Career Change: The Questions You Need to Ask Yourself Now | Laura Sheehan | TEDxHanoi

Having successfully navigated the challenges of finding employment in seven countries over the span of 15 years, Laura guides you through her journey and provides tips on how to find success...wherever you are. Laura E.P. Sheehan - Career Strategist and Founder of E.P. Career Strategies
Laura is a U.S. lawyer turned expat career strategist who stumbled upon her life’s calling whilst living in Hanoi. Having decided years ago to accompany her husband in his international career moves, Laura has lived in seven countries over the span of 15 years. Mere weeks into her time in Hanoi, Laura seized upon a new opportunity to utilize her experiences to empower the wider global community of “trailing spouses.” In the two short years that she has been in Vietnam, she has successfully made a full transition into the role of a global career strategist. Laura was recently recognized by the Associates of the American Foreign Service Worldwide (AAFSW) as a top nominee for the 2017 “Champion of Career Enhancement for Eligible Family Members (CCE-EFM)” Award and was featured in the AAFSW’s January 2018 edition of Global Link. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@diamondunicorn2421]

I’m changing careers after two decades at the same job. It’s like a divorce. You can’t just get out there and date again. You have to find you again. And transition into something your comfortable with and be able to grow in other directions. I often feel pressured to do what other ppl want me to do. But I’m finding my own niche and direction. Thanks for your video. It’s helpful.

[@dm8127]

Thanks for your comment. Similar situation here. Question for you - what are you finding helpful in your quest to "find you" again and also find that right next career? Thank you.

[@phillipwee3631]

Diamond, I’m in the same boat. Got laid off after exactly 20 years at the same place. It’s only been a month, but I’ve only now begun to find me again, as I’d lost who I was gradually. I’m looking inward, finding my true self now.

[@jaybivens8734]

That is exactly what I needed to read right now. Im scared to be honest!

[@DougsTea]

I am 38 and its daunting changing careers.

[@imanmekni231]

11¹¹

[@lucaswaring7472]

Here’s to all the career changers out there! It’s worth it to follow your passion and do what you love despite what others may think. Changing careers is never easy but if it’s a change that will make you happier and better person, then it’s always worth it!

[@chefe2152]

I'm here in bit different situations. Presently I do.what I love,im chef,not really cooking anymore but executive chef,more managing and hr stuff than grilling a steak,but im getting to the point when im fed up with it,the type of challenges, trust me they are particular, politics ..... anyway,I'm considering my love for trade to something that will pretty much guarantee me weekend off and 8 hurs shift ,while having 2 kids and family. Not sure if im doing it for the right reasons?

[@debbiegum2226]

Teacher for almost 25 years and I walked away from it. Trying to decide what to do next. A big part of me feels guilty for leaving the profession

[@awuoromollo4010]

​@debbiegum2226 am counterplating, leaving finance and doing nursing course.

[@gayatri-ydkh]

Key points - Don’t sacrifice your potential for anyone or anything or it brews resentment. Keep asking yourself “if you could do anything what would it be” at every stage of life. Don’t stick to one idea of who you could be. Grow more perspectives. 3 tips - 1. Be open to and ready for change (12-15 careers per person is normal. Change is growth) 2. Embrace the experiences ditch the title. (Your work as an artist portfolio. Every part and whole, complete in themselves.) 3. Make meaningful connections. (85% jobs are filled by word of mouth. Tell the world what you wanna do so when a opening comes they think of you.) Keep asking people how did they come to be here and if they could do anything what would it be.

[@lailaalfaddil7389]

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[@lailaalfaddil7389]

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[@markinson561]

Graduated with a BS in criminology. Worked as. Director at Boys n Girls Club then middle school reading teacher then personal trainer then juvenile program case manager then after school program director now truck driver. Be the best at what u do, maintain a good attitude and build connections. God knows the plan… Just keep working hard n smart n stay prayed up💯

[@eIevenG]

Changing jobs is an asset. Changing jobs increases the ability to solve problems. It shows adaptability. Develop and adapt skills to solve life’s challenges. Make meaningful connections. Actual conversations. Find success. Personal connection.

[@minhyukismxskey7286]

Bro, that I wrote in my dairy while listening....that is her point, by the way not everyone has this capability cause it comes under creativeness...

[@bichlien9533]

lean responses, nice moves ^^

[@lozkokaramitev8027]

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[@FoodTraveleroya]

I agree Mike. I like the way you wrote it. I recently changed my job. Just great. I began tubing food videos.

[@sarasparacino5600]

I needed to read this. thank you.

[@262.8.7]

If you haven't changed job not just once but a few times, you're behind the times. Changing jobs can be a strength. It can be an asset in your professional development. It can show that you're flexible, adaptable, resilient and that you have creative problem-solving abilities. Change, after all, is only another word for growth, a synonym for learning.

[@kishorvikram1]

Words ❤️

[@ryanthompson591]

Changing jobs and changing careers are different things

[@Aki-wq6xh]

Love

[@paranoos2474]

Laura the Lawyer has employed her logic to deliver a convincing speech. Many achieved women are like Laura who followed their husbands or partners to go to a new country where they cannot find the jobs that match their educational background or experience. They do make a sacrifice of their career and it's totally okay if they are once in a while resentful, unhappy. But Laura has an important advice here: be open-minded. If it is difficult to find a job that matches, explore something else (or maybe study or learn a new skill). Never stop. In fact, it is the time when people are off-trajectory they are most thoughtful or resilient. People like Laura have the privilege to land a good job, but the thing is everyone can, if you believe in yourself and keep trying. Once we drove through a tunnel in North Europe that's 25 km long one way. Once we entered the tunnel, it was a different world. Dark, isolated, dull. It took us what it appears to be a long, long time to get out of the tunnel. It felt good. Some time in your life you might find yourself in that tunnel - but don't give up and at the end of the tunnel there is sunshine. I wish everyone can live to their full potential and blossom under any conditions!

[@coversbyrinetal7271]

Very said. Thank you.

[@MustafaKhan-gg8uo]

Totally agree with you.

[@priyankapakhi]

Its just my story. Accompanied my husband, was thrilled to move & live in USA just to get depression, no work visa, sat at home for years n when i got my work visa, still loosing jobs since Im still a newbie. Had problems of even having kids. Totally lost in life but still holding up & will fight this & becm v successfull on my own. What doesn’t kills u make u stronger.

[@okoverallknowledge564]

Before changing job Must watch this: I have made a video on my channel regarding the same topice. Can check out for more in detail steps. Steps that will help you take up higher responsibilities: • Gather Experience Experience counts a lot when it comes to going up in life. Learn from everyone and everything possible. Update your knowledge and gather some good skills. The more experienced you are, the better your chances of going up in life. • Prepare a Document While approaching the people who could promote you, or give you new responsibilities, always carry documents which show your successful endeavours. CVs, portfolios, certificates, press cuttings, reports of the projects you have handled - all these could be helpful. • Talk about 'Their' Benefits During the interview, it is very important to discuss the benefits that you can give to your organisation. Talk in terms of definite numbers. Do a little bit of research as you prepare for the interview. Whatever new assignment you take up, you have to leave your mark. Bob Dole, a former American leader who ran for the US Presidency, once said, "When it's all over, it's not who you were. It's whether you made a difference."

[@DrJonTam]

thank you for this very positive message

[@itsyami4880]

I am about to quit my 8yr job without having anything else standing by. I am so miserable at my current job that my anxiety and stress level is killing me. I am scared to make mistake

[@zoemonarch9680]

Did you quit? I hope you did. No job is worth making you feel miserable, stressed, and anxious. You deserve better :)

[@itsyami4880]

They didn't let me leave but I was allowed to go on a leave of absence for 2 months. What if I am making a mistake , all I've done is this job and now I feel hopeless... Its not even an amazing job to begin with

[@pumpkinpie7753]

I’m feeling the same way

[@AJ-ls7tn]

@@itsyami4880 I feel the exact SAME way. I spend early mornings worrying about how much I have to do...worrying of making a mistake and looking incompetent....worrying of what others are saying as I pass by. At times I feel suicidal. If I didn't have my mom's grief of my suicide to worry about...I'd have done it already

[@soriano1996]

@@itsyami4880 I’ve been at my job for almost 2 years and I feel the same way. Take those 2 months and try to find something else. If you haven’t yet, watch Laura Sheehan’s TEDx talk "Career Change: The Questions You Need to Ask Yourself Now". I’m also on the path of almost quitting my job + trying to figure out what to do next. I wish you well on your journey 💕

[@bulbul6]

"I chased my husband." It's refreshing to see other women owning their life and going for what they want.

[@azap9006]

Chase for your own skills and dreams.Being a woman,married or not do not limit you.Dream Big. Rarely do men listen to their wives or follow them in their wildest dreams and or paths. Who best than you can stand up for yourself?

[@priscillajimenez27]

Dang did he want her?

[@personincognito3989]

Bulbul, I really hope you don't chase your husband. I did that. The 1st couple of years were good, but it went down hill from there because if you chase him before your married you will be chasing his affection for the rest of your Marriage. I'm going to leave

[@user-fw5qm9vu4s]

So u want husband to chase her

[@charmedprince]

We stan a queen who goes after who she wants ❤

[@chiwiria4342]

She reminds me of Joy from Inside out

[@feliciahuang5096]

oh it reminded me too!

[@BobbyBlaine730]

Facts!

[@mycake1515]

Some questions I ask myself: Am I happy? Do I see myself doing the same thing in the next 10 years? Do I see myself doing that person's job? Am I the go-to person to ask for help? What else is there to learn? It is incredibly easy to reason out once your finances are in check and your circumstances allow it.

[@jolieangelic4747]

Couldn't agree more. When financial are in check, we can do anything. Although it will take some time to be financial freedom.

[@susantanath1461]

This video might go viral in the coming years. It is indeed the direction the world is moving toward. More power everyone thinking about switching jobs. We get one shot at life. Live it fully!

[@eddiej9221]

Did anyone notice her keep changing her cards to the next topic without looking at it once? She is an amazing speaker

[@towneishahoston7254]

What are the skills that you consistently use in everything you end up doing?? Think of your work as an artist’s portfolio. Tracks growth. Adding to your work, building skills. Ditch the title, embrace the opportunities. How to land the job: Make meaningful connections. **Word of mouth!!!!** Plug in with people not devices. Ask questions.

[@DrJonTam]

Yep, soft skills and hard skills that are transferable makes a world of difference

[@priyankapakhi]

Its just my story. Accompanied my husband, was thrilled to move & live in USA just to get depression, no work visa, sat at home for years n when i got my work visa, learnt technology, went into a new field, but still loosing jobs since Im still a newbie & have visa issues. Had problems of even having kids. Totally lost in life but still holding up & will fight this & becm v successfull on my own. What doesn’t kills u make u stronger. I regret leaving my job back then but had no options then, as i was so excited to come to USA. Life is full if challenges & it will only make me grow & learn more.

[@herbalmix]

Ditch the titles and go for your skill set and interests, be open to new opportunities!

[@FoodTraveleroya]

Exactly

[@mah0625]

My wife's stuff she delt with take the cake.

[@sil.b.c.m289]

if only you worked in a HR department for a big german company, it would be awesome...

[@okoverallknowledge564]

Before changing job Must watch this: I have made a video on my channel regarding the same topice. Can check out for more in detail steps. Steps that will help you take up higher responsibilities: • Gather Experience Experience counts a lot when it comes to going up in life. Learn from everyone and everything possible. Update your knowledge and gather some good skills. The more experienced you are, the better your chances of going up in life. • Prepare a Document While approaching the people who could promote you, or give you new responsibilities, always carry documents which show your successful endeavours. CVs, portfolios, certificates, press cuttings, reports of the projects you have handled - all these could be helpful. • Talk about 'Their' Benefits During the interview, it is very important to discuss the benefits that you can give to your organisation. Talk in terms of definite numbers. Do a little bit of research as you prepare for the interview. Whatever new assignment you take up, you have to leave your mark. Bob Dole, a former American leader who ran for the US Presidency, once said, "When it's all over, it's not who you were. It's whether you made a difference."

[@DrJonTam]

I love how she focused on transferable soft skills

[@allenc4731]

One of the most inspiring taiks I've seen so far on personal success or better yet, on finding who you really are.

[@motomarrk]

Disclaimer: Her husband was a diplomat. So financial troubles faced is solved.

[@DrJonTam]

Yes, clearly she had to option to "explore" given her financial security

[@sherielynflores8612]

Hahaha.

[@Heisrisen237]

But she still was searching to do something, she had the financial security, but she needed more and she found it with meaningful jobs that gave her purpose.

[@suwan1986]

Is tough if you don't have the financial security

[@Yourmom-cy5yv]

disclaimer: you dont get chicks :(

[@SillyKoala]

"Ditch the titles. Embrace the experience"

[@bipclaire]

Sometimes the previous identity gives us too much stress and expectations because we carry that with use. We think we need to know everything and do everything; however, being overseas and traveling are the best personal development I'd ever had. It broadens your horizons completely and change the way you see about the world.

[@Jasc101]

I have been struggling with what career path to take for years. This video gave me alot of good points, but I particularly like this "What are the skills you consistently use in everything you end up doing, there in lies your strength, your story, your path to success"

[@Ghost_D4A]

For those who have an assignment on this like me, the three steps are below: 1. Be open to and be ready for change 7:14 2. Embrace the experience, ditch the titles 8:43 3. Make meaningful connections 10:29

[@johnzmurko1245]

Thank you saved me going back and re watching it multiple times!! 🙏🙏

[@vivayo4588]

Such a great talk. I always find shocking when somebody tells me "I cannot afford to quit my job" or the best one " you are so lucky to have a job and live in the UK". But I am the living proof with a dream and a plan you can get a lot of fulfilment in life - money does not do that. I am not "lucky", I started in live with no parents no money, I worked really hard and took the path of uncertainty while I could have much easily taken the path of easy. It was scary at time, but mostly exciting. While I studied full-time a degree abroad, I work part time to finance myself. I achieved a career in a number of different areas. I learnt new languages, many new skills, met amazing people and had fulfilling experiences while doing it. But most importantly, I got to know myself. You don't need to do what I did, my point is, is easier to make excuses for oneself instead of going out there and fighting for what you want. There is always a way forward, as long as you have done the work of knowing what ticks for you and seeing it throu. No matter if you achieve your goal, the goal changes anyway as you move toward it, as Laura (not the lawyer) says, the important is the EXPERIENCE, ditch the title. Don't label yourself into a corner, that is all she is saying in a very well articulated way! Labels and job titles are an excuse to hide and wither.

[@DrJonTam]

A lot of times it is excuses that are holding us back. But I think she's focusing on the fundamental mindset shift on moving away from titles and focusing on the skills. This is the trend of the future.

[@Rreynu]

Inspiring🌻more power to you💫

[@dianaprilia8209]

If you could do anything, what will it be? Step 1: be open tp and ready for change. Step 2: embrace the experience and ditch the titles Step 3: make meaningful connections

[@jcmeducationstudioportal1994]

Job hopper here. Already worked as a writer,editor, college teacher, musuem staff as my first job, also at some point a review instructor to ielts test takers. Ive learned a lot but now that im in my mid 30s I think it is time to settle in one place

[@lenanarla]

I always ask myself, how do I get different jobs without the qualification?

[@violetmoon6233]

I'm the same how did you go? Did you find your dream job? ✨

[@coversbyrinetal7271]

Ive been stuck in my career for more than 20years. With my collected fruitful experience in managing people (healthcare), I was hired a year ago to manage managers which I thought out of my comfort zone. Until last week, I was still trying to go back to my previous role but it seems that there's no result for negotiations. Well, with this video, I am accepting it now and I believe, I will have more upcoming assignments🤔😊

[@Natalie-vd8df]

Out of all the jobs you had worked, which one did you like the most? and why?

[@DrJonTam]

Yep, stats show that job hopping is much less acceptable once you hit your 30s. Made a video series about jobhopping and how to overcome it recently

[@danielchenjs]

Laura, THANK YOU for this. I'm in the midst of changing my career after being retrenched recently, and what you had share made a lot of sense and it is also very inspiring. I've never thought of one's career (or, CV) as a collection of an artist's portfolio. I mean the idea of thinking that each job we had is a standalone art piece, but when pooled together, it represents the artist's life work, theme and purpose in its creative expression. Wow.

[@songpark2849]

"embrace the experiences and ditch the title." love it.

[@ovamanda]

- W O W - I am not often compelled to write in the comments section, but after listening to so many talks before on the same subject, finally one that really spoke to me! Thank you Laura!

[@finepakiinemporia]

You had me in tears... I literally have felt like the "trailing spouse" for the last five years. I wanted to go to Law School, but my husband is an engineer, which means we move for work often. I had a child right after we got married and stayed in what I thought was a "dead end" job, working remotely this whole time. I hated when people asked/ask me what I do and often struggle to answer as well. Just now after the last five years am I realizing that I have had it pretty good. Even though I wasn't moving up in a vertical trajectory at my job, I was making connections with people that I needed to. I was showing up when I needed to. I am always available for my 4 year old. The pay is not great, but a local company in the same field I am in recently contacted me and I may well be on my way to making a large salary jump and working in a local office. Will I always struggle to be okay that I didn't go to law school and become THE LAWYER - maybe. But if I can spend more time with my kiddo and make a nice cushy salary, then why not? Thank you for your encouraging words Laura. I wish I could spend time with you in person over a coffee!

[@violetagood9051]

I truly appreciate your wisdom! I needed to hear this! I feel lost at 48 having moved to another state and sacrificed a job but now realize I get to write the other half of my life- by looking at my experiences!

[@letslia213]

I am now 48 and feeling like you!!!!! How are you doing 3 years later??????? I am in the list and chaos stage

[@letslia213]

Lost*

[@ceciliaperez9270]

I came here because once again I want to change careers. I’ve worked in childcare, teacher, restaurants, marketing, PA, retail, hotel, reception, administrator and now digital marketing and graphic design looking into doing interior design 😆 Is fun but stressful, not finding eternal passion for something, I just wish to stick to something.

[@jg9368]

I'm also in the same place, I've done retail, restaurants, freelancing, now I'm working in the health field, but I'm starting to get an itch to become a lawyer. It honestly makes sense, because even as a child being asked "What do you want to be when you grow up?" would always follow up with a different answer...scientist, lawyer, doctor, archeologist, anthropologist, etc. I'm starting to believe I will never have a set career, but I'm not mad at it. I used to feel so insecure that I couldn't stick to one thing. I've always wanted to master something, but eventually got too bored to do so. At 24, I finally accepted myself, I just like to learn and if I had a choice I'd try every single job the world had to offer.

[@Bearliu]

I think it's all good to try. Prob the first step is not answering those questions but to do quick research - find out what are questions matter to us in the cheapest and fastest way. Talk to people, google search, and reach out for informational interviews.

[@martinformato895]

That's great advice - figure out what you want to do and tell the world. More specifically have a conversation with those doing it so they can keep you in mind if an opportunity arises.

[@luxuryvn]

Incredible talk! Thank you Laura the Speaker for this motivating speech. And thanks TED for sharing countless inspiring melodies to people all around the world.

[@nylg13]

Wow. This is a really good talk. She has that certain charisma that will pull you to be attentive on what she's talking about. :) I needed those questions at this moment in my life. Thank you!

[@ayeshasiddiqui4790]

I just totally relate this speech, as I wanna be a doctor, I struggled very hard to achieve this title "Doctor" or I can say my childhood dream! but it didn't happen, after that i switched 2 degrees, but I wasn't satisfied then I got admission in one of the best uni on scholarship then I started to find my track my direction but everytime these society standardized titles shook me very hard. Everyone asked me that after completing this degree what would you be?! What we call you an Engineer or a doctor!! I have passed this very painful journey of my life & after 5 years struggle people calling me a motivator, an entrepreneur, Business strategist and are happy to welcome me in every kind of work. Literally these society standardized titles made me feel like Im. nothing, I don't do anything! You can change ur career, u can be anything and anywhere just keep going n keep exploring. Ofcourse titles doesn't matter!

[@LS-xx8wg]

I went to the ER and am still working today due to how difficult and stressful my job is. It’s time to change and find something better.

[@tedxhanoi2045]

Thanks Laura for starting off our event with an awesome talk. Great insight for us.

[@widlyneburrows4779]

Fox University capital korn u

[@carolinel.6204]

So sweet woman you are Laura the Inspirer. Your talk really touched me. My best wishes on your ongoing journey. Blessings

[@volare106]

Thanks for the invigorating share. To me, what you're describing in your second point "to embrace the experiences and not the job" is the definition of the gig economy, which we're currently in. As a mid-career, mid-aged professional I'm currently embarking on answering the question What do I want to do when I grow up? Your insights are much appreciated and my key takeaway are the two questions to ask your strategic connections. Of the two, the second one "If you could do anything, what would it be" is exceptionally thought-provoking. Whether or not the person authentically responds to that question can give additional perspective on the role or industry that you might be interested in joining. Keep up the great work and hopefully we'll be able to connect one day in the future.

[@pr3bsrz]

Be open and ready for change Changing jobs is an asset strength for your career Embrace the experiences .. ditch the title Make meaningful connections

[@thunguyenle5926]

I see myself in her story. Thanks Laura for sharing her ways to sustain and succeed.

[@TitanCoach]

Determining what you were meant to do is a big interest to me and my guests. It’s a discovery’s process sometimes, often a life long process. Great talk Laura. 👍👏

[@DigitalDiego]

After following my true passion of producing music my happiness is at all time high! I literally just graduated med school. It's never too late! Now I'm a mindset coach to help those make the transition. :D

[@sarahm4005]

Inspiring talk and a really good reminder in step 2 to look at consistent skills over a lifetime, rather than merely the ones used in your current job-thank you Laura.

[@fluffynamedkimba]

this is wonderful, thank you very much!

[@SportSphere360_]

interesting talk, and interesting advise to connect with people instead of devices. And 85% of jobs are filled with word of mouth.

[@FoodTraveleroya]

Unfoŕtunately todays world is totally different

[@Mrs.T305]

Advice*****

[@azap9006]

You make my day:connect to people instead of devices...

[@bellabella1670]

Thank you, needed to hear this

[@olgakukh9512]

Brilliant talk! Resonated with my views and experience so much)) Thank you!

[@soledadgomez123]

Awesome speech . I have been in a similar career pathway as you. Moving around the World with my husband and kids and doing anything I needed to find new jobs that helped me to propel my career. This is an amazing perspective of how ready we are to do “anything” we want anywhere and how rare is the skillset that I have. As you said: like an artist portfolio. Every step I take helps me to create a meaningful outcome that supported myself and others around the World. New connections and hacking culture is the way to progress. Thanks for this TED talk and for being “here” today, open to speak and influence others. Congratulations

[@jennynguyen2272]

As someone with a career change decision, this video truly resonates with me. Such an incredibly inspiring video, had I been present, I would have been the most enthusiastic audience.

[@bellebelleme]

She’s so clean, concise, & engaging. You Tubers can learn a lot from her.

[@FoodTraveleroya]

Yop. Me toooo

[@daisypamela]

Great video and really inspiring! I moved from Paraguay to the U.S. 5 years ago, and I am living exactly what you are explaining. Powerful video! THANK YOU!

[@sheetalsehgal3146]

laura , great respect to u..u helped me out ,my mind was messed up and i was totally confused due to my career but now i got a thing in mind that embrace the experiences and ditch the titles. thank u so much.

[@sheetalsehgal3146]

@Jorge Ramos hy... doing gud now.. what about u

[@luonglevp68]

Nice talk. I understand more about my wife situation as I also traveling working

[@janiceleimarie]

My college advisor once told me to do as many internships (or jobs) as I can so I can figure out what I like and don't like. I had to work while in uni so I was only able to do 2 internships to meet graduation requirements. Since graduating in 2013, I have had 7 jobs and I'm at the point where I'm somewhat self-conscious about how long my resume is, or how I haven't stayed at a job for longer than 3 or 4 years. I was laid off this past May and also moved overseas with my boyfriend thanks to his job. I'm now taking the time to refocus and figure out what I really want. I'm so glad I stumbled on this video. Thank you for your empowering perspective!!!!!! I needed this!

[@lizajornales]

Thank you so much Laura. You're an eye opener.

[@Uncle_Tijikun]

This video changed my whole perspective of my work experience. I now see my work history in s different light...and that's awesome

[@mlbf4700]

That's great that you had the opportunity and a financial situation where your spouse could cover bills without you being a burden. That's not the reality for everyone, though.

[@wally_quevedo4002]

In her situation is harder to do what she did, she didn't need to do it but she ditched her titles and got different jobs without fear, most people are afraid to do that.

[@Diamondraw4Real]

she did get paid for her job. How is she asking her husband to cover bills, what do you know about her life or whether she even demands anything but love from her spouse. Just saying that you sounded sexist and mean, nothing personal. She can buy her own clothes, with whatever budget she has, even contribute to rent or a mortgage for all you know. Also, they didn't have kids. If a man works and his wife supports his decision she is already contributing to his happiness as well as her own, depending on how they look at it. Ppl focus too much on material gains only. Of course, not everyone's life is the same, that's true whether they are both working or career ppl or whether or not they have children or extended family to care for, etc.

[@TheCaj2012]

@@Diamondraw4Real I'm confused, I really dont understand how he sounded "sexist" exactly.?.?.?... She is married..check...to a man...check check.....and you're right about one thing. this dude doesnt exactly know about her life, besides what shes shared lets not forget. Being in a relationship myself with a spouse who works...it would be amazing if either one of us could just drop whatever job we had and pursue whatever but we can't exactly afford that....as the case with MOST people. The question wasnt asked exactly how I would have but in either case...I just can not figure out which part of the question was sexist. Anyways hope my comment wasnt sexist either or offensive however I am positive there are many angles an angry mind could find and attack.

[@yrellim]

True but we all can still change jobs through transferable skills and applying whist still in the previous job

[@legalfictionnaturalfact3969]

@@TheCaj2012 would he have been so emotional and combative in describing a man who quit work to chase his calling? probably not quite. it's fair to wonder.

[@tkh1001]

Felt more like a humble brag. Highlights of problems with no solutions

[@DaddyTheRipper]

Agreed

[@max_rove]

Pretty much half of these Ted talks, rambling about their life story no one cares about, and offering no real solutions

[@kelkabot]

for real

[@beadydani]

Great lecture, thinking of changing jobs again - had a number of job roles over the years now feel ready to move into a role I will like to be in long term.

[@deborarey448]

Suuuper encouraging, everything is possible and it's all about the story you tell to yourself. Thank you for this great talk!

[@rikidavis6563]

I think this is really great! It's good to know all you need is a change of perspective. All of your jobs really do interact with each other even if you don't think so right away. There is a reason why you started each one, usually with your life's purpose in mind.

[@Nekochi99]

It is really interesting how I've looked for a Ted talk about change just the day before looking for a new job and I found something I wasn't looking for but what's helping a lot. Now I can see I've been doing the right thing for these 4 past years by changing jobs, by talking to people about jobs which might've interested me. And now I'm crying because I'm so damn sensitive

[@shrijitasgable]

One of the most functional empowering and real ted talks of all time.

[@elsapakopoulou6759]

Wow! This is such an inspiring talk! Thank you Laura!

[@coversbyrinetal7271]

So inspiring😍my current situation brought me here😋and now, I am 100% sure of accepting the role given to me in my organization which is definitely out of the box (my healthcare profession) and adapting easily to my new title in the higher office. Thank you🙏💕

[@ArshadAli-lk1bz]

How your job is going ?

[@iCKEST]

The title drew me in and I’m glad I got here. I needed this. I have been so depressed and unfulfilled with my employer for a long time and I’ve taken some time to learn about a business that I have been interested putting my own money in. But I also need to work to sustain the start of my business. So I applied for positions within my Job, positions I know I’m qualified for. Well, they decided to go for other candidates. Yes I do what higher pay but I also understand how undervalued I am even though I put in years to earn what I earn. This has to be a clear sign that with this passion I feel to start my business, has to go full throttle even if I fail forward. Yes I am upset that I didn’t get the jobs I applied for. Yes I do think I am better than the other candidates that applied, but why not put this energy into my own work, right? I do need a career change. I’ve been searching for one for awhile. Maybe instead of looking for the change through my employer, I needed to become the change and the boss instead. Idk where I’m going, but I hope after submitting this comment, my current employer will just be an added history on my resume. This was a very great Ted talk. Thank you for sharing.

[@LG-xd2xg]

Good luck 🍀 I’m sure you’ll end up in the right place.

[@julieparker9298]

She's so cool, I love her upbeat personality

[@mubashir7343]

great job, Laura, however, for most of the people suffering with inability to move to a career change is a lack of people networking. People networking (the one that could get you prestigious jobs, mind you), unfortunately, happens to be in direct proportional to how wealthy and powerful (includes many things such as someone who is connected with right people, holds a position at government or private firm) an individual is.

[@MightyGodofGods]

Between 8:20 to 9:10. Our career is the collage of our experiences. We chase the experience/growth we want instead of job titles. I find it much harder to do; to change job for the experiences. This is the more enaging way to live and defintely will make us more valuable; we are never at an employer mercy. I do cry each time I switch job because our job is a big part of our identity. Thank you for a great speech. Its definely a good outlook on life.

[@Ceej75]

I had an idea to change my career path in 2019.. I never followed through. 3 years later I still haven’t made any efforts, change scares me. I’ve been in the same job for 8 years, I’m almost 30 and I really feel like I’ve left it too late. I have 2 kids, I have a husband, if I was to change my job I honestly think I’d mess our whole lives up and now I’m scared.

[@esmatsahebdil7499]

Wow, I was thrilled by her pragmatic insights into shaping a career. Summary of her words: 1. Be ready for change (by now, each professional may change their careers between 12-15 times). 2. Embrace the experiences/ditch those titles. 3. Make meaningful connections ( very true) meaning articulate what you want to do or to be when meeting people who you like what they do.

[@DrJonTam]

Great summary and it really rings true in my field.

[@arabaanderson8919]

Absolutely loved this. I'm definitely inspired.

[@jimeladorakialo8083]

Changing jobs helps one to learn the ropes in different organizations

[@marycyril8988]

Ur talk is amazing ! And ur expierences even better !

[@byeteaching]

Insightful - When updating your resume, consider incorporating any relevant professional development or certifications you've acquired during your teaching career. Demonstrating a commitment to continuous learning and growth can make you stand out as a candidate during a career transition

[@SimpleAwesomeness]

It's funny how we can sometimes get so stuck in our thinking that surely we must be the ONLY one on the planet with the experiences we've had. This lady just described a portion of my life to a T! I got married right after law school, my husband got a job overseas in the capacity of a diplomat. Torn between getting my career started that I worked extremely hard for and the adventure of a new life of marriage abroad. I chose the latter. I also got my first pass port at age 18 lol. I too struggled with figuring out and navigating my career path after the reality set in that lawyers have to pretty much requalify in each country in order to practice there. Now that I'm 4 years into this life that I did not see coming by a long shot, my husband's job just took us on a second int'l relocation a month ago. I've tried and explored a bunch of interests and job possibilities in last few years all whilst having a lingering feeling of "I can't wait until it's my time to shine with my Legal career". This video gave me so much insight and comfort knowing that someone else has walked this same journey and that all the seemingly disjointed pieces are actually going to form a completed puzzle and make sense in the end. Thanks for sharing your story Laura! 🙏

[@fernandopratesi5378]

WOW I’ve never been more encouraged or impressed by a Ted talk. Thank you!

[@aprilc.3697]

Thanks now I can see the common thread 🧵 in my entire work experience. Excellent talk!

[@richclobcn7078]

Great talk, I look forward to putting this to use on TheSchoolBell

[@JuliaPonomarenko]

Thank you!!!!!!! That's what I've been doing last several years and I considered most of it a mistake))) I'm so grateful to you for the support and inspiration!

[@DrJonTam]

Her story reminds of what my wife and I went through when we traveled the world for 7 years. Her talk really is great and hits the nail on the head.

[@nathanmasak]

Great video. I was lucky when I decided to change a job, I signed up with IntellectBay which helps people find positions as faculty or administrators in universities, and I got shortlisted right after and then got the position. Life changing moment!

[@graduatestudentsintheu.s.4589]

Yes indeed, IntellectBay is a very efficient platform to recruit faculty and administrators for universities. We recommend it too.

[@karthikpuvvula]

Moral: it’s fun to change careers and travel abroad when you have a capable husband.

[@yes2yolo949]

Such an inspirational & effective presentation that really resonated with me. You've also provided some very practical tips. Thank you for sharing!

[@luyandosichula3265]

Wow! Totally awesome and inspirational and reassuring! My combination of different jobs actually adds up to an amazing career path! Thank you so much 🥰🙌

[@eloschk]

That's literally my story: a lawyer struggling to decide whether to leave the country and "lose" my career or stay and strive in my path. This video helped a lot. Thanks!

[@VVattonEarth]

Did you stay or go?

[@nivrams4fairmedia]

Thank you, as a mom confused with what to do with career, I needed to hear this. :)

[@James-sc5hz]

Great talk, very inspiring for times of uncertainty and change - thank you!

[@bobbab5759]

The presentation itself was well done, but I can't help thinking we're making the best of a tough situation. If you need 15 JOB (these can't possibly be called careers) changes, it is more likely a symptom of the globalized gig economy.

[@okoverallknowledge564]

Before changing job Must watch this: I have made a video on my channel regarding the same topice. Can check out for more in detail steps. Steps that will help you take up higher responsibilities: • Gather Experience Experience counts a lot when it comes to going up in life. Learn from everyone and everything possible. Update your knowledge and gather some good skills. The more experienced you are, the better your chances of going up in life. • Prepare a Document While approaching the people who could promote you, or give you new responsibilities, always carry documents which show your successful endeavours. CVs, portfolios, certificates, press cuttings, reports of the projects you have handled - all these could be helpful. • Talk about 'Their' Benefits During the interview, it is very important to discuss the benefits that you can give to your organisation. Talk in terms of definite numbers. Do a little bit of research as you prepare for the interview. Whatever new assignment you take up, you have to leave your mark. Bob Dole, a former American leader who ran for the US Presidency, once said, "When it's all over, it's not who you were. It's whether you made a difference."

[@violetmoon6233]

She's very engaging but tough crowd! Thanks Laura for sharing 🙏

[@silviadifelice3307]

This careers' chat.. More than others.. Really made me feel good about my path.

[@weiwei36362]

thank you for sharing. this talk really encourages me because I was not quiet confident about my job changes experiences. I was somehow got the idea that working with no constancy is not good for your career development.

[@DrJonTam]

It's not. You really need to focus on developing your career with rhyme and reason. 不穩定的工作方向會有不可靠的事業成果。

[@robecampa1]

depends where you live! in Switzerland it doesn't - I get constant refusals because I changed jobs too often - and if you don't have the right diploma - secretary - sales person - blabla-thing - you don't get it!

[@marcor5886]

Try via acquaintances

[@sil.b.c.m289]

@@marcor5886 if it's similar to Germany, that doesn't apply. That would be nepotism (not sure that's the word in english) but it's not like in the USA where "contact" with the right people help. Except maybe if they are the owners of a small business, otherwise in big companies, nope. They love a linear, stick to the rule, traditional f**ng CV without empty lots (times unemployed). :S

[@marcor5886]

@@sil.b.c.m289 Roberta said that she switched jobs often, and this depends on the instable economy in Italy. Changing country is a real issue because you can't compare a gap in the CV between two people living in different countries with a different economic situation and management.

[@kristenzavo]

Love these questions to reflect before, during, and after a career change (or any major life change!).

[@hanoiinenglish9356]

Loved it!

[@tamasposta6178]

I learnt marketing in uni then worked 2,5 years as an online marketer. After one year I started to get less and less motivated. Then when I left my job I started to work as a webdesigner entreprenour. Now after 1,5 years I feel the same demotivation. I cannot force myself to work enough so I don't earn enough money. Now I will try to be a real estate agent. It's hard to finally admit that a career path you've been working on for years is not for you but sooner or later it will backfire if you don't change soon enough.

[@charmedprince]

Lol i am going back to school to take up Marketing , so i can work in a government office. I looked through the school's courses and that's the easiest I can take up with no effort. I am 30 and I was a college dropout 10 years ago. I engaged in fashion design for the past 10 years but now the pandemic wiped out my industry. So now am going back to school to take up the same course you ended up being demotivated by lol..... but my goal is to work in the government. I dont care how much i will make. I just want to have a constant stream of income. While doing other side hustles

[@Pinkolett]

Thank you for this encouraging speech!

[@sancheznancy21]

Changed jobs three times in 3 different countries it is not impossible and it a second language. Made it every time. I should give a TED talk!

[@oldtiger8181]

I used to move boxes and stock shelves. I did that for many years, manual labor. I was proud of the work I did, but I was treated poorly by certain supervisors and manager. I learned a lot early on doing that job, and even how NOT to treat people in a supervisor and manager role. I decided to get into two certain lines of work. Since then, 38 years have passed and I have many credentials as well as I'm at a very high salary. I'm very lucky and blessed to have what I have. If I never took a chance to change careers, I would not be doing what I am doing. If you have been working 5, 10 or even 20 years.. there REALLY is hope for you to change your career and do something worthwhile to "YOU". Good luck to all who read my post here.