CHANGING MY LIFE IN 2024/ESCAPE THE SYSTEM!

[@rochellethundercloud346]

I was an80's child,and the television shows back then ,even to the 90's were way more family friendly than today. Back then,kids didn't need supervision 24/7 Playgrounds were literal death traps. Our babysitting was "lock the door,do not answer,do not answer the phone, I best not see nobody here" We rode our bikes all over,drank right from the hose,stayed out until streetlights came on.and we had a healthy dose of act right

[@halstonandharleys]

Yes, that was my childhood too! I am glad I got to be a part of the last great generation before the internet/cell phones!

[@heavensstars4025]

I hear you on it all! I am right with ya! This is like living in the twighlight zone.🤯

[@misschristy7020]

A few years older here. We used to go to the mall and get coffee then just sit and people watch. It was a big thing to do that up until smartphones took over. Before smartphones, people looked at each other, engaged eyes and facial expressions. We talked to each other and had genuine human interaction. God, I miss that so much 😢

[@halstonandharleys]

Yes, the genuine human interaction was what made us feel alive and connected on some level. Thank you so much for commenting and sharing your thoughts here!

[@benyoung889]

Excellent commentary ... Hello from Kent, England (on the South East coast, just outside London) . I was born in '71 (so, firmly Gen-X) and quit my well paid senior-management role in 2019. Now I work part-time as a bicycle mechanic , and make less than half the money . ...... and yet I'm twice as happy. I got rid of my expensive watch, my smart-phone, my suits and ties, Facebook , Linked-In, and everything else that made me feel like a pathetic corporate slave . If you don't need it, and it doesn't bring you joy, then throw (or give) it away . People are definitely sad, angry and depressed thesdays , but it's far worse than just that ....... people are just numb . They don't care anymore .... and they don't FEEL anything about anything . They're totally ambivalent about everything that SHOULD matter . They know the difference between right and wrong, but there is no incentive to even try to be a decent person anymore, because nobody gives a sh*t . We;re all just caught in the trap, and then we die . I've tried to narrow down my own life to a the handful of things that really matter, and truly make me happy .......... It doesn't cost much at all . A bike ride, a walk in the woods , a stroll along the beach, and a cold beer in my garden with a close friend. The exact same things that made me happy 30 years ago (surprise, surprise) . I was broke then, and I'm still broke now, so what was the point of it all ? All those wasted years. Find out what makes you truly happy, and then only ever do those few things, and nothing else :-) Good luck on your journey ........ all of you.

[@halstonandharleys]

Mind blown!! Thank you for such a profound response and for sharing your very true thoughts on this subject matter!! Yes, no one seems to care, nothing matters but buy more crap you don't need and stare at your cell phone for hours every day. I am not one of those people and am rewinding myself back to when I was happier, just like you did!

[@gwenbrowne9900]

I've walked at our local mall for 20 yrs, except during the Pandemic. It was always a pleasant experience and people would make eye contact, smile and say 'Hi' or 'Good Morning". Now, people won't even make eye contact, let alone say 'Morning' or anything. You're right--people just seem to be not happy anymore. Sad.

[@angelac320]

I can relate to everything you are saying. I am a 1972 baby. Spent lots of time at the mall and skating rink. I really miss those days, too.

[@halstonandharleys]

Yes!! We went to the roller rink every Wednesday night and it was the best time ever!!

[@TraceyBergum]

Wendy I am just a few years older than you and after losing my Grammy, my bonus daughter, and my sweet border terrier all within a few years having my uncle steal the money my gram wanted me to have that would have given my security for my older age and losing my job to the 2020 BS and having to piece meal together side gigs to make ends meet I have had enough I am in the midst of selling and giving away almost everything I own and going tiny. I did everything right I worked hard multiple jobs, paid my bills paid off my college loans, paid in full car, took care of my family and elder family members who were sick and broke, helped people when they needed help, took care of animals, I have always done the "right" thing and now at 60 I see there is no way that normal average people will survive the coming S-storm that our government has caused. I'm done I don't want stuff I want peace! I just love your down to earth frankness in the videos you do. You are an awesome lady God bless you!

[@halstonandharleys]

I am so very sorry for your losses. Peace is what most of us want for sure. And yes, the shit storm caused by the government has really been a nightmare for a lot of people just trying to survive. God bless you and Happy Holidays!

[@karlaharvey2623]

I’m 62, and am a home body. Buttttt I was a contract nurse and traveled for several yrs and part of those yrs, I lived in my 5th wheel and absolutely loved it. I would park on the lake for months, then move else where. It was a great life. Would love to live in a 5th wheel again. I live in an appt now and it’s got its pros and cons. But Wendy, you go for it! I can’t wait to see what and where you end up. I can’t handle going to Walmart anymore. It’s crazy. I order my groceries and p/u. It’s sad though as I use to run into friends and co workers and even chat with a stranger. Not anymore. Like you said, everyone had there phone to their ear. No one smiles and or says a kind hello; excuse me etc. anyways look forward to coming along with your “ New Journey”.

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you so much for sharing your story here with everyone!

[@sambowz9077]

You are my new crush! 🥰 In the 1990's I lived on a 3 x 7 mile island in the Western Pacific. Nearest telephone was 2 hours away by boat, we only had electricity from 6 pm to midnight. You could see every star in the sky! Sometimes I wish I had never left.

[@mycharles3340]

I'm 50 and I hate my government job. The employees there are uneducated, jealous, lazy, and childish jerks! Been there 20 years. I have a huge mortgage and have to live frugally.

[@alisaaustin8431]

I'm 57, a few years ago, I went through a lot of hell to the point where I said, "That's it. I'm going to Ireland!" I had a fear of flying, but at the rate things were going, I was going to die anyway. I realized that all the hell was a sign from the universe. This week, I was rear-ended on the freeway. I told the officer that it was a sign to move. I contacted a real estate agent. Yeah, I was like you. I retired early from my government job. I was surrounded by woke people who were against the Constitution and wanted staff to all think the same. Now I am writing a book.

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and comments and I will buy your book when it gets published!

[@alisaaustin8431]

@@halstonandharleys ♥

[@GravityGoods]

What is your definition of “woke”?

[@PhoenixRising2018]

I'm not ready to sell my house at this point but I totally agree with you💯 I recognize the MATRIX and try to find ways not to get got up! No one even stops to think if any of this stuff is real or realize that they are in the maze. Clearly there has been a continued deterioration in our society. I refuse to give up my morals/values. It's like a battle of good & evil out here! I started seeking ways to maintain my happiness by exploring travel to places less consumed with materialism. I hope the best for you on your journey. And BTW, I too, am sick of seeing lazy pajama wearing people out in public!

[@halstonandharleys]

100% agree with you and thank you so much for sharing! Yes, I live/die by my morals/values as well and don't care what anyone else thinks!

[@bbbae5968]

In America we pay close to 60% of our paychecks to taxes. Taxes for federal, state, property, sales, etc. That's huge. You only get to keep 40% of your money. I don't believe people realize that. It's highway robbery. We are slaves to the system. My husband has been trying to find a part time job but doesn't get called back. I know there are jobs out there but what's going on? I'm right there with you Wendy. I have also planned a no spend year. I'm in the same age bracket still working and I just want to save my money for investments and I really don't need anything else. Great video.

[@halstonandharleys]

Exactly - a slave to a very corrupt system. Thank you for commenting and I hope your husband finds his perfect part time job soon!

[@greensorrel6860]

Even if your home.is paid off, younever own it, property taxes have increased rapidly in my area , many pay whatbuses to constitute as rent for property taxes alone.

[@ronmills6244]

Wendy, cell phones addiction is as real as a drug addiction, or any other addiction you can think of. People don't even realize they have a problem because everyone is just like them. It's sad. People don't have any hobbies or anything to keep them occupied. Their cell phone is their entire life. They are boring as hell. I do remember people back in the 70's and 80's that smiled and looked like they were happy. Like you say, they look like zombies now. I get the fact you want to escape the matrix. I retired last year, and its not what I thought it would be. I too have thought about selling my home and living in my suv to break the monotony. Society in general has gone so far down the tubes. I was watching an old game show the other day from the 80's, and noticed how well dressed the contestants were and how well they carried themselves. People just don't care anymore, and people like us are the minority now. Good luck to you in your new adventures next year.

[@halstonandharleys]

Yes, 100%! Thank you for sharing your thoughts here with everyone. We are on an uphill battle here and I am glad I am not addicted to my cell phone, barely use it or look at for that matter. I still get dressed nicely every day, even if I am working from home. I have respect for myself and pride in my appearance. Happy Holidays to you!

[@icequeen7025]

It’s been hard functioning with what’s going on in the world ! I’m in my 20s and idk how it’ll be in the future. Inflation Prices , war, climate. It’s hard

[@sambowz9077]

Things today remind me of the 1970's inflation, gas shortage, war, it will get better. 😁👍

[@icequeen7025]

@@sambowz9077 it still seems like the same conditions as you are describing but repeating. So i can’t trust you that it does…

[@justsayin397]

Hi Wendy wow …was born in 1964 and I totally agree with everything you are saying. The cell phone addition is making zombies of everyone. Even at funerals people have them out recording how “sad”they are. I make a point of smiling and saying hello to people. It’s amazing how some people (usually younger) look startled when a stranger says “good morning”. People do seem sad and fed up and miserable but it’s no wonder because there is no “depth” to their existence. I totally agree with the job interview situation too … you literally have to jump hoops to get a shitty job paying peanuts that often doesn’t even pay enough to keep a roof over your head or food on the table. People need to wake up and get their noses out of their cell phones and see what’s going on around them. I’m glad some of us are waking up and smelling the rises!

[@sambowz9077]

@@icequeen7025 Things move in circular cycles, You will see. 😊

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you so much for sharing your comments here with us! I haven't done a job interview for over 13 years, and I am not about to start now. My plan is to go into business for myself. I may work more, but it will be for me and not some other unappreciative person that wouldn't bat an eyelash telling me I am no longer employed with them. I have lived through downsizing, been laid off, etc. Glad we are fully awake and have been for a long time! Cheers!

[@cmockingjay7265]

RV living gets old and expensive. I’ve owned two and the maintenance gets expensive. At least if you have a home base or if your home is paid off you have security in your old age. Nomad is good while it lasts until it ends.

[@simplycreativerobin]

You are so right about human connection! I struggle in this word as far as that goes. If its not on facebook, it didnt happen, texting has replaced actual phone calls. The world has gone mad, I try to stay in my "retro" world. The population is small, however. Great video, Wendy.

[@sapphireblue222]

You haven't traveled and you're already 55 years old? Oh, that has to change! Don't be afraid...most people don't bite.

[@halstonandharleys]

Lol! I have traveled a bit, but not to Europe yet!

[@cor3944]

Absolutely comprehensible. After the last years of lockdowns people should rethink their life and reclaim their freedom. Life is short. People were and are pushed into self learned helplessness. So action is very therapeutic and sane. Greetings from Europe ❤

[@halstonandharleys]

Yes! Life is very short and we only get one chance at it! Happy Holidays!

[@wendycaran8267]

Hi Wendy, another late 1960’s baby here, I agree with what your saying entirely, it’s as if you have read my mind 😆

[@stephaniet9264]

60's baby here as well!

[@Cassieroll]

Me too! @@stephaniet9264

[@patriciahare846]

I'm in my 40's and I'm already feeling exhausted by this system (working since 14). Every day is the same story. I went to college late in life to change my career and was too scared to move on. I admire your courage to seek something different.

[@evelynbarry5046]

Gosh Wendy, you sound like me! I am from Canada and was working, getting paid decent, but the house repairs were costing me a lot and car expenses, not to mention the weather. All I could think it was 'do I really want to PAY to live here"? I have so many friends that were questioning the same thing but I am the only one to leave.

[@cherylT321]

Where did you end up?

[@evelynbarry5046]

@cherylt.8374 oh, I ended up on the beach in Egypt for 5 years. I was shocked to find loads of expats! I stuck around because it was easy to use English , the visa was easy to get and cost of living is so good I was able to actually save money. Now we are in Cairo because my son wanted the school experience, I'm an older mom. But still living around $1000 per month

[@cherylT321]

@@evelynbarry5046 That’s wonderful!

[@stephaniet9264]

It's been my experience that people stay put because of their children and grandchildren only to find out that they have lives too and can't spend all of their time with grandma or grandpa.

[@halstonandharleys]

This is fantastic and thank you so much for sharing with everyone!!

[@nickyginn9137]

Over here in the UK, taxes and cost of living is the highest its ever been in over 70 years. Everyone is miserable and tired. It's a tiredness I have never noticed in people until now. So much is changing. I have done a big clear out of stuff and took out my small private pension last year when I was 55. I was being bullied at work and thought, do I really need this? The work place has become so toxic. I've enjoyed some wonderful travels since. ❤❤

[@halstonandharleys]

I have seen that too. And yes, it is a tiredness, just plain weariness for a lot of people all over the world. Good for you on your travels!! Happy Holidays!

[@jstanders6973]

Same here Nicky, so similar. I'm coming up 55 soon in UK and it is bizarre how so many, all ages, all over the world are feeling the same. It feels impossible to feel any joy. I'm so tired and miserable, work is stressful and I feel like I'm DONE. We are in big trouble the world over. Good luck to you, I hope all this darkness passes 🙏

[@BrettKuntz]

If you venture out, be very careful and cautious in your new surroundings. The world is not a safe and friendly place anymore. I plan to de-clutter in the year of 2024 and get a better attitude about my job. I have 2.5 years to go till retirement; it (the time) will drag if I don't just make myself enjoy it.

[@nancyrussell6096]

Funny that I found your KZbin video at this moment. I am 58 years old, struggling and stuff. I’m like you I want to get rid of most of what I have it’s smothering me I keep saying if I have to work one more hour to have one more thing then I don’t want anything else, my daughter just called and said mom what do you want for Christmas and I honestly could not think of one thing I don’t need anything. I enjoy like you said just sitting there in my house reading a book having a cuppa coffee doing nothing to me my time doing nothing means more than the Almighty dollar, I enjoyed listening to you Friend keep it up

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you so much for your thoughts and sharing your story here. Happy Holidays!

[@universaltruth2025]

Only thing is - what happens when you turn 80 and don’t have the energy to travel around.. 🤔

[@Laney_75]

I think so many of us are sick of the game of capitalism & debt. I'd like to see more of the world too. Between struggling adult kids & elderly parents (caretaking them) I just wonder sometimes where to find motivation. Feeling burnt out, such the theme of 2023.

[@suncat991]

It’s not just Capitalism and debt - at least in this system we have the freedom to move around and embrace our free will. With the encroaching Socialist/Communist regime we are now under here in the United States we will lose all of our freedoms and free will - I’d rather be in a bit of debt and live in a free capitalist society, as opposed to the “you will own nothing, be restricted (or denied) movement, and you will like it” scenario of Socialist/communist/Global elitist regimes. Just look at the CCP in China, Socialist regimes like Venezuela, or Islamic regimes around the world.

[@universaltruth2025]

@@suncat991 Agree. taking away the ability to exercise personal agency or even possibility to change and improve people’s lives and circumstances will kill motivation and lead to apathy and depression. “Equality” sounds good in theory, but if its enforced by the govt it takes away the incentive to strive to change one’s circumstance. People are hierarchical and competitive in nature as well as being cooperative and interdependent . Capitalism seems the only economic system that can meet those two innate needs. The elite sell the idea of a communist utopia where everyone is on some mythical level playing field where there are no hierarchies. And the woke leftists fall for it. But all that happens is that the hierarchies get shifted from a more organic form to those that are artificially imposed and that everyone pretends don’t exist. And taking away the individual incentive to improve in the process.

[@donnaheule5275]

You are so spot on Wendy! I just love your mindset and I’m looking forward to your new journey. 👍😀

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you so much!

[@steviegenoski9977]

It's nice to reach the point that you have everything you need. It took a while but I have 0 debt and everything I own is paid for. Property taxes, fuel, utilities, internet and food are the only expenses I have right now. I've stocking up on solar panels and batteries and added a second 300 gallon propane tank. The plan is to be energy self sufficient by next year. I have a garden and a greenhouse that provides produce year round. I'm nesting. I did a lot of traveling and adventuring when I was younger so I don't feel compelled to do it now. There are still a few places I'd like to go but I don't have the same desire for travel that I once did. I'm sorry you didn't wake up to the scam sooner. As Gen-Xers we were told that if we worked hard and sacrificed, we would succeed in life so that's what we did. Nose to the grindstone. It was a lie.

[@Anne-pk8gs]

I would say you are a well prepared success.

[@halstonandharleys]

Wonderful sharing here! I knew it was a scam long ago, just didn't really think I could get out from under it. Now I do! Happy Holidays to you and yours!

[@kiskakuznetsova503]

And if you're a woman -- esp Gen X, where we know and saw how the previous generations of women were basically endentured servants (and some really were) -- it's especially tough to get away from the hamster wheel. We're purposefully kept at subsistance level. Women are discouraged from going after what would make us self-sufficient in this society. I had a landlord literally ruin my gardens every year by paying another tenant to kill my plants. Some people who have just enough, like an urban landlord, are threatened by people they think should be grateful for what they have (a single female tenant shouldn't fly too close to the sun and request to grow a garden on an empty 5x5 plot) and will take action against someone who dares to gain stability not offered by the mainstream. I wish people understood how common this is. You have to hide your plans to do this because many, many people who live mainstream are offended that you think differently. It's a primal threat to them. @@halstonandharleys

[@twilatharp3386]

Thank you for sharing, Wendy. I think more and more of us feel the way you do.

[@NomadJane]

I agree with. you. Be real. I think life should be an adventure. I was never much a part of the system or a consumer. As a nomad for 45 years, visited or lived in all 50 states, and in 9 countries, while not extensive it has been fun and exciting. Never had any debt but don't have any money either now at 64 and trying to live on the $1000 month....but there are ways. Those that have nice homes, cars and clothes great, so maybe don't listen to me-old and broke but with lots of fun stories and headed to South America again in two weeks.

[@CydPiper]

TRUTH! Preach it Sista! THUMBS UP! Everything you said is so TRUE especially working for the man at 65yo myself, next Spring for me and only because I do have to pay off some unexpected debt. Like you stated, I have all I really need and although I wish to find a partner, I am also happy being alone if it comes down to it. Perhaps sell everything off or give it away and hit the road myself. Keep up the great video work either way Wendy. Luv ya, Cyn ❤

[@halstonandharleys]

Dearest sister! Thank you for your thoughts and sharing your story with everyone here. I am right there with you - while I love my 'things' that make me smile when I look at them/use them - in the end they are just things! Hugs to you!!

[@CydPiper]

@@halstonandharleys HUGZ BACK AT YA XO

[@sandikaye]

You have spoken the truth that so many of us feel but are afraid to admit to or are afraid to seek out alternatives. I found you on your no friends video, and I swear we would be great friends! 😂 I hope you do whatever makes you happy, regardless of what anyone else thinks! I’m going to join you on the no spend commitment. I’ve been working towards it in 2023, but 2024 is the year I stop! I’m tired of being broke to have crap I don’t actually need. Keep up the videos! Love your honesty 😊

[@halstonandharleys]

Well said! We can do this for sure!!

[@stephaniet9264]

Wow Wendy! Thank you for all your videos and this particular video strikes a cord for sure. So many similarities that are too many to mention. Hamster on a wheel existence is not for me either. It seems like zombieland out there and nearly impossible to talk to a person in a supermarket or on the street like I was once able to do. Having heads looking down on a cell phone is certainly not condusive to stiking up a conversation. Glad I subscribed to your channel.

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you so much for being a part of this wonderful community and sharing your thoughts with everyone!

[@dianneweaver4809]

I totally understand what you're saying. I sold my house and now live in a one bedroom apartment where someone else takes care of all the maintenance. I travel when I want to and don't have to worry about anything. It's freeing.

[@halstonandharleys]

Precisely! Thank you for sharing!

[@mayapapaya77]

I love this. I like my house but i need a change too but its scary, but also exciting.

[@strategicservices9906]

Hi Wendy: I was in Walmart today. One woman was wearing her Pajamas and it was 3 pm. Another guy was wearing a skirt and he stunk to high hell.

[@halstonandharleys]

I try not to go there, but am limited in my options where I live. I feel like I am at the circus when I go there, but in all reality, clowns dress better!

[@cathyandresiak]

I would be afraid to just sell my house and hit the road. I am 66 and my house is paid for, finally. I often think I would like to live in an apartment but they are so expensive compared to no house payment. I am retired and work part time where I can choose my own hours and work when I want. I do know what you are saying about the lack of human connection though and these awful companies that treat their employees like crap, I was a nurse for years and it got so bad I retired. Good luck to you, will love to see your journeys!

[@tbacon2784]

What kind of place can you choose your own hours and work when you want?

[@cathyandresiak]

@@tbacon2784 Some of the nursing agencies, uber, PaPa Pal.

[@katy6112-8]

​@@tbacon2784Check merchandising jobs in your area. 🙂

[@melodyw1917]

Spot on ! I’m 50 and live in UK. It’s exactly the same here, everyone on phones, no sense of community anywhere. People don’t even look at you when you walk past them in the street everyone’s in their own world ..I’m considering buying a canal barge to get off grid .

[@kelleytatman6977]

Interesting to get someone's input who lives 'across-the-pond' as to what it's like socially there. I live in a large city and it's become bi-lingual so cannot converse well with just anyone .

[@lucywhitmore9]

Just be careful, when I took time off, I messed up my career and it was hard to get back into the game, I thought I had enuf $ but then all kinds of unexpected bills popped up and that was the end of my early retirement, and now I'm my 60s I'm working again. Be careful. I wish I'd touched it out cuz now I could have a decent retirement, so I messed up. Don't listen to me

[@universaltruth2025]

I know what you mean. I stopped working when I had my third child 12 years ago. My husband has been the sole breadwinner. Now at 52 when I have applied for jobs all my work experience before that seems to count for nothing, its as though I have no degree and no work experience when I look for work - I don’t even get short listed. I need to find work though as times are getting tougher so will keep looking.

[@michaelstiller8498]

Yes…3 years ago in Dollar Tree trying to pick out some nice cards to send….a lady comes up behind me…stands right behind me talking on her phone. Where I could hear her whole conversations..I did say something to her, but she was real smarty pants. No I did not escalate the situation.

[@sharmsong]

I love this Wendy. Really resonating with you with all you say. My husband and I were talking recently about how convenience has really screwed over experience. Getting things delivered to our door, instead of going to the shops. I remember record shops, and book shops, and going to Blockbuster to rent a movie. Waking up in time to get to the store before it opened to buy a hair dye because I wanted to *impulsively* dye my hair a random colour. Impulse nowadays has not the same meaning at all. We had the same problems back then, but at least we were actually interacting. The only way we could communicate was to go to our friends and neighbours doors and actually talk to them. On the flip side, the internet has provided me with an outlet to a career I never thought I could have as an independent singer and songwriter - albeit lonely. But it suits my personality and mh as someone who copes better alone. It is both a blessing and a curse.

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you for commenting and sharing your story here with everyone! Yes, I think the internet is both sides of the coin - good and bad.

[@melancholikak6844]

If souls had dopplegangers, I think you might be mine!! This hit home so hard (many of your videos do) but this one frighteningly so. I am 54 too and really just want to be a nomad/drifter. Done with corporate America, done with too much stuff, done with meaningless and superficial relationships, and done with regrets and not meeting my goals with all the things I wanted to learn or lost opportunities when younger due to messed up childhood, relationships, and lack of my own growth. Want to move forward as fast as possible because like you said no one knows our last day. Living like this is soul-crushing and I feel trapped and squelched. The only difference is I found a goal book that actually had me set intentions and segment backward to plug tiny steps into a planner by calendar day and it holds me accountable. Those things rarely if ever work for me but this young lady made a great vision book/goal book that actually is sensible and WORKED for me. I just now need to realign my desires appropriately to meet the long term goals of maybe buying an RV and skipping town!!! Oh yeah and the issue of what to do for work and not being around my 4 adult kids...lol.

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with everyone and we are on the same wavelength as I think a lot of us are! Done with all the BS and just wanting to break free from the chains that hold us down! Happy Holidays and hugs to you!

[@taurahelms3068]

You and I have some of the same ideas. For some reason, I just bought a lot of shoes that I am never going to wear. Since I am starting up my soap business in 2024, the bulk of my money will be funneled into that venture. I am waiting for the rains to die down a bit before going back to Goodwill this spring. A lot of stuff has got to go. I even told people to stop buying me Christmas presents or presents of any kind. My friend is going to sell some of my vintage stuff for me. Shopping will be for my soapmaking, groceries, and necessities only. Some stuff for my dad in Alabama. Thats it. I wish you and the cats the best on your new adventure

[@NettiieB]

that sounds like a great plan. Where will you sell the vintage items?

[@halstonandharleys]

Awe, thank you so much for the gift, you are so generous! I will donate that to my local animal rescue. What kind of soap are you making? I too, am thinking of having someone sell all my vintage stuff for me so I can take that extra cash and invest it. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts here with everyone. Happy Holidays to you and yours as well!

[@taurahelms3068]

@@NettiieB My friend will likely sell them on the road for me. 😌

[@taurahelms3068]

@halstonandharleys my soap will vary but will mostly consist of distilled water, olive oil, Shea butter, castor, and coconut oil.

[@janetjaken1389]

I am with you, Wendy Marie! This is the greatest challenge. My spending has been so out of control. I am exactly like you. I have everything I could possibly want and then some. I will follow your lead and donate away. I can't wait til next year to see how we have done 👍👍

[@halstonandharleys]

Yes! I agree-I am very frugal with my money, but that doesn't mean we get out of control sometimes too and have to break that addiction! WE will rock this in 2024!

[@lisak7214]

Love this video, Wendy! You took the words right out of my mouth. I’m a prisoner of the corporate world and I absolutely hate it! Every day I want to find a way to get out of this trap. I’m lucky in that I’m not a shopper. I take care of things so they last forever. I just have to come up with a plan so I can leave this job and start enjoying life like I did when I was younger. I’m looking forward seeing how you make out with your new adventures! You are such an inspiration.

[@halstonandharleys]

Oh, thank you! We are all full of inspiration - we just have to tap into that magic we had when we were younger and felt free and just had a hell of a lot of fun!

[@lotuspetal959]

I agree with you about the phone problem . My daughter born in 89 is rude about communication It was a super weird adjustment for me. You have collected some beautiful things. I have downsized about a fourth or a third so far.I am getting rid of stuff but I would come to Mo to your thrift shops if I lived closer. I live in Pa in small town .interesting topic

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with everyone!

[@Tracer3]

Omg I totally relate to Everything you were saying, I think exactly the same. I'm already making a huge change in my life now. Down sizeing, getting rid of 'Stuff' I really dont need...I don't want a house and stuff...sick of maintaining it all. I'm outta here and free myself up and go live some life. I 'Hear you totally'.

[@halstonandharleys]

Yes!!! This! Thank you for sharing and commenting here. I wish you the best on your new adventure!

[@juliemaloy2138]

I relate 100%. Keep up the great videos! You are an inspiration! 😊

[@steviegenoski9977]

Lol. Glad I kept watching. I started learning to play guitar 2 years ago at age 52.

[@halstonandharleys]

That is amazing!!

[@taralorna1981]

I hear you Wendy! I try to like my job and have a positive attitude about it but, i still have that desire to have my own life.

[@qq1651]

I even sold my townhome when I was 53 cuz it was more responsibility and work than I wanted. It was also too much space. My new husband had an older condo that we CAN leave for 3 months at a time and it will be fine. We will have it paid off before we turn 65 in less than 5 years and then we just pay HOA fees and they take care of everything, and anything that isnt covered by them is covered by a cheap renters policy. I also practice daily gratitude, because someone always has it worse than we do and I want to remember that. Im also hyper aware that tomorrow is not guaranteed, since I was widowed at 49 years old. Tomorrow is never guaranteed. So you must be present today and be in the now and be thankful for everything you have no matter how meager.

[@glorialafollette61]

If people don’t work our social security system will collapse and people that didn’t prepare for retirement will starve.

[@kittykatty2898]

I think we have come to the point as humanity where we have produced, stored and got used to have too much stuff, too much of everything. Overconsumption is artificially generated by big corporations as it is what keeps them going. People do not need all that stuff but they think they must have it or want it... The thing is - if majority stops buying , we will slowly go back into no jobs , no pay, poverty and no future world.. There won't be any jobs left if we all go self-sufficient , minimalistic and recyclable ... It's a vicious circle. And what majority needs to buy is food - we are not self producing our food anymore, as humanity. We are buying it - and for that we need money... And to earn money we need to have jobs, so we need to produce and sell sell sell - do you see what I mean? I am all for not buying any more stuff , but there is a bigger picture behind it. Greetings and blessings for 2024!xxx

[@missylearned9821]

You did a good job of presenting a synopsis of how our economy works and why it will ultimately end (probably very soon) in its present form of the last 100 years with metropolises and then globalism at its center. Perhaps it will go back to smaller villages/communities producing whatever it is their needs require and exchanging (bartering?) their goods on a micro level.

[@halstonandharleys]

Precisely - I am fully aware of the predicament we are in and no end in sight. Thank you for sharing your wonderful insights!

[@nickyginn9137]

Great comment ❤

[@Johanna-uw9vy]

More greetings from South East England! I loved this. So good to know I am not alone in my feelings about the current situation. Good on you Wendy. Xx

[@halstonandharleys]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@devotacianci5489]

Hi Wendy, If I lived in your state I’d be your faithful friend, for sure. I can relate so much… So much to say, I know how you feel. Just be certain you want to sell your home. I know that having a home is both a blessing and a curse in so many ways; you have to balance these on paper and on your mind too. Possibly you may want to go part-time with your job. Work is a burn/out; I think no one should have to work 40 plus hours a week. Life has to be in balance and people really can’t do that working so many hours. Just my 2 cents. Keep up the channel! We need to talk some more.

[@carolineschlichting1618]

Wow, I can sooooo relate to everything that you are saying. I was doing my groceries the other day and the sadden faces on everyone there shopping was so eerie. Love your channel. Keep us posted on your journey 👍

[@halstonandharleys]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@BeckyJusto]

I so relate!!!! We are very similar. Thank you.

[@IdaMaySmith]

Preach it sister! 🙌🏼

[@IdaMaySmith]

And I so can relate! 52 year old lady here! Sick of it!!!!!

[@theresae.2183]

OMG! so true everything you've said.is my thoughts to and I'm 68 years old..

[@simplyme922]

Right on! Everything. All that. I'm with you on a complete no buy. I have absolutely everything I need. Too much actually.

[@pattycake8272]

I am getting burnt out on my job but i know me and i have to wait for a sighn to move on, if i make the decision on my own it never works out.

[@InfinitelyGrateful]

Wendy, you are such a gem! I can relate to every word of this video. And to hear you mention....well let's just go with (insert words here that may get your vid flagged lol)...wow. You know! I'm so over how the world is and where it is headed. I did no buy year in 2021 and loved it ....especially once it became 2022 😂. Was great accomplishment for me though. Have you ever thought of organizing a get together? I'd totally be up for that. I have zero in common anymore with even friends I've had since I was little. I feel like an alien on this planet lately. I often think about hearing Wayne Dyer speak of Tolstoy's book The Death of Ivan Ilyich ... the character in the book is on his death bed and starts thinking what if his whole life was wrong, etc. Chills... Blessings to you! Have a good one ❤

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you so much for your kind words and sharing your thoughts here! I have some ideas in the works for a get together-it will be online, but that is okay as women from anywhere can join in! Happy Holidays!

[@dragonwarrior9346]

Agree 💯 with you!!!!

[@a1waystreet-j86]

Hi Wendy so glad your channel popped up in my feed. Wow did your thoughts resonate with me. Can’t wait to see what positive changes occur over the next year for you and the rest of us✌️

[@SirenaSpades]

I think you can escape it in many countries across the world, at least half the world is not involved in this nonsense. I too try to talk to people in public and make people smile, and just make a point of speaking to people. Older people do the same to me.

[@BlueJeansandJellyBeans]

You literally read my mind....😂❤ Everything you say is so true.

[@Cassieroll]

PREACH ON SISTER!!!! We are the same age. I said to my daughter two weeks ago that I am doing a no buy year. I am also super burned out at my job. I'm so tired of the grind. My husband is set to retire in the next year. I really want to retire soon as well.

[@halstonandharleys]

Exactly!! We weren't put on this beautiful planet to live lives of quiet desperation and have the soul sucked out of us!!

[@GreenGal53]

Wonderful hearing someone else who thinks what I am thinking.

[@jayalexander3356]

I've watched several of your videos and I think we might be the same person. And I felt everything you said on this video.

[@lozzalozza3391]

Agree with EVERYTHING you say. Thank you for saying what a lot are thinking but are too scared to say to the " normies" , aka sheep.

[@halstonandharleys]

There may be a lot of things to be scared of in this world, me speaking my mind has never been one of those things. Hugs to you!

[@banthony8545]

You are the best! Loved hearing this.

[@halstonandharleys]

Wow, thank you!

[@kittykatty2898]

Wendy, you are a real gem! I'm thankful as I do not meet people like you anymore.. What happened to people? to their brains, minds, characters? I think it is all part of the plan, people are being programmed to obedient , non-thinking sheep , they are also being chemically " adjusted", all these chemicals in the food, water and the air.. It is starting to show. Blessings to you and thank you for that video🙏🏻I'm your friend from afar

[@halstonandharleys]

I fully agree and thank you so much for your kind words and sharing your thoughts here!! Happy Holidays!

[@cherylbailey6161]

Good morning from Missouri. I just stumbled up on your KZbin page. And I love the title loving everything you were saying six minutes into your video❤

[@halstonandharleys]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@sharonerenaldo3466]

I truly Believe in Devine Intervention. I was thinking Like you and now I know I am not wrong in my thoughts. Thank you and I wish you All of God's Blessings in whatever or wherever you may journey. Thanks.

[@leisure057blank3]

I gotta say, they are recording this young singer I have become obsessed with, so I get to see bits of all of his concerts and i love it. I don’t understand how people are living without working though.

[@susannicole5176]

One of your best videos so far. You would be great as a personal assistant to someone or errands for people. Decent money, plus you could make your own schedule, and meet and help lots of people.

[@halstonandharleys]

Wow, thank you!

[@Spot4art]

You showed up on my feed and I am saying yes to everything you said. So I am now subscribed.

[@halstonandharleys]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@donna-elizabeth]

Hi Wendy. I'm totally with you on everything you say! I often think about the subjects you have spoken about. We come from a generation that is lucky enough to have experienced a world that is free from tech and social media...yet we are still young enough to take away the best bits of today's strange era - one example is pursuing other avenues than the 9-5 which was all we knew in our time. We are a special generation because we have experienced both times. You talk a lot of sense and I think your voice is so important to many people across many generations. Our generation needs to speak out to the young ones as they know no different to this era. I really hope this video goes viral for all to hear 🤍 I look forward to seeing your journey. Best Wishes. Donna from the UK.

[@halstonandharleys]

Hello from across the pond and thank you so much for sharing and commenting your very valuable insight here! We are so blessed to have lived before the tech time came about. Happy Holidays!

[@donna-elizabeth]

@@halstonandharleys Thanks so much. Happy Holidays to you too 🎅

[@melvellousearrings5047]

I truly enjoyed listening to you Thanks Sending good wishes from Australia x

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you so much!

[@paulmarsh2171]

Brilliant video, so relatable for me

[@halstonandharleys]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@leslieclaire]

Right on! Good for you! I look forward to hearing about all the new things you discover!

[@pattycake8272]

I say that more kids today were born into daycare and then strait into school. If i seen kids with certain things i felt i was not good enough because i was poor. Living in a small town i think i see things a bit differently when it comes to the young, because the phone thing is the young and old.

[@barefootpony]

Awesome talk, enjoyed hearing you, ❤

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you! 🤗

[@kelleytatman6977]

This is a unique resolution to use what clothing you already have....a year will go by fast. I've been doing similar with my car for about 6 months (so far) where each time a month passes by I'm glad I didn't give in to my inclination to replace it with a new car. Because it still runs for me....thinking of the $$$ saved!

[@halstonandharleys]

You can do it!

[@sailcatthecat972]

Its a sad state of affairs. I'm so blessed I found my passion at a young age and that has sustained me thru life's ups and downs and today's insanity. Prayers for you, Wendy.

[@Texasgirlinacrazyworld]

What is your passion?….

[@sailcatthecat972]

@@Texasgirlinacrazyworld windsurfing and snowboarding

[@11Bravo84]

I hear ya.

[@susanrombak7959]

Facts, truth it loud and clear!

[@evelynbarry5046]

😂 Yes! why do people where PJ's outside or gross clothes? What happened to personal grooming?? Even travelling I find Americans wearing their PJ's or weird tights outside. so cringy!

[@halstonandharleys]

Yes-it is like they don't care anymore! I can't even wear my pajamas past 9 am while at home, lol!

[@melancholikak6844]

And the legging phonomena...listen I dont care what people wear but pajamas, leggings that show everything, people do not dress for anything anymore and if you say one word about it you are called a body shamer or a boomer. lol.

[@kvitale7734]

Right on girl❤ . They are all living on government cheese.

[@kelleytatman6977]

Watched again your video coffee-chat~~I mean rootbeer mug chat! LOL. I agree with many of your comments. As far as the "no-buy" challenge I can't do as my clothing collection didn't start out as complete this year. Quick note, I picked up a Lands End cute shirt for $1 at a recent estate sale.

[@kelleytatman6977]

The mention of govt. human experimentation in the past, I believe that did happen and those people were victims.

[@halstonandharleys]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@nikk3251]

Wendy you can drink root beer from a shoe if you like! Another of the perks of solo living 😊💜

[@peterm2152]

nice

[@SashaGogosh]

You're so lovely and I feel less afraid of growing in life on my own watching these videos - also can u do bike videos please :D

[@naturalisthealthwarrior8705]

wow...like does like I was ranting to myself this morning of the same lol

[@joemachine4714]

Ditto 😊

[@NomadJane]

Perhaps if interested there is a channel Moonglow, Noah and Fur Babies that is inspirational about being older, having freedom and life as a nomad with little money.

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you for the tip, I will check out that channel. Happy Holidays!

[@mizlayne6055]

Agree

[@user-js9gn2hw9s]

you are just so cool. My type of person totally. I would love u as a friend:) Love it...I want to play guitar eventually too, but need to learn my keyboard first. Also back at my mandarin lessons....soooo fun!!!!! Anyone wanting to learn a new language....Duolingo is the best!!!!

[@halstonandharleys]

Thank you for the kind words and sharing your comments! I do have Duolingo and have been trying to learn Spanish!

[@user-js9gn2hw9s]

That's great...good for you!!@@halstonandharleys

[@elsarams9402]

Facts 😊

[@MKD319]

great post!

[@halstonandharleys]

Thanks!