The Narcissist’s Biggest Weakness🗣️🫢

[@Enochrry6024]

They're happy in defeating competition,conquering and winning in any circumstances.

[@inkwyvern5171]

It's more a tense excitement walking a knife edge between fear and ego But narcs are happy I think she means content

[@Enochrry6024]

@inkwyvern5171 ...Happy- feeling or showing pleasure or contentment=The same answer.

[@Enochrry6024]

Happy- feeling or showing pleasure or contentment=the same answer.

[@bruh1052]

Only in the short term and in environments where they have the advantage. It's not possible to control every new environment that you shift to

[@Enochrry6024]

@@bruh1052 ...Correct.

[@kauffrau6764]

Narcissists are energy vampires 🧛

[@moniquemosley2122]

That part☝️🎯💣💯

[@kezsy.w835]

Thisss 💯💯💯

[@inkwyvern5171]

So true They don't want the destination, they want the journey. Which is why arguing with them is giving them what they thrive on. Nobody tires of a good thing

[@lilac624]

True

[@DonnaDonna-ne9bb]

And that's a fact I just took all my energy back now I'm the bad guy ill be that 🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🙏🏾

[@oraclepanda]

I felt like I had to constantly entertain that man. As soon as I slowed down, he started letting the mask fall.

[@TiffanyKagel-l6i]

100%

[@prescint10]

Fact… once you stop giving yourself, money and time to them they go crazy like little kids blaming you for their life failures

[@NIkolettaDimitriadi]

So exsausting 😩

[@bailujen8052]

My mother bragged about my performances ever since i was a kid, my most recent instant was when i was buying Dragon Ball Sparking Zero, i was so confidently instant on saying "I would like to purchase Dragon Ball Sparking Zero for PS5 with my gift cards please" Edit: When i learned about Narcissism, i believe i was the golden child and being the golden child is just as messed up as the scapegoat

[@Eddiev3501]

My narc wife emotionally abused me for 3 days because I was working and couldn’t pick her up from the airport. It looks like we are going to get divorced. It’s truly frightening once you realize what she has been doing for years.

[@MortenChristensen-tt8up]

It is sad when people screw up life for themselves. The more you love them the more they need to break you. When you then leave them because of the abuse they are devastated🤷🏼‍♂️

[@irenewatson]

With the NPD up is down and down is up.Back to front thinking.

[@sunita8248]

They should be out in jail 🤬

[@chowell1451]

It’s their nervous system hard wiring, it’s just human nature, life is very adaptable, the human brain has lots of plasticity in childhood, it’s very hard to re wire it after u have developed it a certain way for so long

[@wayne9287]

@@sunita8248 I'll put you in jail because i want to. I'm a little baby.

[@Lyrielonwind]

I think they get devastated if the victim is their only supply. The worst narcissistic person in my life is my mother and I doubt she's devastated. She has my other siblings. I'm only her scapegoat and surely she misses hurting me on a daily basis but I doubt she has the horrible nightmares I have due to the cptsd I have after decades of abuse.

[@ΑΓΓΕΛΙΚΗΜΑΓΚΟΥΤΑ]

So true . That emptiness in their eyes is so sad to see, they can't smile a real smile

[@Jec_2815]

Or laugh a real laugh

[@johedges5946]

There is NO warmth in them whatsoever 😢

[@carolynforge8586]

​@@Jec_2815Fake laugh.

[@gertiketsch6731]

I just asked him that I have never seen your teeth or a smile or real heartfelt laughter So sad

[@PaulHans-th1ue]

Dead pan eyes. The eyes are the window to your soul !.It's really sad that they can't laugh or really have a good time. Because the ER are to busy trying to control others. So fake ! I can spot em a mile away now. I've done a lot of research on the subject. I do believe there is a demon in them. Controlling them ! All they want to do is lie lie lie put down others hurting others makes them happy. So sad

[@peacewithanr95]

A narcissist is incapable of joy. Demons cannot experience joy.

[@Xenlacasa45]

They feel so thrown off when they see me with joy like they just can’t grasp the fast I choose happiness

[@PaulHans-th1ue]

Exactly 💯

[@Chris-un4ns]

Exactly

[@jordinometry1589]

So people who have been traumatised or abused just are demons? Because the more I’m understanding this disorder is that most people don’t know a lot about it or even take a step back, rather than generalising a whole group of people

[@Idkwhats_goingontbh]

People are forgetting it's still actually a mental disorder. They're not demons, just people born with a mental illness.

[@patriciatavella1496]

I feel lonely when I'm with him 😢

[@nikstar1313]

Same here, with my whole family I always felt that way. Please do your ya favour and leave him too, he won’t change. Ever. Get out while you can. My mother is one and I only broke away 4 years ago from her codependency conditioning. They are sick people.

[@Swatioo10]

Beautiful soul I have heard when we will leave these kinda people they will begin the journey of self love at some of point of time ❤️ this is his story 🙏🕉️♾️ he wants everyone to love their own soul.

[@CarolineStrawsonHealing]

They will only ever focus on their needs sadly xx

[@cjsjedi73]

Get out. Never once is it a good choice to stay. The longer you're abused the harder to recover. I'm sorry you feel this way.

[@hazelrivers7642]

I no this feeling all so well

[@CountYourAssets]

When you're always at their feet doing things for them, they are "decent" with you. As soon as you start to slow down with some things or are unable to serve them, they literally switch like that. A complete different person. Their true hidden feelings about you are revealed, then you realise actually this person has never loved me or ever will. They only love that you can serve them for their needs. It's quite ironic actually... They expect you to give them 100% and will cause havoc if you are not, but when you ACTUALLY need them... They are never to be found and do NOT support you.

[@beaglerescue5281]

I’m a parent of a covert narcissistic daughter. I’ve been discarded. I no longer have any value. It’s so disgusting and disturbing.

[@CountYourAssets]

@@beaglerescue5281 I'm really sorry to hear that. I can imagine it is 100 times worse when it is your own child, someone who you naturally love. May God give you peace. Xxx

[@elizabethf9096]

So so true I’m seeing the mask off right now and the gaslighting and twisting the words to make her the victim is unbelievable and so confusing but I’m on to it now

[@beaglerescue5281]

@@elizabethf9096 Isn’t it great to finally understand what the heck is going on with them. I’m finally at peace. I was with my daughter tonight and she made a few devaluing comments and it didn’t effect me whatsoever. That’s strength and growth. I don’t see her but once a month and now I feel that’s all I want. I’ve come along way from six months ago where I felt devastated.

[@ifnotnowthenwhen9063]

Perfectly put .Everything 100% agree because it is e at how you said

[@jillcrato1680]

Narcissists are ‘bottomless pits of need.’ No matter how much narcissistic supply they have,it’s never,ever enough for them! I don’t think they’re ever truly happy either!

[@adrena93]

Even when u see them with someone else, it don’t matter because your healing and don’t look back ever. That the new person’s problem now

[@SxyGrl44]

They ain’t happy no way so no need to get jealous or worry.. they just need somebody to stroke their ego, somebody to be there, some kind of attention

[@nunyabidness6989]

Sounds like you guys don't want to see your ex's happy moving on and need to make excuses to make yourselves feel better 😂

[@Stanleyubadigha-tu2pl]

@@nunyabidness6989u are sick

[@AlluriManojVarma]

​@@nunyabidness6989ha haa 💯 same feeling 😂

[@renatajach2539]

It's true. It's always about their cruelty but there is also their very broken and very unhappy side which actually provoke this cruelty. Unhappy broken monsters that need to abuse other people to go on.

[@AdamKraft-hq8pn]

The biggest weakness is when they're discarded. It shatters their false grandiosity and reminds them of their infant trauma

[@CarolineStrawsonHealing]

They will do everything within their power to make sure this never happens!

[@AdamKraft-hq8pn]

@@CarolineStrawsonHealing true. Evenything including falsifying reality and rewriting history if they need to.

[@CarolineStrawsonHealing]

Exactly @@AdamKraft-hq8pn

[@jeffreyquinonez8964]

​@CarolineStrawsonHealing I also avoid abandonment like the plague. Struggling with it but I allways learn to let go at times and surrender. I walk the line where you almost step into narcicissm. I get the derangement and discarding tendencies from time to time then I feel like guilt that I had that thought and impulse and ask God for forgiveness and strength to fight this. Bpd with narc tendencies maybe? What are your thoughts

[@BornAndErrorOccur]

Your comment, just hit me on another level. Stay Away, Stay Strong!

[@M3LINDAH]

This is so true. I feel empty . I left him. I called him out on all his crap. He hated me

[@incognito595]

I never knew about how very serious Narcissism is, until recently. It's really shocking when you see and experience it. It's surreal, really, it's that bad. Just Never let your guard down. Ever. Be very vigilant to everything.

[@bluestripes6037]

This. Surreal is the weird, but definitely in a bad way

[@Edith_247]

My husband is a narcissist😢 I have seen hell in just 3 year's of marriage.

[@brockbrawn1524]

How do you do that when you live with them and they have no job.

[@jackiecartwright9343]

I dated a man who was narcissistic. Around 5 years after our breakup we were talking and I told him I never want to get married. I’m no longer horny and that this is the happiest I’ve ever been. I play pickleball, rescue senior dogs, and I’m spiritually in a good place. I have no desire to go back to dating or growing old with someone. He thought that was the saddest thing he ever heard. He could not wrap his head around it. I knew it was because he suffered from narcissism and without having someone else around, he’d shrivel and die.

[@Mystic_Paths]

When they don't receive validation, they can become anxious, depressed, or angry, revealing the emptiness beneath their grandiose exterior.

[@bailujen8052]

You made me realize on what to do when it comes to validation (I'm battling narcissism like it's cancer)

[@jermanelawrence7400]

Empty vessel's occupied by dark energy

[@cam7771]

Great description!

[@TanyaWestphal]

Nailed that description

[@chosen1121]

That's it 👏

[@maralfniqle5092]

Run don't walk away. Run, they are demons not just unhappy.

[@funnygirlever]

This is so true! This is my peace when I walk away. They may pretend and show everyone that their so happy 😂. But people don't know them like I do. I seen and gone through the hardest and darkest with them. I just laugh about people's comments. I also remind myself when I miss them, feel sorry for them, and want to contact them, forgive, and reach out. The best thing is stay away forever!

[@Jireh_woolridge777]

I was married to a narc exactly like this. Being in that relationship literally almost killed me. Now, she's 1,000 miles away, and the kids are with me thriving and flourishing. She's in her own personal hell, working multiple jobs, no husband, no kids, no family, and is unstable as ever. " most deeply wounded, most unhappy people in this world" 🎯🔥💯

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

She has multiple sources of supply. She will use sex to get

[@ifnotnowthenwhen9063]

She give you kids so a bit respect will not hurt you.If you can’t do it for her then at least do it to her kids.

[@banditboy8834]

Well done....that's great news and it gives me hope. I'm recently separated from a covert narcissist. We are still living in the same house as I won't leave my boys in her care. I'm prepared to go to battle in court for the sake of my sons emotional wellbeing and future.

[@mrone8717]

@@ifnotnowthenwhen9063 you are the epitome of self righteousness

[@wayne9287]

@@mrone8717 what do you think this fcking post is? A bunch of people getting brainwashed by the absolute of knowledge.

[@Lisa-t1n7l]

They're never truly sane, either. 🤮

[@itsallberrygood]

Exactly.

[@LaMesaC]

That's the truth

[@ease_flow]

Leaving them permanently is THE BEST AND HEALTHIEST OPTION for anyone stuck in a relationship with these cursed beings, irregardless whether it's a parent, sibling, partner, lover etc. Period.

[@Stanleyubadigha-tu2pl]

It is the healthiest But what of in a situation of your own sister😢😢 I love that girl so much but she never cared

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

They DONT SEE YOU AS A HUMAN BEING. You are just a container to get supply. You are a coffee cup that once is empty will be discarded the same way. That is how they see you. It’s sad but true. Stop taking things personal from someone that doesn’t see you as a person.

[@CarolineStrawsonHealing]

The tricky thing is to not feel our self worthiness wounds being triggered so it's very hard to stop taking things personally. However it can be done when people take the steps to work on their healing x

[@SAb-tt4kz]

I knew it, not being able to sympathize with others means being disconnected from all there is, thus they’re never happy, they chose themselves they agreed to go down and not elevate, they can only feel shame with a false ego and false self and five sense pleasures and addictions to stay numb

Narcissists are HOPELESS LOST SOULS.

[@tanpoliak8204]

Silence and walk away....silence...walk away...no words..no contact...nothing

[@sarahgrohmusic]

I truly never saw my ex-narc laugh or smile - unless it was a joke or sarcasm at another’s expense

[@bartholetbay412]

Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@paulinebricks3441]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@bartholetbay412]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

[@paulinebricks3441]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@bartholetbay412]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@JuLia-hn1oh]

Hahaha this conversation is so fake!!! Don’t buy into it 😂

[@reigns77.]

So there is no hope for a narcissist Great advice

[@bailujen8052]

A big concern in myself is I'm worried I might be a narcissist, I sometimes feel empty and or depressed when I get cut off or dismissed when I try to show or tell something to others, get angry over cocky people who say things like "you're not gonna get caught doing this". Back in the day when my sister was around I would be angry for no reason at others etc Ever since 2023 when I've been curious about narcissism, I've been taking a look as if I'm one. My younger brother called me a narcissist twice and I felt like it's the end of the world and I just don't want to be part of my family anymore

[@travelwithsouthernchick5112]

It’s just mind games to keep you stuck!!!Its all in their mind

[@JohnMartin-gg8uj]

Many times the mood swing "out of nowhere" is due to a fight or issue with another supply. They take it out on you. Usually occurs after "bathroom phone time" or other odd device behaviors.

[@Edith_247]

Dang! You nailed it

[@longsnoutpug7248]

If you're a narcissist and reading this; you are not alone. It's tough when you feel so helpless and empathy is so hard to train. But with the little work you can do to train yourself empathy,you will already feel so much prouder of yourself than you are now. You are not a demon, and I wish you successful healing and I'm proud of you!!💜

[@TRUTHWINSALLWAYS]

Hahahahahahaaha how naive you are

[@longsnoutpug7248]

@TRUTHWINSALLWAYS I'm a diagnosed narcissist myself going through healing,so...

[@TRUTHWINSALLWAYS]

@ you are either misdiagnosed… or … a super blessed person. I admire you for what you are trying to do but spend your energy more wisely. The fact that you show empathy through action for your fellow narcs is admirable. My humble guess is you re misdiagnosed.

[@TRUTHWINSALLWAYS]

@@longsnoutpug7248 @ you are either misdiagnosed… or … a super blessed person. I admire you for what you are trying to do but spend your energy more wisely. The fact that you show empathy through action for your fellow narcs is admirable. My humble guess is you re misdiagnosed.

[@longsnoutpug7248]

@TRUTHWINSALLWAYS I appreciate you but I can tell you I'm not misdiagnosed. I'm self aware and tired of the shame. I'm vulnerable narcissist, more specifically. I do feel the need to behave like every typical narcissist does. I just grew up and spent a lot of time alone without the ability to get "narcissistic supply" off of people, just feeling sorry for myself and boasting my own ego to myself for doing the bare minimum and feeling very angry when people say it's a bare minimum and isolating myself further cause "they are all bullies and will never understand ME and my princess in distress struggles". Dealing with constant shame and feeling threatened by everything and everyone, the need to be in the center of attention or not be there at all, the intense need for validation, the needs for passive aggressive gestures, the love bombing theatrics I pulled for the people I started to meet, how ready to take it all away and wanting to do silent treatments for the tiniest innocent things, just- I am not misdiagnosed, dude, there is so much more but I'm not about to spill my whole therapy session and make this even longer- I'm practicing empathy, which is the easiest to feel towards other narcissists (especially when I don't know them and won't need to deal with them??? 🤡😂😭✋wheeze). Not every narcissist is an abuser.

[@TekieD-Rogers]

There’s much to be said of CONTENTMENT over “happiness”. The former is achievable, & sustainable. In my opinion, happiness is fleeting, just because life is filled with highs & lows. If contentment comes from the correct source, we can trust in the long term benefits which flow from that source! I’m an old woman, & I only now can look back over my life, & see the times when I counted on the decisions, choices, & even the EMOTIONS of others, to bring MY happiness! I can also say this “happiness” never lasted very long! This is a life lesson I’m only now learning. Some learn sooner, but many NEVER do learn it!

[@slickperspective]

My wife, who I recently realized exhibits narcissistic behavior, has isolated herself and our 4-year-old son from me for almost three weeks now. She hasn't answered my calls or messages, and the pain I'm experiencing is immense. Just a few days ago, after piecing things together, I recognized her narcissism. She once asked me, "Is there a way to be happy? Because I never had happiness." At the time, I struggled with her actions, such as never listening to me and often being unkind. Now, it makes sense; she never apologized because of her narcissistic tendencies. She lives about five hours away from me because of work; we used to be together for 3 years. I pray for strength and patience to get through this tough time.

[@willybranlund]

This explains my ex-wife, everything you just said is on the money and everything I thought she was, she is…now I can relax and truly see that it is her not me.

[@nv_chino]

That’s the word , narcissist supply.

[@Martin-bw1ww]

Had a narc female (friend) Looked into her eyes one day I could feel her emotions she was in torment.. and I just filled with compassion for her I was astonished at her emotional state Months later I mentioned it to her and asked if she believed me She wouldn't answer but did say she knew I was a compassionate person About 6 months later I ended what was a one sided friendship

[@JustSomeRandomIndividual]

Their only weakness is seeing their source of supply happy without them.

[@debanjanchatterjee3757]

You are 100000 percent correct. Those people always want someone who will be like a slave to them . My father , elder sister and aunty are having this type of narcissistic personality. It damages other persons well being and happiness. They always try to make you to agree with all their opinions. If you don't follow them or suggest other way , they will badly behave with you as you are scapegoats and good for nothing . We every individual all having self respect and personality and anyone cannot dominate you.

[@LoneIcon]

I’ll tell you my mother is a narcs, that time I didn’t knew that terminology. Through the years the way to deal with it is “less/small talk = less narcissistic trigger to no trigger at all”

[@dapper-o4l]

It is absolutely true… I had a mother & father who were both Narcissists. Mentally and physically abused me. Until I went into therapy, then I walked away and had nothing to do with them! Doing that was the best decision I ever made. It literally changed my life. And my brother too, I went silent on him for over 20 years. My parents are dead, but they were dead to me for over 30 years.

[@IndigoAngel1448]

I just want to say to anyone who thinks they are a narcissist: you can heal. You took the first step and that's acknowledgement. I can see that you're capable of healing. Please don't stop believing in a better future.

[@Catastrophickakistrocracy]

I believe this to be correct. They may appear happy during the love-bombing stage of a new relationship but the massive amount of energy required for them to suppress their true selves is unsustainable.

[@sherrygwin4506]

My narcissist told me he had never been happy a day in his life. He was almost 60.

[@michaelpage5499]

Ohh yes they are very happy to be hurting those that love them, but possess no happiness within They cannot be satisfied and continually move the goal posts. So continually being dissatisfied would make them feel “unhappy” but more from frustration rather than sadness from a dire situation. Escape quietly. Avoid the worst parts and make it a surprise. Dismissed and blocked access denied.

[@sunita8248]

I have a 2 narcs in my family They are sucking the family dry …I call them vampire 🧛 This is my bros wife and mother-in-law they both have been so damaging to the entire family …. I’ve walked away …. Others are still under her trap 💩🤬😡

[@lilac624]

My abusers in my case are my mother and aunt...

[@Mystic_Paths]

Narcissists often use manipulation tactics to maintain control and power in relationships. Knowing their weaknesses can help you identify these tactics and protect yourself from being exploited.

[@leeleejm2749]

Left my ex narc husband 4 months ago and now he's engaged. I feel sorry for the new supply. She loves him so much and think she got the man of her dreams! Poor girl.......she have no clue who that deceiver is. 😢

[@CarolineStrawsonHealing]

How are you feeling now? x

[@leeleejm2749]

@@CarolineStrawsonHealing relieved 😌

[@CarolineStrawsonHealing]

What are you doing to help yourself to heal? @@leeleejm2749 xx

[@leeleejm2749]

@@CarolineStrawsonHealing the word of God has helped me and loving myself

[@ysabelcastillo1880]

Do you think they will change for someone else ? Will he eventually start doing the same thing with a different person?

[@a.nobodys.nobody]

So what can I do? Running is too late. How do I give them narcissistic supply? I don't care anymore, I just need the semblance of sanity and minimize the abuse

[@teralynda]

He’s never happy. He eventually yells at everyone if they don’t do what he commands. And he accuses me of not being happy. All signs he is miserable. He’s Gods now.

[@WilliamLovell-oh1rb]

Ironically not being a narcissist can occasionally cause you a level of pain narcissists don't feel, the pain of guilt and remorse. Our bad emotions are more intense than those in a narcissist, but so are our good ones.

[@ashleyjackson8538]

It’s 💯 % true ! They love pushing that misery onto other people .

[@mint5653]

This is so true, this is exactly how I have been feeling about this narcissist who I really want to get rid of in my life.

[@MwapeSandra-w2m]

As a narcissist i don't know what to say or do when happiness is not for me am alone after seeing how wicked i am but can I be helped

[@audreyquinn73]

My narc mother is never happy, ever. Her smile never reaches her eyes.

[@lindafeaster1275]

You can tell that they're not happy by the situations that put you in to demean and embarrass you ..I was made homeless and put in jail on a lie and nobody cared not even the judges...

[@TerapeutaSabrina-G]

That exact thing just happened to me, he tried hard for more than a year, and praise God I already know the game he was playing so I just watched him try. He said he regreted everything he done in the past, that he grew mature and bla bla bla. When I asked him 'what is it that you regret from every wrong doing you did to me in the past? What is it that you see now that you didn't see in the past? What does it mean to grow more mature? the asnwer was 'oh come on, I already left the past behind...why can't you just move on and be happy with mefrom now on? Lol 'Nah, thank you. Keep your offer to yourself'

[@fatimasankoh1868]

Thank you for help me love

[@lupitoochoa5343]

Yeaa I’m a victim 😞 idk what to do

[@endoraismygma]

Support groups especially ones that your Narc doesn't know about, have helped me. Love peace and strength sent your way, it's a difficult road but I bieve you can do it. 💚✨️

I need to milk to same thing happened to me

[@wahidaayu9300]

Same -i almost feels guilty everyday becuz of them

[@Janabrook]

When dealing with narcissism, you should know that it's not personal. "It isn't personal" is one of those cliches used to cushion all kinds of bad actions taken by people who need an out for being immoral, but in this case it actually gets near the truth. Narcissists don't know how to love or be a friend; they can't afford to spare the energy to learn, because they're always in a state of high emergency, cataloging potential threats and redoubling their defenses. When they claim to love you, it means nothing. They may even think they mean it, but they don't understand the concept - they can't feel it. They never attach to you or anyone else. Other people are paper cut-outs to the narcissist, like those cardboard figures of celebrities you pose next to for a selfie. Narcissist value their own children only as mirrors of themselves. When they destabilize you or attack you, it means nothing. They are stuck in an endless conversation with themselves, in which you are an inanimate object, to be assigned their own faults and used as a surrogate punching bag for their hatred of themselves. When they toss you out, it's no more meaningful than a junkie tossing away a needle; when they try to reel you back in, it only means that they tired of the new drug and need a hit of the old. None of this is personal. They're too terrified to have personal relationships, opting instead for extraction of admiration from a subservient partner whose range of action they strictly constrain. This is not personal. None of it. The narcissist does not know who you are - it doesn't know how to know other people. Like the vampire or the chainsaw-wielding creature in the horror film, it's from another world, bereft of the concept of human connection.Moreover, People wonder why they end up hurt, seriously hurt, and even killed for their own actions.Cheating is a choice and there's simply a lot of ignorance in the process..Thank you so much for helping me out cyberalbert4@gmail. com.Your advice and services helped me so much. You are a lifesaver !!! The information you gave me about my cheating partner when you gave me access to his phone was everything I needed to get,..thank you very much..

[@Tololo86]

Wow Jana well said you have respect and I know you’re doing better just like I’m. Good luck on your journey

[@beaglerescue5281]

But how did the narcissist chose this horrific path in life? Who would chose this knowingly?

[@cryptonize2105]

@@beaglerescue5281because they aren’t living in reality.

[@VivoVivo-un5zj]

​@@cryptonize2105 stuck in past

[@Thomas12332]

Dr Emovon your commitment to helping people with bad breath and acid reflux) is truly remarkable. Thank you for spreading awareness about alternative solutions and providing hope to those who have bad breath and acid reflux. thank you Dr Emovon on KZbin channel...🙏🙏🙏

[@AliceScott-j8h]

How do you make a narcissist suffer forever ? you need to destroy narcissist ego and pride.you need to bring them back to reality.and there is a way you can do that without harming them directly. that is by working on yourself. And go back to being the person you were before you involved with the narcissist. The person that they where attached to. And then become a better version of yourself. If you do that and let them see it. but you reject their hoover attempts. it will destroy their ego. because they can't deal with rejection. They can't deal with being ignored. especially if it's from something that they believe they should have. Narcissist find pleasure in breaking you down. They find pleasure in your pain. It gives them satisfaction. So the last thing they want to see is you building yourself up. You are happy. Because what really destroys their ego Is when they see that you're not affected by their attempts to destroy you. You're still able to live the life that you want to live. You're still able to do what you need to do. You're still able to laugh and smile. Which means that their efforts have gone to waste. Their plan has failed. They didn't get the result they where intended for. Because now you are even more successful. You look better than you ever did before. You're in better condition than when they first met you. Which destroy them. Because they remember how good things were Back then. That's why they lovebombed you. And they would love to have that again. But if they can't, it will crush them. So you don't need to revenge on the narcissist. you don't need to do anything to them. Just focus on yourself. Focus on your own life. Focus on building yourself up. Making your life better. And don't let them partake in it. Don't let them partake in it. Don't let them be a part of it. That is how you do it. All thanks to the cyber expert who was able to investigate his phone and get me the information and evidence that I needed to gain my freedom From the abusive relationship. If you are in similar situation you can contact him on Instagram @spy_bruceHow do you make a narcissist suffer forever ? you need to destroy narcissist ego and pride.you need to bring them back to reality.and there is a way you can do that without harming them directly. that is by working on yourself. And go back to being the person you were before you involved with the narcissist. The person that they where attached to. And then become a better version of yourself. If you do that and let them see it. but you reject their hoover attempts. it will destroy their ego. because they can't deal with rejection. They can't deal with being ignored. especially if it's from something that they believe they should have. Narcissist find pleasure in breaking you down. They find pleasure in your pain. It gives them satisfaction. So the last thing they want to see is you building yourself up. You are happy. Because what really destroys their ego Is when they see that you're not affected by their attempts to destroy you. You're still able to live the life that you want to live. You're still able to do what you need to do. You're still able to laugh and smile. Which means that their efforts have gone to waste. Their plan has failed. They didn't get the result they where intended for. Because now you are even more successful. You look better than you ever did before. You're in better condition than when they first met you. Which destroy them. Because they remember how good things were Back then. That's why they lovebombed you. And they would love to have that again. But if they can't, it will crush them. So you don't need to revenge on the narcissist. you don't need to do anything to them. Just focus on yourself. Focus on your own life. Focus on building yourself up. Making your life better. And don't let them partake in it. Don't let them partake in it. Don't let them be a part of it. That is how you do it. All thanks to the cyber expert who was able to investigate his phone and get me the information and evidence that I needed to gain my freedom From the abusive relationship. If you are in similar situation you can contact him on Instagram @spy_bruce

[@capricris7672]

I focus on myself and my well being and not focus on what the narcissist is about or happens to them. I don't wish them ill but prayers for the narcissist. Only God passes judgement.

[@karmalovecollectorkarmalov-t5o]

Vulnerable and projecting their fears onto others

[@evafrank1021]

Pls remember that NPD is not the same as being a bad guy

[@shelottabright8155]

They have so many weaknesses 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@sonyacorrick1496]

So very true!! I needed this video today Thank u!!

[@Alexander-q6l]

My husband had an affair with a co-worker for nearly two years the last nine months of which I was pregnant with our second child. I found out about the other woman the week before my due date, I felt so terrible and moved back to my mother's home for 2 month with the kids after birth, he kept on apologizing to every member of my family and they all begged me to forgive him, I moved back to our home and I still had that feeling something was off, I felt deep down that I have been manipulated, gaslighted, and threatened on a daily basis. Some of the threats were he was going to kill himself if I didn't do what was asked, he would punch pillow or sofa, stand up against me and yell at my face, stand behind the car and not let me leave, sometimes we would be driving and he would threaten to swerve and hit any truck, hold my shake me, push me aside to a wall, and much more, my in-law were also very verbally abusive towards me. Wasn't allowed to visit my family or friends. If I did or wanted to I had to be ready for an argument, everyday I was reminded that I am not nothing and that was not worth fighting for and that don't meet the standard of being married to their son. Recently, I found out he was cheating on me an had a girl friend after seeing the text and pictures, I became numb. I have been a good wife. I listened to every insult and fight. I never gave up what I knew, thanks to this hacker who help me extract enough information from his device. Someone on here share a link to the hacker who helped me clone his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him through a remote link sent to my email,I was able to access all of his text, email, Facebook and Instagram chat real-time call listening and his long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him on What's app:[phone] @Lawrence Hernandez

[@k.s783]

True, to the narcissist something is always wrong, especially if it’s something you brought about. The movie you picked is boring, the dinner is missing something and the trip you planned is too expensive. You can never win.

[@bjg4002]

29 years and never once been on the bank account as joint . Housewife ( maid) i barley even go outside anymore he has me so screwed up. 😢 complains about everything cooked . A big huge drawer of new underwear. Im touch starved and punished for asking questions. So many secrets ( swear up and down) that they don't have any lol . Ask a simple question and it blows there lid . Im tired

[@pamelagibson470]

Please leave him

[@wahidaayu9300]

I'm confused in between the narcissist and bipolar.. But I'm pretty sure both have the always blame someone else pattern. Kinda similar that's why I'm confused.

[@37tots]

I didnt know about this word but now i totally understand coz i see all the signs and he doesnt want commitment but just like to meet up.

[@Karen-e1f]

I'm staying home. Alone is seriously better.

[@CarolineStrawsonHealing]

Do you have some support my love? x

[@wahidaayu9300]

Sadly, I wanted that lol.. But I'm too broke to quit

[@hscsubhash]

They will heighten their abuse!!!!!!!! Brilliant statement

[@CrazyyinRed]

So true!! My ex is a narcissist and I’m a empath so you know this was not a good ending. But he cheated and left and I can see he’s not happy now like he thought he was in the beginning, and he still comes around our home we shared/ use the dogs as a excuse (yet doesn’t put the true care into) and last night he got into it, he tried to tell me I’m not allowed to let any males here smh I was having a male friend come to help with my senior sick dog and even that wasn’t allowed in his mind. But I’m not listening to that mess. And I know it’s because he’s been seeing me doing so much better and happier and that I finally was able to talk to another guy and not feel like I was cheating and I felt so free!! And I am able to start truly moving on. And I feel it makes him so mad. He did the damage yet he tries to control me and is only happy when I’m here alone and away from the world and moving on. Nope I refuse to let anyone who can’t treat me right and with respect treat me in such a negative way. He slammed the back door and left the back gate wide open not worrying if my husky would of got out and hit by a car smh even didn’t show up to help with my other dog just bc he’s mad not to suck up his feelings and do what he needs for our sick senior dog. So I don’t want to hear that he cares and all the lies he spews. Hope him and his nut ball controlling gf last lol but yea she’s controlling and will go thru his phone every night ect and alot has to do with they started dating with him cheating and lying to me and she knows that and also he is til this day spying on me and hacking into my stuff so idk why his gf comes at me?? I don’t want a cheater back. This weekend I finally got to a point where I was able to talk to another guy and not feel bad or I was cheating and I felt so free and I think he read my messages and seen it and got mad. But I did still cry to my friend after he flipped last night and I think it’s bc Im just angry, and all my focus is on my sick dog and both dogs well being first. They are my kids. And he uses them for a in I think, and I am still waiting for a call back from mental health which I called in July!! So luckily my friends have helped me thru this

[@merie8265]

He could be poisoning the dogs to come near you

[@kaitlinlyons1006]

You are truly an inspiration

[@hartzellheadies8619]

How do i change and stop being a narc i would do these things without even realzing it or thinking about it and i just want to fix it now i lnow i cant overnight but i do wish to fix this one of my most toxic worst traits

[@amyj.4992]

Oh I'm well aware of this about narcissist, and I block those energy zombies off

[@vickibazter3446]

THEY ARE EMPTY AND ANGRY

[@MaryD-cn3jc]

I used to tell my mom I wanted to look like people I t thought were excellent when I was a little girl. She always said, "okay."

[@forgottenknowledge8917]

I myself have a couple of narcissistic traits, but not all of them. I'm unhappy, from living with a narcissist, but prefer my own company. My narc doesn't want to leave me alone. Blames me for being irritated at their irritating behaviour. It's like groundhog day. I know all of her stories, all of her "issues," right down to the last detail. I know what she's gonna say before she says it. She's on repeat, reliving her "worst moments" daily. It's very frustrating and I need to leave for a while. I've been building a camper van to go away for a while. I need to limit my time with this woman. I can't ditch her, because she's family, but I can limit my time with her.

[@cjsjedi73]

As one who was abused and recovering. I approve of this message.❤

[@Bbygirl2829]

I dunno if my mum is a narcissist, but she seeks me out to make me feel constantly bad about myself. And then when i try to keep my distance, she makes me feel guilty for not calling her (i literally call her everyday) . Now i have children, she is constantly in need to know whats going on, and the worst part is that my father has passed away this month, he was with her all the time, now the responsibility is all on me and my brother doesn't want to entertain her. I love her but i don't know how to be her daughter, makes me so sad because i wish it was a healthy relationship, but i feel constantly under so much scrutiny and pressure to be on my best behaviour. I feel like i have to walk on egg shells because she is so sensitive, and if we ever try to talk about this, she starts naming everything that she does for me, and how dare i ever make her feel bad. :(

[@teamalpha7423]

Can you now explain what a vulnerable narcissist is for the audience?

[@lita8835]

My narc ex signed for an engagement ring then found his next wife behind my back. I moved alone to go back to study and work on myself. 3 years later I found someone to love and respect me. The narc thought he could pick up his bookmark after posting very profound social media photos of every milestone with his wife leading up to him visiting back to our home state and trying to hook up with me behind her back after making HER feel special to fly home with him to meet his family. See how that cycles? Never trust a narc. Love yourself so much more.

[@Artlove8900]

I use to talk with a guy . I started like him and decided to tell him that i think he is cute and that i really want to know him . I meant to say cute in a way that i like and hope that he feel the same about me but he said that he is not cute at all . And he is narcissistic and arrogant and i said its not very nice thing to say about yourself and he said he is actually proud of it . I was totally caught offgaurd and afcourse i blocked him . I always thought there is some gap about him and something i m not getting. He would only message me when he needed me now that i think about it and i m a sensitive person so i started to care about him . I always felt exhausted after i talked to him too and that was all through text . Imagine having such person in real life . I m glad . I said out my feelings and actually came to my senses . I have further long story before this and how i got there but its a long story

[@deborahvallier9245]

You are right 👍 and from one woman to another you are a beautiful lady 😊

[@shwetaj5495]

they find every weak thread to hurt ...if you become strong for self they will hurt your feelings of your dearones parents

[@safeeffective385]

Hey ladies, before you throw that ex under the bus here (which seems to be the trend)... keep in mind: Narcissists always deny any responsibility for their dysfunctional behavior. To achieve this they use inherently use denial, delusion, gaslighting, minimization, deflection, blaming the victim, and playing the victim. Exaggerated victimhood is a textbook feature of narcissistic grandiosity. Narcissists play the victim to garner sympathy and avoid responsibility for their abusive behavior. Recent studies show that many female narcissists dress in sexually provocative ways-revealing clothing and/or wearing a lot of makeup. Many use sexual seduction to manipulate or financially exploit others.

[@Freethnkr]

Now what about the narc men? How do they behave

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

@@Freethnkrsuper charming, love bombing, feigning a connection, mirroring your likes and hobbies, values

[@Freethnkr]

@Clevelandsteamer324 Bingo! Cuz there's no gender specifics..Which is why commenting on what female narcs do (only) without including men is ridiculous, and this person's point is pointless. Male narcs also dress in certain ways to get or attract a person's attention, tight clotging, show their physic, a lot these so called weight training videos, work out video were men are on display they get a lot of attention, and if they are not physically attractive, they will dangle things like nice expensive cars, money, trips, etc, to manipulate women. So if you gonna throw the woman under the bus, then make sure the male narcs are included in the mix

[@Freethnkr]

@cloudbreak23 To say they dress provocatively is a truth and has nothing to do with their level of intelligence. And some of them are not that intelligent, they act a little slow and touched in the head, if you ask me. Because somewhere in their brain, they think that what they do to people is the best way to handle relationships to get what they want, it has been proven that they are operating on the same emotional level of a 5 yr old child, which why they have temper tantrums, they lie profusely, and repeat the same toxic behavior with wvery victim, and yeah it may work for a minute, but eventually people get tired of their crap and walk away, and the narc will go and repeat the exact same behavior and tactics on the next person, expecting different results....And that's called INSANITY NOT A HIGH LEVEL OF INTELLIGENCE. Both narc women and narc men alike use their looks to attract victims, I've dated one...Some not all are your gym rats, that's their play ground where they go to attract more supply and or become bait for potential supply. But none of this is new, it's just never talked about...

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

They need “supply “ let’s use clinical words. Without supply they will implode. It’s like kinking the oxygen line on a scuba diver

[@Snow-l9r]

OMG I just seen that type of person last sunday.gosh no good.

[@AhmadIzzatShahmierRosdi-gi1ug]

In conclusion,all negative people only in this temporary world actually are fool themselves actually 💯

[@taewilson94]

I remember my professor told me that i was probably the least selfish person in my class because i was able to experience joy by myself and with myself lbs and it didnt make sense until i started encountering narcissist and Bipolar people, they literally are succubus

[@loridori]

“There is no peace,” says the LORD, “for the wicked.” Isaiah 48:22 It makes sense that they’re unhappy because the joy we have the world can’t give it and the world can’t take it away. Real peace and joy can only come from God. With narcissists it’s all an illusion of happiness but they’re never truly happy. They’re internally falling apart. It’s only a matter of time when their masks fall off and you see the demon for what it truly is.

[@sourceinsights]

You didnt say what a narcissists weakness is.

[@elisabethj.v.beardsell9853]

A relationinship ( if you can call it that); the so called other is damned if you do, damned if you don’t😳 I’ve had sufficient abuse, no more ever!

[@lolbird2398]

This is a great message. Thank you for this.

[@sparrowwren8673]

I wanted to learn more about narcissists. What is their greatest weakness? She never said what it was....she said they weren't happy, but what is their greatest weakness?

[@AllenJones-ur9kj]

iv been with a narracasist for 26yrs

[@ysabelcastillo1880]

Please leave I am going to try to leave before the new year. I’ve been with mine for 7 years

WHY

[@bjg4002]

​@@ysabelcastillo1880 29 years here 😢

[@jhaymizugameza9419]

i'm also with mine for 12 years with 2 son's.. can we all leave them together?

[@ramonlara8514]

THIS IS SO TRUE....! I've never looked at it from this perspective??