Can you be married and SEXY?!

[@Jenrow153]

I like how he said "if I have to come in and change you than I'm in the wrong relationship". This is something I learned the hard way 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@chisommalinda3496]

Most important statement “YOU DONT COME INTO SOMEONES LIFE AND EXPECT TO CHANGE EVERYTHING ABOUT THE PERSON “

[@darlenelane392]

I AGREE🙏

[@gordonchuck4974]

Real talk easy oh

[@helenamcphee9040]

Oh wow he is so mature and very very sensible God bless you

[@helenamcphee9040]

A very wonderful couple may the Lord continue to bless your union

[@valentinisfamily773]

The day you stop being sexy for our brother, we call family meeting . Love you guys.

[@angelasobmer7026]

This man should be a therapist in relationships, probably will safe a lot of couples 💑.

[@darlenelane392]

SOO True🙏

[@lynmens6800]

Very true

[@rosabush6910]

@@darlenelane392 .was..Al.aq,

[@aliciadavis77]

Yes I like both of their positions on marriage issues. Good wisdom and level headed approach to issues.

[@khadijahd01]

He respect his mother in growing up in the culture. We NIGERIAN NIGERIAN 🧕

[@zekesworld5252]

Lamb is making Nigerians proud .. love you bro🤲🏼❤️

[@darlenelane392]

🙏

[@Blackmachismoo]

Facts. I love being nigerian man

[@theafricanchild9154]

There's a big difference between being sexy and exposing yourself. You can be sexy in a rain coat 🤣👍🇬🇭

[@nyameyeagyemang7554]

my sister you are ghanaian ong.... wo an wa ka no yie

[@darlenelane392]

SOO TRUE🙏

[@tangelajones8029]

Absolutely

[@ibiyinkaagbebi2032]

I think its how a person defines "sexy". There is a difference between being attractive and appealing... to being tacky.

[@darlenelane392]

TRUE🙏

[@t.i.c8511]

Ling enjoys it when Lamb compliments her. So cute😊

[@darlenelane392]

YES my guy does the same thing=his also Nigerian👍

[@entertainmentworld3792]

I luv how Ling looks at her hubby.

[@fatousenghor3077]

me too it shows pure luv

[@darlenelane392]

YA me too/

[@darlenelane392]

Ya, she really loves him🙏

[@henryagubaohia2265]

Kills me every time when Ling mimics Lamb 🤣

[@abinat712]

Exactly, so lovely 😍😍😍

[@nicholaszulki770]

I concur with u guys. U can be married and still look “appropriately” sexy. Love u guys ❤️

[@gozeeyay7586]

When I come to KZbin this is the first channel I check before any other. I love y'all fr 🇳🇬❤️🇺🇸

[@hafsatajani4139]

Wow

[@annthomas4491]

What is wrong with lambs finger

[@gozeeyay7586]

@@annthomas4491 Nothing. It's just how it is.

[@rissole799]

I'm a new sub so I'm catching up. Have been binge watching for days lol 🤣 it's great.

[@shanthina3704]

Me too

[@trgmommy]

Don’t change anything- you all’s love is SO REAL and HOPEFUL!!! You guys touch so many lives forever that better!!!! Don’t change!

[@orizusilver4443]

Hi

[@ziganubaribobby753]

Absolutely true!!

[@teelee2588]

Let touch people's lives also

[@rondellkellman7908]

Honestly speaking I came across a video of you guys an auto recommendation from KZbin. And I've been subscribed since then which is roughly 4months . I'm 3 years married and what I've learned and applied to my marriage from you guys have change it for way better and I'm really enjoying you guys and enjoying my marriage even better. I thank you guys for for the advice and being a role model to me and my wife much love to you guys and keep up the good work

[@oxfordslife1292]

Lamb is just a vibe😂😂

[@NkemOnyeka12]

"Don't mind them. This video is OVER!" 😂🤣 My husband is Nigerian too and he's a freaking hoot too!

[@darlenelane392]

Wow mindtoo🙏

[@ayelynnex]

I agree with you both. And I think Lamb presented his answer in a such a great way! You can still be sexy and be respectful of your relationship

[@olasunkanmiolaogun9792]

Lamb is too funny, drying yourself up got me. 😂😂😂

[@eaglesfly2457]

Both of you may be young but you have great Solomon wisdom in dealing with every TOPIC. God bless you BOTH. 🙏

[@mdooms76]

Lamb truly has some great insight and perspective. Very wise young man.

[@OriginalIgboGoddess]

Not "dry yourself up" bwahahahahahaha he is sooooo Nigerian lawd 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@afolabioluseundeji8965]

I dey shame for am 😂😂😂😂

[@roneenewton5901]

Ling be killing me, she blanks out when he starts speaking fast Nigerian. 💀😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Her face be like "WTF" ? 😂😂

[@darlenelane392]

😂👍

[@TommysCrib]

When lamb was like sh sh sh don't mind them 😂😂😂

[@azeezatzakariyah9272]

I literally laughed so hard. Kept on going back to watch that part.🤣🤣🤣

[@shandyhope4929]

I love how Lamb and Ling is so real to each other personalities. Put it simple self respect for each other is mind bowling. This is the reason why marriage is successful. Don't stop being y'all self. This is what I love about you guys.....realness of self appreciation to each other personalities

[@goelayushi09]

This sort of relationship happens when two mature individuals knows themselves what they want from the relationship and are rispectful towrds their partners💗

[@princewillgeorge8421]

One thing I like about her is that she understands him.. and looks like she needs to go to nigeria

[@darlenelane392]

YES for SURE🙏

[@waqke8642]

This is the reason why I've watched your videos and you caught my attention : because the both of you were casually dressed and natural looking and not to much skin out. I was really surprised and I liked it ! Nice topics! 👌

[@top5footballclips]

Ling saying *Chai* totally made my day😂😂😂

[@oheneyeboah9114]

Ling is so so pretty ❤️

[@raphaeldestiny2737]

Ling is always looking so charming... I love her hair and our brother also isn't looking bad

[@chinasawhyte388]

I am happy too; Our brother is representing us well😘

[@obibiamarachi260]

I just discovered you guys today. Lamb is funny, Ling enjoys him, you compliment each other. It's a lovely thing. Also, Lamb has to teach Ling more of the Nigerian terms we use, lollll.

[@cherylphillip3605]

Yesss I agree

[@pattishumateanderson4633]

Lamb needs to teach all of us those terms.

[@directorglitch8262]

Am an Igbo but the way he always throw his speech I can never say he is a yaruba man Bro I respect you

[@divineuchendu6978]

Wait, so he is yoruba?

[@KINGCYRUS308]

@@divineuchendu6978 Yes na you don't know 🤫✌💥💯

[@saythetruthtruth9120]

Why do Igbos always think everything is Igbo? Are Igbos dilusional or what? Do urself a favour to stop the madness cuz u are known all over.

[@divineuchendu6978]

@@saythetruthtruth9120 You definitely have a problem, I didn't even mention you. I only said that cos he speaks somewhat like an igbo person even my yoruba friends I watched this with think the same . But it seems you are a bigoted fellow so bye!!!

[@saythetruthtruth9120]

@@divineuchendu6978 Bros am not god to dislike people... I simply displayed one characteristics of Igbos. Sorry if It was abusive, I didn’t mean it.

[@wepnyuwirngo7114]

This video hit me sooo hard. Lamb, I see myself in you. You are a great role model Sir. Your relationship advises, likes and even the way you display yourself are the best things I see to be done in a relationship. And I must admit it, personally I hate wrappers. I always get to warn my Sis and Mum to stop using them at all times in the house, but they basically don't give a damn. If not for the shortage AF space in NY phone, I would have loved to watch your TikTok videos and follow your IG man. But one of my greatest dreams is to one day get to go out for lunch with you. We can make a great team on food😂😂😂😂😹😹😹😹

[@adebowaleomokinwa6209]

You guys are real and that's what I love about you, and I have never seen any American ladies being so calm and calling. Congratulations man you got the rare gem truly

[@Philtabit49]

You haven't seen enough American ladies.

[@justintimemagddelow672]

@@Philtabit49 it is rare

[@ziganubaribobby753]

Lamb is making the whole thing fun. They just make fun out of little things and e dea make sense!!

[@reginek.7042]

“Ah, skimpy skimpy!” 😂😭😂😂🤣he is so funny ‼️@5:15

[@BoluwajiPieters]

I agree. Appropriateness is also key in being sexy in a relationship just as Lamb opined. As long as the sexiness is done in moderation and appropriately so, there's nothing wrong in it. Thanks for bringing this topic up.

[@noyewusi]

I've been married for 27 years and married to a sports mad husband. He still has a 6-pack aged 52, he better not lose it (even if I don't, lol). "Me sef no bad" (I'm not bad myself) at close to 50. If you trust your partner the rest is easy!

[@resonaterenaissance]

I think you guys saved my belief in love

[@alishak4061]

His advice needs to go viral. So many chicks in the kitchen with lingerie advertising. Hahaha

[@kimlee8768]

Hahahahaha! So true!

[@j.lfonlon7092]

You guys are amazing. “If I don’t see those elements again problem dey’oooooo” got me in knots.

[@kiso-em3px]

"Laying yourself in the sun, drying yourself off" lol! I love this guy, he reminds me of 'Borat' so innocent 😂😂

[@annelyceyawingu6678]

I only subscribed because of Liam's Nigerian accent🤣🤣🤣🤣 it makes EVERYTHING super fun! Love them both!🥰

[@akwabengkelvin7319]

Lamb:what's that thing that I hate that you people do? Ling:Tanning Lamb:3h33 tanning, what am I tanning here. Me:I died laughing

[@lashandaroker9676]

Lamb you need to teach some of these men around the world how to really treat a lady. I enjoyed this video 🖤🙋🏾‍♀️🌎

[@gar-andenterprises657]

Absolutely correct. There is a degree of sexiness that's acceptable in publicly. Lamb, even is a sweat shirt your wife is sexy. You love her for her. Allow no other person(s) in your marriage. She knows who she is and who she's married to. Respect that.

[@hopevolante7]

Best channel I’ve stumbled upon since quarantine! 👏🏼

[@Lindaaoscar]

This is so well thought out. I love Lamb’s approach on it, totally agree with him. There are no set rules for modesty like I see some people saying in the comments. Christianity has nothing to do with. If a woman is confident in her skin and shows it off, there should be absolutely nothing wrong with that. Whether she’s married or not. People on the internet want you to live by certain standards just so it can resonate with their own ideas, that is just crazy. It’s always the people not in the relationship with you that have a ton to say. Y’all need to stop living by ancestral norms. The world is evolving, consider being more open minded and let women live. Love you guys btw, I enjoy watching your videos.

[@mdndavido2623]

Well as an African man, I'll say, just accept who you wanna be with in every sense of the word, like Lamb said, "I met you this way, so why impose differently when married?", happy married life y'all!!! ✌️

[@pattishumateanderson4633]

I'm 68, will celebrate our 49th anniversary in September and today my husband told me that I have sexy legs. He clothes shops with me and selects much sexier public clothing than I would ever choose on my own. I am very conservative. When my mother was living she said I dressed like a "fuddy duddy". Once, while still in high school, she bought me a see through blouse. It was dark blue with large flowing sleeves and huge flowers imprinted all over the fabric. It was picture day and she made me wear it. I wore three slips under it and was miserable all day. I can still get by with sexy clothes and now that I have gained up to 110 lbs. and size 4 and no longer look like a bag of bones I find it kind of fun to dress sexy on occasion.

[@SweetPoisonvich]

Way to go miss Patti 😊

[@JustTanya.]

I am not nor have I been in a relationship for a very very long time but I thought I'd throw my 2 cents in anyway. So from an outsider's point of view, I think in regards to looking and feeling sexy while still being in a relationship/married is up to the couple in that relationship/marriage. It's not just a matter of respect for your partner but also yourself. When you're younger you'll probably wear clothes that compliment how you feel at that age. As you get older your style may change as your relationship/marriage continues and so on. You'll see yourself looking and feeling different and again you'll wear clothes that compliment how you feel. In a relationship/marriage there is only 3 involved that matters: you, your partner and God. That's it. You live and love with respect and care with your partner and God. Everybody else criticizing is just noise that has no place in your relationship/marriage. I know I don't have the experience of relationships as an adult but that's my guess anyway.

[@briefflix9397]

Perfectly said

[@stephanienelly90]

Aww I love how involved he is with everything..... even down to her nail colors...

[@Koladejesugbemi]

Everyone has their standard, so look for someone that fits yours..... GREAT CONTENT as usual. Love you guys.

[@christianissick]

The way she imitates this guy is lovely

[@ufuomaoribabor4728]

These guys make KZbin better

[@edotedits]

So trueeeeee, Love them.

[@fs1125]

"Don't stop oooo! Una bye bye" 😂😂😂🔥♥️♥️

[@josephjunior581]

The communication was great, I like the point that goes; be sexy at the appropriate places. Thanks Ling and Lamb. Will love to have you both on my KZbin someday.

[@sentb5744]

Girl, do you. You’re beautiful and your man enjoys your beauty. Those are the only two votes that matter.

[@calebchinedu568]

Married and sexy is perfectly fine as long as the level of defined sexiness doesn't go against your accepted ideals...I think the problem is how people tend to define sexy......some people hear sexy n directly translate it to being naked or revealing parts of the body. U can be sexy without showing any skin if u so choose too. So guys do u, u look awesome together by the way never stop talking abt things, it works like a charm

[@laradara7175]

I love how he lets you be yourself so nice ✨

[@callistusopara3804]

My only opinion is i need this type of love and bonding in my own marriage chai!

[@gistwithdorinda3609]

Oh those pepper red nails finely manicured caught my attention...while typing this, I later heard lamb complimenting her nails.... We love them ;)

[@janettesimpson2935]

I just love you guys, but lamb as I look at you I start laughing, your the best on KZbin, nuff love from Jamaica

[@danielfransix]

I really want to meet this guy, pure vibes

[@patrickrumbu2902]

Cruise

[@eniolajohnbamgbopa9497]

Mad vibes🔥🔥

[@oyedirantolani1514]

Am so addicted to your channel to be candid.... Cute couples ever love you guys so much 💖💖💖💖💖

[@ubachiekeh1402]

Bro, your wife is so humble, never seen an American woman like that

[@coachielala]

Lol ....... how many American women do you know personally?

[@viv4419]

@@coachielala Lol

[@marqueshabland2821]

America women so humble? What's your perspective on american women curious?

[@marqueshabland2821]

Definitely agree she is humble yes❤️

[@sopuruchukwuenekwechi9210]

@@marqueshabland2821 Yeah he is shocked

[@brittanyreed3873]

You keep ‘em how you catch ‘em! And maturity is paramount between the two. A secure couple would not have a problem and also knows boundaries.

[@francisb8357]

This ma bro get sense; you are on point when you summarized that you cant come into someone else's life and completely change the person. That's a good idea!!!!!!

[@ochanyaoche9881]

The way Ling imitates Lamb is the sexiest thing.

[@francheza1]

"Don't mind them"... Love it!

[@lindahall7465]

Ling, I watched this again. I tell you when we got to the near end and he was validating your sexy appropriateness for the second time, you began to do the Lamb dance and you know I hysterically went into laughter. Love you both. Love💕

[@moshood1balogun]

Lamb dey kill me "u want to be tying wrapper"🤦🏿‍♂️🤣🤣🤣

[@babbid246sullivan5]

Me and my husband say yes you can but there is different levels as long as your not disrespecting your other half. But it also depends what your other half thinks is disrespectful. So I guess it just depends on the couple's the way they are towards the other half

[@feliciathomas4494]

What matters is that at the end of the day everyone knows where you are going. Home to your boo. ❤️❤️

[@brittanymarieee4375]

I think the same thing

[@ovunwogodswill4358]

7:00 I burst in to laughter when Lamb said "Yes! You want to be tieing wrapper?" 😂😂

[@maapat1431]

This man is very very wise ..this is very deep ..this is a marriage made in heaven 💘❤💕♥💗

[@muhammedtemitope2060]

Lamb is a case study that can never be study finish but the topic is sensible talk.

[@izunnaokorie6860]

Love is a beautiful thing, most when it comes to marriage, and beauty is the eye of the beholder let your wife be the way she pleasing you,

[@marvelousmitch972]

Exactly I totally agree with lamb I love my women sexy. I say women are like art also and like art they become more valuable with time if well preserved.

[@ladymg8245]

Lamb you have such valid points.

[@winnie4_real.]

Infact ling you're loved. God bless u guys

[@jf8940]

I like the way lamb explain it and i agree. The guy english dey scatter my head🤣🤣

[@JCMsNuggets]

I share the same philosophy with Lamb, love your woman and help her be the best of herself.

[@taiyenwaibe4192]

Did he just say "drying yourself up". I'm dead🤣😂😅

[@danielfransix]

Ah this guy is a real gee!

[@euniceolawoyin1041]

The key word is be modest, maintain the outlook you saw in each other during courtship.Men should not be hypocritical,turning your wife to a rif-raf as an opportunity to cheat claiming she's not appealing any longer. According to Lamb polish her the more and appreciate her beautiful taste and outlook.Love you guys♥️♥️♥️♥️🔥

[@Indigo565]

"Shoo shoo shoo, don't mind them". Lmaooo. Reminds me of West Indians

[@sinatradadj3619]

"This juan is trying to sell maket"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@melindaarojo5127]

I agree. You can be married and be sexy. As long as both people are both appropriate, that’s all that matters. You can definitely be both.

[@oyedirantolani1514]

Skippy Skippy....got me 😂😂😂😂😂

[@TommyTstar]

My man said drying yourself up 😂😂

[@doescorner7963]

It’s the skimpy skimpy sentence for me😂😂😂😂

[@emasim2315]

Stumbled on your Channel today but believe me you guys are so funny and infectious . My guuuuuuuuy Lamboooooooo

[@WILMA_]

Lamb: “Aaa, what is this new category you are categorizing yourself in”? LOL

[@joytaboh1219]

“What’s that thing when you’re uhhh drying yourself” 😂😂😂😂😂 I swear I died here. Drying yourself 😂😂😂😂 love you both so much @3:45

[@Gingerman9000]

Yeah no keep going you two!! Keep doing these! I wish I found these when you first started! Subscribed!

[@cerinthiamccutchen4017]

Lamb "I love you" Ling you are blessed. Everyone will have an opinion positive or negative follow your heart & Lamb's actions. 😍😍😍😍

[@onuhsophie6950]

Always talk about everything! Thanks Lamb

[@brolawy6531]

This man is extremely real yoruba man. So direct and upright. Whenever the woman stop being looking sexy at home and outside. That was when problem start in their married. Keep dress modesty and always wore respectful dress accordingly to your spouse standard.

[@lengwebobo7418]

"you want to wear wrapper" I love it!!!

[@cookingwithstar7804]

Did she say chaii , my dear come and take ur 9ja passport 😂😂😂😂😂👌👌🥰🥰🥰

[@patrickrumbu2902]

Babe na werey 😆

[@cookingwithstar7804]

@@patrickrumbu2902 😉😉😜😜😜