women...run for the hills! 🏃🏿‍♂️💨

[@saihemebillings2820]

This video is a perfect example of Kevin having a great dialogue with no combativeness. Many women will say well he only treats light skin women nice or women with long hair . Yet here you see she’s a beautiful dark woman with short hair but the conversation is flowing better then any he’s had.

[@onikapinkk]

you can be less attractive but the way you behave and carry yourself can make you attractive

[@AM-ri9ut]

Facts

[@duaneyarde]

@@onikapinkk I hope this is general statement and you are not saying the lady in the video is unattractive.

[@onikapinkk]

@@duaneyarde No in general i dont mean her specifically she’s gorgeous and natural

[@sheriwilson9387]

Obviously this woman was educated 🙄

[@mcdthedev]

she is genuinely here to learn she is humble too and smart

[@godsson6359]

She's the blue print of how communication should go. She listened before responding and actually seemed to understand what we been (men) been trying to say all the time. LISTEN!!! ALL WE WANT IS PEACE AND COOPERATION. STOP THINKING EVERYTHING IS ABOUT THE WOMEN. I guarantee you'll have a successful relationship.

[@relaxedn10city]

This is the most civil conversation I’ve ever seen on this platform! This woman represented Black Women well! Whoo Chile! It’s great to have a guest that doesn’t make me cringe & make KS go full on bullistic !!👍🏽

[@lamontejackson5713]

So true

[@teegrowl5186]

That's because shes not in a bubble of illusion

[@soulsearching8715]

She mature man!

[@olanrewajuolufemi701]

She doesn't live in a bubble 🇺🇲

[@abdulabdul-qg3mc]

She’s not African-American. This is how women typically are. But African-American women or maybe American women generally are different

[@Zone15Media]

She's my absolute favorite of all the women I've seen on this show.

[@streetdisciple30]

She Jamaican

[@markm.1486]

Mine too...Kevin was actually able to get to the root of what he has been trying to say and he was even enjoying it also because he kept letting her ask questions long after she said it was her last question.

[@dickersontee4399]

I've listen to these 2 over and over ❤❤

[@SWSW560]

@@streetdisciple30 Yup.

[@blackcfp4713]

The smile

[@MrMjohnson103]

She is delightful and honest; she seems like a lady who's willing to work with a man.

[@zionb5342]

Nothing for you? If you single and she single...just saying * just tryna bring healthy black couple together

[@cccdy6375]

@@zionb5342 Dafuq kinda response is this

[@onetrickpony8618]

I respectfully disagree. I think she's disingenuous, and was fielding her questions in not-so-good faith

[@cccdy6375]

@@onetrickpony8618 Yeah

[@7reload777]

@@onetrickpony8618 Yep our Jamaican women are combative by nature 😅. This was clearly a trick. She will go back and develop counter responses asked on all the information she was given 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@halfmanhalfamazing191]

An underated level of attractiveness that this beautiful lady exudes is how she smiles and laughs so easily. A woman with a good sense of humor is always a plus.

[@kimanimzalendo367]

Always....

[@branbranshenanigans1693]

She’s beautiful and I love how respectful she was.

[@TheGreatonejah]

Yeah that’s how Jamaican women are they are firm but still respectful.

[@alwebbjrlw]

Indeed she is and was.

[@lolsports5615]

She’s not from here. You get it

[@aye927]

She cool

[@mosarpong]

This is the most respectful and logical conversation I have seen a woman had with the Godfather...worth viewing

[@mr.duanesharpe]

Bro. He said about safety is 911 not a man. THAT is A FACT

[@onlyscams]

Notice she’s not American. That’s a big difference

[@markm.1486]

My thoughts exactly.

[@delanolilly3603]

To the end. I wish it was one of them 2 hour ones.

[@ignaciopullum9891]

Because Ghanaian and Jamaican (as well as other African and Caribbean nations) hold family together

[@Royalpath]

Beautiful woman. Classy and respectful conversation. Big up my Jamaican sister ❤️

[@thetripletsbadboys4621]

i agree. dark skin women are my favourite by far

[@tahaabderaouffritis1161]

This woman is so respectful, kind and not faking it at all, I say I love her

[@darksidehavok]

This is officially my favorite conversation I have seen on Kevin's channel... a BW that is speaking directly, responding honestly, and truly looking to understand the male mindset... and having a good sense of humor too.

[@RogerSanGabriel]

3rd time I watched this video.

[@RAH_BLISS]

Cut and dry facts

[@patNdurham]

I agree….she asked pertinent questions and didn’t try to over-talk him! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@kimanimzalendo367]

It is a good conversation. She is beautiful, asks apt questions well, and has a great sense of humor

[@n.o.vativesports8504]

I was introduced to this brother through a group of black women who was complaining about the content that KS presented. Without me even watching, I knew he had them down for right because they were too emotional about a brother who had a message. Obviously, I decided to follow and watch this brother and I must say that brother is great at what he's doing.

[@fazenuget8403]

Have you spoken with any of those women about it ever since then? lol.

[@zionb5342]

@@fazenuget8403 it's scary telling woman that KS is right most of the times. You need to go into that conversation prepared and with patience. Orelse you can create an enemy 🤣

[@alexanderruffin3363]

@@zionb5342 facts lol.

[@darrenjoness2397]

@@zionb5342 I realised that sometimes in life, saying the truth comes at a cost.

[@Souloux]

@@darrenjoness2397 Often times women would rather hear beautiful lies than hard truths.

[@isaakdlg1737]

Women who take the lead in the relationship tend to grow tired of leading the family, then they start complaining about it. You can't have it both ways women!💯

[@kimtukieusi4982]

I experienced this with my own sister Women are not build for leadership

[@jonathanbenisrael2501]

Because they are out of order.

[@Lina-lq7jm]

But submission only works if the man is really a good man who doesn't want to harm his wife. Because there are tons of men who beat their wives. Who abuse them almost each day. And they have no resources, no other way out. Men being in lead position is great, if those men are responsible and good. What happens if they arent?

[@edwardbarr8502]

She soon realizes this is not what she wants. She come to realize he’s just another child in the house. Men! Man up

[@UpTheChels10]

@@Lina-lq7jm you realize that relatively speaking that being the case is less than a 3 in 100 chance. You have better chance of getting into a car accident but your driving your car everyday.

[@modavis2708]

I loved this conversation! Beautiful woman who listened and was willing to learn. I definitely learned a lot from this conversation and will make the necessary adjustments. I appreciate you both ❤

[@MaxioosDose]

Bless you, teach your friends what you learned and be their model when it comes to be a great valuable woman, all love to you

[@modavis2708]

@@MaxioosDose 😊

[@chriso8193]

She came on with bad intentions and he told her to "put her D#%%&k up.......this happened off the top of the conversation, so her intentions were dishonest and he caught it.....that shit ain't beautiful.....Eve did the same shit to Adam.

[@DAlilbigman]

Amen sister! Good stuff!

[@NatHenrickClarke]

I love her

[@lambo_em]

My favorite video by Kevin. This was a great dialogue. Kudos to Ms. for asking great questions and the answers were straight forward and made sense without being too pointed. She brought out another side of Kevin we don’t see too often. For the first time I felt like his advice was palatable and came from a place of sincerity. Thumbs up!

[@tkluvtravel]

He's not saying anything different than before. Communication goes both ways. It's just this conversation with respectfully cooperative woman made it easier.... even though she might not 100% agree with KS but she was still open to listen. I've been encouraging my friends for many years to be less masculine.

[@samtek5890]

No he is still saying the same thing, but the woman is here is different that others. That make the conversation flow without disturbing.

[@daphneytennard3267]

@@tkluvtravel Exactly!

[@tctopcat1981]

This is the difference between trying to communicate with an aggressive wpman and a submissive respectful woman. Great lady.

[@conscienceone1983]

Kevin Give according to what's being given to him.. If a woman comes big, bad and disrespectful, Kevin responds accordingly, and would not give her a pass.... This lady is Cultured and quite feminine...Something Most Black American women do not have, and should make attempt at trying to acquire.

[@jrockel]

She's beautiful, respectful and open minded, who cant work with such a masterpiece?

[@pennyproud1621]

I'm sure she is a lovely person. Hopefully some appreciative man swoops her up if he hasn't already.

[@victorkaska2666]

You don’t know her...that’s why SIMPS like you keep losing.

[@blackwhite2361]

@@victorkaska2666 dude. There's nothing simping about saying what he sees. All he did was express what he observed from the video. That's it. Isn't that what you look out for outwardly b4 getting to know the person?

[@bethevoice3]

I'm sure I can be respectful too when millions are watching

[@SoniaKeeKee]

Would you? She’s 36

[@femstauk8865]

Best conversation so far, I was glued throughout 👍🏾

[@darkmatter2604]

Same here

[@inkaacrowe8429]

Very good ...

[@Cosmic_889]

I second that

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Absolutely!

[@katmomma5249]

Kevin has helped my marriage ❤️. And I didn't like him at first but he's spot on. Listen up ladies. 👍❤️💯

[@angelhutchinson4263]

Same here

[@francoismarseille3512]

This conversation was so peaceful, respectful, and informative. I could easily show this to my young nieces to teach them how the world really works.

[@johnstrawb3521]

Really? You want your nieces to pick up this completely unfounded trash that their grandmothers were secretly miserable thanks to their vicious, cruel husbands? Disgusting, but given a pretty face you'll fall for anything.

[@cocolokoflacco]

@@johnstrawb3521 lol you're dumb

[@samabiola2871]

We need more Sister like her. She's easy to talk to.

[@user-lb9ee2ur1k]

She's Caribbean not American

[@samabiola2871]

@@user-lb9ee2ur1k it doesn't matter where you come from. As long as you black. You are an African.

[@user-lb9ee2ur1k]

@@samabiola2871 you missed the point they are raised different that's why you said we need more like her

[@samabiola2871]

@@user-lb9ee2ur1k True true 👍

[@richardmcdowell2088]

She's the type a man would go down on one knee and said will you marry me.. this is exactly what Kevin is talking about..naturally beautiful. in fact men marry to women like this the girls on Instagram who are crazy hair and nails, naked, men will say nice body, nice shape but no ring no family. even if a man do marry one of these Instagram girls. Those don't last unless God intervine.

[@beedavisjr]

This was an absolutely lovely conversation. It wasn't disrespectful at all. She came into the conversation with good intentions. She honestly wanted to discuss this issue. I didn't feel as though she was listening to reply. I continuously find this to be common with Caribbean women. They're very agreeable and tend to lead to being patriarchal. They would prefer the man to lead. I'm yet to meet a Caribbean woman that isn't passionate about black men. May be a small segment that are not. But overall they're passionate about their brothers.

[@Tahiha]

the brother that posted above you though has a completely different erroneous perspective. Sad

[@lavonnealexander6936]

They definitely are but unfortunately get cheated on.

[@craiganthony9607]

Very great listen

[@1of123]

Hahaha . I’m from the islands and that’s a lie

[@BlasianLuvsNailArt]

Im Jamaican too. I can attest that even though many Caribbean societies are matriarchal, girls are raised in a traditional way ie to please their husbands, very submissive, very mature, very family oriented. We still have things to work on but compared to North American women, imo, we relate to men differently

[@Leonard_Washington76]

Thanks Kevin for your contribution to the community. You will be missed

[@Markart50]

Spot on Kevin. A critically important conversation.

[@erikmochrie1868]

She’s still got a shot. She seems intelligent and has a great smile. Cute accent too

[@Remember-Death]

100%. The more she spoke, the more attractive she became. Femininity is breathtaking to men.

[@joeskeptical4762]

The accent is invisible to a man in Jamaica.

[@xify1406]

@@joeskeptical4762 I'm Jamaican and I actually recognised it from she spoke

[@NebraskQUEa]

For sure. I like that she's actually listening too.

[@Wanderer25]

@@joeskeptical4762 Compared to the multicolor weave and raptor clawed hooligans from Spanish Town and Portmore, her accent and demeanor makes her stand out.

[@adnomo]

When I hire people I vet them, train them and give them examples. Once they are finalized in that position, I let them do the job. I don't micro-manage and I trust their judgement otherwise why give them the job if you don't trust their judgement. Ladies, before you marry, discuss your values, goals and directions. Ask questions about his goals, values and directions and if they are compatible, then trust his judgement, otherwise why give them the role as a husband if you don't trust them?

[@houseofhas9355]

Its really hard for them to do so because they come from mothers and aunts who openly in front of company question their husbands. its also taught to them thats its okay because, its shown on tv, books, movies and pop culture The idiot husband, Its a stereotype that has been planted. So I can see why they do it because to them all modern women in the west are shown an image of man that they can take charge of, that can double check and judge his intelligence on everything. To get a glimpses of this go to a grocery store and observe for a few hours or ask a grocery packer boy and he will tell you how wives treat their husbands. You will be shocked and dismayed. They seen it and over heard it all.

[@ramoeneg7874]

This is a beautiful successful women's checklist not that 70% that make 40gs or less or are mildly attractive. What about them.

[@arand4125]

@@houseofhas9355 you actually articulated it perfectly. I always say, "they are being poisoned." But l have never put it in context. From songs to commercials, men are shown to be morons. This phenomenon is not so amongst men. We aren't told that women are dumb or that we dont need women. Also, here is a great experiment. In your life, whether man or woman, you have seen a day where only men were building the world (construction, cops, firefighters, postal workers). You have never seen the reverse

[@jwarrior9986]

One reason is they are not really in a position of power there. They aren't the hiring manager, they are the job seekers. They control access to sex, men control access to relationships. A lot of them are trying to get a man who has no interest in them to marry them.

[@arand4125]

I was married. When my lady was in charge, we would crash and burn. And l mean joblessness and homelessness. When l was in charge, people thought we were rich. After 3 times of the above pattern, you would think she would say let him run the family. Nope. And this was in the 90s. Imagine what is going on in 2021

[@Gelexremix]

Lady from Jamaica. You are a good ambassador for BLACK women. Females of the world please take notes.

[@lawlade]

This is what a respectful, adult conversation looks like. KS tested her by saying "put your d@&k up". She was agreeable without agreeing, contemplative and still open to dialogue. My sisters.this is what FBI is. I thoroughly enjoyed and learned from this video. Thanks KS as usual and thank you to this beautiful lady and I pray you find all the things you are praying for♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@digitallhm8160]

She is not FBI. She was disagreeable the whole interview. Just because she was polite about it, doesn't make her any less disagreeable.

[@lawlade]

@@digitallhm8160 I think you missed the part where I mentioned that she was agreeable without agreeing with him? She's definitely FEMININE, BEAUTIFUL and INSPIRING. Maybe not for you but if you polled others I may be in the majority but then what do I know? 😅

[@mambofuego5101]

She has hit the wall and is passive aggressive… which is disagreeable… This woman would make a mans life imposible.

[@lawlade]

@@mambofuego5101 hmmm interesting. It's unfortunate you see things that way. Either way because she remained calm, listened more than she spoke, posed intelligent, concise questions this dialogue gave the audience a glimpse of what a discussion can be like between the two sexes that don't agree on some points. I learned a lot and my husband raved as well on a few points she made as well. That's the whole point in the first place you would agree?

[@mambofuego5101]

Lolly Johnson No. she was passive aggressive, continuously made facial gestures and was only cordial because she did not want to be cut off by KS. If a woman at her age has not figured out how to be submissive to a man, she never will.

[@mrro9688]

This was the most wonderful convo in a long time. Biggup yardies inna yaad & abroad 💪🏾✊🏾

[@gw6496]

She wants to learn

[@san-joshuabarrett]

Just start listen but you can just tell the yardi english inuh

[@MrCed0007]

Same suh ...goodie fat

[@kingwillie206]

I like this woman. She is highly intelligent, quick on her feet, and will have a difficult time finding a man she won’t outthink. Her issue is not wanting to follow a man of lesser intelligence, hence the intellectual stimulation comment. Perhaps a teacher or a man in the sciences would be sufficient.

[@WiFiPuppy]

Kevin! You have been an inspiration for me as a 45 year old white male... For the first time since my twenties I have put my own health, wealth and happiness First - before anything or anyone else! And I'm glad there is someone like you; to start pointing women in the right direction- weather they listen to you or not

[@robgoins3672]

Stay up king!

[@pierresandy3454]

This is the type of constructive conversation that builds up our community.

[@londonblues7070]

Ase'...this is a great conversation between grown folks, I can watch this all day..Kevin is on point with everything that he says women really have to listen not just watch clips and getting mad,become a member and do better..

[@joeskeptical4762]

*Any community.*

[@7reload777]

This was an absolute masterpiece. How people can judge this brother off a 4 minute “average at best snippet” is beyond me.

[@getrichordietrucking7873]

My thoughts exactly! This interview was well articulated with grace and patience

[@Opinions-galore24]

I so agree!

[@Epsilon514]

Because women listen to respond and not to comprehend

[@phearz0r]

truth bombs set off feelings bombs they cant cope

[@TheBENJAMIN1500]

A meaningful conversation , she is advanced, civil, and most importantly, she asked the right questions. The point here is to reason with statistics and create the needed awareness of how the society is evolving in a wrong direction with regards to relationships especially in the black communities . This will help a lot of people retrace their steps. A long walk to absolute freedom definitely comes with a price.

[@FLEETWOOD1017]

Couldn't have said it better...

[@okoo7385]

This is probably Kevin's single most valuable video.. It's majority of his best advice to men and women in one. Great questions by the young lady from 🇯🇲 ..

[@JediJide2]

The best interaction by a million mile. Maybe because she's not an "American".

[@aria4141]

in a lot of articles it says that it’s a cultural thing

[@domirican81]

Most women outside a Western country are this way. Get your passports fellas. 💯

[@rupertrobinson7085]

Lol Am Jamaican too and our ladies attitude use to be abundance yet somewhere in generations gap(social media)all went out

[@amilcarballantyne]

@@rupertrobinson7085 dat me a say bredda, doh know where this submissive thing the earlier commenter said came from

[@Jame6999]

@@aria4141 did you just say Jamaican women are submissive? 😆 You joking right?

[@CallHerDayli]

This was such a healthy dialogue! And so many gems!

[@lamarcurtis1582]

These are the women man look for to build their Kingdom with... Not all that LOUD masculine energy...

[@daphneytennard3267]

Agree

[@hopemckenzie3502]

As a Jamaican myself, we are willing to listen, before we speak. Worst we are not entitled to "anything"

[@teegrowl5186]

Can I marry u lol

[@melaninmonroeeee]

@@hopemckenzie3502 lies Lmaao

[@realityalwaysbulliesopinio1961]

That there is what a woman is supposed to look like, sound like, act like. That kind of feminine energy is what men are attracted to for marriage. Very genuine and best conversation yet.

[@ItsMeMissRuby]

Oh my GOSH this was good! She represented WELL!

[@toolate6971]

She represented herself, not the vast majority of ladies!

[@patrusso7278]

@@HolyRollerTV ... there's not many of them. Today..... the Norm is wacky women. 😆

[@josephbailey4463]

Let’s be honest, she was respectful and agreeable.

[@patrusso7278]

@@HolyRollerTV ..... most women don't respect men today...Any race. .. I had this 55 year old woman...outright cut me in line at Starbucks. I say excuse and Cut her off.... And then she said ... oh sorry. Alot of guys would let her get away with it..... Not me! The ENTITLEMENT of many women is off the charts.

[@macman9689]

@@josephbailey4463 reluctantly

[@gigcleveland9740]

It’s about duty . My grandparents were married 68 years . They had their issues but at the end of the day I miss my grandparents gneneration . They looked better dressed better had a certain dignity that’s missing today

[@DiaAkin]

I too, have been fortunate enough to watch my grandparents in action. They celebrated 71 years of marriage last year, and all things great moving forward, will add to that later on this year. I'm 42. Seeing their woes and how they worked through them for the sake of DUTY has been life changing for me. This is why I'm unmarried now and not even thinking remotely towards the idea of marriage. Nobody focuses on the duty anymore. It's all about "what I want". My most previous ex wanted me to marry her. Said she "absolutely loved that I was masculine and was the first man to show her what leadership was." But, she ALSO wanted me to be submissive to her. A "submissive alpha" is what she wanted. Something that makes no logical sense. There's no such thing as a "leader who follows."

[@enigma9971]

Indeed

[@msi8311]

Agreed

[@EHN2024]

I miss Big Mama 😪R.I.H November 24, 2013

[@raphaelmichaels135]

All the men wore suits and those too hats. Those days are gone now

[@samsungtv7924]

“Even the dog’s not dealing with ya’lls ass”…..😂😂😂😂this made me laugh

[@marquesscott110]

Lmao!

[@Wanderer25]

There was a recent study that showed an increase in pet depression. Pet medical insurance is now a multibilloin dollar industry. Women edge out men in pet ownership. These animals are literally getting sick of y'all projecting your traumas on them.

[@andreaa.1393]

@@Wanderer25 damn😳

[@Ysndeed]

Finally a woman who actually asked questions and took the time to get an answer and appreciated the response. I like the fact that she answered questions without trying to redirect...

[@macman9689]

@@ShaunHensley exactly. the subtle shots at black men. she was sly with it but realized KS was no joke and a savvy debater. her question were well crafted with that black men are to blame slant....especially the 'do you think blacl men are leaders today' shot

[@timothyprice9064]

This woman is a breath of fresh air. I got a feeling she will do just fine in her marriage.

[@cornellallen1681]

She's not an American. She definitely have a chance. She's willing to learn from mistakes. And she's willing to listen without over talking. Some sisters getting the knowledge. I met Jamaican women and they are soft spoken and not with the ghetto loud mouths.

[@kappadon3686]

Lol ha, u would be considered a foreigner so they will talk to you soft... listen to her talk to her fellow jamaican men and you'd be shocked... She was holding back on Kevin. I'm a jamaican living in jamaica

[@jracerichards]

That depends on the man. If that's your experience ,that's yours I won't negate that , that's not a lot of men .

[@TheBadGuy0987]

She's 37, that's a man.

[@carbonemtree]

LOL come to Toronto canada & you will see otherwise..

[@aldendiaz1165]

@@kappadon3686 how do you know her?

[@StatikFresh4]

Big Up Me Empress 🙏🏽 Feminine , humble , woman who was pleasant and didn’t deflect or argue , real true Jamaican Queen righh here

[@ybey7037]

This was a great conversation and dialog. The conversation was respectful and easy going. I love the vibe from this Jamaican women. Shout out to Jamaica!🇯🇲

[@bobbybeckford]

Same thing mi a say big up jam down 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@ridgerunner3364]

I have been to Jamaica and I really enjoyed being with the people there. I went on a mission and was blessed.

[@FHIPrincePeter]

The woman is a classic example of an average 6 in looks and a solid 10 in Personality and character. Most men would prefer her to any 10 in looks and 6 in personality. Love her Jamaican accent reminds me of home.

[@lmason3001]

The biggest problem is these conversations will never make sense to women dealing with bad men. One of my favorite lines from Kevin is "You pick felons and wife beaters"... now I don't mean to be insensitive but even I understood the woman's original argument in that conversation, her point was why would you be submissive and follow the direction of a poor human being... well why did you have kids with him? we have to do better as humans, character over personality love over lust.

[@lmason3001]

@LadyAmrita yeah exactly completely agreed !!! Like Kevin said intentional dating, figure out who the person is what they want, life is long but short work smart not hard 🖤

[@xlhits]

Great point

[@MrBronx61]

@LadyAmrita Yes, and it goes for men as well as women.

[@borntobewild7619]

One of the respectful conversation on his platforms. Am sure she knows who she was dealing with before she went on. However she demonstrates that a conversation can be without the combative and over talking behaviour. No bonnet, long fingernails, false hair, background suggest an educated woman with a purpose but is willing to listen to a man. Even addressing him as Mr. Samuels says a lot about her.

[@lifeissimple1019]

Richard I dont think she modified herself because of kevin. I think she has some points that she wanted to get his views on not to try and prove him wrong. Her energy was of let's have a discussion on these areas. See he stopped sometimes and let her put in her point because the was not a competition of whose idea is right. Kevin was even apologetic at times. This is a fine woman that shows that women can be so beautiful in their natural state. She represented the country well.

[@fabbeyonddadancer]

Natural hair too

[@borntobewild7619]

@@lifeissimple1019 The one reason why I pointed out the adjustment in how she spoke to Kevin is her question about having a conversation with a man who is on her intellectual level. Don't get me wrong she appear to be a nice woman. And I say appear because I don't know her like that. But a conversation with her couldn't be like a 3rd grader, you would have to come real good. That said, she represented herself well and I hope she continues to become a better version of herself.

[@HarlemWorld4eva]

She is not American so she is not as rude as an American woman would be

[@gokilokis]

Remembers : she is NOT from the USA... 😜😜😜😜🙌🏿😂😂😂😂

[@darrenclark9001]

Ive learned from my past relationships that whenever your woman say “your controlling !!!“ she starts sabotaging the relationship because in her mind she’s saying “ he thinks I’m gonna do what he says huh” he don’t have no control over me” so then instead of helping you with your plans she starts undermining your plans and you both end up no where and your struggle gets worse because of her foolish pride. So now whenever I get in a relationship with a woman and she says I’m controlling, I’m gone it’s over.

[@justChuka]

Boom!!! I love you man

[@rain0aldwaib]

in any group be it 2 or more there must be a controller other wise it will be chaotic group marriage is not an exception and the man should be in control for it to work right

[@kirbyaugustine761]

Yes sir. The constant push and pull dynamic of the relationship makes you feel like you’re moving and making progress but nothing ever comes to fruition, at least not on your part, because she’s working against your progress. It’s a complete waste of time and effort. Many times women like this know they are no good for you but are so petty and selfish that they’ll stay with you because they would rather see you destroyed than risk you being happy without them or with someone else. Just Jezebel Spirits I tell ya!!!!

[@sel560150]

That woman was asking questions to find ways to be disagreeable, she was just acting cool on the Kevin's show. But she is really not agreeable.

[@raphaelmichaels135]

I had to let a an ex go a couple of months ago just based off that .

[@colddeadhand7414]

Man, very rarely do I come across a conversation that I feel like it feed my soul. This was one of them. Great, respectful, and productive conversation! Kevin, we miss you brother!

[@kenardnorman4377]

In my opinion the best conversation I've seen in over a month. It's a very respectful conversation. I wish there were more ladies like this nice lady that called in and have such great conversation with Kevin. As a Jamaican myself, I think she represents us well.

[@beverlydukes7622]

you are reading her wrong. she is purporting being agreeable because she has seen how he attacks women who speak thier minds. she made some get points. especially the part about grandmother's telling the young women to get thier education. it was all need based. they smiled through their pain cause they had to. Kevin's grandmother may have been one of the lucky ones. but during our grandmothershe time alot of men were abusive.

[@kenardnorman4377]

@@beverlydukes7622 smh! I don't care about your opinion. What I say stands and will not change. Prove what you are saying, provide evidence to support what you are saying.

[@macman9689]

i hear she is a talk show host in Jamaica

[@kenardnorman4377]

@@macman9689 hmm, ok, now that you mention it, she does look familiar but if she really is, that's cool.

[@craiganthony9607]

I totally agree

[@carlaw.1896]

Best explanation I’ve heard so far. Appreciate the wisdom.

[@kevinkeeran7035]

This lady was no less beholden to the ideology that Kevin argues against, but she was the most sophisticated and civilized in her disagreement I have seen on the show to date. That winning smile - that's what a sophisticated defense mechanism to the ego looks like.

[@leonhenry4478]

Yeah and jamaicans are supposed to be loud and argumentative too. But she is workable for sure

[@Charles-mu9ji]

Wow. A beautiful and respectful woman. Asked her questions without being hateful.

[@derekchristophernordbye7710]

Mad love for ya, Kevin!!!! Keep up the great work, brother!!!!

[@ceeg0865]

I like the way Kevin breaks it down, and big ups to this lady to ask questions, and listen to learn… She’s already got the right spirit.

[@bobbykushington]

See how well behaved foreign non Americanized black women are? This exchange went very well and smooth.

[@KeefChief_]

It’s all fun and games till men moving out the US in numbers. Guys gonna be leaving the entire family just to find a women with her attitude.

[@IvorMorris]

Trust me we have those dysfunctional women here in the Caribbean by the large numbers but you won’t Gus’s that from one sensible woman. Truth is we still got work to do, traditional relationships and roles are still preferred here but that’s under attack currently.

[@Jewel296]

Behaved? Like a pet? Like a dog? Lmaooo do y’all hear yourselves??

[@daphneytennard3267]

Not all of them...remember their men will deal with them if they get to mouthy... they're culture has nothing to do with color of the skin...all women from abroad are more respectful to their men....all nationality.

[@atehnkemotoh6892]

African women are very feminine and cooperative and they are all black women. So you are correct

[@Riror9845]

This is the best KS video I have ever seen. The lady herself is also exemplary; she waits till he finishes and he returned the compliment. Great stuff Superman. RIP

[@justbe3713]

KS, I believe you’ve already saved “pre danger zone” relationships. My 24 yr old daughter and her friends are hearing you loud and clear. Well done , sir. However, citizens of No Man’s Land, it’s too late for them, they’ll be organizing dog rescues and voter registration for the DNC for the rest of their lives. 😂

[@tyronebrown5766]

All facts. No cap

[@dionhammond8700]

LMAO! 100%

[@jasonBGI]

The DNC can't save all these old heaux

[@IkeVictor]

😂

[@Sammieannliz25]

You're not right,!!!

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

She was very polite, but you could see the shook look beyond her smile when she realized KS could back up every point he made. She was extremely sweet overall though.

[@nakitapalmer656]

She was such a sweetheart!

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

@@nakitapalmer656 truly she was

[@bob11002009]

He’s so on point about the intellectual stimulation convo. We aren’t your friends. Yet my wife steady pulling me into play dates with her friends, but gets mad at me when I wanna hang with the homies. Can I get a AMEN!

[@sibusiso2841]

Can't let that happen man. Give em an inch and they take a mile. Stand your ground. She may not be happy about it but she'll respect it.

[@johnhildenbrand2642]

No, but I can give you a "Do better" You want a different result, try a different method, asking for sympathy because you are too afraid to refuse to do what you yourself have said is wrong is not an especially masculine behavior, your better than that.

[@MrLionLC]

Do u go to the playdates?

[@robertmcdaniel1791]

Their conversations don’t even be that deep for them to make it into a make or break.

[@sebastiaotingao4042]

Amen!!!

[@raymontyoungblood4453]

As someone who just got engaged--I'm so thankful for this message. The Alaska analogy was so impactful. I'm truly learning so much from these videos

[@smittybenzo4693]

KS is right about the dogs not even liking the women that own them 😁. I have seen my single female family members boss their little bitty dogs around and treat them like either babies or burdens which is why they ended up single in the first place.

[@SteelerY360Nation]

I have alot of parks where I live, and all I see is females with dogs. It's too funny!

[@MrTekKnowledge]

Bw and feminine BM have a firm need to control everything around them

[@chauntellmanley-parrish4709]

Women will tolerate a dog that licks its own butt more than a man who is simply human and imperfect. It’s sad.

[@grenadiadrian]

More often than not, they get these dogs to be the quadruped successor of their ex. They usually get male dogs and it's right around the time when the relationship is on its way out or after the breakup. All that bossing around they do to these pups (chihuahuas, terriers, other lap dogs, etc.) is them taking out their frustrations on said failed relationship.

[@julesfalcone]

@@grenadiadrian I see a homeless guy in Downtown Los Angeles sit on a skateboard and hold a leash while his dog pulls him up hills; (the dog looks happy.) I felt bad for the dog until I thought: "at least his owner isn't a woman."

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

First time commenting… this is thee BEST actual conversation on your platform and that’s because it acknowledges sour points while offering hope. What Kevin proposes as the solution is what I call Feminine Influence(tm) because “men are conditioned to obey women beginning with their mothers.” Cheers to the woman in the video who presented and represented well. 👏🏽 She gave what needed to be given. ❤️

[@JLynnDsMyoosik]

This is what having a conversation in good faith looks like, ladies. I would love to see this become the norm for the future callers. Great dialogue! 👍🏿

[@kobbyscratch5799]

Exactly

[@houseofhas9355]

exactly,listening to talk NOT listening to comprehend. Asking follow up questions is how real good faith conversations go. Its rare you see that with modern women. This was refreshing.

[@JLynnDsMyoosik]

@Ira Ben Yahuda For *all* callers.

[@JLynnDsMyoosik]

@@houseofhas9355 I agree. I’d say at least 90% of the callers aren’t even listening to him - even the ones that aren’t over talking him. They’re just waiting for him to finish speaking so that they can say their piece. I would love to see him require them to paraphrase what he just said before they can counter or deflect with another question. If they can, that’s a great indicator that they are actually listening to what he’s saying. I think it would prove that the overwhelming majority of the callers don’t understand what he’s saying or where he’s coming from. They’re just waiting to respond emotionally to the things he’s said that triggers them.

[@houseofhas9355]

@@JLynnDsMyoosik I do that with ppl now. Ask them to ask me a follow up question. Tells me if its worth continuing this conversation.

[@hawk0985]

1 of the best interviews I've watched. She was respectful,articulate and very feminine I love the way they conversed without him having to stop her from over talking him and we actually got to hear a full interview

[@jamnorge]

Adorable, beautiful, and natural jamaican sister. So proud of my people.

[@vicsmooth27]

The chemistry between him and the caller made for a great conversation. This rarely happens and it’s refreshing to see that there wasn’t much contention if any. It allows for a better reception from the audience imo. Solid dialogue and very informative. I would love to see her call in again. I definitely appreciate what Kevin is doing with his platform.

[@sethrocket1523]

I love this conversation. Her eyes say so much about the person she is (she actually reminds me of someone I adore). This is a very masculine and feminine interaction, and it brings peace and understanding.

[@daniellemcholder7116]

She was so graceful.. I loved this conversation between the two of them.. they were actually conversing...

[@thesefacts9864]

This one sums everything up so perfect. Best one he’s had in a while.

[@deecry8087]

Yep! I really enjoyed this one!

[@vivalaresistance2841]

Yeah. I hope it enlightened her and she make the effort to improve and develop

[@UBeesh10]

Shes got a great attitude. She actually listens.

[@DiaAkin]

I love when the non-American women call in. Their presentation DRASTICALLY shows the difference in culture. Notice how she was polite, respectful, allowed him to talk without trying to over talk him, and STILL remained in her feminine even when she disagreed. She ALSO was woman enough to admit the reality check on some of his points. THESE are the types of women men desire. Someone who's open and teachable. Take notes American ladies. I've been all around the world and the black women I encountered in those countries always ask me the same thing. "Are the American black women really like that?" Even THEY can't understand your behavior.

[@NazarofGod]

True. I'm an African woman living in Africa and I don't understand the behavior.

[@twoxee]

truth! I am an african man, born and raised; fairly travelled and i can tell you for certain, african american women in general are hardest to deal with.

[@jeffer168]

I was thinking the same thing: the main reason this woman has better manners and is more respectful is b/c she isn't American.

[@anthonydarlington1182]

man this woman was so refreshing. all we need is someone to LISTEN, understand, and act upon that knowledge.