can they overcome childhood heartbreak? | tea for two

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@lovecommanectar
@lovecommanectar 9 ай бұрын
🥺 go on a date on my channel lovecommanectar.co/47KIu8J
@Priya-hi6mk
@Priya-hi6mk 9 ай бұрын
i feel so bad cod him
@nishantkk1177
@nishantkk1177 8 ай бұрын
Bro, when you felt disrespected you should have conveyed that in words. However, you leaving was not big deal it is part of growing together in relationship
@callmecynthiaa
@callmecynthiaa 8 ай бұрын
Can I date him? 🙋🏻‍♀️
@rebecavc2071
@rebecavc2071 7 ай бұрын
He was beginning to dissociate at @12:05 . You guys need to have a counsellor on set for things like these, it's extremely irresponsible to put people in such vulnerable situations without a trained professional to help manage when things go south. This is coming from a therapist myself. Please.
@rebecavc2071
@rebecavc2071 7 ай бұрын
Seriously. Any trained psychologist can tell. Look at his breathing pattern, his eye contact, body language, how his speech slowed down. Thankfully he was able to regulate himself and you guys intervened on time so things didn't get more serious, at least according to what was shown on camera. But the situation could've easily spiraled on set, or even at the end of filming when you guys weren't around. YOU. NEED. A. TRAINED. PROFESSIONAL. ON. SET.
@aniruddhbakshi2770
@aniruddhbakshi2770 9 ай бұрын
bro's face and demeanour totally changed after seeing her phone. He was ready to cry. Sad to see that shit ngl
@pikes-ten
@pikes-ten 9 ай бұрын
all hopes for the date had left this body at 10:22☠️
@30__
@30__ 9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bro was going through it
@mattdubs357
@mattdubs357 9 ай бұрын
She was playing him and laughing in his face, I'd be fuming
@snobel0
@snobel0 9 ай бұрын
You get that knot feeling in your throat. It’s brutal
@ibrahim_-_-_
@ibrahim_-_-_ 9 ай бұрын
fr man
@NamesNotRick679
@NamesNotRick679 8 ай бұрын
That big lump in your throat after you see or hear something you weren’t supposed to see/hear. That kind of pain can never really heal.
@entezami777
@entezami777 7 ай бұрын
She enjoyed his pain. The smile the body language. It was sicking to watch
@pagefault404
@pagefault404 7 ай бұрын
I've been cheated on so many times, that pain never does heal. There's no really about it. I think about shit from my first real relationship in high school and I STILL feel some kind of way about it, and that was over two decades ago. Recently (within the past 10 years) I was with someone who had a guy who was problematic and instead of dropping communication with him, she kept him around, then cheated on me but blamed it on some anonymous guy at her college, then I found her later on dating apps, then she ended up getting pregnant by him and saying the baby was mine but I had a vasectomy, so we moved to Florida to get away from him. When the twins were born, instead of going to the NICU to see them, she was emailing him about the twins birth, then later confessed that the very first time she cheated it was ACTUALLY this guy (the father of the twins) and then later I discovered a screenshot of a craigslist ad of her trying to find someone to impregnate her with my exact same build and features. None of that, or anything else, is ever going to heal. This guy, while this hurts, he's saved himself from so much more pain.
@StrikerEureka85
@StrikerEureka85 7 ай бұрын
it heals, but it can take a really long time. been there
@cristiano7ronaldo599
@cristiano7ronaldo599 7 ай бұрын
Cap, i moved on and i completely healed myself from it
@ViVi-mm7to
@ViVi-mm7to 7 ай бұрын
Saying you can’t heal is not true, there is just no schedule on the healing, it happens over time
@Sin_Full
@Sin_Full 6 ай бұрын
When your partner is sitting there deleting messages they don't want you to see, that's your cue to get up and leave. Forever.
@rlouie05
@rlouie05 4 ай бұрын
Trust is lost at that point. She's only 21 and has time, but assuming this is real and unscripted (doubtful), she can learn something from this instead of letting it define her.
@briancockerham4731
@briancockerham4731 4 ай бұрын
@@rlouie05 shes 21 and a 30000004
@D93-w5q
@D93-w5q 3 ай бұрын
​@rlouie05 Me and my ex Girlfriend are the same age. She is a week older than me. I met Her when we were both 21. She was a 304. I was such a stupid SIMP back then who was desperate. I am 31 now and I have long moved on from Her. I heard from one of my female friends who I ironically met via my ex (They aren't friends anymore) that She is even worse 10 years later and is now doing only fans. Once a 304, always a 304.
@rlouie05
@rlouie05 3 ай бұрын
@@D93-w5q At your age, I just messed around & nearly got hurt badly when just using girls for comfort. Only regrets in hindsight for some of us, but be thankful we have what we have now. Hope you didn’t lose much over your onlyfans ex-girlfriend, who must’ve been very hot enough at that time to get your attention. As long as you’re alive & not permanently scarred or traumatized by the ordeal, consider it a W.
@Bosston62
@Bosston62 2 ай бұрын
To see how hurt he was from what he did see, I can only imagine how much worse it would’ve been if he saw what she deleted.
@dot4515
@dot4515 6 ай бұрын
The guy will forever have trust issues just because of this short moment. He truly deserves better.
@skywizard3319
@skywizard3319 3 ай бұрын
facts
@jedensnow1084
@jedensnow1084 2 ай бұрын
He kind of allowed it to happen. In the beginning he literally said "where we stand right now is just friends". You can't allow ambiguity like this if you wanted a committed relationship. He never made sure they were on the same page. I think she's a red flag and is terrible for lying and deleting messages. But kinda allowed this whole thing to happen.
@TimMcKnight
@TimMcKnight 2 ай бұрын
Homie clearly has issues setting boundaries. This absolutely used to be me...lack of confidence and the belief that if I'm nice to you, you'll be nice to me. She is the best possible thing that could have happened to him if he plays it right in that, it could trigger him to start looking inward to understand why he's willing to put up with her nonsense (which probably comes from his lack of setting boundaries). Once he gets that sorted...it'll stop happening and he'll find someone he's suited to....or...he'll never learn and keep repeating the same thing over and over. Having been where he was, I hope the brother looks inward and finds a path that keeps him out of scenarios like this one.
@PHOENIX2001
@PHOENIX2001 2 ай бұрын
I can relate. I myself have severe trust issues, but I am also the type that wants the woman to prove me wrong that she can be the one
@Lilpapersthe1
@Lilpapersthe1 2 ай бұрын
Trust me I’ve been doing myself and trusting people is not easy because I know that look on his face and he’s definitely going through it and he’s probably going to be that guy that works hard and determined to succeed but will have trust issues further than a T while everyone around him will tell him to get over it or he needs to stay away from relationships or stop looking for love and be wanting to love himself even though he does love himself he just can’t trust those around Him. There’s a difference between wanting love and wanting trust that’s the thing that many people kind of get lost in translation where many guys are not looking for love we’re looking for a full on trust and comfortable relationship or a friendship or just companionship we’re looking for that thing that we may not have gotten when we were younger or not gotten in school or not gotten our neighborhood it’s just full circle.
@antonho2471
@antonho2471 8 ай бұрын
I applaud the way this guy is able to control his emotions. Bro got a thousand things running through his mind at once and he still kept his composure
@harry31619
@harry31619 7 ай бұрын
This is something that some of the redpill/alpha male community should do
@Views-rj3nw
@Views-rj3nw 7 ай бұрын
@@harry31619I thought that red pill was all about emotional composure and logical stoicism, despite knowing the truths about women’s behavior. That’s how i see it, at least.
@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713
@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713 7 ай бұрын
@@Views-rj3nwthat’s how the members of that community view themselves, and it’s what they like to preach, but it isn’t what they practice
@Views-rj3nw
@Views-rj3nw 7 ай бұрын
@@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713 Are you referring to the entire community as hypocrites?
@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713
@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713 7 ай бұрын
@@Views-rj3nw not the entire community, but rather the community as a whole. a majority of the influential figures in the community
@Gael_2722
@Gael_2722 9 ай бұрын
She’s a walking red flag. Trying to excuse her actions on technicalities yet lying to the other person about the status is hypocrisy at its finest. This is why “situationships” gotta go, they really just be excuses to play with the others feelings
@ibrahim_-_-_
@ibrahim_-_-_ 9 ай бұрын
shit’s haram for a reason 😂
@stantwice3629
@stantwice3629 9 ай бұрын
she’s pathetic like actually. girls like this will play in peoples faces when they clearly need more internal work.
@dieauferstehung
@dieauferstehung 9 ай бұрын
a 304 that runs back and forth ew
@Rudi_Mentary723
@Rudi_Mentary723 9 ай бұрын
Yup ....the streets it is ! Typical though. Not surprised. Pretty common among the so called modern women.
@FledgedPhoenix
@FledgedPhoenix 9 ай бұрын
Yup situationships and friends with benefits only benefit women because they have carte blanche to any guy possible. Guys are too desperate they'll date someone who is taken already.
@BootsandUtes
@BootsandUtes 9 ай бұрын
12:47 Props to the producer of this show for being sensitive enough to break when there was discomfort and checking with the two of them to see if they wanted to keep going.
@Josh-st6sx
@Josh-st6sx 9 ай бұрын
Yea but they should have ended it way sooner it was clear he was bothered and trying not to say anything
@electric336
@electric336 9 ай бұрын
I actually think they shouldn't have jumped in. They should have just let things happen naturally.
@timeoutdrew6491
@timeoutdrew6491 9 ай бұрын
facts. it seems like both times when he started to grill her (rightfully so) on the clear mixed signals she's giving him, they would call for a break or times up. he may have been asking a lot or too much but he had every right, seems like he was fine with being just friends and she comes back into his life with romantic feelings knowing he still feels the same way but with no true intent to pursue anything real. just controlling his feelings at that point. I would've let them keep going but clearly by the voice the producer was a female so of course she's gonna jump in to save a fellow "woman"
@johnmelbournejacinto6642
@johnmelbournejacinto6642 8 ай бұрын
They shouldn't worry about the woman
@ageebs5986
@ageebs5986 8 ай бұрын
Nah he should have got an answer to his questions. She shouldn’t have jumped in.
@Xen0gears515
@Xen0gears515 6 ай бұрын
This man dodged a bullet. He's a good looking guy and I'm sure he'll find someone better.
@TheShahkulu
@TheShahkulu 2 ай бұрын
Let's be honest, he is more attractive as a man than she is as a woman. Both physically and emotionally. The is a classic case of "you can do better".
@jakd2962
@jakd2962 2 ай бұрын
@@TheShahkuluit’s always below average women with the huge egos it’s crazy, I don’t know where this comes from.
@nevswain478
@nevswain478 2 ай бұрын
@@jakd2962 girl code, always telling them ''you slay kaaweeen'', no matter how mid AF they are.
@Lillydelwood
@Lillydelwood 2 ай бұрын
For sure. He looks very caring so he won't have any problem at finding a good partner . Just a little time to heal . And in ten years he will be happy... Not sûre about her tho😂
@goodbad-boy
@goodbad-boy 2 ай бұрын
agreed. he is more definitely more attractive than her.
@VicFix
@VicFix 7 ай бұрын
One look at this guy and you can tell he's sincere, serious, and nice. She KNEW she was leading him on just enough to efficiently use him for everything she can. I hope this follows her the rest of her life as if it were in her LinkedIn. Venomous woman.
@michaelscotthawthorn7871
@michaelscotthawthorn7871 7 ай бұрын
This is why body count matters. Never waste your time with a woman who sleeps around, they have no value.
@lesterdiamonds27
@lesterdiamonds27 7 ай бұрын
This is all women get over it!
@DingleberryCatto
@DingleberryCatto 7 ай бұрын
You can always accurately judge a person by one glance? Lmao. The woman is dirty but damn you sound corny as hell
@lucioaldair4401
@lucioaldair4401 6 ай бұрын
That explanation is very acurrate My guy got play broooo damnnnnn 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
@bibibarbeque
@bibibarbeque 6 ай бұрын
exactly
@매튜-r5v
@매튜-r5v 8 ай бұрын
I really hate this type of girl, like nothing can satisfy them they always want more. She even pulled the “situationship” card and completely invalidated my man’s feelings. He deserves better.
@danhewit
@danhewit 7 ай бұрын
She’s 21 and wait once she hitsw 25 -27 the 304 gna hit the wall
@AmbroseVermillion
@AmbroseVermillion 7 ай бұрын
Onlyfans and a bunch of cats waiting for her no doubt
@TrueRattlehead
@TrueRattlehead 7 ай бұрын
​@@danhewitand believe me she will be dming him 😂 I just hope he learned his lesson
@lesterdiamonds27
@lesterdiamonds27 7 ай бұрын
This type of girl? This is all women!!
@pol581
@pol581 7 ай бұрын
Fr lmao all fun n games ​@@danhewit
@marcelinolopez4015
@marcelinolopez4015 7 ай бұрын
She has no empathy, sympathy, no soul. I pray that this brother finds happiness whether by himself or with a special person in his life 🙏🏾💪🏾
@lucioaldair4401
@lucioaldair4401 6 ай бұрын
Factsssss
@mj_2times276
@mj_2times276 5 ай бұрын
A lil extra but yea she’s fucked up
@rlouie05
@rlouie05 4 ай бұрын
I’ll attribute this to immaturity/age more than either being anything, given dude admitted a fear of “losing control” too. She’s guilty of knowing he’s Mr. Substitute FWB given their history while she’s still trying to get an ex back. That lack of empathy when dude needed a moment was mostly her realizing he might not be as available anymore.
@jomangeee
@jomangeee 3 ай бұрын
emotional damage
@zubairkhan-wb5sy
@zubairkhan-wb5sy 2 ай бұрын
@@rlouie05Stop making excuses. I would have agreed with you if she showed remorse for her mistakes, but she didn't. Young people need to be shamed for making horrible moral choices, or you as a society enable more cheating (Which, to be honest, is what has happened in Western cultures)
@syfer.
@syfer. 5 ай бұрын
the fact that she's smiling while breaking his heart is crazy to me, she is genuinely such a red flag and he deserves so much better than a toxic, horrible person like her
@goodbad-boy
@goodbad-boy 2 ай бұрын
asian females are like that
@justinronald4227
@justinronald4227 Ай бұрын
​@goodbad-boy you don't know different types of human behaviour do you? It's nervousness. Google up why do people laugh or smile and you'll get a plethora of reasons. The fact you say Asian women are like that shows you lack intelligence and have a small disgust or hatred for Asian women.
@drawlord8935
@drawlord8935 Ай бұрын
@@goodbad-boy genuinely it might be like this bro
@mylesg7278
@mylesg7278 Ай бұрын
@@goodbad-boy Standard female behaviour, not exclusive.
@rlouie05
@rlouie05 12 күн бұрын
Some women regardless of background can be like her, except they are more or less vicious, though it seems that the woman here chose her victim due to his availability, meaning he wanted her in his life because he still wants her after their 1st/2nd go-around.
@JigglePhysicsX
@JigglePhysicsX 7 ай бұрын
I've been in this situation before. That moment when he lost his smile is when you lose all of your love for the other person. You just feel empty and you don't care anymore. He's gonna be ok in the future. One day he's gonna have that sigh of relief he dodged that bullet.
@mrpantur7280
@mrpantur7280 7 ай бұрын
yep. in a years time he will be like "why did i even like her im such an idiot" tbh atleast he learnt something. all us men need to learn the hardway at some point he was lucky like me and learnt when he was young. some men learn this stuff after 40+ years.
@confusedzentradi
@confusedzentradi 6 ай бұрын
He dodged the penicillin.
@civiccc
@civiccc 5 ай бұрын
Glad your ok bro
@Monty_cold
@Monty_cold 5 ай бұрын
That’s the look of him being over her already but he want to cry not in front of her.
@mrpantur7280
@mrpantur7280 5 ай бұрын
@@Monty_cold poor guy defiently cried himself to sleep and hopefully learned a life lesson about women.
@maya-uq5md
@maya-uq5md 9 ай бұрын
i don't know what happens with them but i liked how raw and unfiltered this was.
@regina6838
@regina6838 8 ай бұрын
Yeah I feel like I'm listening to someone's deepest emotions and I'm in the middle of a very personal conversation.
@Mo_blessed
@Mo_blessed 9 ай бұрын
Everyone’s saying he wanted to cry, But I felt like he wanted to snap. Especially after he shared he’s blown up before and it scared her. On the other hand home girl is playing him. Lol
@xcoxic3259
@xcoxic3259 9 ай бұрын
Thought the same
@Ookashay
@Ookashay 9 ай бұрын
I'd snap too getting humiliated like that on camera for millions to see by a girl he thought he loved is crazy.
@Zgryx
@Zgryx 9 ай бұрын
She for the streets
@TheZomboy11
@TheZomboy11 9 ай бұрын
She tried not to laugh at the situation so she seems to think this whole thing with him is a fun joke, man need to move on she is not worth it.
@30__
@30__ 9 ай бұрын
Bro reveled his true feeling just for her to play him this why you shouldn’t be vulnerable in front of girls do it with your bros instead
@JP1PROD
@JP1PROD 5 ай бұрын
This girl will never find love, she is beyond saving.
@danieldancer4065
@danieldancer4065 4 ай бұрын
some simp will get with her
@robint9803
@robint9803 3 ай бұрын
​@@danieldancer4065 Or a psychopath
@Mr.WhatzitTooya
@Mr.WhatzitTooya 3 ай бұрын
@@danieldancer4065 and that won't last long
@jessicatsao92
@jessicatsao92 2 ай бұрын
​@robint9803 She herself is a psychopath, so that's a perfect match. That's the only kind of guy she can truly, even remotely, "love".
@rlouie05
@rlouie05 12 күн бұрын
Got used by one of these types before, assuming I'll be "the one" in the end. Then you realize why she's in her situation to begin with and you get called endlessly as the men she's with suddenly disappear on her, again. It cost me a friendship I didn't value anyway as that former friend's home is also on thin ice of their own (in fact, that town they all live in is whacko), but let's digress.
@duckymomo6675
@duckymomo6675 9 ай бұрын
he’s talking about a toxic relationship he was in and she didn’t even make eye contact. that was the first question and it only went downhill. poor guy.
@peptobismol3949
@peptobismol3949 9 ай бұрын
Her mannerisms are just so awkward. She comes off like she doesn’t take anything seriously or have the capacity to act maturely
@johnjohn-mz4iu
@johnjohn-mz4iu 8 ай бұрын
@@peptobismol3949 because she is not real with him. it can cause her to be awkward. just look at her eye moment is shifting in all direction. you can even see her staring down sometime too. body language show so much
@JaceWD
@JaceWD 8 ай бұрын
becoz she knows she is also the toxic relationship. She knows dude got hurt before but she was also hurting him. so she couldnt look him into da eyes. big red flag indeed. he just didnt read it.
@Rheinebows
@Rheinebows 8 ай бұрын
She’s also not fully listening nor care much about what he’s saying. Bet she’s thinking about what she needs to answer while he’s talking.
@DannyPhanx
@DannyPhanx 3 ай бұрын
The light smiling like “no big deal” she did was pretty bad as well.
@fryeesaucee
@fryeesaucee 9 ай бұрын
his face after he went through her phone almost MADE ME CRY. he looked so sad...it hurt...i wish i could of given him THE BIGGEST hug after that...poor guy 😢
@exposed975
@exposed975 9 ай бұрын
Bro was angry asf 😂
@fryeesaucee
@fryeesaucee 9 ай бұрын
@@exposed975 true…at first I thought it was pure sadness but then after he started talking more I was like “he is FURIOUS” I thought he was going to lose his cool for sure
@imnotsurewhy
@imnotsurewhy 9 ай бұрын
@@fryeesauceeold him would've. He has said that he had a temper and had to change
@Rudi_Mentary723
@Rudi_Mentary723 9 ай бұрын
​@@imnotsurewhy He shouldn't have changed, atleast not in front of this kind of woman.
@khalilsstories
@khalilsstories 8 ай бұрын
@@exposed975nah deff sad
@Mathewnr1
@Mathewnr1 9 ай бұрын
I see different maturity levels, he's ready for something serious, she hasn't figured out yet what she wants. Not really a good match but it will hard as hell for Justin to get over her but I'm deffo sure he can. Best of luck budy
@tsubakikunn6163
@tsubakikunn6163 9 ай бұрын
I completely agree. He deserves someone with the same level of emotional sensitivity and consideration that he has. It’ll be hard for him to “let go of her” like he said but once he meets someone who can provide him with the reassurance and trust he needs he’ll be happier.
@johnmelbournejacinto6642
@johnmelbournejacinto6642 8 ай бұрын
Make girl bite the curb
@tate3248
@tate3248 8 ай бұрын
More like, she knows what she wants but her ex wouldn't provide, so she takes what she can because she met someone who actually liked her
@biswassimkhada1994
@biswassimkhada1994 8 ай бұрын
@@tate3248 thats so fucked up
@FalseShepherd
@FalseShepherd 8 ай бұрын
She's gonna be a single mom in the future with her attitude.
@tnm1697
@tnm1697 5 ай бұрын
11:59 the change in his eyes from how he was earlier is so real. Earlier you see light/emotion, and here he is totally blank. He’s putting aside all his hurt to get answers and showing some major coolhead tendencies which is so hard to do in these situations
@Mia15239
@Mia15239 3 ай бұрын
Of course he has to not look crazy he’s getting filmed. Not accurate representation of what happens behind closed doors. And she’s expressed that he was anger issues and she got scared. Not cool.
@Asan-nk1th
@Asan-nk1th 3 ай бұрын
​@@Mia15239She's for the streets.
@rogaken
@rogaken 2 ай бұрын
​@@Mia15239 sometimes people like her act scared when their partner is rightfully mad to avoid accountability. Trying to guilt trip them into saying "you're scaring me" so they don't have to hear the wrong that they did.
@Fitfreshfly
@Fitfreshfly 2 ай бұрын
​@@Mia15239hoes and their ability to avoid accountability. she belongs to the damn city 😂
@purplewine7362
@purplewine7362 2 ай бұрын
​@@Mia15239brink dleach
@Vexolyte
@Vexolyte 9 ай бұрын
Life tip: the love of your life wouldnt put you in a situationship. I know its hard, but lets be real about it
@AlzMarioWolfe
@AlzMarioWolfe 9 ай бұрын
TRUE
@minorperez5998
@minorperez5998 8 ай бұрын
Situationships aren't about love. They're about not being alone.
@mrdavman13
@mrdavman13 8 ай бұрын
@@minorperez5998ayo put that one on a shirt
@kiwigal9388
@kiwigal9388 8 ай бұрын
100% ... accurate ... I'd rather be alone then deal with bs
@elohellisreal
@elohellisreal 8 ай бұрын
You wouldn't know who it is until you're past the situationship stage.
@kmms4720
@kmms4720 9 ай бұрын
I feel like the phone thing needed to happen, for his sake. I’m glad he got his clarity
@GWALLAGWALLAGWALLA
@GWALLAGWALLAGWALLA 8 ай бұрын
That’s not sadness man that’s anger that’s just an unreal level of composure!
@DegenerateHour
@DegenerateHour 7 ай бұрын
I don't even think it's anger. Bro's perception of the world was just shattered and he needed a moment. 😭
@StrikerEureka85
@StrikerEureka85 7 ай бұрын
sadness and anger often go hand in hand
@AdoptedPoo
@AdoptedPoo 7 ай бұрын
@@DegenerateHour he got blackpilled
@sanhcman666
@sanhcman666 7 ай бұрын
Vulcan anger. Man, that reminds me the chapter of Archer and sobek arguing about finding the bombers. The vulcan was enraged AF.
@NurmaBP
@NurmaBP 4 ай бұрын
Well, that girl not only betray him, but also humiliating him. Being angry is justified.
@solbutton1611
@solbutton1611 5 ай бұрын
This is literally the kind of man I want. Emotionally intelligent, sensitive to other peoples’ emotions, gentle (and before any “Nice guy” comes in and says “nah , you don’t want a nice guy, you want jerks like every other girl.” Not every woman/girl is the same. I’m sorry that you go after the ones who are into other guys or that you attract the wrong girls. The guy here is a “Kind Guy.” Big difference) and this girl practically threw him away
@saitejadommeti3702
@saitejadommeti3702 5 ай бұрын
absolutely, this guy is kind and stoic but he isn't the nice guy as he said his previous relationship went down because he wasn't showing up authentically, putting the other on a pedestal, he learnt that and now is showing up for himself. He expressed his feelings and emotions too.
@animeruinedmylife9833
@animeruinedmylife9833 5 күн бұрын
are u dumb? this guy is "the kind of man you want" but is also literally the guy who went after a red flag girl that wants situationship jerks. good men fall victim to these gold diggers all the time. you have no idea what ur talking about.
@Hotpotckett
@Hotpotckett 9 ай бұрын
This man can find better in his life! Brother I hope you find someone who communicates to you on a open level that you did.
@rlouie05
@rlouie05 12 күн бұрын
As long as he learns from his mistakes, sure. Gotta give up that "fear of losing control" though.
@Padfoot333
@Padfoot333 9 ай бұрын
pulling that card was a blessing in disguise, saved your time bro, she just wants to have fun
@TrueRattlehead
@TrueRattlehead 7 ай бұрын
everybody is going to remember this and probably keep her in the "fun only" category
@ryanlak1234
@ryanlak1234 7 ай бұрын
@Candiosd I hope so- she honestly deserves it. Every man who wants to date her should watch this video.
@funkthat
@funkthat 7 ай бұрын
Well she found out he gay or just super feminine, so she dont mind losing him. "Ill duu-ett Ill du-etttt" with so much sass
@MrRojas54
@MrRojas54 7 ай бұрын
​@funkthat nah. Youre a troll.
@funkthat
@funkthat 7 ай бұрын
@@MrRojas54 you deny it so yah hes either feminine or gay and women dont like dat shiet
@ekoeko6994
@ekoeko6994 8 ай бұрын
She's keeping him as a backup once he moves on and gets a new gf she'll start to panic and try to win him over and in the end she'll still treat him as a "friend"
@donotSTrAYfromyourdesTINY
@donotSTrAYfromyourdesTINY 7 ай бұрын
If that happens, I sure hope he’s moved on by then
@funkthat
@funkthat 7 ай бұрын
hes a simp, she stood him up and apologized for getting mad at that. PUSSSeeeee ass boi thats why she walk all over you grow a pair
@lucioaldair4401
@lucioaldair4401 6 ай бұрын
Factsssss
@user-kc7fy5yr2s
@user-kc7fy5yr2s 2 ай бұрын
He has one of those faces that you can tell instantly that he has principles, he is honest and puts effort in what he does, including his relationships. On the other hand, she played him, lied to him, deceived him, so that she could get as much as she could. A decent good man, who god mistreated by a skunk.
@bunnystrasse
@bunnystrasse 2 ай бұрын
Wow damn bro
@bakr0x
@bakr0x 9 ай бұрын
bruh the amount of time she spent on her phone before letting him go through it is crazy, she probably even deleted worst than he saw. bro was definitely been led on Edit: Thanks for 775 likes, never had this much.
@deegee6184
@deegee6184 8 ай бұрын
Nah, I think she deleted all the nice messages about him to assert dominance.
@ncktyu
@ncktyu 8 ай бұрын
@@deegee6184😅😅😅😂
@jowyboi
@jowyboi 8 ай бұрын
She was 1000% sexting the other guy.
@TSCK412
@TSCK412 8 ай бұрын
Said the same shit .. she deleted the MOST important shit .. and let him see what she thought wouldn’t mean much.. she’s fucked up fr
@superrich8187
@superrich8187 8 ай бұрын
She wasn’t deleting message she definitely was deleted pics or videos of her spread eagle for Malibu Chad, Jersey Mike, or tyron future 🤷🏽 it is what it is
@tomtran5782
@tomtran5782 9 ай бұрын
11:06 the whole conversation changed from this point bro probably just felt like what’s the point
@Nkulie_Valencia
@Nkulie_Valencia 9 ай бұрын
Yho I felt it 😭
@narcs8805
@narcs8805 8 ай бұрын
Poor guy
@Oldpangolin
@Oldpangolin 7 ай бұрын
Yeah.
@alwaysbepositivebegrateful4057
@alwaysbepositivebegrateful4057 6 ай бұрын
He handled the situation like a real man. Control of his emotions, stay respectful and logical. Stoicism right there. The partner you choose is a relfection of your life standards. You dropped your 👑king. Take it and shine!
@Che-vn6vu
@Che-vn6vu 4 ай бұрын
You dude irk me with this stoicism thing, he a real man etc on the flip side i like Friedrich Nietzsche because he talks about the outdated concept of morality.
@Mia15239
@Mia15239 3 ай бұрын
He’s in front of strangers and in camera. Of course he’s going to stay composed.
@djaeger-k5m
@djaeger-k5m 2 ай бұрын
Dude gives off major soy boy energy… there’s a reason he got played and it’s his mindset
@positivedumpling739
@positivedumpling739 2 ай бұрын
@@djaeger-k5mshut up u sound so dumb rn bruh
@og666
@og666 2 ай бұрын
every single person in this thread (save maybe Mia) is a different kind of idiot. bravo!
@FriedSlice
@FriedSlice 3 ай бұрын
Man, she did not give a shit. Just crushed this guys heart with a smile.
@exposed975
@exposed975 9 ай бұрын
Damn when she deleted messages no wonder the guy was fucking pissed off
@ibrahim_-_-_
@ibrahim_-_-_ 9 ай бұрын
ong bruh 😂
@suavetony
@suavetony 9 ай бұрын
@@ibrahim_-_-_😂he was cooking
@ConfusedConure
@ConfusedConure 8 ай бұрын
He got so upset with the ones he read, imagine if he read the ones she frantically deleted…
@vsmith5949
@vsmith5949 8 ай бұрын
Those were nudes…😳😳😳
@superrich8187
@superrich8187 8 ай бұрын
She wasn’t deleting message she definitely was deleted pics or videos of her spread eagle for Malibu Chad, Jersey Mike, or tyron future 🤷🏽 it is what it is
@nicholastang1217
@nicholastang1217 9 ай бұрын
the vibe turned 180 at @10:15 Let me just summarise this "situationship". Guy likes her a lot and "respects" her boundaries and is ok being her "friend" .. Meanwhile the girl was talking to her ex potentially more dudes and uses "situationship" as a justification and basically says "Hey i like you but i dont like you a lot, meanwhile i am still talking to my ex and I enjoy the attention you are giving me. If things dont work out with my ex at least I still got you. " This is why situationships never work, i have yet to see they work. My man, have some self respect and cut this shit.
@ibrahim_-_-_
@ibrahim_-_-_ 9 ай бұрын
☕️ the thing is though, this is so common with modern women that there’d actually a term for it 💀 it’s called branch swinging or vine swinging they basically grab a new branch (man) without letting the old one go as not to “fall,” meaning lose both options, and once they have a tight enough grip on the second branch they let go of the first
@Switch_Comics
@Switch_Comics 8 ай бұрын
My ex smirked just like the girl in the video did when she broke me. She got caught texting the guy she told me not to worry about. She tried to justify it, just like this girl did in the video, by saying her and I weren’t technically exclusive when they started talking. A few years later a mutual friend of ours told me that her health was deteriorating due to GERD and she was released from the Med Tech program cause of her shaky hands. I’m only being honest here when I say this but hearing all of that gave so much cynical satisfaction.
@drsbrn
@drsbrn 8 ай бұрын
Went through this and she found someone new after, completely destroyed me over the course of the whole story, not sure if she’ll ever be back but Idk how I would react if she did
@wc3362
@wc3362 8 ай бұрын
You must mean monkey branching. It all roots from women's hypergamy. They are hardly satisfied which is why they initiate 80% of divorces
@avi_innit
@avi_innit 8 ай бұрын
​@@Switch_Comics man i know you were dealt wrong but the satisfaction you felt is poison , let it go , feel indifference not hatred . I hope you are doing well and achieve everything in life , there will be many who will hurt you but don't lose yourself dealing with them
@sponsje
@sponsje 7 ай бұрын
the fact that her IG isn't in the description but his is, lmao. smart decision
@nathanjarrelle
@nathanjarrelle 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 everybody would be roasting her that’s why 😂
@janushomer9111
@janushomer9111 7 ай бұрын
female former 304 producer wanted to protect her 304 comrade
@lucioaldair4401
@lucioaldair4401 6 ай бұрын
@@janushomer9111😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@lucioaldair4401
@lucioaldair4401 6 ай бұрын
Thats was bullshiiiii 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@elmota8011
@elmota8011 6 ай бұрын
@@janushomer9111foreal so disgusting.
@lemuelreyes1941
@lemuelreyes1941 6 ай бұрын
It's as if she enjoyed watching him devastated, how can you smile after that? She looks like she wanted to laugh out loud but was holding it back
@KuenGaTshering-h2u
@KuenGaTshering-h2u 5 ай бұрын
That smile was probably out of not knowing how to react out of confusion…
@VigueEnemy
@VigueEnemy 2 ай бұрын
he did say he hurt her maybe this is just her revenge lol
@angipaige
@angipaige 9 ай бұрын
his face broke my heart. Sometimes I forget that dating can look like this.
@johnchavez2260
@johnchavez2260 8 ай бұрын
She was just keeping bro on the side, real respect for this dude for going through with the interview and being strong
@AmbroseVermillion
@AmbroseVermillion 7 ай бұрын
She gonna be a drive thru in the future
@Bunny11344
@Bunny11344 7 ай бұрын
@@AmbroseVermillionshe already is
@lucioaldair4401
@lucioaldair4401 6 ай бұрын
Factsssss
@johnchavez2260
@johnchavez2260 6 ай бұрын
@@AmbroseVermillionshe gone miss having someone good buy her side that’s forsure bro was broken after what he saw he truely cares
@asiansandamericans
@asiansandamericans 8 ай бұрын
Okay a situationship is one thing but bringing him to a interview catered toward “couples” is psychotic
@alexgee3072
@alexgee3072 8 ай бұрын
Yeah dude. He needs to learn how to give the energy he's receiving. If she was talking to dude while they were dating I understand. But there's nothing official
@samd6119
@samd6119 8 ай бұрын
⁠​⁠​⁠@@alexgee3072 but the problem is that he did take a step back to see where her energy was at after she said she wanted to be friends. Then soon after she started to initiate conversations and wanting to hang out with him 1on1 and they even discussed plans to what to do for Valentine's day. She's giving both Justin and her ex mixed energy. In the video she says they should stay as friends, but then says it's a situationship, 'not explicitly stated,' but then also told her ex, "me and Justin are not a situationship"
@tubebejr1
@tubebejr1 8 ай бұрын
​@alexgee3072 hey buddy. I'm going to assume you are young. The reality is, even if they aren't dating, but are great friends and had a situationship and if you had respect towards your friend, you'd tell them "hey, by the way I'm talking to someone else and seeing them" out of Respect to a friend. You could even remove the word "friend" and say " respect to your fellow men". There is no way anyone can spin it and say what she did wasn't disrespectful and manipulative. She tried so hard to validate the deceit. I'll even add this fact that we can all go back to and watch. Over and over, if what she said is true and if she believed that they both knew it wasn't anything serious, "why would she delete what she delete"? . If what she said was true, you'd let them see what all has been said and done and then say "but we both agreed it wasn't serious". But she knew, she knew he wanted her and she jjst strung him along as a back up if the other person didn't happen.
@deficator750
@deficator750 7 ай бұрын
no she literally had a text saying "its NOT a situationshio" then she lies saying its not exclusive. shes an evil POS.
@deficator750
@deficator750 7 ай бұрын
@@alexgee3072She should be saying from the GET GO "i am seeing other people this is'nt exclusive! Just friends to see where we are" BUT she lead him on into that relationship couple thing thats why they are on a COUPLES SHOW!!
@andough9753
@andough9753 2 ай бұрын
King Justin will bounce back 💯!! He's an 8 in personality and looks. She's a 4 in both, and will keep declining. Didn't know she already bagged a prize, but now the world knows.
@4ii03
@4ii03 9 ай бұрын
She clearly knew how this was gonna go. She was deleting before she handed the phone over.
@omotayosatuyi252
@omotayosatuyi252 9 ай бұрын
Probably text between her and her ex about him we can only assume
@4ii03
@4ii03 9 ай бұрын
@omotayosatuyi252 true we can only assume
@realkiller0
@realkiller0 8 ай бұрын
@@omotayosatuyi252probable cause
@salma_Nella22
@salma_Nella22 8 ай бұрын
@@omotayosatuyi252I’m guessing sexy photos. He wouldn’t have been able to handle that
@omotayosatuyi252
@omotayosatuyi252 8 ай бұрын
@@salma_Nella22 that would've been awful if that was the guess
@calvinnguyen3717
@calvinnguyen3717 9 ай бұрын
DAMN the raw emotions in this episode got me out of my seat (literally). What a great episode! Hoping bro is able to move on cause it doesn’t seem like she’s as committed or interested as he is
@yeeticus7206
@yeeticus7206 8 ай бұрын
Lots of respect for that dude. A lot of composure, a lot of dignity. A developed man, dude will do well, I’m sure of it. She’s just a hurdle. She’s just less mature, not a bad person, just a naive narcissist, growing in popularity as the normal age people grow out of said behaviours is constantly increasing.
@AmbroseVermillion
@AmbroseVermillion 7 ай бұрын
She’s slowly heading towards becoming “bad” (basically Karadshian minded narcissist) but if she get her heart shattered maybe she can learn.
@rustyshackleford2469
@rustyshackleford2469 7 ай бұрын
Not a bad person? Cmon now buddy
@ShutterKnack
@ShutterKnack 7 ай бұрын
She's for the streets! She was smiling the whole time!
@Rainbow_Task_1A
@Rainbow_Task_1A 6 ай бұрын
She's bad. She's a low quality person for the streets that eventually will either marry a rich guy and later divorce him for the 50% or just end up alone if she misses the timing. The latter outcome is better for societal purposes.
@justlearning-ph6if
@justlearning-ph6if 5 ай бұрын
the fuck you mean not a bad person?
@LailaB25
@LailaB25 5 ай бұрын
My heart goes out for justin, i can't imagine how hurt he must be.
@kylesanders953
@kylesanders953 8 ай бұрын
Feel for my dude. His whole demeanor shifted immediately, you could see the internal struggle. We've all been there bro, I know exactly how he felt, mind racing, analyzing everything he thought he knew for the past however many weeks, its tough. Keep your head up man, do whats best for you.
@piapia28
@piapia28 9 ай бұрын
He’s so great at communicating and asking for her permission when revealing their past
@iimmortalldreams
@iimmortalldreams 9 ай бұрын
His first mistake was getting with a woman who uses the term situationship. In vast majority of cases it's cope. He'll learn. Most men will go through a real bad one like her.
@CoffeeMadeMeSay
@CoffeeMadeMeSay 8 ай бұрын
Some more than 2-3 (after honeymoon phase).
@AmbroseVermillion
@AmbroseVermillion 7 ай бұрын
This generation is so useless for using worthless terms like “situationship” “baby momma and daddy” Back then it used to be full relationship or bust no stupid Kardashian type drama
@CoffeeMadeMeSay
@CoffeeMadeMeSay 7 ай бұрын
@@AmbroseVermillionand don’t get me started with OF…it’s sad
@tobifx620
@tobifx620 10 күн бұрын
Get this man in a movie the facial expressions told a whole story with no words
@MrPimpthat06
@MrPimpthat06 8 ай бұрын
That relationship was over the moment he took a sip of that wine and she knew it
@Pumpkingamer69
@Pumpkingamer69 8 ай бұрын
Exactly. When he was putting down his glass you could see that flash of anger and disgust. Crazy
@kennedigriffin9495
@kennedigriffin9495 8 ай бұрын
They weren’t in a relationship this is what happens when guys don’t fully commit she said that they were in a situationship and he never made it clear that they were exclusive
@kennedigriffin9495
@kennedigriffin9495 8 ай бұрын
There is no loyalty in a unclear relationship
@bobbyfrank9859
@bobbyfrank9859 8 ай бұрын
@@kennedigriffin9495this is the comment of the lazy and dense. Everyone can tell what the other person wants in any dynamic. If you need “clear lines” so your ass doesn’t cheat or play around else where then you’re still a child lmao
@kennedigriffin9495
@kennedigriffin9495 8 ай бұрын
@@bobbyfrank9859 I feel like in this generation you have to make is clear bc the hook up culture is crazy and guys play around with women emotions all the time and proceed to not feel bad about it so I don’t feel bad for him he didn’t make it clear and she is a young woman who isn’t even married anyway that even if she was the one who brought up the situationship first he still agreed if he wanted a relationship fr he should of told her that bc nowadays there isn’t really real relationships if your a man then say what you want tf don’t agree to things you don’t agree with wtf they labeled it a situationship he agreed I’m not gonna be loyal to anyone in a situationship womp womp
@jxtyra6167
@jxtyra6167 9 ай бұрын
He’s so mature and I love the way he communicates and expresses himself. I know he’s going to be a good boyfriend and great husband to someone.
@fatesi1486
@fatesi1486 8 ай бұрын
Someone...
@arsq5020
@arsq5020 8 ай бұрын
Too bad thats not what women want
@DeeDee-se6vs
@DeeDee-se6vs 8 ай бұрын
@@arsq5020not true
@the-madvillain2636
@the-madvillain2636 7 ай бұрын
​@@DeeDee-se6vs it's kinda true honestly, he's a lot of women want to have but not keep long term
@DeeDee-se6vs
@DeeDee-se6vs 7 ай бұрын
@@the-madvillain2636 it’s not true because he said women don’t want a mature boyfriend/ husband. Majority of women do.
@biscuitninja
@biscuitninja 7 ай бұрын
She's being a technicality technician... She knew what he wanted. She was just kind of keeping him around until the next best thing came along. She just didn't want to admit she didn't eat anything wrong. Like most people in that situation, they don't want to admit that they did wrong and they'll deflect, gaslight and outright lie...
@wrx1th873
@wrx1th873 2 ай бұрын
Yeah but even in her technicality that she used was wrong. She said a situationship don't have clear boundaries, there is no full commitment, its not exclusive, etc her defining what a situationship is implies they had a situationship but the text clearly said they weren't in a situationship so what relationship did they have then? And the fact that he asked her "if it wasn't a situationship then what was it?" she couldn't answer the question says a lot about her and her "technicality".
@Schrockmeister73
@Schrockmeister73 5 ай бұрын
I know resentment when I see it, and buddy is WEARING his emotions on his face.
@mojojojo9128
@mojojojo9128 9 ай бұрын
The way he let himself fully feel his emotions and sit with them in the moment was so powerful ❤
@talkingtochapri
@talkingtochapri 8 ай бұрын
Women do it all the time 😂 and there's nothing about that
@mojojojo9128
@mojojojo9128 8 ай бұрын
@@talkingtochapri clearly not.
@bajsbrev4651
@bajsbrev4651 8 ай бұрын
@@talkingtochapri not even close
@samd6119
@samd6119 8 ай бұрын
⁠​⁠@@talkingtochaprino there is something special about it. Bc we're finally reaching a point as a society where it's ok for a guy to express himself emotionally instead of being told to not feel anything or keep it surpressed just because he's a dude. Don't be dismissing someone emotions because of their gender
@isvalami8527
@isvalami8527 7 ай бұрын
​@@talkingtochapriTry to dismiss his very good virtues by saying all women can do this is absolutely insane and a very weak try. In there you are not a victim, not all women are victims the guy is the victim and the girl is the abuser. Go and try to use the women victim card somewhere else it got declined here.
@tl5404
@tl5404 6 ай бұрын
Justin was so respectful, gently kind and calm, he deserves so much better. 😢 There are many bad guys out there, even abusive men, she didn't know a good one in front of her. Hope he'll meet a wonderful girl who will love him back and value him.
@ulama7828
@ulama7828 5 ай бұрын
No such thing
@rlouie05
@rlouie05 4 ай бұрын
He did express a fear of “losing control” then applied this fear to what happened moments before in that his supposedly girlfriend has her ex on speed dial.
@Wgz945
@Wgz945 4 ай бұрын
There aren’t a bunch of those men but there are bunch of women who get pregnant by men, later pinning the kid on the another man
@Slayer8957
@Slayer8957 3 ай бұрын
@@rlouie05 Wasnt about her having her ex's number. It was about her still talking to her ex, even talking about him, while at the same time messing with him.
@Macca-95
@Macca-95 2 ай бұрын
@@rlouie05 Funny way for you to say that she had lied to him that she wasn't communicating with her ex and that it was only the ex reaching out.
@vitast2000
@vitast2000 8 ай бұрын
This did him a favor. Now he knows for a fact where he stands. He can now fully move on.
@kevin_tang004
@kevin_tang004 5 ай бұрын
I'm in this same exact situation... this video helped give me clarity about my situation. I rather be alone than lied to constantly.
@grayscaled
@grayscaled 9 ай бұрын
She ain't the one homie, emotional maturity of a doorknob ik her type she just likes you around for the attention (especially true considering the fact she recently went through a breakup, she just coping with you lol)
@InfinitePawsShop
@InfinitePawsShop 9 ай бұрын
He deserves someone honest and more loving towards him. I hope he finds her…
@saitejadommeti3702
@saitejadommeti3702 5 ай бұрын
I hope someone kind, real and empathetic finds this gem of a guy :)
@NurmaBP
@NurmaBP 4 ай бұрын
Yeah it's not fair to him, she's mislead and gaslit him. Wasting everybody time. If you don't have 'feeling' to someone, you should be honest to them, don't give them false hope. I think she's the type of girl who fall for bad boys, she's attracting toxic dramas like a magnet. Creating ones if she get bored. But there were men, like him, who like the type of women like her. Hates her, but keep lingering around her.
@dudeisforfood0693
@dudeisforfood0693 8 ай бұрын
Bro's reaction when he found out hits deep for me. Emotional Maturity and to act accordingly despite his emotions being shown, this only shows how matured and understanding he is in that moment.
@Nkemjo
@Nkemjo 4 ай бұрын
Oh damn I know that feeling. It is when the perception you have of someone you thought you knew well is completely shattered. Makes you second guess everything you thought you knew about your ability to perceive reality.
@ANONYMOUS-vd8dy
@ANONYMOUS-vd8dy 3 ай бұрын
Yeah dude me also I'm unable to understand my feelings and emotion coz of the thing u mentioned above 1.5 years ago and that girl after 1 year texted me and it affected in a bad way and was a ble to see how manipulative she was in a way to get the attention I used to give ,and now I have a crush on a girl recently but my heart is paining like idk why but having a feeling of doubt that this will not work out even thought there is nothing rn between us we r just becoming friends or might be a gut feeling
@MasterOfMyDestiny
@MasterOfMyDestiny 7 ай бұрын
that girl just continues to smile through it all - that is just unbelievable..
@TheGhostOfTK
@TheGhostOfTK 8 ай бұрын
What makes me so angry, is the fact I've had conversations PAINFULLY similar to this one, and the girls all tend to react the same as this one, they act as if they're the victims in the situation and did nothing wrong
@deficator750
@deficator750 7 ай бұрын
They never ever take responsibility - "i was confused, its because of my last break up blah blah, he got the wrong message, exclusive, blah blah"
@adlerzwei
@adlerzwei 7 ай бұрын
Sociopaths 🤢
@adlerzwei
@adlerzwei 7 ай бұрын
@@Chuck9852 But lying is wrong though.
@williamsduran3232
@williamsduran3232 7 ай бұрын
We on the same boat brother.
@michaelscotthawthorn7871
@michaelscotthawthorn7871 7 ай бұрын
Normalize treating women the way they deserve. When a woman is disposable, feel free to treat her that way. Stop showing respect to women that don't deserve it.
@Zgryx
@Zgryx 9 ай бұрын
She just got out of a relationship and is still seeing her ex, but lied to him about it. He clearly wants her more than she wants him bc he reached out to her to reconnect. She’s still exploring her options and isn’t sure that he’s the one.
@user-ff9mb1ts4u
@user-ff9mb1ts4u 9 ай бұрын
how is he being played when they're not even in a relationship and they've made that clear from the start of the video. In fact he called them "just friends."
@Zgryx
@Zgryx 9 ай бұрын
@@user-ff9mb1ts4u She made it clear that they are just friends even tho he wants more. It’s fine if she wants to be ambiguous but he said she lied saying her ex was the only one reaching out. But they have been talking and likely seeing each other still. This would be ok as they’re not exclusive but he’s mad about the fact that she lied.
@HappyLarry.
@HappyLarry. 8 ай бұрын
You could literally just say "she's for the streets"
@FalseShepherd
@FalseShepherd 8 ай бұрын
​@@Zgryxthe fact that she took time to remove alot of messages goes to show she's the Red Flag honestly these type of woman deserve less for playing around with people's feelings instead of actually being mature. Look at her trying to just bounce around the subject and keeping him at arms length as a "choice." I feel for the dude he was waaaay out of this "womans" league.
@urgandma
@urgandma 7 ай бұрын
Her not being sure basically means he's definitely not the one. She's having a reeeeeeeeeeal good time out in the streets. 🎵girls just wanna have fun🎵
@lucasling5260
@lucasling5260 5 ай бұрын
"I know it hurt him alot" "I didn't know this was gonna happen" Damn girl , u being giddy surely got that "I know it hurt him a lot" feel across to him
@elisazouza
@elisazouza 9 ай бұрын
im so glad they gave him a 5 min break well done nectar
@edxdies
@edxdies 9 ай бұрын
Yeah I felt it when he said no the first time cause I was like he wants to be strong and stoic but it’s ok to not be ok and I assume nectar saw that and decide it for him which might as well be what he was hoping for, I know I would be
@StevenOyston
@StevenOyston 7 ай бұрын
This is a lesson a young man needs to learn far sooner in life.
@lezorn
@lezorn 7 ай бұрын
And what lesson is that? Wtf did he do wrong?
@ibechuu9695
@ibechuu9695 7 ай бұрын
That's not what he meant. It's a lesson to warn him that there are women that are capable of truly hurting you, and that lesson is better to learn much sooner than later in life. It goes both ways between genders, but yeah, the lesson he learned here will protect him from future situations like this. He will become successful and find a true woman way better than his so called "best female friend" here. ​@@lezorn
@fuhquelol
@fuhquelol 7 ай бұрын
Why just men? Women deal with this shit too..
@lizardlounge6476
@lizardlounge6476 7 ай бұрын
@@lezorn Not all lessons are learned because of personal shortcomings
@willclouded
@willclouded 7 ай бұрын
@@lezorn She's not yours it's just your turn.
@aliasheikh2957
@aliasheikh2957 9 ай бұрын
She's a red flag, a big one. She definitely deleted messages before handing her phone over to him. I felt so bad for him, he was clearly heart broken. I hope he is able to move on from her, cause she's just playing with him and his feelings.
@Freeflow32
@Freeflow32 8 ай бұрын
Pretty sure she deleted the messages from the random guys shes been seeing but still let him see the messages of her ex because that's what she couldn't get to in time. It seems like they weren't communicating a lot but just back and forth so it wasn't at the top of her messages.
@oreoakalaperoji8314
@oreoakalaperoji8314 8 ай бұрын
I wasn't thinking he hasn't even seen everything. This whole situation especially on camera is so tough
@speedythings7396
@speedythings7396 8 ай бұрын
He needs Andrew Tate
@Slayer8957
@Slayer8957 3 ай бұрын
@@Freeflow32 they were specifically supposed to look through texts with mentions of their name. meaning she searched through her phone for texts mentioning Justin and didnt delete everything in time.
@jessehernandez5392
@jessehernandez5392 Күн бұрын
Very impressed with this guy, the way he's able to articulate how he feels and his expectations are truly next level.
@billantono9311
@billantono9311 7 ай бұрын
Bro got hurt but in the long run he will be thankful
@17andhalfguns
@17andhalfguns 9 ай бұрын
One of the toughest life lessons ive ever had to learn was very similar to this guy's here. At the end of the day, it doesnt matter how pure, compassionate, and honest your love for someone may be, the other person is under no obligation at all to reciprocate those feelings. You cannot force your love on someone else and expect them to feel the same. From experience it sucks ass to get mixed signals from someone and to be led on. This is why its so important to communicate clearly from the very beginning. The girl is definitely more than manipulative and is likely only keeping him around for fun/a safe option but otherwise has no intention in getting into a committed relationship. I think some of the things she said may have been to spare his feelings in the moment and likely has next to no romantic interest in him. My guy, you're clearly looking for something more and i promise, the right person will immediately be on the same wavelength.
@briannamendoza7405
@briannamendoza7405 7 ай бұрын
“I didn’t know he was gonna react that way” - girlllll you knew he was because you hid it from him 😭😭😭
@zaccobb2819
@zaccobb2819 13 күн бұрын
Yep
@MFDoomguy21
@MFDoomguy21 5 ай бұрын
The lack of maturity on her part is ridiculous. I pray for his happiness, and for maturity & accountability on her part.
@Gurlhmong
@Gurlhmong 9 ай бұрын
Damn… now I know why the mom didn’t even say “hi” on FaceTime. She knew this girl is bad news. She didn’t seem upset that Justin was upset. She was kinda smirking after he became upset. He can do so much better!!!
@entezami777
@entezami777 7 ай бұрын
She’s a red flag
@07_Obi
@07_Obi 7 ай бұрын
It's just an awkward smile. She's not evil. Just immature and inconsiderate.
@entezami777
@entezami777 7 ай бұрын
@obi584 watch the whole video. It will change your tune
@07_Obi
@07_Obi 7 ай бұрын
@@entezami777 I did. She lacks emotional awareness, communication and shows signs of narcissism. That doesn't make her evil. I'm not defending her actions, but to imply she enjoyed causing the guy emotional pain is a step too far.
@entezami777
@entezami777 7 ай бұрын
@obi584 Don't narcissist enjoy inflecting some pain on others?
@Makzy_1
@Makzy_1 9 ай бұрын
Man do I wanna grab a drink with this guy. Such a good guy and was willing to spill his heart out for the wrong girl
@ibrahim_-_-_
@ibrahim_-_-_ 9 ай бұрын
same bruh, wanted to hug him
@aakashchand5041
@aakashchand5041 8 ай бұрын
True
@talkingtochapri
@talkingtochapri 8 ай бұрын
Good guy or desperate guy 😂
@fatesi1486
@fatesi1486 8 ай бұрын
​@@talkingtochaprigood guy. We all gotta learn
@samd6119
@samd6119 8 ай бұрын
@@talkingtochapriwell he's not the one still talking to their ex
@anesu_jambaya
@anesu_jambaya 9 ай бұрын
Let go dawg. She was wrong with not communicating how she felt about him, but i think gent just falls to hard and his heart stayed with her even when they ended the first time. End of the day love is a risk🤷🏾‍♂️
@30__
@30__ 9 ай бұрын
Bro was entering his Redpill arc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@devilishirv
@devilishirv 8 ай бұрын
well some of us have to be like that, unless you wanna be like her
@speedythings7396
@speedythings7396 8 ай бұрын
@@30__ Bro needs Andrew Tate
@kuzol5384
@kuzol5384 7 ай бұрын
It's good for him. He's learning.
@alonsonavarro3959
@alonsonavarro3959 3 ай бұрын
This show helped this man out. He doesn’t know it yet.
@sithlawd21
@sithlawd21 9 ай бұрын
She just lost a keeper 😢that’s so sad he deserves so much better he’s so mature and pure
@jeeeenipurr
@jeeeenipurr 8 ай бұрын
he got mad when he needed to look after her when she was sick idk that hes perfect either
@yomama69.
@yomama69. 8 ай бұрын
@@jeeeenipurrright if you truly care about the person it wouldn’t matter if they got sick, you’d be happy just being in their presence. By the way he acted he prob was driving out to spend the night with her and get some, and when he couldn’t he got mad. That’s what I took from it either way dudes a red flag too
@rltw2753
@rltw2753 8 ай бұрын
@@jeeeenipurrtf you making excuses for this trash of a girl
@speedythings7396
@speedythings7396 8 ай бұрын
Time for him to take the "Red Pill" And mfs wonder why "Andrew Tate" got famous
@speedythings7396
@speedythings7396 8 ай бұрын
@@jeeeenipurr Typical femoid gaslighting. Curse to human civilisation
@omaraly1042
@omaraly1042 9 ай бұрын
I feel like she doesn’t want to place that label of “friends” because she wants him around as an option in case things don’t work out with someone else, which is an awful position to be put in btw. But I wish them both the best either way
@puhtronproductions
@puhtronproductions 9 ай бұрын
Yupp
@J-tt1lu
@J-tt1lu 9 ай бұрын
He lost her the first time
@EdSuavePerez
@EdSuavePerez 7 ай бұрын
Naw she can go kick rocks 😂
@billycasimir1469
@billycasimir1469 7 ай бұрын
I hope he looks back at this one day with gratitude. These are the lessons a man in your life is supposed to teach you but at least now he probably will know better
@grogeru5195
@grogeru5195 Ай бұрын
I'm glad Justin received an opportunity to move forward and meet a person who would appreciates his feelings by coming to the shoot
@emmaphant02
@emmaphant02 9 ай бұрын
She forgot he was a human being not a toy for her main character arc
@Hazy_y
@Hazy_y 8 ай бұрын
She a main character? Hell naah she can't be that even of her own life. She'll always be a side chick fs.
@MSC_LFC
@MSC_LFC 8 ай бұрын
She looked like she got what she wanted. She was enjoying it.
@ciscom5036
@ciscom5036 8 ай бұрын
She’s somebody’s toy
@Bunny11344
@Bunny11344 7 ай бұрын
She ain’t even that cute
@emmaphant02
@emmaphant02 7 ай бұрын
@@Bunny11344 Hey, we don't shame exteriors here...
@bossdev-tb6we
@bossdev-tb6we 8 ай бұрын
i respect this guy, he is both nice and fearless, giving her no smile no play along type of shit... corners her in every answer she gives
@ShenellM
@ShenellM 8 ай бұрын
This!
@bossdev-tb6we
@bossdev-tb6we 8 ай бұрын
@@ShenellM your keybaord is broken or what ?
@hanmira
@hanmira 7 ай бұрын
@@bossdev-tb6weThe person is agreeing with you lmao
@tauhid9983
@tauhid9983 7 ай бұрын
I can't believe this woman kept a straight face when Justin was answering the questions about the last time he cried... HE FELT LED ON!
@dkoykoala1488
@dkoykoala1488 7 ай бұрын
Asian women are masters of leading you on.
@johnkeo358
@johnkeo358 2 ай бұрын
Probably because it's not the first time she's done this to someone 😅
@femiairboy94
@femiairboy94 Ай бұрын
Anyone who can see, learn from this. You will never know how much this hurts until you are put in the same situation. Never date or talk to a woman who just got out of a long term relationship. If you like her that much, give her time to heal from it alone, do not try to be a sponge. You will hate yourself later. If she’s truly yours, months down the line she will reach out, otherwise just walk away. I have been in such a situation and it was very difficult. Situationships are not something you want to deal with. Don’t complicate your life.
@BigM9834
@BigM9834 9 ай бұрын
“I didn’t know this was going to happen” = “i didn’t think I’d get caught”
@Dezzo0721
@Dezzo0721 9 ай бұрын
Props to him for taking everything that happened in this video with accountability and ownership
@simranthakur4562
@simranthakur4562 9 ай бұрын
Justin if you see this... Just wanna say she isn't reciprocating what you're giving her she literally said we're going on a date but then she says you guys aren't even a situationship she's in a stage where she doesn't really care about your emotions deleting the mesaages was wrong at least you should be able to confront the person but she couldn't I hope you get somebody who loves you just the way you'd love your significant other 💗
@Shaptacular
@Shaptacular 8 ай бұрын
Didn’t he hurt her first and that’s why they broke up? Horrible thing to reciprocate, but it’s reciprocity nonetheless.
@Bishlambo
@Bishlambo 5 ай бұрын
No matter what a girl does, there will still be people telling her “you go girl” and “queen” “slay” blah blah. This is why we have these toxic women who think they can get away with anything
@Sail17
@Sail17 7 ай бұрын
I dated a girl like this once. But she was much more attractive. They don’t understand what loyalty is and why it’s important. I believe you can’t really teach it to a person if they haven’t learned it by 18, unfortunately. My ex was 24. Moreover at that age, they learn how to fake what loyalty is. Always do your research even after you’re “official”. Every single date you are best served learning about each other. Good luck people, stay good
@Bunny11344
@Bunny11344 7 ай бұрын
I was telling my bf my coworker had been flirty with me or trying to talk to me every time he got. My bf didn’t think too much of it and thought maybe he’s just friendly. My coworker mentioned he had a wife and they were on vacation and I was happy for him but a few days later he mentioned him and I should go grab some food sometime after work and that’s when I cut off contact. Like that’s just weird.
@vickpanchal5559
@vickpanchal5559 6 ай бұрын
That or they know but don’t give a fuck because they only care about what brings them immediate pleasure. This girl keeps playing the “immigrant family” card but someone from a real immigrant family wouldn’t feel compelled to throw that info in your face as if they’re trynna prove something. She definitely grew up relatively privileged and has a delusional view of her life.
@tsukurutazaki7432
@tsukurutazaki7432 9 ай бұрын
I’m ngl this is exactly how men process hurt, anger, and sadness. Not necessarily bottle them up, but we are condemned for overtly expressing our emotions in an impulsive way. It’s not just one emotion he’s feeling. He’s feeling literally all of them all at once and feels the need to suppress it until he’s in private.
@prastarkumar6889
@prastarkumar6889 8 ай бұрын
If this was her instead of him. We would have seen all the emotions you mentioned right there in matter of seconds.
@occupytosavetheworld
@occupytosavetheworld 8 ай бұрын
That's literally suppressed because of toxic femininity
@sonyagatien2555
@sonyagatien2555 8 ай бұрын
everyone is condemned, definitely men and women. emotions are literally bad according to the patriarchy and it sucks
@No304sCunt
@No304sCunt 7 ай бұрын
Another woman trying to blame this on men, typical ​@@sonyagatien2555
@ziiiiiiii754
@ziiiiiiii754 7 ай бұрын
@@sonyagatien2555no it is not men and women. Women are literally taught to wear your heart on your sleeve. I’m not saying all women can, but most definitely are not afraid to show their emotion in a moment like this, unlike men
@icesohandsum8605
@icesohandsum8605 7 ай бұрын
I like the fact that the part that hurt Justin the most wasn't the fact that Diane was talking to her ex, it was the fact that she led him on and lied to him about the whole thing. Granted, Justin could've been more aware of what she was doing, but I don't blame him. Justin seems so sincere I feel like he actually believed Diane.
@adminavatar
@adminavatar 5 ай бұрын
Yea Justin was just a sucker for Her to suck on. No pun intended. And i'm not saying that to put down Justin in any way. He seems like genuine guy that's well put together. And he's thoughtful with the way he talks. So he deserves hella lot than this hell hole. GET HIM OUTTA HERE!!!! She denied, justified, made excuses several times and that's very disingenuous. Her demeanor really shows what kind of the person she is. On top of that, she doubled down with her words. THis woman is never to be trusted. I really hope he find peace in letting go and move on to someone else better.
@mapleandsteel
@mapleandsteel 4 күн бұрын
Somehow, love has been appropriated by some malicious force, and it has convinced many lost souls that the true pursuit of love is when one feels hopeless, tense, and depressed. Love should be enervating; it's hold on you, not a controlling, vice-like grip, but a bit like a warm hug. Remind yourself of this the next time you feel 'love'.
@leevang9087
@leevang9087 7 ай бұрын
I wanna give bro a hug. watching her smile is so disgusting not like she even care
@elisazouza
@elisazouza 9 ай бұрын
seeing him be upset and then having to carry on hurt my feelings tbh :(
@rltw2753
@rltw2753 8 ай бұрын
Hurt your feelings ? 🤣
@elisazouza
@elisazouza 8 ай бұрын
@@rltw2753 dont take it seriously lmaoooo
@Forit26
@Forit26 7 ай бұрын
@@rltw2753This brother just discovered *empathy*
@SSEi02
@SSEi02 7 ай бұрын
@@rltw2753 internet man is confused by the concept of empathy: news at 11
@joashedwards7206
@joashedwards7206 6 ай бұрын
​@@SSEi02women capable of empathy??? 😂😂😂
@gisellegutierrez1343
@gisellegutierrez1343 9 ай бұрын
Okay I’m always one to understand somebody’s pov in situations like these but what bothers me is the fact she took those seconds to delete stuff if she truly believed she didn’t understand the boundaries and was being mindful of his emotions she wouldn’t feel the need to delete anything bc there’s nothing to hide. She deleted because she knew what she was doing wasn’t right or was gonna hurt him.
@myyy3640
@myyy3640 5 ай бұрын
You can see when he makes the decision to stand up for himself and ask about the messages instead of just letting it go 😢
@hypealert4918
@hypealert4918 8 ай бұрын
DAMN,the way his smile faded away is just sad after he read the messages,feel bad for bro😢
@afarongordon
@afarongordon 8 ай бұрын
SOOO many good emotionally mature men go through this and these stories are rarely shared so bro I respect you for how you handled it.
@paigevanderholst2770
@paigevanderholst2770 7 ай бұрын
This man deserves the world. I hate when ppl take advantage of kind people and ruin them.
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