Cesarean Birth: What to Expect & More! | Sarah Lavonne

I have so much about vaginal birth on my channel, that I didn't want to leave the potential 1/3 of you mommas out! Yes, the c-section rate in the united states is about 32%! That means that it is likely that some of you will end up giving birth by cesarean... and that's OK! I want you to be prepared and confident for your cesarean, understand the process, what is more important to your chances of a c-section than the hospital c-section rate, the reasons why some women have them and tips about how to prepare for your birth!
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[@Jane87f]

Question for future video: 1. Risk with c-section 2. Recovery difference with c-section

[@juliejones3260]

I’m not scared of getting a C-section. I am, however, scared of laboring for hours on hours and even trying to push just to end up getting a c-section.

[@kingworm7168]

Julie Jones that just happened to me. It was rough

[@vin1238]

That was what happened to me two months ago. It was traumatic

[@alondragarcia2027]

That happened to me 3 years ago i was at the hospital at 7 am and by 8pm i had a nurse giving me a shot to stop contractions then i had my doctor with another doctor and right behind them like 6 nurses i had to get a emergency c-section I was scared i couldn’t stop crying it was horrible for me

[@thecosmicbug]

Was in labor for two days, it ended in c-section. I'm sorry to scare you... That's just my experience and it was very traumatic.

[@chelseahodges2906]

This is what happened to me a couple weeks ago 24 hours later a failed induction didn’t progress past a one I was over it and got a c section.. 🤦‍♀️

[@katepow9961]

I just recently had my baby by c-section, my epidural fail two hours after It was administered, I wasn't progressing and I had to have a c- section. when I got into the operating room my spinal failed and I had to be put unde. i just wanted everyone to know that this too, can be an option and to not be scared because, end result is still your precious one being born!

[@naturindabrenda8863]

Amazing 😁

[@Samantha-jd8gv]

Yes, I had to have mine under general too. This isnt talked about enough and i didnt even think of it being a possibility. It was very traumatizing

[@Alex-fw6ur]

Kah Pow how long after the baby was born did it take for them to wake you && then you be able to hold baby??? (I ask that bc I read they won’t let you hold the baby till you fully recovered) ....I have a spinal cord issue and if I have to have c section would have to be put fully under as epidural/spinals in any scenario is impossible and I’m nervous it would be forever till I got to see, hold and breastfeed my baby. Any info you feel comfortable sharing would be soooo very much appreciated!! Thank you

[@katepow9961]

@@Alex-fw6ur aw I'm so sorry hun but don't worry. for you, as soon as you go to sleep you will be woken up. I was very confused and forgot I even had a baby for a minute but I also had both epidural and spinal done so I was drugged beyond belief! As soon as they rolled me back into the room I was able to hold my baby, now every hospital is different but that's what they did for me, I was awake enough to know what was going on by the time I got into my recovery room. For my boyfriend he said it took 45 minutes till they took me back in till he heard our baby girl cry but they attempted a spinal so It took longer for him. It will be longer for you but because your asleep but, it will be like no time has passed! Now for me the second day of recovery was worse so much worse than all the KZbin family's show, I couldn't even lift my arms or legs even my fingers were stiff but I think it was due to the failed epidural and spinal they did, if this happens to you hun, ibuprofen helps alot! Just remember you will see and hold your angel baby in no time! I hope this helps hun.

[@esky1365]

I'm late to the party but I had mine under general too! I didn't even realize it was a possibility until I had mine. My son's heart stopped during labor and I didn't have an epidural so they put me under to get him out ASAP. It wasn't how I wanted my birth to go but they saved my son's life so I'm grateful.♥️

[@kimmylucas7263]

I had a cesarean this past weekend. During my pregnancy, I avoided thinking about and preparing myself for cesarean birth because I was adament I would have a vaginal. No complications through my pregnancy, baby was in great position, so I thought the birth would be as I expected! Went into the hospital to get checked because my water started leaking and I wasn’t feeling the baby move. They admitted me and said I would be having this baby asap! I was not progressing in labor and the baby was not coping well, heart rate kept dropping. Doctor gave her a few chances to relax and when she didn’t, said we should do a c section to be safe. I was extremely nervous and dreaded the recovery. The procedure was actually not bad. I didn’t even realize when they made the incision and before we knew it, little girl was born! My doctor was amazing and the incision site was already healing excellently when they removed the dressing after 24 hours. Recovery has not been fun so far and as disappointing as it was that I didn’t deliver vaginally, it was all worth it to have our perfect little daughter now!

[@ascendednightingale2456]

Kimmy Lucas Same exact thing happened to me. Had no issues with pregnancy, and when labor started and I got to the hospital, shit hit the fan.

[@DukeChubbyDun]

Thanks for sharing your story! I'm 30 weeks and 3 days now. Before pregnancy and this whole time, I had been prepping and planning for a vaginal birth, but to be ready for the possibilities, I've been educating myself on c-sections. I REALLY don't want one, but your story gave me peace about it in case it does happen. My husband and I tried for almost 2 years to get here, so in the end, I really just want my perfect baby boy too. I still hope for vaginal delivert, but thanks for shifting my focus on what really matters 😊

[@kimmylucas7263]

@@DukeChubbyDun I'm so glad it helped! Ava is now a year old and thriving (other than still getting up during the night 1-2 times but we're trying to figure that out lol). Hang in there!

[@RikeeSueTooYou]

im due in May and first time mom. You have helped me so much with not having so much anxiety around labor and just knowing kinda what to expect thank you

[@mrspokitstheriot477]

I have two kids (2.5 and 1.5) and I'm 23wks pregnant. My first was a 5 day induction. Yes, 5 days. Of active induction. I'd rather do that 100 times over then have a c section. I dont know how c section mamas do it. I've had smaller abdominal surgeries prior, and I cant imagine recovering from a c section while adjusting to parenthood. All the gold stars to you c section mamas out there. Hats off to you. You are superheros.

[@Samantha-jd8gv]

Wow that's awesome that they let you go that long. My induction was 2 days and they labeled me as failure to progress and did the c section. Though in that 2 days I only made .5cm progress.

[@emilykaye47]

I am going to be so prepared when this baby comes!! I was stuck asking my MOM questions (love her to death) but things have changed so much since 23 years ago! 😩Thank you Sarah you’re a life saver 🥰

[@familyaccount4369]

Same! So many things have changed

[@annahardy1746]

I NEEDED this video a little over a month ago! Haha I went to my last Dr appointment and we saw that my baby girl wasn't progressing down (I was too small) well my c section was the morning after. I was terrified! After some complications they had to put me completely under. I was so scared and upset. My husband couldn't be in the room and I wouldn't hear my baby's first cry. I was a wreck, but I just wanted my daughter to come out healthy and same for myself. It then took about 4 hours after my little one was born to finally meet. It was horrible, but she's healthy, Happy and extremely loved ❤️❤️

[@michellewi4536]

This is such a precise play by play of everything that happened. I think this video will be a big help to mamas who arent quite aware of what is about to happen to them and may be scared. Thank you so much for answering my question as well! ❤

[@lilyg7213]

I’ve watched EVERY video and I honestly thought I was being open minded and preparing myself for anything up until at today’s 32 week appointment they say my baby is breech and they want to schedule a c section. I didn’t know I had strong emotions one way or another until this became my reality. I cried all the way home. Now I’m trying to re-watch and get to a place of acceptance.

[@jessielatin1485]

I’m in the same situation. C section scheduled in a few days, baby is breeched at 39 weeks. How did it turn out for you

[@sansnom77766]

thank you so much for all of your videos. i remember watching some of your videos when i was pregnant. i then had an unplanned c-section at 42+1 the experience was not so good unfortunately and i'm struggling with ppd 1 year after birth. i want to say, that i absolutely underestimated the consequences and everything around the healing process. the overall medical situation is very different here in egypt, but apart from that all the info is out there. thank you so much for educating the people. e.g. the description of the actual process really helps to put the puzzle together and find peace with that experience one day. my partner told me he saw my organs hanging out, now after you explaining that that's a normal procedure, i also feel a little better about everything. Thanks Love for the info and the love you're spreading to the traumatized or hurt mommies out there. it really helps :*

[@thehomebaker6837]

That was me!!! Planned my heart out for a regular vaginal delivery. An hour into my induction we learned it would not be safe and 10 minutes later I had a C section. I felt lost and confused because I did prep for one at all! Honestly has no idea what to expect or plan for recovery wise. Glad you are making this video.

[@81iloveyuh]

First-time mom and my son is due in 4 weeks an 1 day your videos have helped ease my mind and have answered so many questions I haven't been able to get clarity on. Thank you so much !

[@nomineb7850]

Who the hell dislikes these videos! Your videos are so amazing!!! Thank you! 💕💕

[@misskanyared]

FINALLY! Been waiting for a CS video, 3 more weeks. Thanks Sarah!!!

[@margaretrenovat]

misskanyared same here ! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@lolitalempicka1359]

I’m 30 weeks now, I was so afraid of a Cesarian birth and I’m so glad I watched this video 🙏

[@besskle]

thank you so much i wish this video came out sooner😩 i had one 2 weeks ago due to low fluid and her being breach at 39wks. took me by surprise

[@ColleenLusterLacquer]

I just had my second baby 2 weeks ago and I was devastated to hear that I might need a c-section. He was still transverse at almost 39 weeks. My dr/hospital did not offer the ECV procedure so that wasn’t an option. After lots of prayer and some at home techniques or just the will of my body and baby. I went into labor a week later and had my beautiful son VAGINALLY in just 4 hours, one push and no epidural (labor happened reallllllly fast). It was incredible and I’d do it all again.

[@melindabelleau8989]

I love your channel. Thank you for all of the awesome videos. Currently 30 weeks with first baby and I've been watching your videos anytime I start to feel anxious about becoming a new mom. ♥️♥️♥️

[@vanessarigby3325]

1st- Thank you so much for making this video series. I know it’s an oldie but it’s great. 2- I really wish I had watched something like this before my 1st because I was definitely in that “I will never have a C-Section” mentality. 3rd - Although my C-section literally saved my life and my baby’s life I still feel very, very guilty about it 6 years later. I feel like I was not a part of my son’s birth at all!!! Quick story: At 14 weeks my husband and I found our first had Gastroschisis (intestines developed outside the body) so although they said we will more than likely have a planned C section, I was in total denial and though I could somehow push the baby. Then at 29 week I lost my mucus plug and my water broke. I did not have any contractions, the baby was breached and I had lost most of my amniotic fluid...I was kept in bed and doctors were trying to keep me pregnant while also doing everything possible to prepare the baby for birth just in case. After day 3 I got a fever and the baby was tachycardic so they said I more than likely had an infection and that’s when they opted for an emergency C section. My baby was delivered successfully and he had surgery to repair his birth defect (Gastroschisis). I did not have any complications AFTER the C section. But for some damn reason I was still very disappointed and felt defeated. Soooooo, Thank Thank Thank you for making us C section mamas feel included. To all you mamas out there, please everyone watch C section videos and just tell yourself that no matter how your precious baby comes into this world you still did an amazing job and you should feel proud, and strong and beautiful AND included!!!! 💕💕💕💕

[@taylorgranger3972]

Yay!! Finally a c-section video!! My scheduled primary is next week and this was soooo helpful to know what to expect. Keep ‘em coming lady! ❤️

[@queenc8280]

Best of luck hun!

[@mandit5555]

Good luck hun 😊. It's not painful at all during the process but you can feel what's happening if that makes any sense. I was able to tell my husband when they were about to take the baby out. Make sure when you get up on ur feet for the first time a day or two later u have ur partner or someone help you. My tip is either bring a support wrap or ask ur nurse for one it will help a lot.

[@taylorgranger3972]

Classy Cassy Thank you! ☺️

[@aussielivia6325]

I ended up needing a c section after laboring for 18 hours. My water broke on it’s own and everything. But I had a fantastic experience with c section. I didn’t get to touch my baby for an hour which upset me but the rest of the experience was great. I was so terrified and kept asking if I could have a second to process but I kept being told that there wasn’t time. That was probably best because if I had time to process what was going on, I would have been more terrified about it al. The anesthesiologist was a jerk and kept laughing at me for being scared and when I’d ask my nurse something he’d tell her just not to answer me. I really did not like him and his attitude. But the surgeon was great and my recovery was easy and I got to have my midwife there with me which calmed me and I had the nurses who labored with me, too.

[@Nic-hl4ue]

Wow the anaesthesiologist sounds like an ass! Why couldn’t you touch your baby for an hour if you don’t mind me asking? X

[@aussielivia6325]

I don’t know. They just took her out and took her away and my husband went with her but they spent a while getting me stitched up after. It wasn’t until recovery that I saw her or held her. It all happened so fast that I didn’t have time to think to ask if I could have her on my chest or anything

[@Nic-hl4ue]

AussieLivia crikey that sounds horrible :( I’m 32 weeks pregnant and so scared about giving birth! X

[@melissaw3277]

After a 36 hour induction and 3 hours of pushing, my ob said I could push for another hour (me and baby were in good condition) or do a c-section, as there wasn’t much progress in the 3 hours. I was exhausted, frustrated, and so, so disappointed. I chose to go right for the c-section, and I have no regrets. Neither me nor my baby were ever in distress and the choice was entirely mine. The procedure was jarring but thankfully not traumatic for me. Seeing my baby girl (through the plastic sheet) for the first time was still such a beautiful, special moment. I wish I had educated myself more on the c-section process and recovery process beforehand, but at least I know for next time. I would totally do another c-section. I’ll never do another induction, though.

[@faithdestinee5156]

Please do a video about External version and/or breech babies...

[@michaela3743]

YES! I have to have one at on April 15th because my daughter is breech still.

[@gabriellemanier2223]

@@michaela3743 how did your ecv go?!

[@larissapalmer9705]

Hi Sarah, my husband and I are having our first baby in October. He doesn't know much about babies and nothinf about labor so I've been sending him some of your video's because they're so informative and easy to comprehend so hopefully he'll be somewhat more prepared for whats coming. Thanks for sharing your expertise. ❤

[@summerralph5039]

Aww wish you posted this sooner I had to have an emergency c section last Monday

[@aileenandrea___]

Your videos have been so helpful! Although this is my second pregnancy I still wanted refreshers. Now I feel more prepared for when my little one is expected here in two weeks.

[@lydia1285]

Perfect timing! We just found out the baby is breech at the last min lol scheduled for a cs on thursday afternoon

[@naturindabrenda8863]

Tomorrow? Ooh you must be excited

[@lydia1285]

@@naturindabrenda8863 Definitely a mix of excited and a bit nervous but we are just so ready to meet our little girl that my nerves are taking a back seat at least for now lol

[@naturindabrenda8863]

It will be amazing :)

[@lydia1285]

@@naturindabrenda8863 Baby girl is here 😍 we are both happy and healthy everything went great!

[@gmagam]

Your videos are so informative I just found your channel and I am subscribing. I've been trying to conceive my first for 3.5 yrs now so dont even know how I got here, but I have hope one day I will put all of you tips in use.👌😁

[@b2h316]

Girl, I don't know if you realize how close you got to burning your hair at 12:05 LOL

[@sarahlavonne]

Omg yes I saw it while editing can you imagine?!? 🤦🏼‍♀️🙈🔥

[@chrisshannatate4862]

Your videos are the best. I search your name and everything comes up that I’m looking for. I’m getting a c section at 37 weeks this coming Wednesday the 19th because of fibroid tumors. I am so excited and ready and watching your videos have definitely calmed me down.

[@aericabeaver313]

I unfortunately labored and had to have a C-section. It was absolutely terrifying, only due to the fact that my spinal started to wear off when they were putting my uterus back where it needed to be and suturing me up. I got my amazing little boy out of the deal, and I would do it all over again to make sure he was safe, but it was absolutely terrifying. I'm honestly traumatized to have another baby

[@queenc8280]

Aerica Beaver I totally understand. Had my son 2014 and my trauma and recovery made me scared to have more kids. My son was 4 and I felt guilty he was alone. So we planned my second child and my vbac failed. I'm thankful for my 2nd son. Thank God this recovery and experience was better. I would do it all over again. My son is now 5 and I have a 1 month old and couldn't be happier.

[@voyance4elle]

I'm so sorry 😢 That sounds terrible 💕

[@Daymickey]

First time mom, scheduled c-section in 6 weeks due to stubborn placenta previa. I was truly hoping for vaginal birth but now I’m just shifting gears and preparing mentally to meet my daughter another way.

[@itsfaj]

35 weeks tomorrow and just learned by accident that baby is breech. I had to do a liver ultrasound and the tech could clearly see his head under my liver! 🤣 2 weeks ago he was head down. I was kind of worried after but now, I am determined to focus on baby's well being. For as long as we both come out of the hospital healthy and well, that is what matters to me the most. Flex and flow like you always say 💕

[@93cheertastic]

I'm so happy I found your channel!!!

[@mindfulnesswithmyckie]

Thank you so much for this video. I am so glad I found you on here, you have really helped me to wrap my head around my cesarean birth plan💕

[@alexandriabakel5040]

I just found your channel and I love all the information you are sharing. I’m working towards becoming a doula and this information is awesome and the way you approach the tougher topics is so positive. Thanks for making these videos!

[@TheTarr711]

Thank you so much for this video! I have been watching all of your videos to help prepare for my dream natural vaginal unmedicated birth. However my stubborn little boy is breech yet again. After hearing our options and the risks, my husband and I decided to schedule a cesarean. Trying to mentally change lanes and get over the disappointment has been very hard. I needed this video. No matter what I get to meet my son.

[@emortiz7820]

Omg the video I have been waiting for. Crazy how I’m still awake! Oh wait I forgot it’s called “pregnancy” lol

[@destinydupin5084]

I wish I could have seen this 6 months ago before I had my son. I was blindsided by a cesarean section. My OBGYN didn't even explain it as an option or the process. I literally thought I was going to die and leave my newly born baby behind without me. Very traumatic to me as a first time mother. Thank you so much for doing this video!

[@bettyboop0425vl]

Been waiting for this video just found out I have to have a c section instead of a vbac 😪 this will be my second c section I’m super nervous and the date gets closer

[@queenc8280]

Just had my 2nd CS 1 month ago. Vbac failed for me. Why do u need another one before going into labor? I wish and pray the best for you and baby❤

[@bettyboop0425vl]

Classy Cassy I’m having hypertension issues along with having pre eclampsia during my first pregnancy and had to have an emergent c section my doctor thinks it isn’t worth the risk for me to have a vbac because I would need to be induced at 37 weeks

[@queenc8280]

@@bettyboop0425vl if you're having high BP issues now then that makes sense. Doc wants to ensure a safe mom and baby outcome for you. I did not want a CS either and was aiming for a vbac. But if u read my top comment labor was not going well and my husband and doc didnt wanna risk something wrong happening. So as they wheeled me in the OR, i was in tears the whole time. CS went well, recovery so much better than my last and I am so grateful for my healthy beautiful son. I know it is scary, but when u see baby and all is said and done, you will feel so much better. Wish you the best!!! 💕

[@Issa.valencia]

I just got C section 3 weeks ago. I wish I watch this before i gave birth. I didn’t know i was gonna get c section. They induced me at 38 weeks but it didn’t work so they had to do c section 😩. Now I’m thinking to try VBAC when I get pregnant again.

[@queenc8280]

Why did they want to induce you so early?

[@kinseyjohnson4341]

Wish I had seen this video before I went in for labor! I was planning all natural and couldn't birth because of my tailbone (couldn't progress past 6 even with induction meds). Thank you for how helpful and informative you have been. Thankfully my experience was great because of my husband, doctor and team at the hospital

[@Samantha-jd8gv]

Wish you woulda did this 7 weeks ago so I could have seen it before my 6 week old was born! How great!

[@leslieortega5831]

I am trying to vba2c and actually in the process of changing hospital and provider to a provider that has an 18% csection rate and a 84% “successful” Vbac rate. Thanks for this videos.

[@margaretrenovat]

Trying for Vbac! But got checked Monday I’m 36 weeks so far cervix is being stubborn as this baby right now’ everything closed 😭😭... doctor schedule for C section but I’m Praying some type of miracle that she will come before the 9th m schedule c section because my first recovery was HELL!. I don’t have much support expect my husband now and we got toddler so yes this is going to be good lol !!!

[@emilywisby1975]

Margaret Renovat did you get your vbac?

[@marlalee8042]

I absolutely love your videos, Sarah. Thank you!

[@ashleymiz90]

I'm 19 weeks with my second baby (daughter is almost 8 now!) and I'm soo hoping for a vbac. I had a c section with her (after 15 hours of labor) due to her heart rate dropping, so it was an emergency and I had no idea what I was going into. my doctor now is saying I'd likely have a successful vbac and I hope I can because the recovery from the c section was just ugh! I felt so drugged up and not really making any choices for my baby. I'd like to never experience that again 😪

[@lizmay8431]

I have one this Friday. Thank you for this video.

[@queenysumitro9800]

Hi Sarah! Could you pls do a video on how to avoid fetal distress? Thank you so much!

[@ashleyarneson8328]

These stats were actually shocking! I had no idea!!

[@Naforbe]

I'm having my 3rd c-section in July. I was doing just fine until I came across this. It brought back all those memories..😰. It's such a scary and uncomfortable procedure. My 2nd was much easier and I'm hoping my 3rd will be a breeze because I'm a pro by now lol.

[@sarahlavonne]

You are a pro!

[@kingworm7168]

I had a complication free pregnancy. He was in a good position and I expected to go into labor any day at 40 weeks 5 days. Scheduled an induction just in case, and had a nonstress test. There was one small deceleration so they said it would be safest to induce that day. I labored for about 14 hours, ended up doing Nubain as my contractions became hard and fast with no end in sight. Did an epidural after a few more hours because I was in so much pain I felt like I was going to puke and pass out from the contractions. I planned in my mind a non medical vaginal birth (ha ha) and that didn’t happen at all. At about 0600 am his heart rate shot down and I ended up with a emergency c section and was in the OR within 10 minutes. Only had the epidural for anesthesia and they almost put me under but didn’t have to thankfully. I was scared I’d stop breathing as my respiratory rate was already so low. Thankfully he’s healthy and I’m recovering well. Longest 24 hours of my life and even though not one thing went to plan all I could think about is my sons safety. Pro tip: walk as soon as possible!! The gas pain can be the worst and moving will be the best thing for it. It’s Day 2 and almost no pain. I’ve never wanted to fart so bad in my life loll

[@sansnom77766]

maybe you can make a video about successful recovery from c-section, what to avoid, skin- and scar-care something in that direction. also how to deal with the baby when the healing process is prolonged.

[@sansnom77766]

hehe i just found all the other c-section related vids. thank you so much honestly!!

[@meganrakisits2572]

I have been waiting for a video like this from you! I have a c section scheduled in July!

[@Devilishka7]

You should cover c-section under general anaesthesia as well, and the aftermath. The anaesthesia affected my baby so that he had breathing difficulties when they got him out, but luckily he soon recovered from it. But he was kept away from me for 2 days and I was recovering too. Hormones after section are crazy too and i wasn't the only one in the room who was crying for hours because our babies weren't with us. These tears could not be stopped, it was weird. And then comes the lower back pain for weeks after the surgery.

[@LoveLyMissCarLy]

I guess I’m one of the rare women that wished I had a csection over a vaginal birth due to my complications after vaginal birth. I was left with a Rectovaginal Fistula. Africa has a lower csection rate because there is less access to medical intervention and so Rectovaginal Fistulas run rampant in Africa. The specialist I had to seek out to repair my RVF takes trips to Africa to help the many many women and repair their RVFs. Dr. Margolis Bay Area Pelvic Surgeon is a God send when it comes to understanding the complexity of a RVF and the repair. I was cut open 3 times, one being my 4th degree episiotomy, the second being my OB thinking he had to redo my stitches, and finally the 3rd by Dr Margolis performing a multi layer repair to close the hole for good! All this to say after my first birth I am a scheduled csection in 5 weeks for my second babe. I cannot risk a recurring RVF since my tissue is already compromised between my rectal and vaginal wall.

[@sparklyjewlz]

I have the exact thought process as you. I didn’t have your complications, but I was painfully induced, in labor for 36 hours and have chronic hypertension for which the medication they use to control that during birth makes you feel like you’re on fire and slows down labor. Then after I finally gave birth, I spiked a really high fever and had bad internal tearing and my pubic bone separated resulting in 8 months of PT postpartum. I’m 8 months preggos with my second and my OB doesn’t want to give me a c-section, but baby is frank breech so she just might have to. 🤞🏼

[@kimbershark]

I'm currently 35 weeks today and baby's breech. I had high BP before I got pregnant and up until a week ago it was manageable through meds. I'm also 40 so high risk. I was admitted last weekend because my BP got to 187/110 and wouldn't go down even after 3 doses of my BP via IV. Long story short I switched meds. They're working pretty good but my BP is still a tad bit high. My Dr gave me the option to try and flip the baby manually or schedule a c-section. Also my iron got extremely low. 4% 😞 so when my OB said the word rupture I said I'll choose a c-section. So in exactly 2 weeks from now I will be having my first c-section. I had my daughter via vaginally 17 years ago. I'm so nervous. My husband is currently out of state and most likely getting deployed to Poland at the end of this month. Praying they let him stay 🙏

[@stephaniearnett1727]

Wish I had watched something like this before my son was born. Like you said I put all my preparation in vaginal birth, was convinced that was what was going to happen, and felt very helpless when C-section became mandated. After the spinal I felt like I was going under/about to pass out which was a little frightening but the anesthesiologist reassured me it was normal. I was really disturbed by hearing my son's heart rate go down so much before they ripped off the monitors to cut me open. I did have my arms strapped down which was very uncomfortable because the anesthesia gave me terrible shaking in my arms. It was still better than all the back labor pains and midwives trying to push my cervical lip out of the way during pushing, but still uncomfortable. Since it was a transfer from a birthing center there was no plan established with the care team. I have no idea if they delayed cord clamping or anything. I know I received more drugs in a one hour time frame than any other time in my life. I do not remember being offered any skin-to-skin time while they sewed me back up. My husband and child were taken out of the room to recovery while they finished with me. Fortunately my son was extremely healthy and nursed for over an hour once we were finally united about an hour after his birth. I had some postpartum hemorrhage so it took a little longer for them to finish with me than what I remember with my sister's C-section. It definitely was not an ideal experience, but I am grateful that we all came through okay. The anesthesiologist was amazing and I do not think I will ever forget his name or face. Now I am pregnant with number 2 and was hoping for VBAC but the baby is breech and I am 38 weeks tomorrow. She has about a week to turn or it is another C-section, but at least this time would be planned with a doctor I have established a relationship with and I would be better prepared for what to expect. Love your videos!

[@shanhubner4105]

i had a spinal with my first! it was scary when they put it in cuz it was in the middle of a contraction but it worked instantly!! it was amazing!! they had to tell me when to push (it was for forceps not c section) i couldn't feel anything it was such a relief!!

[@Zia_l8r]

My baby was head down 2 days before birth. I had done a lot of exercises to make sure he was engaged in my pelvis. And then he went breech and broke my water. I didn’t know he was breech until I got to the hospital. I had zero preparation for c section and I was devastated and terrified. I wish I had done my research. Thanks for the video!

[@ninawernick6501]

It would be grand if you could add improved maternal mortality and perinatal mortality alongside increased C-section rates, especially in Africa. Speaking as a South African.

[@angelynagnes5876]

So glad I found your channel! You delayed clamping video brought me here and now I’m starting to binge watch your videos 😂 #FirstTimeMom #NewSubscriber

[@mamasaurus4856]

I was so tired by end of my second labor I didn't want to push. I wanted to sleep, I wanted my o2, I didn't want to be bothered. After 16 hours I was already drained, my eyes barely opened listening to the gaggle of nurses insist I wake up all the way and start pushing. Now I'm weaker and sicker than that time, so I'm aware we may go right for a section. I've never been scared of surgeries, I've had a few types before. My only worry is how quickly will I get out of it and be able to breastfeed, my SO already knows my wish is, "You can leave me there when baby is out, follow the kiddo for me so I'm not worried about any of that."

[@mamasaurus4856]

Update time, I'm at the end of this pregnancy, and a c-section is scheduled. Baby flipped out of engagement and went breech and backwards and refuses to flip back despite attempts. He could last second drop, sure, but today after days of me processing all of this and emotions, when we talked about it at the doctor again and I just accepted it. She offered the idea of a breech birth, but I'm very sick and tired in every way. SO and I read the risks of a breech birth quite a bit and decided we will just take the surgery. Hoping a nurse will take pictures for me since we can't have our own camera in there.

[@KDMS4114]

Whyyyyyy are you so amazinggggggg 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@rabiawaqar9768]

Thanks for doing this!! Much needed, to reduce the stigma with C section

[@cartt9373]

My water broke a few weeks early and So to avoid a dry birth, they told me I had to have a C-section after like 12 hours of turning and tossing in the hospital bed.

[@daniellepedoto9613]

Thank you for this video! i was told i will most likley need a c-section and was freaking out. you really made it seem not as horrible as i was pictureing haha.

[@samanthahernandez8657]

I am 32 weeks pregnant with my first and I am watching this to prepare myself mentally just in case I need to have a c-section if I can’t deliver my baby vaginally.

[@gabriellemanier2223]

I'm preparing for an unmedicated birth at a birth center. My worst fear is a hospital birth, c section, or epidurals 😣😪

[@ihavenomorenameideas]

I’m a first time mom at 25 and I didn’t expect at first to need a c-section. My baby, though, has been on the big side (and by that I mean he’s huge) for a while now. I’m 5’2 and the specialist I saw 2 days ago measured him at 10 lbs 13 oz (with no gestational diabetes and me watching my carb intake), so I’m having a c-section on Tuesday. If he had been a normal size baby, I would have gone for a vaginal delivery, but like you said in the video, I’m glad a c-section is an option for me.

[@KDMS4114]

Your energy is dope. Love ittttt

[@raesong926]

My c birth wasn't an immediate emergency, but I'm convinced it saved us both from severe injury. The attending pediatrician told me how glad he was it was a CS just for the safety of my baby. Still not fun though.

[@marijaskolan9088]

This came at the right time. Yesterday I found out that I am going on cs next monday. My baby is in deflexed posterior position and my doctor want me to have cs. She doesent even want to try vaginal birth. I am not saying I am against or pro, but I just want some answers and now I know that it is ok. Also you reminded me of everything I need to ask her. So thanks once again for your time and for making this video. :) :*

[@queenc8280]

Good luck Marija and congratulations 💕

[@marijaskolan9088]

Classy Cassy thank you ☺️

[@Abingram92]

This video came just in time for my c section in 10 days 🤗🤗

[@ChicanxHistory]

HA! "Now I'm smart!" I love these outtakes :D

[@kiaraturner353]

I tried watching but I had to skip over you actually explaining when they start to cut. I just cannot think about that, I really hope i don’t have to get a c section because I can’t even think about one. 😖

[@ErinReviews]

My OB was 100% on board for vaginal birth until a week ago when baby A was confirmed as having IUGR

[@sarahlavonne]

Iugr is an indication for induction not cesarean

[@breannamanderson8469]

I’m praying I don’t have to have a csection 😟. I’m 39 weeks, 1cm dilated & 90% effaced (have been for 2 weeks) . Blood pressure is high and I’m being monitored for preeclampsia. Another dr appointment in the morning to possibly schedule an induction. My doctor told me that over 50% of their inductions end in a csection and I’m not mentally prepared.... 😢 makes me want to cry 😭

[@nelieroseedol586]

Im watching this while waiting for my csection.. Im in the hospital right now

[@treelicker]

I have such a petrifying fear of having to have a C-section. The thought of being cut open is like the worst thing I can possibly imagine, straight out of a nightmare. I can hardly do needles, I can't imagine I'd cope well with an entire surgery😔 I'm only 24 weeks along, but this is already at the forefront of my anxious brain. Thank you for the video explaining everything. Is there any way to mitigate that fear, or is it something I'll just have to be traumatized by if it happens?

[@mariah6871]

2 months away from my elective csection. It's been 9yrs since I had one though, first one was not expected. Went in to be induced and after 24hrs she wasn't doing so well so I went in for csection. Definitely threw up in my hair during surgery even after having the grape flavored shot. Ready to see my second babygirl.

[@raa8504]

I'm scheduled for c section on April 3rd. But yesterday my dr check me. I dilate 3cm. So she told me I can try for natural birth. I had c section 11 years ago. So I did want natural. I'm so ready to see my baby boy

[@Naforbe]

Also, you kind of skipped over the stitching up part. It takes about an hour and you don't get to be with your baby or partner during that time 😥. Also, you don't get to see your baby right away after a c-section. The nurse cleans and wraps them up first. So, you hear your baby cry and get all excited and have to wait like 5 minutes before you get to even see them. Although with my son (2nd baby), I asked to see him right after he came out. I recommend all Mama's do that.

[@joojoofoo]

Naforbe It actually depends on the hospital. The hospital I’m delivering at does skin-to-skin immediately even with c-section. You’re allowed to hold your baby while you’re being stitched up! Good news for me because my baby is still breech at 36.5 weeks.

[@prinpat370]

Labor at home for as long as possible and when it’s unbearable then go to chosen place to give birth. If you go with light contractions doctors love interventions and most interventions ends up with c section

[@allynichole4113]

I was wanting to know how would I know if my water broke while i was taking a bath? Will baby be okay if I didnt know it broke in tub

[@auroraautumn8764]

The rush of water down your legs... you will feel it. Mines broke in the bathroom.

[@leynatheonly8628]

Dont even want to think about going through many hours of horror and enormous amounts of pain when there is a c-section) so I’m going for that)

[@sheah4854]

I wish I had watched this before I had my son. I was fully planning on vaginal birth and didn't think any complications would happen to cause me to have a c-section. However at 38 weeks I had severe placental abruption and had to have an urgent c-section. I was totally unprepared for a c-section and it made it very scary and honestly slightly traumatizing for me. I wish I had prepared for the possibility of getting a c-section. If my c-section was just an hour later I would have lost my son. He's 2 weeks old now and perfectly healthy. Just mentally prepare for the chance that a c-section could happen. I didn't think it would happen to me but I ended up with a complication only 1% of women have.

[@virtuallykylee8671]

Bloopers are my fav!

[@indigomoonchild6638]

I went in at 37 weeks to be induced due to gestational hypertension. It went really well with them giving me the medication near my cervix, the foley bulb and pitocin. They decided to manually break my water, and I was nervous about it and didn’t know why because at that point I had gotten my epidural. About an hour or two after they broke my water, suddenly there was fetal distress and they had me on oxygen. I was asleep so I woke up to them telling me I needed oxygen and baby’s heartbeat was getting a tad crazy. I was on oxygen for maybe 20-30 mins before the doctor came in and said I needed a c section because of the fetal distress. I was so scared, terrified. I started crying and shaking, trying to remain calm. The anesthesiologist actually talked me through it and in the OR him and my husband kept me as calm as they could. I tried to keep talking through the drugs to keep myself calm, even though I was trembling. My baby girl was born at 1:06 pm on September 9. She ended up needing a NICU stay but is home now and doing well! It was scary but so worth it because I have this amazing baby. Btw, the shot she talks about taking tastes awful. I recommend plugging your nose and/ or taking it super fast!

[@ashleyskye9334]

I've just always been absolutely terrified of the idea of surgery so I'm really really hoping my little man comes out my lady bits so I don't need a c-section xD

[@baileyrushton3563]

The "shot" tastes like flat sprite lol and I still puked. Also was strapped to the arm boards but they didn't tell me why and I fully panicked.

[@alejandrabaidoc9314]

I would panic too!!

[@alohilanizapata53]

...I could have sworn I heard from someone else they changed the thing about the rooms being cold- they started putting in heaters or warmers, something, because they found out that in fact more women were getting infections due to the coldness of the room. ?

[@basicbaroque]

This is how I feel about C-section. If I need it, I want it. I told my midwife, I'd prefer to do vaginal birth, but want an epidural on standby. If the baby is in danger, get her out of there. We're doing this thing. Natural birth is cool, lots of people do it. I respect it... But I'm a modern woman in modern times. I'm leaving that hospital with a baby, not a medal. Give me the technological advances. 😂

[@ashleymcdermid5325]

100% agree. Mostly why I don't have a birth plan, I just want to leave with a happy and healthy baby.

[@basicbaroque]

@@ashleymcdermid5325 Yes! I thought I was the only person with no birth plan! Haha If I leave with a healthy baby, I'll be happy. No matter how she gets here. The only thing I truly have control over is how I handle the situation. And that's to stay as calm and positive as I can. Easier said than done, but thankfully we have a lot of options now!

[@ascendednightingale2456]

I went through my entire pregnancy never even considering a c section. My son was born via emergency c section and spent 3 days in NICU. Don’t do what I did. Consider other possibilities. If I had been prepared for what happened, I wouldn’t have had so much trouble with postpartum depression afterwards.

[@robynmiller1370]

What would be an average doctors c section rate?

[@cheyenneearp7857]

Yess! I’ve been waiting for this!

[@daniellew.8109]

This video came 2 weeks too late for me. All of this info was extremely accurate according to my experience.

[@veroniquejb5361]

Thank you for this vidéo! I need video #2 & 3 because I'm pregnant with twin girls at 34 weeks and bb2 have her head up.... and she's BIG (more than 95 percentil)... In 2 weeks I have an echographie and they will confirm us if we plan a C section at 38 weeks on the 24 or 26 or april (du date may 9) Please tell us more about the recovery part ! Thank you so much your vidéo are awesome because you are!😊😉❤ I'm from Canada in the province of Québec (french speaking) Montréal

[@megangonzales1163]

Thank you for this video! I’m 39+2 days and have made no progress with labor. Cervix is still completely closed & my doctor said if I make no progress by 40 weeks we’ll have to discuss an induction which is really upsetting to be quite honest with you. I really want a vaginal birth but know a c section is still a possibility if needed & I know I can’t control that but the thought of it gives me so much anxiety. At least I know what will be going on so thank you!