Interracial/Intercultural Relationships: Must Know!

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[@anjanaokwuma9128]

I’m an African American, and my husband is Nigerian. If I would have listened to people about what they thought about Africans, I wouldn’t be married today…. Yes, in the beginning there was a lot of miscommunication and misunderstandings due to cultural differences, however, my husband is the most patient person. He doesn’t force me to learn anything, he does, however , takes time out to help me understand what I want to know, and I’m the same with him. Marrying my husband was one of the the best decisions of my life. I’m also glad that “there is more love in our ocean than boulders”♥️

[@Strwbryblnde92010]

AMEN!!! God doesn’t see numbers or color when he designs two people as ONE. GOD IS FAITHFUL!! 🙏🏾🙏🏼

[@karinto-a4437]

Thank you so much for your comment❤, my fiance is from Ghana and sometimes I feel he is difficult and different but other times he is so lovable and I am in awe of him. I will be marrying him in November and I am so happy and emotional. We both are, if I have a beautiful happy as you explained this just brought tears to my eyes of the joy I feel. Thank you

[@anjanaokwuma9128]

@@Strwbryblnde92010 Amen

[@anjanaokwuma9128]

@@karinto-a4437 the difficulty may be just the clash in culture. My husband at times seems very stuck in his ways, but we’re working on us both. Congratulations 🥳🥳🥳🥳 on the up coming nuptials. I wish you both much love, joy, and laughter

[@karinto-a4437]

@@anjanaokwuma9128 thank you so very much.

[@ineslazalde9629]

I am half mexican and half white and my husband is Nigerian. The path of my husband and I have chosen is hard sometimes. We chose a relationship where we have come from different cultures, religions, and races. Sometimes that leads to conflict. However, what we get out of it is so much bigger that anything. I think the biggest thing with interracial relationships is not to let the parts that are hard overshadow the beauty of two people loving each other. Go into it with eyes wide open, expect a challenge, expect hard days, expect people to judge you and even sometimes stare at you in public, but in the end know that if you make each other better and treat each other with care, when you lay your head down at night none of it will matter as much as the love the two of you have created.

[@freshfingersff]

This person get sense . Like here o

[@musadadam7260]

That's is it, good one there

[@ineslazalde9629]

@@fatimatabolaji4310 No Latino would be the race for Mexican. Mexican's are not white. We are sometimes placed in that category which has created many issues and is very hurtful to our culture. I did miss a word I identify as white American ethnically. There are many ethnicities with in America. However, for your edification identity is a person and private decision. It is harmful and hurtful to tell people how they should identify. What was the purpose? Was it to make me feel stupid? To tell me I am white? Your comment was rude hurtful and unnecessary.

[@ineslazalde9629]

@@fatimatabolaji4310 Hispanic and Latino are an identity choice. They are interchangeable and those of Mexican cultural identity move between both. Hispanic is often considered offensive to some Latinos. We use Latino as our racial identity and our cultural identity. I actually identify as Chicano. Yes, Latin America is very diverse. Yes, due to imperialism many European languages are spoken in Africa. This all has no bearing on you imposing on another how you think a person should describe themselves. Again, I go back to the fact that people get to choose their identity and that your comment had no purpose but to denigrate another and tell them what you other to try and make yourself seem superior. Ethnic and racial identity is complex and no one has the right to tell another that there is a right word to use to describe their identity. Your comments are demeaning and serve no purpose. My original comment was discussing two different people coming together to create love and family. Your response was to tell me how I should identify and that there was a correct way to do so. It served no purpose to further the conversation.

[@ineslazalde9629]

@@fatimatabolaji4310 You want to build down race and ethnicity into simple constructs that can easily be defined. It's not that simple. since you are recommending things you should read more about the struggle of Latino culture and how we are fighting against the racial and cultural identities imposed upon us. You are acting superior in that you are telling someone you have the right to define and label them. It's not okay. You are more concerned with being right than that you are harming another human being. You have no right to tell me how to identify racially. You have no right to tell anyone, especially since you are clearly unaware of the full discourse. And yet again can you tell me the purpose of your initial comment? Did it further the discussion of how to live in an interracial and intercultural relationship? Or was your purpose to make someone else feel bad and make yourself feel smart. You can say it all you want, but you don't have a full understanding of my cultural and ethnic identity. I would never tell you how to identify. So stop imposing how you see the world on me. Your continued responses seem only for your to justify your complete lack of empathy. You very obviously have not studied the complexity of Latino identity in the United States.

[@janisschifter8195]

my husband is african american and I am european/jewish. he has an awesome family and they respect me as well. our marriage is everything

[@LingandLamb]

So beautiful!!!

[@AFRICA4AFRICANS]

Is Jewish a race? or a faith

[@LingandLamb]

@@AFRICA4AFRICANS I am of Jewish race

[@CKay703]

Jewish people are members of an ethnoreligious group and a nation originating from the Israelites and Hebrews of historical Israel and Judah. Jewish ethnicity, nationhood, and religion are strongly interrelated, as Judaism is the ethnic religion of the Jewish people.

[@AFRICA4AFRICANS]

@@LingandLamb I thought Judism is a Religion not race... amazing how a group people manage to convince themselves and the others of this BS

[@Mars_o.g]

There’s a difference between Teaching her the tradition and imposing it on her. There’s nothing wrong with both of y’all learning new things from each culture

[@staceydb25]

I am an American black woman. My husband is Nigerian (Yoruba). Our marriage has been a real challenge. The common preconceived notions Americans have about Nigerians and Nigerians have about black American women was so hard to squash. We had to love each other beyond culture. Beyond customs and beyond habits. We love each other enough to accept the good and the bad and decided to do what works for OUR marriage. The challenges are hard but on the other side, we come out so much stronger. COMMUNICATION IS EVERYTHING!!!

[@beautifulabigail2886]

Very honest Stay blessed together

[@israelshells9726]

Sounds to me like a black man and a black woman one in four black women in America get married and that's to American black men I don't understand the point all relationships has to be worked at

[@snowblo1]

OMG, Ling looks like she could be half Asian. I'm so surprised. But she is so drop dead gorgeous & and Lamb is so adorable. Cute couple.

[@callmecarmella]

“If your not a good person you will always find problem in everything”….. that’s a whole topic/book within itself

[@DonnaTwyman]

I was in an interracial relationship for almost 30 years. My husband was American but grew up in Port Harcourt, Nigeria. During our marriage we put up with racism, bigotry and downright ignorance from family & friends. Many of his family hated that fact we were together. My family basically disowned me for the first 15 years or so. Walt & I learned each other. That included his black roots, his African roots & culture as well as my white roots & culture. We learned to respect each other's opinions, views and desires. The biggest reason we were together for so long was because we didn't see each other a color or different race. We saw each other as equal. He didn't force his culture onto me but he showed me it and I did the same for him. We incorporated some of all us in our marriage. That's the best part; Walter introduced me to African food (I am an egusi lover), the music and clothing. He also introduced me to his Black culture also with the food, music, as well as showing me the truths about what it means to be black in this country. We both fought hard to overcome the racism that was thrown at us. Not to mention the problems we had from being in a interracial relationship. That's a whole other conversation. I only recently started watching your videos. Lamb you are so much like my husband was. Funny, extremely proud of your wife & the life y'all have. Without even realizing it you both promote each other with love and best of all communication. Blessings to you both. Keep doing you.

[@batzmeditation2333]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE!!! How Lamb Has his OWN teddy bear YET! He remains fluid in his God Centered Masculinity & Consciousness embedded in a child like ❤.👏

[@akinpee]

"First things first, make sure you're a good person." - Lamb👌🏾 That's the most important factor in any relationship... whether intercultural or not. After all, there are several failed same-culture relationships. Kindness, generousity, empathy, selflessness, and loyalty don't belong to a particular culture/race. When they are present in both parties, the relationship stands a good chance of thriving in the face of any differences in backgrounds. Love you guys ❤️

[@sweetiepie4983]

AMEN💝💝💝

[@User-gj3rk]

Amen

[@patriciaferrazas-seidu8202]

Omg lamb hit the nail on the head when he mentioned others projecting their fears onto him! My husband goes through that very thing from his brother and some friends. Especially once they found out I'm American (he's Ghanaian) especiallysince we're working towards him coming here. It's definitely been an eye opener. I get called a white woman there while here I'm considered as "light skinned black woman." I try to immerse myself in different areas of his culture as often as I can, but I'm just naturally curious about those things. It has helped in a large way of understanding his temperament. He has a lot to learn from my culture as I'm multicultural, meaning I'm a mix of Puerto Rican, African American, Native American (Cherokee), and Pacific Islander. Which at any time there's something new for him to learn depending on what side of the family we're around. I do believe it makes it more interesting, educational, and fun. I have noticed those types of comments from some African women that my husband is only affectionate and loving to me because I'm multicultural and because I'm American. Which I think is a horrible assumption on their part.

[@craigpeter9169]

I am African myself, Lamb you make us proud I love you guys your chemistry is unbelievable you will always get apinoinated people in life , get on with your lives, can't wait for the next video

[@Diella037]

I am an American Black woman dating a proud Kenyan man. We talk culture all of the time and we teach each other. We had a lot of miscommunication and misconception in the beginning but as he said, "there is more love in our ocean than boulders" [obstacles]. A year later we are more in love than ever. It takes respect, communication, a genuine interest in that person and on keeping the love going. That's how we keep our fire lit. And Words with Friends tournaments. 😆😆😂

[@Khanslady]

Haha! Words with friends is how my boyfriend and I started, I challenged him and we went from there.

[@Diella037]

@@Khanslady 😍 Beautiful! Since we are apart, we make this one of our date activities.

[@evaharding9798]

I'm about to marry a Nigerian man and can I say the understanding of each other's cultures is still hard but I love him and work thru or communication

[@Diella037]

@@evaharding9798 You also have more love in your ocean than boulders. 😍

[@AntoineJacques]

I'm here wishing you well and I'm happy my Kenyan brother is doing well with you. Take care of him and i pray he does the same for you. I'm really happy for you guys

[@Brifagbuyi]

My husband is Nigerian and as the first American being integrated in his family, I’ve learned the beauty of keeping culture alive for so many generations.

[@bjbrownbob]

Wow you all must really be in love. Thank you for sharing.

[@bjbrownbob]

@Oscar 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@clok3486]

Am Half Nigerian,half chinese who grew up in Nigeria. Love your videos and keep spreading the love bcos you don't know who's gonna be infected with it. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@mankindgenerousity7075]

Kaaro ooo, imo Yoruba ling ying kayode😘😘😘

[@bunnyfrosting1744]

Well put!

[@israelshells9726]

How educated and intelligent are we because from our comments we act like little children all of us have taken science if the man carry the seed you are whatever your father is this nonsense about you being half this and half that it's poppycock you are your father.

[@sondramartinez9674]

This hair style is the best style on you. Even sis the opening of the nail shop. You look beautiful Ling this is this the hair style.

[@michelchalmers]

I look at the comments from different videos, and the energy that i am getting is that you guys are shocking the world in a good way. You are blessed. I want what you have, it is beautiful ❤️

[@AuthetiQLOVEAcademy-1]

YEZZZ❣❣❣Big KEY regardless to the cultures you must learn each other💜💜💜And not try to change each other❗❗❗

[@adebowaledavidkolade919]

People needs to know that interracial relationship is not as easy as it seems, the differences is real and you have to deal with it everyday, it takes lot of understanding and patience, by the way, Lamb you be full package.

[@mamoonunpretty3439]

Also when there are children

[@nreynolds75243]

intercultural can be a bit tricky. I'm black American and my husband is Nigerian. We may be the same skin color but that's it. I really didn't find it hard. My parents raised me to see the person, not the superficial. So I'm around different colors, nationalities, culture....people are people. I love their relationship.

[@odonnely01]

I’ve been really lucky I have always dated white guys and when I married them the didn’t notice when people acted stupid they just saw me as his wife. His parents were really old fashioned so it was hard at first but both my sets of in laws learned how to love us their children regardless of race especially when the grandkids came

[@WannaChill12345]

i'm currently planning marrying a nigerian who is also igbo, and I am American, Asian and Mexican also. Watching this video has helped me a lot I'm coming to the decisions I have made recently. You guys are so inspirational

[@onohifysandra4261]

Your husband to be is a very lucky man

[@LingandLamb]

We’re so happy to hear this and congrats on your relationship/ marriage!!♥️

[@kamabulus3061]

We are many here

[@itsclintonc]

Igbo tribes literally love to work hard and hard. Get ready to come to ala igbo.

[@itsclintonc]

@@gabbyokrah81 i don't need to see him, I'm emphasizing on igbos in generally.

[@cryptominers_hub]

Never Regretted Stumbling upon this Channel... My Blood Pressure always drops by 80% upon Watching you two... LING &LAMB.. Despite me not being Married.. i feel a Calming vibe running through my Brain.. wish i'll be Lucky to have a Relationship of Understanding like you two. The World needs more people like you. Let's Love Lead (TRIPLE L) LING AND LAMB I WANT TO WATCH THE BEHIND THE SCENES 😂 😂

[@livviemygirl]

He is Nigerian, I am American with European ancestry. We love sharing our cultures.We are both very interested in the other and laugh so much trying to learn. 😄 We talk out our differences because we love each other.

[@zinoryno6839]

Would love to learn your culture .

[@realtalkwithphil]

Wow... that's beautiful

[@l.apastore4208]

Your culture is just American. Americans with European ancestry makes about 70% of the total U.S population according to statistical sites such as statisticalatlas.com/United-States/Ancestry and www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2015/06/19/amazing-maps-show-where-americans-come-from-and-who-we-really-are-today/ . The whole wide world knows about your culture anyway so there’s not really much to learn because you Americans are great at exporting it, but are very naive (Sorry to say) to almost every other culture. So I guess you learning someone else’s culture must be a serene and fond experience

[@tamirajohnelle4700]

That’s beautiful😘

[@forevermimi9253]

@@l.apastore4208 very well said

[@gideonudogu8416]

My wife is a black American and we have been married for almost 35 years and we are happily married. She has been to Nigeria we are love by each other family. Relationship is work in progress. If someone marry, because of love it will last, but if the reason for the marriage is for papers, it will not last period. Pray together and always let God be the head of your marriage. Really enjoy your KZbin channel. God Bless you!

[@commanda3536]

Preach it!

[@commanda3536]

@ProudBoy what about Moses?

[@commanda3536]

So you're Jewish?

[@commanda3536]

@ProudBoy So as a Christian, shouldn't you wait on God for Him to show you the right person to marry. If you're having any problems you can take it back to Him.

[@laraoluwole5068]

Ling I admire your patience trying to learn to live with Lamb from a different background and culture. You really do love him and he loves you so much too.

[@demontaevibes7158]

ADDICTED TO THIS CHANNEL 😍🥰

[@bongiwemapoma4630]

Only discovered this channel 2 days ago after somebody posted them on Twitter. Funniest most authentic... Love from Zulu girl all the way from SA

[@mamapeppa3326]

@@bongiwemapoma4630 Love to you all the way in South Africa from a Jamaican living here in NYC.

[@moniquebreeveld1]

SAME!

[@znmadziv]

I think I relate to you guys, I am African and my wife is African American. We have been married for 23 years and like you guys, communication is an important aspect of our life. Most Africans seldom give me positive vibes about black women. I normally hear negative things about American women. So bro and sis, the most important thing in a marriage is love, communication and compromise. I know you speak English in Nigeria but for a man who has been in the US for less than 5 years you are doing great. I been in the US for 25 years and I am still learning the American culture. Actually, you are a fast leaner because I saw a video of you trying to help cook a turkey. Lamb you are very right about apologizing when you are wrong. We African man weren't raised that way. I can see your wife is a strong minded woman but an easy going young lady. Keep a good work, it's all about life not a contest.

[@chinwed.9341]

Thank you for these words

[@celestesobers8697]

Say it loud.

[@jimohidris4593]

Love how you guys are taking it one step at a time Dont force another person's culture down your partners throat

[@edames49]

My lovelies I am in an intercultural marriage and Ling my husband is not as flexible, and respectful as lamb. I have to tell you that we are not together because of this. You both are truly blessed! I love and support you both!

[@mellayella9274]

Love watching your channel!! My husband is Ghanaian and I am American so we can understand the issues and struggles you may face in an interracial/intercultural relationship. I love the African culture and have embraced it fully. My husband has been in America for years so is more American now, but still has his culture. Thanks for sharing this video guys.

[@LingandLamb]

Thanks for sharing! We love hearing if others are going through the same things and so interesting to hear everyone’s story! Much love to you and hubby! ♥️♥️♥️ Ling and Lamb

[@craigpeter9169]

Love your comment

[@ReubenMclord]

A Ghanaian blood here too.

[@karenbarton9971]

How long did it take to get him to the states

[@KocyshaWhite]

@@karenbarton9971 my question too.

[@olalekan2539]

You guys said it all... You don't need to force a culture on someone, let love lead. You both are different ❤💯

[@edames49]

1000 %. Much blessings hear!

[@BORNFREE876]

🇯🇲 Love is the common denominator in any relationship, so tolerance is the great equalizer, especially in cross-cultural romance.

[@wesleysimon1199]

I love the way you penned this down.

[@maoo8467]

I'm Polish and my husband Igbo. We've been married for 4years now and just like at the beginning i can only praise God for giving me such a good, godly, faithful, hardworking man. it's an undeserved gift of God for me. Of course there are very many differences but .. it's not that problem! Thank you so much for this channel! I love you , guys!

[@anjanaokwuma9128]

My husband is Igbo as well. Ohhhhh the blessing is real!! I thank God everyday!

[@jenniferatlet6238]

I am Igbo and my husband is Polish!! Haha we are "Polgerian" 😁😁

[@erranbahadurbk]

Man, this whole day I am watching their content! Amazing and lovey couple! Wow!

[@Zitagirl76]

LING, LOVE YOUR HAIR like this! dont keep it long- makes you look " older" , this one is chic, and so sassy! :))

[@sheilascoyne861]

Ling and Lamb, you said it perfectly, Love is Love. Thank you for being you. I once was in a relationship where it was love absolute. He is Italian and Haitian, me I am western European and American Indian. Everyone around us gave me there personal opinions. We never listened. He was my soul as I was his. The only reason we are not together today is, he wanted his own children. I had 3 at the time and due to cancer could not have any more. He loved my kids, he wanted and desires having his own. He was willing to give up his dreams of having his own children for me. I couldn't let him. Going through every step from conception to delivery. This man is and was such a phenomenal man, he deserved to be the father I knew this wonderful man would be. I could not give him this journey. So I moved away. This man still remains with in my heart and soul. I did find out a couple of years later that he did in fact marry and has two absolutely beautiful daughters. His dreams with blessings. Talk about making my heart happy. He is happy...

[@simplynancy374]

I started following you guys just recently and it hit me just now that Ling resembles Kate Hudson.Omg🙊

[@annielouey4241]

Ling and Lamb- As someone who just accidentally came upon your videos recently, I’ve come to ❤️ how honest, pure and beautiful they are. The love and joy that you both show towards one another is so heartwarming and refreshing to see nowadays, especially on these social media platforms. You both have such sweet and genuine personalities that shine through and it is very clear from the second your videos play that you’re both not “acting” or being “fake” just to get followers but just showing who you really are to the world. Another reason I’ve become a fan and follower is because of the relationship videos where you both discuss all kinds of topics, especially the interracial/intercultural issues that you often face in your own marriage. Lamb- your videos about dealing with the people in your life about how they view Ling on being a “white” American, which she’s not (she’s a mix of Portuguese, Jewish, black and white- Yes, I pay attention to ALL of your videos, lol!) and bothering you all the time to make her assimilate to your culture really struck a chord with me. I’m Chinese and my husband of 24 years is Puerto Rican. He’s born and raised in the U.S. while I came here when I was 1 1/2 years old. While I was brought up practicing many Chinese customs and traditions within our home, I was also a very all American girl to those who knew me outside of my family. While my husband’s family have never had an issue with our relationship, I’ve often felt that many other Latina women have looked at him and wondered why he didn’t stay with his own kind. I’ve even been around to hear that being said within my earshot. On the other side, it’s been my parents that didn’t want me to be with him because they’re from the old school way of thinking that I should stay with my own kind. As much as I loved my parents I hated the way their thinking was and never could get them to think otherwise. My friends and other close relatives were always supportive of whatever choices I made and loved my husband from day one. It took quite a long time but my parents finally came around and have accepted and embraced my husband as one of the family. I believe that time finally helped my parents see my husband for the wonderful person that he is and not by the color of his skin. They were also able to see how much my husband loved me and it brought them peace and comfort to know that there was someone to take care of me. I only wish that they had done it sooner so they could have saved me and themselves the heartache during those difficult years. I am blessed to have such a patient and wonderful husband who never judged my parents or were angry at them for their backwards way of thinking towards him. Ling and Lamb- I wish for you both to continue to have a wonderful and blessed marriage and that your love for each other will continue to grow. Continue to cherish each other and grow not only as a couple but as individuals. It is from that that you will both succeed in all of your endeavors. May God continue to watch and bless over you both. 🙏🏻🥰😍❤️

[@barbarahormenoo]

They are adorable. Ling’s hair is always on point. She’s beautiful!

[@LingandLamb]

Awww. Thanks so much!!!♥️♥️♥️ -Ling

[@giuliavelluti6234]

My boyfriend is Ghanian and I’m from Italy.. we have been together for 12 yrs and have been through some pretty tough situations including my family not accepting him.. some days are tough.. our beliefs, our cultures, way of thinking is completely different from each other but I can’t go through life without him and I want to go through all challenges with him. People will judge no matter what so do as you please and what makes you happy❤️

[@yemifadipe7161]

May God bless you and give you peace and strength.Amen.

[@thamsanqathusi9671]

@@yemifadipe7161 bestwishes hope you get married.

[@victordejung5675]

I can only imagine what they were saying in Italia 👐🙌🖐🤘🤌🤏🙌👐🤘🤚🤌🤌 🧀 🍷 🍝 🇮🇹

[@anselmenounagnon4560]

Love will always conquer , but pray God for you and your boyfriend relationship then the rest will be negativity.

[@victordejung5675]

+Giulia Velluti; Why would 🇮🇹 be soo difficult, aren’t Italians mixed anyways, it’s NOT like they’re Scandinavian or Oriental..🤔💭❓.

[@cityofgold1325]

Wow. So refreshing to hear Lamb has Ghanaian blood line 🇬🇭. Love you more ❤️ Love to cute Ling too. Much love.

[@jessicadelgado7577]

Thank you for doing this video. It's been so insightful bcuz I'm in an intercultural relationship with a yoruba man. And we're learning from both of our cultures(I'm a Chamorro from Guam). We both love discovering new things from each other's cultures. We are taking our time to learn about each other but in a loving way that isn't demanding. This solidifies tge fact that we are going about it in a positive way. Thank you so much for sharing! We love you both so much! Please keep posting your content.....we love it so much!❤❤

[@jessicadelgado7577]

And yes...oko mi calls me oyinbo pepe....lmbo! But it's ok....oko mi mo fe ran re❤❤

[@israelorigbemi1901]

@@jessicadelgado7577 wawu! You've really picked up in yoruba. Makes lot of sense, I can imagine how happy and comfortable your husband is with you... Well, from my name, I'm also a yoruba boy. Wish you guys the best, muah.

[@LingandLamb]

Awww thanks Jessica! We will def keep posting and we love having you both be a part of the Ling and Lamb fam ♥️♥️♥️. It’s so fun learning about each other, in time, and in fun!

[@jessicadelgado7577]

@@israelorigbemi1901 thank you so much for commenting. Yes, it's very loving how he teaches me. It also helps that I'm eager to learn but he's also enthusiastic in learning my language lol. He loves when I call him chebut neni(a loving way to say chubby baby). But my oko mi atata has my heart.🥰😍

[@jessicadelgado7577]

@@LingandLamb Davidi was the one that told me about your page on TikTok. Since then, I've subscribed to your KZbin channel and have told oko mi about your love story. I love you both and always look for new videos and pranks to watch. Please don't stop posting. I can't get enough of you both!🥰😍❤🤗

[@LetItBeSummer-1]

Ling your hair looks great and you have beautiful eyes! You two seem really great together. It’s nice to share each other’s cultural traditions & integrating parts of both into your lives! To heck with what anybody says. It’s none of their business!

[@princeaghamiogie7154]

When two individuals truely love one another, forebears one another and respect one another. There is no hurdle they can not over come.

[@angsana2800]

I love Lamb's accent. My hubby's family and friends speak like that and it melts my heart. When we prioritise love, the world will be a better place.

[@Enanou1]

I am Cameroonian and my husband is African American & I have had to hear about how I need to teach him all things Cameroonian and the pressure was so bad at times. I had to realize and know that my husband that God gave me is mine and the dynamics of our relationship is blessed by God. He is who is is and learns about my culture & trying to shove culture down people's throats is unhealthy. So bless you guys and your union, you are a beautiful couple. #Imhappilyblessedmarriedtomybestfriend.

[@Enanou1]

@@cygwanfogbe246 thanks 😊

[@anthonyotuya-ndubishi7330]

So Lamboghini you get Ukwuani blood for your system. Ajeh my brother... I love the way you guys show each other love... May your union be continually blessed...

[@kayceekholofelo9488]

This was really enlightening... I'm South African dating a Cameroonian guy and like you guys said, we're not trying to force our cultures on each other... And you also said one needs to be interested in learning something from the other's culture, thus I'm currently interested in learning French (his language)☺️ and so far, I'm doing pretty good and I'm not even in a hurry🥰 Certainly need a part 2 and 3 if possible. I love you guys❤️

[@agilityquickness2129]

Don't be afraid, keep moving

[@julesrogernkam7495]

Hi Sister in law(🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣) Welcome. I am a Cameroonian as well,a francophone living in the USA 🇺🇸. It is not easy even in the intertribal relationship in Cameroon let alone in Africa. But, it thinks trying to know and understand someone’s up bringing ( culture, language, family) helps a lot in any type of human relationship . Especially went there is no pretentious superiority of culture . Keep it up 👍

[@kayceekholofelo9488]

@@julesrogernkam7495 Heyyyy there, thank you😂😂 I know right, it's never easy but I'm more than willing to allow this relationship of ours to flourish and reach it's full potential, definitely believe in Us❤️

[@julesrogernkam7495]

@@kayceekholofelo9488 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 keep it up Sistou... Everything is doable whenever your mind is ready... Please tel him to be like a BOBOLO( flexible and easy to be eaten) LOL ...

[@kayceekholofelo9488]

@@julesrogernkam7495 Thanks a lot... I'll pass the message😅❤️

[@LG-kx8xl]

You two are such a beautiful couple! Your relationship is inspiring how you respect each other, try new things & have a lot of laughs & smiles. You have given the Best advice about marriage in saying do not force your culture on your spouse and to keep others out. That goes for all marriages. Too often women try to conform to however their husband does things & it can be stifling. To learn at your own pace & share what you're interested in makes it fun & keeps it respectful. You're right that you have the rest of your lives to learn about each other & that's what marriage is!💜

[@danielfransix]

Fellow nigerians, pls stop forcing lamb to teach ling stuff. Thank you.

[@billionairejumzietopbabe3304]

Ah.... I wonder o...imagine 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Eman14128]

She learning anyway , I beg o

[@danielfransix]

@@Eman14128 you beg for what?

[@joey1000_]

@ Daniel Fransix abeg is a way of expression as it connotes "pls let it be", LoL

[@camelio10]

Please sit down, no one can force anyone to do anything over the internet

[@victoriafortune1085]

Lamb is filled with wisdom...u guys really make a great couple💕💕... Love From Nigeria..❤

[@ebenezertoba508]

I enjoyed Lamb point of view, honestly. Thanks for teaching the likes of us.

[@jgf4255]

I am both from the Ivory Coast and the island of Guadeloupe in the Caribbean and my wife is Ukrainian. We enjoy learning from each other's culture and show mutual interest and respect. We never force our cultures on one another.

[@jiandanful]

Woow ! Ivorian and Gwada meeting Ukraine, that's some cultural "shock" right here ..I love it !

[@MsAngelaCrystal]

My Love is Gambian, I'm American. I'm so glad I found this channel!!

[@clementinaajaa3022]

Hello Lamb , the person God has put in your life is Ling and you should love her unconditionally and I know that she will return that love unconditionally to you . wishing both of you peace , love and blessing.

[@feliciasjourney1437]

I agree. Respect is universal, kindness is universal, love is universal and treating people right is universal

[@RichForeverworld]

The Quality on this video is SUBLIME🔥.

[@phyliciajoykloes]

Thank you for another good conversation, Ling and Lamb! Your videos are entertaining yet full of inspiration and provoke thoughts and conversations. I met my Gambian/Jamaican in the Netherlands, where I am from, and after we watched this together we had a chat about that people will share their opinions whether you ask or not. It often reflects on their I securities of past experiences that people generalise. I appreciate that you talked about taking it step by step learning about each others cultures. It is a learning curve for the long road for sure. We keep learning and growing. Wishing y'all a lovely day! Greetings from the Netherlands

[@MrTeebaba]

Love this video and y'all made a lot of good points. My wife is African American and i completely relate to the pressures Lamb is talking about. It's as if our naija people have a form of superiority complex, like we have the better culture & food and everyone else has to conform to it, that mentality needs to change. Other races and groups have their own traditions too and its perfect for them.

[@Genesisthebeaut]

I currently am with a west African from Cameroon, this video is awesome, thank you guys❤️🙏✔️ God Bless You. So real and authentic 💯

[@dianeross4522]

Y'all even 2 different parts of the same city can be a work in progress😂. I'm from west Philly and he is from south Philly. But seriously I absolutely adore this couple's channel.

[@Healthyliving600]

Make a part 2 in this. I love to hear more of this conversation.

[@foodzizzles]

Let me mark attendance , still busy will watch later , just had to mark notification attendance 😂❤️

[@oladipupoadebowale5276]

Lol 12 mins in...its a pride and lack of self awareness thing. Simply maturity. Keep shining guys....my wife and I love you from Nigeria. God bless.

[@azeezbiodun]

Wow! Lamb speaks igbo? & yoruba also! With some Ghanaian heritage 🙏🏽 #Majorkey 🤍

[@JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts]

“Love is love” and “you have to be a good person” are my favourite takeaways from this.

[@lightnessmushi3763]

Hey ling&lamb I really love you guys and today u hv touches my life I'm originally from Tanzania my dady is from Tanzania but my mom she's from Ghana so I'm mix and then now come to my life I got married with Mauritian which my husband is mix from Mauritius and French here its come to our kids so one day we were discussing what culture do they follow and we decided me and my husband to live like us no any culture to follow because if we will need to follow what culture we will follow Tanzanian, Ghana's, Mauritian, or French u see hw its mix so I think its better to live ur own life and just spread love to ur kids, like teach them to respect everyone although its kind hard sometimes.

[@olugbemisolashittu8250]

Very well said and this was beautiful to watch. Loving all the diversity you both represent. And what a joy to see that you’re both giving yourselves grace as you grow in your journey!

[@OmakaSammie_SamNaija]

It's truly not an easy road, the cultural differences need TIME to come to a place of balance, understanding and patience whilst learning how those differences makes the relationship tick. Parents, friends who aren't used to this will as a biological tingle want to avoid anything that goes out of the normal.

[@NatalieStHill-us9vb]

The way Lamb adores Ling is priceless. Bless

[@victorabiola9170]

Great one guys. I’m glad you can make it work and have set examples for those who’ll love to start something like this. Much love ❤️

[@isaquilayan_26]

Wow! This so far is the most interesting I've heard about intercultural couples. It's just so good that there's just a natural blending of two cultures. I love it when you two discuss about relationships because you always agree with each other. Keep the love growing.

[@Angela-hm3xt]

When I look at your comments, I see all positive. I don’t think the majority of Nigerians would ask why he isn’t married to a Nigerian. Even in Nigeria, we intermarry culturally.

[@t.i.c8511]

I agree but it's the younger generation that is changing, majority of the older generation still believe that people must marry from their own tribes. (Sometimes they might have genuine reasons) And a lot of times the younger ones give in to their Parents pressure..

[@jero0418]

Why would I want to ask any Nigerian why they not married to a Nigerian. Why would I bothered asking that question....

[@Angela-hm3xt]

For the most part, your family , especially your parents and grandparents, would usually want you to marry your own culture for familiarity and it’s a culture they can easily relate to. When there is a language difference, the older parents may feel they can’t communicate with their grandchildren. They also want you to stay in the culture to stay close to home. They mean well. They are not trying to put other cultures down. Your close friends might also want to marry within your culture for the same reason. Other people that are not family members and friends don’t usually tell you who to marry. This I know . Every culture does this and we know that very well.

[@jero0418]

@@Angela-hm3xt.... It's be unfair to use these amazing couple page to debate about what every family in Nigeria do. But it be bit one sided for one individual to say what is normality for every person in a population of 160 million would do, there exception to the rule and family in Nigeria are evoloping with time. What was the nor 5 years ago is the nor now. I wouldn't care less about who my children marry or what what sex they married. Its a tiny proportion of the whole picture. Does like my parents knew better than have any expectations of who I married than my happiness. I think we need to not paint Nigeria in a singular methodology country, every one is an individual where many are exception to the majority.. Peace ✌️ up

[@Angela-hm3xt]

@@jero0418 if you read my comments carefully, I used the words “for the most part and usually”. I don’t know what your argument is about. You’re are the one saying everyone. I never said that. I don’t know what you’re defending. I only commented on what I heard on the video. The majority of people around the world are married within their cultures and races. It just seems Naturally when that happens. But it doesn’t mean people shouldn’t marry outside their culture if they wish. Culture bias is not Nigerian thing. It’s the whole world thing.

[@Me_myself_and_I_AM_Vision]

My husband is cuban and I am African American woman and we love your channel.

[@bernardkwakye434]

Lamb: For me I would have pack my bag ; I don’t have time hahha . Lamb never disappoints

[@Jerseysfinest12]

Never!!!!

[@SA-Godfavorite]

Lamb is influencing Ling 0:06 😄😍, she said hmmm and shaked her head. Love is love regardless ❤ 💯

[@lanardoware9277]

When I was stationed in Germany I met and fell in love with a Turkish lady at first sight. I couldn't believe the beauty in front of me. At first, she wouldn't give me the time of day but once she agreed to go out with me, we were inseparable. We dated four years but her parents wouldn't approve of the marriage. I was devastated and left Germany without her. I day doesn't go by without me thinking of her and the love began in 89...

[@remiem-iw7uk]

Wow! That's tough!

[@tvs9978]

Why have you cheated yourself of your love for so long? Look her up. She might still br single or divorced and her parents might be dead so there would be no impediments in your way now. Otherwise you'll always have this regret

[@trollreality834]

I wondered if you were white, would her parents have reconsidered? Probably!

[@heidiaufderalm2131]

@@trollreality834 As I am living in Germany and we have a lot of Turkish people here - I would say things are better today. But at that time (1989) there was no way for a Turkish girl to have a non-Turkish husband. Even the young Turkish men weren't allowed to marry (German) non-Turkish women. A school fellow of mine committed suicide because her Turkish boyfriend was forced to marry a Turkish woman...

[@PulaneLehloo]

Wow! You too are so amazing and you are blessed to have found each other. Lamb, you're so right as a person you first have to be happy yourself, be a good and kind person first. 👏👏👏👏👏👌👌👌💗💗💗

[@mayowafasina5320]

I lost it at "correct oyinbo peppersoup" 😂😂😂😂. I think the issue is because there's less racial diversity in Africa and also we're very traditional. In Nigeria, intertribal marriages too experience contempt from family and society. With couples like yours though, I think enlightenment is coming. You guys are great ✌🏽

[@OnyinyechukwuOkolie]

I knew it. Lamb has the typical Igbo Features. Loved this video

[@edzenheitxerxes535]

I am in tune with the fact that one has to be good to have intercultural or interracial marriage. Both of you are looking perfect because of the orientations of your inner personalities. Always play Karma, and if you can be sincere to yourself of the requirements of Karma, you can marry from any culture.

[@kimlee8768]

I was just sitting quite comfortable in my car, in the parking garage at work this morning watching your video...hahahahaha! I jotted down a few things that really resonated with me: 1. Make sure you're a good person - In my opinion, some persons may say "good" is relative but I'm sure we all can determine good from bad. 2. Don't impose your culture on the other person. Both persons should give themselves space and time to learn each other's culture. 3. Love is love so let love lead. Personally, I was never open to the idea of interracial or intercultural relationship because I feared being misunderstood, taken for granted or bearing constant conflict due to the differences. But over time, I developed an open mind to it and came to the realization that, once you remain honest about yourself and someone is open and honest with you, there is nothing to worry about. I believe at the core of every relationship is openness and honesty, no matter how hard or ugly the truth is.

[@markngu6449]

The pepper soup part off me😅. Some good content here I must say. you addressed this in the simplest and purest form. I have been enlightened 😌

[@FX_Motivationz]

Very valid point... See the person as an individual not the view of where they come from. Nice one!

[@gabyzico669]

Lamb’s grandmother is Ghanaian?? Man your family is ethnically diverse. I envy you Lamb.

[@kennykross3306]

Who told u so

[@lindaumidy407]

He said his dad's mother is from Ghana

[@gabyzico669]

@@kennykross3306 The guy literally says so in the video

[@Addi_Teacha509]

Same people

[@Abdirahman-giftednation]

By you guys being yourself, especially in your relationship. Is definitely changing Lives.

[@doyinsage]

"Me I don't have time" my mantra right there. 😂 Good advice guys.

[@kimlee8768]

If most of would make it our mantra too, we probably would have less conflict in the world lol I'm guessing....

[@musteemustang3439]

It is a great blessing to have a woman that sparks the fire to make life worth exciting... For some men, this is the energy that makes them understand who you are in happiness.

[@CoffeeCrazy]

Respect is what is important. It is important not to see yourself as more superior than one another. Us Americans can think our way of living and speaking is better than others.

[@mely28mel]

In any relationship respect and trust is key

[@justcallmebon2684]

I’m confused. I had no idea you guys were interracial! ♥️

[@mandybentley2641]

Ling, your hair looks beautiful like that! Curls suit you!

[@liometalib96]

My grand mother on my mums side is Nigerian. My granddad is Lebanese. My mum married my dad who is from the democratic republic of Congo. I speak Igbo, Yoruba and English with a little french. My husband is Yoruba - Nigerian. I love the Nigerian culture and embraced it. My husband never forced me. I kneel to greet my mother in-law because it is a sign of respect. I love and respect my mother in law, so it gives me pleasure to greet her the traditional way though we live in the UK. Thanks to my grand mother, I was challenged to perfect the art of preparing Nigerian meals. My proudest day was when I cooked Egwusi soup and my grandmother loved it.💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

[@califflourish6985]

You're Gem I must say. Some women in your position won't feel the need to learn all this stuffs and put them into practice. A well cultured woman and man produces a beautiful family.

[@amiliarek7521]

Oh my gosh wow! That’s beautiful

[@agilityquickness2129]

Your head is dia💪🙌

[@godfreychinweokwu7573]

Wow

[@foreverblessedministries]

Man I would never kneel to know human unless it’s Jesus Christ

[@jocarrington3439]

Lam can't say it any better, you are so right my brother,, support from Ghanaian sister in America,, I'm Ghanaian married to American , my hubby sing and do a lot of Ghana stuff waaay bfore I met him, something I will played songs and he will be in the background sing and I will be like, how did he know the lyrics, he knows more than I thought he should know and I love it ,I know gradually ling will be there, you can drag a horse to the river but you can't force the horse to drink, people always have opinion about how others to run their relationship but they can't run theirs

[@thejidelagos]

This is actually quite educating, if i count how many times I've seen on twitter our women saying Nigerian men treat Oyinbo different than they treat them and all sort. Treat everyone individually, everyone's story is different.

[@josaunders4858]

Hi guys I have met a beautiful Nigerian man on social media. He approached me to be friend's. To be honest & serious I initially didn't respond as with so many others.. he was president & I just thought I'd day hi & thanks for reaching out... He is the most amazing person I've met & his faith in God brought me closer to him... To cut a long story short he's the most exquisite gem I've ever met & love h dearly. I am the one who's blessed by him!

[@jeff267911]

True talk guys, Love is Love, I have been married to my wife for 25 years this year. She is half Algerian and Half French and am Igbo delta and her favorite Nigerian soup is between Ogbono and Egusi

[@maryanyah]

Brother mi!♥️

[@beachgirl9125]

I love how much you laugh together and ling you are so beautiful it’s astounding ✌️

[@israeloluwasanmi3618]

These guys love is so loving 😍

[@preciousarodiwe7302]

Understanding is the key in any relationship🙌🙌🙌 Love this conversation. This Lamb ehnnnn 😂🥰🥰🥰

[@Lifewideview]

Its long you pranked Lamb... Ling give us something for the the week to laugh on..