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@Priya-hi6mk9 ай бұрын
i feel so bad cod him
@nishantkk11778 ай бұрын
Bro, when you felt disrespected you should have conveyed that in words. However, you leaving was not big deal it is part of growing together in relationship
@callmecynthiaa8 ай бұрын
Can I date him? 🙋🏻♀️
@rebecavc20717 ай бұрын
He was beginning to dissociate at @12:05 . You guys need to have a counsellor on set for things like these, it's extremely irresponsible to put people in such vulnerable situations without a trained professional to help manage when things go south. This is coming from a therapist myself. Please.
@rebecavc20717 ай бұрын
Seriously. Any trained psychologist can tell. Look at his breathing pattern, his eye contact, body language, how his speech slowed down. Thankfully he was able to regulate himself and you guys intervened on time so things didn't get more serious, at least according to what was shown on camera. But the situation could've easily spiraled on set, or even at the end of filming when you guys weren't around. YOU. NEED. A. TRAINED. PROFESSIONAL. ON. SET.
@aniruddhbakshi27709 ай бұрын
bro's face and demeanour totally changed after seeing her phone. He was ready to cry. Sad to see that shit ngl
@pikes-ten9 ай бұрын
all hopes for the date had left this body at 10:22☠️
@30__9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bro was going through it
@mattdubs3579 ай бұрын
She was playing him and laughing in his face, I'd be fuming
@snobel09 ай бұрын
You get that knot feeling in your throat. It’s brutal
@ibrahim_-_-_9 ай бұрын
fr man
@NamesNotRick6798 ай бұрын
That big lump in your throat after you see or hear something you weren’t supposed to see/hear. That kind of pain can never really heal.
@entezami7777 ай бұрын
She enjoyed his pain. The smile the body language. It was sicking to watch
@pagefault4047 ай бұрын
I've been cheated on so many times, that pain never does heal. There's no really about it. I think about shit from my first real relationship in high school and I STILL feel some kind of way about it, and that was over two decades ago. Recently (within the past 10 years) I was with someone who had a guy who was problematic and instead of dropping communication with him, she kept him around, then cheated on me but blamed it on some anonymous guy at her college, then I found her later on dating apps, then she ended up getting pregnant by him and saying the baby was mine but I had a vasectomy, so we moved to Florida to get away from him. When the twins were born, instead of going to the NICU to see them, she was emailing him about the twins birth, then later confessed that the very first time she cheated it was ACTUALLY this guy (the father of the twins) and then later I discovered a screenshot of a craigslist ad of her trying to find someone to impregnate her with my exact same build and features. None of that, or anything else, is ever going to heal. This guy, while this hurts, he's saved himself from so much more pain.
@StrikerEureka857 ай бұрын
it heals, but it can take a really long time. been there
@cristiano7ronaldo5997 ай бұрын
Cap, i moved on and i completely healed myself from it
@ViVi-mm7to7 ай бұрын
Saying you can’t heal is not true, there is just no schedule on the healing, it happens over time
@Sin_Full6 ай бұрын
When your partner is sitting there deleting messages they don't want you to see, that's your cue to get up and leave. Forever.
@rlouie054 ай бұрын
Trust is lost at that point. She's only 21 and has time, but assuming this is real and unscripted (doubtful), she can learn something from this instead of letting it define her.
@briancockerham47314 ай бұрын
@@rlouie05 shes 21 and a 30000004
@D93-w5q3 ай бұрын
@rlouie05 Me and my ex Girlfriend are the same age. She is a week older than me. I met Her when we were both 21. She was a 304. I was such a stupid SIMP back then who was desperate. I am 31 now and I have long moved on from Her. I heard from one of my female friends who I ironically met via my ex (They aren't friends anymore) that She is even worse 10 years later and is now doing only fans. Once a 304, always a 304.
@rlouie053 ай бұрын
@@D93-w5q At your age, I just messed around & nearly got hurt badly when just using girls for comfort. Only regrets in hindsight for some of us, but be thankful we have what we have now. Hope you didn’t lose much over your onlyfans ex-girlfriend, who must’ve been very hot enough at that time to get your attention. As long as you’re alive & not permanently scarred or traumatized by the ordeal, consider it a W.
@Bosston622 ай бұрын
To see how hurt he was from what he did see, I can only imagine how much worse it would’ve been if he saw what she deleted.
@dot45156 ай бұрын
The guy will forever have trust issues just because of this short moment. He truly deserves better.
@skywizard33193 ай бұрын
facts
@jedensnow10842 ай бұрын
He kind of allowed it to happen. In the beginning he literally said "where we stand right now is just friends". You can't allow ambiguity like this if you wanted a committed relationship. He never made sure they were on the same page. I think she's a red flag and is terrible for lying and deleting messages. But kinda allowed this whole thing to happen.
@TimMcKnight2 ай бұрын
Homie clearly has issues setting boundaries. This absolutely used to be me...lack of confidence and the belief that if I'm nice to you, you'll be nice to me. She is the best possible thing that could have happened to him if he plays it right in that, it could trigger him to start looking inward to understand why he's willing to put up with her nonsense (which probably comes from his lack of setting boundaries). Once he gets that sorted...it'll stop happening and he'll find someone he's suited to....or...he'll never learn and keep repeating the same thing over and over. Having been where he was, I hope the brother looks inward and finds a path that keeps him out of scenarios like this one.
@PHOENIX20012 ай бұрын
I can relate. I myself have severe trust issues, but I am also the type that wants the woman to prove me wrong that she can be the one
@Lilpapersthe12 ай бұрын
Trust me I’ve been doing myself and trusting people is not easy because I know that look on his face and he’s definitely going through it and he’s probably going to be that guy that works hard and determined to succeed but will have trust issues further than a T while everyone around him will tell him to get over it or he needs to stay away from relationships or stop looking for love and be wanting to love himself even though he does love himself he just can’t trust those around Him. There’s a difference between wanting love and wanting trust that’s the thing that many people kind of get lost in translation where many guys are not looking for love we’re looking for a full on trust and comfortable relationship or a friendship or just companionship we’re looking for that thing that we may not have gotten when we were younger or not gotten in school or not gotten our neighborhood it’s just full circle.
@antonho24718 ай бұрын
I applaud the way this guy is able to control his emotions. Bro got a thousand things running through his mind at once and he still kept his composure
@harry316197 ай бұрын
This is something that some of the redpill/alpha male community should do
@Views-rj3nw7 ай бұрын
@@harry31619I thought that red pill was all about emotional composure and logical stoicism, despite knowing the truths about women’s behavior. That’s how i see it, at least.
@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi37137 ай бұрын
@@Views-rj3nwthat’s how the members of that community view themselves, and it’s what they like to preach, but it isn’t what they practice
@Views-rj3nw7 ай бұрын
@@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713 Are you referring to the entire community as hypocrites?
@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi37137 ай бұрын
@@Views-rj3nw not the entire community, but rather the community as a whole. a majority of the influential figures in the community
@Gael_27229 ай бұрын
She’s a walking red flag. Trying to excuse her actions on technicalities yet lying to the other person about the status is hypocrisy at its finest. This is why “situationships” gotta go, they really just be excuses to play with the others feelings
@ibrahim_-_-_9 ай бұрын
shit’s haram for a reason 😂
@stantwice36299 ай бұрын
she’s pathetic like actually. girls like this will play in peoples faces when they clearly need more internal work.
@dieauferstehung9 ай бұрын
a 304 that runs back and forth ew
@Rudi_Mentary7239 ай бұрын
Yup ....the streets it is ! Typical though. Not surprised. Pretty common among the so called modern women.
@FledgedPhoenix9 ай бұрын
Yup situationships and friends with benefits only benefit women because they have carte blanche to any guy possible. Guys are too desperate they'll date someone who is taken already.
@BootsandUtes9 ай бұрын
12:47 Props to the producer of this show for being sensitive enough to break when there was discomfort and checking with the two of them to see if they wanted to keep going.
@Josh-st6sx9 ай бұрын
Yea but they should have ended it way sooner it was clear he was bothered and trying not to say anything
@electric3369 ай бұрын
I actually think they shouldn't have jumped in. They should have just let things happen naturally.
@timeoutdrew64919 ай бұрын
facts. it seems like both times when he started to grill her (rightfully so) on the clear mixed signals she's giving him, they would call for a break or times up. he may have been asking a lot or too much but he had every right, seems like he was fine with being just friends and she comes back into his life with romantic feelings knowing he still feels the same way but with no true intent to pursue anything real. just controlling his feelings at that point. I would've let them keep going but clearly by the voice the producer was a female so of course she's gonna jump in to save a fellow "woman"
@johnmelbournejacinto66428 ай бұрын
They shouldn't worry about the woman
@ageebs59868 ай бұрын
Nah he should have got an answer to his questions. She shouldn’t have jumped in.
@Xen0gears5156 ай бұрын
This man dodged a bullet. He's a good looking guy and I'm sure he'll find someone better.
@TheShahkulu2 ай бұрын
Let's be honest, he is more attractive as a man than she is as a woman. Both physically and emotionally. The is a classic case of "you can do better".
@jakd29622 ай бұрын
@@TheShahkuluit’s always below average women with the huge egos it’s crazy, I don’t know where this comes from.
@nevswain4782 ай бұрын
@@jakd2962 girl code, always telling them ''you slay kaaweeen'', no matter how mid AF they are.
@Lillydelwood2 ай бұрын
For sure. He looks very caring so he won't have any problem at finding a good partner . Just a little time to heal . And in ten years he will be happy... Not sûre about her tho😂
@goodbad-boy2 ай бұрын
agreed. he is more definitely more attractive than her.
@VicFix7 ай бұрын
One look at this guy and you can tell he's sincere, serious, and nice. She KNEW she was leading him on just enough to efficiently use him for everything she can. I hope this follows her the rest of her life as if it were in her LinkedIn. Venomous woman.
@michaelscotthawthorn78717 ай бұрын
This is why body count matters. Never waste your time with a woman who sleeps around, they have no value.
@lesterdiamonds277 ай бұрын
This is all women get over it!
@DingleberryCatto7 ай бұрын
You can always accurately judge a person by one glance? Lmao. The woman is dirty but damn you sound corny as hell
@lucioaldair44016 ай бұрын
That explanation is very acurrate My guy got play broooo damnnnnn 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
@bibibarbeque6 ай бұрын
exactly
@매튜-r5v8 ай бұрын
I really hate this type of girl, like nothing can satisfy them they always want more. She even pulled the “situationship” card and completely invalidated my man’s feelings. He deserves better.
@danhewit7 ай бұрын
She’s 21 and wait once she hitsw 25 -27 the 304 gna hit the wall
@AmbroseVermillion7 ай бұрын
Onlyfans and a bunch of cats waiting for her no doubt
@TrueRattlehead7 ай бұрын
@@danhewitand believe me she will be dming him 😂 I just hope he learned his lesson
@lesterdiamonds277 ай бұрын
This type of girl? This is all women!!
@pol5817 ай бұрын
Fr lmao all fun n games @@danhewit
@marcelinolopez40157 ай бұрын
She has no empathy, sympathy, no soul. I pray that this brother finds happiness whether by himself or with a special person in his life 🙏🏾💪🏾
@lucioaldair44016 ай бұрын
Factsssss
@mj_2times2765 ай бұрын
A lil extra but yea she’s fucked up
@rlouie054 ай бұрын
I’ll attribute this to immaturity/age more than either being anything, given dude admitted a fear of “losing control” too. She’s guilty of knowing he’s Mr. Substitute FWB given their history while she’s still trying to get an ex back. That lack of empathy when dude needed a moment was mostly her realizing he might not be as available anymore.
@jomangeee3 ай бұрын
emotional damage
@zubairkhan-wb5sy2 ай бұрын
@@rlouie05Stop making excuses. I would have agreed with you if she showed remorse for her mistakes, but she didn't. Young people need to be shamed for making horrible moral choices, or you as a society enable more cheating (Which, to be honest, is what has happened in Western cultures)
@syfer.5 ай бұрын
the fact that she's smiling while breaking his heart is crazy to me, she is genuinely such a red flag and he deserves so much better than a toxic, horrible person like her
@goodbad-boy2 ай бұрын
asian females are like that
@justinronald4227Ай бұрын
@goodbad-boy you don't know different types of human behaviour do you? It's nervousness. Google up why do people laugh or smile and you'll get a plethora of reasons. The fact you say Asian women are like that shows you lack intelligence and have a small disgust or hatred for Asian women.
@drawlord8935Ай бұрын
@@goodbad-boy genuinely it might be like this bro
@mylesg7278Ай бұрын
@@goodbad-boy Standard female behaviour, not exclusive.
@rlouie0512 күн бұрын
Some women regardless of background can be like her, except they are more or less vicious, though it seems that the woman here chose her victim due to his availability, meaning he wanted her in his life because he still wants her after their 1st/2nd go-around.
@JigglePhysicsX7 ай бұрын
I've been in this situation before. That moment when he lost his smile is when you lose all of your love for the other person. You just feel empty and you don't care anymore. He's gonna be ok in the future. One day he's gonna have that sigh of relief he dodged that bullet.
@mrpantur72807 ай бұрын
yep. in a years time he will be like "why did i even like her im such an idiot" tbh atleast he learnt something. all us men need to learn the hardway at some point he was lucky like me and learnt when he was young. some men learn this stuff after 40+ years.
@confusedzentradi6 ай бұрын
He dodged the penicillin.
@civiccc5 ай бұрын
Glad your ok bro
@Monty_cold5 ай бұрын
That’s the look of him being over her already but he want to cry not in front of her.
@mrpantur72805 ай бұрын
@@Monty_cold poor guy defiently cried himself to sleep and hopefully learned a life lesson about women.
@maya-uq5md9 ай бұрын
i don't know what happens with them but i liked how raw and unfiltered this was.
@regina68388 ай бұрын
Yeah I feel like I'm listening to someone's deepest emotions and I'm in the middle of a very personal conversation.
@Mo_blessed9 ай бұрын
Everyone’s saying he wanted to cry, But I felt like he wanted to snap. Especially after he shared he’s blown up before and it scared her. On the other hand home girl is playing him. Lol
@xcoxic32599 ай бұрын
Thought the same
@Ookashay9 ай бұрын
I'd snap too getting humiliated like that on camera for millions to see by a girl he thought he loved is crazy.
@Zgryx9 ай бұрын
She for the streets
@TheZomboy119 ай бұрын
She tried not to laugh at the situation so she seems to think this whole thing with him is a fun joke, man need to move on she is not worth it.
@30__9 ай бұрын
Bro reveled his true feeling just for her to play him this why you shouldn’t be vulnerable in front of girls do it with your bros instead
@JP1PROD5 ай бұрын
This girl will never find love, she is beyond saving.
@danieldancer40654 ай бұрын
some simp will get with her
@robint98033 ай бұрын
@@danieldancer4065 Or a psychopath
@Mr.WhatzitTooya3 ай бұрын
@@danieldancer4065 and that won't last long
@jessicatsao922 ай бұрын
@robint9803 She herself is a psychopath, so that's a perfect match. That's the only kind of guy she can truly, even remotely, "love".
@rlouie0512 күн бұрын
Got used by one of these types before, assuming I'll be "the one" in the end. Then you realize why she's in her situation to begin with and you get called endlessly as the men she's with suddenly disappear on her, again. It cost me a friendship I didn't value anyway as that former friend's home is also on thin ice of their own (in fact, that town they all live in is whacko), but let's digress.
@duckymomo66759 ай бұрын
he’s talking about a toxic relationship he was in and she didn’t even make eye contact. that was the first question and it only went downhill. poor guy.
@peptobismol39499 ай бұрын
Her mannerisms are just so awkward. She comes off like she doesn’t take anything seriously or have the capacity to act maturely
@johnjohn-mz4iu8 ай бұрын
@@peptobismol3949 because she is not real with him. it can cause her to be awkward. just look at her eye moment is shifting in all direction. you can even see her staring down sometime too. body language show so much
@JaceWD8 ай бұрын
becoz she knows she is also the toxic relationship. She knows dude got hurt before but she was also hurting him. so she couldnt look him into da eyes. big red flag indeed. he just didnt read it.
@Rheinebows8 ай бұрын
She’s also not fully listening nor care much about what he’s saying. Bet she’s thinking about what she needs to answer while he’s talking.
@DannyPhanx3 ай бұрын
The light smiling like “no big deal” she did was pretty bad as well.
@fryeesaucee9 ай бұрын
his face after he went through her phone almost MADE ME CRY. he looked so sad...it hurt...i wish i could of given him THE BIGGEST hug after that...poor guy 😢
@exposed9759 ай бұрын
Bro was angry asf 😂
@fryeesaucee9 ай бұрын
@@exposed975 true…at first I thought it was pure sadness but then after he started talking more I was like “he is FURIOUS” I thought he was going to lose his cool for sure
@imnotsurewhy9 ай бұрын
@@fryeesauceeold him would've. He has said that he had a temper and had to change
@Rudi_Mentary7239 ай бұрын
@@imnotsurewhy He shouldn't have changed, atleast not in front of this kind of woman.
@khalilsstories8 ай бұрын
@@exposed975nah deff sad
@Mathewnr19 ай бұрын
I see different maturity levels, he's ready for something serious, she hasn't figured out yet what she wants. Not really a good match but it will hard as hell for Justin to get over her but I'm deffo sure he can. Best of luck budy
@tsubakikunn61639 ай бұрын
I completely agree. He deserves someone with the same level of emotional sensitivity and consideration that he has. It’ll be hard for him to “let go of her” like he said but once he meets someone who can provide him with the reassurance and trust he needs he’ll be happier.
@johnmelbournejacinto66428 ай бұрын
Make girl bite the curb
@tate32488 ай бұрын
More like, she knows what she wants but her ex wouldn't provide, so she takes what she can because she met someone who actually liked her
@biswassimkhada19948 ай бұрын
@@tate3248 thats so fucked up
@FalseShepherd8 ай бұрын
She's gonna be a single mom in the future with her attitude.
@tnm16975 ай бұрын
11:59 the change in his eyes from how he was earlier is so real. Earlier you see light/emotion, and here he is totally blank. He’s putting aside all his hurt to get answers and showing some major coolhead tendencies which is so hard to do in these situations
@Mia152393 ай бұрын
Of course he has to not look crazy he’s getting filmed. Not accurate representation of what happens behind closed doors. And she’s expressed that he was anger issues and she got scared. Not cool.
@Asan-nk1th3 ай бұрын
@@Mia15239She's for the streets.
@rogaken2 ай бұрын
@@Mia15239 sometimes people like her act scared when their partner is rightfully mad to avoid accountability. Trying to guilt trip them into saying "you're scaring me" so they don't have to hear the wrong that they did.
@Fitfreshfly2 ай бұрын
@@Mia15239hoes and their ability to avoid accountability. she belongs to the damn city 😂
@purplewine73622 ай бұрын
@@Mia15239brink dleach
@Vexolyte9 ай бұрын
Life tip: the love of your life wouldnt put you in a situationship. I know its hard, but lets be real about it
@AlzMarioWolfe9 ай бұрын
TRUE
@minorperez59988 ай бұрын
Situationships aren't about love. They're about not being alone.
@mrdavman138 ай бұрын
@@minorperez5998ayo put that one on a shirt
@kiwigal93888 ай бұрын
100% ... accurate ... I'd rather be alone then deal with bs
@elohellisreal8 ай бұрын
You wouldn't know who it is until you're past the situationship stage.
@kmms47209 ай бұрын
I feel like the phone thing needed to happen, for his sake. I’m glad he got his clarity
@GWALLAGWALLAGWALLA8 ай бұрын
That’s not sadness man that’s anger that’s just an unreal level of composure!
@DegenerateHour7 ай бұрын
I don't even think it's anger. Bro's perception of the world was just shattered and he needed a moment. 😭
@StrikerEureka857 ай бұрын
sadness and anger often go hand in hand
@AdoptedPoo7 ай бұрын
@@DegenerateHour he got blackpilled
@sanhcman6667 ай бұрын
Vulcan anger. Man, that reminds me the chapter of Archer and sobek arguing about finding the bombers. The vulcan was enraged AF.
@NurmaBP4 ай бұрын
Well, that girl not only betray him, but also humiliating him. Being angry is justified.
@solbutton16115 ай бұрын
This is literally the kind of man I want. Emotionally intelligent, sensitive to other peoples’ emotions, gentle (and before any “Nice guy” comes in and says “nah , you don’t want a nice guy, you want jerks like every other girl.” Not every woman/girl is the same. I’m sorry that you go after the ones who are into other guys or that you attract the wrong girls. The guy here is a “Kind Guy.” Big difference) and this girl practically threw him away
@saitejadommeti37025 ай бұрын
absolutely, this guy is kind and stoic but he isn't the nice guy as he said his previous relationship went down because he wasn't showing up authentically, putting the other on a pedestal, he learnt that and now is showing up for himself. He expressed his feelings and emotions too.
@animeruinedmylife98335 күн бұрын
are u dumb? this guy is "the kind of man you want" but is also literally the guy who went after a red flag girl that wants situationship jerks. good men fall victim to these gold diggers all the time. you have no idea what ur talking about.
@Hotpotckett9 ай бұрын
This man can find better in his life! Brother I hope you find someone who communicates to you on a open level that you did.
@rlouie0512 күн бұрын
As long as he learns from his mistakes, sure. Gotta give up that "fear of losing control" though.
@Padfoot3339 ай бұрын
pulling that card was a blessing in disguise, saved your time bro, she just wants to have fun
@TrueRattlehead7 ай бұрын
everybody is going to remember this and probably keep her in the "fun only" category
@ryanlak12347 ай бұрын
@Candiosd I hope so- she honestly deserves it. Every man who wants to date her should watch this video.
@funkthat7 ай бұрын
Well she found out he gay or just super feminine, so she dont mind losing him. "Ill duu-ett Ill du-etttt" with so much sass
@MrRojas547 ай бұрын
@funkthat nah. Youre a troll.
@funkthat7 ай бұрын
@@MrRojas54 you deny it so yah hes either feminine or gay and women dont like dat shiet
@ekoeko69948 ай бұрын
She's keeping him as a backup once he moves on and gets a new gf she'll start to panic and try to win him over and in the end she'll still treat him as a "friend"
@donotSTrAYfromyourdesTINY7 ай бұрын
If that happens, I sure hope he’s moved on by then
@funkthat7 ай бұрын
hes a simp, she stood him up and apologized for getting mad at that. PUSSSeeeee ass boi thats why she walk all over you grow a pair
@lucioaldair44016 ай бұрын
Factsssss
@user-kc7fy5yr2s2 ай бұрын
He has one of those faces that you can tell instantly that he has principles, he is honest and puts effort in what he does, including his relationships. On the other hand, she played him, lied to him, deceived him, so that she could get as much as she could. A decent good man, who god mistreated by a skunk.
@bunnystrasse2 ай бұрын
Wow damn bro
@bakr0x9 ай бұрын
bruh the amount of time she spent on her phone before letting him go through it is crazy, she probably even deleted worst than he saw. bro was definitely been led on Edit: Thanks for 775 likes, never had this much.
@deegee61848 ай бұрын
Nah, I think she deleted all the nice messages about him to assert dominance.
@ncktyu8 ай бұрын
@@deegee6184😅😅😅😂
@jowyboi8 ай бұрын
She was 1000% sexting the other guy.
@TSCK4128 ай бұрын
Said the same shit .. she deleted the MOST important shit .. and let him see what she thought wouldn’t mean much.. she’s fucked up fr
@superrich81878 ай бұрын
She wasn’t deleting message she definitely was deleted pics or videos of her spread eagle for Malibu Chad, Jersey Mike, or tyron future 🤷🏽 it is what it is
@tomtran57829 ай бұрын
11:06 the whole conversation changed from this point bro probably just felt like what’s the point
@Nkulie_Valencia9 ай бұрын
Yho I felt it 😭
@narcs88058 ай бұрын
Poor guy
@Oldpangolin7 ай бұрын
Yeah.
@alwaysbepositivebegrateful40576 ай бұрын
He handled the situation like a real man. Control of his emotions, stay respectful and logical. Stoicism right there. The partner you choose is a relfection of your life standards. You dropped your 👑king. Take it and shine!
@Che-vn6vu4 ай бұрын
You dude irk me with this stoicism thing, he a real man etc on the flip side i like Friedrich Nietzsche because he talks about the outdated concept of morality.
@Mia152393 ай бұрын
He’s in front of strangers and in camera. Of course he’s going to stay composed.
@djaeger-k5m2 ай бұрын
Dude gives off major soy boy energy… there’s a reason he got played and it’s his mindset
@positivedumpling7392 ай бұрын
@@djaeger-k5mshut up u sound so dumb rn bruh
@og6662 ай бұрын
every single person in this thread (save maybe Mia) is a different kind of idiot. bravo!
@FriedSlice3 ай бұрын
Man, she did not give a shit. Just crushed this guys heart with a smile.
@exposed9759 ай бұрын
Damn when she deleted messages no wonder the guy was fucking pissed off
@ibrahim_-_-_9 ай бұрын
ong bruh 😂
@suavetony9 ай бұрын
@@ibrahim_-_-_😂he was cooking
@ConfusedConure8 ай бұрын
He got so upset with the ones he read, imagine if he read the ones she frantically deleted…
@vsmith59498 ай бұрын
Those were nudes…😳😳😳
@superrich81878 ай бұрын
She wasn’t deleting message she definitely was deleted pics or videos of her spread eagle for Malibu Chad, Jersey Mike, or tyron future 🤷🏽 it is what it is
@nicholastang12179 ай бұрын
the vibe turned 180 at @10:15 Let me just summarise this "situationship". Guy likes her a lot and "respects" her boundaries and is ok being her "friend" .. Meanwhile the girl was talking to her ex potentially more dudes and uses "situationship" as a justification and basically says "Hey i like you but i dont like you a lot, meanwhile i am still talking to my ex and I enjoy the attention you are giving me. If things dont work out with my ex at least I still got you. " This is why situationships never work, i have yet to see they work. My man, have some self respect and cut this shit.
@ibrahim_-_-_9 ай бұрын
☕️ the thing is though, this is so common with modern women that there’d actually a term for it 💀 it’s called branch swinging or vine swinging they basically grab a new branch (man) without letting the old one go as not to “fall,” meaning lose both options, and once they have a tight enough grip on the second branch they let go of the first
@Switch_Comics8 ай бұрын
My ex smirked just like the girl in the video did when she broke me. She got caught texting the guy she told me not to worry about. She tried to justify it, just like this girl did in the video, by saying her and I weren’t technically exclusive when they started talking. A few years later a mutual friend of ours told me that her health was deteriorating due to GERD and she was released from the Med Tech program cause of her shaky hands. I’m only being honest here when I say this but hearing all of that gave so much cynical satisfaction.
@drsbrn8 ай бұрын
Went through this and she found someone new after, completely destroyed me over the course of the whole story, not sure if she’ll ever be back but Idk how I would react if she did
@wc33628 ай бұрын
You must mean monkey branching. It all roots from women's hypergamy. They are hardly satisfied which is why they initiate 80% of divorces
@avi_innit8 ай бұрын
@@Switch_Comics man i know you were dealt wrong but the satisfaction you felt is poison , let it go , feel indifference not hatred . I hope you are doing well and achieve everything in life , there will be many who will hurt you but don't lose yourself dealing with them
@sponsje7 ай бұрын
the fact that her IG isn't in the description but his is, lmao. smart decision
@nathanjarrelle7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 everybody would be roasting her that’s why 😂
@janushomer91117 ай бұрын
female former 304 producer wanted to protect her 304 comrade
@lucioaldair44016 ай бұрын
@@janushomer9111😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@lucioaldair44016 ай бұрын
Thats was bullshiiiii 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@elmota80116 ай бұрын
@@janushomer9111foreal so disgusting.
@lemuelreyes19416 ай бұрын
It's as if she enjoyed watching him devastated, how can you smile after that? She looks like she wanted to laugh out loud but was holding it back
@KuenGaTshering-h2u5 ай бұрын
That smile was probably out of not knowing how to react out of confusion…
@VigueEnemy2 ай бұрын
he did say he hurt her maybe this is just her revenge lol
@angipaige9 ай бұрын
his face broke my heart. Sometimes I forget that dating can look like this.
@johnchavez22608 ай бұрын
She was just keeping bro on the side, real respect for this dude for going through with the interview and being strong
@AmbroseVermillion7 ай бұрын
She gonna be a drive thru in the future
@Bunny113447 ай бұрын
@@AmbroseVermillionshe already is
@lucioaldair44016 ай бұрын
Factsssss
@johnchavez22606 ай бұрын
@@AmbroseVermillionshe gone miss having someone good buy her side that’s forsure bro was broken after what he saw he truely cares
@asiansandamericans8 ай бұрын
Okay a situationship is one thing but bringing him to a interview catered toward “couples” is psychotic
@alexgee30728 ай бұрын
Yeah dude. He needs to learn how to give the energy he's receiving. If she was talking to dude while they were dating I understand. But there's nothing official
@samd61198 ай бұрын
@@alexgee3072 but the problem is that he did take a step back to see where her energy was at after she said she wanted to be friends. Then soon after she started to initiate conversations and wanting to hang out with him 1on1 and they even discussed plans to what to do for Valentine's day. She's giving both Justin and her ex mixed energy. In the video she says they should stay as friends, but then says it's a situationship, 'not explicitly stated,' but then also told her ex, "me and Justin are not a situationship"
@tubebejr18 ай бұрын
@alexgee3072 hey buddy. I'm going to assume you are young. The reality is, even if they aren't dating, but are great friends and had a situationship and if you had respect towards your friend, you'd tell them "hey, by the way I'm talking to someone else and seeing them" out of Respect to a friend. You could even remove the word "friend" and say " respect to your fellow men". There is no way anyone can spin it and say what she did wasn't disrespectful and manipulative. She tried so hard to validate the deceit. I'll even add this fact that we can all go back to and watch. Over and over, if what she said is true and if she believed that they both knew it wasn't anything serious, "why would she delete what she delete"? . If what she said was true, you'd let them see what all has been said and done and then say "but we both agreed it wasn't serious". But she knew, she knew he wanted her and she jjst strung him along as a back up if the other person didn't happen.
@deficator7507 ай бұрын
no she literally had a text saying "its NOT a situationshio" then she lies saying its not exclusive. shes an evil POS.
@deficator7507 ай бұрын
@@alexgee3072She should be saying from the GET GO "i am seeing other people this is'nt exclusive! Just friends to see where we are" BUT she lead him on into that relationship couple thing thats why they are on a COUPLES SHOW!!
@andough97532 ай бұрын
King Justin will bounce back 💯!! He's an 8 in personality and looks. She's a 4 in both, and will keep declining. Didn't know she already bagged a prize, but now the world knows.
@4ii039 ай бұрын
She clearly knew how this was gonna go. She was deleting before she handed the phone over.
@omotayosatuyi2529 ай бұрын
Probably text between her and her ex about him we can only assume
@4ii039 ай бұрын
@omotayosatuyi252 true we can only assume
@realkiller08 ай бұрын
@@omotayosatuyi252probable cause
@salma_Nella228 ай бұрын
@@omotayosatuyi252I’m guessing sexy photos. He wouldn’t have been able to handle that
@omotayosatuyi2528 ай бұрын
@@salma_Nella22 that would've been awful if that was the guess
@calvinnguyen37179 ай бұрын
DAMN the raw emotions in this episode got me out of my seat (literally). What a great episode! Hoping bro is able to move on cause it doesn’t seem like she’s as committed or interested as he is
@yeeticus72068 ай бұрын
Lots of respect for that dude. A lot of composure, a lot of dignity. A developed man, dude will do well, I’m sure of it. She’s just a hurdle. She’s just less mature, not a bad person, just a naive narcissist, growing in popularity as the normal age people grow out of said behaviours is constantly increasing.
@AmbroseVermillion7 ай бұрын
She’s slowly heading towards becoming “bad” (basically Karadshian minded narcissist) but if she get her heart shattered maybe she can learn.
@rustyshackleford24697 ай бұрын
Not a bad person? Cmon now buddy
@ShutterKnack7 ай бұрын
She's for the streets! She was smiling the whole time!
@Rainbow_Task_1A6 ай бұрын
She's bad. She's a low quality person for the streets that eventually will either marry a rich guy and later divorce him for the 50% or just end up alone if she misses the timing. The latter outcome is better for societal purposes.
@justlearning-ph6if5 ай бұрын
the fuck you mean not a bad person?
@LailaB255 ай бұрын
My heart goes out for justin, i can't imagine how hurt he must be.
@kylesanders9538 ай бұрын
Feel for my dude. His whole demeanor shifted immediately, you could see the internal struggle. We've all been there bro, I know exactly how he felt, mind racing, analyzing everything he thought he knew for the past however many weeks, its tough. Keep your head up man, do whats best for you.
@piapia289 ай бұрын
He’s so great at communicating and asking for her permission when revealing their past
@iimmortalldreams9 ай бұрын
His first mistake was getting with a woman who uses the term situationship. In vast majority of cases it's cope. He'll learn. Most men will go through a real bad one like her.
@CoffeeMadeMeSay8 ай бұрын
Some more than 2-3 (after honeymoon phase).
@AmbroseVermillion7 ай бұрын
This generation is so useless for using worthless terms like “situationship” “baby momma and daddy” Back then it used to be full relationship or bust no stupid Kardashian type drama
@CoffeeMadeMeSay7 ай бұрын
@@AmbroseVermillionand don’t get me started with OF…it’s sad
@tobifx62010 күн бұрын
Get this man in a movie the facial expressions told a whole story with no words
@MrPimpthat068 ай бұрын
That relationship was over the moment he took a sip of that wine and she knew it
@Pumpkingamer698 ай бұрын
Exactly. When he was putting down his glass you could see that flash of anger and disgust. Crazy
@kennedigriffin94958 ай бұрын
They weren’t in a relationship this is what happens when guys don’t fully commit she said that they were in a situationship and he never made it clear that they were exclusive
@kennedigriffin94958 ай бұрын
There is no loyalty in a unclear relationship
@bobbyfrank98598 ай бұрын
@@kennedigriffin9495this is the comment of the lazy and dense. Everyone can tell what the other person wants in any dynamic. If you need “clear lines” so your ass doesn’t cheat or play around else where then you’re still a child lmao
@kennedigriffin94958 ай бұрын
@@bobbyfrank9859 I feel like in this generation you have to make is clear bc the hook up culture is crazy and guys play around with women emotions all the time and proceed to not feel bad about it so I don’t feel bad for him he didn’t make it clear and she is a young woman who isn’t even married anyway that even if she was the one who brought up the situationship first he still agreed if he wanted a relationship fr he should of told her that bc nowadays there isn’t really real relationships if your a man then say what you want tf don’t agree to things you don’t agree with wtf they labeled it a situationship he agreed I’m not gonna be loyal to anyone in a situationship womp womp
@jxtyra61679 ай бұрын
He’s so mature and I love the way he communicates and expresses himself. I know he’s going to be a good boyfriend and great husband to someone.
@fatesi14868 ай бұрын
Someone...
@arsq50208 ай бұрын
Too bad thats not what women want
@DeeDee-se6vs8 ай бұрын
@@arsq5020not true
@the-madvillain26367 ай бұрын
@@DeeDee-se6vs it's kinda true honestly, he's a lot of women want to have but not keep long term
@DeeDee-se6vs7 ай бұрын
@@the-madvillain2636 it’s not true because he said women don’t want a mature boyfriend/ husband. Majority of women do.
@biscuitninja7 ай бұрын
She's being a technicality technician... She knew what he wanted. She was just kind of keeping him around until the next best thing came along. She just didn't want to admit she didn't eat anything wrong. Like most people in that situation, they don't want to admit that they did wrong and they'll deflect, gaslight and outright lie...
@wrx1th8732 ай бұрын
Yeah but even in her technicality that she used was wrong. She said a situationship don't have clear boundaries, there is no full commitment, its not exclusive, etc her defining what a situationship is implies they had a situationship but the text clearly said they weren't in a situationship so what relationship did they have then? And the fact that he asked her "if it wasn't a situationship then what was it?" she couldn't answer the question says a lot about her and her "technicality".
@Schrockmeister735 ай бұрын
I know resentment when I see it, and buddy is WEARING his emotions on his face.
@mojojojo91289 ай бұрын
The way he let himself fully feel his emotions and sit with them in the moment was so powerful ❤
@talkingtochapri8 ай бұрын
Women do it all the time 😂 and there's nothing about that
@mojojojo91288 ай бұрын
@@talkingtochapri clearly not.
@bajsbrev46518 ай бұрын
@@talkingtochapri not even close
@samd61198 ай бұрын
@@talkingtochaprino there is something special about it. Bc we're finally reaching a point as a society where it's ok for a guy to express himself emotionally instead of being told to not feel anything or keep it surpressed just because he's a dude. Don't be dismissing someone emotions because of their gender
@isvalami85277 ай бұрын
@@talkingtochapriTry to dismiss his very good virtues by saying all women can do this is absolutely insane and a very weak try. In there you are not a victim, not all women are victims the guy is the victim and the girl is the abuser. Go and try to use the women victim card somewhere else it got declined here.
@tl54046 ай бұрын
Justin was so respectful, gently kind and calm, he deserves so much better. 😢 There are many bad guys out there, even abusive men, she didn't know a good one in front of her. Hope he'll meet a wonderful girl who will love him back and value him.
@ulama78285 ай бұрын
No such thing
@rlouie054 ай бұрын
He did express a fear of “losing control” then applied this fear to what happened moments before in that his supposedly girlfriend has her ex on speed dial.
@Wgz9454 ай бұрын
There aren’t a bunch of those men but there are bunch of women who get pregnant by men, later pinning the kid on the another man
@Slayer89573 ай бұрын
@@rlouie05 Wasnt about her having her ex's number. It was about her still talking to her ex, even talking about him, while at the same time messing with him.
@Macca-952 ай бұрын
@@rlouie05 Funny way for you to say that she had lied to him that she wasn't communicating with her ex and that it was only the ex reaching out.
@vitast20008 ай бұрын
This did him a favor. Now he knows for a fact where he stands. He can now fully move on.
@kevin_tang0045 ай бұрын
I'm in this same exact situation... this video helped give me clarity about my situation. I rather be alone than lied to constantly.
@grayscaled9 ай бұрын
She ain't the one homie, emotional maturity of a doorknob ik her type she just likes you around for the attention (especially true considering the fact she recently went through a breakup, she just coping with you lol)
@InfinitePawsShop9 ай бұрын
He deserves someone honest and more loving towards him. I hope he finds her…
@saitejadommeti37025 ай бұрын
I hope someone kind, real and empathetic finds this gem of a guy :)
@NurmaBP4 ай бұрын
Yeah it's not fair to him, she's mislead and gaslit him. Wasting everybody time. If you don't have 'feeling' to someone, you should be honest to them, don't give them false hope. I think she's the type of girl who fall for bad boys, she's attracting toxic dramas like a magnet. Creating ones if she get bored. But there were men, like him, who like the type of women like her. Hates her, but keep lingering around her.
@dudeisforfood06938 ай бұрын
Bro's reaction when he found out hits deep for me. Emotional Maturity and to act accordingly despite his emotions being shown, this only shows how matured and understanding he is in that moment.
@Nkemjo4 ай бұрын
Oh damn I know that feeling. It is when the perception you have of someone you thought you knew well is completely shattered. Makes you second guess everything you thought you knew about your ability to perceive reality.
@ANONYMOUS-vd8dy3 ай бұрын
Yeah dude me also I'm unable to understand my feelings and emotion coz of the thing u mentioned above 1.5 years ago and that girl after 1 year texted me and it affected in a bad way and was a ble to see how manipulative she was in a way to get the attention I used to give ,and now I have a crush on a girl recently but my heart is paining like idk why but having a feeling of doubt that this will not work out even thought there is nothing rn between us we r just becoming friends or might be a gut feeling
@MasterOfMyDestiny7 ай бұрын
that girl just continues to smile through it all - that is just unbelievable..
@TheGhostOfTK8 ай бұрын
What makes me so angry, is the fact I've had conversations PAINFULLY similar to this one, and the girls all tend to react the same as this one, they act as if they're the victims in the situation and did nothing wrong
@deficator7507 ай бұрын
They never ever take responsibility - "i was confused, its because of my last break up blah blah, he got the wrong message, exclusive, blah blah"
@adlerzwei7 ай бұрын
Sociopaths 🤢
@adlerzwei7 ай бұрын
@@Chuck9852 But lying is wrong though.
@williamsduran32327 ай бұрын
We on the same boat brother.
@michaelscotthawthorn78717 ай бұрын
Normalize treating women the way they deserve. When a woman is disposable, feel free to treat her that way. Stop showing respect to women that don't deserve it.
@Zgryx9 ай бұрын
She just got out of a relationship and is still seeing her ex, but lied to him about it. He clearly wants her more than she wants him bc he reached out to her to reconnect. She’s still exploring her options and isn’t sure that he’s the one.
@user-ff9mb1ts4u9 ай бұрын
how is he being played when they're not even in a relationship and they've made that clear from the start of the video. In fact he called them "just friends."
@Zgryx9 ай бұрын
@@user-ff9mb1ts4u She made it clear that they are just friends even tho he wants more. It’s fine if she wants to be ambiguous but he said she lied saying her ex was the only one reaching out. But they have been talking and likely seeing each other still. This would be ok as they’re not exclusive but he’s mad about the fact that she lied.
@HappyLarry.8 ай бұрын
You could literally just say "she's for the streets"
@FalseShepherd8 ай бұрын
@@Zgryxthe fact that she took time to remove alot of messages goes to show she's the Red Flag honestly these type of woman deserve less for playing around with people's feelings instead of actually being mature. Look at her trying to just bounce around the subject and keeping him at arms length as a "choice." I feel for the dude he was waaaay out of this "womans" league.
@urgandma7 ай бұрын
Her not being sure basically means he's definitely not the one. She's having a reeeeeeeeeeal good time out in the streets. 🎵girls just wanna have fun🎵
@lucasling52605 ай бұрын
"I know it hurt him alot" "I didn't know this was gonna happen" Damn girl , u being giddy surely got that "I know it hurt him a lot" feel across to him
@elisazouza9 ай бұрын
im so glad they gave him a 5 min break well done nectar
@edxdies9 ай бұрын
Yeah I felt it when he said no the first time cause I was like he wants to be strong and stoic but it’s ok to not be ok and I assume nectar saw that and decide it for him which might as well be what he was hoping for, I know I would be
@StevenOyston7 ай бұрын
This is a lesson a young man needs to learn far sooner in life.
@lezorn7 ай бұрын
And what lesson is that? Wtf did he do wrong?
@ibechuu96957 ай бұрын
That's not what he meant. It's a lesson to warn him that there are women that are capable of truly hurting you, and that lesson is better to learn much sooner than later in life. It goes both ways between genders, but yeah, the lesson he learned here will protect him from future situations like this. He will become successful and find a true woman way better than his so called "best female friend" here. @@lezorn
@fuhquelol7 ай бұрын
Why just men? Women deal with this shit too..
@lizardlounge64767 ай бұрын
@@lezorn Not all lessons are learned because of personal shortcomings
@willclouded7 ай бұрын
@@lezorn She's not yours it's just your turn.
@aliasheikh29579 ай бұрын
She's a red flag, a big one. She definitely deleted messages before handing her phone over to him. I felt so bad for him, he was clearly heart broken. I hope he is able to move on from her, cause she's just playing with him and his feelings.
@Freeflow328 ай бұрын
Pretty sure she deleted the messages from the random guys shes been seeing but still let him see the messages of her ex because that's what she couldn't get to in time. It seems like they weren't communicating a lot but just back and forth so it wasn't at the top of her messages.
@oreoakalaperoji83148 ай бұрын
I wasn't thinking he hasn't even seen everything. This whole situation especially on camera is so tough
@speedythings73968 ай бұрын
He needs Andrew Tate
@Slayer89573 ай бұрын
@@Freeflow32 they were specifically supposed to look through texts with mentions of their name. meaning she searched through her phone for texts mentioning Justin and didnt delete everything in time.
@jessehernandez5392Күн бұрын
Very impressed with this guy, the way he's able to articulate how he feels and his expectations are truly next level.
@billantono93117 ай бұрын
Bro got hurt but in the long run he will be thankful
@17andhalfguns9 ай бұрын
One of the toughest life lessons ive ever had to learn was very similar to this guy's here. At the end of the day, it doesnt matter how pure, compassionate, and honest your love for someone may be, the other person is under no obligation at all to reciprocate those feelings. You cannot force your love on someone else and expect them to feel the same. From experience it sucks ass to get mixed signals from someone and to be led on. This is why its so important to communicate clearly from the very beginning. The girl is definitely more than manipulative and is likely only keeping him around for fun/a safe option but otherwise has no intention in getting into a committed relationship. I think some of the things she said may have been to spare his feelings in the moment and likely has next to no romantic interest in him. My guy, you're clearly looking for something more and i promise, the right person will immediately be on the same wavelength.
@briannamendoza74057 ай бұрын
“I didn’t know he was gonna react that way” - girlllll you knew he was because you hid it from him 😭😭😭
@zaccobb281913 күн бұрын
Yep
@MFDoomguy215 ай бұрын
The lack of maturity on her part is ridiculous. I pray for his happiness, and for maturity & accountability on her part.
@Gurlhmong9 ай бұрын
Damn… now I know why the mom didn’t even say “hi” on FaceTime. She knew this girl is bad news. She didn’t seem upset that Justin was upset. She was kinda smirking after he became upset. He can do so much better!!!
@entezami7777 ай бұрын
She’s a red flag
@07_Obi7 ай бұрын
It's just an awkward smile. She's not evil. Just immature and inconsiderate.
@entezami7777 ай бұрын
@obi584 watch the whole video. It will change your tune
@07_Obi7 ай бұрын
@@entezami777 I did. She lacks emotional awareness, communication and shows signs of narcissism. That doesn't make her evil. I'm not defending her actions, but to imply she enjoyed causing the guy emotional pain is a step too far.
@entezami7777 ай бұрын
@obi584 Don't narcissist enjoy inflecting some pain on others?
@Makzy_19 ай бұрын
Man do I wanna grab a drink with this guy. Such a good guy and was willing to spill his heart out for the wrong girl
@ibrahim_-_-_9 ай бұрын
same bruh, wanted to hug him
@aakashchand50418 ай бұрын
True
@talkingtochapri8 ай бұрын
Good guy or desperate guy 😂
@fatesi14868 ай бұрын
@@talkingtochaprigood guy. We all gotta learn
@samd61198 ай бұрын
@@talkingtochapriwell he's not the one still talking to their ex
@anesu_jambaya9 ай бұрын
Let go dawg. She was wrong with not communicating how she felt about him, but i think gent just falls to hard and his heart stayed with her even when they ended the first time. End of the day love is a risk🤷🏾♂️
@30__9 ай бұрын
Bro was entering his Redpill arc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@devilishirv8 ай бұрын
well some of us have to be like that, unless you wanna be like her
@speedythings73968 ай бұрын
@@30__ Bro needs Andrew Tate
@kuzol53847 ай бұрын
It's good for him. He's learning.
@alonsonavarro39593 ай бұрын
This show helped this man out. He doesn’t know it yet.
@sithlawd219 ай бұрын
She just lost a keeper 😢that’s so sad he deserves so much better he’s so mature and pure
@jeeeenipurr8 ай бұрын
he got mad when he needed to look after her when she was sick idk that hes perfect either
@yomama69.8 ай бұрын
@@jeeeenipurrright if you truly care about the person it wouldn’t matter if they got sick, you’d be happy just being in their presence. By the way he acted he prob was driving out to spend the night with her and get some, and when he couldn’t he got mad. That’s what I took from it either way dudes a red flag too
@rltw27538 ай бұрын
@@jeeeenipurrtf you making excuses for this trash of a girl
@speedythings73968 ай бұрын
Time for him to take the "Red Pill" And mfs wonder why "Andrew Tate" got famous
@speedythings73968 ай бұрын
@@jeeeenipurr Typical femoid gaslighting. Curse to human civilisation
@omaraly10429 ай бұрын
I feel like she doesn’t want to place that label of “friends” because she wants him around as an option in case things don’t work out with someone else, which is an awful position to be put in btw. But I wish them both the best either way
@puhtronproductions9 ай бұрын
Yupp
@J-tt1lu9 ай бұрын
He lost her the first time
@EdSuavePerez7 ай бұрын
Naw she can go kick rocks 😂
@billycasimir14697 ай бұрын
I hope he looks back at this one day with gratitude. These are the lessons a man in your life is supposed to teach you but at least now he probably will know better
@grogeru5195Ай бұрын
I'm glad Justin received an opportunity to move forward and meet a person who would appreciates his feelings by coming to the shoot
@emmaphant029 ай бұрын
She forgot he was a human being not a toy for her main character arc
@Hazy_y8 ай бұрын
She a main character? Hell naah she can't be that even of her own life. She'll always be a side chick fs.
@MSC_LFC8 ай бұрын
She looked like she got what she wanted. She was enjoying it.
@ciscom50368 ай бұрын
She’s somebody’s toy
@Bunny113447 ай бұрын
She ain’t even that cute
@emmaphant027 ай бұрын
@@Bunny11344 Hey, we don't shame exteriors here...
@bossdev-tb6we8 ай бұрын
i respect this guy, he is both nice and fearless, giving her no smile no play along type of shit... corners her in every answer she gives
@ShenellM8 ай бұрын
This!
@bossdev-tb6we8 ай бұрын
@@ShenellM your keybaord is broken or what ?
@hanmira7 ай бұрын
@@bossdev-tb6weThe person is agreeing with you lmao
@tauhid99837 ай бұрын
I can't believe this woman kept a straight face when Justin was answering the questions about the last time he cried... HE FELT LED ON!
@dkoykoala14887 ай бұрын
Asian women are masters of leading you on.
@johnkeo3582 ай бұрын
Probably because it's not the first time she's done this to someone 😅
@femiairboy94Ай бұрын
Anyone who can see, learn from this. You will never know how much this hurts until you are put in the same situation. Never date or talk to a woman who just got out of a long term relationship. If you like her that much, give her time to heal from it alone, do not try to be a sponge. You will hate yourself later. If she’s truly yours, months down the line she will reach out, otherwise just walk away. I have been in such a situation and it was very difficult. Situationships are not something you want to deal with. Don’t complicate your life.
@BigM98349 ай бұрын
“I didn’t know this was going to happen” = “i didn’t think I’d get caught”
@Dezzo07219 ай бұрын
Props to him for taking everything that happened in this video with accountability and ownership
@simranthakur45629 ай бұрын
Justin if you see this... Just wanna say she isn't reciprocating what you're giving her she literally said we're going on a date but then she says you guys aren't even a situationship she's in a stage where she doesn't really care about your emotions deleting the mesaages was wrong at least you should be able to confront the person but she couldn't I hope you get somebody who loves you just the way you'd love your significant other 💗
@Shaptacular8 ай бұрын
Didn’t he hurt her first and that’s why they broke up? Horrible thing to reciprocate, but it’s reciprocity nonetheless.
@Bishlambo5 ай бұрын
No matter what a girl does, there will still be people telling her “you go girl” and “queen” “slay” blah blah. This is why we have these toxic women who think they can get away with anything
@Sail177 ай бұрын
I dated a girl like this once. But she was much more attractive. They don’t understand what loyalty is and why it’s important. I believe you can’t really teach it to a person if they haven’t learned it by 18, unfortunately. My ex was 24. Moreover at that age, they learn how to fake what loyalty is. Always do your research even after you’re “official”. Every single date you are best served learning about each other. Good luck people, stay good
@Bunny113447 ай бұрын
I was telling my bf my coworker had been flirty with me or trying to talk to me every time he got. My bf didn’t think too much of it and thought maybe he’s just friendly. My coworker mentioned he had a wife and they were on vacation and I was happy for him but a few days later he mentioned him and I should go grab some food sometime after work and that’s when I cut off contact. Like that’s just weird.
@vickpanchal55596 ай бұрын
That or they know but don’t give a fuck because they only care about what brings them immediate pleasure. This girl keeps playing the “immigrant family” card but someone from a real immigrant family wouldn’t feel compelled to throw that info in your face as if they’re trynna prove something. She definitely grew up relatively privileged and has a delusional view of her life.
@tsukurutazaki74329 ай бұрын
I’m ngl this is exactly how men process hurt, anger, and sadness. Not necessarily bottle them up, but we are condemned for overtly expressing our emotions in an impulsive way. It’s not just one emotion he’s feeling. He’s feeling literally all of them all at once and feels the need to suppress it until he’s in private.
@prastarkumar68898 ай бұрын
If this was her instead of him. We would have seen all the emotions you mentioned right there in matter of seconds.
@occupytosavetheworld8 ай бұрын
That's literally suppressed because of toxic femininity
@sonyagatien25558 ай бұрын
everyone is condemned, definitely men and women. emotions are literally bad according to the patriarchy and it sucks
@No304sCunt7 ай бұрын
Another woman trying to blame this on men, typical @@sonyagatien2555
@ziiiiiiii7547 ай бұрын
@@sonyagatien2555no it is not men and women. Women are literally taught to wear your heart on your sleeve. I’m not saying all women can, but most definitely are not afraid to show their emotion in a moment like this, unlike men
@icesohandsum86057 ай бұрын
I like the fact that the part that hurt Justin the most wasn't the fact that Diane was talking to her ex, it was the fact that she led him on and lied to him about the whole thing. Granted, Justin could've been more aware of what she was doing, but I don't blame him. Justin seems so sincere I feel like he actually believed Diane.
@adminavatar5 ай бұрын
Yea Justin was just a sucker for Her to suck on. No pun intended. And i'm not saying that to put down Justin in any way. He seems like genuine guy that's well put together. And he's thoughtful with the way he talks. So he deserves hella lot than this hell hole. GET HIM OUTTA HERE!!!! She denied, justified, made excuses several times and that's very disingenuous. Her demeanor really shows what kind of the person she is. On top of that, she doubled down with her words. THis woman is never to be trusted. I really hope he find peace in letting go and move on to someone else better.
@mapleandsteel4 күн бұрын
Somehow, love has been appropriated by some malicious force, and it has convinced many lost souls that the true pursuit of love is when one feels hopeless, tense, and depressed. Love should be enervating; it's hold on you, not a controlling, vice-like grip, but a bit like a warm hug. Remind yourself of this the next time you feel 'love'.
@leevang90877 ай бұрын
I wanna give bro a hug. watching her smile is so disgusting not like she even care
@elisazouza9 ай бұрын
seeing him be upset and then having to carry on hurt my feelings tbh :(
@rltw27538 ай бұрын
Hurt your feelings ? 🤣
@elisazouza8 ай бұрын
@@rltw2753 dont take it seriously lmaoooo
@Forit267 ай бұрын
@@rltw2753This brother just discovered *empathy*
@SSEi027 ай бұрын
@@rltw2753 internet man is confused by the concept of empathy: news at 11
@joashedwards72066 ай бұрын
@@SSEi02women capable of empathy??? 😂😂😂
@gisellegutierrez13439 ай бұрын
Okay I’m always one to understand somebody’s pov in situations like these but what bothers me is the fact she took those seconds to delete stuff if she truly believed she didn’t understand the boundaries and was being mindful of his emotions she wouldn’t feel the need to delete anything bc there’s nothing to hide. She deleted because she knew what she was doing wasn’t right or was gonna hurt him.
@myyy36405 ай бұрын
You can see when he makes the decision to stand up for himself and ask about the messages instead of just letting it go 😢
@hypealert49188 ай бұрын
DAMN,the way his smile faded away is just sad after he read the messages,feel bad for bro😢
@afarongordon8 ай бұрын
SOOO many good emotionally mature men go through this and these stories are rarely shared so bro I respect you for how you handled it.
@paigevanderholst27707 ай бұрын
This man deserves the world. I hate when ppl take advantage of kind people and ruin them.