Catching a Cheater, Boundaries in Relationships, and Reacting to your Cheater stories 👀

[@danielle055]

I love Yas’s mindset about men 😂😂😂😂😂 she cracked me up! “My man needs to think about how to work MORE!”

[@A12203]

Go Yasmin. I can tell you’re feeling more comfortable with every episode!

[@TheNemshar]

The kids will feel the resentment between parents that are not good together if you stay with a cheater. You will teach them a weird relationship type of people living together but not having any warmth towards each other.

[@mona8321]

Here come the individuals who scrutinize what Naz said five + years ago, failing to acknowledge that people evolve-especially now that she’s a married woman with children. Change is a natural part of life. This could explain why they kept their first season PG, but just know, Naz, you have support no matter what. ❤

[@MG-gm3jj]

Let me just say, I really appreciate and respect how y’all took all the feedback from last season and just elevated your whole entire show. I listened to all of the last season and I have to say, the last two episodes have been exactly what I think the podcast was designed to be. I think it’s really amazing!

[@Crazy28079]

I remember Naz saying she doesn’t care if Mel liked other womens pictures and how they would hype up women on Instagram together. It’s crazy to see how that has changed now!

[@marlenna215]

Yea she slipped a revealed a few things

[@kennig__]

Right and when he kissed other women on that game show 😅

[@s.chou9]

@@kennig__now when the hell was this 😳

[@margaritacastillo8838]

She also said she would be open to a 3some with her husband. I’m glad she now realizes she was wrong

[@kennig__]

@@s.chou9 years ago, I’m sure the videos are still up on KZbin

[@silosara]

“Girl you aunty in his phone.” 🤣🤣🤣

[@californiababy1122]

I’m aunty lol 🙃

[@yaslynsahota]

Lmao

[@antofashionbeauty]

The man running has me dead hahaha wtf so embarassing😭😭 yasmin reacted so well to that situation!!!

[@virgosunnn]

Yasmin is so effortlessly funny 😂

[@lolli5568]

I agree!! 😂❤

[@farrtun]

Yazmin is really smart and well spoken.

[@Kungpl0w]

She couldn't even remeber what comes after 2

[@jasdg0405]

Omg I’m so glad yall took the constructive criticism and rannnn with it. Just these last 2 episodes shows it, and I honestly love it. Yall don’t want my cheater stories tbh because I’ve only had 4 bfs my whole life and im with one of them to this day with 2 kids but before this my ex’s from my teenage years did me DIRTYYYYYYYYYY. My life is a whole movie tho lol I loved relating to these stories and idk why but I teared up at parts because of how mad I am for some women.. we deserve better! Love this pod and love you ladies! 🫶🏽🤎🤎🤎

[@jasdg0405]

P.s the fact that yall got cheated on at some point is insane and also a very valid proof of when people say that even Beyoncé got cheated on because wtf… like literally wtf r men? lol so dumb man

[@amykk-d7j]

LOVING how much Yas is opening up lately!! Always a pleasure listening to y’all chat ❤❤

[@melissamartins9745]

asymmetrical tops have yas in a choke hold 😂 look so elegant

[@michelleinnxo]

i love that yaz seemed much more candid and open. the podcast seemed to flow so much better this time around! much love xo

[@Insertpizzaemoji]

Yasmin is very passionate in this episode!!! Go awwwwffffff sis

[@gabbiebobbs3543]

This is the PODCASTTTT WE NEEDED! Yall are providing REALNESS! And full honesty!!

[@yulisazavala]

The whole zillow search omg 😂😂 love you guys!! 💕

[@feidaniel]

Yas is REAL STRICT & I love it. You have to be careful with who you date associate yourself with.

[@adaaleide]

naz girl pink is your colour i was thinking it before y’all even brought it up. makes your skin glow downnn

[@khawladiaries4263]

I’m loving this season! So much more relaxed and fun vibes, I could listen for hours 💕

[@Elizabeth-vv1lk]

LOVED this weeks podcast! Can we also point out how they literally look sooo good in every episode!!

[@emiliercl]

This is exactly what I needed tonight after having classes back to back from 8am to 8pm

[@chantillyc3486]

I love Tuesdays aka What My Sis Said days!!

[@kianaamini9575]

The podcast is getting better and better!!! ❤

[@linaxonori8561]

It depends as a lot of women are stuck finically in relationships or what if there partners an abuser or addicted to drugs or alcohol. Some just can’t get away and doesn’t mean there intentions are to be deceiving but they’re stuck .

[@mariaalejandraperez6861]

On the girl best friend topic it’s a huge NO. My bf made a girl best friend during a time we broke up for about 5 months and then got back together. They were still hanging out and she even helped him chose my Christmas gift! Come to find out I got him to confess to me that he had a crush on her initially when they met so I made him cut her off. I literally had him call her and tell her that he couldn’t be friends with her and I do not regret it to this day! I don’t think that’s being toxic it’s just not right.

[@adelacazimoska8581]

Pink is definitely Naz’s color 😍

[@victoria6533]

I resonated with Yaz alot in this episode, except for the part about staying with a cheater for the kids😂 As someone who grew up in that type of household, it was severely damaging in many different aspects of my life and ultimately I could tell my parents both weren’t happy but they deserved to be.

[@sarahlo3021]

Yasmin ATE this one uppppp! go offff queen; loveeee it!!!

[@sierrastjulien]

watching my sistaaaas while walking on my treadmill 😜 loveeeeee listening to yall. i forget im even on the treadmill😭🤣

[@seanieceladd3318]

Naz had me dying with “go get a $45 room at the red roof inn”😂😂😂

[@pennytrue2741]

Oh and you guys I told a girl her boyfriend was calling me 50x a day and get this… they both went to court and got a restraining order against me. A lot of girls don’t want to hear it and team up with the guy. Meanwhile he’s married to her and still harassing me.

[@justanotherviewer00]

that's WILD lmao

[@jazzyjazz7985]

Hahahahah the judge approved the restraining order ???😨

[@pennytrue2741]

@@jazzyjazz7985 we settled outside of court. He was doing it anonymously using burner apps and teetered a line of making it hard to prove although there were multiple missed calls from the same town he was in graduate school at the time which probably would’ve worked in a court room but it wasn’t a 100% guarantee. We settled via our lawyers out of court with a no contact order, which is basically the same thing just without it being on your record etc. I just agreed to it bc I thought he would leave me the hell alone afterwards but he still hasn’t. Now I have to get one against him.

[@Only_nicky]

You guys make Tuesdays my favorite day of the week!!🤭 so excited to watch 🥰

[@reynaaa191]

I agreed with everything except when Yazmin said she would probably stay with a cheater if she had kids . Girl no you better leave that leaves a bad example for your children .

[@Klareyn427]

I get that part but then look at so many kids these days not being able to say there mom and dad are together still. And then gap breaks them up! People don’t realize how much of an impact it is to not have your parents together at all! Man back then females were soldiers!!! Staying with the man as a married couple with kids! Knowing they cheated! It’s just crazy how things are now

[@Sweetieee]

& if they’re financially dependent on the guy?

[@pennytrue2741]

@@Klareyn427it’s still not a good example. It’s more of an example to show a strong independent woman who leaves the man in the dust for not respecting her.

[@reynaaa191]

@@Sweetieee that’s why you should never be financially dependent on any man.

[@hotmess9640]

@@reynaaa191dude you aren’t living in reality lmfao.

[@TabbySiamAbby]

Lool you two are so much fun! You’re doing sooo well on the podcast, very entertaining!! Cheating is my biggest nightmare I swear. As Naz said, I hate someone making me look like a dummy. It’s also just so disgusting for someone to be mingling their body with different women and then getting in the same bed as me. Not to mention potentially spreading STIs, cheating is just the ultimate betrayal. It’s a terrible emotional betrayal too, I don’t understand having such a lack of conscience or empathy

[@originalGFLEX]

The vibrancy of these ladies makes these topical conversations great to be a part of.

[@jenhernandez818]

I had this playing in the background while studying A&P and the amount of times my mouth dropped hearing the stories omg😭

[@huizar002]

Downloading this video so I can watch it during my flight back home 🥹🫶🏼 love you guys! ✨

[@tanianashay]

"God bless, go lose your mind some more"🤣🤣🤣 Love Yas' commentary!

[@MandeeGorgeous]

Omg so fun to watch while working my time flys byyyyy 😂😂 Naz’s facial expression at 58:15 lol love her 🤍 love you BOTH 🤍

[@linaxonori8561]

If Yazmin stood till the kids are 18 she would probably miss out on something that’s really for her waiting that long❤

[@BriCharise730]

Naw Yaz you don’t stay for the kids either, you leave and y’all just have a healthy coparent situation but don’t stay just for the kids cause especially if they’re older they see and know more then you think. Great episode girls!!

[@cassidyquirk4986]

Really enjoyed this podcast, I been cheated on before, this relationship was emotionally abusive & I stupidly took him back as I was manipulated. I loved him but he didn't love me. But been single for little over 2 years & thriving. I was wondering if you could do an episode on why you should/shouldn't be the chill bf/gf? Some people say that being the chill type can get you to be taken advantage of, at least that's what I've heard. You girls are absolutely gorgeous 🩷

[@Journey975]

The email has a lot! Especially if it’s linked to there Apple ID, it will show any dating apps, Snapchat, instagram tinder etc, also ladies make sure your checking the recently deleted on messages and photos😉😂💛

[@jazzyjazz7985]

Gurrrrl how are able to search deleted messages 😳?????

[@Journey975]

@@jazzyjazz7985 on the new iPhone update if you press edit on the messages app it will show a couple options at the bottom is recently deleted🤍

[@silosara]

Naz’s shirt is too cute. 😍

[@jc-xq2pf]

I love this podcast 💓 the only thing I wish was different is having a more consistent upload time! But happy to watch regardless🫶🏼

[@Kiyokomom]

Yasmin is such a smart girl!

[@poppyandquinnastrology]

Loved this episode!! Esp when yall discussed femininity and masculinity. They have no gender/ sex they are vibes / auras. ❤ bring your parents on next! We need marriage advice lol love you guys!! Mel killed it ❤

[@pepsi99-g8p]

Yas a gold toned highlight would look so good on those cheekbones 😍

[@mayradosing]

All these stories makes me want to share my recent breakup story because I feel like you guys just get IT 🤞🏽😂

[@yaslynsahota]

Aunty u know 😂 lmaooo ❤ when naz chuckled haha

[@nnmm1381]

Love nazs fire energy and Yasmin’s water energy. Im a Scorpio and sag so I def relate to both❤️

[@nicoleshah294]

Tuesday are now my fav days to look forward to seeing you lovely ladies 👭🏻💞 #1 podcast

[@Briannnugh]

Yes to checking the emails! That’s how I found out my ex was cheating on me with his ex.

[@hediyehcosmetics]

This was a juicy topic. Naz seems so real and funny❤

[@NicoleMartzzz]

I agree with Yas because it’s true how can someone claim they live someone yet they cheat??? I’d also distance myself bc then like yas said “what are you going to do to me” 😭😂

[@odetm267]

Hahahh working & listening trying not to laugh so my manager doesn’t caught me😅😅

[@user-pi8ul6ku7j]

Naz checking Mel’s phone to text people back is the weirdest thing. If my husband was a horrible texter I would never think to go through his phone??

[@michaelamorgan1542]

Yess. I am loving this hour+ videoss 🤭

[@bella-b4l]

Can yall have a podcast on healthy habits you implement in your life and How to stay positive

[@PrincessSomalia]

Lmao I was waiting for this episode. So in November 2022 I found out my ex cheated on me. I didn’t know who the girl was but I had asked his mom to tell him to call me to hear what he had to say. He never did call. His mom posted a birthday tribute to him a month later. So I found the girl he cheated on me with after she said Happy birthday baby. Not only that she was pregnant at the time with his baby. I was so mad after I found out about her. I said forget it you can keep him. Breaking up with him was the best thing I could have ever done

[@raynasworld7610]

Yas is so iconic! 😂

[@keydi3432]

Perfect timing considering the whole Wendy drama on Tik Tok

[@iadorenailsxfashion]

This season has been amazing so far! Love the realness. Definitely giving kavari vlogs vibes! ❤

[@holla4jay]

The prettiest sisters 😍😍🩷

[@ABQ-Q]

Love love love you guys!!! Episodes keep getting better and better❤❤❤

[@mariaalejandraperez6861]

Watching corn is disrespectful and in the long term affects the relationship. Most studies show it does affect the relationship in a negative way.

[@withlovegrace]

These recent episodes are HITTING ❤

[@melissamartins9745]

yes i agree with yas he should look at YOUR pictures! 55:47 watching porn is disrespectful! should not be normalized. liking a bikini pic and watching porn is the same thing

[@lala-091-m7s]

Idk.. is posting a bikini pic as a woman the same as being a porn star then ?

[@bay0717]

Yep & if have to go months without sex after birth then he can to tf

[@PrincessSomalia]

This has been one of my favorite episodes

[@alissonrivas443]

Omg yess! What Yasmin said is so true I experienced it first hand. Don’t give a man with wondering eyes a child!!! 😢

[@ashleyncarter2]

We all need Yasmin’s highlighter details 💖

[@Ceciilllia]

Such a good episode ❤this is what I was waiting for

[@linaxonori8561]

Mutual liking seems to be worse though because they are closer then some baddie on the explore page they 99.9 percent won’t meet. Liking a mutual friend in a bikini picture kind of puts you there as a “option” in the future if things go wrong in your relationship .

[@PrincessSomalia]

I have a guy best friend. We don’t talk everyday but we both know we there for each other whether in a relationship or not. We been friends for over 8 years.

[@nbabombshell]

I forgot how much I enjoyed listening to you girls .

[@alondraescalante525]

You ladies are doing amazing! I look forward to every episode 💕💕

[@mariannalanae7017]

You guys it’s the woman who cheated on her husband with mine, and turned around and posted about girls should not like being a side piece bc someone started messing with her man. Like WHATTTTTTT miss ma’am??

[@Sweetieee]

Naz I saw you recently do a podcast with daisy marquez & her little sister came out some months ago to say daisy requested to watch her & her bf do the deed then said ok I’m done & went to bed… as a survivor I can see when someone’s genuine & that is pretty sick & twisted, it’s clearly trauma for her as she was also SA’d as a kid. Just thought you should be aware

[@singasong5759]

Based off the way Naz was speaking, Mel definitely watched porn during her pregnancies and convinced her it’s okay.

[@PrincessSomalia]

As someone who was cheated on I agree she should tell you your man is cheating. But if he doesn’t have the guts to leave you then he’s lower than low. Nobody should be staying with someone who cheats whether they are getting cheated on or are the cheater

[@perfectly..Imperfect]

LOVING THIS NEW PODCAST 😍 I love Naz and Yas 💛💛 But I just wanted to mention, Naz thinks its cheating if someones man likes looking at another girl in a bikini ...but she doesn't consider it cheating when someone's man likes to look at another girl fully naked while watching corn 🤔 Heres how I see it, If your single and want to watch corn then there's nothing wrong with that in my opinion... But if you are in a relationship and you are being satisfied by watching another girl on corn instead of being intimate with your own spouse then you are lusting after another woman sexually and I see that as cheating Not to mention is can cause a lot of self esteem issues in the woman because it makes her feel like she isn't wanted more than the girls on corn and it can make her feel like she isnt good enough or not attractive enough ect. Ect. Corn to me is no different than if your man went into another girls bedroom and pleasured himself while she pleasured herself across the room 🤷🏽‍♀️ They may not be touching physically but it is the same concept of corn .... he is still desiring her mentally which is him being mentally intimate with her and that's what gives him his climax... And IF you are someone that has Christian morals, then the bible says "if you look at a woman and lust for her then you have already committed adultery with her in your heart".....So if your married and watching corn then you are committing adultery on your spouse in your heart ...because every action starts with the thought of doing it 🤷🏽‍♀️ So that is why Intimacy should only be between you and your spouse ....UNLESS you BOTH agree to have open boundaries in your relationship 🤷🏽‍♀️ So in summary: watching corn is being mentally intimate and being sexually fulfilled by another person and that to me will always be cheating....because its seeking your sexual desires for pleasure from someone else instead of your own spouse

[@megangoodman7382]

My girl bestie in high school knew I had a crush on a guy, while she was dating someone else, we were all a squad and great friends. she cheated on her bf to get with the guy I liked and she lied to my face that they were just friends. Then everyone told me and her bf they would make out and skip class. Never again did I trust another girl around my man and it sucked we were so close and I always would do the most for her.

[@Wnicole29]

So excited!! ❤❤

[@ilovepink3-x7c]

You girls are so funny, I agree with what was said. I love your podcast

[@raquelledezma7679]

YASMIN was on 🔥 today.

[@validwarrior77]

Lmaoo that wasn’t a lesbian talking it was definitely a guy 🤣🤣🤣 it was me

[@octaviatapia9225]

I was with Yas until she said she would stay with him for the kids. No I wouldn’t. I’d just leave, if my kids see a happy mom they will have a happy life.

[@myajoy4627]

Lovedddddd this ep🫶 I feel like y’all are getting more comfortable & I’m here for it

[@Jessica-tf3sj]

I genuinely love your relationship & conversations with one another ❤

[@bonitabee311]

Commenting this cus I’ve been a Naz fan and I love her mommy content we both have three kids and twins❤️💕😭 so I look up to her I’m tired of being just mom … and she’s teaching me to love me ❤️❤️💕💕 like this so I can come back to watch many more pods please🎉❤❤

[@karlaperez7516]

This needs to be series !!

[@Mfkingnattiee]

AHHH my fav podcasttttt

[@PrincessSomalia]

As someone who was cheated on I agree she should tell you your man is cheating. But if he doesn’t have the guts to leave you then he’s lower than low. Nobody should be staying with someone who cheats whether they are getting cheated on or are the cheater. Yes I do too. Dr Webber and Dr. Bailey as work wife and work husband made the show so much more interesting. Or when Callie said mark was her work husband and she was his work wife 😂😂😂

[@Marianeudorf1994]

Iv been waiting for Tuesday I love you girls ❤❤

[@laural794]

I really love Naz's mindset

[@Tammy-123]

Does anyone know where Yassys tops are from ?! She always wears these cute off the shoulder tops. Love them ❤❤❤

[@melaniemensor3799]

I agree with every single thing Yas said in this episode

[@rosetacuri3170]

If anyone ever wants to search someone’s phone number you can pop that number to Zelle through your bank and it always shows the full name attached to their bank account 👀👀👀

[@ilovekandii214]

Noooo Naz. Yaz is right!! No amount of corn consumption is ok!! It’s 100% bad for both men and women and gross!