Finding Sources of Life in Your Marriage | Comedy

Finding Sources of Life in Your Marriage | Comedy | Ted Cunningham

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@gordkornelsen8689 Ай бұрын

My wife and I just celebrated 50 years of marriage! I am sure we would have had more fun if some of this teaching was available earlier on in marriage. I'm sharing this with others. Thankyou for your teaching.

@focusonthefamilymarriage Ай бұрын

We are so glad to hear you enjoyed this episode with Ted Cunningham. It's truly encouraging to know that you have been blessed with 50 years of marriage and appreciate the teachings provided through the message. Thank you for sharing it with others. May the Lord continue to bless you and your wife! -- Jenny M

@tiffanybittman7523 Ай бұрын

Exactly for us too

@alecsgirl Ай бұрын

Thank you! This was just the reminder I needed this morning. Being “unequally yoked” is HARD. Especially with kids. But I know that the only way to find joy and success in any marriage is to find my joy and my peace in my Savior. He alone is the living water.

@christinabehnke4106 Ай бұрын

The way he weaved comedy and God was masterful. What a great message!

@Audrey-k2h Ай бұрын

Have your own life and find what makes you happy Then you can share your life with others No one can be your whole life

@sandrachartier6963 Ай бұрын

No one can fill your hole toake you whole Except you and Source.. love knowing this now... a small part of me wished I had learned it 40 years ago

@Daharpah 29 күн бұрын

My family attends the Church Ted calls home. We have enjoyed many of his messages over the years. He is a champion of the family and marriage. God Bless you Ted!

@premiereteamlacrosse1633 12 күн бұрын

Sadly, my wife is divorcing me. 4 kids. We are both very committed and loving parents. I wanted to work and save our marriage but she wanted to move on. She has lost her Faith. The last few years of our marriage she stopped saying prayers at dinners and stopped helping me support my younger ones’ religious education. Watching this video is very helpful despite our marriage dissolving. Thank you and God Bless.

@focusonthefamilymarriage 11 күн бұрын

We're so sorry you're going through such a difficult time in your marriage @premiereteamlacrosse1633. We're here to come alongside you in any way we can. If you think it may be helpful to talk things over with someone (at no cost to you), please give us a call at 1-800-232-6459. In the meantime, you may find this article helpful- bit.ly/3SItIdb. Please know that our prayers are with you. -Luna H.

@loverofthewordofgod4156 28 күн бұрын

30.5 years of marriage and this is awesome!

@prayingalways777 Ай бұрын

Thank you for the hilarious laughs Pastor Ted 😂 feel so blessed from the joy you've brought to my family 🎉🎉 😊

@lanaeinkheart7597 Ай бұрын

Ok just started this video and already know I’m going to love it. I said haaah right before he said “and the Hebrew term for that is..” and I don’t even have kids. P.S. I had a dirt pile to play with as a kid. (Every kid should have one) My siblings and I would run around barefoot until mom would call us back inside. Such a great way to grow up and we are fine.

@kennies5925 Ай бұрын

I watched this video and the only words I could muttered, “that was amazing.”

@justbc4769 Ай бұрын

First time listening to him. Great message.

@yvonneflood2202 17 күн бұрын

Brilliant preach n teach. So true! God Bless you sir. Wisdom and laughter is good medicine

@arthurblennerhassett429 Ай бұрын

We are a society who blames our parents for our lives and actions.

@Lifetimelearningisbrave 26 күн бұрын

It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life. To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people. If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids those failing is not good enough…as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings) Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction but pretending these adults are just blaming their parents for nothing is hilarious. Amends are needed from parents in mass as our children become adults. Nobody “does it perfectly” so to again gaslight these adults who suffer now is just another slap in these adult children’s face telling them THEY alone are the problem and not daddy’s secret porn addiction or him avoiding the family using work as the excuse or mommy ignoring problems for her comfort cuz she didn’t like conflict. Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way. but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.

@Lifetimelearningisbrave 26 күн бұрын

It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life. To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people. If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids will have no effect as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings) Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction. Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way. but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.

@Lifetimelearningisbrave 26 күн бұрын

It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life. To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people. If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids will have no effect as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings) Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction. Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way. but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.

@kdschannel8113 Ай бұрын

Wow. This has really blessed me. Exactly what I needed

@focusonthefamilymarriage Ай бұрын

We are so glad to hear you enjoyed the episode! Let us know if we can help in the future. -Jenny M

@freddbanda Ай бұрын

Wonderful teaching.

@rudomwadiwa2183 Күн бұрын

This is great 🎉. lessons and laughter

@yinetteguzman2064 9 күн бұрын

I am newly married, and my husband and I watched this video! It was funny and edifying, I love the idea of our spouse is not the problem nor the solution, and the illustration with the mug and pouring. I know it is self explanatory in some ways, the concept that we need to depend of God as the source, but it would be super helpful to dive into that aspect of this message, what does it look like to get our fill from God instead? Practical advice on this would be helpful! Part 2? 😬😬🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏 thank you for blessing us

@focusonthefamilymarriage 9 күн бұрын

We're glad you enjoyed the video @yinetteguzman2064. It's important to get our fill from God, here's an article with some steps on how to do that- bit.ly/40gmRwW. We hope this is helpful! -Luna H.

@carolynndawula6294 Ай бұрын

I have no recollection laughing so hard while watching a video with great lessons on Marriage! Thank You!

@focusonthefamilymarriage Ай бұрын

@carolynndawula6294 We are so happy this blessed you and brought you a laugh! God bless you! - Treasure H.

@sherrybwildfire2550 Ай бұрын

Funny!!! Thank you. Truth and humor. 😂 Regarding people "sinking" you work there: you have anointing on your life. We can use it for Him, or not. Be expectant for what He can do through you.

@NetteParker 24 күн бұрын

This is a great message. I’m glad this video showed on my page.

@sherrihicks8466 11 күн бұрын

Thank you, Pastor i really needed this humor this morning ❤ God Bless You 🙌 🙏

@focusonthefamilymarriage 11 күн бұрын

We're glad you found the video helpful @sherrihicks8466. God bless you as well! -Luna H.

@Leticia-ti7vg Ай бұрын

“Child number two”!!! It’s sooo true😂😂😂

@Anna-Tull Ай бұрын

Oh dear.. 😂😂

@JMCCOWAN Ай бұрын

Mine was backwards. First born as the second and second as the first!

@angis4965 Ай бұрын

When you live with a narcissist, this doesn't work. I had to create boundaries to keep myself sane.

@gaylahoyt Ай бұрын

Ditto

@amberdetwiler9786 Ай бұрын

That is true

@getraf Ай бұрын

Is there any chance the narcissist isn’t the only selfish one in the marriage? 🤔

@sofiabravo1994 Ай бұрын

We are all narcissistic by nature obviously some more than others but I just think this word is thrown around way too much.

@jacobfehr102 Ай бұрын

Amen@@sofiabravo1994

@paulettestearns6770 Ай бұрын

This is awesome!!!!👏🏻

@veronalipka3597 Ай бұрын

That on which we feed, we become. PVEL.

@chrisb3017 Ай бұрын

Needed this week

@ShellyGraham-wk9vy Ай бұрын

Just what I needed to hear.

@tiffanybittman7523 Ай бұрын

He is so right

@arthurblennerhassett429 Ай бұрын

Yea! Woods, knife, canteen. That's me.

@springlove231 Ай бұрын

My child nmbe 1 was a total strong willed mess. Child number 2 was exactly the opposite.

@cristinarodriguez2441 Ай бұрын

Very useful message . Thank You! 🙏

@focusonthefamilymarriage Ай бұрын

We're glad you found the broadcast useful @cristinarodriguez2441! God bless you! -Luna H.

@jackandjill9065 Ай бұрын

Love this!

@marie4585 Ай бұрын

great sermon and true!

@francisomohjones2899 Ай бұрын

We blame everyone and everything around us but we don't blame ourselves for our actions

@AmberFuller-McDade Ай бұрын

Do you talk to a couples that are not local who are struggling in their marriage?

@manaiafarrelly Ай бұрын

I love this sooo much ❤

@mvranch9753 Ай бұрын

I needed this one!😂

@focusonthefamilymarriage Ай бұрын

@mvranch9753 We are so glad it has blessed you!! - Treasure H.

@vanessamurch1707 Ай бұрын

Brilliant 😂

@syrwatdkhar6494 22 күн бұрын

Amen

@unicemarquez9850 Ай бұрын

Thank you for 😂😅

@traciebecker6669 Ай бұрын

Great teaching. If the couple can listen and apply. I shared this on my Facebook. Thank you. I am 67 and widowed.

@april7797 Ай бұрын

God gave us Twins 😆 to set us straight

@focusonthefamilymarriage Ай бұрын

@april7797 that is too funny. So blessed! - Treasure H.

@wetpainticecream Ай бұрын

in France we dont have regular light bulbs anywhere in any store...

@ariadnehendricks9529 Ай бұрын

❤🔥

@Erick-di9gm 23 күн бұрын

Single life rules, freedom!

@kaijukebox 16 күн бұрын

The joy of singleness does not last, but enjoy this phase, some mature past it, some die in it lonely.

@hazeleyez9144 18 күн бұрын

Love it ....but don't support Disney, go on a real vacation together that will honor God while you are doing it.

@upperaustriaenglish3494 3 күн бұрын

Relax. Please.

@quietboy4575 Ай бұрын

💚

@tbh5207 6 күн бұрын

How does this all.work when the spouse is a habitual liar and gaslighter? 30 yrs laster after being busy raising babies, working like crazy to go from poverty to lower-middle class and I'm realizing the person I gave all my prime years to, grandfather of 4 cannot stop lying and and gaslighting! Almost in his 60s!?!?!

@focusonthefamilymarriage 5 күн бұрын

@tbh52-7, we're sorry you're going through a difficult time. Unfortunately, we’re not able to provide counseling by email, text messaging, or through social media channels. We’ve found that writing or texting isn’t an effective way of offering advice when complex or serious life issues are involved. As an alternative, we encourage you to speak about your situation with one of our counselors (at no cost to you). Just contact us at 1-855-771-HELP (4357) weekdays from 6:00 A.M. to 8:00 P.M. (MT). The Family Help Center staff member who answers the phone will arrange for a counselor to call you back. One of them will be in touch just as soon as they’re able. You may also request a callback by visiting our Counseling Consultation & Referrals page - bit.ly/3olAU3N. We hope this is helpful. -Luna H

@DeborahJoshua24 Ай бұрын

Not Joel O’steen!!

@AusyG Ай бұрын

IKR that's definitely not a good source for biblically sound uplifting 😂

@JML542 Ай бұрын

Agreed! Ugh. But much of the rest is brilliant, lol

@fashionscentts Ай бұрын

😂 He was telling a joke

@cbotha378 Ай бұрын

How very sad that this is the only thing been commented on from this wonderful teaching.... Sjo guys, where are our hearts? God will be the judge, he is love and just. Let our focus be on Him.

@southernbassngyrl Ай бұрын

Pastor Voddie Bauchman or RickWarren.... never Olsen or whatever his name is.

@JML542 Ай бұрын

I'd agree with Voddie, but not Rick or Olsteen.

@robynlujan2250 Ай бұрын

He said it as a joke, because Osteen is a prosperity teacher, who teaches nothing but feel goods. He's saying those who watch the news need a pick me up (which is guaranteed by listening to Osteen)...he seemed to be taking a jab at Osteen.

@cbotha378 Ай бұрын

Same here. How very sad that this is the only thing been commented on from this wonderful teaching.... Sjo people, where are our hearts? God will be the judge, he is love and just. Let our focus be just on Him.

@aleah4610 Ай бұрын

💯👏👏👏✝️

@jocelyngoerzen2790 Ай бұрын

This sounds good ... except human relationships just don't work quite like this. Basics of respect and consideration are required for trust and vulnerability to follow. Fundamental needs have to be met.

@johnnyb3245 28 күн бұрын

The correct answer is Jesus plus nothing

@marie4585 Ай бұрын

Stop showing me Democratic ads! It will not change my mind anyway! And it makes me mad to see them. Makes me like them less! I hope KZbin sees this since it won't let me protest any other way.

@AfiDeSouza-qf6nf Ай бұрын

Some of the couples cant. Because what ever you try doing One of them, Is a sick person.