Alone for the Holidays, Tips For Solo RVers, Travelers and Single People

[@bobbybaldeagle702]

I sobered up in 2002 after many bad years I can't believe this is my 14th year clean and sober... Praise GOD!!!! I was out on the road until a bad motorcycle wreck back in 2012... Scene then I've been stuck here in this bed... BUT hopefully I'll be back out there on three wheels come spring... That's my goal.... I'm happy you got some friends tomorrow is Christmas I'll just be laying here with my puppies and my computer... We'll have a awesome time...

[@LaoSoftware]

I've been divorced for 10 years. I choose not to date or seek out new friends. I prefer the company of myself and pets. It's less stress. Good for my health to be alone.

[@marych3425]

So true! The commercialism of Christmas isn't just about buying things, it's about feeling like you have to live a certain way or else you're pathetic. I'm never alone when I'm with my four dogs.

[@Multiscan0001]

LaoSoftware - Only dog lovers know how much they mean to us. My dog helps me trough the day while suffering from chronic backpain. Sadly I don't have a way to get cannabis prescriptions so instead I need to use morfine.

[@danceswithbears2521]

I was widowed at age 27. I tried dating again. It didn't work. I'm a loner. I love my dog and cats and couldn't be happier. I'm 60 now and have never looked back.

[@marych3425]

I was 42 when I divorced. I assumed I'd remarry within a few years. Which led to some disastrous relationships! I'm 59 and totally content. I was a loner and didn't know it all those years!!

[@bobbot2881]

Mary Hegeman Guys come along and knocked the bottom out of it and hauled ass.

[@RuleofFive]

I like you Carolyn, you have a warm personality. I appreciate your honesty and self appraisal. You don't sugar coat living in an RV but talk about its advantages and disadvantages. I'm glad its working out for you.

[@froggie6608]

Carolyn, I don't have the words to express my admiration for you and what you are doing. Happy life my dear soul, be well and may happiness follow you always.

[@Mnrusty1]

A happy 2017 to you Carolyn. Thanks for sharing your rv adventures with us. It took me 40 years, a divorce, and several family deaths to come around to deep belief the story of Christmas is about NEVER being alone, because the child God came to earth to live within everyone and give us peace from His presence. That is the reason we celebrate Christmas, everything else means nothing. A very happy Christmas to you!

[@CarolynsRVLife]

Mnrusty1- Congratulations to you on finding your reason. All the best, CArolyn

[@JOEYHIPHOP2008]

Who ever has.lost their mom or dad to cancer I'm very sorry for your loss .my mom past away this last May 23/2016 . from lug cancerI love my mom so much she was everything to me . She loved me so much .And I love her.My mom loved this time of year ..In honor of my mom Marjorie Carrillo I wish everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.🎄Ps Thank you for all your great tips and videos Carolyn and Capone .🎄 Joey

[@JOEYHIPHOP2008]

Thank you

[@jycfrnkl]

It really is true many people with family obligations are stressed out and feel trapped at the holidays, sometimes even downright depressed. I was divorced and when I started thinking of the holidays as "my day" rather than longing for something that really never existed, I was filled with joy. I felt completely free.

[@GiggleFishy]

Merry Christmas Carolyn. I've been watching your vids for a couple of weeks now. You're doing something I planned to do about 10 years ago. I sold my house, bought a truck, was going to put an Alaskan camper on it and hit the road. And then I chickened out. I was scared - the woman alone thing. But then I got sick and that lifestyle wouldn't have worked for me in the long run, so perhaps it was for the best. In the meantime, I enjoy living vicariously through others, including you, a woman alone who I think is very brave, so thanks for sharing your journey with us all. I'm alone on Christmas Eve, but will be with family tomorrow. I've been alone on lots of holidays, and sometimes it can be OK, and other times it can be very painful, so I'm thankful to have people to spend it with this year - and they're people I even like! I hope you have a great time tomorrow with your new "family" and stay safe!! :)

[@andrewjditton]

Thanks for that Carolyn. 'Unhappiness doesn't sell Butterballs' had me in stitches- but so true. I'm proud to be like you and one of the 1%, over here in the UK living in my Airstream. I look forward to seeing more of your videos. Cheers m' dear!

[@ebfabulous]

I am a travel nurse. Arrived in my new City yesterday, to start my new job on December 26th. Last night as I was settling into my apartment .. in the mountains of Appalachia is not good for RV living in the winter .. with all my foldable Furniture director's chairs Apple crates that double as furniture, I saw that about a hundred feet away there was a church having a candlelight service and I went and sang Christmas carols. And it was wonderful. I think it's easier to be alone at Christmas on the road, as opposed to sitting in a Sticks and Bricks house alone

[@janethomas78]

I can't spend the Holidays with my Family... they drive me crazy and I have to then recover from it. No point!! Kindred Spirits are here!!

[@1958kyra]

I live in an apartment and have friends, but I still spend Christmas alone, because I don't want to go to friends houses for the day, I just don't feel I should be there, but I have my dog and I get to open presents for him, and watch him attack his new toys and enjoy his special treat. Its just as fulfilling as watching a kid do it.

[@starrycrown]

This is the nicest Christmas video I have seen. Thank you, Carolyn and Capone!!

[@rvlife289]

Beginning to camp solo & I’ve been alone at the holidays for 30 years. I mostly worked those holidays to get through. It has been good! Life is good!

[@Charles77598]

Thank you for this video. I have two addictions, caffeine and nicotine. Yes I am alone and will be tomorrow on Christmas day. I live in a studio apartment and want to be in a class C. I will get there! Your video helped me by letting me know I am not the only one alone for the holidays. I really do have me and find that to be ok, thanks to you. Merry Christmas Carolyn!

[@Multiscan0001]

Charles Ramsey I wish you a Merry Christmas and hope it will all work out!

[@vespermartini2556]

Same here, Charles. We are not alone, we have each other, maybe not physically, but spiritually. Happy Holidays.

[@goodday4112]

cHARLES SAME HERE. IT IS OK. COFFE E AND SMOKES. YUP. mERRY cHRISTMAS AND EAT LOTTSA FOOD.

[@petertalgaard6540]

Charles Ramsey ..ha ha..my exact addiction!

[@MsDK-es9hv]

Merry Christmas and thank you so much for this video. I'm alone and have been since my most of my family died. Your wisdom is spot on! Every Christmas Eve, I cook things that I like, I buy and wear new Pajamas.....and I enjoy a movie. When you are single, you get to make your own holidays.....and there's great freedom. I wish you Happy Holidays, Safe Travels and Good Health in the New Year.

[@Serramist]

Really needed to hear your words. I lost my husband some months ago and Christnes is so hard for me me this yeT. I am not completely alone but without my husband I feel so alone. Merry Christmas to you and Calone

[@Multiscan0001]

Sierramist - I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I send you love and strength. Not only for this weekend but for every day. Happy Christmas anyway from me and my doggie companion, Olly!

[@jamesmiller9492]

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[@davidbacon9223]

.....what a nice name (Sierramist)! i used to hike into the East Bay hills and into the thick/dense fog! NOBODY wants to wander around up there when the weather is 'so bad'! they're nuts!

[@joanhall3718]

Sierramist I wish for you comfort and good thoughts. I lost my husband 5 years ago, a week before Christmas. That first Xmas I was numb. After that I took solace in my memories. As I unwrapped each ornament I thought about where we had bought it, and Christmases passed that we had shared. Each year those memories become more joyful. I am reminded how lucky I was to have such a wonderful man in my life. Hold on this year. Give yourself permission to grieve, but try and pull those good memories through the tears.

[@pjd2709]

So Sorry for your loss, sending hugs and good thoughts for you and always (as Muktiscan0001 had said in post), know you are not alone! I lost my husband 2014, have no family and from another country. Be kind to yourself!

[@zzbottom4904]

I've been alone for 32 out of the last 35 years, and I wouldn't want it any other way. For me it's a day to withdraw even more than other days.The first couple of years were difficult, but now it's inner joy.

[@wdbreezy]

Wishing you and Capone a Happy Holiday, Carolyn. Thank you for your videos - they keep me on track and moving towards a different lifestyle than the one I'm currently living.

[@OutandAboutWithDiane]

Wow this video really hit me. I have had a problem with alcohol and drugs. I am just getting out of a 5 year relationship. I have 1 friend and I am about to start the nomad life in the next month or so. Thinking about the holidays has been tough for me and this really helps light the fire under my booty. Thank you!!!!

[@kmm129]

This holiday season, don't let your desire for control or gifts steal your opportunity for connection and gratitude. Brendon Burchard. I enjoyed the video. Being content is a very important decision for me also. Capone looks so regal and handsome today. I bet he adores the desert. Be well, safe and enjoy the season. WOOF.

[@trace-elementz1343]

There are so many great people out there doing exactly as Carolyn, what makes Carolyn different is her vlogging for all of us to watch and follow along on her travels. I think it's such a great gift for the folks (like me) who enjoy watching these episodes.

[@mkennedy2550]

Alone but not lonely. Merry Christmas

[@jenniferbringman9054]

I’am ok with being alone on holidays! I buy myself the gift I want and I buy my dogs a gift! The pressure others put on you is unbelievable to remarry and being alone means to them something is wrong with you. I love my alone times. It means no pressure and a quiet gentle day or days. And yes somedays it seems everything goes wrong but for the most part it’s a great time to reflect and to do what you want without negotiating with another person!

[@Milesco]

I hear ya, Jennifer! So true! _"I buy myself the gift I want..."_ And when you do that, whatever it is, it's ALWAYS the right color, the right size, and with the right features!

[@pupcamper58]

Your never alone in RV life. I learned that several years ago and that's why I can't wait to go full time. Do what makes you happy! Cheryl

[@CarolynsRVLife]

Cheryl - I edited out the part about traveling alone but never feeling alone... I know, no matter where I am , my tribe is within a few hours at any given time (especially now with YT and all the wonderful people here who offer me places to stay, dinners and company) . It's a wonderful and supportive community - AND those of us who are solo, get the neeed for solitude and independence so we can be together, but still retain our independence. It's pretty awesome.. Can't wait for you to get out here.. so excited for you! - C

[@KJAdventures]

Your fearless honesty continues to inspire.

[@marych3425]

Oh, the years I suffered at the holidays with family and in-laws...there's nothing better than getting together with friends or just enjoying your own company! Thanks for telling it like it is. Merry Christmas Carolyn and Capone!

[@moondancer5115]

I feel alone when surrounded by my large family. ..I've always felt like a misfit too. when I talk about hitting the road soneday, they tell me I'm Wierd and have lost my mind. I think I need a misfit tribe, can't wait to be around people with no judgment or agendas. Merry Christmas Caroline!

[@moondancer5115]

dare to dream, that's me! thanks for making me feel understood ❤

[@moondancer5115]

*Carolyn*...

[@rooroo9596]

julie ross I hope your Dreams truly come true Miss Julie....plz have a Wonderful Holiday !!

[@PatriseHenkel]

Sometimes it's painful that my blood family is not my tribe, but they really aren't. The ones I loved most are dead, and the remaining relatives are hostile to almost all of my beliefs. So for years I've been independent. I'm not living on the road yet, but I have a free spirit and have learned to enjoy my own company. Trust your heart!

[@moondancer5115]

Thanks Patrise, you are right. My tribe isn't family, and no matter how much I wish they were, it's not to be. Funny thing, I've lost most of my true people to death also..I'm 56 and feel more liss than most my age. My husband us 10 yrs older, my rock who's gradually crumbling to age and Leukemia (Nam Vet/agent orange ), and he and I talk about my future..it's living free! In the meantime we plan shorter camping trips and live one day at a time, peace to you, thanks again. .your comment helped me feel not alone

[@unclemo2]

👍 Great that you mentioned the need for volunteers on non holiday days. Safe & happy travels :)

[@joesurfer9754]

After a while you get use to spending x-mas alone and you prefer it.

[@wendylaxton3777]

I go and help feed the under privelage but also it’s run by a church and it’s also for anyone that is alone on that day. It really takes me out of my self pity if not fitting in with family . I always come home feeling up lifted and part of my community ♥️

[@juliegreen9312]

Thank you very much for this video. Loved it. You are hilarious and so refreshingly honest! Thank you!

[@sadradful]

Carolyn, thank you for presenting your perspective so joyfully. Truth is that for a lot of us living alone, we do it by choice. Happy Holidays!

[@Johnkostercreative]

Thanks Carolyn for a nice dose of needed sanity. Welcome to the island.

[@LadyPenelope]

Merry Christmas, Carolyn! Enjoy your time with people that are with you because they want to be there...that is the best gift of all..sincere friendship is a beautiful thing.

[@chuckmoseley1028]

Merry Christmas Carolyn!! Thank you for sharing your journey with us! :)

[@chuckmoseley1028]

Okay.... confession here...I made the "Merry Christmas" comment before I watched the whole video. L-O-V-E this video!! You will never realize how awesome the island of misfit toys analogy was for me. I'm far from alone but I'm definitely the misfit toy. Again, thank you so much for sharing your journey. :)

[@beardigger3779]

Carolyn You are right on the mark! Thank you for speaking out.👍👍👍

[@maryann7941]

Thank you!!!! I REALLY needed to hear what you said today!!!! Happy Holidays!!!!

[@CarolynsRVLife]

Mary - Yay!!! I am so glad.. thank you so much for the message and enjoy your holiday -- - C

[@oxycrimson]

You're not alone Carolyn, thinking about you and wishing you all the best!

[@johnwellings3225]

yours travels make people realize what a vast amazing place America is

[@CarolynsRVLife]

John - yes, I hope so!!! TY

[@Beakerzor]

i love it when you move the camera around and we see different scenes , seems less like a monolog when you move around a little, great videos! can't wait for more

[@JimBobJJonesJr]

I'm so glad you got clean. May God continue to bless you and Happy Holidays :)

[@lynnjohnson325]

Merry Christmas Carolyn, Joshua tree looks so beautiful. I also always related to the Island of misfit toys! Thanks for this blog, I really like your story. I'm in sticks and brick, day dreaming about picking out a RV. I enjoy a quiet Christmas and not asked to go to my Sisters family get together. It used to hurt but I love being with my daughter, hubby and the animals. I'm glad you get to go spend time with your tribe. Thanks again and I enjoy your blogs. sending love from chilly Minnesota!

[@sandyhollibaugh6796]

thank you for the uplifting message and Merry Christmas to all those alone for the holidays. Find an adventure even if it's hard planning a solo

[@akretowicz]

You are not alone on Christmas, Carolyn. We are all with you in soul and spirit. So, rejoice, and have a very Merry Christmas, Carolyn!

[@WydeAWake-yc3tp]

Are you really a "misfit" for refusing to fit in with the deluded majority? I'd say you are more mentally fit than the average bear. Being happily "well adjusted" to a world run by psychopaths is form of insanity that affects most of the people I know. Stay strong, Carolyn!

[@davids6533]

Very well said! Thank you!

[@davidbacon9223]

.....i am dumbfounded to look at Carolyn and think she went to a psychiatrist!!! what could an office-bound shrink have to say to her, when Carolyn is the best therapist in town/(or wilderness)?! MERRY CHRISTMAS

[@vespermartini2556]

Unfortunately, we have been told by society that we are a misfit, and we've heard it so many times that we believe it.

[@davidbacon9223]

***** .....i sleep under a tarp with a bicycle & trailer-cart in a college town, living like HUCK FINN/(American)! people look at me like i'm an illegal alien!

[@davidbacon9223]

***** .....i sorta live like a 'saddle tramp'/(cowboy) in the West and the town's-people can't seem to grasp how un-American THEY are!!!!!!!!!!!! (ufo aliens spiked their drinking water?)

[@VG-RN]

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all of you, Carolyn, Capone, and Fans of Carolyn!! Wishing you all the best year yet and many happy travels.

[@jasara1895]

Merry Christmas :-) There is a difference in being lonely and being alone. One needs to learn to embrace & enjoy one's own company. There is a peace & happiness that comes with it.

[@Elissa-Ellen]

Merry Christmas Carolyn! You have many people feeling inspired by you and thank you for sharing your experiences. Many blessings to you this coming New Year! Never lose your wanderlust!

[@mettahuttravels3183]

Beautiful land Carolyn. This year I had a really bad fall & tore up my arm bad. It cost me my job & totally change my life. I have a wonderful wife & kids but I have never been so alone, but as long as you have a dog your never really along, I have never really connected with people so when we hit the road I hope to reinvent myself. You & Bob are good people & I see what your purpose in life is. Good luck & may 2017 be yours.🙏🏻🇺🇸🇦🇺👍🏻

[@CarolynsRVLife]

Craig- oh , i am sorry to hear of your misfortunes this year. I hope you are able to get on the other side and find happiness and peace in 2017.. Good luck and ty for writing and watchng!!! take care!! - C

[@mettahuttravels3183]

Carolyn's RV Life Shit happens Carolyn, one door closes & another one opens its all ok. We must remember that there are people out there fighting for there lives. I am doing ok 👌

[@lisabillard8049]

What wonderful advice, "Be nice to yourself ." So clear and simple and I needed someone to give this to me. You have a way with words and you are a wonderful speaker. Your gift to me this Christmas are your words. My gift to you is a compliment. Merry Christmas.

[@jeanettewaverly2590]

Thank you for this poignant and timely video! I've spent many Holidays alone -- some by choice (like this year) and some by circumstance. I've also suffered through many National Lampoon-quality family Christmases, lol. What I've learned from it all is that Me, Myself, and I make great company. Your words and assurances will help make the difference between solitude and loneliness for many of us fellow island-dwellers. Btw, as a kid, I used to visit Joshua Tree and Death Valley when they were national monuments -- before they "graduated" to national park status. I feel we grew up together. :)

[@CarolynsRVLife]

Jeannette - I love how your phrases your comment.. especially the part about the learning/experiencing the difference between solitude and loneliness. I love my solitude and very rarely feel lonely.. Many people find that hard to understand. But I DO like my own company and it sounds like you do too and have gotten to a comfy place. Aww. cool story abut JT! Wow.. And it is such a magical place to me.. Lucky you for having such a wonderful childhood friend! :-) - All the best, C

[@jeanettewaverly2590]

My time spent in our nation's wonderful public lands is a priceless treasure to me. I'm happy to see you discovering them in all their physical and spiritual beauty.

[@grateful1929]

gordy threehorses Were you talking to Carolyn?? Did you say that to her?

[@cindybriden372]

Great video!! Being alone also gives you the time to "rediscover" yourself independent of who others and society teaches you to be. It's a wonderful experience if you completely accept it and don't fight it. One thing that I have done the last few years is throughout the year I would buy myself something and wrap it. Then on Christmas I would put it under the tree and many times forget what it was I bought. What I don't want anymore or "out grew" I would give to charity so whatever I buy is not a complete loss. Again, thanks for the video!! Happy New Year to you!!

[@NoProGoPronto]

I'm wishing you HAPPY health and MERRY friends. All the best to you & Capone all year 'round 👍🏽💜😀

[@cindyn628]

Once again, I can so relate, and appreciate your sincerity and honesty. Looking forward to finding my island and meeting my tribe! Blessings to you and Capone

[@cynthiapitts3795]

Thank you, Merry Christmas! You are a very sweet person. Thank you for caring!

[@vwohllaib]

Happy winter solstice! I bet it's gorgeous in the desert looking at all the beautiful stars! You are never truly alone....

[@osprey1252]

Carolyn, thank you so much for your videos. I'm a 50 year old male who is recently divorced. All I want is to simplify my life and live it to the fullest. I have no family or close friends where I live. You, Bob Wells and The Adventure Man have been extremely inspirational. I just need to save up a bit of money to get started and I'd love to get on the road and start living. Thanks again!

[@RutherfordTony]

There is a big difference in being lonely and being alone. I am alone and ok with it at this time. Merry Christmas Carolyn!

[@garygoldsmith9844]

Well spoken! You always put a smile on my face.

[@NatureGloseScience]

I like that! We nomads really are an "Island of Misfit Toys". I too resonate with having the holidays be "my day" to do with as I please, free from societal obligations. Now, it's not an obligation to show up for nomadic gatherings here in Ehrenberg or Quartzsite. We show up at our gatherings if/when we want. I've really appreciated that about this growing tribe. And I'm so glad to have met you in person today! What a light you hold! Thrilling to see more new nomads like you joining this community! Makes me think what we'll grow into in 5 years...10 years. So many free thinkers. Lots of wonderful energy is being brought. Thank you for joining us, Carolyn!

[@SilverSunPublishing]

Merry Christmas to all of us misfits and free thinkers!!!!! There IS more to Life!

[@keloreilly7017]

Thank You, Carolyn, for this video. You are so right with everything you said. I am inspired by your words and will remember them forever. Enjoy your holiday time with Capone and please stay safe. You're the best!

[@memoryamethyst4581]

Happy Holidays, Carolyn. I'm not an RV'r, but I do spend almost all of my time alone. By choice. The most common thing people ask me is if I'm lonely. Very very rarely do I feel that but I often feel overwhelmed in a crowd. I see the fighting and the stress that family's go through, along with the crushing additional debt that the holiday brings for so many. Years ago, I stopped trying to drag my kids off to the grandparents so that they could spend the day bored and being told not to play electronic games because it was "Family time" whilst be reassured of their personal place in hell for calling my parents religion mythology. In re-inventing what the holiday actually meant to us, we created our own holiday, starting with breakfast ( eat whatever the hell you want: Baklava, pop tarts, tacos, crisps, mashed potatoes slathered in cheddar cheese) Lunch was fend for yourself (ie: there are still three pieces of baklava left, go for it!) and supper was going out for chinese food. I did needlework and drank pots of tea, one kid read books, one kid gamed and one kid chatted online to people on the other side of the world. We were all relaxed, happy and together. Today, I'm going to open the gift I ordered for myself, do some sewing and drink tea. I got a cornish hen to cook up with sage that I grew last summer. The two kids are 3500 miles away, reading books and gaming online with old friends and people on the other side of the world. The third has her own new family and is shopping, wrapping, turkeying and comparing (and re-gifting) gifts with the best of them. Even thinking about that makes me shudder and be thankful for my solo Christmas. All the best of the season. Memy

[@melindameikle9697]

Thank you..yes I was sitting here feeling sorry for myself..my first year all alone in a new state in my tiny house...getting some tears out of the way and then I'll be fine...thanks for the boost Carolyn and merry christmas to you.

[@tjfSIM]

Carolyn, you're so right about Christmas and this was such a lovely and inspiring video. This season is pretty much driven by the media and their idea about what Christmas should be - and everyone feels like they have to spend money and have all the trimmings to 'fit in' with these expectations. I've spoken to so many people this year who feel fed up and disillusioned by the whole thing, I think we all have something to learn from this video! Anyway I hope you and your RV family have a fantastic time over the holidays, and wishing you a peaeful and joyous 2017 :)

[@Kaptnkrnch]

Good for you Carolyn! Thanks for the nice words. To echo everyone else, including yourself "you are not alone" either, I'm thinking of you and your tribe right at this moment and wishing all of you a "Happy Christmas" and a "Fantastic New Year" filled with more fun.

[@epen1898]

Alone or in a group, it's all good, but it sucks when people mess it up. In whichever situation you find yourself, don't take it for granted, embrace it. Yes, yes, it's your day to make it like you like it. Hey all the days are yours! Happy Christmastime!!

[@codyryan6149]

TY for reaching out and sharing. I am rebuilding my life and refusing to accept one sided relationships ever again I feel solitude in knowing that there r people in this world that truly care about me as I do them and these r the people I care to share life's journey with. While I am alone this holiday, I am also not alone. Life is so precious !

[@rosacampos5701]

Wise words, happy holidays

[@laudalady61]

Right on Sista! You hit the nail on the head! Enjoy your day as I will too!

[@KellyS_77]

I was single until I was 35 years old, and celebrated the holidays alone from the time I moved out at 18 until then. My "Christmas tradition" was to watch the box set of Star Trek Next Generation or DS9. It was also my Thanksgiving tradition lol, I'm a big geek lol.

[@littledirtpatch...2668]

Thank you so much for this perspective. My husband & I currently have custody of a 4-1/2 yo grandson & a 9 yo granddaughter. We are in the process of changing custody from to FL to our other daughter in GA. As soon as this takes place (hopefully in next few months we are downsizing, selling our house & buying a schoolie to convert. Even though we will have each other, as a collective I'm sure we'll be lonely from time to time. It's really encouraging to know we can go to Edinburgh to join with like-minded RVers to celebrate the holidays. Love your videos & have watched I'm sure every one. Keep up the great work. Love ya, Bev

[@keirtaylor4669]

you are so inspirational to me and many other women I'm sure. Thank you :)

[@CarolynsRVLife]

Keir- thank you!!! I hope my experience and many mistakes can have some purpose!!! Happy Holidays!

[@johnnybloggs2494]

+Carolyn's RV Life Love seeing your smile as you find your own little patch of heaven. I am living vicariously though you Carolyn (as many are). Been through the binge watching in the Holidays which in my case was Yes Minister & Yes Prime Minster- both classic British comedies which I'd highly recommend. Until I pay my debts to loved ones (emotional debts not monetary ones), you will hold the fort for me won't you Carolyn? Whether there remains much of me, after I've paid these debts or whether there remains little, I'll be sure to set foot onto Misfit Island. I hope there will be a place for me there when that happens. From a world away (literally)- Happy Holidays- Enjoy freedom love. You've made it :)

[@Multiscan0001]

Another great British comedy show is "Only Fools and Horses", that is what I'll watch Xmas eve and Christmas Day. Great English humour!

[@johnnybloggs2494]

+Musltiscan0001 Off course it's great. It's British ;->. 'Last of the Summer Wine' was another good comedy from Blighty if you enjoy a more gentle pace.

[@CarolynsRVLife]

Johnny Bloggs Thank you my friend, happy holidays to you as well. Enjoy!

[@nancy9704]

Hi Carolyn! What you say, what you say, what yousay The clarity through which you speak verifies you've reached a high level of understanding of yourself, and that's awesome. I'm so happy you've found your tribe because you've chosen beautiful people who resonate on a deep level with you, and I'm craving that so much. The veil is lifting, things are imploding quickly and society doesn't hold any answers for me either. I could write a book to tell you how much I hear and understand this. Christmas is just another day but I try to make it special for my two adult children. Still do. It's tough right now, but I know things always work out for me, and I know they work out for you because the Universe is always responding and helping when we ask. I love you and wish you and beautiful Capone a wonderful holiday, too.

[@margaretl8851]

You are so honest and funny. I love your videos as I contemplating RV living or some other living to get out of the rat race. Thank you!

[@CutandShoot5x5]

Very thoughtful video Carolyn! Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to you Capone!!!

[@pjd2709]

Merry Christmas to you an Capone as well! Thanks for your video's!

[@marciam7301]

Great video! I became so much happier when I realized it is okay to be alone, and I am not obligated to to keep others' traditions, especially during the holidays. Merry Christmas!!!!

[@CarolynsRVLife]

Yes!!!! Marcia that is exactly the process I went through.. 'realizing it's ok to be alone and make my own traditions!" thank you!! Happy day my friend! - C

[@jimmyfizzy]

Long story short, I have a lot in common with you, I quit drinking 8 years ago when I met my wife, last summer I was diagnosed with stage 3 Colorectal cancer and 5 months ago now my wife passed away from congestive heart failure. I'm on SSDI I really don't have a trade I can use on the road. I'm looking into joining the increasing number of people living in a RV. Getting my prescriptions filled out on the road comes to mind ? I'm thinking about hanging around Phoenix, maybe becoming a movie / TV extra in LA ? My cancer is gone for now anyway, but I'll still need to find my way back to Seattle every 6 months for some of my Cancer care. Long term I would like to build wood custom Kayaks and auto detailing ? I'm thinking a 26' + trailer and pulling it around with a 97-2000 Chevy Suburban 4X4, I've always wanted a Suburban :)

[@Multiscan0001]

James Fisler I wish you a Merry Christmas and really hope your dream will come through.

[@davidbacon9223]

.....instead of an RV, why not save your money & watch 'CarolynsRVLife'?! just get a good black tarp & sleeping bag this winter and sleep out on the balcony in the rain or backyard?!!! the most peaceful hours are (way) before the dawn!

[@jmarshallstein9791]

Go for it James!

[@lorimiller4301]

James Fisler Focus on what you want and the reasons behind the wanting. The Universe will conspire to give it to you. Best Wishes where ever you are. Merry Christmas.

[@grateful1929]

Lori Miller I don't mean any disrespect but it is God that gives.

[@captandy34449]

Your words are a true inspiration! Thank you Carolyn! You Rock!

[@human1time]

As long as you have a dog, you'll never be alone.

[@sarahjackson6714]

Hope you and Capone always find happiness wherever you are...thanks for sharing

[@the51project]

You are inspirational. Big hugs.

[@williamweekley3640]

Carolyn, thanks for this video. It means a lot to me because of your honesty. I divorced last year after my 20 year marriage fell apart and began to feel loneliness this holiday biting at me. My step-children have been nice, but it's awkward now and I can tell they don't quite know what to do. Still, I'm very thankful. I, too, have been down the alcohol road and I'm so thankful I didn't have to go that route again because I've learned to live without it, sober since February 2012. Thank you. It was a blessing to watch it.

[@ivyedan7183]

God bless you... and congratulations on being clean and sober. I've been clean 9 years

[@CarolynsRVLife]

Ivy -Congrats to you too!!! Hooray! :-) Thank you for the kind comment. Happy holiday!

[@ivyedan7183]

Carolyn's RV Life thank you so much.. I am so blessed..

[@cherylf1851]

Awesome! Thanks, Carolyn! This is a great time to remember that you are your own best friend. I love the idea of making Christmas day your own special day. Happy holidays everyone!

[@shellbythesea12]

Being part of a family can make you more suicidal then being alone. Being housebound makes it worse for me . I can't get away from toxic relatives so I just lock myself in my room.

[@CarolynsRVLife]

MaryRachelle - That sounds awful.. Are you safe?

[@shellbythesea12]

Carolyn's RV Life Physically yes,but these people are determined to wreck me mentally. Sometimes I think this life is a punishment for a bad life I lived before this one.

[@CarolynsRVLife]

OMG.. I say the same thing all the time..I thought I must have been Hitler in a past life or something..that's what I ask the universe.. I know it feels that way.. some of us are dealt shit hands. and then people tells us to make lemonade out of lemons.. yeah.. you know what I want to say to that.. I hope you can find a way to set yourself free from the people who are bringing you down. Do you see a way out? Please be safe. Take care of yourself and know that it does get better..

[@63sonotech]

Merry Christmas! Yup, as a medical traveler I know that feeling and believe me, friends and family dont always cut it so you have to learn to love yourself and enjoy yourself. Im alone most holidays and stretches of time alone. Im at that point where it is enjoyable. Still have a hard time eating alone in public but eventually it will get easier. Folks, you are not alone.

[@infantryblack]

You have a wonderful Christmas Carolyn!

[@tumbleweedking5668]

Should say Happy Holidays, Loner man haters aren't looked upon as normal by the Lord.

[@BarryandKaren]

+Scott Falkner - Wow, you're a fine example of a human, aren't you? Perhaps one day you will mature into an adult. Hopefully.

[@xyz12383941]

Scott Falkner You are an ignorant idiot. Go away.

[@dadgad68]

Merry Christmas Carolyn. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. :)

[@MrEroshan]

"Be nice to yourself" this is one saying that more people need to heed.

[@mrdisability1946]

MrEroshan I second that. Very powerful words.

[@CarolynsRVLife]

yes.. society is very good at telling us we aren't good enough, we don't do enough, we don't have enough.. oh my gosh.. it needs to STOP! ty for the comment and for being here! :-)

[@julieschneider3113]

How funny it is that here I sit on Christmas eve 2017 watching your 2016 Christmas eve video! Just started watching your videos. Love your outlook on life.Merry Christmas to you and Capone, wherever you may be tonight!

[@UnderdogFL]

It's a Wonderful Life.

[@Windkisssed]

Yay!!!!! I'm in recovery also!!! welcome to a beautiful life!! I can't wait to meet you someday. I will most likely be mobile in about a year. Great video...great channel...great human!!! Thanks for another insightful, inspiring and enjoyable video. Lauri

[@copperpenny0209]

Merry Christmas! The holiday season is my least favorite time of year. It's just not my thing. I like January 1st because it's over and things will be getting back to normal. I'm happy that your found your peace.

[@56Axis]

Oh, Carolyn..I so get you!! Thanks for the advice to those alone this holiday season. And you're at one of my favorite places in California..how many times we boondocked there and had an amazing time..so lovely there. Lucky you!! Wish I was there. :) Have a great personal super day!!! You rock!! :)

[@CarolynsRVLife]

Thank you Esther - yes, this is such a gorgeous area!! Was hard to leave!! Thank you again for you kindness and support. I appreciate you!! Happy Holidays!

[@56Axis]

you're welcome, Carolyn!! Safe travels!! And happy holidays!! :) hugs to Capone!! :)

[@rockcrazygal5166]

You are awesome! Love your videos. Merry Christmas.

[@cloroxbleach9518]

I'm a nomad, and was basically alone on Christmas, but my dog helped me feel less alone.I realized though that it was better than spending it on the fake friends I used to have.

[@RoadTripEddie]

kinda reminds me of the song by Joan Jett - Fake Friends. how we go through life, until we wake up and find ourselves. and love ourselves..... finally. :-)

[@vespermartini2556]

Carolyn, thank you for your beautiful message. I'm glad I'm not alone in my way of thinking. I hope to find my island soon, as you did. I think most of us are looking for our purpose in this world, and you have found yours and are sharing it with the rest of us. Thank you and Happy Holidays, stay safe.