CAN MY *NON HORSEY* BOYFRIEND RIDE A HORSE

It's that time of year, the time when Pete gets on a horse. Oh but this time we aren't messing around... Join us for Pete's first proper time riding a horse!
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[@vogelvrouw]

Petition for this to become a series!! Id actually love to see him take a few more lessons

[@CF123.]

Yeeesss

[@MaritvD]

Signed 😊

[@Pinkllama2]

this would be a hilarious series.!

[@AAmro-hf7bv]

@@Pinkllama2 a see

[@pinkyharris3560]

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeees

[@alisunwatson2913]

Love watching Pete learn how to ride! I would love a series of him learning to ride and eventually compete in like a low level dressage or something

[@elphick.event.ponies]

Think he might be tempted now 😂

[@MelanieWeber285]

AGREE WITH YOU!!!

[@MelanieWeber285]

@@elphick.event.ponies THE AMAZING YOU!!!! YOU ARE PERFECT AT HORSE RIDING!!! I LOVE YOU!!! MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU!!!

[@Buddy-nv6sz]

Can not wait for the first jump🎉

[@Esmai0605]

OMG YESSSS!!!

[@emilyplante1981]

“Gotta get these cheeks on camera” and “One for the mothers” I’m crying

[@elphick.event.ponies]

Right on the line of whether that's acceptable on this channel tbh 😂

[@sallyannefrancis8647]

@@elphick.event.ponies Ditto !!! So Funny !!! Get him some jods and some boots please !!! perhaps a back protector !! might make him braver !! + a little merch thing !!! He was Brilliant !!! and you could laugh not get frustrated with him all good all round !👍 Loved This Vlogg !!!!

[@serenkitchener7177]

I love this instructor, she’s so kind and patient and explains without patronising. It’s awesome to see! ❤

[@milesmorgan7938]

@@Timeisirrelevant because there are some very nasty trainers out there..are you purposely missing the point of their comment and turning it into something negative?

[@valerie5705]

​@@Timeisirrelevant i have cptsd that affects every moment of my life from being three years old with an instructor screaming in my face and abusing me.

[@TheNarnies]

The bit when Pete does sitting trot and says, " that hurts " and then we see Meg literally falling off her chair in fits of laughter, 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MaeveByTheWaves]

Hans reaction to hobbit saying “you didn’t ever want children right” has me crying I’m laughing so hard 😂

[@smithscullyx]

I love how involved he was! He listened so intently and asked so many questions. I could tell he wanted to get it right. Bless his heart.

[@annedaniel8169]

Meg, you have one in a million there. Congratulations to Pete for being brave enough to have his first lesson on video. Well done, Pete you were great.😀

[@shelaghhall5900]

I adore Spot and Pete together. Spot is perfect and Pete did amazingly well. How fast he picked up the rising trot as an adult was incredible. And everyone needs an instructor like her when they start :) Can't wait to see lesson 2!!

[@Olivia25.]

I used to ride here, shes so lovely and Spots really quite a tricky horse to ride but hes an angel when he knows he has to be aha

[@oscillatewildly666]

wow what a great instructor did pete have! that's how everyone's first lesson should be! :D

[@elphick.event.ponies]

She's amazing isn't she!

[@vogelvrouw]

Yes she was so good, I love how she explained everything

[@MSM_forever41]

@@elphick.event.ponies one of my trainers was so mean my sister said i was the most experienced in the group but my trainer saaid i was doing everything terribly and when another girl had the worst position ever my trainer said ''Beautiful!'' like my sis was watching and told me mine was great bt the trainer said it was horrible! When i cracked my nose open after a ad fall she yelled at me I was 8!

[@MrRossMcGeachy]

Pete believes in you so much

[@Olivia25.]

Used to ride here, shes so lovelt

[@rmfan2092]

"Like running with a beer"... stealing that for adult beginners! Great job, Pete! Such a good sport :)

[@sandywar5727]

Pete , what a keeper. I feel a series coming on.. Petes seat, how will he ride and how does he rate it ? What a legend .

[@freyachantal4571]

He was actually really good! I’ve seen adults take weeks worth of lessons to learn riding trot!

[@anniecampbell8554]

The adage that you shouldn’t learn to drive or ski from your closest loved ones applies to riding as well. Thank you Pete for being such a good sport and providing Meg’s regulars with some entertainment. We appreciate you!

[@margauxnodvin7478]

I’m 6 months late to this comment, and you’re probably right for the most part. However, I have taught several boyfriends how to ride, and they said they LOVED my lessons. They complimented me on explaining everything very well and being patient. I know one of them continued to ride even after we broke up. Not sure about the other one…. But the second one I taught was a natural! He was in his 50’s and had never been on a horse in his life, but he was VERY fit from running, skiing (both water and snow), and other physical activities. He also had wonderful natural balance and rhythm. He was able to post the trot perfectly during his first lesson (I had him on a lunge line for the trot work) without holding on to anything. He was able to post AND stay in balance enough to hold the reins properly without moving his hands/hanging on to the horse’s mouth for balance. I was QUITE impressed! In fact, I couldn’t make him admit that riding was difficult until I made him stay in two point during the trot for several minutes duration, while reminding him to keep his heels down, eyes up, etc. He FINALLY admitted that it was difficult to do all of that at the same time, and conceded that riding was physically taxing! 😂 I actually ended up teaching him to jump small cross rails. If we hadn’t broken up, I think he could have gone on to do some small shows. I guess whether or not you’re able to teach a loved one/partner to ride depends on your level of patience and ability to make the person you are teaching feel comfortable and praised for their accomplishments.

[@Paige0557]

Well done Pete. It isn’t easy with an audience taking the Mick let alone cameras watching. I think you did very well under the circumstances and Spot was a lovely boy. Just remember it’s easier with practice, I look forward to seeing the Spot Pete reunion

[@feichannel]

Paris 2024: Pete wins all the Golds 😉 🔮

[@elphick.event.ponies]

I can see it now 😘

[@elphick.event.ponies]

I'll be interviewing him in Pratoni next year won't I 😂

[@abiisawsomee]

Yes I see it💗💗🤣🤣

[@GooseEquine]

I can just see if now 🥹

[@karincartwright8752]

@@elphick.event.ponies what's the cut off for Pete to qualify for Badminton? ;)

[@caroleminvielle9554]

If I cast my mind back to the Dark Ages when I worked as an instructor, I can remember that most beginners do not get anything close to rising trot in the first lesson. Well done!

[@vogelvrouw]

I rode for years as a kid and then stopped in my teen days, my first lesson back when i was an adult the rising trot felt impossible, i knew what i had to do my body just couldn't, it was so weird to experience that feeling when you have ridden before

[@angelicaboman9889]

I’m honestly really impressed with how quickly he got the rising trot down! Obviously it’s not perfect yet but for his first time it’s incredible!!

[@ihay472]

I have been riding all my life and get so uncomfortable in front of strangers. I can not imagine how hard it must be to have a first lesson on camera! I hope Pete takes more lessons, not just for our sakes.

[@SuchAFolkebrant]

What a fantastic teacher. She is so patient, explains things so well, I'm really impressed. Teaching someone how to ride for the first time- BRUH. that can NOT be easy in the slightest. BIG KUDOS

[@Olivia25.]

Used to ride here, shes so lovely

[@my_appaloosa_dotty1216]

I love how she fully explained everything to him such a lovely instructor ❤

[@jemmaquinney4859]

It’s definitely so much harder learning to ride as an adult, this was impressive - well done Pete!

[@sea-fieldpony.4556]

I really hope Pete continues with his riding cos he’s sooo good, he basically got rising trot on his first day which is amazing!! Maybe we can see some boyfriend- girlfriend hacking and schooling vlogs…

[@sallyannefrancis8647]

Hope so !!! A bigger quiet horse coming our way ????? Vlogg wise !!!

[@sea-fieldpony.4556]

@@sallyannefrancis8647 exiting!!!

[@pixie706]

Pete did so well. We forget how complicated it all seemed at first . bet he was a bit achey next day

[@laylamatthews6302]

Spot and Pete are such a good combination. Also the instructor explained everything so well . Well done pete

[@sheblyne]

Lovely to see Pete bonding with Spot. It was a perfect first confidence building lesson with a wonderful instructor. I do hope he continues with them and gets grounded in the basics so he can at least join you on some hacking out. Fun to watch and Pete did tremendously well!

[@digitalpatternlibrary]

What a great sport Pete is! Any tips for convincing an unwilling boyfriend to participate in riding lessons? The dream would be to hack out together! 🤣 It's so lovely to see you share something that means so much to you with someone who means so much to you. Honestly Meg, he did so well with such a lovely soft approach to Spot, how gentle he was at 31:50 - Lots of potential, I'm excited to follow his journey as I've done yours!

[@sallyannefrancis8647]

Yes !! Like you I am excited to see Pete's journey!!! My Boyfriend Now hubby !!! for (39 years) (so far ) When i was pregnant he rode my horse for me ( 38 yrs ago) He was a natural and he would want to ride him all the time !!! After I gave birth we would thave to toss for who we would ride the pony or the horse !!🤣🤣😂😂 Beware how big the boyfriend is to how big your horse is !!🤣🤣😂😂 You may loose the horse to the boyfriend !! Unless you have 2 Horses !!🤣🤣😂😂

[@marialindell9874]

Key is that you can't force anybody to ride. Maybe let him pet some horses first or just give huggles. If he wants to ride, the great first time is just walking for the whole time. If that gets positive feedback, then continue on. Snacks and small amount of bribery is recommended.

[@kymharris269]

If he’s unwilling, ditch him and find one that rides (I married a jockey…)! 😅

[@vogelvrouw]

You could just try to go to a place that does hacks for inexperienced people, with the super nice calm horses just to see, if the guy doesn't want to try that then i guess just let those dreams die lmao

[@janisgriffith2919]

Pete is a keeper, for sure! A whole new dimension of your life together, riding in the countryside!!! The funniest parts to me where the heart beating, and “what do you say” ….“thank you Spot”. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@7890bee]

Awww! I think Pete actually was enjoying himself in the end. He has to keep the lessons up then you could go on those cool riding safari holidays together!

[@nicolajelley8439]

We nearly had an episode of Pete’s Squeaks when he first did the sitting trot and said it hurt🤪 he did a great job and his confidence grew throughout the lesson!

[@84Moori]

Yes, would 100% watch the reunion of Pete and Spot! Maybe a new series - Pete learns how to ride 👌🏻. Spot was such a gentleman 💗😍!

[@Olivia25.]

I used to ride here, hes such a good boy rbh

[@CeddieTeddie]

What an amazing instructor Pete had! She explained everything so clearly and was so positive, well done Pete you did amazing for you first time

[@abiequestrian9857]

The fact that this was my old riding school & i remember spot!! Peat is doing so well. Iona was my old instructor too, I miss her lessons cause they where so good & she was so patient! xx

[@Olivia25.]

Ioni was such a confidence booster when i used to ride here

[@danaeA13]

Well done, Pete! That instructor was amazing. I am just getting back into riding and learning to ride "properly." She made everything make so much sense, and I was enthralled.

[@savannahponyback6007]

we need a pete’s ponies series 🤣

[@nelly20120206]

Pete, you did such a good job! You got the hang of the rising trot really quickly and were so lovely and careful with Spot. Would love to see a series of you learning how to ride!

[@lisakovic5256]

Omg i love Pete and his sense of humour 😂 WE WANT TO SEE THE SPOT & PETE REUNION!!! 😍 he’s a bit of a natural your fella 🤩 and how good was his instructor, she is amazing

[@Wraftor]

Meg, hang on to this guy! I’ve been watching your channel for over a year now and Pete is a keeper. They don’t get any better than Pete. You tease him all the time and he is such a good sport about it. He obviously cares about you to get so deeply involved in the things you are passionate about. That is rare!! You are too cute together!!

[@delythturner744]

Bless him. The instructor is amazing ❤

[@apirateslifeforme4557]

Having a partner take interest, support, and participate in your life passion is something special for sure!

[@sundowner_eventing]

Omg I used to ride at this place and this video made me realise just how many happy memories I have of it. I started riding at Src when I was around 6 and left when I was around 13 years old because I got my own horse! This was about 2 years ago and I’ve gained so much experience since then. I learned so much from this place and made so many amazing friends. God I miss riding there but I wouldn’t change what I’ve got for the world. ❤❤

[@MaggieintheRain]

Pete did so good!! The instructor was amazing, so good at helping boost confidence and that's so important when you first start riding. Nice support team and a lovely horse!

[@allysmith2284]

This was SO wholesome! Pete is precious and must be protected at all costs!! Pete and Spot are adorable together 😊

[@fleetskipper1810]

Pete, that was brilliant for your first lesson. You learned an awful lot of different skills. It’s all muscle memory. Feels very awkward at first, but soon becomes second nature. 30 years ago, I got my then-boyfriend, now-husband, to try a lesson. After he got off, I asked if he wanted to do it again. He told me that he preferred his racing bike because he didn’t like transportation that had a mind of its own. I’ve never gotten him on a horse since. Even after we had a daughter who wanted to ride, he volunteered to do all horse-related activities, except for riding. So you’re well ahead of him! I know that it means a lot to Meg that you did it. Spot is a perfect size for you because you are so long-legged. I am envious of the length of your leg. Equestrians all want a long leg, but mine are short. Meg, loved this as part of Vlogmas!

[@elliepopdragon28]

Am I the only one who feels like a proud instructor? Comparing last years vlogmas video of Pete's first ride to this one is unreal! I could not believe how well he could post to the rhythm of the trot after only a few tries. Well done Pete!

[@LeanneWatersAuthor]

The door at the beginning 😂😂 Can we all just assume Pete is finally giving up the ghost and starting horse riding? And we can have a mini-series of his progression 😀 Great video Meg as always, can't wait for the next one! And well done Pete!

[@sallyannefrancis8647]

Oh !!! Yes !!!

[@tomowens9759]

Poor Pete lmao. His hands were shaking like a leaf when he first got on. Glad he got on alright!

[@lilly_eq]

I love these types of videos where you bully Pete 😂 vlogmas is my favourite time of year 🎉❤🎄

[@elphick.event.ponies]

Hahah our favourite kind 😂

[@syzygyfarm]

He's such a good sport! Well done, Pete! I've been teaching my eleven year old niece to ride and you'd give her a run for her money! I would love to see you comfortable enough, at least, to hack out with Meg. You're charismatic and clever. Love what you bring to the vlogs.

[@HorsesMore]

Aww well done Pete! Very brave for him to try this, he did very well! Brilliant!! Also the instructor is very good, clear instructions and great at explaing everything 🐴🐴

[@aliciacullen1901]

I love watching your videos! There’s never a dull moment on this channel😆 Say hi to all the horses for me😆❤️🐴

[@elphick.event.ponies]

Awh thank you! I will do 😍

[@suibixxn]

You inspire me to jump again! Thanks for all the fun and happy holidays 😊

[@janeminwell4395]

Very sporting of Pete to put himself up for this, and didn’t he do well! Great idea for a vlog Meg!

[@ThorbjrnPrytz]

Big credits to Pete for doing this!!! Clearly out of his comfort zone, but still a good sport!

[@alyssasmith5430]

this is going to be entertaining! i love your videos, you’re actually my favorite equine YTer because you’re so truthful with your audience ❤

[@abifinnis6608]

I am only half way through and crying with joy Pete is such a sport YES TO A SERIES OF PETE LEARNING TO RIDE id pay to watch that, he is so good and gentle as a rider, you have an amazing partner Meg, he is so involved with your business and invested in elphick ponies. Well done Pete 👏

[@cherylnicole9578]

I've only just discovered your channel, though I've ridden and trained horses for 30 years. This is so refreshing, and I absolutely love the brilliant instructors that you feature in your videos. These are some really talented teachers, and I know so many in my area who could benefit from watching your videos. Thank you for putting these videos out there, and I hope to see the next lesson in the series!

[@SophsPonies]

Can't wait t watch it! I love your channel and their so funny and entertaining!

[@adrianalawless9325]

This was such an amazing video! Great job Pete! Such a good sport! Loved every minute!😊🎉❤

[@algeebo]

He did so so well! It’s mad watching someone start when the little things become second nature after a few years. Loved this vid! ❤

[@souliotes]

Absolutely loved this! Pete was quite good and I can't wait to see his progression and confidence grow 😊

[@ronniesequinesiblings]

I got my cuppa tea and sat down and bloody enjoyed this!!! Well done Pete , so impressed and so glad you’re going to have another lesson yayyyyyyyyy

[@MeanttobeeventingToby]

Great vlog!!! Well done Pete!!! Looking forward to seeing his progress 🎉🎉🎉

[@thelifeofmeg739]

Watch out Meggy, Pete might be your greatest competition in Badders next year 👀💪 smashing the vlogmas as usual 😍🥰

[@jelphick4686]

Well done Pete 🤩 Can't wait for part two xx

[@kateflanders7611]

Thank you Pete for being brave. Enjoyed the lesson! Watching Meg ooze off the chair in laughter was the best.

[@TheMegahusky]

Pete and you are very well matched. And great instruction. Happy new year.

[@DS-ky9dl]

Gosh...Pete is such a good sport and he did great! This was another super video and I can't wait for the next one.

[@law7897]

Well done Pete. You did so well. The instructor was amazing and explained everything so well. Spot was lovely too xx

[@rutherose23]

I would love to see the next lesson! Go Pete! Well done!

[@meredithingram9384]

Great job Pete! It’s hard getting past those nerves, well done! And everyone struggles when they start to trot, you caught onto rising quickly😀

[@annabreumpedersen]

Honestly this video has saved my day. You did really really good Pete. Im so proud of you!

[@WJW-ng7vg]

Was super excited when I saw the name of this vlog! Always love it when Pete features, he’s such a great sport. Before I knew it I had already watched half of the vlog, what a great way to end the school week

[@pollyprice6961]

This is excellent. Well done Pete. Spot is gorgeous. I see a new series of vlogs coming Pete's riding lessons. Keep it up Pete.

[@philippabrickell3601]

Part two is needed you were awesome

[@hannaparker5434]

Legit need this as a series!! Pete you smashed it!!! Love to spot too! Lovely to see the energy and clarification of the instructor too! The passion is showing through. Brilliant vlog Meg 🥰

[@EmilyJM12]

This was SO good! Reminded me of my partner learning. Definitely do a series of Pete learning to ride! So good. Well done Pete!

[@debrabish1494]

Amazing !!!!! Such a sweet horse ! wonderful teacher and helper and Pete did wowee Kazowee well-he can post !!!!!!!!! Merry Christmas Deb

[@bill-eb3vi]

genuinely loved watching this if he does go for more we would all love to see him progress :)) also when you said his hands have you the ick i DIED

[@lorindalhotka2243]

just a couple days ago I saw the video of pete riding from last year and I hoped there would be a part two! Was so excited to watch this video!

[@sturdygirl7772]

Excellent job, Pete! 👍🏻 What a nice instructor and Alicia got a workout 💪🏻😀

[@RidingwithCharlotte]

The best idea of a vlog ever Meg😂 well done Pete, we’ll see you at Badders next year!👏🏻🦄

[@ErinChristine5]

Another great way to start my morning! I love Pete’s analogy of running with a beer 😂 I’m keeping that nugget for the next time I teach someone to post the trot

[@sallyannefrancis8647]

I thought that that is such a bloke thing !! maybe The Gin thing , 🤣 cocktail for the girls !!!😂🍹

[@fleetskipper1810]

Yep, the beer analogy perfectly describes how a rider is supposed to hold the reins. 😮

[@ashleybrady9366]

Awe, I loved this video! Pete and spot are adorable.

[@stellangios]

Well done, Pete!!! Epic job, that was so good. The flexibility and strength comes with time/work, and don't listen to any *ahem* experienced riders who seem to forget there are muscles that *only* get worked by riding, so no one who hasn't ridden before or hasn't in a while is going to be super strong with rising trot right away. I really hope we see more of Spot and Pete! Can't wait for the next vlogmas episode, too 😁

[@BoolilyT]

He actually got that pretty quickly!!! Go pete :) Loving this vlogmas series meg

[@emmarichardson7322]

Way to go Pete! You are a natural. Loving the 'bloopers' for the outro Meg.

[@awen6492]

Early!! Im very excited to watch this one looks very exciting!!! Im loving you're vlogmases so far x

[@elphick.event.ponies]

Awh yay, hope you like this one too!

[@livwrkna]

Can't wait for the vid meg as soon as I saw Pete on insta i was SO EXCITED loving vlogmas so far

[@elphick.event.ponies]

Awh yay, so glad you're enjoying it!

[@betsyabell8060]

i’m so excited to watch this video!!! i love all your videos sooo much!!! xxx

[@elphick.event.ponies]

Hope you enjoyyyy it

[@katherinestead708]

Oh Pete you did so well!! you picked it up so quickly and looked great! I hope you continue, you look like a natural!

[@claireeric8964]

Awww Meg your Pete was really good!! ..well done Pete!!! Keep going every week your a natrual x

[@jillfatucchi8264]

Hi Meg and Pete, really enjoyed this one, it was lovely to see Pete having a go and making a decent job of it too I might add. Cant wait to see the next lesson on Spot. As always lots of love Jill, Birmingham. U.K. XXXXXXXX

[@emilybamford7591]

This was such a fun video, glad that Pete enjoyed his lesson! Definitely agree that this should be a series, would be nice to see the progression with an adult rider from first ride to first canter jump dressage test or whatever Pete wants to do!

[@swansonganimalcommunicatio4207]

This was brilliant and what a lovely instructor and of course horse. Thank you all for making this xxx

[@annav3722]

What a cutie Spot is! And Pete did so well, can’t wait to see more of his riding journey!

[@dianehookham]

Awesome Peter! Loved it! Would love to watch more, then once he's confident going out on a ride with his girl.

[@pips3875]

You done so well Pete! Would really like series of this🎉 Rising trot isn’t the easiest but you absolutely smashed it on your first attempt ❤

[@candiceberkshire6760]

This was lovely! My husband just agreed to lessons, and I sent him a link to this as inspiration. Excellent job, Pete!

[@rosielee7308]

I RIDE THERE AND IVE RIDDEN SPOT TOO, HE IS SO SMOOTH AND I LOVE HIM, I HOPE YOU AND PETE HAD AN AMAZING TIME!!!