Catching Up with The Ladies of The Real

[@krystelle2899]

Look at Dylan having this mature grown adult speech before returning to his 14-year-old mindset in the next video

[@hopper6094]

😂

[@theatrekid-hi9207]

Exactly😂😂 Gotta love Dylan😄😂

[@reallynibba6795]

Dylan's wearing pull-ups now y'all 😭

[@annejia5382]

🤣🤣🤣

[@xxxjixxystixxx4164]

He stared directly into his light at the end of the video, the Segway was already there Lmao 🤣

[@ToastyJunebugs]

I like how the conversation went from "How dare they call us crazy" to "We're all crazy" in the span of like 15 seconds.

[@geraldinef5532]

THISSS 😂😂😂

[@makalaadams4]

bc they're crazy lol

[@thalso7257]

why do you have like 2 replies but 2k likes

[@Lucifronz]

Women like that are absolutely crazy, but they hate being told it. They're the framework for the stereotypical heterosexual marriage where the man constantly lies to the woman to please her. The men are supposed to wait on them hand and foot, provide them with the money, the gifts, whatever, and they give nothing in return. Toxic relationships, basically. No relationship that one-sided can ever last. Eventually the guy's going to ask why he puts up with such a high-maintenance woman who doesn't actually give a shit about him or even want to spend time with him.

[@vyshnavreddy9201]

@@thalso7257 wisdom don't need no validation.

[@reaganbartels9993]

I love how at the beginning of the 'Men Calling Women Crazy' segment, they're on the cusp of making the very valid point that men will call women crazy rather than actually make effort to empathize with them, and then they just make a 180 turn to "ya know, sometimes, bitches do be crazy".

[@lei9330]

Seriously, I was getting annoyed that Dylan was being so misogynistic and I was not far from ending the video when the ladies start to go off. Then I (telepathically) apologized profusely to Dylan, I should have known better than to doubt him.

[@Melanie-jy2nw]

In Canada, we have a show with a similar template called the Social but it’s a group of diverse educated women (not entertainers but journalists, psychiatrists and etc.) who actually make very valid points when talking about this stuff.

[@filipgasic2642]

@@lei9330 What the fuck are you talking about? Nobody was misogynistic

[@boomyn]

@@filipgasic2642 They didn't say he was misogynistic. Just that they thought he was before watching the rest of the video. Just read the entire reply my man

[@filipgasic2642]

@@boomyn The person said that he was in the beginning of the video but he wasn't even

[@crystal_snow875]

Dylan: “Cause if we get married,” Me: is this a proposal, cause yes.

[@yamanibryant-mccray2243]

lol

[@a-5681]

Dylan wearing glasses made me feel some type of way... He for real fine af

[@lydiapinnell1124]

I knowwww

[@merryberry6576]

+++ And the styling of his hair Something about it

[@janellegarden4689]

Would you say he makes you....crazy?! 😂😂

[@olive1870]

uh oh… guess it’s not dylan that’s in trouble …i’ll walk myself out

[@kaseymiller1257]

Periodd

[@peachlily6252]

men calling women crazy for saying no or rejecting them is a problem that i was excited for them to explore but instead they're like "haha they think im sooo crazy cause my jeans dont rlly fit"

[@angles4307]

SAME. SO many conversations left out because they wanted to be fUnNy

[@vlo4829]

They started out saying it was annoying that men call them crazy when they're not and by the end, there was unanimous consensus that women actually ARE crazy.

[@theatrekid-hi9207]

You made a typo: This 🤪 should have been at the end of that

[@jacksmclaughlin29]

I haven’t seen the “The Real” video but what I gathered from the clips in Dylan’s video was that these women are actually being driven crazy by internalized sexism. To me this is actually more interesting. “I feel crazy because I no longer to fit into my skinny jeans and my whole sense of self worth comes from my body image” is more fascinating to me personally because it’s a little more nuanced than pointing at a shitty man being shitty and saying wow that man is shitty. The way that women are forced to fit a particular image and be entertaining and pretty and smile and constantly perform can be maddening, no?

[@peachlily6252]

​@@jacksmclaughlin29 I get that. Watching the clips it felt to me that they were just saying that minor inconveniences lead them to acting "crazy", but I never really thought about it in that light. I think it would have been interesting if they elaborated more on internalized misogyny and their experiences with it because, again, I didn't really pick up on that. On the other hand, I think the conversation would be much deeper than "men are shitty" because they could delve into the fact that the media perpetuates this idea to men that women shouldn't reject you and if they do they are "crazy." Just my thoughts but I get where you're coming from.

[@ab-vz4ps]

Dylan looks like he'd ask random people to join his cult during the ad segment

[@deanwinchester822]

😂😂😂😂

[@Clementine3107]

😂😂😂

[@marafranklin6205]

I couldn’t help thinking “Hello! My name is Elder Dylan...”

[@senpaisear-edge]

fr all he’s missing is a necklaces with a religious symbol😭

[@softmettle]

Midsommar vibes!

[@jasmijnslot559]

Can't believe that Dylan has me trained to just click as soon as I see his name. Doesn't even matter what I'm doing.

[@anjaleenas719]

Can't agree more

[@jeroldbeyabold7929]

@@anjaleenas719 Same..... it ain’t sad tho

[@excessivelyfangirlingbookw3339]

.........same

[@reese2232]

same HAHA

[@soumeyaferhat1863]

I litteraly have an exam tomorrow and I dropped everything just to watch his video.

[@rndmusrnm2763]

I honestly sympathize with Jeannie, her ex-husband was cheating on her with a mutual friend, got the woman pregnant and married her, but Jeannie has give THEM a check every month.

[@jhaneyhamlett]

AND she always said she didn’t want to have kids before they got married, and he was on the same page, and if i remember correctly he started trying to pressure her and she thought about freezing her eggs just in case even though she didn’t really want to and then he acted like her not willing to compromise on having kids was what ended their marriage - which like having kids you don’t want is not compromising!! and it’s okay for him to change his mind, but not okay to act like she’s the bad guy for depriving him when she always said she didn’t want kids

[@jra3978]

Thats what im saying. Feel sorry for her and the way he talked about her on the show! He is just horrible. The good thing is she is happy now with her new man and with her amazing mom 🥰

[@meanieeheart4236]

yea, jeanie didn't want a kid and he did then the second he gets with someone else he gets her pregnant plus she a side chick

[@lt_shin9845]

Oh no! She’s in the same situation as many men

[@rndmusrnm2763]

@@lt_shin9845 i sympathize with those men too

[@alexandravictoria]

It’s so refreshing to see guys show that they know what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like. There’s not enough Dylan’s to go around unfortunately

[@i.m2555]

I literally just saw a TikTok about rating Disney Princes and the comment section was just FULL of troublemakers making Dylan references 😭💀

[@kayleennunez7766]

who made the tiktok??

[@luzmarcos2083]

Wait tell us who posted the tiktok please

[@emillisantos6583]

.

[@kathyxli24]

Troublemakers take over tiktok

[@i.m2555]

@@kayleennunez7766 omg, I’ll try and find the username, I didn’t even think to remember- I’m so sorry 😭 I’ll go and find it

[@mileny2322]

I have so many assignments to do, but they all take a back seat to Dylan

[@ne2604]

dont remind meeeee

[@ttttt5072]

i have a whole social studies project to finish before tmrw but it can wait...

[@vaanda9446]

Saaame. University is lowkey torture

[@nn7303]

good luck !

[@sss5040]

@@ttttt5072 literally same

[@joselinvalle6219]

Understanding, knows what a healthy relationship looks like, knows marriage is about sacrificing for the other, not materialistic, and has some bomb ass lighting; we need more Dylans in this world.

[@LA_HA]

Deserve. Wow. What about how much the husband/BF had to put up with the woman? This show has women with the mentality of little girls hosting it -- zero accountability for their horrible ideas, actions, and personalities. It's kinda sad and disappointing. Adults behaving this way is so... First World. Yuck.

[@sherlock7898]

A mature man who has a healthy view of marriage is way more attractive than a rich man. I hope he gets his happy and healthy marriage too.

[@mollz19_ot7nw]

Real talk

[@sherlock7898]

@Ren A marriage does not work without both people giving up certain things in order for the marriage to work. Its not even about sacrificing for the other person but so that the marriage can stay strong. For instance, in order to have a stable income one of the partners has to work. In order to raise balanced children one of the parents should probably stay home to make sure they get the attention they need. It doesn't necessarily have to be the husband or wife but just one of them. And shouldn't you sacrifice for the person you love the most, who you loved before you had kids? After all you literally exchanged vows so really who should you sacrifice for if not the person you promised to love and honor until death do you part?

[@mirijmoments]

The wisdom Dylan has about relationships is really gonna help him. I hope he gets a great girlfriend and an amazing wife. He makes his jokes about stuff but he really cares and still has morals. Wow, I am such a fan!

[@marynyam301]

I hope he gets Misoa

[@mirijmoments]

@@marynyam301 We'll see!

[@kaminaridenki6833]

@@marynyam301 yep

[@merryberry6576]

@@marynyam301 I know you’re well intentioned, but just remember these are real people and not characters. Seeing comments like these probably make them really uncomfortable regardless of how they see each other. It is not our place. Shipping real people only hurts them.

[@mirijmoments]

@@merryberry6576 Yes, you are very right. Sorry if my comment sounded super judgy, I was complimenting Dylan more than I was putting them down. Although I definitely disagree with "The Real", I was not trying to say their trash or rejoicing at Dylan's criticism. Hope that was clear, thank you for saying that. I will try not to put off that effect.

[@valentinafangirling]

Its true tho its such a red flag when guys say “my ex was crazy”💀💀

[@merryberry6576]

+++

[@MulettoMotorsports]

Is it really cause they invalidate that in the next ten seconds.

[@mophead_xu]

honestly based off experience is not really a gendered thing. i've gone on a date with a non-binary person who also told me their ex was crazy, only to then turn around and did exactly all the stuff they accused their ex was crazy for. in short, if anyone ever tell you their ex was crazy, just be cautious. or just leave immediately, lol.

[@valentinafangirling]

@@mophead_xu !!!! My friend had a non binary ex who called their ex gf crazy and ended up being bc they gaslight the fuck out of people when it comes to emotions 💀💀

[@InesLV97]

I'd agree with that, because the way people talk about their exes is the way they are gonna talk about you if you get involved and things go south. There could be a crazy ex but in that case weren't they the ones that ignored all the red flags and went straight ahead? It happens to the best of us, but if all you can take back from it is that the other person is crazy and learn nothing yourself it also says something about you. But then again, if the other person gets into your house through the air conditioning unit, I dunno what else you can call them 😂

[@Chiis97]

to be fair its annoying when men (or women but at least in my experience only men has done this to me) say you are crazy when you show little bit emotions.

[@MaeAlessa]

True

[@rexcabrera8398]

for sure! Exactly when people combine that with good old gaslighting.

[@alyssabrown-carleton6173]

That's how they should have said it and left it at that

[@bradsw206]

It’s a real problem especially in the work place! If a woman shows any type of frustration she’s instantly labeled as “hard to deal” with or “temperamental”.

[@EmanuelGene]

True, there’s a way to say it that could actually help her see for herself that she’s being crazy and needs to chill. People need to realize that labeling someone does not improve the situation. And women love to label as well, especially in terms of political opinions. Like they’d quickly call a man a misogynist or calling other women a pick-me’s (which comes off as petty and immature, and would only start an argument).

[@thefreckledevil6090]

Wtf the stare while eating the sandwich 😭 if a guy did that to me I would be creeped out

[@alyssabrown-carleton6173]

Thank you!

[@rafamopi]

Maybe they where both crazy... Any way, wanna go grab a sandwich?

[@aiyyomaa4797]

Where?

[@rafamopi]

@@aiyyomaa4797 chick-fil-a of course

[@Diana-zl3ue]

Hahaha girl everything up until that part of her first date was good until the chicken sandwich part

[@hmm2782]

Dylan is the only youtuber that I wont skip when the sponsorship comes up

[@al_lee_.a]

I do but I didn’t this time haha

[@annahaag3381]

Same, he makes it genuinely interesting and entertaining to watch

[@jessiedobbiereactions]

Yes!! I love to see how he spins it into a joke lol

[@bella2578]

same!!

[@melodyruiz383]

Sameeeeee

[@isisaqui5288]

It started like "oh ok, please Dylan don't make fun of a real discussion I'm gonna get uncomfortable" to "Can these women just... stop talking? Dylan, please roast the f out of this"

[@oduinn7948]

The main person talking was the _worst_ person to choose to have open her mouth for this segment. They did this bit dirty having her read it off, then again the Asian girl who's "only men make us CRAZY!" to "or we're hungry, or our pants don't fit like we want them to" -- stayed on topic for 3 seconds that one. The best one was the bigger woman ("that's not the C word that bothers me" got me).

[@parkerisles7256]

So Dylan probably isn't aware but the clip about prenups and protecting your finances in regards to Jeannie's situation, isn't the first mention of Jeannie's divorce, that announcement was extremely amicable and cast her ex in a positive light. This clip was filmed around the time Jeannie learned that Freddy, her ex, was cheating on her before they separated and that he was expecting a baby six months after their divorce announcement; the girlfriend was 4 months pregnant and hanging around during the marriage. Not having children and allowing Jeannie to pursue her career was a big point of stress in their marriage because her husband lied saying he was okay with it but "changed his mind" years into it. And instead of breaking up right then and there, this lead to Freddy continuously bringing it up on the show, was pressuring her behind closed doors, and him resenting the fact that she didn't want to be a stay at home wife and raise their children. Jeannie was a victim of childhood sexual abuse and her family (specifically her mom) didn't believe her, which lead to lots of problems and her running away at 16. Jeannie supported herself and didn't reconnect with her mother for 8 years. All of this made her apprehensive about having biological children and Jeannie was very firm before getting married about not having kids. With that background information, it makes sense that Jeannie's gonna be regretful about not protecting herself and her finances when her ex creates an insta-family right after they divorce, she's paid him alimony, later found out about his infidelity, and put up with him being emotionally abusive and manipulative (in terms of having kids).

[@vlo4829]

Jeannie was NOT firm. Even on the show, Jeannie was not firm and she admitted that things she said things that gave her husband and mom hope that she was thinking about having a kid. You obviously believe everything Jeannie says about what happened, but it's just as easy to say that she strung him along for years because she was getting her way. He was VERY clear about his desire to have kids. She was ALWAYS wishy-washy. If either of them were "manipulative and abusive", it was Jeannie. Personally, I don't believe Jeannie's side of the story is completely true. Even in an interview when Jeannie was trying to insinuate that Freddie cheated, Loni's reaction suggested Jeannie was being dishonest... She's very calculating. She's said it and shown it. She used her platform to mold public opinion in her favor, but that doesn't make her innocent nor does it make her a victim.

[@jra3978]

@@vlo4829 I disagree because she did say they talked about it early on and she said she didnt want kids. He was the one who changed his mind. What else is she supposed to do when he's wanting to have kids and she still loves him? Naturally you try to find it in you to compromise or try to make it work, I dont think she was stringing him along. They were just trying to make it work. He got ahead of himself anyway by getting his "friend" pregnant, and confiding intimate details about their marriage to her. He could have also been assertive about it if he was 100% sure and she was the one being wishy washy. At the end of the day only they know what happened, but he is in the wrong for cheating and his new wife was also being disrespectful to jeannie.

[@vlo4829]

@@jra3978 Jeannie says she had a conversation, but we don't know how it really went. The ways in which she talks about it even on The Real, there were times when she sounded like she wasn't so solidly against it. Like I said, she admitted herself on the show that sometimes she said things that gave her mom AND husband hope that she was "coming around". That doesn't happen to people who are clear and firm. and why would Freddie cut if off if he thought she was about to change her mind? That wouldn't make sense. I agree that Freddie should have left first, but divorces can take a lot longer than people think. Jeannie and Freddie likely broke off their relationship before he got with the other girl, so Jeannie pretending he "cheated" when they had both already moved on (she had her new boyfriend rather fast, too) is dishonest. Plus ,in an episode where they talked about cheating, Jeannie said she was okay with her partner getting some as long as she didn't SEE it, so by her own standards, he never cheated. Jeannie isn't a trustworthy source. I used to think Tamar was wrong for how she treated Jeannie, but as I watched the show, it made me think maybe Tamar just saw who she really was and acted accordingly...

[@genesisferreira6034]

I don’t think somebody changing their mind and wanting to have children makes them a villain and vice versa. I do agree that cheating on your wife is not the solution to the problem. It is never okay to cheat because you want different things, that’s when you sit down and hash it out and decide if the relationship is worth being in. Now, it’s true that nobody knows what really happened and both or either of them could be lying to make themselves look like the good guy in the relationship. I personally don’t believe anything that they say in this show or many others because celebrities tend to lie about a lot of shit for publicity. Everybody feels bad for her having to pay alimony but honestly, she’s a rich woman who’s part of a relatively popular show, I think she’ll survive.

[@charlottebees5676]

"don't ask questions you don't want the answer to" - Dylan Matthews, 2021

[@Pumpkin0_0]

That's a pretty old common saying, though. lol

[@alexisacosta1739]

but i want the answer...

[@brandyjohnson738]

@@Pumpkin0_0 yeah but people do the opposite of it

[@brandyjohnson738]

@@Pumpkin0_0 and it's kind of true

[@squidwardtentacles7144]

His last name is Mathews?!🤨

[@olive1870]

i’m so sorry but if some guy stared at me while we were eating, i’d leave. like who are you, joe goldberg?? 😭😭

[@hopper6094]

LOL

[@squidwardtentacles7144]

I'm died. Not the "You" reference. 🤣

[@jade6092]

Omg i cant wait for season 3!

[@RobloxianPotterhead]

Who?

[@peanutcallada4991]

Joe can lock me in that mf box 😩😩 joe could murder me and say ty zaddy 😝

[@heathersueboo]

I am convinced that Dylan is secretly married. He knows too much.

[@jasmincampos1326]

He’s married to me😎

[@huckleberrywinn]

Hes definitely husband material

[@alyssajolley5044]

It's easy to give advice when you are outside looking in. But when you're in it and your feelings are involved, your judgment is a little blurred.

[@alyssajolley5044]

@S.A. 👏👏👏 congratulations

[@hayashi2339]

@S.A. Fr

[@shelby0mcg]

Have I seen Dylan laugh at how bad his own jokes are? Yes Do I ever get tired of it? No Do I laugh along with him? Absolutely, this is my comfort human.

[@michelle-lv1kx]

ugh he looks so soft and pretty in this lighting

[@eon5323]

....soft..? What....what part of youtube have I stumbled into

[@rionabanerjee]

so real

[@monicaenglish2566]

Can we appreciate Dylan’s relationship advice and his idea for a successful, happy marriage is an equal, loving partnership with good communication and understanding the other person rather than some sort of “business deal” and making it all about themselves and seeing what they can get out of the other person.

[@hopper6094]

Ik, I love Dylan

[@jessicaluk74]

Ikr

[@aryana377]

i personally dont think we should reward him for doing the bare minimum but ok

[@TiffTiff4077]

THIS ^

[@buhlenkuna8307]

@@aryana377 What isn't the bare minimum?

[@katherineann187]

Dylan: I’m not a great first date planner **flashback to the first date video where he got chased by a drug dealer**

[@kayladuval8530]

Thought of this too 🤣 And him just crouching down in the perfect position waiting and then she wasn’t into his plan at all! What a story.

[@andsprite7071]

Wait wait wait please explain, where did he talk about this ?

[@charlottedavis4543]

@@andsprite7071 same like I wanna know now

[@comedynetwork1984]

@@kayladuval8530 do you know where he talked about this story

[@katherineann187]

@@andsprite7071 it’s an old video on his channel called “Worst First Date Ever”

[@ellaheatonn]

dylan is the only man I watch entire strange vegan ads for

[@Ray-ui1pm]

Facts!

[@Lovejdrama]

Some

[@LA_HA]

Yep. I didn't even realize I was doing it. haha

[@generayburn957]

lol I got a Prager U ad

[@LA_HA]

@@generayburn957 Oh, I was talking about the ad on his video

[@Carolina-wz2qo]

OK it is actually really insulting and frustrating when men call women crazy because that's a stereotype that's constantly used against us in many cultures and throughout most of our lives, but these ladies went off-track

[@MulettoMotorsports]

Yeah, and I don't think "what did you do to warrant that reaction?" Is an acceptable question anymore.

[@oduinn7948]

@@MulettoMotorsports It's a piss-poor argument, that's like asking someone who just got mugged what they did to make someone go so off the rails they took all their things. Basically it's just zero accountability, and that's pretty fuckin' inane and childish. For instance, my ex cheated on me, we broke up, and I was dumb enough to give her a second chance and she cheated again -- that didn't make me lose my marble and set her cat on fire or some shit and if I _did_ do something saying "well it's because she made me crazy" would be a bullshit fuckin' excuse.

[@darktriumvirate969]

I call all crazy people crazy

[@annajacobsen8182]

Dylan: “That was a misdirect, misdirects ever heard of them” Audience whom have been here for a Long time: “Yes, yes we have indeed”

[@thelorelis]

Can I just say that the lighting in his videos are so good like damn wtf

[@blending_in]

Ikr

[@bella-gf1jw]

righttt! easy on the eyes

[@Elwolfshy]

Probably because he has an interest in cinematography, I'd say it comes in handy when setting up a set for videos :3

[@lilymorgenstern512]

It's so satisfying, when the lights fit perfectly

[@AmandaLapinski]

I was about to ask where Dylan’s glasses are, but then I realized we don’t have the budget for them

[@lilymorgenstern512]

All the budget went for the lights

[@hopper6094]

@@lilymorgenstern512 yup

[@farhanfmx]

Funny how the sponsor bit had glasses, well....because of sponsors I suppose

[@caroelizau]

That's why he wears them in the sponsored part 🥴

[@myoldacct]

Dylan pronouncing Tamar's name as TUH-MAR is the funniest thing

[@laylamohamud5669]

I was thinking that lmaoooo

[@fatimavargas1533]

Wait... how do you say it?

[@soritbushra7294]

@@fatimavargas1533 You pronounce it like Tay-mar

[@buzzkillroza499]

@@soritbushra7294 for real? 😀 I thought Tah-mar

[@lilox2111]

I was looking for this comment💀💀

[@Meraidd]

One thing I love about Dylan's channel is how civil the comment section is! Everyone saying "hey I totally hear you but I disagree with this..." "I see where you're coming from, that's fair" just respecting one another 🤗

[@anjailbakeer]

Tamar actually left her husband because he was controlling and physically and verbally abusive. Just fyi. Btw check her music out, she's an exceptional talent and he kinda ruined her career as her manager/producer.

[@massiebabyxoxo]

Exactly! If he's going to make a video he should at least have his facts straight.

[@anjailbakeer]

@@massiebabyxoxo it's cool. That shit was complicated and a lot of ppl still don't realize what happened.

[@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784]

@@massiebabyxoxo Please calm down. It’s not like he’s researching them he’s just watching it.

[@happypuppyyumyum]

@@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784 Actually he did do research. Tamar wasn't on the show when they got divorced

[@Thatonehanna]

@crush brok you can look up court records as proof

[@oliviasaxey6247]

This video feels like we are best friends having a gossip session together over facetime about a popular friend group we dont like haha

[@katerinakozmikova2987]

Omg this comment, love it!! 😂

[@olive1870]

YES

[@vashakidzenana8743]

So accurate 🤣💅

[@-oreo3786]

"He took me to Disneyland." Well, Dylan.....guess who went to Disneyland for their birthday with a special someone :))

[@lisbethdc]

I thought the same. He went with Misoa for one of his birthday.

[@sarang0111]

Yeah..i thought he's going to put the clip to relate 🤣🤣🤣

[@mykiamoto7145]

Are they really dating?

[@lisbethdc]

@@mykiamoto7145 so far we know they are only friends.

[@kb4265]

Dylan's like 'date at disney' _interesting_ me remembering the Misoa date: yeah _interesting_

[@naomipark2882]

My mom walked by and saw me watching this video and she said “he looks like he’s doing something creepy”

[@hellomarjory]

she's right

[@user-wo8md9wu5h]

@@hellomarjory stfu he’s not

[@hellomarjory]

@@user-wo8md9wu5h boohoo

[@Gamergirl-172]

well he now knows how alot of his viewers feel about vampires😂

[@leltaa7447]

It's because he's Late Night Dylan now, isn't it?

[@sanvisingh4496]

whoever marries dylan is going to be one lucky girl i mean look at this man, we need more people like him in the world. not ONE toxic or misogynistic opinion

[@maaaan2314]

Me literally just being bored out of my mind! Dylan: welcome to another late night Dylan Me: YESSSSS!!

[@savytaco8500]

I’VE NEVER CLICKED FASTER! He’s the only KZbinr I drop everything to watch

[@diya6168]

AND kurtis connerrr kurtistown folkss whatss upp

[@amazonmailyou]

Yess always

[@lianamirlohi3986]

FRR

[@christinablanco4526]

i knowwwwww sameeeee

[@diya6168]

ohmygod a collab bw kurtis and dylan?? SHUT UP THIS WUD MAKE ME SO EFFIN HAPPY

[@amber5802]

It is a huge misogynistic issue tho, wish they handled it better. men have called women crazy over time for simply expressing emotions. They didn’t really discuss it that good to

[@radhiadeedou8286]

They confirmed that sexist stereotype

[@solus8685]

@@radhiadeedou8286 yeah, but I personally don't know any women like them

[@Bulletproof208]

True and women do have A LOT of emotions, which means if gone wild can definitely make them do crazy things, and unfortunately if you do one crazy thing you're gonna be labeled crazy for the rest of your life.

[@Kameab1213]

Well I can at least say that I know one woman no scratch that two women who were born crazy. One woman had her ex-boyfriend put in jail for life for attacking her daughter then laughed to me about how she had him put in jail falsely. That's an indication of one crazy woman that I know of. That enjoys punishing her ex for leaving her by sending him to jail forever. The other woman who was born crazy was my very sister who abused me my entire adult life and kept me down under her thumb if I ever spoke out against her will. I did not even get to a point where I was allowed to have a life until I was 38 and it took her calling the police on me and me talking to them to get away from her. Now my experience with women, be it tiny in comparison to other people, is extremely dark. So if I generally tell you to calm down if you're getting a little rowdy, it's because I'm afraid of you not because I want to dominate you.

[@tristinmcclain9102]

It’s not for simply expressing emotions, it’s for doing so in a crazy way, you attributing sexism to everything is *ahem* crazy

[@dominiqueboyer3307]

the crush I have on this man grows with every video

[@ASHLEY.397]

Dylan’s never been hotter because of his mind and healthy thinking ❤️❤️

[@miinky21]

Is it just me or does Dylan seem even more attractive in this video? Not just looks wise but like... how he talks about relationships and stuff?

[@tawnyew]

In drooling both emotionally and physically 😋

[@wezi.]

I was definitely gazing at him different here 👁️👄👁️

[@micryt.]

The Ladies: We can't stand when men call us crazy. Also The Ladies: Spent five minutes explaining why they are crazy.

[@Coffeewiththegods]

😂😂😂 bruh

[@EmanuelGene]

Labeling never gets results, people gotta communicate things more maturely that don’t involve name-calling. I’m guessing the man has to be the one to start the mature communication since these women want an excuse for why they’re acting the way they do. So he gotta make her see for herself that the way she’s acting ain’t the way to go.

[@LA_HA]

@@EmanuelGene Hard. Pass. haha

[@mentaleruptionsinc.4686]

The way Dylan turned into Steve Jobs for the sponsor sends me into a frenzy of laughter.

[@DylanIsInTroubleCompilations]

*you’re just going crazy over a guy who’s doing nothing but minding his own business* me thinking about dylan: seems about right

[@ShipFantastic]

😆 ikr?

[@LeletVentura]

I just realized dylan has not an inch of dark circles under his eyes I'm mesmerized Honey please drop the skincare routine

[@_meh_whatever]

If it's that shampoo that also washes chicken, is a conditioner, oils the door hinges, substitutes as gas for the car and works as a breath fresheners that men use, I give up xD

[@ab-vz4ps]

dylan its been a while since Julius spoke in one of your videos, I hope he hasn't been stabbed.

[@ab-vz4ps]

@Anne Day I didnt do anything per se but I might or might not have seen someone stab julius to death but dont tell anyone that I told you that

[@clover524]

“That was a misdirect” well dang already?

[@okokbuthearmeout...]

im feeling awfully misdirected rn and i dunno why 🧍🏿‍♀️

[@ne2604]

its so unexpected💀like The Real lmao

[@ouioui1104]

i felt the same way too when he ate his healthy bars instead of his usual two-pound bag of sour patch kids

[@olive1870]

frr

[@callmek5]

right 😭😭😭

[@MarissaCooperButPoor]

Dylan looking extra clean and angelic in this one. I think it's the hair.

[@a.s251]

"Oh! They're gonna talk about how men call women crazy, invalidating their feelings and/or how it's used many times to invalidate women's words! This promises to be great!" Nope, they did not talk about that...

[@Eadig]

Ah man I have so many issues with the show. It’s so insanely toxic and people just eat it up.

[@irisarv8333]

It's toxic and it embraces several toxic stereotypes too

[@calliekalashian5303]

ahhh YES !!! it drives me nuts

[@Diana-zl3ue]

Yess!!! I fell down the rabbit hole when I first began to watch them a few years back and I just can’t watch anymore, except every now and then, just to confirm the toxicity. (Especially now that Tamera is not on)

[@GummyDinosaursify]

It's basically Twitter but in an echo chamber

[@LA_HA]

@@calliekalashian5303 Crazy? haha

[@qnge1l]

dylan is far more important than my 76 missing assignments 😩 edit: GUYS I FINALLY FINISHED (totally overreacting with the 76 btw😫)

[@stellurwill7883]

Girl nooo go do your homework.

[@shadi2537]

Dylan can wait his not going anywhere but that assignment has a deadline so goooooooo.

[@GodsFaveSim]

Who’d of thought Flynn Rider would be reacting to the ladies of the real one day. I really do miss tamar on the real, she was naturally funny.

[@laylamohamud5669]

My two worlds collided when I saw this video😭

[@xoCrazyFruitttxo]

It is always nice so see how healthy Dylan thinks and you can learn so much about him when he rants about these people.

[@creatureleigh7378]

dude let’s talk about sponsor dylan’s vibe and loooook cause damn something about that basic long selve, glasses, loose hair got me

[@umaf.8468]

I was not expecting you to say "crikey" at the C word 😂😂

[@umalilia]

omg we have the same name

[@lemonade_011]

Classic American lol

[@MarleneSilva-np5tn]

That music when you showed the news report of them being estranged, chef's kiss 😂😂

[@estrella7323]

1:47 nearly gave me a fricking heart attack, the audio sounded like it was playing from across the room and it's 3am and pitch dark

[@nicocurtis2632]

I love Dylan's note taking lmao he's so funny but also really intelligent. that intelligence makes hilarious jokes. it's great haha. Dylan's content is always top notch.

[@crazygamer_1082]

...It’s only been a few seconds since it’d been uploaded. I’ll be back for my thoughts! 😂😂 ~~~I’m back!~~ I agree with a lot of what Dylan is saying. Especially about how these women/spouses view both their marriage and husbands. It’s incredibly toxic and it sounds like they need both Dylan-therapy and normal marriage therapy. Because they were raised in an environment where prenups and divorces are normal, because they were in a sense-raised with a silver spoon in their mouth. And people are gonna want to also have that stupid spoon in their mouth. So protecting yourself is key, but also ya know-don’t view your SO other as a piggy bank. 😂👍👍👍 Love the video, Dylan!

[@Izzy-zw3vx]

well done for getting 60 likes in 2 minutes :)

[@crazygamer_1082]

@@Izzy-zw3vx Thank you! >~

[@Izzy-zw3vx]

@@crazygamer_1082 np :)

[@tiyagelchu7688]

These women have grown a lot over the years. I wish he reacted to some stuff from 2018 and after. Most of their views have changed.

[@Beybappe]

I agree

[@rcarter1656]

Dylan makes everyone crazy by being too damn pretty and well- dressed 😍😆

[@itssksworld]

Dylan gets more and more attractive w each video. My ovaries literally cannot

[@vickyy.7544]

this comment 😭??

[@hadestharula623]

HUH??

[@aasthasingh8996]

Okay, that's weird

[@Jacobkent09]

Nah man, this hair ain't it.

[@jungkodd]

I- ??? 😭😭😭

[@aliciamathura7760]

I would love a part 2 to this because I loveddddd The Real

[@Aioli9]

I never thought that Dylan would be a regular viewer of the real LMAO he never fails to surprise me 😂

[@sofiawhyte2730]

"Misdirects, have you ever heard of them?" I dOnT kNoW dYlAn, HaVe We?

[@ouioui1104]

Dylan doing his sponsorship today: you know me, I'm not gonna recommend a product if it's not healthy. also Dylan in his previous videos: *Destroys a two-pound bag of sour patch kids*

[@hannahwinkler7405]

Why does the ad-break version of Dylan look like a completely different person who's name is probably James and works as an analyst? (idk of what though) :)

[@laurafuchs9992]

His background looks like he's trying to hide a portal to a parallel universe behind that couch...why is it so bright?!

[@spetersen7203]

Dylan is the only KZbinr I DON’T skip sponsors for

[@Karibari808]

Vince, the lady’s husband about Disney was physically and verbally abusive to Tamar.

[@JustLikeAFlower]

Yeap Vince was a pos and got her removed from the show

[@suprzonic]

Dylan is just SO fine. I'm sorry, I've been holding it in for far too long and I just can't anymore. This right here is a beautiful man! 😭😭😭 **sings Weak by SWV**

[@Ananya807]

Ever since the budgeting for the lighting increased, these late-night Dylans have been just magnifique

[@alexanderpawlik7012]

the vibe switch from video dylan to sweater and glasses sponsor dylan

[@adrienne2838]

Hey Dylan, I don’t know if I ever commented this, I haven’t watched you much recently but I was going through a rough time a few years ago, like I had so much anxiety I’d throw up sporadically, and like your videos were legit the only thing that made me happy at that point. I just thought I’d let you know that I really appreciate you man. I hope you have a blessed happy life because you’ve def been that for me brother. :)

[@babykitsune4789]

The setup for this late night dylan is literally so sick, like, just, *chef's kiss*

[@giannalarose8821]

Dylan I hope you know I’m giving up me paying attention in class to watch this ✋🙄

[@amazonmailyou]

Yesss

[@faiththomas6137]

Same. I’m in class right now

[@taylordomere]

same 🙄🤚🏽

[@lianamirlohi3986]

yes anything for dylan doe

[@rafaelaribe]

Samee

[@rhi8714]

12 seconds in and there’s already a misdirect, that’s gotta be a new speedrun record

[@wxvyqueen]

“Someone in a coma would wake up to that” gold

[@AuggsieBoggs]

You know Dylan really likes a show when he remembers their names

[@Gothicah]

The fucked up part is, they aren't even lying😭 like these are truths

[@hazaqames8813]

"Misdirects, ever heard of em?"- Dylan. Well.... You literally yell "That's a misdirect!!" Every video!! Lmao

[@GlittzGlam7]

Dylan doesn't have enough videos for me to rewatch continually until he posts again.

[@graceleslie9758]

You make me so happy Dylan. I was in such a bad mood and this made me laugh even before I STARTED THE VIDEO.

[@brunafeitosa8204]

The lighting in this video is soooooo good. I'm in love!

[@remaininganon]

Jeannie is engaged to a rapper now and they treat each other so well 🥺

[@chiannegibbs9462]

Yesss their relationship is so cute

[@aissaissbby]

They just announced they secretly got married today!

[@auntiepodcast242]

This didn’t age well 😅

[@verazaanis]

I'm not gonna lie, considering I've never watched the show before I was a little scared thinking of a man (who I respect and want to respect always) like Dylan commenting on an all women's show... but thank god, just reassured how much I respect and appreciate Dylan and how much we need to work to erase sexist ideas amongst both men and CLEARLY women.. Thanks Dyl

[@itsjuhalchhhaah]

I always yell “DYLANN” every time I get his notifications😭😭

[@samanthaaguirre34]

I thought I was the only one!! I say it in a high pitched voice too.....sometimes at work

[@annahaag3381]

Sameee!!

[@hypnoticpoison4623]

SIS, ME TOO OMG, I GET SO EXCITED!

[@niah3135]

“I’m ready to go back into the fake “🤣🤣😂 this is why he’s awesomeee

[@Maouww]

>April Fool's Day >Dylan uploads something meaningful I see.

[@niychaechronicals7681]

I totally agree with you , she didn't have to put up with him , she chose too . Honestly i feel as though they are telling their younger viewers that toxic relationships are okay when in reality they aren't . They should be preaching about healthy realationships because that toxic stuff isn't it at all . Getting money cus you "put up " with someone for multiple years seems like a gold digger type of thing .

[@LA_HA]

It's also completely selfish and clueless because there's no thought that the other person had to "put up" with their nonsense for years as well. So, how about deducting money for that? Because maybe they would end up owing their husbands money. haha. They're ridiculous.

[@niychaechronicals7681]

@@LA_HA I completely agree with that aswell , women like that don’t need to be in relationships .

[@LA_HA]

@@niychaechronicals7681 ikr

[@ne2604]

i wonder if he knows who they are, like that Adrienne is a cheetah girl and dated rob kardashian and tamera is from twitches and sister sister and that tamar is toni braxtons sister

[@okokbuthearmeout...]

oh my god, that's a god question 💀

[@crystalk1497]

I've never heard anyone say Tamera is from Twitches. Most people just say she's from Sister Sister, I just found that funny srry lol

[@ne2604]

@@crystalk1497 lol yea, im also 16 so ik her from twitches not sister sister lmao

[@TheDragiix3]

even after you explained who they are I still don't understand who they are ahahahhaha I'm just here to laugh about their stupidity

[@Lady_Kirkpatrick]

Yes and correct me if I'm wrong, Tamar is pronounced Tay-mar but Dylan is saying it more like Taa-mar. 🤔

[@saddiyaharmstrong102]

You should've watched their shady moments. These girls lowkey all hate each other 😂

[@growupanushka]

YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW HAPPY YOUR VIDEOS MAKE ME. I HAVEN'T EVEN SEEN THIS YET AND MY DAY IS ALREADY BETTER

[@madalenabarroso833]

His videos just make me happy. I immediately smile when I see he posted, funniest guy

[@anjaleenas719]

Omgg Dylan is the only guy I have crush rite now and probably it's gonna stay until he finds someone, it's not only his appearance that attracts me. He's thoughts about things are so different and unique. I just love him 😭❤😘