Lazy is the wrong term. It’s not being lazy, it’s rest. Allow your brain, your body, your soul time to rest.
@Avery_42727 ай бұрын
Agree. And it's taking time to simply appreciate life.
@chrisfinch86377 ай бұрын
Lazy is indeed a wrong term, but the question is why do some people still use it, when they’re all worked up and such, on other people, who don’t do anything at all?
@___beyondhorizon46647 ай бұрын
It's about taking time to rest in between. Some people over commit to too many activities like this lady in the report. At home, we can do laundry and cook at the same time. I like watching documentary on my tablet while cooking. That's multi tasking in a relaxing way
@SaneCayne7 ай бұрын
Ha! Exactly the comment I was just gonna make. For productive folks, it's simply called "resting", or "relaxing", "decompressing", etc. For non-productive folks, well, that's just lazy.
@cd61047 ай бұрын
I agree. It sounds like this woman did not rest. Rest is good. Laziness is not.
@arjun2207 ай бұрын
Always remember you are not the heir to the company.
@joannepackus57366 ай бұрын
My Aunt always said if I died tomorrow, killing myself for a company, I would be replaced.
@natashaz24316 ай бұрын
I often say the same thing to my friends who pride themselves on always being available for any job task, any time. It's not your grandma's company, put yourself first.
@adamhuffman33546 ай бұрын
I try not to “remember “!
@Essays4College6 ай бұрын
EXACTLY .,......so many people don't realize that you are just a cog in the wheel. Some people are highly-paid employees but at the end of the day they are still cogs in the wheel.
@brendadrew8344 ай бұрын
I always refused to sell my soul to a corporation! 😉
@bebussound79917 ай бұрын
Our job should be to take care of ourselves. Not to spend our lives sweating and breaking our backs for corporations.
@joycemansfield11086 ай бұрын
Amen!!! The dahli lama says we work so hard to make money then we have to spend the rest of our lives trying to fix our compromised health.
@Ravenelvenlady6 ай бұрын
Amen to that!
@bebussound79916 ай бұрын
Adding to this, we should be productive in regards to our OWN lives. Hobbies, research, and experiences are what make us human. To put it bluntly, the demands of American work culture make it nearly IMPOSSIBLE to live a full life.
@ivyvanderwall6 ай бұрын
Best comment on here 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼
@brendadrew8344 ай бұрын
Hence, the words "Corporate slaves"! Enjoy any downtime you can get without the guilt that often times goes along with it!
@simonenin716 ай бұрын
This has nothing to do with being lazy but getting some rest. We all have to recharge ourselves.
@jan-cq5wv3 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!!
@nellztheking28326 ай бұрын
Jim Carry said it best. Being depressed is your body telling you that you need deep rest.
@drbettyschueler32357 ай бұрын
As someone who burnt their candle at every end, for 75 years, I now spend my time lounging around as much as I can. I wish I had had the sense to do that years ago.
@simonenin716 ай бұрын
Good for you 😍
@Happiness3796 ай бұрын
So happy you are enjoying your retirement and realized it now!
@Me972027 ай бұрын
I remember my friends bragging about always being “crazy busy” with work all the time… like it’s a badge of honor.
@bloatedsodium73017 ай бұрын
Basically, they didn’t wanna hang out.
@n.d.79317 ай бұрын
Those kind of ppl make me sick
@___beyondhorizon46647 ай бұрын
Sometimes it's about survival. I'm about to start a new job, so much new information to learn, rearranging my schedule, so it's crazy busy. But if someone has been working on the same job, it's different, unless there's merger, reorganization within the Company
@rickhaydan34336 ай бұрын
Yes, science has shown over and over again that we can't "multitask." The term "multitask" has been bastardized from its origin. The term "multitask" originated at Japanese factories in the 50s and 60s. It referred to training factory workers to cover the processes just before and just after the process they were responsible for performing. With this training, they could prevent or ease backups on the line. It was never intended to justify forcing workers to do three jobs at once.
@samryan79546 ай бұрын
They need the money. Simple.
@charlesdavis10807 ай бұрын
We are human beings, not human doings.
@jackiepowell75136 ай бұрын
FSH frantic search for happiness- Bob Thieme ministries Houston tx. He coined that, very apt.
@dsimon1237 ай бұрын
Love this story. I retired last year and don’t feel guilty about just spacing out and relaxing when I want. Simple life.
@Novastar.SaberCombat7 ай бұрын
Easy to say when you have the opportunity. But that's how it is for the fortunate 1%.
@lucaspierre93056 ай бұрын
I do the same 😊 cheers!
@jakejake72896 ай бұрын
Same here.
@Julieglam34 ай бұрын
@@Novastar.SaberCombatnot necessarily. It depends on how you choose to live. I live minimally on a limited income and am quite content. Some people think that you need a million dollars in the bank to retire. That's a LIE we have been force fed in our society. I never bought into it thankfully....
@patcavasin59477 ай бұрын
Since retirement, I have mastered doing nothing many days....I've been blessed.
@Lauren_19877 ай бұрын
Wonderful. I think it's important to have time to do whatever you want, whenever you want. Including nothing.
@allanhayden87377 ай бұрын
DITTO....!!!
@gram29777 ай бұрын
Me too!
@gram29777 ай бұрын
@@Lauren_1987 Exactly! I'm loving retirement!
@laraoneal72847 ай бұрын
Same.
@monicarose21356 ай бұрын
Lazy is the wrong word. It’s rest and relaxation. What you do with that time is entirely your prerogative. It’s unstructured time.
@sharontabor77187 ай бұрын
The worst name one could be called in our home was the word "Lazy". My parents were depression-era kids who grew up with "You don't work you don't eat". I learned to do "nothing" when I owned my own business (a B&B) and took time to sit on the porch swing and watch the birds and trees blossom. My parent would say "You are being Lazy" if I wasn't doing my task the hard/long way. My response was "I'm being efficient" - getting the same results using shorter/quicker methods.
@FGH9G7 ай бұрын
As much as I think this saying is cringe and so cliched, it is indeed true. "Work smarter, not harder."
@DavidB.Fischer7 ай бұрын
Today i went for a walk
@lucaspierre93056 ай бұрын
Yes! allot time for walks.
@coolvideos7774 ай бұрын
My puppy took me for a walk🐤
@RKOuttathebox7 ай бұрын
I often get my best solutions to a problem while sleeping. I love when I wake up with an idea.
@___beyondhorizon46647 ай бұрын
I tend to have a clear mind when I swim for an hour 😊
@saudigold506 ай бұрын
Both of you got it right ✌🏼💛
@CapnCody16227 ай бұрын
Most of us, probably the vast majority, of people in this country can’t afford to be lazy. It’s sad.
@tiffr50166 ай бұрын
stop being entitled to think you know a random person when you dont! just because you are lazy does not mean everyone else is like you, just stop, you are truly offensive. there are people who are active and energetic, just because you love being lazy does not mean everyone else loves it like you. there are people who love being active and dont have a problem with it, you just think people do but dont know what's best for others, stop being entitled to think you know a random person thats not in your life.
@mimim85326 ай бұрын
@@tiffr5016- are u ok?
@jalenwesley7556 ай бұрын
@@tiffr5016I hope you’re ok
@KD1ME6 ай бұрын
Right! With this economy, I NEED to work my minimum 40 hours a week (and not an hour short) to be able to afford paying bills! I would love time for myself, but LITERALLY can't afford to! I'm sure I'm not the only one!
@I-MyselfAndMe6 ай бұрын
@@tiffr5016what a nutcase
@CUMBICA19707 ай бұрын
Surely I'm not the only one thinking if only I could afford to do nothing...
@marytheresejacksonlutz25337 ай бұрын
I am retired but if I had had this attitude when I was working, going to school, then raising kids and working, nothing would have gotten accomplished. It would have been a bad example to set for my kids. And all 4 grew up to be hard working, responsible adults. Also, everything in moderation-work, play, etc.
@CapnCody16227 ай бұрын
@@marytheresejacksonlutz2533Found the boomer who missed the point and still doesn’t get it 👆🏻
@___beyondhorizon46647 ай бұрын
Take a solid 1 hour lunch break away from work place
@flash-gz1hu7 ай бұрын
when you work a 8 hour day, and you have few hours to do everything you need to take care of your family, yourself, finances, housework, .... i guess i can be lazy in my sleep
@Okgeneric7 ай бұрын
@@CapnCody1622 lmao check back in 10 years
@KathySolorzano-qe4di7 ай бұрын
..I never apologize for " Doing Nothing "..since Retiring..I worked MY WHOLE LIFE!...I've Earned My Peace...
@Trudloops7 ай бұрын
I knew someone who believed this and lived happily for 25 years after he retired.
@Lucylou70706 ай бұрын
They aren't really talking about retired people with presume time to begin enjoying life. I think it's more of the wait until I retire to enjoy life, but we don't know tomorrow. Might never have the chance to retire or die soon after retirement. I just don't like the word lazy to describe what they're talking about.
@marlynarteagasolisrobinson6 ай бұрын
Yep. That's exactly what I doing now. I suffered from PTSD after my husband died. I was his caregiver for years, worked, and saturated with stress. Almost killed myself twice by jumping in front of the train and drowning myself. Through therapy, I learned to listen to my body and not the noises of other people. Slow process but very rewarding.
@brendadrew8344 ай бұрын
Congrats! Glad you're still with us! Rest and heal! ♥
@marlynarteagasolisrobinson4 ай бұрын
@brendadrew834 thank you.
@brendadrew8344 ай бұрын
@@marlynarteagasolisrobinson YW :)
@2Octoplus16 ай бұрын
Ecclesiastes 4:6 “Better is a handful of rest than two handfuls of hard work and chasing after the wind.”
@VerissimusAurelius6 ай бұрын
Waking up every day and not having anything particular to have to do is bliss👀💕
@deeprose85987 ай бұрын
It took me 60 years to learn to chill!
@subz4247 ай бұрын
Balance is the key here, and in all areas of life. Work/relaxation, love for others/self, etc.
@mililaniman7 ай бұрын
The value of doing nothing gives a person a new perspective and a greater appreciation of life.
@johnclement93704 ай бұрын
My leisure time has always been important to me since i was a kid. I'm now 60 and retired, i do online auctions as a side hustle and added income. I begin my summer day riding my bike at 6am, run errands after 9.30am, linch at noon, nap at 1pm, i stop at the library around 3pm, go swimming at 5, stop at the grocery at 8pm, and then walk home ( no car since 2005, dont need it). I go to bed at 9.30 pm, and the next day do it again. Sundays are for church in the morning, weekends are lunch with friends and festivals. That takes up all my time, leisure time is just so important to me and keeps me going, it's my regular routine and keeps me fit and trim, and keeps my mind occupied. I just what i love, and love what i do, and that makes me very happy. :-) New Orleans
@AnnaBrown-h4e4 ай бұрын
My goodness sir!! That's not retired!!😅 Your busier then most young people I know, 😮😅 where do you get all that energy?? God bless!
@LearnFrommistakes-su2ir7 ай бұрын
Being lazy doesn't mean doing nothing physically but mentally. Allowing your mind to relax / to rest here and there more often definitely has a big help with your over all well-being ❤️🙏🏻🌸
@pgibbons726 ай бұрын
im single, no kids, house paid off, work 3 days a week, quite a few hobbies, i STILL have tons of free time to be "lazy"
@cortneyrens6 ай бұрын
Same here, I work 0.8 so technically part time and since I’ve been single Saturday’s are my day to clean then relax/do art/work out and decompress its wonderful cause my batteries are charged for my non lazy week ahead
@Rom_Com996 ай бұрын
What type of work you do??
@pgibbons726 ай бұрын
@susanjones6410 I'm a bartender and run a handyman business. I paid cash for a 900 sq ft fixer upper 6 years ago which has allowed me to save very fast only paying property taxes as rent.
@PrairieNightMoon6 ай бұрын
@susanjones6410 Since my situation is similar (I work two days a week, medical field) I will tell you "how I got here" while you wait for the original poster to reply. First off, I grew up very simple so I don't even want things that most people want. My kids are grown and gone and I'm widowed. I have a mobile home that was paid off in six years so no housing expense now except property taxes which is pretty low on mobile homes. Having lived here so long, I know my home inside and out and can do most repairs myself. I paid cash for my used vehicle which I've had for ten years. My bills are electricity, water, groceries, vehicle liability insurance, and a landline phone bundled with internet. That's it. I love simple country foods like beans, cornbread, potatoes, oatmeal, grits, eggs, milk and produce from my garden. I cut my own hair and don't spend money on manicures, pedicures, tv cable, movie channels or eating out. You Tube provides more than I can keep up with to watch, including concerts, movies, and news. Since I enjoy my backyard (mow it myself) and hardly ever go anywhere, I need very few clothes which I get at thrift stores and I spend about $8 a month on gasoline. My entertainment is birdwatching in my backyard, gardening, nature walks, camping, playing my piano, exercising, talking on the phone, reading, and You Tube. I save money so that when I need car repairs or an unexpected expense, I have the money. Also have occasionally taken trips to Alaska, NYC, and the Caribbean. The key is to pay off everything and know how to actually enjoy living on "nothing". I have so much time! I love my life. It's so uncomplicated and free!!
@sagatuppercut29606 ай бұрын
Your situation is not the norm.
@HagiaFantasia7 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you guys are talking about this! I've had workaholic friends who shame me for sleeping in or relaxing on my couch. It's good for our health to chill😊
@nancy49807 ай бұрын
🙂❤
@slotrane88536 ай бұрын
Your friends have it wrong. You are enjoying your life and time. Keep relaxing
@I-MyselfAndMe6 ай бұрын
They are jealous
@candyadams-frazier17596 ай бұрын
I’ve been retired since 2012 when I turned 55 years old. I have been “lazy” since then. There is no shame in my game. I worked hard for 33 years. No more!
@ExpeditionNomadicAdventures7 ай бұрын
During the second chapter of my life I’ve begun to appreciate being lazy. It a process I’m still aspiring to perfect as a retiree.
@laraoneal72847 ай бұрын
Been quiet quitting my entire life and proud of it.
@1ACL7 ай бұрын
Me too.
@Judith-b3t6 ай бұрын
God knows best. He commanded us to take one day off out of seven. It is known as the Sabbath or Shabbat. God also sets up feast days throughout the year to not work. God knows best. He loves you.
@1927su7 ай бұрын
I remember a time when on Sunday, ALL stores except maybe one gas station , and the hospital, were the ONLY THING OPEN. It forced everyone into a day of rest/ family time . The term “ Sunday drive” came from that time period.
@BibleMythBusters7 ай бұрын
Sunday was the wrong day. The true Sabbath is on the 7th day of the week, Saturday. It's not too late to start doing the right thing!
@Lucylou70706 ай бұрын
I remember, and then the consumer culture was born. OOPS!
@LAVirgo676 ай бұрын
Germany is still closing down on Sundays. Everything is closed. There are no noise ordinances in place. All you can do is rest & take it easy. It's actually very refreshing.
@lucaspierre93056 ай бұрын
@@LAVirgo67 majority of countries in Europe does.
@nicasia38676 ай бұрын
❤
@sassyempress79166 ай бұрын
Hard work in America equals to less pay and burn out quickly.
@PraveenSrJ016 ай бұрын
Unfortunately true especially in retail and fast food industries
@violetaturner49986 ай бұрын
Well said! I’m a nurse and I require to multitask but there are times when my brain is overwhelmed. Now I understand very well why!
@omegasage7774 ай бұрын
Also a nurse and this is why taking our PTO is so important! And not getting bullied into picking up extra shifts all the time. We need our rest too.
@belessbutbetter7 ай бұрын
True wealth is discretionary time, isn't it? 🙂
@saudigold506 ай бұрын
*Yes*
@Sogard694 ай бұрын
It is all we have
@trishfillet49917 ай бұрын
I’m too busy being crushed by the cost of living to be lazy but if you can do it good for you.
@TheCriticalChris6 ай бұрын
Yeah, it’s most definitely a thing of privilege.
@KitC9164 ай бұрын
@@TheCriticalChrisagreed, because no one lets you use a bathroom for free and it's hard to stay out all day without one. And there are too few free public restrooms. And no one wants to talk about this honestly.
@MsPhoenix996 ай бұрын
I never took pride in busyness. I absolutely love treating myself.
@djdollase7 ай бұрын
It’s a pretty acknowledged fact that a lot of creators - great accomplished ones - deliberately go for long walks, doodle, etc because they know the great ideas come slowly and only when invited obliquely.
@circa18907 ай бұрын
For the last 10 years, I've scheduled a lazy time and/or day. It's great for mental health and focasing later..
@BitsyBee6 ай бұрын
So true. Sometimes when I can't get something to work, it's amazing how coming back to it after a break, it suddenly works fine.
@theck6726 ай бұрын
It used to be called: Daydreaming
@flunkymunky16377 ай бұрын
I'm not lazy, I just really enjoy doin nuthin
@steffibaker61217 ай бұрын
"They say I"m lazy but it takes all my time, life's been good to me so far" Joe Walsh
@Observer100-cn7gv6 ай бұрын
That's what loving to work too much gets you. YOU HAVE 1 LIFE. ENJOY IT. STRESS WILL TAKE YOU OUT.
@BrianLockett7 ай бұрын
A profound difference between down time and laziness.
@marytheresejacksonlutz25337 ай бұрын
Yes!!!!
@ricksantana10166 ай бұрын
Agreed…
@dianeyoung80687 ай бұрын
Exactly why I never went to a high school reunion. My be and do balance varies but leans toward being.
@bryanhuseboe5396 ай бұрын
I strive to be a human being instead of a human doing
@IvanaGirl6 ай бұрын
That lady is still aggressive and on edge. It will take her a looong time to finally learn to relax
@askew99767 ай бұрын
The worst part of doing nothing, is that you never know when you’re finished. 😁😑
@minkxz80376 ай бұрын
The full body zoom in when she said I’m a very healthy person was crazy !!😂
@paja76476 ай бұрын
For her sake, hopefully she will soon realize she needs to work on that.
@sunnyday78436 ай бұрын
@@paja7647it’s our food - I had to finally give up all processed food - as it caused problems for me - losing weight effortlessly . Already didn’t eat gluten and dairy - soy - most grains - no way could I live on Amtrak food for 2 weeks as they don’t have allergy free menu - but her idea is a good start . Lions are carnivore - perhaps she’s getting to that in a roundabout way ? I can’t do carnivore but aim for keto low carb .
@KitC9164 ай бұрын
Ah yes, the very necessary Fatphobia...mind your own business.
@staciecampbell50787 ай бұрын
I retired early a few years ago. For the first year, I felt like I had to be productive but eventually I was able to slow down. Unfortunately, I slowed down too much and was spending a LOT of time doing nothing but watch KZbin videos on things I wanted to try (but not much time actually doing it). I got so tired of sitting around doing nothing I actually went back to work to have something to do. But full time work made the pendulum swing too far so next month I will go part-time. I’m hoping to find the right balance with this move.
@resonantstorm7717 ай бұрын
Nobody's on their death bed wishing they had spent more time working. But many people regret not spending more time actually enjoying themselves and their loved ones. Hell, even God took a day off.
@isimonsez6 ай бұрын
god… 😂 no such thing as
@bryanhuseboe5396 ай бұрын
hell...who? What?
@sayconcepcion63876 ай бұрын
I think balance is vital. When I chose not to do anything, and just be lazy; I feel this odd depression setting in.
@BitsyBee6 ай бұрын
It's called acedia. You discovered something ancient philosophers know, the dark side of inaction.
@chrisfernando31995 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree and can say that I feel the same way. I thought I had something wrong with me when I would be depressed or randomly anxious on my days off from work. I’ve always been someone who needs something to do, something to be active in. Not being able to have that gave me those feelings. But I realized recently that I don’t have many hobbies and I put too much emphasis and identity at work. I didn’t have a balance from work and home. I’ve been doing better now with getting into hobbies and finding out what else I like doing and going back to being lazy. We need to relax. We are not robots.
@Ashley-xu1lk7 ай бұрын
I think we need to stop using the word "lazy" and replace it to what some of us actually mean when we say "we're feeling lazy", and that's "burned out", "exhausted", and "tired". Lazy is when you refuse to do any work, the opposite of ambition, like you still have energy but you use that energy to goof off when you should be doing work.When you're burned out or just plain tired, you have no more energy to give. That's a sign of overwork and that you need to rest, however rest looks like to someone, e.g. sleeping, spa day, playing video games, watching sports, hanging out with friends and family, etc. The example with the lions, I wouldn't call them lazy. They are just efficient when it comes to energy management. Back when we were hunter gatherers, we only used a few hours of our day to do what we needed for survival, such as getting food, and had the rest of our day to do what we wanted. Then somewhere around 10-12 kya we settled down and got into an exhaustive subsistence system called agriculture. It takes so much work to grow crops, and if it's a bad harvest you starve. On top of agriculture, as our society grew more complex, we developed systems that kept us busy with the mindset that if you're not working then you're doing something wrong. Our society as a whole (at least in the US), needs to learn that resting is okay and necessary. And our govt can help with that by mandating that employers give their employees at least 3 weeks of PTO for the year. One week of PTO and 3 sick days for a whole year is so ridiculous!
@Meadow-qe9xd7 ай бұрын
Well said!! Totally agree!
@1ACL7 ай бұрын
Actually, farming, and storage of food, gave us a lot more free time. That's when art and music developed, for example.
@BlueSky-sf4rj6 ай бұрын
Energy Management. I like that concept.
@tarawhite44197 ай бұрын
Being lazy is the opposite of people pleasing
@caroldraper50176 ай бұрын
I have been retired for fourteen years and people still ask me all the time what I do to keep busy! The answer is not much.
@lilaadame91696 ай бұрын
Even as a young person, every time I rest or take time to enjoy something that may not be seen as traditionally productive (like watching a movie), I feel guilty afterward. I’m glad that this is being discussed.
@nandib5706 ай бұрын
Naps, tea while looking at the sky, staring at animals, sitting simeplace, hust sitting. Syanding someolace, yes just standing. No talking.
@scarpfish6 ай бұрын
I'm able to work my best when I give my body and mind the time to decompress.
@janetstonerook45526 ай бұрын
As a single mom, I worked two jobs and put two kids through college. At age 60, I was sick and exhausted, and took early retirement and moved back to the old homeplace I had inherited way out in the country. That was 17 years ago and I still work physically pretty hard to maintain my life here. But I'm working for myself and it is actually often fun and challenging activities. And when I'm not working, I rest and enjoy myself. It all feels like a great adventure! 👍 😊
@elizabethpeterson566 ай бұрын
u might enjoy reading about helen and scott nearing. intheir 70s they slowly built a home with rocks on some land in vt i believe.
@TUBESTOOL7 ай бұрын
I like to sit by the pond with my guitar and improv some blues. No thoughts, just feeling the music.
@frayafineberg57776 ай бұрын
LOVE THIS SHOW. WONDERFUL AM RETIRED, TOOK ME A LONG TIME, TO STOP FEELING GUILTY BEST TO EVERYONE💕💕
@SC.......6 ай бұрын
I love being lazy at home ❤ everyone tells me to get a life. I love my life as is. I'm a business owner and I spend my time between work and home. And I'm completely content.
@LeeF9457 ай бұрын
These are the stories sunday morning is best at. Do more
@Bobalicious6 ай бұрын
I leave my mobile phone home all the time and never give it a second thought.
@lenmessi276 ай бұрын
In europe everything is closed on Sundays,people unplug and spend time together,be productive all week and rest on the seventh day.
@maurawhelan35306 ай бұрын
There’s definitely a balance that is necessary. I like to be productive everyday doing a few things…I do have friends that do not know how to relax…and that is sad.
@cjdingojames37156 ай бұрын
Excellent segment w/deep human interest. Choosing to do nothing, when you can be doing Anything, is a luxury. After all, we are Human-Beings not Human-Doings
@Mmdmade7 ай бұрын
“Laziness” in the negative IS a negative when it involves a bad attitude, deliberate selfish neglect and it’s a habit where you additionally take advantage of others. Laziness in this sense is wrong. Period. Leisure time, Relaxing , taking hours to do ‘nothing’ isn’t lazy. Now, it’s time to get some stuff done… see ya!
@sagatuppercut29606 ай бұрын
The scientists working part time probably had a salary provided by a university or a government grant. They didn't have some psychotic corporate supervisor micro-managing their work hours.
@MyVlogTherapy7 ай бұрын
1:50 idleness, leisure time is necessary for our wellbeing. Unfortunately idle time has gotten a bad wrap and high productivity is rewarded or like a badge of honor then you realize it meant little but warring yourself out. 5:27 we all need non intention activity, non intentional thought so we can recalibrate. 6:26 some of the most productive and prolific people of our time worked 4 hrs a day and were lazy the rest. 4:33 most people are really single minded not multi task minded. The best thoughts come to you when your mind is in silence and you let thoughts come out and form.
@Lauren_19877 ай бұрын
One doesn't need to work 10, 12 hours per day. Work smarter. Not harder. It's ok to have "down" time or lazy days.
@riddlemethisagain6 ай бұрын
We need to advocate for a 4 day work week in America....
@nancyann13586 ай бұрын
“Besides the noble art of getting things done, there is the noble art of leaving things undone. The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of non-essentials.” ― Lin Yutang, The Importance of Living
@yourturn7776 ай бұрын
Yes
@RyanD8087 ай бұрын
It’s a good message. But we need to recommend a good balance rather than just being lazy. If only we could do nothing all day. I mean everyone wants to do that but we just can’t
@rosariodeleon5417 ай бұрын
I always take time to tune out and do nothing ❤
@heychiyu14 ай бұрын
I love Celeste's TEDTalk about how to have great conservations. And it goes perfectly with this - quieting the mind. It not only leads to better conversations because you are in the moment, present, and engaged. You have more to offer in the conversation, in your career, and in your life. Simply because you had time to recharge and reflect.
@kchiker6 ай бұрын
I mastered the art of "just putzing around."
@kathypariso61027 ай бұрын
In our hurry up fast paced 16 hr work days (yes, there are companies that expect you to answer calls all the way to bedtime), we forget how much slower life used to be…horse and buggy, manual labor for most chores, hours spent on fine dining (and dressing elegantly for the wealthy) and TIME to enjoy simple things: a child’s laughter, a puppy playing, chatting with neighbors. Our digital always-turned-on world has robbed of us of so much joy. When was the last time you wrote a letter or sent a card instead of an email, text or emoji? When was the last time you made a phone call instead of texting? How often do you look at all your Facebook followers and ask yourself “who are these people?” We cheat ourselves of real and meaningful lives everyday.
@cardinal82687 ай бұрын
Dolce far niente. The sweetness of doing nothing.
@kelsilulu6 ай бұрын
I have a friend who always has to be doing things and I’m like girl chill. I enjoy lounge and leisure, it’s my favorite hobby. It keeps you looking young and feeling your best when you’re in stressful situations
@sarahgiax7 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, in the American economy, a large percentage of people have to work themselves to death just to earn a “living,” and don’t simply have the choice of “being lazy.” Rent alone has increased exponentially while income has not. Like Bernie says: “It’s okay to Be Angry About Capitalism.”
@ljacobs3576 ай бұрын
It's because they buy expensive high tech cars they don't need.
@SPenninah04256 ай бұрын
They probably buying things to impress people they don’t even like.
@Happiness3796 ай бұрын
How about starting a bookkeeping business? I will do this soon and replace my income in several months to quit my Walmart job. Then by next year, i will only be working 20 hours per week and making even more significant income. So I will reach the 4 hour work day per this video.
@jackiepowell75136 ай бұрын
@@ljacobs357 so?
@jackiepowell75136 ай бұрын
Ironically ameruca worked a 30 hr work week. 2 dem senators under fdr opted for 40 gross consunerism. Big big mistake.
@doreenhenderson8536 ай бұрын
Doing nothing has been my thing for over 20 years. Being a single mom raising my daughters took a toll on me mentally. So i decided to do nothing
@cndns27 ай бұрын
Amen to this.
@BrentWigginsWords6 ай бұрын
It's amazing how balanced your mind becomes when it isn't constantly being pushed and pulled by endless stimuli. Breathe and be present. The slower you are, the longer the moment lasts.
@annielee21726 ай бұрын
Lazy is probably not a “ proper term” here. You can be active but enjoy what you do.
@happygolucky72416 ай бұрын
During the late 2000's & 2010's to be severely stressed dealing with work/unemployment, school, trying to keep up with phony friends that never was there for me (I'm very thankful my marriage & family saved me from having a mid-life crisis). Now, since the beginning of the 2020's I made significant changes since I work in the Spa Industry to take it easy, think, relax & enjoy the beauty of Life.😊❤️
@chrisfinch86377 ай бұрын
Basically, I like the idea of doing something, rather than doing nothing. It always helps to pass the time, each day. “It is better to do something than to do nothing while waiting to do everything.” ~ Winston Churchill
@chrisfinch86377 ай бұрын
@@lifesabeach5405My grandfather used to always tell me, that “even if you miss the point of something, you can always find a way to get back up on your feet, and try, try again.” That’s another way of having to do something, rather than nothing, to help pass the time, on a daily basis.
@caressas6 ай бұрын
She is right, completely right about this. But what is unfortunate, is there is a huge swath of people in this country that cannot afford to take the time off they so desperately need. I wish we could all be like this, but in reality, we can't.
@TherapistTamaraHill6 ай бұрын
Rest is restorative and you can't identify who you truly are without it.
@desired1177 ай бұрын
I think once people get perspective they will recognize what's important. I don't over work myself anymore because I'm not doing extra for my employer. I will put in extra for my family time and self care. I'm better for it
@xelamercedes6 ай бұрын
I've been "lazy" my whole life. I'll be 70 my next birthday. In retrospect, I wish I'd left the country in my youth -- though I'm not sure where exactly I would have gone. America is a cult of "busy" and it's been hard to swim against that tide. Hard to maintain a sense of personal worth. Hard to explain myself to friends. Hard to get a job (as the segment mentions, employers want multi-taskers). But my oh my! What a life I've had, what I've learned about myself, what rich chance exchanges with humans and other life forms. Except for maybe giving myself a break by moving when I was in my 20s to a country that at least honors afternoon siestas, I have no regrets.
@justmejenny79866 ай бұрын
I really like how you write.
@xelamercedes6 ай бұрын
@@justmejenny7986 Thank you. My memoir manuscript is with a potential publisher. I hope they feel as you do.
@majesea5 ай бұрын
Rest is crucial ❤
@Bobalicious6 ай бұрын
Hard work pays off later. Laziness pays off now.
@UXtatic7 ай бұрын
There's no socially constructed reward for not working. Our bodies thank us for it and we also process info best during down time.
@WelcometoAshLand6 ай бұрын
It took traveling out of the country to understand that a huge American value is hard work and staying busy till burn out.
@Clintsessentials6 ай бұрын
💯
@mpd86336 ай бұрын
I believe in diligence, not hard work. The body was not designed for overwork. It wears and breaks down.
@allin36396 ай бұрын
I take a lot of pride saying to people who ask what did you do last weekend: ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. There are lots of rewards to being lazy - it’s called keeping your sanity.
@kevinhanley30236 ай бұрын
I heard the lady say the cult mentality is that you must work hard to have value. Is “value” important? Value implies productivity. Stop trying to have value. After retirement, it is antithetical.
@Rashaadthegr86 ай бұрын
Lazy when you can work and don't especially if you're not in a house wife/husband situation. Relax is the reward you get for working hard all day at the end of the day.
@themasculinismmovement6 ай бұрын
The work I do as an author requires hours of full unbroken focus every day. Multi-tasking wouldn't help my writing, it would make it terrible. Additionally I know I require free time and rest in order to function optimally.
@Sentimentalist09236 ай бұрын
Having a purpose is important to most of us- a regular job is a reason to get out of bed every day. But REST is necessary!
@dolphinbear6616 ай бұрын
No thank you, my purpose is whatever I decide it is moment to moment. Would never put in another second for pay given the choice. To each his own
@Spiritdove647 ай бұрын
I take a nap daily but I have to. Im disabled and body shuts down after 4 hrs up on my feet. Im losing weight and use to not be able to do 2 hrs. 220 now to 209.. Hope to be back to my 175 which is normal for me. I will do it.
@justmejenny79867 ай бұрын
You can do it! I don't know you but I'm proud of you. Keep going!