Changing Your Mindset in Marriage - Ted Lowe

[@jessyjonas4988]

"Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things." Phillipians 4:8

[@ellees12]

"don't set up to change the other person, just work out on your own attitude." Great wisdoms shared! Thank you FOTF!!😘

[@focusonthefamily]

You're welcome, elle817!

[@joyweaver5261]

Thanks Ted, love how you applied scripture, simple but not easy...but it is the answer! Was so encouraged!!

[@calicochran8782]

Awesome perspective Ted! We’re still growing from your teachings at The Nations of Coaches Marriage Retreat!

[@ednaoliveira1031]

Thank God, thank focus on the family, you rock in helping people and transforming our daily lives, through the work of the Holy Spirit 🙏🎉🎉🎉

[@jessicayoung8530]

Unfortunately sometimes you have to go through some really hard times to realize what really matters and what doesn't.. I used to know a girl that would say you can't appreciate the good times until you have been through the hard times and after 25 years with my husband I know that's true..

[@rosekimbeng9365]

Amen 🙏 Empathy conquers all. No matter what life throws at me Jesus remain the solid rock upon which I stand. Message quite enriching thanks for sharing God bless you all ❤️

[@focusonthefamily]

Thank you for your kind words, Rose Kimbeng.

[@hannawatts8368]

My husband recently and suddenly decided to walk away from our family. What it boiled down to is he stopped viewing any and all interactions in our marriage through a generous lens. This was absolutely devastating to our marriage. This began for him three years ago. The lens that I viewed any negative interactions with him I placed blame or reason outside of him whereas he blamed me directly. So sad… especially for our children.

[@focusonthefamily]

Hanna, we were so sorry to hear about your marital situation. If you’d like to talk with one of our counselors (at no cost to you), call 855-771-HELP (4357) weekdays between 6 A.M. and 8 P.M. (MT). Just give your number to the Family Help Center staff member who answers the phone. They will pass along your phone number to one of our caring Christian counselors. One of them will return your call just as soon as they’re able. We hope to hear from you soon. God's grace and healing to you and your children.

[@hannawatts8368]

@@focusonthefamily oh wow thank you!!

[@pisicacutecat4869]

🙏🙏😔

[@deboraratzlaff8926]

How does invalidation and gaslighting fit into this framework. How long does one spouse tolerate emotional abuse in the name of love?

[@focusonthefamily]

Hi Debora, we'd like to encourage you to call us at 855-771-HELP (4357) weekdays between 6 A.M. and 8 P.M. (MT) to talk with one of our counselors (at no cost to you.) In the meantime, please know you're in our prayers.

[@jessyjonas4988]

Mimic Not mock😶

[@OlafsonN]

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